Why Indian Men are so lonely?

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  • čas přidán 12. 02. 2024
  • Loneliness is a silent disease, which is even more injurious than smoking. It is spreading across India and men are specially suffering from loneliness. Why is loneliness so scary and why is it rising among Indian men? In this video I explain the stages of loneliness and some solutions that may help you to solve it.
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  • @openletteryt
    @openletteryt  Před 4 měsíci +325

    Kaisa laga video? ❤

    • @yashowardhantri
      @yashowardhantri Před 4 měsíci +8

      This video is such a good explanation my situation

    • @homonid
      @homonid Před 4 měsíci +4

      भाई ये क्या बात हुई? अकेलेपन की समस्या है तो लोगों से घुल-मिल जाओ और घूमने-फिरने लग जाओ? हमें क्या पहले से नहीं पता ये सब? ये कोई निराकरण नहीं है, ये सब नहीं करना या नहीं कर पाते इसीलिए तो अकेलापन आया है। आपको ये बताना चाहिए था कि इस अकेलेपन के होते हुए भी अपने जीवन को सहजता के साथ कैसे जीएँ। या फिर ये बताना चाहिए था कि लोगों के ना होते हुए भी अकेलेपन से कैसे छुटकारा पाएँ।

    • @tuhin2839
      @tuhin2839 Před 4 měsíci

      Make a video about Modi Ji's UAE visit ❤

    • @PRITZ060191
      @PRITZ060191 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Amazing video thank you so much!!! So much love for you bro. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @PRITZ060191
      @PRITZ060191 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@avilsinghyou are very young brother. Give yourself few more years time don’t try to get anyone right now. Discover yourself first. Then try to find a partner when you are 21-22…

  • @varshvishwakarma
    @varshvishwakarma Před 4 měsíci +895

    People needs to understand that Loneliness and being Aloneness is a very different thing. One is harmful but other is the way of life.

    • @AshuToast
      @AshuToast Před 4 měsíci +19

      I was going to comment the same ❤❤

    • @darkvader125
      @darkvader125 Před 4 měsíci +29

      man i love bieng alone

    • @MessmerX
      @MessmerX Před 4 měsíci

      @@darkvader125 same

    • @SunLake-pr1di
      @SunLake-pr1di Před 4 měsíci +14

      This has been said by Osho

    • @UP-BEATMUSIC
      @UP-BEATMUSIC Před 4 měsíci +9

      True, it's like a bike if you know how to ride it you will become expert of it

  • @_KRONET_108
    @_KRONET_108 Před 4 měsíci +422

    Loneliness?
    I'm single, have no friends,
    But I'm committed to build my career as an army officer or want to serve my millions of Indian brothers and sisters what they deserve,so I just don't feel anything. I exercise daily, my diet is good, I live healthy life, And top of that I have my parents 😊

    • @AshuToast
      @AshuToast Před 4 měsíci +11

      🙌 Respect

    • @Men_of_cultures
      @Men_of_cultures Před 4 měsíci +6

      Same
      My agniveer vayu intake exam is coming nearer

    • @subhrajitsarkar3222
      @subhrajitsarkar3222 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Big respect from Bengal ❤❤

    • @ssjblckgohn1569
      @ssjblckgohn1569 Před 4 měsíci +4

      You r leading a healthy life bro.
      I wish you success 😀

    • @tuhin2839
      @tuhin2839 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Jai Hind Sahab 🇮🇳 (in advance)

  • @prodiptochatterjee3458
    @prodiptochatterjee3458 Před 4 měsíci +105

    I am alone but not lonely. I have learnt how to live alone. Trust me it is a bit difficult but very much possible. Try to keep yourself busy in different ways. You can do it.

    • @Shivadityaar
      @Shivadityaar Před 4 měsíci +5

      Sounds lonely to me

    • @santos8146
      @santos8146 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@Shivadityaar😂😂😂

    • @santos8146
      @santos8146 Před 4 měsíci +5

      No, that won’t work. Just accept the fact that you’re lonely and there’s nothing you can do about it. There lies your power to do what you believe to be done without seeking social validation

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Defect for you, but if you find good partner, don’t be rigid.

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 Před 4 měsíci

      @@santos8146you do know that everybody is not looking for social validation lol

  • @reggin9950
    @reggin9950 Před 4 měsíci +263

    So i stay in Bangalore by myself in a flat and I am not very close with parents, like i am having a good relationship with them but not that I like to share everything with them because as you mentioned I don't feel close to them. So from past 1 year loneliness was hitting me really hard and to cope with it I went back to my home as I had the liberty to take work from home. I know a lot of people don't have this privilege but i really feel bad for them.
    So last month I was just lying in my room and thinking just by staying at I am not going to fix my loneliness and this I took the step to come back to Bangalore and this with a better motivation... I joined gym and started working out regularly where I became quite friendly with my trainer, I joined a violin class which I wanted to learn and also started going to socializing events where people like me who are newer to the city came around.
    So in conclusion it's just basically trying my self to push out of the comfort zone and I would definitely say I am feeling much better ❤. Good know that I am not the only person going through this

    • @vasachisenjubean5944
      @vasachisenjubean5944 Před 4 měsíci +2

      ❤️

    • @vasachisenjubean5944
      @vasachisenjubean5944 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Btw Ram or Allah ?

    • @rotbolt
      @rotbolt Před 4 měsíci +2

      What kind of social events you go in? I am also trying to socialize more and come out of this.

    • @reggin9950
      @reggin9950 Před 4 měsíci +6

      @@rotbolt yah like you know you can go to some standup comedy show or I am into web3 technology so I prefer going to such events where i find more like minded people

    • @sonalim9589
      @sonalim9589 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Same same. Yahi kaafi hai ki .. main akeli nahi jhel rahi ye issues. Sabko hain ..

  • @n.7235
    @n.7235 Před 4 měsíci +63

    I have also lonliness problem,
    There is no one person with whom I talk because I lost my mother and my father is busy in his works and his health is also not so good.
    I live my life with this inspiration that a day in future this problem solved.
    I request to everyone who watch this video please talk with everyone because if you talk his stress depression reduces.
    Be happy ☺️

    • @LalitKumar-fl5lo
      @LalitKumar-fl5lo Před 4 měsíci +7

      May be your father is also feeling loneliness after your mother's death and trying to deal with it by keeping busy, talk to him and try taking care of him, he needs you.

    • @rabbi619
      @rabbi619 Před 4 měsíci +3

      please get married dont be alone

    • @dittocto
      @dittocto Před 4 měsíci

      You can erase your loneliness by reading things on Web.

    • @n.7235
      @n.7235 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@rabbi619 I am a student bro.

    • @rabbi619
      @rabbi619 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@n.7235 So what dosent matter just get married.

  • @maheshkyadav868
    @maheshkyadav868 Před 4 měsíci +139

    मुझे लगता है ये जिंदगी का एक हिस्सा है

    • @tulipbubbly3748
      @tulipbubbly3748 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Nope. Nahi hai.
      It's not normal to feel so lonely.

  • @kshitijkumarsingh3304
    @kshitijkumarsingh3304 Před 4 měsíci +243

    The only way to eliminate loneliness is to have a bigger purpose in life and to keep working towards it throughout the day.

    • @crazydrifter13
      @crazydrifter13 Před 4 měsíci +30

      I think you're wrong. Mr Ratan tata who had a great purpose in life, lived a very successful life, still feels lonely now. Infact sir said that he regrets working so hard for his career and not giving enough time in other areas

    • @kshitijkumarsingh3304
      @kshitijkumarsingh3304 Před 4 měsíci +14

      @@crazydrifter13 bro, most of the physically, mentally and financially drained people I have ever seen in my life are all married.
      Most of the lonely people I have come across are all married or are in a sort of companionship

    • @crazydrifter13
      @crazydrifter13 Před 4 měsíci +6

      @@kshitijkumarsingh3304 I've also observed the same. Marriage can make you lonely and cut you off from your connections while other marriages can also do the opposite.

    • @anurag.21_
      @anurag.21_ Před 4 měsíci +4

      Acharya Prashant said the same thing as well

    • @surojeetchatterji9966
      @surojeetchatterji9966 Před 4 měsíci +3

      ​@@kshitijkumarsingh3304 u can't generalise, it depends on person to person, I have seen my both married & unmarried friends drained & with white beard appearing. 🤷🏽‍♂️ 😂

  • @savenature9165
    @savenature9165 Před 4 měsíci +195

    Make Krishna your friend, you will never feel lonely

    • @kisnasharma1612
      @kisnasharma1612 Před 4 měsíci

      Same

    • @BoysinBlue-zn5db
      @BoysinBlue-zn5db Před 4 měsíci +5

      God is punishing me for crimes i never did. Why me?

    • @user-ow3yp4pu1b
      @user-ow3yp4pu1b Před 4 měsíci +8

      ​@@BoysinBlue-zn5db its your past karma

    • @bhagyajitdas1498
      @bhagyajitdas1498 Před 4 měsíci +3

      ​@@user-ow3yp4pu1b Kuch bhi

    • @fbi355
      @fbi355 Před 4 měsíci +4

      ​@SouvenTudu Past karma bole toh previous life ? If that's the case it's one of the stupidest reason/cope

  • @shubrajitadak9835
    @shubrajitadak9835 Před 4 měsíci +13

    Being lonely is too addictive.

  • @afksolitude
    @afksolitude Před 4 měsíci +146

    This is the content we need man! Thank you very much. Personally I used to suffer from loneliness after my heartbreak, and distanced myself but after a bit I did exactly what you suggested today, I connected with more people and made active plans! It really helped me and now I am doing so much better everywhere :D

    • @FaizanShaikh-pp1kg
      @FaizanShaikh-pp1kg Před 4 měsíci +1

      Check out Soch by Mohak Mangal.

    • @surojeetchatterji9966
      @surojeetchatterji9966 Před 4 měsíci +2

      That's the best way to fix heart break, also find a job, do whatever u get in hand, even if it's low paying & minial work.

    • @ronitlenka9205
      @ronitlenka9205 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@FaizanShaikh-pp1kg
      No..

    • @aniedits_
      @aniedits_ Před 4 měsíci

      Same story my girl sorry a person leave me alone and I feel so lonely everyday that I am always crying while studying after that i have separated myself from people's just because I don't feel that pain another time and still I am in that loop😅😂🤣🥹

    • @afksolitude
      @afksolitude Před 4 měsíci

      @@aniedits_ don't worry brother you'll get through it

  • @swathi6728
    @swathi6728 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Loneliness is not only the worst feeling for men and boys, but it is as worst feeling for women and girls as well bhaiya ji.

    • @BeautyIsObjective
      @BeautyIsObjective Před 4 měsíci +11

      Women can't be lonely

    • @Factboy0003
      @Factboy0003 Před 4 měsíci +10

      Baat ladko ki ho rhi hai toh tumhara number agli video me ayega

    • @surojeetchatterji9966
      @surojeetchatterji9966 Před 4 měsíci +2

      ​@@BeautyIsObjective Technically educated women can remain lonely better than men. My fathers friends daughter remained lonely being a professor of a college.

    • @Stt1351
      @Stt1351 Před 4 měsíci +9

      females k pas to hr jgah options available hote h.. attention/validation jrurat se jyda milta rehta.
      ..fir b lonely😂

    • @BeautyIsObjective
      @BeautyIsObjective Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@surojeetchatterji9966 you didn't get my statement

  • @OmShivam-nn3yo
    @OmShivam-nn3yo Před 4 měsíci +27

    As an Introvert I prefer to be alone.
    It does not mean that the concept of loneliness not applied on me. But I think that introvert people are very less prone to loneliness and less likely to fall in depression and symptoms related to loneliness.
    It is because we tend to enjoy our own company more that socializing. We recharge from being alone and are not dependent on people for gratification, knowledge, happiness, etc. but we do care about very small no. of people in our Introverted circle.

    • @JonesKJVl-kp2qd
      @JonesKJVl-kp2qd Před 4 měsíci +1

      💯💪💯

    • @Ananya1603
      @Ananya1603 Před 4 měsíci

      But i disagree with you because I am an introvert who never communicate or mingle with people ,had a attachment with my best friend but sudden due to misunderstanding she stopped talking with me, then I too stopped taking, thought I had few couple of friends around me I was feeling lonely

    • @Hornycavil
      @Hornycavil Před 3 měsíci

      Same bro 😂

  • @TheCricketRadio
    @TheCricketRadio Před 4 měsíci +6

    Baat toh yeh hai ki insaan abb itna materialistic ho chuka hai ki woh friendship, emotions , kindness, gentleness sab kucch bhulta ja raha hai

    • @Ritesh-pv4yi
      @Ritesh-pv4yi Před 3 měsíci +1

      A ignorant person would certainly say this .
      Go and learn history then you will know how your ancestors were materialistic.

  • @bharathk.g
    @bharathk.g Před 4 měsíci +108

    "Don't get Excited when ur in a Circle (or) Don't feel depressed when U are Alone"..Be Normal And feel Good Or Bad Equally..

  • @muralikrishnans8271
    @muralikrishnans8271 Před 4 měsíci +50

    When majority people posting all romantic things , you came up with a topic where men are facing!
    Thankful to you 🙏

  • @myrmidon8008
    @myrmidon8008 Před 4 měsíci +18

    Nice thumbnail. Took away my loneliness for a moment.

  • @Vaibhav.bhalla
    @Vaibhav.bhalla Před 4 měsíci +183

    Loneliness is not everytime a bad thing. You sometimes need time alone time to build yourself. 🎉

    • @subhrajitsarkar3222
      @subhrajitsarkar3222 Před 4 měsíci +40

      That's called solitude. It basically means staying/ being lonely by choice. But in case of loneliness, its mostly not by choice.

    • @ssjblckgohn1569
      @ssjblckgohn1569 Před 4 měsíci +22

      That's called being ALONE.
      They have different meanings

    • @MrMoon-te5xw
      @MrMoon-te5xw Před 4 měsíci +8

      @@ssjblckgohn1569 that's the problem. we are expecting people to cure their loneliness when they don't even know what it is

    • @TusharJade101
      @TusharJade101 Před 4 měsíci +2

      exactly I love to be alone that increases my productivity and overall if you see loneliness is good

    • @RakshitaJangid
      @RakshitaJangid Před 4 měsíci +4

      its only good till ur progressing in life building a career but what about when u have acheived everything like bill gates but still then ur wife divorces u and u have no one to share ur day, ur problems and happiness with........ ur just simply waiting to die all alone without the actual feeling of happiness a healthy family gives u......its evolution afterall we are build to be social (atleast most are) being alone only seems cool until u actually are alone and then when u have lost all connections u try to find people online to talk to u which isnt that fulfilling

  • @edwarddcosta8
    @edwarddcosta8 Před 4 měsíci +64

    Consuming such videos is making me feel lonely. Sometimes I wonder if those thoughts are actually mine, I might have picked it from somewhere.
    I'm 24 year old, 5 4' tall men suffering from male pattern baldness since I was 20. I don't have/ make much friends. All was good untill I being watched American pie movie series. After watching these movies I felt like I have missed a lot in life and left a need for having a partner. I haven't tried to approach anyone untill now as I feel I'm not quite there/ dont have anything special currently. Working on myself to be a better person. But then when you consume such content the thoughts come back 😢.

    • @sidharthroy8628
      @sidharthroy8628 Před 4 měsíci +5

      bro I think iam you iam 5'4 23 and sometime suffers from hair loss and yes I also compare myself with those character you're talking about still single but hitting consistently for 2 and half years really hard and now goes for run everyday has shoot my confidence I also visits temple every Monday being devotee to Shiva try this after sometime God will give you direction and take away your anxiety

    • @tulipbubbly3748
      @tulipbubbly3748 Před 4 měsíci +6

      The best and only way to stop loneliness and be happy is to be detached from the world. Until one seeks satisfaction and happiness from outside be it in the form of career or family or friends or entertainment(time pass), they will never experience true happiness, fullfillment and satisfaction.
      This was taught by many Great saints like Gautama Buddha, Osho, etc. Even Shri Krishna taught this in Geeta.
      To apply detachment in our life, we need to do one thing and that is meditate everyday.
      Meditation will be very hard in the starting as it would be almost impossible to focus on one thing, but with time, it becomes easy.

    • @exsecular464
      @exsecular464 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Ye to same meri story he.. 5'7'Age -25 half bald from front..
      Facing mpb / aga / baldness & thinning since teenage
      No friends (real friends as I'm introvert)
      Jobless / unemployed (sales person ki job kari pr bt due to lack of Confidence I was fired)
      Hesitation in talking with girls & even with boys sometimes due to No career & baldness

    • @exsecular464
      @exsecular464 Před 4 měsíci

      I stay away from social media & even whatsApp etc. .. Vaha pe bhi mera hesitation & timidness mujhe bandhe rakhta he 😢

    • @series1054
      @series1054 Před 4 měsíci +3

      PIck up a hobby or an interest and consume less content. I lessened my use of instagram, deleted facebook, watch educational and scientific content on youtube and do my job. As a hobby I picked up astronomy and sketching, this keeps my mind engaged and I dont really feel lonely. Now im 24, but I was in the same situation as you when I was in college.

  • @Rohan-xc3kl
    @Rohan-xc3kl Před 4 měsíci +13

    Bhai kitna zyada relatable bana diya ye video mere liye 🤧🤧

  • @nidhishukla531
    @nidhishukla531 Před 4 měsíci +16

    Thankyou so much making this video. People dont talk about such topics. Your videos will highlight these issues more

    • @dipankar7394
      @dipankar7394 Před 4 měsíci

      U fill lonely? Can you be my friends?

  • @shivamkurhekar
    @shivamkurhekar Před 4 měsíci +31

    The most relatable video i have seen ever
    Thanks brother for the solutions 😅😅

  • @saptorshibiswas2802
    @saptorshibiswas2802 Před 4 měsíci +26

    I am like Mr. Bean.
    I enjoy my own company. Its a rare blessing. Those who have this are the luckiest.

  • @DesperadoBlink
    @DesperadoBlink Před 4 měsíci +8

    I am content with living alone. I attempt to become friends with my neighbors. I shared my secrets with them, but they recorded my conversation and made it public on the internet. It was the last time I trusted anyone and will never trust this generation again.

  • @Karnikhil91
    @Karnikhil91 Před 4 měsíci +18

    😭 A painful and emotional video.

  • @user-gv1yg8ym7m
    @user-gv1yg8ym7m Před 4 měsíci +12

    Wise people know that we are born alone, live alone and finally going to die alone.
    Wisdom is knowing how to regulate ourselves and live with others with moderation of emotions.

  • @thebeatboxguy
    @thebeatboxguy Před 4 měsíci +20

    Being alone is a skill.. learn it you'll feel better

    • @BeautyIsObjective
      @BeautyIsObjective Před 4 měsíci +5

      Being Lonely - Gateway to depression
      😂😂😂

    • @praveen_2853
      @praveen_2853 Před 4 měsíci +1

      You are confusing being lonely with being alone

    • @thebeatboxguy
      @thebeatboxguy Před 4 měsíci

      @@praveen_2853 ohh I edited 😂😂

    • @surojeetchatterji9966
      @surojeetchatterji9966 Před 4 měsíci

      ​​@@BeautyIsObjective my cousin brother remained alone from 90s era leaving Sales Tax govt job started doing English literature tuitions & reading books & listening to music & playing chess with me. That time there was no SM as such. End of the day it depends person to person.

    • @hadesofthehell4913
      @hadesofthehell4913 Před 4 měsíci

      Exactly, I've mastered this ability to such an extent that I don't even have the fear of losing my already close friends. It's like, I've prepared myself to lose em some day by accepting the fact that "no one cares" or by just questioning myself that, "is my absence gonna make any difference in their life at all". Indeed this is a skill that helped me as I've compensated my loneliness with scrolling reels or going to work or college. Even though they might seem silly but still good enough to keep me going.

  • @jaiminmaurya1121
    @jaiminmaurya1121 Před 4 měsíci +34

    8:10 I never cancel any plans, Suppose at first 5 person were there in outing plan and for some reason if 2 other people cancel then whole plan gets cancelled.
    what happened with me is 2 person went and not informed me even When I was available and Was willing to go. They don't want to go with me. They will include me only if whole group is going.

    • @anushap4626
      @anushap4626 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Don't worry you will find better friends 😊

    • @rahuld943
      @rahuld943 Před 4 měsíci +2

      There are lot of travel groups , join them. You will get to meet many solo travellers

    • @riscnx
      @riscnx Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@anushap4626 Once you are out of college... you can not make good friends anymore. After that all friendships are very formal & not so strong.

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 Před 4 měsíci

      My Tommie posts pictures with all her usa returned friends and then we have tonnes of selfies, but will never post that.

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 Před 4 měsíci

      @@rahuld943can you recommend a good travel group

  • @sankarkumardas9567
    @sankarkumardas9567 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I have social anxiety, often depression and l'm a loner. I've sick of fake people. There's nothing i feel good about, about 17+ but feel like a burden and worthless of how parents are investing for me. I think there's no such thing like solution for me. Literally I've forgotten to communicate and have low esteem, confidence and i never express my feelings.. I don't know, i think it started from a heart break from a friend but i tried but can't overcome it

    • @rohitsharma66
      @rohitsharma66 Před 4 měsíci +2

      17+ ?? I'm 28 and still living alone by myself but I'm facing health issues nowadays. Maybe loneliness is affecting me now. I never had any friends or close friends in school, colleges and when my age was 17, I ditched this agonist socity.
      One advice for you- don't make the same mistake I did, you'll regret it later. I wish I could alter my past 11 years.

    • @sankarkumardas9567
      @sankarkumardas9567 Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@rohitsharma66 genz are so bad.. I don't know how can I explain to you. If you're kind and have a heart made up of gold, they'll disrespect you to look cool. They badmouth you and use you to take advantage and later ditch you. In this world what is even greater than dignity and respect. You're telling your health is deteriorating, maybe meditation and starting a virtual life might make ur mind lighter. At the end of the day, it's still depression and loneliness. Don't worry everything will be okay.

    • @rohitsharma66
      @rohitsharma66 Před 4 měsíci

      @@sankarkumardas9567 no doubt gen z is one of the worst generation. They don't care about the parents and elders, i daily see them during the commute to my office, home back and forth. The way this current generation behave in front of their teachers, I wish I could give tight slaps! One of my cousins is a teacher by profession and we always have the conversations about the current generation whenever she calls me. Disrespect is an another thing but humiliating your mentors in an inappropriate way is not tolerable.
      Meditation and daily exercising can sooth my anxiety. I'm still not sure though whether it is a depression or the emptiness of single soul! I never felt the same until last year, maybe it is just a emotion which i am missing right now. Most people of my age around me, even younger than me , are getting married. I've already decided that I'll live alone for the rest of my life......................

    • @rohitsharma66
      @rohitsharma66 Před 4 měsíci

      @@sankarkumardas9567 no doubt gen z is one of the worst generation. They don't care about the parents and elders, i daily see them during the commute to my office, home back and forth. The way this current generation behave in front of their teachers, I wish I could give tight slaps! One of my cousins is a teacher by profession and we always have the conversations about the current generation whenever she calls me. Disrespect is an another thing but humiliating your mentors in an inappropriate way is not tolerable.
      Meditation and daily exercising can sooth my anxiety. I'm still not sure though whether it is really a depression or the emptiness of single soul! I never felt the same until last year, maybe it is just a emotion which i am missing right now. Most people of my age around me, even younger than me , are getting married. I've already decided that I'll live alone for the rest of my life......................

    • @rohitsharma66
      @rohitsharma66 Před 4 měsíci

      @@sankarkumardas9567 no doubt gen z is one of the worst generation. They don't care about the parents and elders, i daily see them during the commute to my office, home back and forth. The way this current generation behave in front of their teachers, I wish I could give tight slaps! One of my cousins is a teacher by profession and we always have the conversations about the current generation whenever she calls me. Disrespect is an another thing but humiliating your mentors in an inappropriate way is not tolerable.
      Meditation and daily exercising can sooth my anxiety. I'm still not sure, is it really a depression or the emptiness of single soul! I never felt the same until last year, maybe it is just a emotion which i am missing right now. Most people of my age around me, even younger than me , are getting married. I've already decided that I'll live alone for the rest of my life......................

  • @Tushar_995
    @Tushar_995 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Even my father was talking to me about the same issue ! he told me that he can make anyone his close friend under few days but that's not the case with this generation. We think we are too cool or we are above his standard for someone who wants to approach for friendship !
    Believe or not but this whole problem is due to social media ! We are making friends just to get their help to make our career and not for pure friendship

  • @vighnarajnarvekar8909
    @vighnarajnarvekar8909 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Much needed video brother...🙌🙌

  • @kingsmiley6912
    @kingsmiley6912 Před 4 měsíci +8

    really brother i can also relate to this and thank you very much for bringing this topic up, Keep doing this work i will always support you !.

  • @Volv0x.
    @Volv0x. Před 4 měsíci +16

    Mai to football khelta hu jab lonely feel krta hu, ya koi naya activites. It really helps, those who are dealing with loneliness try to play outdoor games you will make connections with like minded people. Pehle mai v feel krta tha bohut zyada ab sahi hai pehle se

  • @dhonddevameya2362
    @dhonddevameya2362 Před 4 měsíci +8

    I think that when you love the profession or study(for students), you don't feel loneliness. When I was doing my 12th standard, I used to love the syllabus and used to spend most of the time in study related activities and hardly interact with people. But when I got into degree program, I lost interest in it and started feeling lonely even though I used to interact with a greater number of people than in the previous case. When comparison in between other's and our's performance becomes significant in our mind, we feel lonely. No matter how many people you interact with.

  • @nishadpatle3611
    @nishadpatle3611 Před 4 měsíci +12

    Bhai kya issue address kiya h thank you bhai hum shyd khud ko bhi kabhi kabhi convince nhi kara pate but shyd we are lonely atleast I am and I know many more people like me around me are lonely and in the age of social media we have stopped meeting people somewhere and probably that's catalysing this problem and also online learning distant learning all these things have contributed to lonliness

    • @slayer81
      @slayer81 Před 4 měsíci

      Its not about social media ye problem bhut pahle se h

  • @Prik56789
    @Prik56789 Před 4 měsíci +9

    14 th February ek deshbhakt k liye Black Day (Pulwama attack)and for this year maine black day and saraswati puja manuanga kyu ki Valentine's day ek foreign culture hai. I love Indian culture 🇮🇳🧡🧡💚💚 .

  • @PratikThisSide
    @PratikThisSide Před 4 měsíci +7

    Woah! You researched & pointed it very well bhai. Just amazing 👏🏼
    KeepItUp ✌🏼

  • @MsNitin999
    @MsNitin999 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Radhe Radhe bolo…Sirf wo hi hai jo tumhari feeling samajh sakta hai

  • @supremeotaku6607
    @supremeotaku6607 Před 4 měsíci +3

    My best friend died 4 months ago on 14th October and he was the one who first time asked me *bhai are you okay* when my time was bad and I confessed everything to him at that time and he understood everything

    • @Chaos_98
      @Chaos_98 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I feel so sorry for your loss
      Be strong, many great things are ahead of you in life. I too lost my grandma with whom I used to share everything with, sometimes such incidents in life make us tough and matured.

  • @namelessmonster55
    @namelessmonster55 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Great vid last 5 min was awesome nice practical and logical solution 👍

  • @csanvi
    @csanvi Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thank you for speaking on a silent killer which very few are talking about. 👍

  • @revenantwolzart
    @revenantwolzart Před 4 měsíci +9

    You are lonely, I am alone, we are not the same

  • @PRITZ060191
    @PRITZ060191 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Amazing video thank you so much!!! So much love for you bro. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-fb2nh8nv8q
    @user-fb2nh8nv8q Před 4 měsíci +8

    Because it's intoxicating. More freedom to think , observe, more time for yourself . if you don't fit on your circle you should avoid being forcefully try to fit in it.

  • @roz1
    @roz1 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Hi @openletteryt thank you so much for all the suggestions.... I sometimes see my childhood and college friends in my dream and all the fun i had. The feeling of tiredness, headache and a bad mood comes from loneliness..... I want to feel alive again... Thanks for the healthy advice man

    • @rohitsharma66
      @rohitsharma66 Před 4 měsíci +1

      The same happens to me thrice a week. I think our mind is reminding us about the glorious days.😢

  • @rishiraj0945
    @rishiraj0945 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wow.. Amazing..I really liked the way you put efforts to explain the issues and best part to was to give the simplest solution... Really love your work.. Keep going..Best wishes!!

  • @Akg-jl6sr
    @Akg-jl6sr Před 4 měsíci

    Absolutely great and relatable video. Hats off to you bro!!

  • @Wannabeindian
    @Wannabeindian Před 4 měsíci +12

    14th February, what a good day to sleep🛌

  • @raunakmishra9645
    @raunakmishra9645 Před 4 měsíci +3

    This is the type of content we want 😊🎉 thank youu brother for covering these important topics Respect +++++

  • @ajax101
    @ajax101 Před 4 měsíci

    The way you speak and effort you put in research on a topic is outstanding bro…

  • @dhananjay_singh_lekhpal
    @dhananjay_singh_lekhpal Před 4 měsíci

    Best ever video who shows my actual situation. 😢

  • @padmanabham.suresham
    @padmanabham.suresham Před 4 měsíci +24

    Bahut achhe topic par video banaya hai aapne. Bhagwan aapko sukhi rakhe🙏

  • @000rc
    @000rc Před 4 měsíci +6

    today i knew that i am facing loneliness since 4 years , which is very dangerous

    • @sameeriftekhar4705
      @sameeriftekhar4705 Před 4 měsíci

      How🤔

    • @000rc
      @000rc Před 4 měsíci

      bhai mai 12th me hu, aur 9,10th class me lockdown lag gaya tha aur 11,12th class me dummy leli aur mera koi dost bhi nahi ,aur mai hamesha se lonely hi feel karta hu@@sameeriftekhar4705

    • @Kashmir_Daily_shorts
      @Kashmir_Daily_shorts Před 4 měsíci

      Are you single child

  • @satyamkamal5678
    @satyamkamal5678 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Bhai mai sach bol raha hu mujhe from start till end I feel this video is specially made for me.....❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vartikasharma4527
    @vartikasharma4527 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks bhaiya to highlight this issue.... Sometimes I used to have this feeling but never knew that this is loneliness and there are many more students like me..... Keep it up 🎉❤

  • @Prince-wn8et
    @Prince-wn8et Před 4 měsíci +5

    *Thanks bro it helped me a lot*

  • @homonid
    @homonid Před 4 měsíci +6

    भाई ये क्या बात हुई? अकेलेपन की समस्या है तो लोगों से घुल-मिल जाओ और घूमने-फिरने लग जाओ? हमें क्या पहले से नहीं पता ये सब? ये कोई निराकरण नहीं है, ये सब नहीं करना या नहीं कर पाते इसीलिए तो अकेलापन आया है। आपको ये बताना चाहिए था कि इस अकेलेपन के होते हुए भी अपने जीवन को सहजता के साथ कैसे जीएँ। या फिर ये बताना चाहिए था कि लोगों के ना होते हुए भी अकेलेपन से कैसे छुटकारा पाएँ।

    • @p.k.5332
      @p.k.5332 Před 4 měsíci +1

      इसक जवाब ताॅ Thanos चाचा को भी नही पता होगा।

  • @ssc_kingmakers
    @ssc_kingmakers Před 3 měsíci

    Literally video bahut relatable hai, and main in sari chijon se Gujar raha hun,
    Govt job hai but andar se khalipan bahut feel hota hai 😢
    Thank u so much four point out this problem in a better way ❤️🙏

  • @abhishekmehra5824
    @abhishekmehra5824 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Good this is type of content every u tuber should think of. Sometimes these kind of things help someone who is seeking for a way which can guide them.

  • @krishh5467
    @krishh5467 Před 4 měsíci +3

    "The more you know, the more cursed youre" -a wise man.

  • @sickick9980
    @sickick9980 Před 4 měsíci +3

    You talked about a good topic 👍

  • @hellmanksingh7967
    @hellmanksingh7967 Před 4 měsíci

    Good stuff. Also bhai log, per me and some Stoic log ke quotes, if you’re feeling scared of being alone, that is where your task actually lies, to first accept and embrace that one’s feelings of loneliness. It’s usually due to points that he mentioned( family, past experiences, general social conditioning) once we have reset and regulated ourselves. Then utna lonely nahi hota. Life is to be a balance and these are part of the human experience, which is temporary in a way.

  • @CompetitionCrush
    @CompetitionCrush Před měsícem

    Your word to word defining my present situation😢

  • @gauravverma213
    @gauravverma213 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Sir.. you can be a best motivational speaker 🔊.

  • @itsmeunique4359
    @itsmeunique4359 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Money is everything hai ❤

  • @effectscreatorjoy6048
    @effectscreatorjoy6048 Před 4 měsíci

    You are working on true needs.
    Thank you.

  • @Herosinghrajput5500
    @Herosinghrajput5500 Před 4 měsíci

    Keep doing good for yourself ,your family and for society ❤you are an inspiration❤

  • @shubhamchoubey3948
    @shubhamchoubey3948 Před 4 měsíci +6

    False cases against men are also problem..

  • @ghostok126
    @ghostok126 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Good information....🙂

  • @harshrj9764
    @harshrj9764 Před 4 měsíci

    Great video, can relate with a lot of stuff

  • @chetanmurgesh4753
    @chetanmurgesh4753 Před 4 měsíci

    Bro Good Morning, super video!!! You just nailed it!!!

  • @Thelastday.
    @Thelastday. Před 4 měsíci +4

    This is real topic❤❤❤
    For velentine day

  • @crazydrifter13
    @crazydrifter13 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Can you also analyse whether guys or girls feel lonelier before marriage. From what I've seen while growing up, a lot more girls around me had romantic partners than boys but boys were doing better at friendships quantitatively and perhaps qualitatively also. So I can't say for sure who felt lonelier.

  • @ronakverma1743
    @ronakverma1743 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Unfortunately 8m one of them .. literally you described each and everything very beautifully on perspective of of such human beings .. thanks for bringing this topic much needed .. will try to follow you hope it take me out from this ...

  • @opboys2417
    @opboys2417 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you for your advise 😌

  • @YOUTUBE_AMERICA
    @YOUTUBE_AMERICA Před 4 měsíci +11

    Sri Krishna with always
    You feel lonely I feel presence of Krishna

  • @LuckFavorsTheStrong
    @LuckFavorsTheStrong Před 4 měsíci +58

    Lol as an extreme introvert I see this as an absolute win 🏆 🤣. Mujhe akele rahna hi sabse pasand hai😂

    • @anshumansingh6645
      @anshumansingh6645 Před 4 měsíci +20

      Mai bhi tha lekin fir sex sux. Ki killat ho gayi 💀

    • @ssjblckgohn1569
      @ssjblckgohn1569 Před 4 měsíci +5

      ​@@anshumansingh6645bruh🤣🤣

    • @Redrum99962
      @Redrum99962 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@anshumansingh6645 Ye sux kaha milega mujhe bhi chahiye 😢😢😢😢😢

    • @anshumansingh6645
      @anshumansingh6645 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@Redrum99962 ab to college jake hi milega bhai. Neet krack krle(mai bhi koshish kr rha hu)

    • @Redrum99962
      @Redrum99962 Před 4 měsíci

      @@anshumansingh6645 mai upsc ka preparation kr raha hooo aur uske sath bank.etc ki

  • @Shee64
    @Shee64 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The beginning of the video keeps disturbing me but I am still watching 😢

  • @manumanmaneesh3390
    @manumanmaneesh3390 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great video bhai 🙌

  • @sarthakdutta4862
    @sarthakdutta4862 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Really, this is the magic of CZcams. Just some time ago, I was feeling sad and lonely, then after turning on Internet data and running CZcams, this video appeared in the thumbnail.

    • @nanditac9225
      @nanditac9225 Před 4 měsíci

      Not a good thing...we are facing this magic often that smartphones are smartly taking control of our mind.Even neither you didn't search anything related to your current feelings/thoughts nor discussed them with anyone but smartphones are getting those automatically & presenting them before you. Be very careful!

    • @JonesKJVl-kp2qd
      @JonesKJVl-kp2qd Před 3 měsíci

      @@nanditac9225 correct

  • @rohanvkumarv
    @rohanvkumarv Před 4 měsíci +5

    U got my heart bhaiya ❤ ...I had few of the things you mentioned in video(it's fine now)....aap ek chiz batana bhul Gaye... solutions mei...jo bahut log use bhi karte hai...krishn...like krishn aur radhe...unke sath hona..it is also a solution

  • @anirudh671
    @anirudh671 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Open letter is the influencer we need

  • @subodhmeshram8901
    @subodhmeshram8901 Před 4 měsíci

    bro literally changed my mind ;) thank you for the valuable info

  • @ANSHAMAN619
    @ANSHAMAN619 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much sir
    Mai introvert hu lekin ab mai isme sudhar karunga 🙏🙏❤

  • @subhrajitsarkar3222
    @subhrajitsarkar3222 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Yha kis kis ko khud se baat krne ki adat hai? 🙋

    • @swapnilgupta9380
      @swapnilgupta9380 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Main sabse zyada khud se baat karta hun aur mujhe usme bahut sukoon sa milta hai aur lagta hai ki Mera Mann bhar gaya 😌😌

  • @mohitmohitmohitmohit
    @mohitmohitmohitmohit Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for talking on this topic.

  • @The-Celestial
    @The-Celestial Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so muchh for this video 😭❤❤

  • @Snowman7s
    @Snowman7s Před 4 měsíci +3

    I shared this video with myself...

  • @abhishankpaul
    @abhishankpaul Před 4 měsíci +3

    Being alone ≠ feeling alone
    Let that sink in. Period.

    • @praveen_2853
      @praveen_2853 Před 4 měsíci

      Many people here don't know the difference

  • @dr.sushilmatang3341
    @dr.sushilmatang3341 Před 4 měsíci

    Great topic brother 👏 👍

  • @HadleblueXT
    @HadleblueXT Před 4 měsíci +1

    Your video make me happy thanks ❤

  • @veekshithd1547
    @veekshithd1547 Před 4 měsíci +3

    loneliness is killing me day by day 😔

  • @b.lgurjar5434
    @b.lgurjar5434 Před 4 měsíci +3

    लड़को के लिए👇👇
    अपनी महोब्बत पर इतना भी घमंड मत करना क्योंकि तुमसे बेहतर मिला और तुम ठुकरा दिये जाओगे 🙏🙏

  • @manishkapri9901
    @manishkapri9901 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Tysm sir awesome video 📸😀❤

  • @souhardyadebbarma
    @souhardyadebbarma Před 4 měsíci

    Hi your content really touched my heart each and every word from your videos are matching with my life when i was in childhood days i thought no one have such problems like me but after interecting with social media i realised many peoples are in the same boat then i feel relaxed because i feel like m not alone who have problems like this i can't believe each and every word of this content exactly match with my life before i was having problem to stay like this but also like to be alone but then i decided and get habituated to live alone and now i love to be alone.

  • @Aakash31665
    @Aakash31665 Před 4 měsíci +6

    As long as people do not benefit from each other, you will remain alone. When someone benefits from you, he will definitely come to you.

  • @tejshah8364
    @tejshah8364 Před 4 měsíci +31

    i relate to each and every point of this video
    for all the fellow lonely people ,just talk to your friends on phone calls and start going with them out for plans , this is the best thing i could do to get out of this vicious cycle of death

    • @dgs327
      @dgs327 Před 4 měsíci

      I don't feel comfortable with others...going out with them does not solve the issue

    • @tejshah8364
      @tejshah8364 Před 4 měsíci

      @@dgs327 you might with be comfortable with your older friends , try contacting them and if they are busy open up to them , they would definitely help you

  • @arpitpatel8835
    @arpitpatel8835 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great solutions bro👍🏻💯

  • @theawesomeman9821
    @theawesomeman9821 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Such a fitting topic for Valentines Day

  • @arsalankhan4344
    @arsalankhan4344 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Don't be lonely guys
    Be solitary 🙌🙌🙌