RUSSELL WILSON CONSTANTLY EMASCULATED BY THE SAME GROUP OF MEN WHO ARE VICTIMS OF EMASCULATION!
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- čas přidán 16. 04. 2022
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I give commentary on Tichina Arnold asking twitter an interesting question and Russell Wilson being labeled a square while being constantly emasculated.
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Saw a tweet just earlier today that said “Men think that women don’t like Russell Wilson because they think we’re attracted to the same men that they are attracted to” 🤧
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Exactly 🤣🤣
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Me too that tweet really exposed some folks 😂
I’ll never forget how Ciara was treated when Future cheated, and had side babies on her. Everyone said “choose better, you’re the fourth baby momma, your career ended” now they wanna bash her for picking better? Siri play “I Bet by Ciara” once she started loving herself, and raised her standards God blessed her with a man of her status. I’m so happy for Russell and Ciara. Great content Yanie 💕
Ps: Ciara was never the problem. She’s always been THAT GWROL. 💕
True, They laughed, mocked and relished in the fact that he cheated, I felt soooo bad for Ciara, she took her L and her Son and quietly moved on, was NEVER bitter, or posting subliminals on SM or at him, she healed, and Russell came along, yet still they bashing her. I pray she is taking care of her Mentals, because all this bashing and HATE she gets ain't right, it's so EVIL and Wicked.
That's because they really don't want bw to choose better. They don't care about that.
What they want is to be chosen themselves.
Think about it, they complain about when women go for pookie & ray ray, even though most of them are pookie & ray ray not just the thug types, and then they complain when when they are with a good man. Therefore, they really don't care who the women who they find attractive are with. They are just upset they aren't getting them.
You better Preach, Sis. I approve this message.
These toxic men constantly contradict themselves cause no matter what the blame has to be on the women no accountability on men for anything
The fact that other BM are glorifying a man who has multiple baby moms over a family man speaks volumes. Seems like jealously too me
They get upset at Russell because he is everything they are not. So it irritates their low vibrational inadequacies and insecurities.
There’s a pattern here, instead of trying to get like Russell, they’d rather clown him. They see bw getting degrees, they clown bw and tell us education is unattractive instead of applying to college. They told us to stop depending on them financially, we did and started leveling up financially, they clown us and say we’re too independent gold diggers instead of getting their bag together and meeting us where we are.
Exactly.
These men are real weirdos... Its disturbing to watch.
He’s a great example of a man to me!
Period!
Idk why whenever a man does what he’s supposed to do and he’s a decent human being, he’s considered a simp… whenever a man treats a woman correctly, he’s considered a simp… it’s such a joke
Only sick, toxic males consider a decent man a simp, because the toxic male doesn't want women to actually have standards and only go for the decent man. So the sick, toxic male tries to disparage the decent man in a sick attempt to stop the decent man from being decent. And to be clear: toxic males aren't men (they don't deserve to be called a 'man'), since a man is fair, so just like a man doesn't accept foolishness, disrespect, etc, so fairly, a man respects that a woman wants a respectful, decent man (not a toxic, fool like 'future'). A toxic male is a male with no manhood, since he isn't fair to women.
Only WOMEN can stop this, buy not putting up with it
Esther Bioh
Because they have to shame men out of being anything resembling good to, or forgiving of, flawed women. There is no room for normalizing treating women, especially black or mixed women, like full complex humans who can still be worthy of love, respect, and protection even with flaws.
OMG...right I was at the mall to pick up my parents anniversary gift with my brother. He held the door open for me as we were coming in and these random little hooligans yelled out simp to us.
I'm starting to think males who use thr term simp are down low. They are jealous of women because they want to be treated like us. It's weird. Give a flowers: simp. Take a woman on a date: simp. Text back: simp. Marry a woman: simp. Provide and take care of your family: simp. Be attracted to women: simp.
My hubby just said he is square and SO WHAT! Not every BM is a thug and not every BM wants a IR relationship. I was proud of him. 🥰
Tell him all good men think alike watching this with wife to
I love square MEN
You picked a good one.
Russell Wilson is everything that these dust bots wish to be. He’s a high value man, a provider and a great father. It’s honestly super weird how obsessed these men are with Russell 🥴
Yall sisters funny. Dude married a white woman first. Because sisters weren't checking for him. But now he got a bag, he high value LOL
@@MarcusTheJR he didn’t love that white woman. And Ciara is not a bag to him, she’s his WIFE. Y’all just hate to see BW in love and being happy
@@charice1216 I have a sister. I want her to be happy.
The truth is- Young Men regardless of race, ain't nor should ever be a CLEAN UP MAN for a woman bad decision making to lay down with a scumbag
@@MarcusTheJR Also based on the culture..the "squares" are not validated as being" real" and are looked at as lame. Meanwhile the squares in other communities are the ones who protect and provide for their women.
@@MarcusTheJR do you keep the same energy with men like Future who are creating all of these children by different women? How about you tell your sister to avoid being the clean up woman to men who are s*xually irresponsible?
These men are so jealous and hateful. They see her story as a redemption for a baby momma and they hate that for her.
Exactly, because that means their baby momma's could do the same and leave them in their own personal clouds of dust!
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Only because Ciara is black. If Ciara was white they wouldn't have have any problems at all
Period. That’s the main and only reason. No matter what excuse they say. And it’s nothing wrong with giving life. But they told us that for so long and how dare that image and lie they told become shattered and you’re treated right.
EXACTLY!! 💯 They are just JEALOUS and don't want their baby mama's to GLOW UP like Ciara and make them look horrible!! 🙄
I'd leave Future for a Roach. They're more consistent, then he could ever be.
Screaming 😩
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Especially with all I baby mamas and thug lifestyle.
AHAHAHA!
The saddest part is... they say pick better. But that's exactly what Ciara did and they're STILL mad. 🤣
Russell is setting the example of what a married man does for his family. He takes care of his wife and kid's. He's fulfilling his role as a husband. His family is his first priority! They can't stand too look at it, because it reminds them of what they should be doing for their family if they had one. They are grown ass men the fact that they know better but refuse to do the right thing.
Perfectly said!
You said a mouth full and I’m here for all of it
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Exactly
I’m realizing our men are the only men who don’t grow, evolve, or change
And these be the same men that blame us and say Choose Better 🤦🏽♀️ is this not better ?!?! With bm you can’t win 🙄
The goal post stay moving with these fools. If you're going to be foolish, at least be consistent with your foolishness. 😭😭😭
@Grace Awolesi they clearly don’t .. they know Ciara is not a city girl she’s actually a nice person and they feel she’s not deserving of a good man … it’s like their nature to have their foot on our necks .. I think they are also jealous of Russell
@@MaishPosh Exactly, all of that.
Men, especially bm, always manipulate and gaslight so who’s believing that they want us to “choose better”
Godforbid if you take precautions and try to tread carefully. They’ll call you “crazy,” “paranoid,” or say that you “have trust issues.@
Russell isn't emasculated by these men. He is taunted. They're unable to emasculate him. And I'd hope that he doesn't pay these dogs any mind.
Agreed!
@Apollo Mayaimi besides a virgin, which person hasn't had a previous sexual partner? And try to ease the misogyny with "that had his way" remark as if that woman was spoilt goods when their relationship ended.
@Apollo Mayaimi consider whether or not they had met during that period. Otherwise your comparison has no value
agreeee
@Apollo Mayaimi jealous downlow?
Russell had a father in his life and that's what really hurts these men
Stop the cap I had a father In my life but I see bs
We are in the days where good is called bad and bad is called good. Be square and blessed with peace....
Its happened at time of Isaiah
Isaiah 5:20
I was just about to say the same thing. It’s really the Twilight zone.
D. Loves
So true. This made me think of a monosphere video I saw a while ago about Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. Apparently going off while married to be independent and make millions on your own that didn’t come from the taxpayer, and to protect your threatened children from overexposure, is simping, but living in arrested development under your grandmother, and depending on your father for money, is alpha shit. 🙃 Because at least you were single and alone with no “broad” who gets to benefit by your side.🙄 These irrational ninjas just hate women and don’t like seeing them happy, so will say “up is down” with their full chest if admitting that “up is up” could even _possibly_ benefit a woman - especially an outspoken, intelligent, or, godforbid, flawed woman with any amount of blackness.
Exactly.
@@kathleenking47 nothing knew under the sun … it’s just prophecy🤷🏾♀️
These men sound ignorant. I rather get with a square who will accept me for me without the BABYMAMA DRAMA that they Kang Future have. She went a from downgraded no good and up graded in life. He respect her bigly and you never hear him tricking off with other females in the media. Plus, he takes care of Future son as well. So he’s still a square right
It's the double standards for me, cardi b stood on a magazine with her husband and two children, along with his three kids. I don't see men speaking out about her marrying a man with kids but men have a issue with Russell marrying Ciara. Sad part is that all these bum ass men stay on code with their message. Many of them don't have standards. Ciara made growth but these men constantly want to shackle her to future.
Exactly..but u know if that was a black woman she would of been getting dragged.
Because 1) Those males aren't men, 2) Those males are psychotically bitter about women being actually capable of moving on and levelling up away from the toxic male that the women left (those males aren't men since they're not fair and a man is fair. Those males don't want the male to stick with a woman he doesn't want, but they insanely want the woman to stick with a male she doesn't want anymore; that's unfair and psychotic, so they're not men; they're psychotic males with no dignity in them since they chose to be unfair to women).
These same dude will blame their deficiencies on not having a father figure , yet criticize and and advocate against black men like Russell stepping up to being a father figure for a little black boys that don’t have one
Because Cardi B brings the table. She is the bread winner of the relationship , she accepts his infidelity and takes care of his kids. A black man's dream, lol.
@@martini_7827 ehhhh the Migos were multimillionaires before a cardi b even existed. But it seems he relaxed and she might be the breadwinner now lol
Why is it cool to be toxic and not truly take care of your responsibilities? Future is embarrassing.
To be honest, a male that believes he can have multiple children from different women without actually fairly raise the children along with the mothers is a male that tries to say that he is an animal and not a person with intellect. If he was a person with intellect, then he should have understood that fatherhood includes actually him raising the children he made sure to bring into this world, along with the mothers of the children. Study after study showcased the impact decent fathers have on their children, so truly lacking in intellect males with no manhood would fail their duty to co-parent. (If all males had this mindset, then there logically would be less multiple children from different women by one male, since we only have24 hours in one day so, males would have to be actually mature like an actual man is, and not have multiple children from different women, no matter how many times the male cheated).
@@jamescoleman3103 -- Nonsense since there are plenty of other musicians who make actual good music and they are responsible towards their children. If a male doesn't have the mental capacity to be responsible to his own children while also having a career, then he shouldn't have children (or just one, maximum.).
@@jamescoleman3103 then he should stop having them
It's crazy because guys be out here with three and four kids and baby mom's thinking their supposed to get a decent woman. They have different fathers from their siblings but, judging Ciara not their mom🤔
I believe that these men are secretly jealous of Future Jr.. He's getting what most of them didn't get, a strong father figure that steps up after an absentee one. Together the family is showing that its possible to break generational curses, and these men are afraid of doing the emotional/cognitive work that's required and are lashing out. Why are they only looking at Russell as a second choice stud and not a first rate father that they could have had and can be themselves?
And if they judge their moms, they'd better judge their deadbeat daddies too!
@@mc2383 Great response. Let’s talk abt this. Real men do what most are unable to. If men find themselves unable to stand apart from women, I’d say it’s a sign they are underachieving. 🤷🏽♀️
While black women are crying about the black man’s image, black men are saying very loud and clear that they want Pookie to represent them and not Russell Wilson. The more black women try to scrape up “good black men” to represent the collective the more they resist. BLACK WOMEN STOP IT!
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i actually think … this is very true now🥴
@Apollo Mayaimi Black men can't tell NOBODY to do that especially when they themselves don't choose RIGHT the first time.
If BM are afforded the right to make mistakes early on in life....
BW should be afforded the SAME!
@Apollo Mayaimi Future wouldn't say sh$%. If he were anywhere near you - he'd be trying to steal your girl and quite possibly your mamma ( if she were cute enough). 🤣
Let's be honest, Future is THEIR type.
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Exactly!!
Pretty much
They gotta have a rough neck. It's clear. Go get em. He's not that straight either.
Indeed and this is solidified by their dating histories.
I dont understand. Ciara only had 1 child. How many children do these clowns that talk down have? Make it make sense.
This whole thing is weird. Being married and raising children without being toxic is "square"; but creating broken homes, single parent households, and not standing up as leaders, protectors, and providers is "lit".🤦♂️
Well, this married "square" is chillin'. Hopefully, the guys I'm mentoring and the children I raise will seek to turn the tide away from toxicity and towards real life changes.
I believe men like you will be the change the community needs! God bless
@@blessingo7449 ✝️❤🔥🙏
Raising another man's kids is square and NO man should be doing it. It goes against the Laws of Nature.
@@jahrules8674 So....Shaq's stepfather was a square? Hmm....interesting. 🤔
@@ChavisGreenard that's one example among many with a child benefited not the dude the dude don't benefit being a stepfather only the child does
Russel is just a normal guy. Why don’t they just leave him alone.
Yeah I really don’t understand the hate like they shouldn’t be even mentioned that much
They gotta ride for their king Future smh ish is sad
@Apollo Mayaimi how is that any of your business?
@Apollo Mayaimi What’s wrong with that? Every grown adult has some form of baggage. When you are committing to a relationship you are accepting that persons baggage and they (should) accept yours. Baggage differs between people, and so does the baggage that people are willing to accept. He accepted her baggage because it was something he new he could handle. That is no one else’s business but his.
@Apollo Mayaimi Yeah that’s what people do.
“I just want to see Russell doing better in life
without having to accept baggage.” This is weird. What kind of connection do you think you have with him that warrants this level of concern?
Russel is grown man that choose to be with Ciara knowing her past with Future. If YOU don’t want to deal with peoples baggage than stay single. But that’s is clearly something that Russel is fine with.
Notice how they praise toxic couples like Durk and India and Ari Moneybagg but when it comes to Ciara and Russell they don’t like them because it’s healthy and because it’s not something they’re not use to seeing, Sad sad case
Its also something they don't want to live up to. They know that if Russell can do it they can too, but they don't WANT to.
Dusty black men: Black women need to choose better partners. It's because of their bad decisions, that the black community is in a bad state.
*Black women choose better*
Dusty black men: Wait, you're not suppose to do that. You're suppose to stay with that toxic dude or go to the next trash dude. You don't deserve better than your "type".
Black women: 😒😒😒
Honestly, the lunacy 😂😂😂😂
THIS
like I'm confused
Shout out to Plies for basically standing up for Russell.
The fact that they feel like Ciara is fake in her love for Russell just because she was with the complete opposite before tells me everything I need to know. Most black men don’t change because they don’t believe they can. I don’t understand how they don’t know that it’s normal and healthy to see your mistake and change yourself moving forward. And Russell could have got anybody, he chose Ciara with a child and all, get over it.
These men are envious of Russell Wilson.
What kills me is they really think they are going to shame Ciara into wanting the same type of man she had in her late 20s in her mid 30s. She grew as a person and knew she needed someone on her level.
They don’t even realize that women can evolve! Her son I bet allowed her to grow up and see life differently. When she knew better she chose better Periodt!
And when Russell pulls a Will Smith and slaps someone in 10-15 years when he is tired of him and his family being the butt of jokes; they will still clown him....this is just hate. Russell and Ciara, keep your head up and continue to elevate....!!!!
You hit it right on the head
Why do they keep his name in their mouths so much? He minds his business.
Wait… not him speaking about a “toxic” dude as if THEY ARE THE PRIZE… “the toxic dudes you like are looking past you now, you have too much baggage.. you have two or three kids” when it’s probably the toxic dude that got this “hypothetical women” in this position in the first place! It’s so sickening to see how backwards some ppl think! For him to sit up there thinking he really said something.
He’s the the cornball 🙄
Genuinely confused by this... how tf is a toxic dude at the top of their hypothetical totem pole???? 🥴🥴 These “men” literally have NO IDEA WHATSOEVER what women want!
I’m starting to think a lot of them just remain stagnant and never grow at all. As women, at some point, we level up in terms of our preferences in a partner, and we no longer desire the “bad boy” anymore. We look at men we may have dated like that in our past and think, “Ew, what was I thinking?” We are happy we moved on, and we are thankful for growth!
They can’t seem to understand that. As if we’re going to want the same type of partner at 30+ that we wanted at 17. I don’t think these men ever experience that type of growth in mindset, hence the reason they’re so dumbfounded by the fact someone who dated a thug in their early 20’s could honestly and wholeheartedly desire an actual GOOD man years later. But it’s not rocket science 🙄
Exactly. If he’s toxic, we SHOULD want him to look past us, right???
@@kyliCatherine1 and if the fathers were actually present and actually good fathers when they are present, more boys would grow into more productive men starting out. They’d have decent character and would know what good qualities to look for in a woman to start a family. And fathers would teach their daughters to value themselves and also what to look for and what to stay away from when it comes to men. I really believe that the collective of bm’s IQs are at degenerative levels where it can’t be improved or helped because the logic just isn’t there at all.
@@deasyastarr they have low IQs it’s sad to see.
I definitely noticed these dudes who call him “corny” only bring up material things….she found PEACE with Russell!! You can’t buy that!
It’s funny hearing some of these men sound off. I’ve always been down for the “square dudes” for years, but guess what? Square dudes also had their “preferences” too. People try to act like square men can’t be toxic. They can be, but just in different ways compared to Thug-tavious. It’s not about women going to the “good men” once they hit rock bottom. It’s about wanting a better partner as a result of growth and wanting a better partner to raise children with.
They don’t understand that because of their low IQs.
Very true, they act like the squares weren’t also attracted to problematic women, IG models and strippers
@@sheh.9163 Exactly. The difference is that the “squares” learned from it and evolved. Not saying they’re perfect but compared to the rest…
@@ya.baldheadedmama97 This is so true.
i definitely definitely AGREE!!!
Russell is the true definition of a high value man
Now goes to Colorado with a brand new 100 mil+ contract in a state with low taxes.
Man is living life
I'm 72 old BW, I agreed with everything you said.
Russell Wilson is who these dusties wish their father’s were. Most of the dusties don’t even have fathers.
Of course they don't have fathers. That's why they never learned not to put their mouths on another man's business.
And they have gone on to repeat the cycle.
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@@nymeria7239 and they still don’t try to break it.
Their fathers were Future, and deep down they wished they had a Russell come into their lives as children.
Of course thugs hate Wilson, he is a trillion times better than them.
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I've noticed that Ciara is super feminine in the presence of Russell 💜
True! When a decent man, who actually behaves responsibly and with care (whom the woman likes) come along, the woman feels like she can be her feminine self with ease, because she feels loved, comforted, and nurtured by such a decent man
Right. It's because she feels safe. She knows that she doesn't have to do it all anymore. She has a real genuine partner not a man child
I am honestly disturbed by the amount of hate Russell Wilson is getting when he’s a great role model and advocates putting religion and love of God first. I think not acknowledging that of him and Ciara’s relationship cornerstone from these black men is a tragedy and highly embarrassing. I root for Ciara’s family unit and I hope they continue to show a healing and healthy lifestyle and marriage with a blended family. These the same men who called her a man, or Serena :( it’s such a great thing to be loved openly like what Russell does and he’s mindful of his reputation and community leadership role.
The losers want him to be like them
@@megamoneyk downlows want him for themselves. They are attracted to him and wish they can replace wombman
yooooo i completely forgot people use to be wild disrespectful and call Ciara a man🤦🏾♀️
I'm starting to think BM does not like to see BW happy with anybody not even with another BM.
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They hate us and view bw as competition.
Why does he care?! These guys pay more attention to Russell than Ciara does. 😕
@@p_tiffanii seriously, they want to be in Ciara's place 😂😂😂😂
These men sound so jealous, and miserable! They’re giving corny with the negativity. They’re likely hating bc they couldn’t get with a beautiful and successful woman like Ciara and sabotage her life. Ppl don’t believe bw are deserving of greatness, and having a prosperous life even after past mistakes. Misery loves company so be mindful of who you date and create a life with. Bw continue to make yourself a priority!
Lol I swear the way these males stay talking about Russell you would think they are trying to take ciara's place as his wife. No grown man should be this invested in another man's marriage.
They are _very_ invested in women’s options and opinions. It’s giving - 🌈
@@niax782 😆....the rainbow coalition don't want thier toxic delusional arses either.
They are. Most of em of dl.
"I can love you beeetterrrr thaaan sheee caaan!'
Why are they so obsessed with him if he’s a lame according to them.
This is sad these dust rats will stop at nothing.
These men are uber jealous of Russel and Ciara and it SHOWS. Ew.
@Apollo Mayaimi you seemed to be interested and hurt by his relationship. He chose her, he is with her, he loves her. Now go and cry some more because jail birds and poop shooters are the ones after him and he doesn't care for none of you.
@Apollo Mayaimi 🥱🥱🥱🎻🎻🎻🎻🎻
Yess broke dusties...
@Apollo Mayaimi
Leave Russell alone..
@Apollo Mayaimi Because that's who he chose to marry earlier in his career.
Is that causing you to lose sleep at night?
Are you getting less p*ssy because of who Russell chose to marry before his divorce?
Did you lose your seniority at your place of employment because Russell married Ciara?
I Always Liked Steve Urkel More Than Stephon 🤷🏾♀️ Why Is It That Black Women Are Accused Of Perpetuating Baby Mama Culture But Young White Women Get A Hit TV Show (16 And Pregnant, Teen Mom, Keeping Up With The Kardashians Etc)?
These men overall are just jealous she is off the market and Russell got her. If they would spend less time hating they might find a nice Kady to settle down with.
The closet is open for you to come out fellas
I’m convinced, these men want Future for themselves 🤷🏾♀️.
Exactly! They are talking about who THEY want 💅🏽
They do. Most are DL.
@@Nirobiscloset10 agreed!
@@niax782 indeed lol they sound like fan girls. Future is not a catch.
You have to keep in mind the ones labeling him a square don’t even have a pot to piss in or window to throw it out of. Why even feed energy into these fools?
When my bf and I first started dating and I posted him on Snapchat I got sooooo much backlash from random dusties I didn’t even know. It was so bad I had to delete my sc and make a new one where only my close friends and family could follow me. I still don’t post him much on my IG and I don’t tag him when I do because I don’t want him being harassed by dusties. I feel so bad for Ciara that her husband has to go through this 😢
Why did you get backlash?
@@Myaccount923 Yeah it's not making sense. Who cares what random strangers think of your relationship? The block button is there for a reason
Like I was told by my dad, any man who is worried and focused on another man and his dealings, are dl and truly want to be with that man. I totally agree with that.
They cannot wait to see Russell fail just because that will prove that they don't have to make any effort for their family. They are really pathetic. It kills to see a man holding himself to a higher standard and elevate his family.
This is strange, these grown men are encouraging the bad boy image like they are in junior high or high school. They refuse to grow up and blame women for them being behind.
I think many men realize that they have not handled themselves to the same standard as Russell. They have not been disciplined with their sex. They have not been fully present in their childrens lives and they have not been willing to commit to the women they deal with. It all may even sound overwhelming and requiring of a lot of personal sacrifice because too many men still want to have their cake, your cake, someone else’s cake and some more cake. They can not and will not let go of their greed.
It’s this same kind of greed and arrogance that led many men to destroy and concur lands and people that were not their own.
Excellent observation!
Some of these celebs who are commenting about their relationship are the last ones to talk (eat your food and keep quiet🤫). I'm glad Russell doesn't respond to the B.S. and Ciara has leveled up to better. Who wants to stay in a bad relationship? It's not wrong for one to want to elevate for better.
Its only wrong to want to elevate if you're a Black woman, according to those knuckleheads!
I love the fact that they NEVER respond.
They just continue to be great...
While these fools were calling him names and downing Ci.....
Ci and her husband had they video going around of them in Times Square looking at their new book ....lit up on a billboard!
Level Up!
Russell already knows he has a baddie that has her own and he did it being himself
They need to let this go.
Wow, this is an eye opener for me. I find it strange how these little boys in men bodies think that a grown man taking care of his wife and children and even another man's child as being a simp. I think it's because it is a reflection of how these little boys really see themselves and are afraid that the women will wake up and decide not deal with them. WAKE UP LADIES !!! Also, why is the fact that Future has 10+ children with several baby mommas and yet this is not a topic of their little discussions? I am really confused by this. SMH.
These men need to sit down and talk about what is going on with the black men in this community. Plus, they need to talk to the boys in the community because there are no more father’s in the home to sit these boys down and tell them this how you are suppose to carry yourself as a young man.
I think we all feed into the negative stereotypes because at some point we really didn’t know better. We got by what we are used to seeing and our experience. We are used to men like future being the gold standard when he is barely bare minimum. When I was 26 I remember I used to wow women by saying I had my own place, a car and no felonies . Because in our community not very men are able to say that a lot of black women where impressed by that. But I still remember the one that said to me “ congratulations, you’re a fucking adult? Are I supposed to be impressed?”. Even now that I am 33 I still remember that interaction and it reminded me that all had at the time was just the bare minimum and I had to step it up. I don’t have the money Russell has (yet), but I’m a proud square lol. I’m trying to help create my Russell’s and help build a better community.
Ok but the few black men who are in your same boat I feel don’t hold the majority of ignorant black men accountable. I’d like to see more of that.. just saying.
Ppl call my husband a “square” when we first dating and. I looked at them crazy cause they called me a square, so why not be with a man that matched my energy. Square meaning we don’t drink I much and he wasn’t acting like how my ex was. I took one good lesson and I learned.
Another example of the so-called square being an afterthought and a fallback option.
@@kingr.a.4067 no, she learned what she didn’t want.
@@kimberly0717 Yes it is because she didn't choose the so-called square in the first place. Also, I wouldn't be surprised if she's not genuinely attracted to her husband for that very reason. Just look at what the singer Monica and the actress Meagan Goode are doing currently and tell me if I'm lying.
@@kingr.a.4067 I’m not updated on Monica or what Meagan Goode are doing, nor do I concern myself with their lives much. Anyway, what I am saying is “We live and we learn”. Ppl grow and men and women can mature. We don’t always do the same things or think the same as we experience life. Lastly, Russell is very attractive so I couldn’t imagine the attraction wouldn’t be there.
@@kimberly0717 Russell's square personality is typically unattractive as it is the antithesis to what a lot of BW in particular find attractive (the thug, hood dude, bad boy variety) and Ciara is guilty of dating such men. Therfore, any man would question Ciara's or any woman's drastic change from dealing with the thugs/hood dudes/bad boys to the high-vibrational decent men who are often considered squares.
Black women’s are the trendsetters around the world in I low key think that with the Russell and Ciara “movement” going on the “bad boy”image will eventually fade its course in it will cause a lot of woman’s around the world to pick “the lame guy” over the “bad boy” which is cool because its time for our black woman’s to be happy and treated right.
From what WE see...Russell is a great man...we don't need to see what goes on behind closed doors. That aint our business!
We see the children looking great...Ciara is glowing and Russell professes his love every chance he gets.
So let's take it for what it is and not "hope" for something bad because we don't know whats going on behind "closed" doors. Smmfh..
OAN
Great content as always, Yani.....
As Masika once said ,"you can't talk sense into a senseless h*e". At this point we as women need to sit back sip our tea and let them either save or destroy themselves.
Russell Wilson minds his own business and runs his house in order. I’m STILL SHOCKED that men in our community on the internet ARE STILL PRESSED and somehow bothered by this man……. Shouldn’t Russell be one of the few best representatives of the BM image……. Respectfully???
Yes
She fixed her situation, “chose better” and black men STILL want to criticize and make fun of Russell. It’s just jealousy. Ciera didn’t even look happy pictured with Future.
Do those that want a spotlight on black fatherhood should hear how odd this sounds? Being a good father isn’t throwing money at kids. Which is a bare minimum of responsibility.
Regular claims about how bad it is to be the “clean up man” while side-stepping the guys _home breaking_ that led to the mother being single in the first place. Before it was the no _mum’s boyfriend_ argument but RW/Ciara are married so the goalpost has to be moved again. All due to the perception those men are putting on themselves for other men. There seemingly is no true concern about women and kids. only male approval.
How does one claim a *community* needs men in children’s lives to correct it yet be angered over step dads choosing to fill the role vacated by absentee or degenerate bio fathers?
They want all baby mama’s to suffer for the rest of their lives. For some reason they clown a bm for step fathering a fatherless child. A woman does well if she’s able to marry someone who is willing to be a good father figure so that her child(ren) can have a better chance psychologically. No one ever calls a woman who gets with a bm with baby mamas all over the place the clean up woman. They make each other feel bad about what other men do with their lives. These bm are just leading each other around in circles of degenerate behaviors but wanna complain.
The problem with the step daddy situation is why should a man spend his resources and time raising another man’s legacy?
@@Futurelawyer812 the real problem is why the have too
@@lovelygirlmj81 I agree. We’re the only men expected to do so
@@Futurelawyer812 why do you care if a man decides to be a step dad or not? Clearly what’s being said went over your head. No one said *you* specifically needed to be step dad. The point is: mind your business if a man decides to become a step dad to another man’s children.
I thank God for my grandmother! She’s 72 and has been hip to black mens refusal to provide and their abandonment of their women and children for decades! She keeps it 100 with my sister in I and cautions us heavily about dating!
@Apollo MayaimiHer disappointment in black men started with her own father who abandoned his family. Should she have picked a better father as a child? It continued with her cheating husband and even through her sons. Every women is not lying and trying to protect their image when it comes to bm, y’all are just sorry ass excuses for men.
@Apollo Mayaimi what's wrong with you. You're everywhere. No one is forcing you to do anything
@Apollo Mayaimi 😂😂😂 sounds like a personal problem my guy. Go vent to a therapist not us
@Apollo Mayaimi and it sounds like you mad some woman saw you for the dusty you are and leveled up on you
@Apollo Mayaimi Granny ain't lied. Bm ain't shat and it's always been like that in the black community.
Russell not only financially stable, he’s stable spiritually !!
It must kill them to see Ciara leave their lord Future to be happy with a "corny" guy and Lori Harvey do the same thing before he babymama'd her and left to go be with another one they call corny. They just can't believe this is happening.
I honestly think that Russell is physically more attractive than future
I'm sick of the conversation. BM let's step up and be leaders. Protect, Provide and Produce. We need more of that in the community. BW focus on yourself and be the version of yourself. Leave these low vibrational niggas alone. Deuces ✌🏿
Give me a Russel Wilson anytime ❤️❤️❤️
He said women are pushed to the "squares" when they have baggage and are looked over by the TOXIC men because they aren't at the TOP??? Does that sound backwards and distorted to anyone else? I think these guys have so much to say because they wish Ciera was still stuck at the bottom of the toxic barrel with the rest of them but she leveled up/out grew that bs and they are shook by it.
It’s them talking like future is a prize for me💀 THE SPIRIT OF DELUSION ‼️
I briefly mess with a guy that was more team future than Russell...yea I later found out he was DL and secretly hated my guts also he wasn't street so it's not only the hood BM with this mindset
these men like to imagine a reality where they are the first choice. where they are able to pull the women they deem desirable, even if they are CURRENTLY a pookie. if they have money ( become a "HVM"), then they could also pull a ciara. at most, what they have to offer is money and they believe that opens all the doors. character and partnership play no part in their thinking. which is massively ironic, bc most bw stood by bm based on their perceived character and a belief in the specialness of blk love.
True.
Exactly!!
I thought they said "choose better"? What's the problem now??
Honestly I’m kind of tired of people speculating that he’s a great man just based off of his looks or because you guys think he’s a square . Y’all don’t know what goes on behind clothed doors … he’s a whole NFL player he may or may not be as square as people believe
It’s true that we don’t know Russell Wilson’s secrets or their true relationship or if he cheats or has a double life . But no one is saying Russell is great because of his looks. They are saying it because of his public actions of being a respectable family man, visiting children’s hospitals, not being messy
Also since when are athletes squares? He’s literally a jock??
@@kupidrosalindavateri3965 exactly! Even more evidence that their attacking him due to hate. Russel is a successful quarterback who has made a good life for himself. He’s the type to not go broke after he retires because he’ll have multiple streams of income and sponsorships.
@@p_tiffanii right. They have true peace
BM have no problem EMASCULATING themselves! He's living in her house, he's driving her car, etc.
Honestly SCREW that Tina Knowles documentary. I am a teacher and I see EXACTLY how toxic, sex derived relationships ruin these children. When a women and kept and feels protected she is able to be the best mother she can be. It mirrors in her children. When she is stressed, having to pick up extra jobs, ripping and running for men who give absolutely zero quips about their child and child’s mother…It shows in the child.
black twitter can say whatever they want about these topics. I’ll just let the little humans we give birth to and influence be the proof of this communities issues.
If Russell Wilson is a square, then call me a damn geometrist cuz I want that 😩
As that man said: WOMEN WANT PEACEEEEE🗣🗣🗣🗣
I’m a black female nerd and I married a black male nerd and together we had and raised 3 nerdy children. We’re still married 26 years later. Unfortunately our son married the wrong woman and had 4 kids back-2-back and now they’re getting a divorce. Shyt happens!
ain’t these the same men that tell us to stop chasing pookie and ray ray ? ciara did that and y’all still complaining 🥴
edit: my bd was a square and he still made me a bm…
They're complaining because they ARE Pookie and RayRay, lol! A few extra dollars and a microphone don't change nothing about them.
Yanie I agree with you 💯. I don't know if it is something in the air but as a black woman I don't feel protected at all. I will never forget me and my mom were headed inside a church. There was a homeless guy looked to be on drugs being pushed outside of the church. The guy that push the homeless guy saw me and my mom about walk up the walkway and watch through the door. Me protecting my mom I grabbed my tripod stand seeing the man was headed in our direction. Not one time did the guy by the door come down to help us all because he petty as hell and chooses who he wants to protect. I will never forget that moment. I was scared as hell but I had to protect myself and my mom. I am no longer marching or helping black men ever again. Sorry not sorry. That moment was rude awakening for me.
It’s about perception for the inadequate ilk. Lots of these dudes know that they must attempt to control BW perception of what’s sexy and attractive because if the so-called square is now attractive then they’ll have less access to the women they want. Also, as a side note, men focused on loving and providing for their family match squarely into the “peace, meditation, “live your best life mantra” era that society is in love with. So it’s no wonder that the appeal of the thug, gangsta, drug dealer, and perpetually in-between jobs dude, is dwindling fast. This ain’t the 90’s! “Toto, we’re not in Kansas anymore!” 😂 🤣
Didnt Lori leave future and went to Micheal B Jordan a square by their terms.....why they don't talk about thatttttttt??? The hate for Ciara is real its crazy
They literally said choose better
Channing admitted he peed on himself every game. It’s on film…. Please sit down sir😮💨🤢
🤭 what
And he would get on all 4s, get on his porch and act like a cat before he would have sex with his wife.
👀😁😆😂😂😂😂
It turns out a lot of athletes do that because they have to be focused on the game and the bathroom is far away🤣but admitting to it with pride is something else. They should wear adult diapers if it is that serious or have porta potties for the athletes.
Black men are holding on to hurt from the 3rd freaking grade. Go heal bro
Screaming 😭😂
At this point I really think those dudes are jealous I really do
Y'all just haters!!! Russell Wilson is a CHRISTIAN KING!!! Future has 7-8 children by 7-8 baby mamas. Future, Jr. calls Russell Wilson "Daddy". This young man is being raised in a beautiful, Christian home. He will grow up to treat a woman like a QUEEN & not someone who will have sex with a woman & then leave. So, ask yourself which type of man you want to be with - a Christian King or a Pimp / Punk. Choose wisely, ladies!!!
Future has 9 children 😭
As if they know about being a man..and arent they pro black? Why do they stay on this successful mans neck?
And this coming to the SAME men that tell women to choose better. Once the said woman chooses better, now the guy in question is a cornball, please get tf out of here. Also, men expect women to be with them through all the baggage they have. For example, a woman that cheated on them in high school with homie/cousin or brother, still dealing that the one crazy chick that stalks him and bust the windows of his car (once or twice) or maybe still messing around with at least 2 out of 5 baby mamas that want fight the new chick like NO BRO !!!!
BM emasculate themselves.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this situation. I especially appreciate your point about the emotional connection. As you get older, the surface level things become less important, and Russell is so loving to her, with her. The commentary of these men, calling him Corny, shows that they have the emotional maturity of children. All the more reason to avoid them.
These men just mad at anybody doing better than them