40 Life Lessons from a 40-Year-Old Developer

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  • čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
  • In step with turning 43 this year, I decided to put together a video with 40 lessons about life that I've learned through the years.
    The topics range from relationships to finance, to programming, to career advice, and more.
    Let me know down in the comments some key advice you've picked up or want to share!
    Timestamps
    00:00 Intro
    -- RELATIONSHIPS --
    00:27 1 Act your age
    00:47 2 Say what you mean
    01:09 3 Stop wasting time
    -- FINANCES --
    01:45 4 Have multiple streams of income
    02:13 5 Be financially literate
    02:29 6 Limit your 401K
    -- CAREER --
    03:12 7 Turn on your webcam
    03:33 8 Interviewers are human, too
    03:55 9 Keep your options open
    04:33 10 Be direct
    05:00 11 Let interests guide you
    05:36 12 Budget for education
    06:07 13 Make networking a lifestyle
    06:26 14 Soft skills are key
    06:42 15 Be accountable
    07:02 16 Seek domain knowledge
    -- PROGRAMMING --
    07:39 17 Learn to pseudocode
    07:51 18 Merge before pushing
    08:08 19 Pad time estimates
    08:27 20 Read Grokking Algorithms
    09:02 21 Be a problem solver
    09:27 22 Know Yourself
    10:03 23 Do the hard tasks
    10:25 24 Build stuff
    10:59 25 Stop coding all the time
    11:25 26 Bugs will always exist
    11:47 27 Never promise a customer
    12:03 28 Make mistakes
    12:25 29 Protect your time
    -- FITNESS -
    13:06 30 Health above all
    13:19 31 Chairs kill
    13:32 32 Hydrate more
    13:49 33 Shape or be shaped
    14:18 34 Feel the burn
    -- LIFESTYLE --
    14:40 35 Travel
    15:01 36 One hard thing daily
    15:21 37 Easy comes last
    15:49 38 Max our your PTO
    -- TIME --
    16:09 39 Prioritize people
    16:26 40 Check yourself
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Komentáře • 63

  • @billyilla3892
    @billyilla3892 Před 21 dnem +25

    You are a wonderful person. Thanks for giving us a 43 years lesson in 17 minutes and 14 seconds

    • @SohrabK
      @SohrabK Před 19 dny +1

      Exactly 💯 amazing.

  • @AdrianTregoning
    @AdrianTregoning Před 18 dny +3

    I've commented many times on your videos. I'm 42, a mechanical engineer. This week I finally landed an internship at a small tech company! Super stoked. It was scary, it was tough, I wanted to give up many times, but I didn't. And finally the door opened. Super stoked. Thanks for inspiring average people like me.

  • @user-jv5rg1hr2r
    @user-jv5rg1hr2r Před 10 dny +1

    Man, I am near 40’s , work in marketing, learned python and sql, learning html,js,css from Odin projects and really like this field but was too afraid to dip in. Don’t know how YT algorithm suggested your video but now I have HOPE! . Gonna keep learning , sure it may take time but you are the biggest example That passion pays off.

  • @Lukyno86
    @Lukyno86 Před 4 dny

    Hi, I am 38 years old and just started learn to code to switch my carrer. Your channel is wonderful and I am very gratefull to you.

  • @argamboad1
    @argamboad1 Před 12 dny +1

    Just loved it! I'm a 45 year old self-taught software engineer (yeah, one of those hated ones LOL), been doing this since 1998, so quite a few years. Very valuable lessons here, I could not agree more on almost all of them. But the point here is not on how many I agree with, how many I don't or why; the point is how inspiring this video was for me. At this point on someone's career it's very easy to find yourself in a career rabbit hole, but your video encouraged me to carry on, because I love what I do for a living, and you remind me that. Please keep doing this, I find this channel so helpful to anyone in the industry, junior or senior. Techy channels explaining the 1s and 0s there are a lot, but yours is like having a cup of coffee with a colleague, and we need that too so badly. You are helping people sir, cheers to that!!

  • @cody_codes_youtube
    @cody_codes_youtube Před 21 dnem +11

    This is great advice! Thanks for sharing and making this video. Good work!

  • @world_little_observer
    @world_little_observer Před 21 dnem +3

    This video deserves rewatching again and again. Thanks, Travis

  • @longnguyenthanh9317
    @longnguyenthanh9317 Před 21 dnem +7

    I watch Travis since 2019 for my thesis. Now I'm quite "old" in the industry and everything just feel so old. I feel I'm very lacking. I'm not sure I really like to code anymore. My brain isn't clear and I did thing so slow. Seeing Travis, I'm glad he is doing well. I hope he will success not just in this industry (which he already did :D) but also everything else.
    P/S: I'm looking for a team to start a fun startup :D Still watching every online guru to get more info on this

  • @BenoitCazavant
    @BenoitCazavant Před 21 dnem +2

    Just turn 65. 20 years ago stop beeing Mr. Director not because of the people I was working with or the technology BUT because of the BOSS that did give a dawn about anything else then profits.
    Since then doing contracts on things of interest for me with people I like. Biggest lesson select your boss/organisation carefully do not let your efforts and life go to waste because of "ass...".
    I do agree with a lot of you are saying, thanks

  • @akresmiley
    @akresmiley Před 5 dny

    I started to code 2 months ago and I just turned 18 I thought for some reason it was to late (people coding at 14 etc) but you inspired me a lot I swear your my favourite youtuber ever

  • @wendiborden6590
    @wendiborden6590 Před 21 dnem +1

    All things I need to hear! Eventually will listen to myself.. thanks Travis, please keep it coming 💖

  • @shafiqahmadzai3262
    @shafiqahmadzai3262 Před 21 dnem +1

    Love the content you put out Travis! Thanks 😊

  • @bena7228
    @bena7228 Před 21 dnem

    Love your videos! I love that you are talking about soft skills they are often overlooked

  • @christofferbay8210
    @christofferbay8210 Před 10 hodinami

    Great lessons Travis!

  • @ryaaan0751
    @ryaaan0751 Před 21 dnem

    Thank you for this, Travis! Made my day!

  • @pabiforbes
    @pabiforbes Před 8 dny

    Thank you for this Travis. Very valuable 🙌🏾

  • @jacksongrimm6460
    @jacksongrimm6460 Před 19 dny

    I love your content Travis, your advice is so valuable for new devs like myself.

  • @isaacfigueroa
    @isaacfigueroa Před 22 dny +2

    Excelentes consejos! Gracias Travis!

  • @arunkutube
    @arunkutube Před 21 dnem +2

    this content is gold, but you only learn these things hard way, otherwise they don't get into head.

  • @kojodidio
    @kojodidio Před 20 dny

    Bless you Travis. You are such a wonderful man.

  • @muhammad_khubaib_imtiaz
    @muhammad_khubaib_imtiaz Před 21 dnem

    Amazing mate. Thank you for valuable information.

  • @SohrabK
    @SohrabK Před 19 dny

    Amazing, very very helpful thank you so much Travis

  • @kamillewandowski3112
    @kamillewandowski3112 Před 18 dny

    Thanks man, you gave me some food for thought with this video

  • @fortyfour7410
    @fortyfour7410 Před 19 dny

    I always enjoyed your content, but this one was the best!

  • @Quoteoftheday228
    @Quoteoftheday228 Před 21 dnem

    Thanks for the heads-up and the great advice sir
    Much love 💘 ❤ 💗

  • @Ravis98
    @Ravis98 Před 14 dny

    Best advices to get Inspired. Thanks!

  • @mohammadimran2219
    @mohammadimran2219 Před 20 dny

    This video is GOLD

  • @robb7148
    @robb7148 Před 20 dny

    So much gold here.

  • @GrowthMindset_J
    @GrowthMindset_J Před 10 dny

    Great lessons. Make a video on developing soft skills please

  • @YannMetalhead
    @YannMetalhead Před 10 dny

    Great advice, thank you!

  • @junka3
    @junka3 Před 21 dnem +1

    thanks for sharing

  • @ahmedsallam2868
    @ahmedsallam2868 Před 15 dny

    Thanks for your lessons :)

  • @EnglishRain
    @EnglishRain Před 20 dny

    Happy birthday!

  • @boneydalwani
    @boneydalwani Před 19 dny

    Thanks!

  • @RomjanAli19964
    @RomjanAli19964 Před 11 dny

    wonderful post

  • @caty863
    @caty863 Před 20 dny

    I feel called out on many things here. For instance about multiple incomes, networking, finances, working out, etc.
    Fact is, I used to try all these things. But living with a partner who doesn't care drained my energy out. I believe having a little bit of competition in a relationship, or a kind of fear that you may be rejected if you drop your edge, is a big source of motivation and drive to keep improving.
    I feel I do much more than my wife, that I am much better than her, so why do more?

  • @aiasaiascon3894
    @aiasaiascon3894 Před 21 dnem

    that was a super huge fine video !!!! Good recap of Advices / suggestions and so to the point. I myself have postponed for so many years my liking for SQL and for BI and I certainly Do not Respect my Time and my Health....Unfortunately - by the way same age as you are.

  • @abdullahhassan8690
    @abdullahhassan8690 Před 21 dnem

    Your need to write a book, you are a top man. Thanks

  • @danilakhadarovich
    @danilakhadarovich Před 16 dny

    The tip #39 is a very true fact about our life. Couldn't believe I would watch the entire video, but it happened. Need to think a bit about it. Very useful. Thank you! P. S. Subscribe to the channel :)

  • @toshilam3257
    @toshilam3257 Před 15 dny

    All really true.

  • @anselemmankc3462
    @anselemmankc3462 Před 19 dny +1

    Impressive

  • @usamahussain4461
    @usamahussain4461 Před 15 dny

    this is amazing.
    You mentioned that software engg is a vast field and you don't want to be doing same thing again and again, change careers. And I understand it.
    But don't new jobs always have this "2+/3+ years experience" thing? How can we get around it if we want to, say, transition from SWE to ML Engg.?

  • @moessyd
    @moessyd Před 19 dny

    wonderful

  • @user-mi2hs5or5r
    @user-mi2hs5or5r Před 18 dny +1

    @14:22 not in Mexico 😢

  • @Keilnoth
    @Keilnoth Před 21 dnem +1

    As a 44yo developer, I will add one critical thing:
    Reputation take 20 years to build, but 5 minutes to destroy. Don't hang out with the wrong people. And don't post shit on social media. Yelling at people on social media is not going to change the world, it will just make you look like a moron. I think young people really have a problem with this. If you want to change the world then do something constructive, not destructive: build a community, a company, or an innovation. Make it your life goal. But being a jerk on Reddit and Twitter will just make YOU unhappy and will not change anything.

  • @brilliantgeorge
    @brilliantgeorge Před 21 dnem

    On the note of switching jobs at @04:10 I would like to caution that hiring managers notice short periods of stay in one's career when they look at their CV. You don't want to appear as a gold digger, asking for higher salary elsewhere and you better have a reason about it when asked. By all means do search for other opportunities just don't job-hop too regularly.

    • @TravisMedia
      @TravisMedia  Před 21 dnem

      You're absolutely right. Definitely don't do it too often.

  • @gourabsarker9552
    @gourabsarker9552 Před 22 dny

    Sir do you earn 150k dollars a year? Plz reply. Thanks a lot.

  • @abdulhannan8129
    @abdulhannan8129 Před 22 dny

    Hello sir. Sir I am not good at maths so can I learn and practice dsa and actually become good at it??

    • @countedgnome7216
      @countedgnome7216 Před 22 dny +1

      Yes. Most DSA doesen't require a lot of math, but simply logic / memorization

  • @Onyx0920
    @Onyx0920 Před 19 dny +1

    Is it even worth learning to code at this point?
    Because everybody keeps yapping about “AI is going to replace” Ai this, AI that.
    “Don’t even get a computer science degree, it’s over saturated!” Durr durr commets that they be leaving.

  • @EnglishRain
    @EnglishRain Před 20 dny

    beautiful

  • @bryanpardo8948
    @bryanpardo8948 Před 20 dny

    I stopped watching the video after 1:27.

  • @BeepBoop2221
    @BeepBoop2221 Před 21 dnem +2

    Its not a good idea to advise anyone to put money into crypto currency.
    I know more people that lost everything than have gained.

    • @TravisMedia
      @TravisMedia  Před 21 dnem

      I know many also who have lost more than they have gained. And those probably bought the top. But there's a very predictable pattern to it (every 4 years) and with the right mindset (never marrying a coin (except maybe Bitcoin) and being able to sell it ALL when the time comes (which most don't)) its an easy and quick way to increase your funds.

    • @BeepBoop2221
      @BeepBoop2221 Před 21 dnem +1

      @TravisMedia you can't really assume patterns with something that is purely speculative.
      It doesn't have any backing it's not like a share where the company performance determines value.
      Or even a commodity derivative because crypto doesn't actually have a use case.

    • @user-mi2hs5or5r
      @user-mi2hs5or5r Před 18 dny +1

      ​@@TravisMedia still a hard no

    • @TravisMedia
      @TravisMedia  Před 18 dny +2

      Oof, is this Dave Ramsey? 🤣. Joking. While I wildly disagree with your statements I have zero interest in crypto debates and am glad when anyone has strong convictions. I think everyone should have BTC in their portfolio long term, you don’t, and that’s what makes the world tick. 😀

  • @kazmi401
    @kazmi401 Před 21 dnem +1

    I am 18 but after watching this video i am now 43.