WHY This KENYAN GIRL Chooses to Be a "SIDE CHICK"!!! 😯
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- čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
- In this video, we talk to a Kenyan girl who has decided to become a "side chick." Side chicks are a unique category of women who are in between relationships, both dating and single.
We talk to our side chick about what it's like to be in this position, and why she decided to take this step. We also talk about the challenges and benefits of being a side chick, and what she recommends for other women who are thinking about taking this same path.
If you're looking for an interesting and original perspective on relationships, then definitely check out this video! Side chicks have been around for a long time and it's a phenomenon that transcends borders and will certainly always be around. Let's dive in!
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Next time you want to get a perspective , at least interview more people- like five - also, be able to note inconsistencies and contradictions (like the lady said Kenyans hate Indians because they don't spend on girls......how???). Unless you want to push a narrative
@@Chat-ey1xg thanks for watching. You know it’s very easy on the sideline telling me what I should do. It’s extremely difficult to find even one person willing to discuss intimate details about their personal life with a camera on their face. Yet, you’re asking for more and disregarding the difficulties of content creation.
This is CZcams, I’m not a TV station. I document my experiences to share things I witness when I travel. There’s no format and content comes the way it does.
The creative space is huge and I invite you to open a channel. That way you can do things the way you described above.
I appreciate you for watching!
As a point of clarification, there are just as many interracial relationships between black men and white women in Kenya.
The major difference is that these unions are mostly of family-minded individuals - unlike the black women, and white men, who mainly seek 'transactional' relationships
Most black men date a diverse ethnicity apart from their own - you can find Indian, Arab, Latina, Korean, Chinese, Russian, English, American, et al, with black men in Kenya
These sorts of relationships are of more serious, family-orientated, long-term in scope, and often much older couples.
Black men/ White women are usually of ages (35-and above -vs- 28-and above)
vs
White men/ Black women are mostly of ages (35-and below -vs- 25-and-below)
The above largely applies to black men in Kenya who are in interracial relationships
Another point of divergence - for contrast - is that for black men in Kenya (and uniquely so) the main status symbol for them is owning one's own home (and investing in real estate), educating one's children in the best schools, and establishing businesses.
Rarely would you find the Kenyan man who fits the 'black male trope' of flashy lifestyles, luxurious spending, and living above one's own means. They do exist - but they are the exception, not the rule
Please follow these channels to get a better insight into this unique phenomenon:
Mekenze Limiri - An American Mormon woman from Utah married to a Kenyan Meru man - @Mekenzeinkenya (www.youtube.com/@Mekenzeinkenya/)
Our Tribe of Many - An American woman from Nebraska married to a Kenyan man - @OurTribeofMany (www.youtube.com/@OurTribeofMany/)
Elena in Kenya (Елена в Кении) - A Russian woman from Rostov region, Russia, married to a Kenyan doctor and living in Nairobi - @elenainkenya (www.youtube.com/@elenainkenya/)
There are plenty more, but these should give you a wider perspective
Peace and blessings to you
@@Chat-ey1xg You're exactly right, he,s interviewing one person that he probably paid.
❤❤❤❤ I can’t judge this lady but I have a family member who was in a relationship with a married man 24 years her senior he treated her like a princess got her a job paid her education right now she is a very successful woman she credits her success to that man. That woman is a light 💡 to many people. I wish I can share more off this channel.
That girl is very honest and realistic, the ppl who are saying in the comments that she's talking on her behalf they just don't want to admit it. She's real and very unique especially when you asked her about countries she would like to visit. Most Kenyans always start with US,she's just different with her options
I agree 100%
Agree 👍
This Kamba lady came to the city and quickly learnt the ropes. Kenyans can tell from her accent she is not born in the city but has quickly learnt about the easy way out some of the city girls adopt. Soft life with no responsibility or hard work. They amaze me. I wouldn't touch such even with a 9 foot pole!
Don't be stingy 😂
@@LetsTravelhannel You sound like a side chick lol
This lady is talking for herself only, most Kenyans won't agree with her sentiments.
She’s mad high what is she talking? Aki huyu anataka kichapo
Wewe unaeza ajiriwa na mhindi?
not true, i talk to many kenyan girls and many agree with it. 70% to 80% agree. If you are rich and many confidence and tell these girls straight up that you have a wife and you want her as your side chick they will agree if you take care of them or look good
She's speaking for herself and for her promiscuous lifestyle. Such kind of chics are broken beyond repair. Breaking families is her therapy.
Speak for yourself too
Ivain's "The Sidechick Series". You should do one of these interviews in every country😂
😅😅😅😅😅
She is only 25 but appears to be very knowledgeable about culture, tribes, customs, relationships and very confident on Camera. She is not shy in speaking her mind. But I think is lied or exaggerated a few things. There are many beautiful ladies in the city who are virgins and working hard for their money. I think she hangs around bad group. She is brutally honest without sugarcoating anything. Uganda is a village and foreigners don’t come to kenya if you don’t have money wow
Ivain, Ivain, Ivain😎😎great video as always 👍👍 you are the best. This woman is a realist, honest and straightforward. In my opinion she is speaking of the now which some women will not say and men men will admit. There must have been a shift that's causing women to be change their views on relationships not only in Africa but elsewhere. Her answers are immediate and direct without a single pause.....interesting🤔🤔🤔. Thanks Ivain I enjoy all your videos, great content, interesting topic. Keep up the good work, keep traveling, the world awaits. Last but not least your humor kicks in....Yo I have never heard a woman this real before😃😃😃😃 Did you guys book your flight yet🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 she is as real as it gets. Thanks so much for watching!
Thanks much, I'm from the Caribbean island of Barbados and want to visit kenya April 2024 so was looking for nice accommodation.
In my opinion about Kenyan women is definitely different from every thing she said. As non Kenyan I find Kenyan women very wifey material. I think Kenyan women curry them self with dignity and very delicate, soft spoken loving and well educated.
😂😂😂😂
she went from a village girl to a city Hooooooooooooe
Pull up our shut up
That "there are no virgins in Kenya" crazy!
Her body language indicates she's lethal! 😂😂
Anway, Kenyans we are.
She's speaking for herself and the life she chose. What she shared there were just her personal opinions and not a reflection of dating life in Kenya. She just kept the conversation on her line as a side chick.
That's the reality though
Interesting video this is true story It's what is happening in many countries around the world 😅
Every country and it's NOT NEW! Before they were called side chicks they were mistresses, even in the Bible
She is honest,that is the only positve thing with her.
Lowkey the funniest interview yet😂 Lover her!
Got that right!! What the heck?!@
This woman is expressing her own opinions, and it's important to note that her sentiments may not necessarily reflect the views of the majority of Kenyans. She can be seen as an example of someone who is solely focused on material gain, which some might describe as a gold digger.
Lies
@@LetsTravelhannel How do you mean?
She wants the easy way out... there's no difference between her and a thief 😏
So much feelings 😂😂😂. Chill out
@@LetsTravelhannel she's a thief I tell you 🤣🤣🤣
Great Content Thanks for the UPLOAD
Thanks for watching!
This is insightfull about Kenya! Good job IT!!
Thanks so much for watching!
Nice candid interview. Good quality video. Love the intro !!! Muy buen trabajo hermano
Muchas gracias 🙏🏽
Brooooo, I really be enjoying your content, great video‼️🙏🏾
I appreciate that! Thanks for watching!
Dont judge kenyan women based on this one.she is just being herself.over used.
YES WAITING 😮
Waiting for this one😊.
😂
Hey Travelling miss, I always like your collabos with Ivan
Enjoyed as always Ivaintures.
Thank you so much for speaking the truth about racism in America. I agree with you wholeheartedly there is racism every where, but some people choose to ignore that.
Thank you for speaking the truth. We have rights and we stand up for our rights. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Thanks so much for watching!
That lady is exploring the city which is okay for her age.Ask her the same questions after 3years she probably will be married so some guy she is in love with.
So many married women are side chicks too 😂😂😂😂
I think this lady is being honest...which is a good virtue...other than telling lies... Godfrey Kalikabyo Kampala-UGANDA
I like her honesty
Interesting story, Ivain. It's amazing how much this is going on in the world today. Great conversation. I enjoyed watching. Thank you for sharing 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Thanks for watching! I appreciate you!
This is NOT NEW - side chicks have been around the world since time immemorial in all cultures. They were called mistresses 😂😂😂😂
What type of of conversion is this ? The Kamba girls are well brought up. Check the ladies background.
It is well known worldwide even in the UK Indians/Pakistani people only look after themselves. I understand why Idi Amin threw them out. And I understand when I was in Kenya that if Indians hear of Kenyans going to purchase land - the Indians club together and buy the land so that an African can't own it. And yes, Indians/Pakistani people - all Asians pay low and treat their workers badly.
Oh wow! What did I just watch?!😳🤔 I think we live in different Nairobis😅. The only thing I agree with her about is that Kenyan men have a long way to go when it comes to being romantic 🙈🙈.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I need to interview you about that. Thanks for watching!
Yes, the travelling miss is representing the quick witted Kikuyu ladies 👍🏼
Are you really here pretending that there are no side chicks? Most are even married 😂😂😂😂
She is gorgeous
The only thing she didn't tell you is that she comes from a tribe that its ladies are feared because of doing exactly what she is saying. They are known to be very loose women...
I was just about the side chicks lol crazy low self esteem
I am a pakistani living in canada and I have travelled to many countries so just asking this question based on my experiences. The general work culture in Asia is around 60 hours a week. This is very normal almost across asia and the earning rewards for it are not comparable to the west. They make very little. Is that the work culture incompatibility in kenya with the asians particularly Indians and chinese as she mentioned? I am asking it because usually employers do enforce their own work culture wherever they set up the business and I somehow feel that africa in particular kenya has very high black american influence. So just asking.
Also, just my opinion. When the majority denies the absolute minority to live with them in this context is actually racism. Absolute minorities are basically powerless. If they feel the sense of safety for themselves, families, culture, religion, in the society they naturally start living anywhere they wish to. That's my opinion as an immigrant myself. Canada is actually the safest place but I still live in the locality where the majority are asian muslims.
Hi man . Could you kindly give me the name of place you where doing the interview with this beautiful lady ,i want to book my stay in few weeks.
That girl is a moral. She must have been abused or experienced trauma. She mentioned that she has no emotions, wow.
They go for married men and after getting a child she turns to be single mum and now she wants to be married by the same young men she was rejecting ,,LOL !!!
Wow, I like the intro
Sad story. Poverty is the root of all evils 😂.
Are you implying that we living in richer countries have no evil in our countries 😲
Huyu anatuaibisha sana as Kenyan womens
"Mbabas" equates to sugar-daddies. Unfortunately, she makes the most of Kenyan women. It's basically a cesspool. My advise to any foreign man looking for a woman would be to visit the neighboring countries like Rwanda, Tanzania, Burundi, Ethiopia, and the Congo. You also might want to visit Zambia.
Great interview Ivan. Its good to see the Honesty. There are lots of these kinds of arrangements. it can be dangerous as well. Polygamy being legal in Kenya adds to the complexity. Just be careful still my Brother. Rice is also very real, and is very scary. These days of mobile money the chick will just not show up after you send them Fare ie bus fare or trasport
Thanks so much for watching!
😂😂😂😂
This lady is a gold digger, and she's only talking for herself.
I've been living here in Kenya for 2 years, and Kenyan women are the most loving and caring women in Africa🇰🇪. No cap
You have been had 😂😂😂😂
Bro, your content is gone too notch. You know and I know that I have only one woman 😂-Kibaki
😂
Guys pay close attention, some and most women rather share a guy who can provide financial support and status . Men Stay focused, remain on your path and purpose the right women will come eventually.Furthermore You will have a large pool to choose from . #stayhard . Kudos to her tho with her honesty.
Ivain, mon frere, your productions skills are flourishing. The impetus of this episode was epic. However- I respect Pauline's candor and transparentcy on " The Side Chick Phenomon." It is astonsishing that she wants to be a side chick and want a married man because they take care of her. She prefer " white men" because they spend money. However- she do not believe in love. I surmised that she have accepted the reality that Kenyan married and single men will cheat. [ What about the worry of STDs?] It was interesting that she asserted that a lot of Kenyans do not like the Indians neither the Chinese. [ Sorta same in America] However- this just her opinions. Great interview.
Thanks so much for the kind words and for watching!
Watching from MD.🎉❤❤❤shout out from Rockville, MD❤🎉❤Irvine I want to more about ur Real Estate business in MD🎉❤❤
Thanks so much! Rockville in the house . I’ll get into real estate at a later time. It’s coming. Thanks a lot
Ivan plan for interview with me, am here in Nairobi and have been following you for long
I think the problem with getting married in Africa is the fact that they expect the wife to do the domestic duties, while the men go out and spend time and money with the side chick's. Why would you want to get married to men who pay most attention to side chick's. At least in the west if you get married, your husband treats you equally and pays attention to you...and most will divorce first before they get a side chick. That is why African ladies prefer Western men...but I think this girl is just there for hustle not love...lol
She said so arleady
Interesting vlog Ivaintures😂
😅
It's about pesa at the end of the day.
It's a grift. Sorry to say.
Btw my wife is Kikuyu. We know each other since 1988 but only got married in 2015. So in a way she's right but I'm no little boy anymore 😂
I lived in Kenya for 3 years and I will soon retire there. I have a fairly good understanding of the different Kenyan cultures. And there are indeed differences.
Amazing! Kenya is awesome and I’m glad you choose to retire there. Thanks for watching!
So you stringed her along from 1988 - 2015 😂😂😂?
@@LetsTravelhannel Haha. We stringed each other along in a way. 😋
U and dis sugar daddy interview like the Nigeria girl u interviewed in Abidjan, i began to suspect Ivan is also a sugar daddy 🤠😊
I have one question for her
Lady whom do you hang around with?
Tell me who you walk with and I will tell you who you are. Clearly she is hanging out with a certain type.
Where is this beautiful apartment, I would like a nice apt when I come on 2 weeks vaca.
Westlands
Ivantures its funny that this side chicks want mbubaz and after they get a baby and become single mum! Reality hits at 30s and now they want to be married with a young guy which turns out to be a dream
If only they thought what life would be like 10 years from now.
@@mercyme4262exactly thats the mathematics that they dont calculate
This is her career.
this is so sad i feel sooo sorry for her , what a shame
That's why she is not dealing with you
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I am ready!! 😎
Thanks so much for watching!
Go to mombasa now expw there too
you,and the side chicks😂😂😂😂
I Was in DRC, Congo, Uganda, Gabon, Cameroon, Angola, Sénégal, Ivory Coast and South Africa...
The majority of the women in this generation wants to have a sponsor, to be a side chick or have a sugar daddy, like this lady...
They don't want to be wives and it's everywhere in Africa !
I'm not judging
It is what it is...
Interesting .. thanks for watching!
@@IvainTures thank you bro for your great videos
@@obibomaye7785 thanks 🙏🏽 I appreciate your time watching!
Not only in Africa. It's even worse in America. It's just that this girl is honest. I love her honesty. I'm getting my passport soon. Next stop is Kenya for sure.
You went to a Muslim majority country, where Polygamy is legal and you're claiming that the Muslim women there want a "sponsor?"
This woman has no love or respect for herself, I even feel bored to watch her speak.
But honestly Ivian where did you find that clip of our 3rd president Lol 😂😂😂
Your third president was awesome 😂
has she exposed the NAi woman? I like her honesty..
Let her speak for herself not kenyan women in general 😊
THE CITY MURDERED THIS GIRL. FROM VILLAGE GIRL TO A CITY GIRL.SHED COLD 🥶❄️.
Huyu dem antaka apewe mob justice anauza ichi yetu fala sana
That's fucking crazy😂
How dare she say so😂
She is making up everything just telling you what you want to hear , 😂😂😂😂,
Bro kenyan girl wants a easy faster money,...that is the culture in kenya and its so difficult here to get true love.
In the US we have to this they are called sugar babes
About side chicks, Kenyans have evolved. It's all about other countries to catch up. 🤭
This is so sad. She must have been hurt very deeply. You can see the pain in her eyes. I hope people don't think most Kenyan women are like this. The Kenyan women I know are very sweet, kind, loyal, and want a marriage.
This story made me sad! How????
Ivantures many women here have no feelings! They are just money robots actually dont be fooled by getting a wife from the village. When she gets to the city and her ariel is alert! after half a year shes uncontrollable and feels like the queen of town!!! Beware
Wow that’s wild.
i don't agree with her on being a side chick......but i like her honesty
she's funny even without laughing 😂😂😂😂
This may sound outrageous but it’s the truth.
I agree!
take this one bro
😂
Come to Australia
I will eventually
So you are just my neighbour ,in Westlands 😍
😂
Mimi mtu hawezi niweka kwa camera hivi😅😅😅😅
IT IS A MEANS OF CHASING OF CHASING A DREAM,SIDE "CHICKING" MAKES ONE CLOSE😂😂
They want soft life but working hard is where they draw the line.
Try being someone's boy toy if you think it's a walk in the park 😂
Ivan, very interesting video, but this lady should not be judged because we all have our own skeletons in our closet....
100%
That mentality is prevalent that is one reason a certain person wants five wives their mindset is the more the merrier.😅
@Ivaintures!!! Please don't listen to that lady, she's young and naive.
Her love life is on another level like money based....... You could have asked her what she can bring on the table, only for you to realize she was not worth to interview her shit.
It’s men fault isn’t? Women are more selective but men are swayed with just looks. I don’t blame women as they adjust to the games men play. Wouldn’t you agree?
@@IvainTures , bro I won't agree with that please. Our African moral values don't teach us as such. And I know very well someone here can agree with me. Western world has build moral decay within our African traditional setups. If you see someone with such mentality around us no one Will accept her/him for it will be money minting not a relationship bro.... Only thing that can happen around our cities but not in our villages or to a genuine partner brother.
This one's belongs to the street, she's after your wallet.
It's kind of like you would be okay with being a prostitute a very sophisticated prostitute you shouldn't put yourself in that position
I did not like Kenya at all because of their 'perceived' subservience in particular to the whites and asians. I hated it but loved the beauty of the ethic kenyans like the masai. I saw some stunning men. But yeah it's a muted region compared to west africa - specifically Nigeria.
That’s understandable. Not everyone will like Kenya. Remember not everyone likes God or Jesus. But 99% of people that visit kenya love it and that’s good enough. The 1% can hate it they have theirs reasons
Where are you from?
@@oness1334 am from Scotland
Now if you really think about it, she's his "wife," too. The man's paying her bills, and is protecting her while with her; so, yes, this so-called "side chick" needs to understand about *polygamy* . 🤔"No, there are no virgins in Kenya." 🤣
Love is business in Kenya bro
Wow!!!! I didn’t know 😂
She talks like it is a script. That is the honesty you get from Kamba ladies
Ivan, that's a gold digger
She’s is street woman she’s talking for herself not for Kenya women
I know where did he pick her from?
To me it seems like this beautiful African woman has been burned by a close African male figure maybe her dad. She doesn’t want to go through that pain and is protecting herself.
Protecting? Lol
No, she's a material $$$ chaser. Listen to her at minute 12:00.
Hurting people hurt people. She needs healing
@@veronicamwania9584 indeed
You don't have to get burned to be a gold digger. Stop making excuses for these type of women
After the interview ivan took her for a night
She's speaking only for herself and not for any other Kenyan woman.
Send her my way.
😂
@@IvainTures no I’M SERIOUS
Send me her contact info.
I like such people who are honest.
Many girls & women live this such life but they pretend to be Jesus mother.
So i prefer be with someone who is honest than an terrible hypocrite.
So please send me her contact info.
Where there is a lacking of diplomacy and sophistication the truth is often involuntarily unbridled. Ironically, that kind of candidness will either break her or make her. Her beauty and her youthfulness are presently her currency, but she has to understand that in a very short time her currency will be enormously devalued.