2024 Life Update, What Happened To My Sailboat

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  • čas přidán 30. 07. 2024
  • Bringing you up to real time with this life update. What happened to my sailboat, me and this channel? What does the future hold? I smell the winds of change.
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Komentáře • 181

  • @jodyssey9921
    @jodyssey9921 Před 4 měsíci +48

    What do we want from this channel? I can only speak for myself but I want to watch you sail around and work on your boat. It's that simple. You don't need to do anything fancy, just be yourself and live your life, that's been entertaining and educational enough for me all along.

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci +5

      Appreciate the feedback! Keep it simple.

    • @beckyheidi625
      @beckyheidi625 Před 4 měsíci +11

      I second this! I subscribed for watching the adventures sailing and repairs - because that is what sailing is! The places you go , the people you meet. The good times the bad times.

    • @upinyou8
      @upinyou8 Před 4 měsíci +6

      I'm with this guy. I miss her too buddy but for the entertainment value. You have a lot to offer. I ha e been with you from the start and I'll be with you till the end. ❤ Thanks

  • @dahveed284
    @dahveed284 Před 4 měsíci +16

    I never unsubscribed during the period of few videos because I knew you were coming back. Now other channels that publicly announce they're quitting I do unsubscribe from them. But I knew you would be back.
    We all have setbacks in life. Just keep moving forward...

  • @erniejones5361
    @erniejones5361 Před 4 měsíci +15

    Joel, everybody’s come across hard times we all lost a woman and we rebound rock ‘n’ roll go for it🦅

  • @RV_Chef_Life
    @RV_Chef_Life Před 4 měsíci +7

    I’ve always come to watch you be you and live on a sail boat. Just be you.

  • @MrHellfinger
    @MrHellfinger Před 4 měsíci +7

    I originally came to this channel to watch a young adventurer do something my life situation doesn't presently allow. What you and your friends did was impressive. Something I wish I would have done in my youth. The part where you fell apart because of what some young female said to you was where this train went off the rails. Move on. Keep sailing. Keep adventuring. The world is yours. Reach out and take it.

  • @mechanicdave80
    @mechanicdave80 Před 4 měsíci +7

    It's time to ride the rollercoaster of life with no seat belt and both hands up! LETS GO BABY!

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci

      Lol yes!!! Hands up…wait no seat belt 😳

  • @hughtravels929
    @hughtravels929 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Some of the best self help advice I ever hear was "you are enough"
    You're enough man that's it. We watch for you Joel. A lot of us envy the life you've lived. keep living brother, keep sharing. I'm sitting in my old sail boat in Tampa, up on the hard for 2 years now watching this video and wishing I could be more like you man. . I'm inspired by you to keep pursuing this dream of sailing and living free and living on a boat. I'm a bum on a boat to, too ashamed to share.
    Thanks for the videos.

  • @phishinfool
    @phishinfool Před 2 měsíci +1

    We’re living the dream, brother!! Life is short, live it to the fullest!! it seems like life is a roller coaster one minute you’re up the next minute you’re down!! Keep on truckin !

  • @ajnasreddin
    @ajnasreddin Před 4 měsíci +4

    Don't over think it Joel. We watch you because you are authentic. I think we all wish for you the best.

  • @Shellysgardening
    @Shellysgardening Před 4 měsíci +5

    Joel I watch your channel because of you, You have a great outlook on your life. Keep being you and this channel will grow more and more just being you. I wish you all the best in life and I see a very bright future for you ahead.

  • @kb1esx
    @kb1esx Před 4 měsíci +4

    Joel, Relax and try to enjoy yourself. We'll follow along. Life is a journey. That delivery sounds very interesting with everything going on in that area. Stay safe.

  • @satkhol2
    @satkhol2 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Wonderful Joel. It’s just life and the learning is in the living. Thanks for being honest and authentic.❤

  • @lynnlucas5171
    @lynnlucas5171 Před 4 měsíci +15

    Thanks!

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci +6

      Oh my!!! Thank you Lynn ❤️ That is sweet of you.

  • @modslot
    @modslot Před 4 měsíci +2

    Wow, nice self reflection there Joel. The best way to get out of any of rut is to take a critical look at the situation and make a change. Good energy.

  • @bobuncle8704
    @bobuncle8704 Před 4 měsíci +4

    The futures so bright I gotta wear shades. Let’s go baby. It all sounds so exciting
    Much love Joel.

  • @SeaYaSailing
    @SeaYaSailing Před 4 měsíci +1

    Bro...been watching for years now. And have seen you struggle from 3 guys on a boat, to boat romance, boat heartbreak, to you finding you. But....annunciation...every time you say "authentic" it comes across as something else....glad to see your back on the boat.. and look forward to the next videos....which I am catching up on... good luck ,,and fair seas.

  • @Shownup007
    @Shownup007 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Joel don’t look back all you’ll get is a stiff neck.
    Joel you know how many amazing beautiful women you will meet on your way around the world. I think you need to find a friend to go on the trip with you keep each other grounded and it’s more fun,
    You ARE the fortunate one Joel.
    You got it. ⛵️

  • @daveives212
    @daveives212 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Glad your back Joel. last year when things were not going well for you i let you know that you had inspired me to find my own boat and set out for some of my own adventures. Well I finally found the boat I was looking for she is a 26' Sea Ray Sundancer express cruiser, and well lets just say the name closed the deal. She is called BUM N ROUND lol so I am now Officially a "BUM on a Boat".
    Launching this spring for a tour around the great lakes, starting in lake Ontario from my home port of Niagara On the Lake.
    Thanks again for showing so many of us that anyone can step outside their comfort zone and try new adventures, life is to short not too.

  • @Sergio-gm4gv
    @Sergio-gm4gv Před 4 měsíci +2

    Looking forward to your next journey, take the risk and don’t look back.

  • @121dough
    @121dough Před 4 měsíci +3

    Alright, Capt. J. Part of this channel has always been about your life and growth, sailing or otherwise. Looking forward to good things in the future. Every road has potholes......the alignments are just part of life. Love ya, Dude.

  • @chrischapman2955
    @chrischapman2955 Před 4 měsíci +2

    We all have things that happen in our lives that knock us rudderless for a bit - I had one last summer. Im glad to see you are finding your footing again and look forward to seeing what lies ahead. Best of luck to you.

  • @ronpeterson7773
    @ronpeterson7773 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I had a few problems of my own to work out, took a break from all the sailing channels and my own boat. I never had unsubcribed from your channel!!!😊⛵️

  • @jonathanvince8173
    @jonathanvince8173 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Joel your so good I like how you speak and tell the story of truth and I think you will go far well done. Now what happened to you has happened to many like sailing Zingaro and sailing in to Freedom. I think you have done well to get through things. I wish my life was like the way you say.

  • @Mark-nc9ge
    @Mark-nc9ge Před 4 měsíci +2

    Well done! Good to see you back in the real world! Looking forward to seeing the delivery.

  • @fitmadefun
    @fitmadefun Před 4 měsíci +5

    Whether you like it or not, you're not in a terrible state of being, just a state of being. Good and bad are labels we apply to situations based on our judgements about them but these labels are not fact and by changing our opinion we change whether the situation is perceived good or bad. There is no such thing as good and bad, only seemingly good and seemingly bad.

  • @bruceallen9977
    @bruceallen9977 Před 4 měsíci +10

    recommend you don't bring the past up any longer ... go forward

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci +3

      Feeling that as well but I guess I just needed to address the elephant in the room.

  • @briangkerr2025
    @briangkerr2025 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Boab has been in my subscription list for years and is not going anywhere I will watch you til you are stubborn old man on a yellow trihull your outlook is just what us 401k stuck on land guys need live that life be amazing and make amazing trips enjoy the hot tea on a sunrise. Enjoy a beer at sunset life is meant to be free and you are doing it right. Be free and enjoy every cloud , and every butterfly

  • @bruceallen9977
    @bruceallen9977 Před 4 měsíci +3

    i'm 62 and with enough $ to buy a Lagoon 45 - i would switch with you RIGHT NOW ... keep that in mind.. you have the gift of youth and health... move forward... NOW

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci +3

      Youth and Health! So true. I'll be sailing with a young and healthy 60 year old on the delivery to Dubai!

    • @bruceallen9977
      @bruceallen9977 Před 4 měsíci +3

      health is the 🔑 - but never a certainty

  • @SamuelKTennis
    @SamuelKTennis Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hello Joel. 'Welcome back', not that you actually left, you just lest us high and dry for a while. Actually, the algorithm just stopped presenting your and I forgot to search.
    I still feel keeping the old crone recording from the early days is a good branding mechanism, it grabs my attention, cleverly reminiscent of Pirates of the Caribbean.

  • @joncozzi1701
    @joncozzi1701 Před 4 měsíci +1

    As long as you keep on moving ahead, that’s the thing. Love your channel been here since the get go, so LETS GO BABY!

  • @kindsailing
    @kindsailing Před 4 měsíci +3

    I used to have "Never take yourself TOO seriously." above my desk. It's something everyone needs a little help remembering now and then. Good for you for taking the time to try something new, realize it wasn't the right path, and get back on track. The important thing is to be true to yourself. If that means quitting making YT videos, or even sailing, that's your journey. We're glad you are back at it, though. We're doing an Atlantic Delivery from Virginia to Portugal starting the first week of May, maybe well see you "out there." We look forward to that story, too! Namaste. 🙏

  • @upinyou8
    @upinyou8 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I love you, brother. Be you do you be who you are it's always had me here since the start. Not going anywhere

  • @ronpeterson7773
    @ronpeterson7773 Před 4 měsíci

    Your videos have never been a joke, you have inspired us to try!⛵️

  • @robertscranton8293
    @robertscranton8293 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Peace be with you.

  • @maryjnorwood3962
    @maryjnorwood3962 Před 4 měsíci +2

    We’re watching, no matter what. OMG! That sounds so exciting!!! Can’t wait! Can’t wait! Can’t wait! 😎🥰❤️❤️❤️⛵️⚓️😎

  • @MrGazzaj
    @MrGazzaj Před 4 měsíci +2

    Always here to watch and support you Joel. Life is a beach!

  • @johnwalker6711
    @johnwalker6711 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Joel you have the whole world ahead of you mate why keep revisiting the past and bringing yourself down ? life is too short to dwell on the past get some people to join you on new adventures have fun be happy go sailing

  • @DLBard-bv2nd
    @DLBard-bv2nd Před 4 měsíci +2

    We all have ups & downs in life. Seeking a good life can be confusing and frustrating. If one thing does not work out make a note of that & try something else. If you love the out door life style don't chain yourself to a desk. It's not written that we must become a millionaire to be happy. Find what makes you happy and find a way to support yourself doing something that you enjoy. Don't let others push you into their mold. Focus on your dream. 🤗 Be honest, kind and work hard for that dream and you'll find joy. 💖 ⛵ S/V Cork~Texas 🇺🇸

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci

      Beautifully written and so true!! Thank you S/V Cork 🥰

  • @Rich_Lambert
    @Rich_Lambert Před 4 měsíci +1

    Good call on the back to basics change. Looking forward to your new adventures!

  • @joelw2023
    @joelw2023 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Wow, trip to Dubai sounds incredible! I've been watching since you and the original Bums stripped out the interior of Chak Matay, I tuned out a bit while you were in D.R...I'm glad you're sounding like the real Joel again. Dubai...and a Captains license...LET'S GOOOO!

  • @user-fj4zk7so8p
    @user-fj4zk7so8p Před 4 měsíci +1

    Glad to see you back on track:)

  • @eliciahalterman1961
    @eliciahalterman1961 Před 4 měsíci

    Love this video. You seemed way more yourself than the other ones :) We all have issues, you are right about that!! 😮

  • @rinkrude1
    @rinkrude1 Před 4 měsíci +2

    We [I] watched from the beginning to experience something most of us will never do. From the original adventure, to the romance, the hardship of being on the hard and all the boat work. That all took something most of us would not endure, and yet there you both were living the best life despite the challenges...and now there is one. You are in a Fishbowl so to speak and no explanation is required...just do it...we're watching. Capt. Keith's[Zatara] oldest boy Jack is going to school as we speak to get his Captains license. Zatara had recent episodes going through there, it should be interesting to see the difference between the two

  • @AmyMrsR
    @AmyMrsR Před 4 měsíci

    Admittedly, I was worried about you but, having recently gone through a huge event of my own, I understood what we have to work through to get to a place where we are ready to start healing. Didnt unsub... stuck it out with ya and i'm glad to see you incorporating the hurt and who you were into who you are now in a healthy way. Its all we can do at the beginning of a new season. Glass raised & cheers to a future life of stories and memories made :)

  • @Eoghanloughrey
    @Eoghanloughrey Před 2 měsíci

    Great video and great honesty within it - thanks!

  • @SMM-Mystery
    @SMM-Mystery Před 4 měsíci +4

    Joel, I love you and have been along for the whole 7 plus year ride. However, I have to say that you're losing it a bit. You're not out on the edge. You're hanging over it and losing your grip. Pull it together, just be Joel and move on. Here with for the next 7 years.

  • @pfeif1312
    @pfeif1312 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Perfect! “That’s what I should’ve done” brilliant, thx

  • @donostrand
    @donostrand Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks Joel good to see you back, can't wait for the new video's.

  • @gwenmarshall587
    @gwenmarshall587 Před 4 měsíci

    Sounds interesting, I'm looking forward to seeing it. I really enjoyed seeing Thomas and Linda again; I've known them since the early 1980s, before they were a couple. I hope you get to go thru the Suez Canal. It was the whole reason I went on that early 2023 cruise, and it exceeded my expectations. You are going to have a wonderful and life changing cruise. Enjoy, and thanks for sharing it with us.

  • @cjtn1746
    @cjtn1746 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Dubai! What a wonderful opportunity for you. Way to go!

  • @richienick
    @richienick Před 4 měsíci +2

    You're an inspiration Joel ...you always have been

  • @betageek66
    @betageek66 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Joel, Alex from Luperon here. Your trip on the Privilege is going to give you experience that you could gain no other way in terms of what it takes to prepare for and cross an ocean, both physically and psychologically. It's gonna be great. Not a lot to see out in the middle of the ocean though...no wildlife and even the stars are not that great. Lots of clouds though lol. See if you can get to the Swizzle Inn in Bermuda...my card is on the ceiling near the bar with thousands of others from a Bermuda race lol. Hope you have a great trip, and hope you get back to Luperon some day...the poker tables misses you.

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci

      Alex! So great to hear from you here in the YT comments:) miss you and the Luperon family greatly and also miss taking your money 😉 Na, it was never about the money but the relationships. That is what makes Luperon so amazing, the community and relationships. I am looking forward to gaining this experience and I’ll be looking for your card. You can’t keep me out of Luperon forever!!

  • @TheJono13
    @TheJono13 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You're definitely right, we all are going through our own stuff. Looking forward to the Dubai trip! That's a big one. 🤜💥🤛

  • @CarlBradbrook
    @CarlBradbrook Před 4 měsíci +1

    You're still an inspiration mate! Looking forward to see your cross the world trip. Go for it!

  • @scottwinters4236
    @scottwinters4236 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Working on yourself is much like working on your boat, always something to improve. Men tend to hide our emotions when we should reach out for help.I am proud of you Joel. Please keep making content I love watching you work threw problems. Kaizan is a Japanese word meaning constant improvement. Look forward to calling you Captain one day. Cheers my brother.

  • @juliazentner681
    @juliazentner681 Před 4 měsíci

    Fun video.. entertaining. Well done.. flaking out is 100 best way to go out!

  • @nutbaridea1097
    @nutbaridea1097 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Failure is not an option, you are the master of your own ship. The best part about Rock bottom is the journey to the top

  • @sailingsomeday5975
    @sailingsomeday5975 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Welcome back!

  • @johnmikel5934
    @johnmikel5934 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Love ya man, do what you feel necessary, don't be so nervous. You'll do well trying to focus on one thing a time. Plenty of places to go, maybe Argentina or throughout the coast of the USA. Stay clear of the middle east. Sail to Indonesia, Malaysia, contact Follow The Boat or Sailing Nanji

  • @MitchellEdwards222
    @MitchellEdwards222 Před 4 měsíci +1

    First thing is knowing where you want to go. Who goes get in a car and say to themselves "Where am I going? No! You have an Idea of somewher you'd like to go, Right?

  • @fogduker3131
    @fogduker3131 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You will always have us joel.

  • @donaldbolen9371
    @donaldbolen9371 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Sailor stories aren't always about boats and the sea. Thanks for sharing yours with us.

  • @rockylamb1767
    @rockylamb1767 Před 4 měsíci

    I chose the career life which lead me away from the ocean but I sometimes wish I’d taken your path. Many of us watch to live vicariously through your much more adventurous lifestyle. Also, being a captain at some point is an awesome goal to work towards, go Joel go!

  • @johnzidek7605
    @johnzidek7605 Před 4 měsíci

    Joel, just keep doing what made you successful in the past!! People love to see you succeed and probably even more love to see you fail. Most people don’t go to a car race to see the successful winners but go to see the car recks.

  • @CemeteryShop-yg6gi
    @CemeteryShop-yg6gi Před 4 měsíci +1

    I watch because I’m interested in getting my own boat for my retirement. Thankfully after seeing how much work it is, I’ve learned it’s probably too much trouble for an old man. So thanks for helping me see what the future might have been.

  • @patraic5241
    @patraic5241 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I figured you were making some bank so that you could continue your journey. That's perfectly OK. You won't be the first and you won't be the last to do something like that. It's a great education in sailing in store for you.

  • @MouseToes
    @MouseToes Před 4 měsíci +1

    I will watch whatever content you put out here! I do hope you release the 7 you have already ready slowly as I would like to see what you did on the catamaran. Keep doing YOU.

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Awesome! I have not been able to edit them yet and have decided to save them for later. I’ll be working hard to edit the videos in Chak Matay to get them out each week. Happy to have all of that great content for future videos.

  • @williamsaunders4315
    @williamsaunders4315 Před 4 měsíci +1

    It's gonna be EPIC!! Let's go baby! ♥

  • @ryanwaite3947
    @ryanwaite3947 Před 4 měsíci

    Just go with the flow. Nobody is judging you. You are a good narrator that's why people follow. Your content can be whatever!

  • @californiakayaker
    @californiakayaker Před 4 měsíci +4

    Wow, I had no idea that was how you got to Dubai ! Be very careful of course, some of that is dangerous territory.

  • @stanparsonstreeinc
    @stanparsonstreeinc Před 4 měsíci +1

    Gilligan you are the star .

  • @sidsin6879
    @sidsin6879 Před 4 měsíci +1

    First and foremost, be safe in your delivery/adventures. Secondly if anything and I mean anything seems off during the trip, go live go live go live. Go live twice if necessary. We love ya and we got you! 🏴‍☠️🏴‍☠️🏴‍☠️

  • @MitchellEdwards222
    @MitchellEdwards222 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You're back Baby!

  • @SailingBrickHouse-RVLife
    @SailingBrickHouse-RVLife Před 4 měsíci

    Hey Joel. I can relate to getting lost in your channel. Me too… I like you and your authenticity and open-ness. Keep it going, yep we all need to take ourselves less seriously… ecspecially me… don’t give up the channel. I for one get some laughs and some ideas from the crazy shit you say :) Smile :)

  • @mikepelz7004
    @mikepelz7004 Před 4 měsíci +2

    That voyage is going to be EPIC⛵⚓

  • @martinjancar7398
    @martinjancar7398 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Just stay as you are.. and take care of you and your boat. I too have a Carter and learn a lot from your experience.. :-)

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci

      Awesome! Love meeting fellow Carter owners ❤️

  • @CarlBradbrook
    @CarlBradbrook Před 4 měsíci +2

    I think one of the funniest things I saw you do was walk down the street in the pandmc with that gas mask on your face hahahahhaha :-) AND when you were did the ".....someone's gonna win a prize" hahaha Keep going mate and remember all the good times and good vibes you've shared...

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci

      Bahaha! That’s so funny. Good times. I hadn’t realized yet that it only filters the air coming in, not going out 🤣 oh man scraping every inch of that boat with a bloody wood chisel 😅 that’s what I’m talking about. Thanks mate.

  • @histufly
    @histufly Před 2 měsíci

    But enough about me. Lets go sailing and share the adventure. Your biggest contribution is your willingness to jump in even if something is new for you. That may be easy to find.

  • @biffmister941
    @biffmister941 Před 4 měsíci +1

    great video. I am subscribed for a long time . I have only watched a few in a long time, because I got out of sailboat theory. I think it is way cheaper and more comfortable to just live on a small budget on land in an apartment in an affordable country. Anyways I think there are many music videos saying a similar thing.. (maybe about dealing with stuff in your mind. ) yes I can relate, or I would not be posting now.

  • @user-oo6jo9sg4f
    @user-oo6jo9sg4f Před 4 měsíci +2

    I am •SUPER• EXCITED for you Joel!
    Please HOLY SPIRIT watch over Joel as he navigates his life & boat on their •Grand• Adventure.
    🙏🦉
    🌊⛵🌊🌅

  • @aaronrodd1662
    @aaronrodd1662 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I've been watching from early days. At first it was like watching a train wreck 😂. The more I watched the better your got. It's been great watching you progress in your knowledge of sailing and navigation as well as boat maintenance and improvements. If nothing else you have given fuel to many peoples dreams. Keep being you!

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Lol yes! A train wreck that was hard to look away from. It’s amazing when I see the other two and how that time in their lives was a spring board to their current lives which are rich with love and success.

    • @aaronrodd1662
      @aaronrodd1662 Před 4 měsíci

      @Bumsonaboat it was hard to watch initially. Lol. I grew up around boat building and have built boats myself. You have come a long way. Knowledge that will serve you for the rest of your life. Once the ocean is in your veins it never leaves. Maybe you can sail her up the west coast one day. The pacific northwest and the inside passage is magical. Although a little cooler than what you are currently doing. 😆

  • @Hunting451
    @Hunting451 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The best is yet to come. 🖖.

  • @archie-cm2lk
    @archie-cm2lk Před 4 měsíci

    It’s tough out there. Partners keep coming & going, wondering who will be your next partner on the sea.

  • @andreaizumoto9180
    @andreaizumoto9180 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I was hoping you would say yes to the Dubai trip. Adventure on!

  • @jonhansen100
    @jonhansen100 Před 4 měsíci

    Hey Joel. Long time, no see. Just checking your pulse today. IMO (worth what you paid for it); less monologue, more boat DIY and cruising. Let's go! It's a sailing boat channel for Pete's Sake. See you soon.

  • @captvaghunter
    @captvaghunter Před 4 měsíci +1

    I like the maintenance parts and sailing to raves stuff you do . Id like to watch you go to "festivals"

  • @mechanicdave80
    @mechanicdave80 Před 4 měsíci +3

    The full quote is: "Don't take life too seriously, you'll never get out of it alive."-Elbert Hubbard US author 1856-1915
    Been living by that and a little Hunter S. Thompson style for decades. You can never lose yourself if you stay true to yourself.

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Love it man. There is no doubt that you stay true to you my friend. 🏴‍☠️

  • @frankd2301
    @frankd2301 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Authentically!

  • @frankd2301
    @frankd2301 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Joel. I’m in the DR in Sosúa. I’m close to Lupiron and think of you and Chak Mattai.

  • @donnykincaid8133
    @donnykincaid8133 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hear is some good it advise my grandfather used to say time heals all wounds. Being heart broke socks but something good will happen

    • @jimwing.2178
      @jimwing.2178 Před 4 měsíci

      'Time heals all wounds' can be true, but 'time wounds all heals' can also be true. It all depends on how the individual plays the cards that have been dealt.

  • @pontoonrob7948
    @pontoonrob7948 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Your sailing videos are cool. I'll watch those. If your going to post one of the self help videos please put a disclaimer at the top.

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci

      Bahaha I’ll be sure to do that!

  • @Sailingon
    @Sailingon Před 4 měsíci +1

    When we watch you we are watching bums on a boat. Which to us is all of us we join you on your boat once a week and love to get lost in a lifetime we would love to have

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci

      That is so brilliantly said. Thanks for the feedback. This gives me a new perspective on filming 😁

  • @mikegregory222
    @mikegregory222 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Bleed those hoses🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @duanemiller5606
    @duanemiller5606 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Ever since the incident you’ve been going through a flux, you even thought about changing the name of your channel which we live viewers and others such as your patron supporters talk to you out of I mean, think about it sailing good bad, and ugly is no longer a sailing channel. Foxes afloat used to be about long boats on the British canals. Now they are farming channel. These channels didn’t change their name even though they changed everything else about their lifestyle and most of their loyal followers keep watching just like your loyal watchers, such as myself, and others kept watching you. I personally didn’t have a problem with you on the catamaran and found it quite entertaining. I figured that was something to take up time seeing how your friend who came to help you got injured and had to go back to the states. Thought maybe you were just Giving him time to heal. Guess I was wrong there. Turns out you were trying to get more experience and knowledge which is always a good thing. As they say, never stop learning. Anyways, still subscribed still enjoying the channel you take care and have fun.

  • @mackagerton4860
    @mackagerton4860 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I expect to see a video every week.Good or bad or ugly.

  • @davidhakes3884
    @davidhakes3884 Před 4 měsíci

    I think you tried to say "We are All Teachers and All Students" I felt SO bad for you when your Love dumped you, Damn Hurtful. Been there done that , takes a long while to get over. I see you doing very well Joel, Keep the chin up and enjoy yourself young Man.

  • @CuriousHumbleMarie
    @CuriousHumbleMarie Před 4 měsíci +2

    *Just food for thought Joel.* I starting watching your videos because I love watching young sailors exploring this world and growing…but it seems like there wasn't any growth for awhile and I stopped watching then the breakup came. I didn't unsubscribe because I see YOU and your kind soul and wanted to support your channel. I sense your current struggle and have empathy because I too have struggled because of multiple and serial hard losses that were difficult to overcome. At the beginning of my healing journey, I too started reading and watching all the self-help gurus; however, I struggled to heal for a long time because that was not enough plus it’s very difficult to come to clear understandings and make wise productive decisions when you’re stressed and pained as you probably know. I later learned to let go of my ego and take responsibility for the bad decisions that led to my suffering; learned to meditate and handle anxiety; learned to be present and not be in my head all the time - still wasn't enough. I went to therapy which I highly recommend…it’s amazing how much verbalizing things helps and it taught me to let go of the false beliefs/stories I had about life and myself that I learned when young from family dynamics and my parent's behavior & words (although they were good people just trying their best too). Plus it was good to learn how to effectively communicate and have honest hard conversations when needed instead of pushing everything under the rug. I learned to not judge, make assumptions, forgive, and have compassion and I started liking myself better but therapy was still not enough. Being active and exercise helped but something was deeply missing. I started learning about science, the universe, the earth and everything in it, the electro-magnestism force around us, (possiblities related to the string theory, multiple universes, etc.), the forest and fungi communication, our brains and bodies, etc. etc. and MARVELED how crazy spectacular it all was - yet was amazed about how little we know and understand. I came a long way and I knew how special every single being and life is but I still couldn't be free of all the negative thoughts, worries, and pain to just be happy. Then I studied and learned about all past and present religions and spiritual beliefs from people who had spent their life studying them plus learned the teachings from past and present great spiritual men especially the Buddha and Jesus - that was amazing but I was still lost and broken. Then I freakin learned about quantum physics and quantum entangledment and BANG it all came together!! I now know God is not a man in the sky but something scientifically amazing…it is something strangely incredible that we could never understand (that is why Jesus taught with parables). Somehow everything and everybody is connected and we simply need to love. I don't know how it works but somehow our connected energy or something starts working in harmony. However, I do know that life is hard when living in negativity and life will somehow throw you lessons to learn when living with ignorance. Just be you Joel and know that living with love and kindness AND with a bit of *wisdom* is all that is needed to be on the right path and have a joyful life. It’s not magic…just spooky action at a distance as Albert Einstein said! Well that’s my story and I hope it helps. I'm better now and try to carry light and love within me everyday which I hope positively helps people that I connect with. I'm now grateful for all the hardships because I have evolved into a better human being. But we are imperfect humans so I make it a *daily practice* to pray/meditate/be present to stay connected and mindful of what’s important - as well as allow myself grace and to others. I wish you all the best on your healing journey Joel…just keep learning and evolving with love in your heart and I'm sure all will be well. 💙

    • @Bumsonaboat
      @Bumsonaboat  Před 4 měsíci +1

      I can not tell you how much I enjoyed reading this comment! What a journey you have been on. I had some laughs and some aha moments. This must be one of the coolest things about what I do, getting to connect with people like you all over the world and share stories and experiences. Thank you for sharing!

  • @bkbroiler8069
    @bkbroiler8069 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Dude it's a sailing vlog. Do videos of fixing your boat and sailing your boat. Maybe introduce us to the people you meet and the cool places you visit. Keep it simple.

  • @sailingadventuress5489
    @sailingadventuress5489 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Losing someone doesnt define you, brother.

  • @nirad6766
    @nirad6766 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Jigsaw puzzle falling into place, Joel. Let it manifest. Continue forward. The past is water under the bridge, and you're the captain of your vessel. Full steam ahead, captain! Looking forward to your future adventures.