Opinionated Daughter Thinks Mum Looks Like A Curtain I Say Yes To The Dress UK

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 14. 02. 2022
  • Bride brings her daughter to her appointment. They do not see eye to eye when she finds her dream dress.
    From season 3 episode 17.
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  • @sn.m
    @sn.m Pƙed 2 lety +1087

    The daughter may be opinionated, but seemed to really want her mom to look great. She was trying to boost her confidence in her own way. Rather sweet that the daughter wants her mom to look stunning. But the mom's choice was good. Just wish that, flower was not so huge. That cut and colour suited her beautifully.

    • @FightingIncorrectStereotypes
      @FightingIncorrectStereotypes Pƙed 2 lety +23

      I agree about the flower! I absolutely love that dress
 It is totally something I would buy for myself, but that flower would have to go! I would replace it with a touch of bling in that same spot. Just a small little sparkly touch.

    • @karashahbazian1847
      @karashahbazian1847 Pƙed 2 lety +27

      I think daughter was actually correct in her assessment but mom prevails .....just wish they tried one more dress because I bet they could have found one that everyone agreed on. That's why you bring people with you to these things

    • @susanburke3722
      @susanburke3722 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      @@FightingIncorrectStereotypes she could get the bling with a necklace & bracelets. I personally don't care for the shoulder straps or whatever they're called, but I'm glad she found a dress she liked for a great price.

    • @judithloper7419
      @judithloper7419 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@karashahbazian1847 the problem is they take too many people!

    • @helenapettersson2083
      @helenapettersson2083 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Couldn’t agree more!

  • @aleeshasimonebijliwala1485
    @aleeshasimonebijliwala1485 Pƙed 2 lety +616

    Unpopular opinion : I think the consultant put a lot of pressure on the bride, making her settle for what she thought was her last option

    • @LaurieAnnCurry
      @LaurieAnnCurry Pƙed 2 lety +15

      Same

    • @daniipieper2486
      @daniipieper2486 Pƙed 2 lety +66

      Especially rushing from dress to dress on that day doesn't make any sense: "We don't have much time, try another one!" But why?! There weren't many options anyway and the time within the appointment shouldn't be so rushed. I understand the 72 days problem, but not how it makes a difference to rush from dress to dress on that very day... That's just making more drama for the show.

    • @jes550
      @jes550 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Definitely!!

    • @jinchuriki83
      @jinchuriki83 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      Totally agree... she freaked her out a bit

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Pƙed 2 lety +23

      She didn't settle in my opinion. She genuinely looked ecstatic with the dress.

  • @Humpp2
    @Humpp2 Pƙed 2 lety +689

    The consultant was awful, constantly telling her we need to hurry and there's limited dresses stressing the poor women out

    • @mellie4174
      @mellie4174 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      It's the pressure sales tactics

    • @caitlin8349
      @caitlin8349 Pƙed 2 lety +13

      I thought it was for the cameras

    • @angelicpearl25
      @angelicpearl25 Pƙed 2 lety +30

      Appointments are usually booked for an hour long, generally. There's an extra half hour that is used for clean up and then they're straight into their next appointment. So if you take over an hour and a half then you're using up the next person's appointment time. Also in regards to ordering, she's right, it takes about 5-8 months generally to order. Even more time if it's cut to order. Many shops have very few sizes to try on, let alone sell off the rack. -A bridal stylist

    • @miraheil5521
      @miraheil5521 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      Rude she was. Not even helping the lady off the platform.

    • @MsNoPixel
      @MsNoPixel Pƙed 2 lety +14

      Because they most likely were
 she doesn’t have all day, each consultant in places like these have many appointments & only have limited time they can spend with each client. There’s a BIG difference between rude & honest, she was never once rude, she was honest tho. I’m not tryna be an asshole but if you think someone saying “we’re almost out of time” in a pleasant tone is being “rude” than you’re a bit of a snowflake & need to stop being over dramatic because she was anything but rude, she was honest, trying to do her job & at the end of the day had zero complaints about how she did it from the actual customer. I find it funny though how you someone who isn’t involved complain & get so worked up over something that you were involved in yet the people who were involved said she was a pleasure to work with & that she gave her all & then some being she cut into her dedicated “clean” time between appointments to make sure this bride got her dress, the bride wrote a blog about her experience & she had no bad words to say. Also keep in mind that you see 8-10mins of cut together footage from appointments that run 1-2hrs so you base your opinion on nothing really, also it’s a reality tv show, they’re always edited to look a certain way, legit just watched a video from a bride the other day who said the SYTTD YT video made the experience seem super dramatized when in fact it was anything but & again that’s because it’s reality tv, the producers & editors specifically do things to get reactions out of people in hopes you’ll tell people about it because no matter if your opinion is good or bad you’re still promoting their show for free. Just a few things to keep in mind.

  • @connieramsey6798
    @connieramsey6798 Pƙed 2 lety +744

    I think it’s beautiful that the daughter sees her mom as young and vibrant. She was critical but in the sweetest way.

  • @karinamarocho2091
    @karinamarocho2091 Pƙed 2 lety +698

    I'm with the daughter, the colour and style made her look older, but she's happy so that's the main thing.

    • @Violet316
      @Violet316 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      They should have jacked her up. If she had some jewelry and some sort of veil and her hair done up better which she probably will do or did on her wedding day.

    • @Winner4HIM
      @Winner4HIM Pƙed 2 lety +4

      It made her like she said “the dress was more for her age being a mom”! The dress fit her age much better than the last one.

    • @tcconnection
      @tcconnection Pƙed 2 lety

      It's the only thing

    • @ShelbyZealand
      @ShelbyZealand Pƙed 2 lety

      I think they just needed to open the neckline a bit. I liked it otherwise.

    • @Lwah0812
      @Lwah0812 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

      The color was horrible, my first thought was gray

  • @tcconnection
    @tcconnection Pƙed 2 lety +547

    What's "right," " pretty," "flattering," is what makes the bride feel happy. The rest is just a conditioned perspective, exposure, etc. Good for the bride! She deserves only support.

    • @justmere3796
      @justmere3796 Pƙed 2 lety +20

      Thank Goodness for YOU & YOUR COMMENT Because You are Someone who is actually on the Brides side and Not People who think They know what Fashion or Style Everyone should be wearing!! For Goodness sake, Aren't we all individuals? 🙄 😑 😒

    • @trisanatandler
      @trisanatandler Pƙed 2 lety +10

      She is really happy with it not sure why her daughter is so against it. The bride has to feel good in it not her ❀.

    • @phoenixrising6245
      @phoenixrising6245 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

      Couldn't agree more. It seemed 'the consultant' was primarily concerned in persuading the future bride to buy any dress, because of the limited time.....as she repeatedly reminded her. Awful!
      Good on the bride for standing her ground when it came to her final decision.Her body language changed when she was wearing the dress she, ultimately, chose. I thought the dress was perfect for her.

  • @mindyw2411
    @mindyw2411 Pƙed 2 lety +207

    With proper undergarments and a size that fit, the first dress would have been amazing on her. Her daughter just wanted her mom to see herself as the beautiful woman she is. I’m happy that the bride found a dress that she was happy with, though. That’s the important thing.

  • @blooddragon805
    @blooddragon805 Pƙed 2 lety +48

    Good for the bride to stand for what she liked, but I’m with the daughter on this one. The first one looked amazing on her ! If the consultant had tried to boost her confidence instead of rushing her, she would have seen that.

  • @angeliquejackson1591
    @angeliquejackson1591 Pƙed 2 lety +174

    I was so annoyed with the consultant constantly telling her to hurry up.... Anyway love that she found her dress

    • @Phoenix.219
      @Phoenix.219 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I think I read on the website that they get 45 minutes only.. The bride didn't have much time left for dress shopping so maybe the consultant wanted her to hurry so that she can try more and find some sample size to fit in..usually they have to find just what style they like.. Here they had to find sth they liked as well as fitted right off the rack

    • @angeliquejackson1591
      @angeliquejackson1591 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      @@Phoenix.219 i get that but it's an already anxiety inducing situation. Imo the consultant was a bit overwhelming and didn't help the situation as she could have.

    • @winniekaranja2434
      @winniekaranja2434 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      Most episodes I've seen this consultant she is mostly arrogant and doesnt really care if the bride likes the gown or not.

    • @_kikizaman_
      @_kikizaman_ Pƙed 2 lety +1

      I have bpd, anxiety, and adhd; which makes me EXTREMELY sensitive to stressful situations under pressure. If I’m late or almost late, having someone constantly yelling at me to hurry up will make me dissociate, and will make my anxiety explode until I’m an overwhelmed yelling and crying anxious mess. I don’t think they understand how stressful it can be, especially for a decision as big as this. If I were in this situation, I just wouldn’t be able to control my emotions. I don’t yell or express my emotions around strangers because I also have extreme social anxiety, but I’d probably go into the changing room and have a full fledged panic attack. They should definitely be more mindful of peoples anxiety, because this would just ruin my dress shopping experience 100%. I think letting someone know that they just have to get the dress on, get the opinion, and then move on because they’re a little short for time is ok, but constantly badgering about it can ruin somebody’s experience. And it can also pressure the bride into getting a dress not because she loves it, but because she was under pressure.

    • @jenniferpearce1052
      @jenniferpearce1052 Pƙed rokem

      She wasn't talking about "hurry up today" She was talking about "hurry up, you have 72 days."

  • @mns24
    @mns24 Pƙed 2 lety +266

    The dress did flatter her and everything worked out. If the bride feels she looks silly in a sparkly dress she shouldn’t go for it just coz her daughter likes it.

  • @mravina1614
    @mravina1614 Pƙed 2 lety +80

    You are NOT too old for that dress! Girl you looked like a queen!!!!

  • @marshhen
    @marshhen Pƙed 2 lety +363

    She looks great and of course I understand she as an emotionally mature person, wants to feel comfortable and at ease in a more structured dress. It is reasonable the teenager can only see it in terms of fashion. But adults who try to appeal what what a teenager believes is fashionable make themselves look a little silly. I am so glad the mother stood her ground. Too many mothers think they are teenagers and they just make foolish choices as a result. Full respect to this bride.

    • @ravenblack7052
      @ravenblack7052 Pƙed 2 lety +25

      Absolutely agreed. Glad that mum stood her ground.

    • @niman00
      @niman00 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      I think mom made the right choice, it's flattering, it looks good on her, let her be her. the daughter will have her day.

    • @C0rvidC0rpse
      @C0rvidC0rpse Pƙed 2 lety +8

      ok but why should you have to go for an older look just because of age? If i’m 70 and still want glitter and bling idc how old i am i’m still getting glitter and bling

    • @Teresa-ch3og
      @Teresa-ch3og Pƙed 2 lety +3

      I think the mom looked beautiful in the dress she picked. The color is perfect for her. She wants to look mature and it's her choice. You could tell she felt confident in the dress and her confidence will be more youthful than if she was wearing something she didn't feel comfortable in.

    • @jenniferpearce1052
      @jenniferpearce1052 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@C0rvidC0rpse If you're comfortable, you'll probably carry it off. But at my age and weight, I don't think I could carry off the tulle ballerina princess I would love to be!

  • @kmorris2371
    @kmorris2371 Pƙed 2 lety +26

    I agree with the daughter. I'm not a fan of the dress. I didn't like the other dresses either. But with only 72 days left to pick a dress she didn't have much to choose from. As long as the bride liked it, that's all that really matters.

  • @aileenmccarthy8660
    @aileenmccarthy8660 Pƙed 2 lety +205

    I agree with Chloe, it did look like a curtain or an 80’s prom dress...there had to be another similar shaped dress in that store!!

    • @carolinpurayidom4570
      @carolinpurayidom4570 Pƙed 2 lety +11

      It suited her tho and thought it looked good on her I personally don't like the dress but it suits her and she's happy.

    • @kelliemarieross
      @kelliemarieross Pƙed 2 lety +21

      @@carolinpurayidom4570 i didn't think the neckline suited her at all..

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Pƙed 2 lety +12

      ....Disagree. The dress was gorgeous and she looked fabulous in it.

    • @stephanieyee9784
      @stephanieyee9784 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      That dress is definitely a 1980s throwback and the flower is Hideous. But the bride loves it and feels good in it which is the main thing.

    • @alisonfraser8231
      @alisonfraser8231 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Well, the 80's was a golden age of dresses. I miss things with actual fabric and lots of it.

  • @oisheesen7949
    @oisheesen7949 Pƙed 2 lety +149

    I don't think the daughter went about it the best way, but I really think she was coming from a place of wanting her mom's dress to celebrate her beauty and not just hide her insecurities. She probably should have realized that even though she might not see it, this dress was doing both for her mom. Glad the mom got what she wanted!

  • @ingridmckernan5102
    @ingridmckernan5102 Pƙed 2 lety +289

    Glad the bride stuck to her guns. She looked stunning in the gown that she chose!! ❀❀

    • @2Cambell
      @2Cambell Pƙed 2 lety +6

      I liked it too! It's very romantic.

    • @werkmsa1806
      @werkmsa1806 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Just posted the same comment and hadn't even read your comment yet! 💯🎯

  • @reginaphalange4182
    @reginaphalange4182 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    It's nice to finally see a bride on this show who's able to stand up for what she wants. The daughter just wants her to be happy, so everyone wins.

  • @Purelight1960
    @Purelight1960 Pƙed 2 lety +36

    I'm not a fan of the huge flower, but I love everything else about the dress. She is right, she needs to feel confident in her dress and no one else can determine that for her. Steal of a deal.

  • @sammckendrick9021
    @sammckendrick9021 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    The assistant was not helping the bride, but continually highlighting we don't have time, we are running out of options

  • @moonlightanushka968
    @moonlightanushka968 Pƙed 2 lety +13

    It was uploaded 9 minutes ago and I'm already here 😭😂 I need to get a life 😂 I'm obsessed with these

  • @blueice011
    @blueice011 Pƙed 2 lety +49

    I feel that people tend to be very defensive when it comes to 'she's the bride' moment and inputs that may not agree with general take on supportive role that entourage is suppose to have. Yes, we know she is the bride and of course that she is the one who should make the final decision. However, I feel that her young daughter is misunderstood. I feel the daughter picked up on true reasons for her mom's choice - she seemed to be rather harsh on herself and unable to see beyond her body image related insecurities - for no real reason, actually. Her figure is lovely, but she can't see beyond lumps and bumps and has chosen the dress that addresses them. Minus the flower, that was a nice dress, however, it doesn't do much for her. The color is not flattering, the cut is not too bad but she looked better in first dress IMO. She just needed the right size and alterations. I feel the daughter meant well, trying to make her mom to see how beautiful she was. It wasn't about the dress at all.

  • @renukhaarjune4907
    @renukhaarjune4907 Pƙed 2 lety +85

    She could have definitely gotten a prettier dress within her budget that suits her figure(she does have a wonderful figure for a mom)

    • @eileenmcdonald1599
      @eileenmcdonald1599 Pƙed 25 dny

      Yes she may have. If she had shopped much earlier . waiting until 72 days before the wedding you don't get many choices.

  • @stelladowsett7151
    @stelladowsett7151 Pƙed 2 lety +10

    I don’t think the consultant put the bride at her ease at all about timeframes etc. Bring on Gok, who doesn’t see problems just gorgeous brides-to-be.

  • @Poisenivy5
    @Poisenivy5 Pƙed 2 lety +62

    I’m so glad she stood up for herself. I’m sorry the daughter didn’t understand, it definitely is how the bride ‘feels’ in the dress that matters most. 💝

  • @gabbsdy8741
    @gabbsdy8741 Pƙed 2 lety +71

    that dress is really PERFECT.
    For her body shape, for her age, for her hair, for her tatoos.. it is just so beautiful, she looks amazying!!

  • @joyandrus1717
    @joyandrus1717 Pƙed 2 lety +16

    It's not appropriate nor appreciated that the consultant states with the time frame you may have to settle for what we have. Those words alone would have made me realize that she is about the sale and not about me. Her OPINION of what anything looks like on me would be invalidated by that alone. There is nothing like a "CAR SALESMEN" attendant that would make me run the opposite direction. I personally would have requested another representative or left. That representative would not be welcomed
    Edit: I do like the dress she choose but would have loved to see it jacked up

    • @triptibadlani3038
      @triptibadlani3038 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      omg I agree plus I hated the dresses she picked out like all the other fishtail dresses in the shop would've been much more flattering than the one she picked out.

    • @donnabuttery9316
      @donnabuttery9316 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      I agree with you the consultant was not only negative with a fakish smile but also appeared rushed which I felt was making the bride to be anxious....(appreciate could be the editing though)...I did love the to be Bride in the dress she chose and shoulder line to me suited her body art ....❣❣

    • @eileenmcdonald1599
      @eileenmcdonald1599 Pƙed 25 dny

      Very appropriate when you have limited choices due to size. And budget and time.

  • @vripp757
    @vripp757 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    I loved her decision to stick with what she loved. I also loved, "I know me best, and this is me".

  • @lisa-marie_9993
    @lisa-marie_9993 Pƙed 2 lety +36

    She’s not big at all? Seems like the whole appointment was about her weight..

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Pƙed 2 lety +4

      Not her weight. She was concerned about her shape due to the C-Section

    • @priscillasaravia
      @priscillasaravia Pƙed 2 lety

      @@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat yep. That’s my issue. Oh my goodness it can be traumatizing. Before the c section I could wear anything. I understand her

    • @eileenmcdonald1599
      @eileenmcdonald1599 Pƙed 25 dny

      She was the one not happy with her own body image

  • @RS-mt5js
    @RS-mt5js Pƙed 2 lety +29

    I happen to agree with the daughter here that it looked like a 90's prom dress and was not at all flattering. The bride was so conscious despite having a gr8 figure and could have done much better with the budget she had. But to everyone their own and since it's her wedding day, it's her choice.

  • @christinareid1527
    @christinareid1527 Pƙed 2 lety +14

    I love how mom stood her ground !! She got what SHE wanted

  • @giigarver
    @giigarver Pƙed 2 lety +53

    It looks like the shop didn't make much efforts in trying to find more options.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Pƙed 2 lety +12

      they had to sell her a sample so they were limited by what they had already in her size (which is tough if you're not a standard sample size) and what they were allowed to sell (sometimes they're not allowed to sell samples for new dresses because they need to be able to sell the dress to other brides).

    • @bevwilkinson2853
      @bevwilkinson2853 Pƙed 2 lety

      They are limited in what they can sell off the rack, most dresses in the shops are samples and the dresses are ordered in, that's just how it works in bridal!!

    • @eileenmcdonald1599
      @eileenmcdonald1599 Pƙed 25 dny

      Samples do not come in every size and stylbe. That would be very, expensive . that is why when you are getting married you really need to shop for the dress as soon as possible you give time for its making to your specific wishes and size needed.

  • @carmenmiranda2288
    @carmenmiranda2288 Pƙed 2 lety +81

    Oh, yes mom!!! It's a beautiful dress, gives you a fabulous figure and you DO look like a regal princess!!! All the best . . .

  • @ireneangelucci3733
    @ireneangelucci3733 Pƙed rokem +7

    I actually really like the dress she went for. Nowhere near looking like a curtain, but I know the daughter means well. I also personally love the colour on her, very classy

  • @ladyjustice1474
    @ladyjustice1474 Pƙed 2 lety +52

    I like the silhouette of the 3rd dress. There are only 2 minor changes I would make to the dress. The 1st is the flower. I'm thinking a small cluster of rose buds would look nicer. 2nd The shoulders of the dress definitely needed some tailoring.
    I'm happy she loves her dress. Best wishes.

    • @gooberfries6692
      @gooberfries6692 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      Absolutely. Tweak that shoulder bust are, upgrade the flower, and add a simple but glitzy belt or diamond broach at the waistline. Totally good.

    • @hotrod66ify
      @hotrod66ify Pƙed 2 lety +4

      I agree with you about the changes. That would look nice.

    • @suerasley7237
      @suerasley7237 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      The dress is gorgeous from below the bust, I don't mind the flower at all but , it's dreadful from the bust up. She may be a mum, but the that area made her look far too matronly.

    • @vmurt
      @vmurt Pƙed 2 lety +5

      @@suerasley7237 I think that part just needed some minor tailoring -- it's meant to be more of a bardot neckline, but she had it arranged differently b/c it was a bit big there.

    • @kathyalexander1984
      @kathyalexander1984 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@gooberfries6692 beautiful dress

  • @dhqnekiesha3871
    @dhqnekiesha3871 Pƙed 2 lety +44

    100% agree with the daughter... She looked better in the 1st 2 dresses.

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Agree. The daughter was misunderstood. She wanted her mom to realize how beautiful she was and that she doesn't need to make a choice based on her insecurities. She picked the dress that covered her body issues best, not the best dress. Which is legitimate, but sad. I see where the daughter came from. Love.

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Pƙed 2 lety +2

      100000% disagree with you and her daughter

  • @leslie-annjones5321
    @leslie-annjones5321 Pƙed 2 lety +17

    The constant reminder that "it's 72 days away" I'd making her more nervous than she should be but the last dress was gorgeous on her,she looks so beautiful, elegant

  • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
    @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 Pƙed 2 lety +33

    At Last!!! A bride who doesn't have to have permission from someone in their entourage before saying YES To The Dress!!! Good on you, Mum!! đŸ€—đŸ™ŒđŸœđŸ‘đŸœ

  • @nadiaoneill3570
    @nadiaoneill3570 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    I'm sorry but the daughter was absolutely right.
    If we disregard personal preference for style (and by this I mean how dowdy that dress is) and just look at some of the more objective things:
    That color is probably the worst she could have gone for. She's a winter and that sort of oyster shade her dress had washed her out.
    Rewatch the last to dresses. Pay attention to her skin, especially in her under eye area. The second dress complements her skin tone much better whereas the last one washes her out.
    Now the neckline... I'm but it's just not a good choice for her. The second dress actually had its waistline in a very good place for her.
    I wish they could have gotten her a simple, structured A-line dress with a corset, in a white satin material and a neckline as far away from that last dress as possible. That would have been been so flattering on her. She's a beautiful woman. She could have looked so much better in somthing that would still suit her style and preference.
    Oh and to quote her daughter "I hate the stupid flower."

  • @sophitsa79
    @sophitsa79 Pƙed 2 lety +29

    I feel sorry for mum who thinks she is too fat and old to wear a sparkly dress. I think the teenager was speaking to her personality, not fashion. I believe that clothes should reflect your personality more than whether you're a mum, gained a few kgs, or any other cultural factor

  • @moonlightanushka968
    @moonlightanushka968 Pƙed 2 lety +46

    As a fashion Student , hear me out : the daughter was right it did look like a curtain and that's because of the fabric and it'll kill her to get it straight because it's almost impossible to iron it and get it straight . The flower placement is only making it worse . ( There are a lot of other factors but i won't bore you with that ) But at the end of the day the biggest thing that matters is what makes the bride happy and confident so happy for her . Also i love her daughter , she was honest but not rude or disrespectful and at the end of the day wanted best for her mum and was extremely happy for her even if she didn't personally like the dress .

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Pƙed 2 lety +7

      the color and the texture are a bit offputting but DAMN does it nail the silhouette she needs. the ruching, the A-line skirt, the way it splits in the front to make her look even tinier at the waist was all exactly what she wanted and needed. they could probably take the flower off completely and it would still look good on her. i do hope they do a better job altering those straps because they look like they're coming up to choke her.

    • @poponachtschnecke
      @poponachtschnecke Pƙed 2 lety +7

      It does seem like the mum accidentally went for a dated look because she thought it was more mature. It just seems like it was what was in fashion when she was in her early 20s

    • @christelgeldenhuys2208
      @christelgeldenhuys2208 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      As a dressmaker this dress compliment her figure. The color is beautiful and when her makeup and hair is done it will just be beautiful. With more time she could have tried on more styles, but in the end it is what she is comfortable in. Sometimes daughter's think they know best.

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Agree entirely. People get so triggered by this type of content. The daughter came from the place of love and well intentions. Her mom was choosing the dress to hide her unfounded insecurities in it, not the right dress for her. She didn't have any pronounced body issues - that few extra pounds or mommy belly can be dealt with proper spanx undergarments and right size of the dress. The chosen dress did nothing for her. It was actually a bit young, meant for taller person and the color was off. She would be much better off in the first one in her size (out of the 3 she tried on).

  • @suedoyle4526
    @suedoyle4526 Pƙed 2 lety +20

    I think she made the right choice. It’s a beautiful dress and she’s gorgeous in it ❀❀❀

  • @mariannemilkshines2390
    @mariannemilkshines2390 Pƙed 2 lety +74

    I am so glad the mum stuck to her guns. She looks beautiful and its a perfect dress for a grown woman.

  • @louiseparisotto3630
    @louiseparisotto3630 Pƙed 2 lety +13

    Yeah! Glad the bride stood her ground and got what SHE wanted and felt comfortable in!

  • @carau7237
    @carau7237 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    It doesn't matter what anyone says if your uncomfortable and self conscious you will not enjoy your day! The mother was so beautiful and young looking and I'm so pleased she got the dress that made her feel attractive. You could see the daughter loved her Mum just hasn't lived enough years yet to know that it's more important to feel like yourself than trying to wear something for another person's opinion. Loved this episode 👏👏

  • @uilikoasino9529
    @uilikoasino9529 Pƙed 2 lety +77

    The mom is right though!the ball gown makes her look like she's trying to be young.

  • @suekuba3617
    @suekuba3617 Pƙed 2 lety +20

    She looked fabulous in the dress that she chose it was perfect for her the daughter will come around

  • @peaceiswithjesus8568
    @peaceiswithjesus8568 Pƙed 2 lety +12

    I love the dress she picked! It looks perfect on her!

  • @ninas2279
    @ninas2279 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    I think the last dress was a great style for her. I think all that needed to change to make it look even better is to have the sleeves more “off the shoulder” and it would be stunning!

  • @Jonat2Go
    @Jonat2Go Pƙed 2 lety +15

    Kudos to the mum! She looks amazing, and it was a perfect fit for her. I would say that I think her body looks fine, but I understand the self-consciousness about things. I hope she has an incredible wedding day!

  • @donnareeweeks6180
    @donnareeweeks6180 Pƙed 2 lety +10

    I agree with her daughter .

  • @samsamsam4790
    @samsamsam4790 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    that dress looks amazingg, vintage and timeless

  • @WiccanRai
    @WiccanRai Pƙed 2 lety +24

    Ultimately I do think the bride's choice matters the most and if she felt like that was the dress for her, then that's it. But I feel that her daughter's heart was in the right place and was actually right about that last dress. It looked 80s or at best 90s style. It also looked like it didn't fit properly on the shoulders, which is an issue if they really are short in time, it was also very wrinkled and I don't mean the design, I mean the material looked like it needed a good iron. In saying that, I did not like the consultant here. Whilst, yes, they only had 72 days before the wedding, her repeating that over and over was unnecessary and must have left the bride feeling rushed. The first two dresses were over budget and they also looked like they'd need a fair bit of altering to fit properly. Which may have contributed to the bride's feeling of unease when trying them on. The consultant did little to make the dresses look as good as they could have, with clips or whatever to hold them on in the right places. I felt like she was trying to rush them through the appointment. They had 72 days, not 72 hours. Are they really that limited with off the rack dresses? Sadly I feel that the bride was so caught up with the thought that she was bigger (which she really wasn't that big at all), a mum and an older bride, that she had to dress like that and not as a pretty woman who deserved to look like a woman first and not as a mum. I hope I'm making sense.

  • @runnerwithendo6970
    @runnerwithendo6970 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    While I respect Mum, of course, I thought the colour of the dress she chose drained her. It just wasn't flattering. I hope she had a great wedding but I just didn't like the dress.

    • @looloo4029
      @looloo4029 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      I thought that the dress drained her and made her look washed out too. Thought I must be wrong until I read your comment. I am relieved that someone else saw that the colour didn’t suit her.

  • @barbarafischbach8480
    @barbarafischbach8480 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    I love what she chose! She was glowing

  • @zeljkameznaric6047
    @zeljkameznaric6047 Pƙed 2 lety +11

    Great mother!!! KNOWS what SHE wants!!!! Listens to her own heart! GREAT example to set for the daughter - know what you want and how you feel about it, so go and get it, no matter what anybody else thinks or says!!!! Have a great weadding day and fabulous marriage, darling! You deserve it for carring your own head on your shoulders! And how lucky is the man that got you for his wife!

  • @miladydewinter7770
    @miladydewinter7770 Pƙed 2 lety +64

    She looked lovely and that dress was perfect for her --- very sophisticated. Her daughter would have had her walking down the aisle trying to look like Barbie.

    • @janetyoung6097
      @janetyoung6097 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      The daughter doesen't realize that is no such thinh as barbie and that the toy is a figment of Mattel company.

    • @elizabethmcmullen5845
      @elizabethmcmullen5845 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      What is this obsession ,,"you look like a princess , ' when apart from Diana's monstrosity, has any one else in the Royal family wore such a dress I think these young ones watch to many Disney films

    • @miladydewinter7770
      @miladydewinter7770 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@elizabethmcmullen5845 Yes, I think the daughter has watched FROZEN far too many times.

    • @jenniferpearce1052
      @jenniferpearce1052 Pƙed rokem

      @@elizabethmcmullen5845 As someone who was a toddler when Diana got married, I grew up with the idea of beautiful dresses being big poofy gowns with puffed sleeves. Even Anne of Green Gables thought so! I don't think Diana's gown was a monstrosity. It's just not current fashion or old enough to have vintage cachet.

  • @RPEACHES54
    @RPEACHES54 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Mom knows best! That dress was stunning in her!

  • @taniamagaly1514
    @taniamagaly1514 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    I love how they're both right

  • @mariposavioleta9007
    @mariposavioleta9007 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    This is one time I actually agree with someone other than the bride. Her daughter is right the first dress looked amazing her and with the right shapewear she wouldn't have to worry about the area from her c-section, which looks completely fine but I understand it's how she feels. She looked more slender in that first dress than the other two dresses.

  • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
    @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 Pƙed 2 lety +14

    I feel the daughter, even though she's a bit blunt. I'm very close with my mother and she's so insecure sometimes and doesn't realize how pretty she is and goes above and beyond to hide her true body and self behind things that aren't beautiful just cause she thinks she doesn't deserve them, not cause they're actually her taste. So I sometimes get frustrated for her and tell her she doesn't look good or what she would look good in.

  • @oliverkitkat6860
    @oliverkitkat6860 Pƙed 2 lety +12

    No 3 is her dress looking fab girl x👍

  • @judithbowtell8294
    @judithbowtell8294 Pƙed 2 lety +15

    Love how the consultant said "she has confidence issues" about a part of her body rather than saying she needs to hide it! She seems kind and supportive!

  • @Salomeii
    @Salomeii Pƙed 2 lety +4

    I have to agree with the daughter. It looks like a prom dress.
    Yay, if she likes it, it's her day but you wouldn't catch me dead in that thing. lol

  • @LisaLGruman
    @LisaLGruman Pƙed 2 lety +7

    Love the third dress. So absolutely strange the daughter’s being so stubbornly insistent. Glad the mother/bride remained joyful and steadfast.

  • @denisemanley5318
    @denisemanley5318 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    I think it was a safe pick. I loved the other ball gown better on her. She could wear a bling necklace to sparkle it up for her daughter, but it’s her day. So glad she found something!

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Pƙed 2 lety +1

      take off the flower in alterations and put a blingy brooch in its place, or a sparkly belt. that would jazz it up a bit.

  • @Dawnrebah
    @Dawnrebah Pƙed 2 lety +19

    I couldn’t imagine only trying on a few dresses.
    The dress she chose deff looked dated and a little dingy w the color. I bet another mermaid style could have suited her better. The daughter was just trying to help 🙃 I would love a daughter like her.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Pƙed 2 lety

      she was definitely in the right silhouette (please stop trying to shove women with tummies into mermaid gowns) but her selection was already limited by the time constraints. if she wanted to try on more dresses she would have had to go to another shop.

    • @Dawnrebah
      @Dawnrebah Pƙed 2 lety +6

      @@dietotaku Iv seen tons of curvy women look amazing in a mermaid dresses that flares out. It compliments an hour glass figure which is what curvy women already have.

    • @blueice011
      @blueice011 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      @@dietotaku She didn't have any pronounced body issues. At all. Anything that bothered her could have been solved with proper spanx undergarments and the right size of the dress. Her daughter was right. The bride was dressing her insecurities and there was no need for that. She meant well.

  • @user-hx7mi7ml8u
    @user-hx7mi7ml8u Pƙed 2 lety +3

    I didn’t care for the 3rd one. It looked too much like an older style prom dress. Didn’t care for the ivory color and big flower either.

  • @pamelastokes2964
    @pamelastokes2964 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I'm very proud of this lady. The dress is absolutely beautiful on her!

  • @bibble1023
    @bibble1023 Pƙed 2 lety +25

    I’m with the daughter, that dress isn’t it

  • @pennylehrer1306
    @pennylehrer1306 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    She didn't give herself much time to find a dress. Agree with the daughter on the one she chose. But the bride is happy and that's what counts.

  • @The_Moving_finger_writes
    @The_Moving_finger_writes Pƙed 2 lety +11

    She does look like she’s going to prom in 90’s

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Pƙed 2 lety +1

      damn and to think when i went to prom in the 90s i was wearing a black velvet sleeveless sheath with embroidered red roses...

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer Pƙed 2 lety +1

      I went to prom in the 90's and no one wore dresses like that.

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      Worst it looks like she pulled her dress from her 89s prom. She looks so old and dated.

  • @melissayoutube
    @melissayoutube Pƙed 2 lety +3

    I hope I feel as beautiful at my wedding in just over 2 weeks

  • @shilpabhardwaj_fantasygirl90

    I love the dress she chose. & She's right. It suits her much better than the princess dress.

  • @werkmsa1806
    @werkmsa1806 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    So glad she stuck to her guns, and didn't let her daughter sway her. She looked gorgeous in that gown!

  • @graphiquejack
    @graphiquejack Pƙed 2 lety +5

    The dress is almost Victorian or Edwardian and if that’s the style she likes, okay. I think she could have had a dress with an a-line that wouldn’t be tight around her stomach but not full like a ball gown. Maybe not so heavy a fabric. But honestly, it’s not bad at all. The daughter needs to cool her jets. It’s not her dress.

  • @marciabenson9371
    @marciabenson9371 Pƙed rokem +1

    That 3rd dress was stunning!

  • @clwbchbabycakes
    @clwbchbabycakes Pƙed 2 lety +19

    Brings her the matronly gowns with sleeves 😞 instead of a corset to pull her in. Worst consultant I have seen on any of the syttd shows. Then puts her in a dress that looks like it's made from a drop cloth. 🙄 Chloe would be a much better consultant.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      They may not have had any sample dresses with corsets in her size. Remember that this is a small store and she only has sample dresses to choose from because of her time frame.

  • @absolutetruthgirl
    @absolutetruthgirl Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I think the consultant was very clear about the very few options open to this bride. She kept the appointment moving and didn't show her dresses above her budget. And really...who leaves 72 days until the wedding with no dress? She had a low budget and no time to get a dress made. She's lucky. The dress was lovely. The daughter didn't get it. There's no room for "I don't like it" when you're unprepared.

  • @julieannejoolz
    @julieannejoolz Pƙed 2 lety +6

    It was the best dress for her and looked great on her, this is one time the daughter has to take the back seat and support her Mum ❀

  • @Sanikaaaaaaaaa
    @Sanikaaaaaaaaa Pƙed 2 lety +7

    It makes her waist look good , it's just not that great at the shoulders and the flowers is a bit off putting . But oh well , at the end of the day , it's important the bride is happy ❀

  • @krossepanda
    @krossepanda Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Her daughter is so sweet, not in an obvious way but shes trying her best to make her mom feel good about herself

  • @jehovahelohim3314
    @jehovahelohim3314 Pƙed rokem +2

    The dress mom chose is beautiful đŸ€©

  • @suzannesenser607
    @suzannesenser607 Pƙed 2 lety +11

    The bride is beautiful! The dress is the perfect color, it shows offer figure, shows off her tattoos, add maybe a string of pearls or something, and she's stunning! I'm glad she stood up for herself. Plus. The daughter seemed to have forgotten they only had a limited pool of dresses to choose from.

  • @123drpat
    @123drpat Pƙed 2 lety

    I loved the 2nd dress, but I'm glad she left happy with what she picked.

  • @lupechacon-florez7520
    @lupechacon-florez7520 Pƙed 2 lety

    The dress looked gorgeous, elegant perfect on her. Hope she’s very happy.

  • @zilzil7368
    @zilzil7368 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    lol i do not like it - she looks like shes trying to hide herself. I think she could have found something that highlighted her attributes more. It kind of looks matronly

  • @ThePrInCeSs910624
    @ThePrInCeSs910624 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    The consultant not helping at all.. 😅😂 Anyway I'm happy for bride..at least she found her dress..

  • @Joyyeah520
    @Joyyeah520 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    Team Chloe here lol. The dress's look is so outdated...it does look like a 90s or 80s dress like Chloe said. The fabric, the color, the big flower, the ruching...I'd have the same reaction as Chloe if it were my mom wearing itđŸ˜”â€đŸ’« Anyway, what matters is that she loved it and found it perfect for her❀

  • @mollypinto4666
    @mollypinto4666 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    What a beautiful woman. I mean inside out 💓 May she have a wonderful happy wedded life 🙏.
    Her daughter is a sweetheart 😘💕

    • @Jerseygal30
      @Jerseygal30 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      I don't see her daughter as a sweetheart. When her day comes would she like her mother poo-pooing the dress she loves??

  • @eringemini7091
    @eringemini7091 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Good on you Mom!!👏You look stunning in that 👗!!

  • @Burlykim13
    @Burlykim13 Pƙed 2 lety

    That laugh after the daughter said my job is to tell her if she looks awful. Uh-ha-ha. đŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚

  • @kellywarren8228
    @kellywarren8228 Pƙed 2 lety

    I love the dress. She looks just fabulous! She made the right choice.

  • @poponachtschnecke
    @poponachtschnecke Pƙed 2 lety +4

    I think the bride might be equating "young" with current styles. Not saying her dress looks bad, but it does look more like styles from 15 years ago.

  • @yvonnemccullaghward361
    @yvonnemccullaghward361 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Hate the assistant keeping saying ‘We need to hurry we are running out of time’ adding to brides anxiety. Does she have another appointment
there is 72 days and other shops !!

  • @melissashilkoff
    @melissashilkoff Pƙed 2 lety +5

    I am so happy she went with the third dress! She looks amazing in it and I absolutely love that color on her

  • @alisonfraser8231
    @alisonfraser8231 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Absolutely gorgeous! No idea what the daughter was going on about. The mother was right about her lack of understanding of a mature lady's concerns. I'm sure she will look amazing on the big day and her daughter will eat her words.

    • @eileenmcdonald1599
      @eileenmcdonald1599 Pƙed 25 dny

      This mature lady. Obviously knew nothing if she has a daughter this age and now twins. Bought a dress already then changed the wedding date and was clueless about the time needed to make a new dress for her changed body

  • @rachelmm05
    @rachelmm05 Pƙed rokem +1

    When you wait until the last minute it actually is very hard to find a dress... those 1st 2 dresses shown were beautiful but definitely didn't fit for the mom. She lacked the confidence.. the 3rd dress shown was beautiful and better suited for the mom. I'm glad that mom told the daughter if she wants bling on her day she can have it but shed wanted beautiful and elegant

  • @mpo2706
    @mpo2706 Pƙed 2 lety

    The daughter loves her mother so much. It's so nice to see đŸ€—đŸ„°. she wants her mother to look stunning on the day. Her mother however loves the more traditional dress and she was beautiful and happy in it regardless. Afterall the most important thing is how the bride feels in her dress.

  • @RockyMtnRebecca
    @RockyMtnRebecca Pƙed 2 lety +6

    I'm very glad she stuck to her guns and did not let the daughter to tell her what to do. The dress she chose was indeed the most flattering and I liked it.

  • @martyfuller7837
    @martyfuller7837 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

    Why not just be happy for your Mom since she loves the dress!?