Staying Friends & Other Lies about your EX | + Hate Comments + Astrology
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- EP 64 - Hot Takes Only: Staying Friends with Your Ex, Period Sex, and Shrek
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Is it getting hot in here? Jess and Caroline confront some hot takes with even spicier answers, but first: they talk the perils and plights of internet feedback-on CZcams and Instagram. Then, get ready to discuss the correct pronunciation of “espresso,” the unspoken meaning of “likes,” the one that got away, Venmoing friends after dinner, staying friends with your ex, and period sex.
You’ll also hear their thoughts on the smaller details of life, including toe socks, unscented candles, Shrek, astrology, and of course, toilet paper. Okay, so maybe their takes were lukewarm, but were you entertained? Check.
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Hi everyone 🧡 Caroline here! I am just reading through the comments this morning and want to say a few things. First, I really appreciate everyone trying to bolster me through the negative commentary. After sitting with this alone for the past few weeks, it does feel nice to hear other voices. Thank you for the words of encouragement.
It also opens up an entirely separate conversation that I think has been on my mind a lot, and that I particularly struggle with. The idea of the binary good/bad. Either "I am good" OR "I am bad". It's flawed thinking when it comes to human beings, but it's a binary I get caught in. It's a conversation for another day, but I bet a lot of people relate, so maybe we can dive into it another episode.
Sounds like your CZcams channel is…not for everyone
Caroline, I would love to listen to a deep dive conversation on the binary "good/bad" epidemic that is current pop culture. I see it in my Gen-Z kids' harsh judgment and find myself & my fellow Gen-Xers at a complete loss. Our celebrity heroes were hardly perfect but I feel like we were much more open to the fact that we're all flawed humans. How did we get here? Why is society so eager to condemn? What happened to the notion that life is full of nuanced gray areas? People evolve & change over time. We need to stop judging someone solely based on one tiny piece of the puzzle that is a life. Love your content, btw. Keep being the amazing human you are!
I appreciate all you choose to share, Caroline. To say you are lovable, there is no assessing what’s good/bad. It’s just all love 🥰
Getting to witness you being all in-love & enjoying companionship lately just makes my day! 😌 I’m giggling right there with you 🤭
I came to comment in defense of your relationship , but I see others are supporting you in that department so that’s really nice to see🧡. Regarding your question about people being all good/ all bad ,
An episode about it would be very interesting
Do you know of the book mastery of self? Or mastery of life? I remember reading about good/ bad, black/ white thinking and how that’s not a helpful or positive way to see other human beings
Cancel culture (not saying that's what the redditors are doing, just in the general sense and especially on the Internet) emphasizes the binary/good/bad. Also saying that in response to fellow-commenter who mentioned the way they see Gen Z feeling compelled to label things as definitely good or definitely bad.
Some food for thought / some pods you might appreciate --
- Fucking Cancelled (also one of the hosts, Clementine Morrigan, has a great Substack)
- Sleepover With Carolyn and Laila (lots of convos on the non-dualness of it all. one of the co-hosts is the author of Existential Kink)
- Dare to Feel (more abstract as to say how this applies, yet I find a lot of permission from this host / author Alexandra Roxo. Something she's said that has stuck with me for years now is that I don't need to be just one thing, I'm not a brand, I don't have to be flattened into something two-dimensional)
They get into the very nitty gritty places I think you're pointing to.
Love y'all so much. Xo
Caroline, those two videos about you finding love are a masterpiece and I really hope someone will make a movie based on your stories. The story about you and Roomba is my favorite love story of all time, no beasts, no twists, but the twists of emotion and perception, ingenious, yet not a fiction, breathtaking, love love love! By the way, Jess and you both are such extraordinary story tellers!
They are a masterpiece! I thought of them of one of the best videos so far, choreography, humour, roasting yourself... that was top notch quality content!
Fuck that the ‘how I found love’ video was the bomb! It was absolutely awesome
I sincerely don't understand the overshare comment - it implies you need to be together forever. Love can be beautiful and intimate and shared and then over... and still meaningful and worthy of being discussed. Love doesn't have to be forever to be real.
Those hate threads are horrible. (I haven’t stumbled across yours, just in general).
The stuff people say and do… it blows my mind. The level of projection, the lack of empathy, the entitlement. It’s not you Caroline. It categorically is not you! Those videos were god tier CZcams content! X
I loved those two "how I found love" videos. I found them HILARIOUS, even just the pointing with the retractable pointer (which I thought was some type of bizarre sex toy for the entire first video, and made it even funnier) kept cracking me up. I also loved the way you shared each experience, it was hilarious but still had nuggets of wisdom... and overall it was CLASSY! I liked that you didn't disparage any of the ex's and made it more about your journey through life and love. Your balance of personal sharing, humor, wisdom and curiosity is something I appreciate in all your videos and are qualities I am striving to achieve in my own life. ❤
Caroline, please don't change your tactic or your style. You are so so appreciated by so many people. You are the best! (Jess you are the best too). Please don't change ANYTHING in your approach. The videos in question - wonderful wonderful wonderful
Hot take: when you get a gift in a gift bag and you aren't sure if there are more things in there because of all the tissue paper but don't want to search around to see so as not to offend the giver like "oh this can't be all that's in here"
Protect Jess at all costs !! I'm sorry if this is redundant / you already did this, but make sure heavy frames are hung with molly bolts and / or in a stud. Protect Caroline at all costs!!! I'm sorry about the naysayers, they are confused. -- your last video series was hilarious and helpful. I sent it to one of my best friends who is feeling stuck and burnt out in dating & looking for love. Because it was really reassuring to me, feeling in a very similar place.
I love y'all, xoxo
(p.s. -- "the one that got away", for me, means that I believe the way I handled things on my end negatively affected the final outcome and that I regret some of my decisions -- means that I could've done better by that person. I don't actually use the phrase, but I mean this is what the phrase evokes in my mind)
I purchased a home in Jan & found you through decor content, stayed for your personality. Now here I am enjoying the heck out of y’all. I post about food & the hate even grapes🍇 get is wild. Haters will hate about everything and anything but the ppl that love you LOVE you.
I'm over here feeling like the only period haver on earth who is the one who bans period sex. I bleed very heavily though.
Just here to say I loved your video about your past relationships and finding love. I actually feel like we've been on a similar situation with being in a 4-5 year on and off relationship that was difficult and hard to leave, then enjoyed being single, and then finally finding love in the last year 🥹 I don't usually comment on videos often, but I loved it and want you to know. Definitely not an overshare. More like a funny video that also is relatable and encouraging.
12:35 noo, dont let the haters shut you down from sharing with those of us who care and relate and are excited to hear your stories/”oversharing”/relatable content. ❤
About Caroline's wall on her last video, those were my thoughts:
"Wow that's such a creative trendsetting decor. If I were to try that I would look crazy, I wouldn't pull it off"
😂
I loved those comedic videos! This discussion was really interesting to me. I got divorced after twenty-five years and three kids, and we both wanted to be good parents, so obviously, you can't drop your co-parent from your life. Now it's been fourteen years, kids are grown up, and I think Caroline's "like a brother" description is very apt, because there's a lot of distance, but also an appreciation of a big part of my life. The other thing was that I got an annulment as a Catholic, which was so weird, because on the one hand they give you a forum to give your accounts, and we kind of had the same take on things, but then they just say, well, it was never "real," and ultimately, I decided that was maybe true on some spiritual level, but false on all other levels of life. We're both remarried, but sometimes I just think, just admit, we did our best, we made a mistake, and it's okay.
Dear Caroline,
I'm so sorry this hateful comments found their way to you. I too would be quite devastated reading bad stuff about myself.
But who writes this comments in these forums? How much time do these people have? How little is going on in their life to find the time and effort to participate in this hate?
I can't even find the time to comment the good stuff I always want to say when a creator posts a great video I liked!
Please keep your elan, keep making videos you love, keep ruining your walls for us. We appreciate it! And screw those reviews of the flimsy cork. Liars! May the positivity stick to your thoughts like the cork to your wall ♡
Honestly, Caroline, those people who wrote comments that had hurt your feelings... I just couldn't help but to think "these people did something absolutely stupid - just dumb". What a mistake to 1) NOT listen to what you had already said your intentions for the videos to be and 2) send an unkind opinion to the person who worked so hard on the video they chose to watch . I'm certain that none of these people would be people you'd actually want to be friends with. The internet is going to internet (and its often awful in ways that are completely uncalled for) so posting personal videos on the internet is extremely brave. I want to let you know that I see you as incredibly brave. And those videos are valuable. I find them valuable. Sometimes I feel like a train wreck and instead of spiraling in those feelings, I'm hit with a positive dose of reality from one of your videos. I'm convinced that even your most critiqued videos are, at the same time, a reminder of hope and friendship to others. Not everyone who finds value in these videos will write about it in the comments section. And I think those impressions go much, much deeper than anything negative. If people are bothered by something, that has to be a very surface feeling because... Well, there are bigger problems. But if someone feels thankful and inspired and feels like they can resonate with another's stories, that is deep impact. And I hope that speaks volumes to your heart when you look over the reactions of others.
Also, when you state your intentions for a video's purpose - remember that there are people who do listen. Like me! And we respect what your thought process is behind it. 💛
“You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain.” -Alfred Pennyworth
A little melodramatic? Maybe. But please don’t stop making podcasts or CZcams videos! I wouldn’t ever try to downplay how hurtful those comments are or invalidate that experience, but those comments say wayyy more about the people posting than about you. I look forward to Not For Everyone and your personal channel videos every week!
Commenting here because I cant comment on Spotify, but I didnt realise how much I needed this podcast in my life. Thank you so much, I'm only up to episode 5 but you've already worked through so many of the things I have been seriously struggling with lately. I cannot express how much I appreciate you both for taking the time to deep dive into things I don't feel I can talk with anyone else about. You're both fantastic, crazy, gorgeous humans and I hope you keep at this, you've got a beuatiful thing going. Thank you 🙏💙
Coming down here to let yall know that I love and support you both as content creators to the absolute freakin MOON!
I loved and fully got the point of your recent relationship vids Caroline, the people who focused on the things they complained about literally ignored most of the content of the videos
My father-in-law is dyslexic and says “Valentimes”, “Arch - ee - tek (architect)”, and “psycho” instead of “psychic”. There are more I giant decal right now. I had to teach my husband to pronounce Valentines correctly. His little sister was also saying it like Pops. They grew up with their dad’s pronunciation because their mom’s first language isn’t English… Even though she says the words correctly 🙈.
Caroline, I am so sorry about whatever you read on Reddit 😭 I hope you're able to remember that reddit sort of self-selects for people on the Internet that have complaints and like to complain, so please remember that for every critical comment you have so many viewers that think highly of you and your work! we're just not all on that subreddit to down vote comments.
I exclusively use unscented candles since I’m allergic to most scented candles. Whenever i tell problem this they’re like “what’s the point of an unscented candle?” I’m using candles for the cozy vibes guys not for the smell.
I loved Caroline‘s videos about her dating history! To me, she was sharing a piece of her self to encourage others to hang in there, and keep going until they’ve found the love of their life! Haters gonna hate.
Blowing up is such a double edged sword, isn't it? Even as a follower or viewer or fan or listener the feelings can be complicated when someone whose content or art you love is having their big moment. On the one hand you wish this person all the success in the world, but on the other hand you know that the distance between the person and their audience is going to get infinitely bigger. You have to protect yourself and your wellbeing, but that also means that the relationship to your following changes.
Just wanted to share that this podcast and Caroline’s videos have enriched my life incredibly. You two bring up interesting, sometimes deep and sometimes light and humorous topics that I love to bring up to my family and friends, and together try to figure out life a little bit more. Your takes are relatable and often make me feel seen. Sometimes they challenge my opinion and I appreciate that too. Anyway, thanks for being here. :)
Hey Caroline! I loved the love videos (and all your videos tbh). I think it’s so funny that people complain that it’s an over share. It’s your life and CZcams channel, you can share whatever you please. If they think it’s too much they don’t have to watch. It’s your art and I think a lot of people enjoyed it and got value from it. But the most important thing is that hopefully you got value from it. Maybe people who share comments complaining can go buy themselves a Hater hat 😊
I think it was very sweet video because I love real love, and I can tell you're genuinely happy and secure in the relationship. I think the reddit opinion came from someone who themselves are uncomfortable with vulnerability in life and love, or haven't experienced that type of relationship for themselves. I really appreciate your voice on the internet Caroline, and that you've been so authentically yourself
Dear Caroline, your videos are perfect and we simply love them. I shared them to my friends and you made a whole bunch of french followers here in Montreal Canada. Thank you both for your podcast. You make my day every thursday !!! 😊🌷🌷
The mispronounced words are so interesting to me, especially some of the examples you two gave. There's actually a linguistic phenomenon, I wish I could remember the fancy word for it, but basically it's combining words in a way that results in the mispronunciation. So for "expresso", it's taking "espresso" and mixing it up with "express" because of the association with caffeine = energy = fast. For "laxadaisical", it's taking "lackadaisical" and combining it with "lax", as in "she has a really lax approach to her work".
The expresso one is even simpler, "espresso" means "fast", or "express". It's the same word in a different language and the two are almot identical.
Jess, I have been complaining (to nobody) for years over "expecially" You are my soulmate of the week!! Thank you so much for being smart and normal! I've never commented on a video before but this one really fired me up. Caroline, I'm a huge fan of your videos and think you're brilliant, beautiful, and funny. Your willingness to be vulnerable out in the open in this cruel world is inspiring. I'm a big fan of you guys, please keep the videos coming.
"Punkin pie"....drives me up the wall.
Those two videos were BRILLIANT and people are idiots 😁
"people have observed damage" when Caroline was talking about her head just made me guffaw 😂
Just dropping in to out myself as someone who watched (and enjoyed!) both timeline videos as they came out but still wondered to myself “What’s that brown situation peeking out from behind the swatch art?” when watching a subsequent video. 😑 That’s on me. Anyway. WAY here for the Caroline In Love arc. Very happy for you and very appreciative of the content you put out!
Its impossible to have no negative reaction to what you do, especially if it's interesting. You can't or shouldn't be for everyone. First, your feelings are valid. Second, I think its incredibly brave to talk about your relationship the way you do, and of course entertaining. Third, please know you bring a lot of joy and laughter to many people with your work! Forth, fuck 'em.
I have the same foot sweat problem! I found that wearing Smartwool socks takes care of it! Give it a try, just socks
Don't go changin', Caroline! The end of that video was so precious and made me giddy for you. Actually went back and just watched the end a few times because it was so sweet!!!! ❤
You had me laughing while I was getting a crown at the dentist yesterday. It might have been the nitrous, but I had a good time either way. I appreciate you kooks, whether you're getting me through a dental procedure or the average Thursday at work.
If people feel you overshared your relationship video then they are people who are most likely closed off and unable to be vulnerable. So your vulnerability triggered them. Says a lot about them and their own issues! The video was so funny, sweet and highly entertaining. Don’t let those types of stick up the butt people influence you from being yourself! ❤️
We love you the way you are, Caroline! Many people only know how to complain.
Laughed out loud at “finding his mother’s corpse covered in period blood” (truthfully disappointed it didn’t get a bigger laugh from Jess), and the folded vs crumpled TP discussion. I’m personally a folder and kinda confused how crumpling is better but I’ll have to try it later!
Also your take on being friends with exes is in fact the correct take.
As a married woman who found her person after A LOT of searching, I LOVE seeing you happy with Justin. (I loved that video!) That feeling is the best and I wish it for everyone. How dare some bitter commenters out in the ether steal your joy. No such thing as oversharing in my book. Vulnerability is best, but yes, hard on the internet full of broken and lonely people.
Oh guys, no no no - toilet paper is amazing! I am telling you as a person who lived in a country without toilet paper! Trust me, toilet paper is a bliss
Chris Brown, okay?
Expresso, not okay?
Thank you for the entertainment
Yay, a new video!
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I just finished your last video yesterday and was sad it's over.
Gladly now the sun is shining again!
☀️😅🧡💜
sorry to hear that the haters were getting to you. i loved your video. hearing your perspective on yourself in previous relationships w the benefit of hindsight helps people identify their own patterns, & feel less shame about interpersonal struggles. you’re also hilarious. thanks for what you do 💛
Thursdays are just the best days to travel to the office because I know after a long work day I’ll have my favourite podcast to listen to.
Caroline, that 2 part video was pure art, and the ending was amazing! Such incredible rhythm and it left me feeling so happy and moved. I excel at seeing both sides, but in this case, those neg comments are not valid. Sorry not sorry lol. It wasn't random or over share-ey, or yucky in any way. I think your content is reaching new highs, snotty people unfortunately exist, and please don't stifle your creativity because of internet excrement. Sorry I'm cross and losingy ability to express myself properly. 😂
I don’t understand how anyone could have any issues with the how to find love videos and frankly I don’t want to know any of those people ❤
Y’all should make “I’m basically a scientist” merch. Also, I stand by my belief that merino wool socks are the best for sweaty feet. I even wear merino gym socks in the summer - they’re awesome.
Jess, I laughed so hard when you said “do you think you may have had a little coma” (paraphrasing)…. I was thinking concussion 🤕 LOL. But it was so cute when you asked Caroline about that.
Also, you were moved off of your bed 🛌 just before that wall frame 🖼️ came crashing on your bed. You were protected!!!! Caroline too, when the mirror did its thing when she was a young child. ❤❤
Woohoo! Just needed NFE!❤
I'm glad others feel the way i do regarding your love video! Screw those hater assholes! They were projecting, re their sad, depressing lives!!! It was FANTASTIC!!!
people that hang out on the internet telling other people how they are living their lives wrong are probably not smart people. and when people i consider to be not smart tell me im doing it wrong/bad, i take that as a compliment and carryon doing exactly the same thing with even more vigor lol. youre doing great and anyone that says otherwise is likely sad and projecting 🙂 💗
An old boss of mine who also smart, and a mentor to me early in my career, would - on a daily basis - call her morning meal "breffix". To top it off, her religion honored certain holidays where they would fast, and she would regularly reference the meals when they would BREAK their FAST. It was infuriating and hilarious at the same time.
Reddit snark threads and similar platforms are a whole other world of toxicity. Most of the comments I’ve seen are either 1. hot takes that just reiterates that it’s not for everyone - they just didn’t get it, like Jess said you stated very clearly at the beginning of the video what it was, what more can you do for these kind of people? It’s like a bad date who you don’t need to impress. And 2. they are commenting on their impression of a stranger, you, that has nothing to do with you. I’ve seen people come up with whole narratives on an influencer based on facial expressions, of how her life might be falling apart, and skewing her words in the vlog to support that story. These people know nothing!
I only use unscented candles. Only. And I use unscented candles (mostly pilar ones, those fat ones) every night
been a hot minute and love that you gals are wearing merch (..or so I believe you have some lol for listeners of the podcast)
LOL ok obvious was only a few seconds in, literally the preview part, when I made my comment
Caroline! there are wooden insoles that finally solved the same wet feet problem for me. maybe you ll find them good too. i use zederna (german brand), but there might be something similar in the us too
I so relate to you Caroline! 🥰
“Do you think you went into a really quick coma” 💀
I don't understand the person that left the "over-share" comment. You're not trapped in a room together- just stop watching the video! Some things just aren't for you and and that's okay. Feel free to leave without commenting. Lol, anyway. Hot take submission- People on home shows (cough*magnolia network*cough) calling rooms "gracious." (i.e. "This is such a gracious living room!")
Two part series was amazing. And I love uncarly's videos too so it's very cool that they inspired it. Jess is bang on about negative comments probably mostly coming from the commenter's own issues rn
Another mispronunciation that drives me crazy - ValentiMes day. I had a middle aged coworker who would say this. Very nice woman, but again.. how did you make it this far and not know?!
I loved and commented on that finding love series, loved it.
Bide please! I am from Argentina and we all have a bide at home. How can you all live without? Love you😊
Hi Caroline! Can only imagine how sucky it must be to share yourself online and to receive rude negative comments. It is indeed sharing a lot but in the best way. As some hopefully constructive criticism however, I would say that with that two part video the title was a bit confusing hearing now how you intended the video to land. It did not register with me that it was meant as standup and the title you originally had for it (which I understand and appreciate you didn´t want to steal from the other creator) made more click for me like ah yes this is what the video was about. Whereas sometimes your videos are more giving advice and there was a bit of that in this video, but the title implied to expect more of that in my opinion (it had a bit of a how to feel to me). Anyway, not to defend the rude negative comments. Keep doing you, you´re very much appreciated by a lot of us and unfortunately this kind of stuff comes with the territory of being more "famous", very understandable that it got you down but hoping you´ll see the positive comments more! Sending love
OMG your finding love video series was HILAAARIOUS! And don't we watch vloggers for the sharing? I'd suggest staying away from Reddit if you can. And don't take any of it personally. We don't even know you! Just f#&$ 'em!
Also, I for one am glad you found love. Love is wonderful!
What size sanitary pads do you recommend for your shoes 👟? Also, do your run 🏃♀️ with them in your running shoes 👟?
Ewwww @ Oversharing accusations!!
I LOVED the dating history vids!! Your content was absolutely a similar vibe to UnCarley (love her). Maybe this is the beginning of your vilain era 😉
I do remember you saying that you would eventually grow to a point (your channel) and then you’ll start receiving hate and it makes sense.
OMG!!! I need the hats!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤
not to sound extra but I would come for the ones who talked shit about you Caroline.... the video that they talked crap about was one of the funniest but at the same time most heart-felt videos I have seen on yt. I appreciate your humour and your work. I have been a subscriber of you for the longest time and since I am somewhat informed about your dating history so far, it was not "cringey" for me bc I know you are an intelligent and experienced woman in relationships. Im pretty sure they know only a few of your videos and maybe even jealous of the relationship that you have now, bc they are not content with what they currently have. long story short I love you and I am----->mad
Lol… Anyone else now have the song “period sex” from Crazy Ex GF stuck in their head??
Btw, totally recommend that show you both yous gals - it’s super silly, but also deals with depression, plus each episode has several wacky musical numbers 😬 🎩 💃🏻 🎶
Will you all do an episode about the illuminati
Caroline: Fuck em! A lot of people are oppressed and live in our society with non sensical rules. They just assumed these rules. For example all the time I get backlash at work for starting and leaving later than my coworkers do. (After my manager agreed obv, and I have a lot of tasks that I can do alone). Just because its different than the 'norm'. Dont feel bad youre doing great making original content and it shows youre being mindfull and respectfull about it
Can’t go wrong with Shrek ❤
You both get me to work everyday without road rage. Also on a completely different note: Jeep is not a personality.
For the hater - Caroline, what do I hate you ask (you didn't but still gonna tell ya) I hate these doggone haters posting on reddit. Really they are just losers, each and everyone one of 'em with nothing else to do with their time. You, my dear are absolutely wonderful. I've been watching your youtube channel for years and have listened to just about every pod ep of NFE. You are hilarious and real. You are creative and fun. You are seriously one of my favorite personalities on the internet and you deserve the most and the best. So glad you found love with Justin and also with Jess. Keep the love in your heart and leave the rest. You guys rock, love ya both sm! K byeeee 😁😍😜
Whether or not it was an overshare your stuff about Roomba was really instructional about being thoughtful and really considering things deeply.
I'm an English teacher in Poland. Expecially and exetera said by a native speaker makes me puke a little bit in my mouth 🤢
The "expresso" is like the "paparazzi" even if it's just *one* (singular not plural) or "cappuccino" if it's two (plural).
It makes me cringe.
Oookay, so y'all know how you feel when someone uses the word "expescially"?
Now imagine being an assault survivor who is still triggered by being reminded abusers exist. I personally get irritable, sweaty, and want to leave when Chris Brown and many other artists are on in a store or whatever. Yes yeeees, i have ptsd. I'm in therapy. I'm doing the work, ok?
I probably wouldn't have posted the comment y'all discussed, but I think it could be that person's reaction to his still having a career. Like, "hey, in case anyone forgot, this artist doesn't deserve your clicks or plays."
TL;DR Most of the stupid (in this case just odd) shit ppl do online is bc mental illness... I mean originally human cruelty, right? That led to my own mental illness. Idk, just my thoughts *she said, as she realized she is doing it right now with this long ass fkn comment 😂*.
LOL!!! I cringe every time I hear someone say Expresso. Do you mean you want your espresso fast? And I actually like all your videos, Caroline. Which doesn't mean anything in itself. What do YOU think about your videos? That is much more important. Of course, it's nice to get validation. But in the end, it doesn't matter. I once read (or saw, I can't remember) an interview with an actress who said she doesn't read reviews. Whether someone thinks you did great or whether someone thinks you did poorly, it's just an opinion. I mean, you do the best you can. If you think you could have done better, you learn and do it differently next time.
No .. guys not good with that .. just not
Biiiiiiiiiiiiitch you betta NOT let anyone steal your shine! I could def feel you operating a different energy during this video 😔 Breathe, stretch shake n let it go. Focus on those who come for that Car👏🏾o👏🏾line 👏🏾 Cha👏🏾ris👏🏾ma👏🏾Period. Full stop. Epi dats it!
🤦🏼♀️Ugh Caroline. Please share anything you’re comfortable sharing. The people who say you’re “over sharing” just don’t get it. I thought both of those videos were great. They were hilarious and fascinating. Just please know that there were people out there who received the video as intended. You don’t have to share anything that you’re not comfortable with but if YOU are comfortable with it, please carry-on. Don’t let some moody idiot rain on our parade.
I hate when people mispronounce "asked" like akst
I actually loved Caroline’s relationship video duo! It was completely relatable and it made me feel so validated and seen and unalone. Also kept me on the edge of my seat 🤭🩷🩷🩷
I got the point of your dating history videos Caroline. They were riveting and hilarious. Forget the idiot trolls. Hugs 🫂
Also… Shrek 2, coz my hubby and I saw it on our first date in cinema (coz we’re 40 now).