Vul’umlomo: Conversations on Culture | Unpacking Identity | Episode 3​

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  • čas přidán 15. 09. 2022
  • Interrogating our identity through lenses such as gender expression, degrees of Africanism and cultural preservation is important for understanding ourselves as a society. ​
    In our 3rd episode of the Viceroy #Vulumlomo: Conversations on Culture, our host Robert Marawa engages our esteemed panel, Dr Bishop Jessica Mbangeni, Mr Mbuso Khoza, Mrs Sinqobile Aderinoye and Mr Anele Siswana in a discussion about who we are in African culture and what this means for us in modern day society. ​

    Enjoy Responsibly. Not For Persons Under the Age of 18.​
    #CharacterShapedbyGenerations
    *Disclaimer line for show​
    The views and opinions expressed in this show belong to the panelists and do not reflect those of Viceroy.


Komentáře • 144

  • @noma8095
    @noma8095 Před 6 měsíci +24

    Ubab khoza is a star its sad we are not spreading him to us as the youth!

  • @thamsanqagamede528
    @thamsanqagamede528 Před rokem +17

    Babu Khoza, salute!!! for being clear on issues.

  • @sandileshange3068
    @sandileshange3068 Před rokem +13

    Respect to ubaba uKhoza for the truth and diluting it

  • @andilemhlongo9744
    @andilemhlongo9744 Před 4 měsíci +9

    This is hard for bab uKhoza, as he has a huge gap of intellect between himself and the rest of the guests 😊

  • @mbongsenicollistic9060
    @mbongsenicollistic9060 Před 2 měsíci +6

    but why is this episode nt in a million views.....salute to mbuso khoza

  • @sanelepcele
    @sanelepcele Před 2 měsíci +6

    Could have been such a beautiful conversation and the intelligence of bab'khoza deserved a bit of a stage but what this panel focused on is everyone's personal personification of egos & emotions.

  • @AyandaNkabinde1212
    @AyandaNkabinde1212 Před rokem +16

    Sinqobile was my therapist. She is HEALING personified. She took the shame out of not being ok, here I am, ALIVE and content. I am grateful Sinqobile, MAKWANDE!❤

  • @realnews8075
    @realnews8075 Před 11 měsíci +15

    Bab' khoza has is full of facts....facts not emotional opinions....he is the only logical masculine thinker....he doesn't trying to be western
    People are tryi g to be while and accept delusional concepts

  • @MelVeeBroadcastingNetwork
    @MelVeeBroadcastingNetwork Před měsícem +1

    Wooow Robert Marawa... You are an awesome anchor. Pulling this overflowing 4-stream dialogie was fascinating.

  • @nqubekophewa2295
    @nqubekophewa2295 Před rokem +12

    👏👏babKhoza ekugcineni just said my view exactly

  • @dr_thongoliyakhanya
    @dr_thongoliyakhanya Před rokem +7

    As uGogo & Lesbian myself, I enjoyed this conversation. Thanks Everyone.

  • @mawandumusambonane920
    @mawandumusambonane920 Před měsícem +1

    I like Gay guest, he represented LGBTI community very well. So proud of you, Sir. Shout out Bab Khoza. Thanks Mr Marawa....

  • @jeromelubabalojacobs8872

    The gem that is Khoza. I love this dude.

  • @nomusachauke1163
    @nomusachauke1163 Před rokem +25

    I would have loved to hear Mkhulu Khoza opinions of the LGBTQIA+ marriage, culture, kids & surnames. It would be lovely to expand this conversation.

    • @monwabisiqutu4383
      @monwabisiqutu4383 Před rokem +1

      and when it comes to surnames I want my name to a surname now ngeke kaloku

    • @mlktha_don6729
      @mlktha_don6729 Před rokem +5

      I think this LGBTQIA+ thing in it current form is foreign to Africa.i blv we had our own views,beliefs and perceptions around it not this Eurocentric view

    • @xoladlamini3675
      @xoladlamini3675 Před 2 měsíci

      Yea, this talk was too short. Serious conversations like this build and are worth however many hours, a series

    • @ZikhaliZemkhonto-ix5wt
      @ZikhaliZemkhonto-ix5wt Před 19 dny

      If you are gay and use pro nouns I don't think Khoza will partake in that convorsation ngoba he has said it before we only have two semale and female only

    • @ZikhaliZemkhonto-ix5wt
      @ZikhaliZemkhonto-ix5wt Před 19 dny

      If you are gay and use pro nouns I don't think Khoza will partake in that convorsation ngoba he has said it before we only have two semale and female only

  • @zimingonaphakadesigenu8788

    In these conversations about culture, identity and being African, I would appreciate a perspective from and/or about the coloured community. I feel like in many mainstream conversations in this country, coloured people, their perspectives, and their experiences are missing. Many of them have ancestry that is indigenous to Africa as much as they have Asian, European, etc. lineage, and I feel like their voices need to be included instead of sticking to the binary of black vs white or black and white. Not taking their inclusion seriously in such spaces contributes to the existing division between the coloured community and the rest of the African community because we remain so ignorant to each other's experiences which at some point in our histories converged and were one. Yeah... otherwise a very lovely and informative show

    • @monwabisiqutu4383
      @monwabisiqutu4383 Před rokem +1

      you have a very serious point there

    • @tintswalomasinge3584
      @tintswalomasinge3584 Před 2 měsíci +1

      You are correct in so many ways

    • @ZikhaliZemkhonto-ix5wt
      @ZikhaliZemkhonto-ix5wt Před 19 dny

      But there is no such group as coloured people coloured means people of colour so that's term is broad and racist against black people

  • @vusibuthelezi4685
    @vusibuthelezi4685 Před měsícem

    I am very lucky to have heard ( and still do@UkhoziFm) ubab' Khoza. In this podcast I am blessed to have heard bab' Anele's take on being gay. I am actually embarrassed by my ignorance before seeing this podcast. How judgemental we are about things we nothing about!
    To the two ladies, wow! Where have you been!? We have been dying of lacking knowledge and our mothers have been holding out so much knowledge and wisdom? 😢😢

  • @mduduziMavundla7242
    @mduduziMavundla7242 Před rokem +1

    My first time to know this show and have people who know much better about our black people

  • @amumaluleka73
    @amumaluleka73 Před rokem +9

    Lovely to see Anele and Sinqobile as guests. This show covers such a vast amount of important topics that people shy away from speaking on.

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem

      Hello Amu, thank you for your feedback. Happy to have shared informative insight with you. #Vulumlomo #CharacterShapedByGenerations

  • @nothandontuli4681
    @nothandontuli4681 Před rokem

    I appreciate this show. Siyabonga for the teachings we receive la.

  • @user-wx4uv4so6p
    @user-wx4uv4so6p Před 6 měsíci

    powerful episode, if possible may we see more of bishop Maponga and bab' Khoza.
    they truly have been gifted with ancient answers for modern day africans.

  • @sethinthecity4924
    @sethinthecity4924 Před rokem +8

    These topics cut so deep thank you Viceroy and esteemed panel for another amazing episode!

  • @lulwandleyaso6605
    @lulwandleyaso6605 Před rokem +6

    I'm 26 and I'm so very interested in watching every single episode n learning a lot 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem +1

      Hello Lulwandle👋, we look forward to providing you with insightful conversations on culture. #Vulumlomo #CharacterShapedByGenerations

  • @tshiamomolaolwe
    @tshiamomolaolwe Před 2 měsíci +2

    I respect babu khoza so much

  • @miltonntozini9982
    @miltonntozini9982 Před rokem

    Wow Wow, i just watched this and I want to say, its so informative

  • @mlktha_don6729
    @mlktha_don6729 Před rokem +3

    Thers a lot of older people who can't speak this type English but know than that whole panel,English for black people is a tool for sounding intelligent and educated not necessarily to be understood and to get ur point across.

  • @nthobzamkhize2911
    @nthobzamkhize2911 Před rokem

    I appreciate this show so much💯🙌🏽

  • @nqubekophewa2295
    @nqubekophewa2295 Před rokem +5

    Both maternal and paternal makes up your identity. Yes you can't be identified by both at the same time but then again you can't ignore one of them.

    • @palesamogorosi8939
      @palesamogorosi8939 Před rokem +2

      I personally embrace and acknowledge both my maternal and paternal lineage, which is why when someone asks me which tribe do I belong to, I refer to myself as Sotho-Tswana and not simply Tswana just because my dad is Tswana. I will never ignore my maternal heritage of Basotho. I am made up of both and both of these cultures encompass my identity as a person. Why erase the other? No.

  • @sithuthukilezama8744
    @sithuthukilezama8744 Před rokem +8

    I love this show! Thank you! Important topics. They are so rich in knowledge and this table allows diversity.. can we have more shows? Amazing work!

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem

      Hello Sithuthukile👋, thank you for tuning in🙏. #Vulumlomo #CharacterShapedByGenerations

  • @jacobthenoblesmith1892
    @jacobthenoblesmith1892 Před rokem +3

    Beautiful conversation with open minded people, I have learned so much

  • @joyfulncube1497
    @joyfulncube1497 Před rokem

    This is amazing, please keep bringing more

  • @scelowonkewonkembonane970
    @scelowonkewonkembonane970 Před 2 měsíci

    Voice yakho Robert, lovely. Thanks for informative guest

  • @brianmncube5080
    @brianmncube5080 Před 2 měsíci

    I love the idea of creating learning tools via digitalising. Creating e.g a game to help the youth would be the quickest way to for them (youth) to absorb such knowledge.

  • @palesalepule3152
    @palesalepule3152 Před rokem

    Great conversation with such knowledgeable panelists

  • @mainzachizyuka3150
    @mainzachizyuka3150 Před rokem +2

    Loved this episode. Please make it two hours…it’s too short😊

  • @amumaluleka73
    @amumaluleka73 Před rokem +7

    I love the variety of panelists that are on the show

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem

      Hi Amu, we do believe that it is very important to create a platform that encourages conversations like this to happen and we love that you are part of it. Thanks for your support.

    • @nbmshazi7426
      @nbmshazi7426 Před rokem

      This is the content we really needed as the modern youth.
      Keep them coming .

  • @ladye1253
    @ladye1253 Před 6 měsíci

    WoW, such thought provoking topics.

  • @tsekomotshegoa
    @tsekomotshegoa Před rokem +2

    Thanks to all the guests for the enlightening discussions. And I particularly appreciated the inputs from the psychologists, Sinqobile and Anele, please invite them again.

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem

      Thank you for your valuable insights & inputs Tseko 🙏 And thank you for watching 💙 #Vulumlomo #CharacterShapedByGenerations

  • @Happines909
    @Happines909 Před 7 měsíci

    Can we have more of these kind of conversations for us to learn as young people so that whe we have kids we know what to do ❤

  • @masomelelerasmeni2424
    @masomelelerasmeni2424 Před 2 měsíci

    Heavy concerns of awaited arguments and conversation 😅❤

  • @lansmgroup6540
    @lansmgroup6540 Před rokem

    I love the topic 💯

  • @siyabongazamisa2303
    @siyabongazamisa2303 Před rokem +2

    Sibonge for Listening to us and making it an Hour...

  • @siyabongazamisa2303
    @siyabongazamisa2303 Před rokem

    Ngibingelele...Senibuyile BabMadluphuthu..kazi benicashephi...

  • @LolaMonareng
    @LolaMonareng Před rokem

    this dialogue was much needed

  • @andiledladla3186
    @andiledladla3186 Před rokem

    i never want to stop learning

  • @ogsfootballnewsandallelse8138

    Beautiful and informative episode

  • @AyandaSibanyon
    @AyandaSibanyon Před rokem +1

    I really love these conversations ♥️

  • @noma8095
    @noma8095 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Ukhoza uyinsika

  • @mzuluwalimpopo2642
    @mzuluwalimpopo2642 Před rokem +1

    Patiently waiting 👌

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem

      Hello Kabelo, we are live🙌. Please do enjoy the conversation and feel free to share your feedback in the comment section. #Vulumlomo #CharacterShapedByGenerations

  • @MaletjeM
    @MaletjeM Před měsícem

    this thing aired a year ago???? I am sad I am only finding this now!!!

  • @tebogomothwa2286
    @tebogomothwa2286 Před rokem

    This was so informative to watch ,I learned alot from it

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem

      Hello Tebogo, thank you for tuning in. We're so delighted to hear that you have learnt a great deal from our #Vulumlomo Comversations on Culture Ep.3. #CharacterShapedByGenerations

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem

      Hi Tebogo, we appreciate that you are enjoying these conversations and should definitely explore to learn more.

    • @nqobilempofu5177
      @nqobilempofu5177 Před rokem

      ​@@viceroysouthafrica5476 hi

  • @MrEmassive
    @MrEmassive Před měsícem

    How and why did culture come about? Please answer this for me!!!

  • @bavuyisembutsi9746
    @bavuyisembutsi9746 Před rokem

    Anele hamba uhambe ngesiko uyibambe kanjalo gogo ningiphe Viceroy phela

  • @cryptocontinent6789
    @cryptocontinent6789 Před rokem +1

    Well One can never be Two and Two can never be One but together they bring out Three same applies to binary code, I call it the law of numbers and time its never wrong, because if these an error the code will not work. So i think being gay or trans its a generic error that we will never understand. however they are human after all we need to accept them in our society

  • @nqubekophewa2295
    @nqubekophewa2295 Před rokem

    👌👌

  • @BaseLineBillionaires888
    @BaseLineBillionaires888 Před měsícem

    Our wives should look like Mama Bishop

  • @ZikhaliZemkhonto-ix5wt

    Respect the pro noun my foot

  • @bonganisandile7938
    @bonganisandile7938 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You didn't even let uBab Khoza to speak aii... Sukani Nina

  • @en1575
    @en1575 Před rokem +1

    The problem starts with calling our fellow Africans from other countries within the African continent "Foreigners "
    Foreigners are those who are not from African Continent .

  • @gogokutlwano
    @gogokutlwano Před rokem

    ❤ 🇿🇦

  • @nobuhlegumede7316
    @nobuhlegumede7316 Před rokem +1

    As we wait

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem

      Hello Nobuhle, we are officially live🙌. #Vulumlomo #CharacterShapedByGenerations

  • @MrEmassive
    @MrEmassive Před měsícem

    You talk about africanness, but the reality is what if ubaba wami is Zulu and my mom is white, am i an african because i was born here, or because my father is really an african, what if my father is dutch and my mother is italian, am i african because i was born in africa?

  • @noma8095
    @noma8095 Před 6 měsíci

    Are they specifically touching "identity" which raised culture and traditions while one respond on the topic

  • @mbusondlovu5634
    @mbusondlovu5634 Před 5 měsíci

    Zithuthile izimbila la... It's just complicated.

  • @EmakhosiniSiyakhuleka
    @EmakhosiniSiyakhuleka Před 2 měsíci

    Makhosi 🔥

  • @nassurkyayira4918
    @nassurkyayira4918 Před rokem

    but you donot get to force your feelings on others just take your place

  • @luhlumonkomo614
    @luhlumonkomo614 Před rokem +2

    What is queer in your language ?

  • @papamabisha9612
    @papamabisha9612 Před rokem

    #Vulumlomo zonke iziqendu ziphela ndisenomdla

    • @nbmshazi7426
      @nbmshazi7426 Před rokem

      Kungcono ngampela uma kungabuyelwa kuthi ukunatshwa ,zimfishane ngampela.

  • @thamsanqagamede528
    @thamsanqagamede528 Před rokem

    people from former Bantu stand love to say 'no one is from Soweto/JHB" that statement is laughable because according to them we all from the Bantu stands, as if the people who occupy those areas were there from the beginning of time. the Truth is, we all don't know where we from.

  • @bonganisandile7938
    @bonganisandile7938 Před 6 měsíci

    Aii khona anele.... Aii we have authority to tell you what is wrong vele uzokwenzani

  • @siphiwedlamini652
    @siphiwedlamini652 Před rokem

    05:32 uyofuna uliba.

  • @bonganisandile7938
    @bonganisandile7938 Před 6 měsíci

    Wamosha ke lo uthi uyisangoma aii...

  • @lethabo.mongalo
    @lethabo.mongalo Před rokem +1

    1..We have been taught that a man is the leader of the family right? And he’s the one who’s suppose to provide for the family. So what if the woman is the bread winner or rather the provider? Does that change the whole concept of family leadership?

    • @nyeletimaluleka5286
      @nyeletimaluleka5286 Před rokem +1

      Solid question.

    • @viceroysouthafrica5476
      @viceroysouthafrica5476  Před rokem +1

      Hello Lethabo👋, great question! Growing up, we are introduced to gender roles (male and female) and what those roles mean in our household, traditional, and cultural context. Understanding gender roles, gives us the room to choose how we embody and express our gender in the confines of culture.

    • @palesamogorosi8939
      @palesamogorosi8939 Před rokem +1

      @@viceroysouthafrica5476 you still haven't answered the question

    • @siyabongabhongoza939
      @siyabongabhongoza939 Před rokem +1

      A male is a born leader so even if he doesn't have money it doesn't change who he is, cause for example if a young person with parents get educated and becomes richer than their parents it won't change that hie/she's still their child forever

    • @noma8095
      @noma8095 Před 6 měsíci

      The answer was no

  • @skhulumahaye6571
    @skhulumahaye6571 Před rokem +5

    Addressing African issues with English is very off kuyini nje ukukhuluma izindaba zethu ngolimi lethu hayi🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮

    • @monwabisiqutu4383
      @monwabisiqutu4383 Před rokem +3

      if they would speak in Venda or Xitsonga would you understand

    • @mlktha_don6729
      @mlktha_don6729 Před rokem

      Gr8 point,now we r listening to them use English that even white people dnt use in a normal conversation.i hate how blacks speak in this type English bcoz it takes away from making the point and being understood but rather about sounding intelligent

  • @bonganisandile7938
    @bonganisandile7938 Před 6 měsíci

    Khulumani isintu aii abo they nani nani bafethu

  • @kusasalakhehlongwa4199
    @kusasalakhehlongwa4199 Před měsícem

    Mina ngizomnika isicoco ubab' uMkhathini kulengxoxo

  • @mgcinindebele8628
    @mgcinindebele8628 Před rokem +2

    Do not currupt the African minds with the gay issue

  • @buff-ol6yc
    @buff-ol6yc Před rokem

    But that would insest and inbriding which are sin

  • @MevCompany
    @MevCompany Před měsícem

    yhooo next time makathethe isixhosa losisi English imsa lee, uyajampa jampa hini enxibe kakuhle kangaka. ngoku ukhala ngoo because abanintsi

  • @khustangcupe9640
    @khustangcupe9640 Před 2 měsíci

    There is no conversation here.

  • @matthewmokoena2123
    @matthewmokoena2123 Před 6 měsíci

    So much to say about this conversation. But 1. how do you "preserve" something that all the panelists agree is continuously changing/evolving? It means culture and traditions are time sensitive. Hence references to 1419, 1652 to argue for or against whites being African... But who were we "at the beginning?" Because if the definition of Africanness is where the "umbilical cord" fell then the white person has the right to be called African.
    2. Heterosexuality vs homosexuality and culture or Africanness. I found it a bit hypocritical when he portrayed "sex" and "ubungoma" as a choice as a result of changing social constructs , i.e. whether to observe paternal or maternal side, if so, society can determine whether white people are African or not moss, as long as we "agree."

  • @nwabi8130
    @nwabi8130 Před 2 měsíci

    This interview was edited horribly, well for us - we missed a lot. They definitely did some politically correct editing, but ke it's a brand engagement so oywell...

  • @bonganisandile7938
    @bonganisandile7938 Před 6 měsíci

    Asinandaba nama LGQ what what

  • @xolasobetshe
    @xolasobetshe Před 11 měsíci

    ABANTU ABANTSUNDU NJE LABA KUTHENI NIKHULUMA ISILINGU KWANINA LAPHO?

  • @muphandirudzani6849
    @muphandirudzani6849 Před měsícem

    tje only person who is making in the panel is bab uKhoza . the rest is confusion

  • @ntuthukobuthelezi9639
    @ntuthukobuthelezi9639 Před měsícem

    Gay is gay kwaphela n nonsense yomkhuba lo.

  • @lukhanyompepho1373
    @lukhanyompepho1373 Před 6 dny

    Anele with the disrespect I have you are confused and your presence have prevented us from learning important things because those are respectful and don't want to be brutal to you

  • @MrEmassive
    @MrEmassive Před měsícem

    Rob please dont blair the lines, no one wakes up and says they are uMzulu because they are born in africa!!!!!

  • @zinhlemaluleke1627
    @zinhlemaluleke1627 Před 6 měsíci

    if we are honest zonke lezinto zama sexual identity nizizwa ngama Americans. much of these identities are adopted from another culture. lost me at they/them, total delusion.

  • @patsonncube4304
    @patsonncube4304 Před měsícem

    Honestly Viceroy how can you hijack this important conversation through the promotion of alcohol. Disappointed by these learnt panelists who agree to even accept the invite...just for a few pennies

    • @ILovemusicSA
      @ILovemusicSA Před měsícem

      How can you highjack this important conversation with all your negativity???
      Teach yourself something - if you have nothing good/positive to say, it's best to keep quiet.