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  • We asked married couples at various stages: what's the best part about being married? From being married for 5 hours to 65 years, take a look at what couples have to say.
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    Couples Married for 0-65 Years Answer: What's the Best Part About Being Married? | Brides

Komentáře • 433

  • @OumTHMDY
    @OumTHMDY Před 6 lety +3334

    "She's my home"... This says everything.

    • @sarahmichelle6385
      @sarahmichelle6385 Před 6 lety +39

      yes, that was beautiful

    • @rudimakole7825
      @rudimakole7825 Před 6 lety +44

      That and better half part, and making each other’s lives better got me. Your own hype man/woman and the other way round. Going for complimentary.

    • @rudimakole7825
      @rudimakole7825 Před 6 lety +9

      And partnership ❤️

    • @reannaakthar2808
      @reannaakthar2808 Před 5 lety +6

      It made me cry 😢 how sweet are they!

    • @roselewis3906
      @roselewis3906 Před 3 lety +1

      That one made me cry 😢

  • @quenparantar5670
    @quenparantar5670 Před 5 lety +189

    "She makes my life better. I try to make her life better" *sudden kiss* *blushes*
    AWWWWW

  • @sq7238
    @sq7238 Před 6 lety +759

    3:29 if she looks like that after 44 years of marriage, I can only imagine what a beautiful bride she must have made.

    • @personontheinternet304
      @personontheinternet304 Před 4 lety +4

      She's 64 years old

    • @shrutishiva7040
      @shrutishiva7040 Před 3 lety +1

      She's stunning and calming and comforting in one go! lovely! (side note: she reminds me of Madeleine Stowe an awful lot)

    • @gainal9080
      @gainal9080 Před 2 lety +1

      Her hair is unbelievable.

  • @leivic1161
    @leivic1161 Před 6 lety +1145

    “She is my home.” My heart can’t take it! Who’s cutting onions ?! 😢❤️

  • @mingibson9338
    @mingibson9338 Před 6 lety +439

    when she kissed him on the cheek 😭😭😭

  • @Amourd08
    @Amourd08 Před 6 lety +1984

    The couple married for 58 years are too cute! That woman really loves her man Charlie! He was in the middle of talking and she just had to kiss him and he blushed (04:03). So adorable!

    • @zomgseriosuly
      @zomgseriosuly Před 6 lety +24

      oh MY GOD I really ship it

    • @EloiseWallis
      @EloiseWallis Před 5 lety +12

      Yes I loved them!!

    • @bhabanimodak2689
      @bhabanimodak2689 Před 5 lety +12

      Yaa...they are really lucky...this is call marriage...they are still in love after 58 years....😮

    • @User__795
      @User__795 Před 5 lety +12

      And u can tell that she totally adores her husband

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- Před 5 lety +5

      Wth!? She still actin "young in love" .❤🤤😃

  • @enyaaleia7047
    @enyaaleia7047 Před 6 lety +1251

    2:40 - I swore he was sleeping until he started speaking haha. So cute

  • @sanchari.c
    @sanchari.c Před 6 lety +870

    I think it shifted gradually from the anticipation, then the excitement, to companionship and then comfort.
    Love comes in so many beautiful forms. I loved the last couple especially, really makes me want to find someone to be comfortable with. :)

    • @khae_g
      @khae_g Před 5 lety +4

      Yes, couldn't have said it any better. 💕

  • @BenjouriNadine
    @BenjouriNadine Před 5 lety +247

    The couple who is married for 65 years is just meant to be with each other.Look at how the husband told that they can know each other thoughts...communicating without uttering words.
    Soulmate it is.😙😉

  • @zara2634
    @zara2634 Před 6 lety +346

    "she's my home" okay thanks i'm crying now

  • @BElle-Ballentine
    @BElle-Ballentine Před 6 lety +377

    Our "married for 5.5 hours" is back 😂😂

  • @maria8091
    @maria8091 Před 6 lety +1004

    These videos changed my mind about marriage. Maybe it's not a sham after all.

    • @Lalala-fz2ci
      @Lalala-fz2ci Před 6 lety +15

      mary ellen santamaria funny, it did the opposite for me lol

    • @Lalala-fz2ci
      @Lalala-fz2ci Před 6 lety +14

      Dani J. Roberts of course you’d say that, you literally don’t know anything else considering you were still basically a child when you got married lol. If you live in America, you couldn’t even rent a car or have an alcoholic drink at your own wedding lol and don’t get me started on your under developed prefrontal cortex. Anyway, marriage statistics aren’t on your side (again assuming you live in the USA there’s a 60% divorce rate and steadily rising) but I truly hope your marriage beats it and serves as an example of an exception.

    • @hhhhhhhng4380
      @hhhhhhhng4380 Před 6 lety +49

      Actually, the divorce rate is getting lower and lower, it peaked at about 40% in the 70s and 80s because of a really big feminist movement where women realized a lot about their role in life but today people are a lot smarter about marriage so the divorce rate is pretty much at an all-time low since that whole movement 40ish years ago so good luck to Dani J. Roberts because the odds arent as against her as you might think

    • @JudyAbbott494
      @JudyAbbott494 Před 6 lety +80

      La la la if you were basically a child at your 19 that's your issue. Some people just know what they want in life earlier than others.
      Statistics doesn't define anybody's life or future

    • @archanachoudhary1925
      @archanachoudhary1925 Před 6 lety +2

      It's the most beautiful thing ever ❤️ of course if you r lucky ❤️

  • @broadwaymelody33
    @broadwaymelody33 Před 6 lety +341

    I’m crying. I’ve been married to my husband for 6 months, and we’ve been together for almost six years. I’m looking forward to all of these milestones in this video.

    • @adapaulinaalarcon5468
      @adapaulinaalarcon5468 Před 6 lety +8

      broadwaymelody33 Same here! 9 months married, 5 years of relationship. I've never been happier.

    • @carriel7219
      @carriel7219 Před 6 lety +7

      Same! My husband and I have been together almost 7 years, and married 7 weeks now. The idea of all the things I'm going to share with him in the future makes me so happy.

    • @devitapia6160
      @devitapia6160 Před 6 lety +7

      Same here ! 6 years together and married 6 months. Best of luck in life and wish it to b full of love and understanding to everyone

    • @Taikyaa
      @Taikyaa Před 5 lety +7

      Same here.. 10 months married 9 years together. Blessing to all the marriages

    • @user-nf3ne9yg6h
      @user-nf3ne9yg6h Před 5 lety +2

      Same here, 5years together and married third day!!!!!

  • @monicaHvk
    @monicaHvk Před 6 lety +79

    2:27 the lady has the most gorgeous hair i’ve seen!!

  • @hannahrozenberg3411
    @hannahrozenberg3411 Před 6 lety +214

    I’m not married, but I think something so great about being married is that you’ve found the person who you want to go on a lifelong journey with.

    • @zenn8728
      @zenn8728 Před 6 lety +4

      Hannah Rozenberg and fall in love even more!!!

    • @khae_g
      @khae_g Před 5 lety +1

      Yes yes yes

  • @saraabdeyazdan8660
    @saraabdeyazdan8660 Před 5 lety +55

    I realized that the depth of the relationship gradually increases throughout time, and that is SO NICE

  • @TheHouseOffice
    @TheHouseOffice Před 5 lety +35

    So many things:
    1. You're not alone. Sleeping in the same bed is just about the best thing. Having someone to talk to, to go on a walk with, to share great experiences with. Someone to share the load with.
    2. Someone to challenge you. Help you stay grounded, help motivate you to keep going forward.
    3. Someone to laugh with and play with at any moment. Someone to hold your hand, someone YOU can help and support.
    4. Someone to protect you and defend you if anyone tries to tear you down.
    5. As Queen says, Somebody to Love.

  • @mjs4837
    @mjs4837 Před 4 lety +31

    The part when he said: she made my life better and i tried to make her life better. Its just an amazing thing to say and caring way of using words.
    My Dad once said that about mom and it made my heart thrilled and even love him more than i do. (Dad passed away few months ago).

  • @elizabeth-sh4ji
    @elizabeth-sh4ji Před 6 lety +434

    OMG 3:39 she doesn’t look like she has been married for 44 years....

    • @melc7516
      @melc7516 Před 5 lety +40

      AJjammer 38 Did you see that they matched hair and shirts?! 😍

    • @fransiscachandra2390
      @fransiscachandra2390 Před 5 lety +4

      The asian at 22 years too, I was wow at first but then they coming haha

    • @gabbieriemersma4816
      @gabbieriemersma4816 Před 5 lety +15

      Right? And in one of the other videos she said they got married when they were 20 so that means she’s 64! I hope I look that damn good at 64 years old!

  • @ridonculously
    @ridonculously Před 5 lety +24

    She started laughing before he said “she knows what I’m thinking”. She knew. She proved his point before he made it. I’m dead.

  • @tiacox4420
    @tiacox4420 Před 6 lety +530

    Mannn I love these videos. People in love are so beautiful to watch.

  • @mashalakiana9358
    @mashalakiana9358 Před 4 lety +19

    "It doesn't matter if I have a hard day... shes my home"... I AM UGLY CRYING ON YET ANOTHER VIDEO FROM THIS SERIES...

    • @stinger4712
      @stinger4712 Před 3 lety

      The point to ponder is, he didn't just say that. He said it because she IS that.

  • @benliow7340
    @benliow7340 Před 6 lety +100

    we love the diversity in the couples

  • @nidakhan3290
    @nidakhan3290 Před 6 lety +68

    65 years, incredible

  • @PreciousBria
    @PreciousBria Před 5 lety +16

    “She’s my home no matter where we are at” I love that !

    • @stinger4712
      @stinger4712 Před 3 lety

      Hope it inspires you to be a home.

  • @gsonderr
    @gsonderr Před 6 lety +56

    “She’s my home”

  • @HelloKittyFreak96
    @HelloKittyFreak96 Před 6 lety +333

    Keep these coming!

  • @cococrunch4783
    @cococrunch4783 Před 6 lety +325

    Imagine how gorgeous she must have looked when she was younger! 2:26

    • @SDali1989
      @SDali1989 Před 6 lety +121

      Coco Crunch And she's still gorgeous now :)

    • @cococrunch4783
      @cococrunch4783 Před 6 lety +62

      Yessss she's super gorgeous now!

    • @adapaulinaalarcon5468
      @adapaulinaalarcon5468 Před 6 lety +28

      I thought the same thing. She's so beautiful!

    • @zomgseriosuly
      @zomgseriosuly Před 6 lety +13

      That's kind of insulting lol. 1) you're implying that she can't be gorgeous just because she's older 2) you're pretty much assuming that because she has long blond hair

    • @adapaulinaalarcon5468
      @adapaulinaalarcon5468 Před 6 lety +75

      zomgseriosuly Yeah, for people like you, who turn any compliment into an insult just because you hate your life.

  • @AnnettaDarandri
    @AnnettaDarandri Před 6 lety +24

    I've been married for a year, and if this was asked to me, my answer would be so similar with the last couple. Being married is a comforting feeling. I function better with my partner.

  • @chelseashamim9148
    @chelseashamim9148 Před 3 lety +5

    I've literally have never been in a relationship. Yet I'm here

  • @elizaheathen
    @elizaheathen Před 6 lety +83

    I'm crying at the sheer beauty of this vid
    also I'm terrified I'll never have that

  • @ukuma1
    @ukuma1 Před 6 lety +26

    44 years and 58 years couples: awww ❤️

  • @cyde1647
    @cyde1647 Před 6 lety +23

    3:56 He reminds me of the movie "Up"

  • @athenakitty6172
    @athenakitty6172 Před 5 lety +10

    The guy's response at 3:30 has me in tears! What a beautiful response

  • @S.Naohmie
    @S.Naohmie Před 5 lety +5

    “Areas that I lack she’s my strength “ I’m crying here that was beautiful

  • @monicaalexisa
    @monicaalexisa Před 6 lety +14

    3:30 was about to make me cry 😭

  • @eclare1195
    @eclare1195 Před 6 lety +21

    1:28 her eyes are so gorgeous

    • @zomgseriosuly
      @zomgseriosuly Před 6 lety +1

      Yesssss shape, colour, everything about them!! Beautiful

  • @VioletRaya
    @VioletRaya Před 5 lety +3

    I cried hearing these people talk about their spouses especially the ones who have been married 20+ years!

  • @cestlaami
    @cestlaami Před 6 lety +103

    I’m so alone

    • @dakine4238
      @dakine4238 Před 5 lety +2

      aww (hug) enjoy your own company n then look to share that joy with someone

    • @fransiscachandra2390
      @fransiscachandra2390 Před 5 lety

      Hahaahahahaha! pity you..... same lol :v

    • @naruhinastarr
      @naruhinastarr Před 5 lety

      You never know! I was alone for the longest time. Met my hubby at work!

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 Před 5 lety +7

    I have been seeing alot of married couple who are happily living together. I think the best part about being married as i have seen from all the happy couples is when they come home to the same house with no distance separating them.

  • @RosaJordana
    @RosaJordana Před 4 lety +2

    I wish our generation could respect marriage more. I wish it was an unspoken rule to encourage married couples when we encounter them because we know that marriage is hard work but ultimately, that hard work is SO worth it. I love these videos. And I love love. 💖

  • @GabrielleDuvoisin
    @GabrielleDuvoisin Před 6 lety +24

    In young couples, it is the guy who is mainly speaking, but then it changes...

  • @samanthanelson4390
    @samanthanelson4390 Před 6 lety +2

    Loved these! I’ve been married to my husband 5 years next February. He was 20, I was 19. We’ve been through so much together. The good, the bad, happiness and sadness. But one thing I can most definitely relate to in this video, is the comfortability I feel with him. Some people think it’s a bad thing and I couldn’t agree less. To have someone who knows you inside and out and loves you anyway is the best feeling. Just had to put that out there, loooved this clip 😌

  • @pocm100
    @pocm100 Před 6 lety +10

    I don't wish to get married I wish to find someone I could spend years with and still love me, the elders couples gave me a genuinely joy 💘💓💖💝

  • @nassiralaayry9461
    @nassiralaayry9461 Před 2 lety +2

    The best part of being married ( 15 years next month ) for me is no matter how difficult life can be no matter whats going on in this crazy world when i put my head on his chest at night and he puts his arms around me i feel in peace and safe and loved ❤

  • @zomgseriosuly
    @zomgseriosuly Před 6 lety +14

    2:53 THEY LOOK SO YOUNG OMG

  • @archanachoudhary1925
    @archanachoudhary1925 Před 6 lety +22

    I want to say that when I m married for 1000 years .. right now it's 6 years and a baby ❤️

    • @daniellelinshannon3813
      @daniellelinshannon3813 Před 6 lety +2

      Archana Choudhary Bless you and your spouse and your baby! May you all live happy lives... 💕❤

    • @immapunchu5313
      @immapunchu5313 Před 6 lety +1

      Congratulations​! May your family always be happy

  • @aleparco5117
    @aleparco5117 Před 5 lety +2

    "she is my home!" that melted me.

  • @nejatnuru9898
    @nejatnuru9898 Před 3 lety +1

    '' she is my home " I like that

  • @nkolemwaba2526
    @nkolemwaba2526 Před 3 lety +1

    The thing I love the most about these videos is how they show how different dynamics work for different couples. It isn't one size fits all and assuming a particular scenario wouldn't work out based on you were told growing up e.g dating someone 10 years older or meeting someone in a bar might lead to you missing out the beautiful experience that you were meant to have. At the of the day love always wins.

  • @vrindabakshi8136
    @vrindabakshi8136 Před 5 lety +2

    This feeling of having someone there for you no matter what nd they become your home. After really very long saw something very real nd touching. Thank you 😊

  • @davidpietarila699
    @davidpietarila699 Před 5 lety +4

    My FAVORITE part about being married: When you get up to go to the bathroom in the middle of a cold winter night, and then you come back to that WARM bed, and she put her arm around you to warm you up!!!

  • @efairlight
    @efairlight Před 5 lety +1

    My grandparents had been married for 69 years before my grandpa passed away in January 2018. I wish I had thought to ask both grandparents some of these before he died. He loved my grandma so much.

  • @sarahhchan
    @sarahhchan Před 5 lety +2

    Wtf 2:28 her hair is perfection

  • @gypsyinside3590
    @gypsyinside3590 Před 5 lety +1

    It's such a beautiful thing. Congratulations to all the ppl in the video and behind it for putting across such a thoughtful message to the masses. Such positive reflection of marriage is so heart warming to see :) lots of love and best wishes to all

  • @emma-leefortune8331
    @emma-leefortune8331 Před 5 lety +2

    3:37 Someone that loves me more than she loves herself is like a dream

  • @theworldis2NE1
    @theworldis2NE1 Před 6 lety +1

    This is beautiful. Having someone to be with and not be alone in life is something i really want. 😭

  • @UNYQUE707
    @UNYQUE707 Před 5 lety +3

    That seatbelt analogy!!

  • @balajikarthi9040
    @balajikarthi9040 Před 6 lety +7

    Marriage is an eternal part of our life once we get there!! Trust, Honesty, Mutuality, Fun, lastly lots and lots of love keep them balanced. Consequently you have a long married life, also you should have a wanting for that longevity and happy life!

  • @madhusreebose6472
    @madhusreebose6472 Před 2 lety

    Omg... It feels soo nice to hear each couple's perspectives, everything is possible if u have the right person beside you, it's like a teamwork, no marriage is meant to be broken if mutual conflicts and disagreements can be solved❤

  • @compassion2126
    @compassion2126 Před 6 lety +9

    I would love to see a what have married couples learned and what are some challenges they work through together.

  • @kerdunne3422
    @kerdunne3422 Před 6 lety +18

    What lovely couples I wish them all the best

  • @KeaYang21
    @KeaYang21 Před 5 lety

    Been married 7 years and this just makes my heart melt

  • @bambilover26
    @bambilover26 Před 5 lety

    I've been married a little over a year, and I have said every single one of these things to my wonderful husband. Hearing the older couples reiterate them with years of experience makes me so eager for the rest of the life I'm going to have with him. If I had to pick the very best thing currently, it's getting to fall asleep and wake up next to him every single day. We waited to do that until we were married, and now I remind myself every day that we're living the best kind of sleepover that could exist all of the time.

  • @ohmydaz3
    @ohmydaz3 Před 6 lety +1

    wow, my cold heart? feeling warm? This video is so sweet!

  • @siobhanxxx100
    @siobhanxxx100 Před 6 lety +1

    Aw this was beautiful so well put together

  • @melaniepollier4927
    @melaniepollier4927 Před 5 lety +1

    Some of these actually made me cry ❤️❤️

  • @sitianinditafarhani2782
    @sitianinditafarhani2782 Před 6 lety +3

    "It's a comfortable feeling.." 😭😍

  • @dianabauer7412
    @dianabauer7412 Před 6 lety +1

    1:58 I could listen to his voice non-stop

  • @mayfairlady5029
    @mayfairlady5029 Před 6 lety +2

    This is so beautiful! Gives me hope!

  • @VANSLEEK1
    @VANSLEEK1 Před 4 dny

    These couples have legitimately inspired me to get married to someone special 🎉🎉

  • @ayden_james
    @ayden_james Před 6 lety +3

    idk but 5.5 hours make me laugh like they literally just got married!! that’s so cool

  • @juliettebraden3328
    @juliettebraden3328 Před 6 lety

    I like that as the couples were together longer their answers we less about "me" or "I" and more about "we" and the experiences they shared together.

  • @TinkOutLoud
    @TinkOutLoud Před 5 lety +4

    I love love! “She’s my home” 😍😍😍

  • @kim-mairyan8202
    @kim-mairyan8202 Před 3 lety

    Love this series! So often I feel like we just hear the bad, not the good ☺️

  • @fatpanda1998
    @fatpanda1998 Před 6 lety +3

    Wow all different types of couples I love this!😭

  • @Nobody-wo5mb
    @Nobody-wo5mb Před 5 lety +1

    That cheek kiss got to me.

  • @Vic-nl4ev
    @Vic-nl4ev Před 6 lety +4

    Beautiful wives and handsome husbands, gorgeous couples 😭❤

  • @katieschwarzlawendee1881
    @katieschwarzlawendee1881 Před 5 lety +2

    “Knowing that we are going home together tonight “❤️

  • @natmvaz
    @natmvaz Před 6 lety +2

    I loved that analogy!

  • @sophievthomson
    @sophievthomson Před 3 lety

    this gives me so much hope

  • @roseagaatsz8403
    @roseagaatsz8403 Před 6 lety

    Great to see happy people! Couples love each other ❤️👫❤️

  • @jaizrox
    @jaizrox Před 6 lety +42

    'We did this mountain of work to get this and now will live it'..

  • @brooklynmarie7332
    @brooklynmarie7332 Před 6 lety

    Knowing that for the past 7 years and so very many more to come I get to come home to my best friend every single day.

  • @hoome260
    @hoome260 Před 6 lety +2

    OMG love this❤️❤️!! Thank you for including gay couples. They deserved to be heard, acknowledged n accepted just like the traditional couples. Keep these coming!!

  • @SJ-tb2wq
    @SJ-tb2wq Před 6 lety +1

    This made me cry

  • @nara-mp4uj
    @nara-mp4uj Před 6 lety

    “Taking his last name” awww sweet

  • @chloesimmering4609
    @chloesimmering4609 Před 5 lety

    Having my best friend beside me for eternity. Knowing where ever we are as long as we're together everything will be ok.

  • @dogscott7881
    @dogscott7881 Před 5 lety +1

    I can't even try to connect with someone without being ghosted. This all seems very nice but no one loves me so it actually just makes me feel bad.

  • @serenozkan1467
    @serenozkan1467 Před 5 lety +1

    The 58 years reminds me of the “do you ever have a dream where... could do anything?” Kid

  • @hashtagspatz
    @hashtagspatz Před 6 lety

    I love this series!

  • @rebelraccoon9018
    @rebelraccoon9018 Před 6 lety

    Wow 65 years together. Wonder what it's like to be so adored that it continues to last.

  • @jennyreed3331
    @jennyreed3331 Před 6 lety

    All these couples are so adorable!

  • @garance1453
    @garance1453 Před 5 lety

    They all go so well together

  • @sillllysami
    @sillllysami Před 5 lety

    this is absolutely beautiful! all of it

  • @jazzyb6466
    @jazzyb6466 Před 5 lety

    The marriage videos give me hope

  • @TinyCricket89
    @TinyCricket89 Před 6 lety +270

    I honestly don’t understand why weddings are such a big deal. I know it’s a money making business, but is it worth going into debt over? Getting married is not an accomplishment, but staying together is. THIS deserves to be celebrated.

    • @nurdanjotham896
      @nurdanjotham896 Před 6 lety +42

      Patrice C yes true but that's the whole point of getting married. You get married to stay together. Nobody gets married to get divorced after 1 year. Of course nothing is ever guaranteed

    • @hannahparks6396
      @hannahparks6396 Před 6 lety +8

      Dont have a wedding, get married at the court house then have a "get together" after. Everyone brings a dish and a gift and celebrates your choice to love each other forever.

    • @carriel7219
      @carriel7219 Před 6 lety +15

      I didn't go into debt over my wedding, and would never have got married just now if I'd needed to in order to have the wedding that I wanted. That said, my wedding, which was almost 2 months ago now, was a huge deal for me. I adored having a day to share my love and commitment to my best friend and partner of 6 and a half years in front of all our family and friends. I don't consider it an accomplishment, but that doesn't mean it wasn't important to my husband and I.

    • @cherrytree663
      @cherrytree663 Před 5 lety +14

      Patrice C- You don't need to have a grand wedding to get married. As a matter of fact, you don't need a wedding to get married. Marriage stems from religious faiths. It is an exchange of vows which reinforces commitment. The wedding is just a celebration. Please show some respect as marriage is important to many religions and cultures.

    • @kat4933
      @kat4933 Před 5 lety +7

      You don’t need a wedding to get married. But also you don’t need a glamorous and expensive wedding. The point is to share with family and friends .

  • @because0011
    @because0011 Před 5 lety

    I’ve been with my husband for 23years. And I still love him deeply.

  • @InfiniteLoveLightGratitude

    Sooo Beautiful. Awesome work, Brides. thank you thank you thank you. Love.

  • @maimohamed3590
    @maimohamed3590 Před 5 lety

    I love these series😍✨