How to find the Perfect Wife. Masculinity & Femininity in Christian Marriage.

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  • čas přidán 27. 07. 2023
  • A Video for the Single Christian Guys: A girl is not your mission. You’re not her helpmeet. Your mission becomes her mission.
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Komentáře • 29

  • @shannonedgar6781
    @shannonedgar6781 Před 11 měsíci +15

    This advice is really good. I’m realizing how much culture has affected my life. As a wife, I’m hoping that I can be better at my role and help our family get into a godly hierarchy.

    • @tedbox6299
      @tedbox6299 Před 10 měsíci

      You should look up a man named Sumner Wemp. His site has many Biblical advices for husbands and wives.

  • @nicoledennis-lawrence-lg6lc

    Please keep sharing your Christian ideals with the world!!!!

  • @Fearlessly91
    @Fearlessly91 Před 11 měsíci +3

    If a man compared being in a relationship with me to parenting a child, he wouldn’t be my man for long.

    • @sofiabravo1994
      @sofiabravo1994 Před 10 měsíci +2

      This attitude is why women have trouble getting married and staying married.

    • @Fearlessly91
      @Fearlessly91 Před 25 dny

      @@sofiabravo1994 because we have self respect?

  • @lovelifementoring5399
    @lovelifementoring5399 Před 13 dny

    Thank you ❤

  • @jamesfrels7492
    @jamesfrels7492 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Great points on how believing so many small lil half truths & tropes about marriage and relationships, can lead to a life of pain. I’ve witnessed this with my own parents for my entire life. They are strong believers yet this type of conversation has never entered their boomer minds ( I say it with love ) I’ve witnessed an entire room @ a wedding erupting in a standing ovation because the phrase “ happy wife happy life “ was said, again ALL believers. Love y’all for making truthful well rounded videos about the topics that are most relevant & can actually be controlled by our actions. Glory to God !

    • @10024westsidenyc
      @10024westsidenyc Před 11 měsíci +2

      Great insights, it should be revised to happy emotional regulation, happy life. lol

  • @nataliec4756
    @nataliec4756 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Such an important conversation!

  • @RealFredbaby
    @RealFredbaby Před 11 měsíci +1

    I've been thinking about this subject for the past month and I"m glad y'all uploaded the video. Any books you recommend? Besides "When I Say No I say Guilty" or "Boundaries" or "No more mr nice guy"

  • @reneecrotty6910
    @reneecrotty6910 Před 5 měsíci

    Im sure we are all around the same age, but I feel like you guys are my parents (in the best way) hahaha! Love the wisdom!!!! You always surprise me 🇦🇺🦘

  • @reneecrotty6910
    @reneecrotty6910 Před 5 měsíci

    What you two said about the Matt Walsh thing is exactly what ive been doing towards the daily wire and Candace Owens .. I always feel anxious and negative afterwards! I try not to click on the videos either!

  • @elektromeha
    @elektromeha Před 11 měsíci +3

    Dear Scott & Kelly, this video is answer to my prayers. It is just want I needed. I am struggling with my manly hood and relationship with opposite sex. Thank you for making it much clearer to understand the roles and mission in man's life.

  • @tinaloewen9006
    @tinaloewen9006 Před 10 měsíci +2

  • @AC_2.4-10
    @AC_2.4-10 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Amen, amen, amen. So grateful for the messages you are sharing, Scott and Kelli. 🙏❤
    I just have to share a personal testimony here (tried to keep it short!)...In the midst of my stubborn pride and rebellious spirit within the God-given roles of husband and wife, God providentially brought a serious illness to me that has completely shaken things up in the most positive way. Our marriage now looks so much more like God’s design, and it has truly gotten stronger as time goes on within this design. I’m so humbled and grateful to the Lord - His ways are so much higher than our own and we have joyful anticipation for how He is going to continue leading us!
    I also have to share a favorite definition I've come across over the years (John Piper): Submission in marriage is the divine calling of a wife to honor and affirm her husband's leadership and help carry it through according to her gifts. It is a disposition to follow a husband's authority, and an inclination to yield to his leadership. Where disposition and inclination are heart words, not merely behavior words. We do this from the heart - so it's a joyful submission, not a bitter or begrudging submission. Such a difference!!

  • @scarliebee
    @scarliebee Před 10 měsíci +2

    How do you teach your boys (children) to be on a mission? Do you have any book recommendations for that? Games for little kids, goals for middle schoolers, jobs for high schoolers? I wonder how we can practice that in a fun way for our sons.

    • @tedbox6299
      @tedbox6299 Před 10 měsíci

      The only book I can recommend is a book called "fishing for men" written by Sumner Wemp. It's an older book and short.

    • @ScottandKelli
      @ScottandKelli  Před 10 měsíci

      I will have Scott follow up with you on this!

  • @mcanultymichelle
    @mcanultymichelle Před 11 měsíci +6

    I’m a single mother of two grown sons and
    I don’t care how old they think they are ,they are not to old to sit down and listen to Scott’s and Kelley’s wisdom.l make them listen to your videos if they want to eat .my house my rules 😆.
    Thanks for being a good role model

  • @Sugarbaby4l
    @Sugarbaby4l Před 9 měsíci

    I’m single and I want to be a house wife where do I find a man that want a house wife

    • @AspiringHomemaker
      @AspiringHomemaker Před 5 měsíci

      Pray and fast and then try to get involved in your church and community. Go to Christian events (appear friendly, smile and dress feminine ). Also just choose a church with more young people. Or older depending your age. But most importantly, pray, believe you will receive it. And have faith in God.
      Proverbs 19:14 -
      House and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.
      Psalm 37:4 -
      Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

    • @ram47863
      @ram47863 Před měsícem

      Pray, a lot of my female friend become SAHM
      They have kind Husband, not only the husband good provider, they also helping with raising children and cleaning the house too
      Even when the wife not doing 50/50

  • @GameDevFox
    @GameDevFox Před 10 měsíci +4

    "Pleasant Wife; Pleasant Life"

    • @GameDevFox
      @GameDevFox Před 25 dny

      @Sam97-oi4vc A women who is at peace with her husband will always be more happy than one who is not

    • @GameDevFox
      @GameDevFox Před 25 dny

      @Sam97-oi4vc Agreed

  • @kaylajames3098
    @kaylajames3098 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I love you guys. Men, put your foot down. This video taught me about men.