The Opposite of Love is NOT Hate or Fear. It’s This.

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  • čas přidán 5. 11. 2022
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Komentáře • 20

  • @alexvickers7259
    @alexvickers7259 Před 9 měsíci

    Love as a state of being is the same as openness, and control as a state of being is the same as closedness. All desire for control is rooted in the emotions of fear.

  • @tomekgorniak
    @tomekgorniak Před rokem

    Love is ... and I cease to speak because all words are meaningless. I LOVE ...

  • @10Ammar
    @10Ammar Před rokem

    What a likable woman you are. God bless you. 🌹

  • @janschneider8647
    @janschneider8647 Před rokem

    To me, love is the force that pushes you to do the right thing regardless of how this right thing feels. Love is the force that pushes the father squirrel to jump in front of a hawk in order to save the newborn. Love is the force that pushes a mother to wake up in the middle of the night when the baby is crying. Love is training hard and going through pain in order to become a better person tomorrow. Love is not cheating on a partner when the opportunity presents itself to you.
    Of course, if one does all these things for recognition, appreciation, or whatever, that is not love, that is manipulation. Love is doing the right things just because that is what is right to do.

  • @nancykunik4370
    @nancykunik4370 Před rokem +2

    Just being with the moment of now ... Now ... Now is all there is ... Such a great commentary on being and how love really is just that ... The mother just lying down next to her daughter in the rain was a beautiful example ...

  • @svetlanashramovych522
    @svetlanashramovych522 Před 11 měsíci

    Fear produces control

  • @Aerational
    @Aerational Před rokem

    Acceptance

  • @chaselambert8662
    @chaselambert8662 Před rokem +2

    I love this channel.

  • @xmissxvictoriax
    @xmissxvictoriax Před rokem +2

    Can you do a video talking about death and fearing death? I would love to hear your take on that subject. I struggle with fearing the unknown and death, I really want to overcome this fear.

    • @LivKissper
      @LivKissper  Před rokem

      Yes, thank you! And also my book is about that. Will be coming out this month. 🙏🏻

  • @juniorlful
    @juniorlful Před rokem

    Wow! Is incredible how every day we can learn something new about this mystery that we call love, and your explanation Olivia about the power of being with somebody, without the need to say anything or do anything, just to be there, to be with them. is maybe one of the most beautiful explanations I have ever heard of what the experience of love really is, this is so beautiful! Thank you so much, Olivia! I really love listening to you! 💖

    • @LivKissper
      @LivKissper  Před rokem

      🙏🏻 There is no need to say or do anything and if words and actions come, without the need to change or improve the other, then that’s just What is.

  • @artsyelectriathletic
    @artsyelectriathletic Před rokem

    Five love languages? :) this one sounds similar to quality time ❤

  • @gmlgml780
    @gmlgml780 Před rokem

    Yeah.
    To be there for somebody
    can be good.
    One time when my past girl friend
    had her usual annual symptoms of
    allergy,
    with a not working nose,
    not working m@dicines
    barely sleeping for days,
    exhausted,
    and she was "ag@nizing" in the night,
    I laid in line with her, head to head,
    that only the top of our heads
    were touching,
    and we were s@ffering together.
    She was s@ffering 'cause of
    her symptoms, and I was
    s@ffering 'casue of
    her s@ffering.
    But after a while of s@ffering
    she s@ffered herself into sleep.
    Next day she got a bit better.
    So yes, being there can be
    useful.
    But I would still not assign it
    to love in itself.
    Love is much more general.
    Love is your acceptance.
    Many times it's joyful.
    The opposite of
    rejection.

    • @MyTimelord11
      @MyTimelord11 Před rokem

      Rejection can be loving too tho

    • @gmlgml780
      @gmlgml780 Před rokem

      @@MyTimelord11
      _"... Rejection can be loving too tho ..."_
      Yeah.
      Not that way how I thought of it.
      Yeah if somebody offers something to you
      and you reject it,
      but you accept that it was offered to you
      and that you rejected it,
      that can be love, yes.
      But if you dislike it,
      if you reject the experience of being offered
      and being rejecting,
      that cannot be love.
      (Not for a healthy human,
      nonduality is ab@rration.)
      I thought of that rejection.
      Your inner rejection.
      Acceptance is love.
      Rejection is the opposite of
      Love.
      (Believe me.
      I know rejection from
      the inside and the outside.)

  • @chardo24
    @chardo24 Před rokem

    Love has no opposite.

    • @LivKissper
      @LivKissper  Před rokem +4

      Yes. Thank you! The control only appears in thought.

  • @Leksy728
    @Leksy728 Před rokem

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