TLC Mother And Son Relationship Is Out Of Control
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 27. 12. 2022
- I Love A Mommas Boy on TLC is out of control.
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For a probability to be 99.9999% sure of anything, thatâs very impressive. Itâs her grandkid. She needs to stop trying to push her own narrative and butt out of her sonâs relationship.
Yeah, I mean all paternity tests work like this. I met my bio father and had one and it looks identical. They just canât put 100% down.
BUT THAT 00.0001% THO. đ
"So you're saying there's still a chance!"
(I'm really hoping I'm not the only one old enough here to get this reference) lol
no seriously when my dad got his paternity test for my sister there was only like a 98.9 something chance and he was still definitely her father, the percentage literally can never be 100% bc you donât share 100% of your dna with your father.
@@misssaramadness I got you girl!
Cut grandma out completely. Either she eventually realizes the wedge she's driven between herself and her son, or she doesn't and stays stubborn and hateful until she croaks. Either way, the new family will be better off without the toxicity.
Yup
I literally came down to the comments to say "go no contact with that woman. She doesn't deserve to see kids she doesn't believe are related to her, and she's just a constant source of stress. How is the wife putting up with her for so long?" My husband would never let anyone talk to me like that, not even his own mother. She's just making everything in their lives toxic as hell, and they don't need that energy around. Either once she's cut off she'll put some pride aside and not apologize, but the best next thing, out of desperation, or she's just gonna keep trash talking the both for "breaking my heart" and "keeping my from my grandkids", making them as the absolute villains. Come to think of it, she probably already played that card each time they tried to cut her out, she just started spreading rumours to turn people against them. What a ratchet human being.
Exactly go NC and then maybe she will see what sheâs doing. Not likely she is toxic as hell.
Amen, Jacob A-MOTHERFUCKIN-MEN
Cut grandma.
Look at her braids. Those are fighting style braids. Those are MMA fighting style braids. You know she's about to throw down
I was about to say this haha those are always fighting braids. any female with those is a fighter. some strippers have them and female boxers too.
Itâs a good look
âWhy not 100%?â I would take my man and leave right then and there. Thatâs the moment of no return. Thereâs nothing more you can do but leave and let her wonder why she doesnât see any of her kids or grandkids. Skepticism can be understandable, but to look the test results in the eye and continue is just delusional. Bye ma. Clearly youâre not doing this for your family, but for you.
You can't really take your man and go if your man wants to keep trying to get her to stop being so crazy. Man needs to go low contact with her.
Im not at that part yet but I definitely expected that when I heard the 99,99%. No surprise she doesnt believe its never 100%
Exactly same
She's not delusional. She knew she was lying can see it on her face.
@@niphyra2075 That's the mom. Unreasonable or not.
She hates her because sheâs one of those weird mums who think these women are âtaking their sons awayâ. The kind of mum to raise boys who punch holes in the wall when they lose a game of fortnight.
Facts I've been with one of those together for two years we talked about moving in together and his mom got mad and her son turned into a serial cheater who physically abused me and when I threatened to report him for assault his mom got mad I stay away from people that have a weird codependency with their parents
Emotional incest. Usually the dad is gone and the son becomes a replacement. Gross
You just explained my ex. Replace the game with a myriad of activitiesâŠresults were usually the same.
Edit : huge Mom issues. She felt like a jealous ex.
You mean the creepy gross incestuous kind? YeahâŠ
@@kissit012 This comment deserves more likes
Emotional Incest is a scary thing
Just say surrogate husband.
emotional WHAT
@@Pizza874 Yea, it's a thing. You can google it.
â@Pizza874 Basically she leans on her son for love and support in a way she should lean on a partner, she has been using her son as a replacement for a relationship.
It can happen because the father isn't around or he just doesn't love her and support her. Idk if you have seen American Horror Story Coven, but it's what Kyle's mom does to him but she goes even more extreme.
"I can slap it in any doubters face."
"Your mom. Your mom is the biggest doubter."
The face he had after. I can't tell if it's sadness, surprise, or worry. He got so excited he forgot his mom is the main reason for the DNA test.
yup! that was all 3 haha he was happy, but she ruined it. đđ€Ł she brought him back to reality.
My vote would be on fear. Sadness too maybe, but mostly fear. He seems so scared of his mom and her actions.
@@kchan495 he definitely is and was worried she might get riled up again. he was not wanting to hear his wife bring her up.
@@kchan495 I understand why. The emotional incest mom has for her son is really gross. She is taking it too far.
@@veevee6771 Agreed! The amount of emotional manipulation and abuse even in these clips...she must be a nightmare. I can't see him not being scared of her reactions.
Anyone who watched Maury back in the day knows. 99.999% is good as it gets haha
I always laughed at the moms when they'd get up there and say they're 200% sure the man is the father. Then Maury would say "*man's name*, when it comes to *child's name*, you are NOT the father" and then the woman would run off back stage to throw a fake crying fit and scream about how the test was wrong. Like, girl you know you were banging multiple people. Just suck it up and admit that you only brought the dude to Maury for a free trip to Connecticut, some new outfits and to get your hair done! And the slim possibility that the guy was the father so you could get child support! đ€Ł
POV: Me on those skipped school days screaming at this woman through the tv đ
They need to set boundaries and say, " If you continue to question about our child, you will no longer be part of our life" and then proceed to do so when she doesn't respet that.
Thereâs nothing the couple can do to make mom happy, because the mom has some deep-seeded hatred for her daughter-in-law for some unknown reason. The best thing for them to do (and I hate saying this) is to leave the mom behind. Sheâs so toxic that it would be better for the coupleâs health to just leave the mom behind.
Completely agree. My bf is slowly backing away from his family because they treat me like this and have only spoken/seen me 1 time in 5yrs.
I agree. This mom has to have consequences for her toxic actions or she will never change. They will have to keep trying to make her happy to their detriment. Better to leave her and be happy.
Agreed. Nothing they could do would 'prove' anything to this woman. She's just hell bent on hating the daughter in law regardless of everything.
Nah it's never wrong to leave toxic people behind
Yes and better for the daughter as she gets older. She is involved despite Ken's disagreement, because she is the main subject. As she gets older and hears grandma say she's not the daughter of her dad she is either wondering if that's true or not or thinking her grandma is crazy and either way will not feel loved by her dad's family. Not healthy either way and just disturbing someone is like this.
Moms is over here with her face painted up like Ursula the sea witch but she calls the poor daughter in law evil
A lady with eyebrows like that shouldn't call anyone evil
parents that dont realize when to stop being parents are the worst
I'm a child of a messy divorce and my mom would keep me from talking to my grandparents on my dads side. I always thought it was wrong but if my inlaws were as bad as that women I would absolutely keep my kids from them. I would not want my kid to have a relationship with someone who hated me that much.
I can empathize with you on that one! My parents were constantly talking shit about each other in front of us after they divorced and it sucked BIG time! And my grandmother on my father's side instantly started treating my older sister differently. My mom met my dad when my older sister was 2 months old, so my father raised her from a baby and always thought of her as his daughter. When they divorced, my father paid child support for me AND my sister. Even though he was only court ordered to pay for me. I would overhear my father's mother tell him any time we were at her house that he shouldn't be supporting a child that wasn't really his. To be fair to both my parents, my mom told him if his mother kept it up we wouldn't be allowed at her house anymore. And I did overhear my father sticking up for my mother and sister many times to his mother. She eventually stopped bringing up child support, but she found other ways to be a bitch to my sister. Talking down to her, criticizing her hair or clothes. Once my father found out about it, we stopped visiting her on our weekends with him. Grandparents can be brutal! Luckily we had really amazing grandparents on my mother's side!
Parental alienation.
So you got daddy issues, let me introduce myself đ
@@Orophile_303y mother in law told my ex to lock me out of the house and drain our bank accounts when I literally just took off my rings last November. She was 100% willing to have the mother of her grandchildren be homeless (she wanted us to be closer to her so a couple years ago we moved away from all of my family and support) out of spite.
Considering she hasnât talked to her oldest son in 12 years over a feud, and even said she wouldnât go to his funeralâŠI am neither shocked nor hurt that she found it so easy to do the same for me.
My parents got pregnant with me after only a month of dating and my dad's family sticks to the narrative that my mom ruined my dad's life (they were both 19/20 and this was 23 years ago) my mom has tried so hard for me to have a relationship with my grandparents but they don't see me as their grandchild unlike my cousins who are my dad's oldest brothers children who belong to the perfect son who is married with a successful job. I'm the black sheep of two black sheeps and I love my parents but really don't like my dad's family. Especially since I'm an adult now and see how much they love my cousins.
That poor grandbaby đą just exists and grandma hates them
I had such a good relationship with my grandma, and she hated my brother....it hits close to home and is so sad to see.
My grandma pulled this on me too. Hated my father. No reason at all but hated him.
Yeah that's fucked up is your brother ok It seems insignificant but it can really affect your mental health to be hated from a young age for no reason
Man, she must REALLY not like that child, because at this point, she's not just denying the woman, she's got the proof and STILL saying she don't want that child to be related to her
They haven't shown much, but I think it's more hate for the wife than anything. Saying she's evil, so she must have cheated, she's running around. I think she's just completely indifferent when it comes to the child, it's all on the mom/wife because she's taking away HER baby.
This is an incredible example of "confirmation bias" .
This is politics 201. Even when confronted with borderline irrefutable evidence, they look for the most insane excuse or reason to discredit it to continue with their argument.
Is mum a null hypothesis, or outlier?
The question of paternity doesn't even need to be pushed that hard to cause damage. I remember when I went to court to establish custody of my kids, and their mother did not show, the judge asked about 4 times if they were my kids or if I wanted a paternity test. Just asking the question really fucks with your head, I finally was just like -Listen, blood or not, I've raised these kids since they were babies I don't need the testing they're mine either way. It is such an uncomfortable question and really sends you on an unwanted emotional journey.
Bless you for being a dedicated father
I hope you got custody and that your kids are okay! So sorry you had to go through that, no matter how long or short the effects lasted.
So many people don't realise being a father and a genetic donor are two very different things. I have a genetic donor and no father. The closest thing to a father role was my uncle. Between him and my grandfather, the genetic donor was not needed. So I don't talk to the abusive jerk or his side of the 'family' any more. Blood relations, nothing more.
Good on you for being a good dad to your kids. Iâd never thought of the journey even the question could send you on before but now I can see how that would đź crazyyy
The saddest part about this is that it doesnât just affect her relationship with her daughter-in-law and her son, but what happens when her grandkid sees this in the future? They will probably feel so unwanted by their own grandmother and itâs just terrible.
Normally (not always) the ones screaming something the loudest are the ones guilty of it. Maybe the mom's kids need to take a paternity test đMaybe mom has some secrets đ€Ł
You have a point. She protests an awful lot...
Now that WOULD be interesting đ
The way we all knew she was going to fuss about it not being 100% đ€Ł
The paternity test would never say 100% because he didnât produce her asexually or clone her. Basic high school biology, kids đ€Šââïž
Bold of you to assume this woman retained an education. She wouldn't be this awful if she was actually educated
@Ally Katt Nah! Education would just make her a smarter narcissistic person. Which is worse.
not sure thats how it works but sure lmao
Nothing is 100%
â@@rinkerd3575it is for DNA tests, they can never be 100% because there is always genetic material from a separate source from the person they are testing for
they should just leave her behind. This isnt going to ever end well
Ken please look up emotional incest. This mom checks all the boxes
My question is how does she treat the child? Cause if she doesnât have anything to do with her then thatâs her loss! She could be missing out on a great kid!
She said "you could've come alone" zero interest in her grandchild.
She doesn't treat them equally.
@@hourglas She meant the wife didn't have to come
@@ApohMay idk about you but Iâd expect a normal loving grandparents first response to be âhey!! How are you two, how is (insert baby name)?â Not this. If sheâs this against the kid being her sons how could she possibly be treating the kid fairly?
in later episodes when she sees the baby she gives 0 shits that shes even there and dosnt care if they keep her away from the kid
This mom reminds me of mine. My sister and I cut her out of our lives years ago and I couldnât be happier.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. Much love to you and your sister đđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđ
Sheâs like my mother. I really hate her. Once I realized that I could simply just ignore her and keep her out of my life. Life got better.
"Why not 100%" that's not how science works hum
She hates her daughter in-law because she can't have her son by herself anymore. she may also have empty nest syndrome and takes all her stress out on her because she is the reason the son ain't around as much as he probably used to be. Hence why she is "evil". "how can she make me feel like this and take my son away" kind of thing. Anyway, that's just my thoughts on the matter.
Also, if the daughter-in-law was/is a professional fighter the mom probably hates that. Thinks itâs too masculine.
Exactly! She took her baby away. Also, there's many people here saying that the MIL hates the grandchild. I don't think she hates an actual child, it's still all on the mom/DIL because she's "evil", she had to have cheated. If she cheated, then her son will leave her and come back home to mama. That woman needs some therapy.
@@ApohMay jepp. She needs help. And the only thing she is achieving is pushing him away anyways.
Doesnât she got more kids aside from Robert?
@@UrethralCarnage I don't know how people like her could possibly think that treating their child's SO so poorly would result in them coming back. Yes, it gets rid of the SO, but it also gets rid of the child. I hope the show pays for her to get therapy, omg what a nightmare.
As a veteran paternity court watcher it's ALWAYS 99.99999%
she doesn't believe earth is spinning because she can't feel it
I dont understand how she can be so up her son's butt, but then decides to deny her grandchild. If anything you'd think she'd be obssesed with the child. Just shows how creepy and emotionally incestous the relationship is.....
This show is either going to turn into 'I Divorced a Mama's Boy' or 'I Chose my Wife and Children Over my Toxic Mother'
the oedipus complex is off the charts with this one, boys.
Shes not nervous. Shes pissed and ready to prove her MIL wrong
Unfortunately there are mothers like this, that act like any woman their son brings in isn't good enough. The girl could be a literal angel and the mom would say "look how terrible she is!"
Baby not allowed to have any of the Mother's Gene's đ
The only option left is to cut out mil. Even when they're doing exactly what she wants, nothing is good enough.
âWhy does the mom hate her so much?â Because the mom is jealous of her. She is in love with her son and wants to be the only woman in his life
If my mother in law doubted me about the paternity of my child, she wouldnât be my mother in law anymore and sheâd never see her grandchild. Youâre not going to doubt my loyalty when I KNOW Iâm loyal. This mother in law is insane. I would never stay around for this. My husband can see his mom of course but guarantee sheâll never see me again.
That's horrible because not only are you pushing away the family you have your son, but that's also just pushing away your own grandchild. And then a kid can just be left wondering at some point how come grandma didn't want to be my grandma?
the mother seems like the kind to pay a random dude to make it seem like she was cheating
Nothing will ever be enough for her and she'll never be happy no matter what they do. Best thing to would be to leave her ahh behind and spend their energy on their kid and their family.
Pro tip: don't insert yourself into your child's relationship whatsoever, there is nothing healthy about making someone put you before everyone else. A parent has no business making those sorts of decisions or enforcing their own standards.
If I'm remembering correctly last episode during the brunch argument, the mom said she'd beat Christie or something similar and Christie's response was "could you tho?".. makes sense now đđ
It was funny then. It is way funnier now, knowing she's a professional fighter.
Trans man here, my ex husband did the exact same thing when we separated. He said because it said 99.9999999% that it wasn't 100% and that proved they weren't his kids. Ironically, we divorced because he was cheating on me.
They need to put a disclaimer at the bottom, quoted, "99.999 is the highest odds and nobody can ever have a 100% because people can't be asexual and make clones of themselves, dumb a**"
And that right there is why people behave like that. Mom in this video clearly fucked around on her husband and can't possibly believe her son could have a faithful partner because she was a skank.
I definitely heard my family this past holiday mention âIf Global warming is real, then why is it so cold?â a few times. đ
They need the mother to prove you can get a 100% result by taking a DNA test for herself and her son. Then see what her excuse is for getting same result as them
I bet if you could use a Time Machine to let grandma see the wifeâs entire life between conception and birth, sheâd say THAT was fake
When she said, I need to see it with my own eyes... I would've walked out and never turned back. Narcissists will continue as long as you entertain them.
1:48 tbh Ken, a lot of women will get paranoid when their period is late that they might be pregnant when the most intimate theyâve ever been with a man was like smiling at him from across the counter at their 9-5 job
So, both kids are his. She's convinced the youngest isn't because she looks like Kristy instead of Robert. She's bitter because they eloped when she was in her early first pregnancy and didn't invite her because she's nasty to Kristy. She's also convinced Kristy got pregnant on purpose to "trap him". Also, yes, that is her! Both Kristy and Robert are fighters. They met at the gym, and Kristy's a SAHM now, but she's really supportive of him.
i've claimed this happy birthday wish, it is MINE
happy birthday
happy birthday
Happy Birthday :D
Happy birthday!! đ
Happy birthday!!
This mum reminds me of my partners family who don't believe I'm disabled because I don't scream and cry constantly even though I have drs letters and I take 52 tablets a day lolđ
I know how you feel. My MIL told me she thinks I fake my injuries for attention. I don't take pills because my mom built up a tolerance over a decade and has to take around 80 pills combined daily. Withdrawls are crazy and her liver is messed up now. I have the surgical scars, x-rays of the pins, pictures of the wreck and in the hospital and cannot walk half of the time and use a cane but I'm faking because I don't want to get addicted to medication. We have a good relationship, she's just crazy.
Having an invisible illness and putting up a good front is often seen as faking. Trust me when I say I did not choose this. Donât give the doubters any of your time. Their mind canât be changed, your mental health is more important.
@@lollylolly8186 ty I don't anymore but a couple of months ago I kicked off at his aunty who said my pain must not be as bad as a cancer patients and I bet ive never been around anyone with cancer, I kicked off because I was my name carer who passed of cancer and ive lost many to it. Other then that I ignore them c:
@@MeanyBooters omg that's still horrible to say, I used to get told it was all in my head I fought doctors none stop etc but his family insists even with letters im lying it's gotten to the point they make up some crazy stuff but I just shrug
I'm sorry, but I've imagined this going down between bunnies because of your profile picture. Cute, but still awful.
How should we know if the mother-in-law is the mother of that guy tho? lol
We need proof!!!
I'm fairly certain the test can never be 100% anyway, because of how it's tested etc
You can't have a social security number or birthday if you're not born yet! Lmfao!!! Love you guys Ken and Dane. Wish I knew you guys.
With how much it shows that he loves his wife and kids his mom is gonna eventually stop getting phone calls and stop hearing from her son on anything eventually he is just gonna walk away and be like you know what whatever bye mom I'm gonna be happy with my family â€
I didnât know how more stupid the grams could be but i was wrong đ
Not everybody was born with brain cells
She needs to have her son tested and when it comes back 99.999999% he needs to ask her who she messed with.... just sayin'
she was like my father why 90% in school why not 100%đż
Him dancing at the beginning looked rude, but when he explained why he was excited it made sense. Although I believe she shouldn't have had to do the test and her husband should have backed her up.
If I was this young couple, Iâd make sure that this grandma never saw her grand children. This is honestly so disrespectful of her. They did what she wanted and she didnât get the results that she wanted so she just wants to be an asshole for no reason.
The mom needs to go to therapy, and the rest of the family needs to tell her she is wrong. She is too prideful
Lady could have been there at the moment of conception and would still pull some reason out of her arse as to why itâs not her sons tf
I love how Ken sounds like a pirate every time he says âorâ đ 2:02
The mom infuriates me she literally takes the soul out of me when she talks
I broke up with my last boyfriend cause his mom was acting like she was part of the relationship. Overbearing, showing up unannounced and talking trash about me. If your partner has a parent like that, I suggest you move on.
Mom wonât accept defeat even when the SCIENCE Is proven in front of her smh. They did to stop wasting their time with this loco madre
Sheâs corncobbing, sheâs continuing to assert sheâs right when sheâs been proven wrong
Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday/Christmas weekend! Cinnamon Toast Ken and Buffpro are the gift that keeps on giving.
Moving goalposts: "I want a paternity test!" They get one. "The paternity test isn't good enough!"
Starting off the day in the right way watching a Ken&Buff videođđâ€ïž
Same. âïž
I honestly wouldn't ever talk to my mother again acting that way! There is no dam reason for that.
She's not just putting the daughter-in-law down, but her own son, too. Most importantly, her attitude towards their child is despicable and she doesn't deserve to be anyone's grandmother. I'd walk away with them and never look back.
Give it about 16 years and she will be wondering why her granddaughter doesn't visit her more often.
Daneâs laugh makes me ROFLOL!!! Thanks for making my day guysâ€ïž
I wouldn't even have entertained her BS I'd be like B I don't even want you around my kids at this point
Im gonna need roberts mom and robert to go take the same test so that baby momma can ask her why it can't be 100 đ
My friend and I were watching this show together and we kept yelling at the tv at this mom. She pissed us off
Normally when I have a toxic ass family member like that, I just instantly block them from my life đ€·đ»ââïž mom, dad, grandparents, whoever.
Got them braids in just in case she needs to lay the smack down on mom đ
It is OKAY to go no contact. People need to accept that.
He's got boxers ears too, I think you're right about them being a fighting family!
Iâm so glad you did a follow up on this
This mom is just mad that her son went and married his wife without talking to her or asking permission first. Itâs control issue that she blames her daughter in law for. Thatâs an unchangeable emotion, sheâll be like this until the day she dies.
She could have watched them conceive and still says it's not his.
I've been with my bf for 4 years and watching this I feel so lucky that his family loves me and mine loves him. His mom is definitely a bonus mom for me!
If I was this lady, Iâd be like âis it your mom? Cause I donât think it is and until I see DNA test, sheâs not setting foot in this house! And if I see a DNA test, I STILL donât believe sheâs your mom!â
CLICKED SO FAST pt 1 is one of my fav vids to rewatch
Also, it couldn't be 100% cause she isn't made from a singular DNA strand. It takes 2 to tango.....idk grandma lost me at "why not 100%". My husband is caucasian, and his family wants cute little mixed babies running around while I want carbon copies of my hubby. But if anyone was to question, family or stranger, hubby said he is ready to push faces and break jaws.
Your hubby sounds stable. You do too
Little intense.
What the father should have done is do a test if she is her mother.
That is a horrible mother-in-law, I would not let her be near my children. No grandkids for you, lady.
"her everyday get up" đđ
Itâs like she expected a small card that stated, âRobert you are NOT the fatherâ
I love you two, keep bringing the love and birthday wishes!
Good god I rolled my eyes so hard my lower left eyelid started twitching when mom said "probability? Why isn't it one hundred then?" Lordy Mama's never had a medical test eh?
i love thes types of videos!! keep it up ken
you be awesome
"God, that hurts me." I concur.
Iâd be like âbye ignorant grandma that talks like Bubblesâ. You will NOT deny my babies.
These specific genre are my favorite
If my mother or stepmother ever acted like that, she would be cut out completely. I would never let her see her grandkids.
Speaking for the Nancys of the world, we dont claim her.