Sadhguru on House Wife and Career Oriented Woman

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  • čas přidán 19. 09. 2018
  • In this video Sadhguru, had explained to Juhi Chawla that being a housewife wife is not a simple task. A housewife is as important as a career oriented woman.
    Any woman who is a housewife and feels inferior in front of other women who are working and financially independent, must watch this video. This video will give you a new perspective on the value of your life.
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Komentáře • 269

  • @monikagupta2009
    @monikagupta2009 Před 2 lety +170

    he is right but the reason women are becoming financially independent is because she sees in her family that her mother is not valued at home because she doesnt earn money

    • @kinjalkverma4880
      @kinjalkverma4880 Před 2 lety +22

      Not just this but also because men expect wives to be slaves of their loving mothers. Women are also scared of in-laws. They don't want to get trapped among them. If she is a financially independent woman that she can easily leave a husband who forces his mother on wife and also leave those in-laws who try to take full control over woman in the name of tradition of "KANYADAN" and "PARAYADHAN". And they also want to be financially independent because they will be able to support their own parents other patriarchal culture will not let them take care of their own parents

    • @fire6915
      @fire6915 Před rokem

      Exactly.

    • @spellcheck5393
      @spellcheck5393 Před rokem +11

      No one who is dependant is valued.
      Its important to earn your money.
      Stay at home is big scam

    • @arifabd
      @arifabd Před rokem +1

      ​@@spellcheck5393 Stay at office for women is the actual scam.

    • @ashish6345
      @ashish6345 Před rokem +25

      If husband has enough money then he will not value her even if she is financially independent. Respect doesn’t come from financial power. If one’s husband is unhappy in relationship then nothing can stop him from leaving her even if she makes lots of money.

  • @tanusreeee11
    @tanusreeee11 Před 2 lety +39

    It's women choice whats she want.. Nobody pressurised her to go...even there are many men who dosnt want go to work they want to be home maker...career oriented girl can b married them...so It will be balanced

    • @bileyroy9609
      @bileyroy9609 Před rokem +1

      But it never happens...

    • @albatross22433
      @albatross22433 Před 8 měsíci

      ​​@@bileyroy9609it happens at some houses my brother in law is unemployed my sister is working but he does that well and he has good personality and good character than most of men I have seen,i mean men like him are very few ,now the kids are grown up they are planning to get job for him I think freelance ,the kids are going to school , ofcourse They cook ,wash together according to their days and work schedule at the same time they teach their children to take care of themselves.

    • @LoneWolf-wq6di
      @LoneWolf-wq6di Před 4 měsíci

      Some Women may blabber ideals.
      But the truth is that they always marry a man who is better than them in any way be it emotional support, money etc.
      No women wants a loser

    • @Satarupa902
      @Satarupa902 Před 3 měsíci

      It may never happen sadly, we cannot break certain society rules. Everyone is adjusting to it and moving forward.

  • @flutterbyenthusia
    @flutterbyenthusia Před 3 měsíci +6

    I am what I call a Luxury Housewife. I create an oasis for all who live here or visit here to forget all of what is happening in the world and remember love, peace, harmony, sanctuary, pleasure. We turn off all news, put away all projects, and just luxuriate in being in beauty. People love my home, what I have created. And I love it too. It's pure paradise. I would never want to be anything other than what makes my soul sing. And that IS being a Luxury Housewife. My two favorite quotes: “The man was procuring and the woman was thinking about the more beautiful aspects of life.”
    “Or if she just lives beautifully like a flower…” That is exactly my life! I think the feminine and domestic arts are SO VALUABLE!!! Something to cherish and revere.
    There has to be a quality of life that is the very purpose of procuring money. If there is no one attending to the creative vision, the immense amount of care and craft of that purpose - of making an exquisitely beautiful life - then the money isn't fulfilling purpose to its full potential.

  • @anusuya_blissful
    @anusuya_blissful Před 4 měsíci +11

    Those women who work alot outside home but after coming home are tired and the children are being taken care whole day by nanny. You are good, modern and you are beautiful.
    Those women who are working day and night outside home and inside home as well to support their family financially, to make family live hand to mouth or above hand to mouth. You are good, empowered and beautiful.
    Those woman who are housewife and doing your job with love and care for your children and family members.
    You are good and following tradition. You are beautiful.
    To talk about respect, whether you are working outside home or inside home, as an employee to others or self-employed or housewife, there is no guarrantee that you will be respected by your inlaws, family members or children. Take in written words. You are earning your own wealth or not, that will never determine that you will not be humiliated. Get out of that fancy dreamy world. A woman who earns will do one thing after getting humiliated - take divorce or stay separated.
    Whereas a non-earning woman will either continue to ignore that humiliation or disrespect or will talk back and fight word for word for sometime, will eventually realise it is futile. Then some will decide that the need has come to start earning for own self. But she will never be able to respect those who have disrespected them earlier. While some women will ignore all insults live without earning because for them insults does not matter and they are thick skinned. They will tell to relatives come tell me whatever you want and I will live in my own way. This can happen only if husband is supportive.
    Women who have dreams to achieve outside home are great. Women who have dreams to achieve inside home are great.

    • @RavinderWriter4565
      @RavinderWriter4565 Před 20 dny +2

      Very true mam.
      Written very well ❤

    • @jasdeepkaur7577
      @jasdeepkaur7577 Před 19 dny +2

      Very well said. By the name of feminism , today not only men but women also devalued housewives. Among my peers females are not supportive towards housewives. I mean women have faced so much in the past let them have freedom to choose their path. We should respect their choices.

  • @h9production
    @h9production Před 3 lety +18

    this is what a highly evolved person would answer this question with simplicity.....pranam sadhguru

  • @thoungambakeisham8439
    @thoungambakeisham8439 Před 2 lety +15

    This is what I have been Searching for. Thanks CZcams 😊

  • @sri9649
    @sri9649 Před rokem +55

    Being as housewife is peaceful life no one ever understands the real joy of it.

    • @spellcheck5393
      @spellcheck5393 Před rokem +24

      Yep as long as you get money out in your personal account.
      Ones the love goes away women end up homeless.
      Many don't even divorce abusive husband's because of hey do not earn and are financially dependant

    • @Balli942
      @Balli942 Před rokem +11

      Jo aurat kisi dusre ke paise par pal rhi ho... usko kya pta Khushi kya hoti hai.

    • @EE-ElectricalEngineer
      @EE-ElectricalEngineer Před rokem +12

      ​@@Balli942 tera pakka divorce hoga

    • @anshusharma-ev7qq
      @anshusharma-ev7qq Před rokem

      ​@@Balli942 tum jaise ghatia soch ki auraton family ko barbad karti h. Paisa to koi bhi chutiya kama leta h. You have been fed fake feminism that some how earning money has great significance than making home.

    • @Ashish__11
      @Ashish__11 Před rokem +2

      ​@@EE-ElectricalEngineer😂😂

  • @shubhamkumarjha3426
    @shubhamkumarjha3426 Před 2 lety +27

    Ya that's my opinion too women should be independent to choose whether she wants to do work outside or she wants to be a homemaker one should not demen any women on the basis of choice she makes

    • @Olivia-bs5wj
      @Olivia-bs5wj Před 2 lety

      It’s not fair though if you are ugly and aren’t able to be a house wife :)

    • @fire6915
      @fire6915 Před rokem +3

      Here you are correct.

  • @besmartwithart5392
    @besmartwithart5392 Před měsícem +3

    My problem is that other women have problems because I am housewife.....those womens always dominates me for doing nothing, they tries to feel me that I am useless... And the other side my family is satisfied about who I am and what I am doing...my family is very positive about my home making... But don't know why people have problem... Very dominating society

    • @slowonNurburgring
      @slowonNurburgring Před 12 dny +1

      If they think that you r useless, have no value being a homemaker, you should think "they are miserable, they have to work to make money while you are taken care of financially, having free time to spend with family"

  • @knowinglyurvi8827
    @knowinglyurvi8827 Před rokem +35

    This is the real problem that they have glorified housewife job.... going out for working is not just about earning money but also about ur personality development

    • @anshusharma-ev7qq
      @anshusharma-ev7qq Před rokem +1

      Housewife job should indeed be glorified. Any tom dick n Harry can go out an earn.

    • @VerMirror
      @VerMirror Před rokem +3

      It is. If it weren’t about money - they would be out doing volunteer work developing themselves.

    • @santanu-fr
      @santanu-fr Před rokem +1

      Oh yeah & who's gonna develop the two children? Dont wanna do it? dont procreate

    • @knowinglyurvi8827
      @knowinglyurvi8827 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@VerMirror I said "just"about money...and at this time when inflation is at its peak it's a mandatory for both husband and wife to earn money

    • @knowinglyurvi8827
      @knowinglyurvi8827 Před 11 měsíci +6

      @@santanu-fr y is it necessary to have 2 children??And both the parents have equal responsibility of the upbringing of the child

  • @pizzalot
    @pizzalot Před rokem +26

    Sadhguru , Next time when you spot a housewife ask her what she wants to make her daughter into and see if she gives "house wife" as an option.

    • @santanu-fr
      @santanu-fr Před 11 měsíci +16

      Well if a woman doesn't stay behind to raise their kids then perhaps the father have to become a stay at home dad. I wonder how many women are willing to marry a jobless man? Probably .001%
      Why? Because a woman who earns will always want to marry someone who earns more than her, But for a man there is no such necessities, This however excludes those where two people working are mandatory to meet basic requirements.

    • @inspiringyou5642
      @inspiringyou5642 Před 5 měsíci

      @@santanu-frgo and see the world..just staying in one society teaches you nothing

    • @carly582
      @carly582 Před 2 měsíci

      Thats such a lie. My best friend and i are women our male partners stay at home we are breadwinners. Then sometimes it changes because roles are flexible. I dont know how anyone can stay in the same job (yes homemaker is a job) for many, many years.​@@santanu-fr

    • @prana9714
      @prana9714 Před 5 dny

      ​@@santanu-fr me! I always wanted a jobless guy.. but well, if I fall in love with someone, I don't care about their salary

    • @santanu-fr
      @santanu-fr Před 5 dny

      @@prana9714 sure sure & pigs fly

  • @Balli942
    @Balli942 Před 2 lety +32

    They say that they are just a houswife because they are in the house .and their husbands are taking care of everything. You know Sadhguru women go out to work and also ' shape the next generation' .' give them values ' be good mothers. You don't have to be in the house and be a maid to be a good mother. 😌

    • @AndrewT343
      @AndrewT343 Před 2 lety +4

      tum joh keh rahe ho woh sunneko acha hai magar practical nahi hai.

    • @crayon7369
      @crayon7369 Před rokem +1

      Lol

    • @crayon7369
      @crayon7369 Před rokem +1

      You are one of those "pick me " type of girls. Just because you do something you want that to be gold standard for all the women. You are dumb to call a homesmaker as a maid. I feel maids are working women. Maids? Are also working women.

    • @ModernHomemakingMom
      @ModernHomemakingMom Před rokem +8

      Yes you do! To be a good Mom you need to raise your children. Who is raising your child when you are working 50 hours a week? The daycares that close up early and leave the children behind? The daycares that hire just about anybody to teach, feed and change
      your child?
      Why is this so hard for our society to understand? Moms need to be there to be a mom.

    • @spellcheck5393
      @spellcheck5393 Před rokem +7

      They do a lot of things at home as well but are underappreciated,unpaid.

  • @familyallabove
    @familyallabove Před 2 lety +16

    This is exactly what i need to hear !

  • @Reflection_09
    @Reflection_09 Před rokem +35

    Having a career and being independent is need because people look down women if she is not earner even one day all we want her to sacrifice only which is appreciated by no one.
    So If women stepping out and having a career as need of her survival for her selfishness for her own benefit and for her own security then what is wrong in it. ..
    We need to change beekh mangne vala culture

    • @MohitSingh-gv3gf
      @MohitSingh-gv3gf Před 6 měsíci +3

      Aisa kuch bhi nhi hai soch galat hai ...
      Aur jo log aisa sochte hai ki housewife h=kuch nhi karati toh ye cheez unn ka gurur hai unn ka ahaankar hai paiso ka jis ke dum per wo apne aap ko he sab kuch smjhane lagate hai warna homemaker housewife bohot sacrifice karati hai family ko sabse aage rakhti hai ...
      I really want a good caring loving housewife as my life partner ...

    • @muskantiwari9877
      @muskantiwari9877 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Housewives aur career oriented dono striyo ki respect kro

    • @MohitSingh-gv3gf
      @MohitSingh-gv3gf Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@muskantiwari9877 Housewives deserve more respect ...

  • @promitdutta3029
    @promitdutta3029 Před rokem +21

    "....survival as more important than the aesthetics of life." 👍

    • @LoneWolf-wq6di
      @LoneWolf-wq6di Před 4 měsíci

      From an individualistic view it is yes.
      But from a collective view it is not.
      Suppose you have a car and the engine do not want to do its job instead it wants to roll around like a tyre.
      Then tell me will this car work
      Similarly if either the husband or wife is earning enough money then i do not think that it is necessary for the other to also indulge in work.
      Note- I do not mean that if the husband earns money then he should be bossy due to this.
      Couples should always pool their earnings and spend it for the collective good of family rather than personal matters

    • @lepham71441
      @lepham71441 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@LoneWolf-wq6dispending on personal matters should be ok if it is reasonable and within the budget of the household. Aside from shelter, food and clothes, everyone has personal needs and hobbies. Otherwise, they are merely existing and not living. Supposedly, if a husband earns 4000 dollar per month, it would not be unreasonable to give his housewife at least 100 for her personal needs and saving, would it?!

  • @universejoy17
    @universejoy17 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Very beautifully said society should learn from this❤❤❤

  • @kanchanjha3308
    @kanchanjha3308 Před rokem +7

    But irony is that Sadhguru daughter will be career oriented women. First he should teach her daughter to become housewife.women should we financially independent because may be in future his husband might exploit her n doing job is not all about money it's about growing your mindset nd personality with ur personal identity.a child first teacher is mother so she must have growing mindset n personality which will be transfer to her child.staying in home makes mind dull.if u can give 6 hours to her child it is enough. Because ur kid himself will not be available more than 8 hours .as he will go to class n doing other stuff .a mother cannot be present everywhere to teach him values.

  • @prakashdesai534
    @prakashdesai534 Před 3 lety +56

    But what if one day her husband and family starts exploiting her? If she was financially independent, then she had the option to live life on her own and such things happens all the time, don't you think that is why woman must be financially independent?

    • @bookerbooking1048
      @bookerbooking1048 Před 2 lety +5

      Because women do house works too. They have to work out too? It's not fair.

    • @prakashdesai534
      @prakashdesai534 Před 2 lety +29

      @@bookerbooking1048 So you are telling me an independent earning woman can't keep a maid? You want her only to do housework? What's the problem in keeping a maid?

    • @bookerbooking1048
      @bookerbooking1048 Před 2 lety +5

      @@prakashdesai534 keeping maid is not always possible because of the salary . She earns and give most of it to the maid.

    • @prakashdesai534
      @prakashdesai534 Před 2 lety +14

      @@bookerbooking1048 yes, so what is the problem in that, that is what i am asking you? she is making less now but she will make more as she will gain experience.

    • @bookerbooking1048
      @bookerbooking1048 Před 2 lety +6

      @@prakashdesai534 i don't agree with you. Man should support woman financially. It's his debt.

  • @jamesbarkam1028
    @jamesbarkam1028 Před rokem +4

    This is absolutely right
    How beautifully said

  • @swatibattul5838
    @swatibattul5838 Před 3 lety +10

    Superb...Thanks Sadguruji...this v vl definately change the vision towards homemakers 👌🏻👌🏻🙏🏻

  • @srinathsatya
    @srinathsatya Před 4 měsíci +4

    Being house wife is also a highly respected position.

  • @princedsamuel2760
    @princedsamuel2760 Před 2 lety +13

    if only one persons earning was enough today, most guys would keep miles away from career women. thats the truth.

    • @nousername8947
      @nousername8947 Před rokem +11

      Wrong. Career isn't just for money, it's also a mark of education and efficiency. One of the reasons why guys who are higly successful in their respective careers, from iitians to IAS, go for career women when they can very easily get homemakers. Having the financial independence to choose- whether to work or not, is a prime block in intellectual as well as psychological development.

    • @pot8735
      @pot8735 Před rokem +4

      @@nousername8947 I think it's because women are hypergamus like women marry a man on their level and above but men marry almost any level. And also I think men don't go for career women mostly of course men go for educated women, but not the career oriented women. Men choose Educated women because everyone getting the education also nowadays education is like a basic form of knowledge and it helps women at some point, but also there is no women are not getting married because of uneducation they anyway going to get married coz women value is not the education or career they have value already as a women that why men always chase women. If u are saying that men choosing career women and also imagine that if a same women who pursued her career and if she says I will a housewife and take care of home do u think that same men are going to say no are they going to reject her if she leave the career and choose to be a house wife? No men would reject her. So what happens here is that women expectations are gone higher they also demand that they need to pursue her career after marriage but also women are Hypergamus they will mostly go after the career men, no women is going to pick a man who is lower than her in terms of education and career . So that's why now u are seeing those men who married a career women also keep in mind they won't say no if she is a housewife. So the reason is women are Hypergamus, women demand to accept their career, they demand more financial thigs so even some women who gets married with no career fighting for them to allow them to pursue a career and even their husbands are in the government jobs and looking after the family because of the more financial expectations and also nowadays women are being pushed to the ideology that if a women is housewife she is a slave or servant but that's not the reality men are attracted to the feminine like nurturing, caring to look after their children and him, a women who makes house a home that's what men are attracted to. Like the women are attracted to man who is in high social status, high value, brave and confident enough to lead a family at the critical situation, chivalrous, competent there are more factors like that. The difference is because we are biologically different we value different things and have different interests. If u take a pool of 100 men( 50 men who has good paying career s and 50 men low paying career or as house husbands) what do u think the most women would prefer the one who are in well paid career and likewise take a pool of 100 women(50 of those who pursue career and 50 of those who are house wife) the most men even the highly wealthy men and most men prefer house wife it's not because of women should dependent, a slave or servent. It's because that's what men are attracted to. It's like cooperation u give ur 100 percent and I give my 100 percent. It's really a chaos when it's a 50 50 coz we are different. And also imagine if all men demanded the career women then it will more harder for women coz look at men jobs mostly those are hard working physical laborious jobs lot of men work more than 10 hour job. So what about those women who can't find a job. There is also a saying that when men pursued a career or job he will feel that he is finally worthy of getting a relationship but if a women pursued a career she will feel that there is no need of men. So this is why the chaos.and I'm not saying women should not work but it must need to be Managable

    • @SPat478
      @SPat478 Před rokem +3

      Women also are keeping the gyes away from themselves, who tries to supress their identity and who do not motivate them to follow the dreams.

    • @pot8735
      @pot8735 Před rokem

      @@SPat478 in evolution for women the men is needed because of the pregnancy and child rearing so she can't have or create resources but as the time goes by men build the world for women to be comfortable and then now women can make their own resources so women don't need men they only want men. So reason for men and women commitment is because the environmental factors that makes a women dependent on men now men build the world that a women can live independently .the commitment and love when there is a dependence if women become independent there's no need of men according to our biological evolution. That's why if a men is independent men feels that he is now capable of starting a family but when the women become independent she feels that there is no need of men. So it's not that men oppressed women it's the environment pressure of humans to survive. So love and commitment only happens when there's a dependence. Love has no biological reason . So love won't happen without any reason. That's why when we compare the traditional country and liberal country , in liberal countries more divorce and more single and depressed people are more when compared to traditional countries.

    • @Raythelightlife
      @Raythelightlife Před 5 měsíci +2

      ​@@SPat478 Right we don't want those guys who don't value our hard work and education. They just need a maid. Why to marry such gyu. Hum kya khana banane ke liye paida hue hai. Women is human first she has identity her aspirations her desire to live life

  • @Priya-bf7ys
    @Priya-bf7ys Před 10 měsíci +6

    Education, job have a plenty of pressure than being a house wife. Many women said I am just a house wife. Do you know how your husband struggle with their job.

  • @nkj3985
    @nkj3985 Před 2 lety +25

    Its matar of choice. The girl has right to decide . She has right to choose love or carreer. Or marriage or career.
    Third grade people thing that a house wife is a life time maid.
    Not every girl can get job . Some get and many don't. Hence those girls who are in job must focus on job and be involve in building nation's economy. They must not be pressurized for marriage.
    Also the boys who want to marry can get n number of beautiful , caring and good cook girl to marry. They preferably must not marry a girl in job . Either it will spoil her carrier or it will spoil marriage life of both. So best way that boys wants a wife or a real better half ( gharwali), first they must make it sure before marriage. If they want gharwali then they must refrain from a working women or girl. She may not become a home maker completely.She can not serve you delicious meal. And even after marrige you have to be dependent on zomato,swiggy etc... She can only become a life ""partner"" .
    Girls have their right to choose their carrier objective and boys have their right to choose a best suiting home maker better half for them.
    Boys can have a trial and error relationship with a girl working. This will help them to know consequences after marriage with that girl. In relationship they can know and analyse how much time she can give to them and home,,,in kichen ,, on bed .. making coordination with her job. If you find in evening a women tired of job, stressed,,,, unable to make your stomach happy (ie actually way to men's heart) and not able to accept sex request as tired too much, boys can predict the situation after marriage. Hence best way to get break up here. It may be painful for short span but it will prevent whole life to be painful.
    And boys, Also if you find a women may be very good or great scientist or genius , she must not be distracted to ordinary activities such as marrige. They must be given full opportunity to serve nation and mankind.
    The ideal age for boys to be Father of first child is 27-28. If wants second child then 33-35. Hence they must marry a women only who can gift fatherhood to them in this time slot. Life is very small . Especially young age period. And this precious part of age must not just spoiled in fighting, divorce , separation just for sake of surviving a Baniya (employers)
    So any girl who is carrierstic should be given full freedom to make carrier.. to fulfill her and her employer's goals and objectives. Only some stupid boys expect marrige with them or they are after such girls to marry too and their marriages end to disaster after some time.
    You can see indian husbsnds of manny successful and busy women enjoying official tours at Pattaya, petppong thailand and at Cebu, Angeles, Burgos cities of Philippines. So what is the meaning of such marriages.
    I know some stupid people won't like my comments. But boys must not care those. Boy are free to prefer what they want irrespective of gender discrimination.
    लड़के merry-cherry.com पर रशियन और बाल्टिक देशों से दुल्हन लाने की।कोशिश करें।वहाँ पुरुषों की संख्या कम है और वे फैमिली बनाने को लेकर बिल्कुल सीरियस नही।अतः वहाँ बड़ी तादाद में लड़कियां शादी कर फेमिली बनाना चाहती है।।अतः अब सोच को घुमाएँ।उन लड़कियों को प्राथमिकता दें जिन्हें पती और परिवार पहले चाहिए।
    जो इंसान ये बोले कि शादी जॉब न करणे की कन्डीशन पर करना, या उसकी फेमिली ये चाहे तो तो लडकियो बिल्कुल मत करो उससे शादी।। हर किसी को मुकम्मल जहां नही मिलता, कहीं जमी तो कहीं आसमा नही मिलता।।

    • @jackreacher9351
      @jackreacher9351 Před 2 lety +2

      Fantastic comment. Clarity is very important for marriage.

    • @fire6915
      @fire6915 Před rokem +7

      Yaa u r right.
      But you know what's the problem.
      Let me clear you.
      My brother got two marriage proposal one female is iitian nd earning 30 lkh + nd other one BA pass out nd not doing job.
      But here what my brother want.
      He is saying I will marry iitian for my status symbol but I will not allow her to do job.
      But I will not never ever marry BA pass girl because she is not my type.
      Nd just because of this mentality, he is unmarried at 40.
      Nd those two girls who are earning nd not-earning both are happily married according to their conditions.
      So here is the problem with my brother he don't know what he want to do.

    • @fire6915
      @fire6915 Před rokem +4

      Another case with another relative who is RAS officer.
      He wants housewife and he is getting.
      But after marriage he will not stay with her. It's his condition.
      He is also unmarried at 38.
      Actually boys don't know what they want.
      So at last problem with the boys not for girls.
      Girls are completely clear towards what she want in their life.
      My sister is working woman nd get married working man both have already decided to not get baby.
      My another sister wanted baby nd housewife and get husband too.
      Both are happily married.

    • @fire6915
      @fire6915 Před rokem +1

      Nd sorry your poor thinking nd attitude just stuck on sex. You are just portraying women is made for fulfill sex desire of men.
      If man is not able to fulfill her wife desire, so what should she do. According to you she should leave right ??
      I mean apply on your own mother if she don't allow your father for sex so your father should leave her.
      Nd what about your mother sex desire.

    • @albatross22433
      @albatross22433 Před 8 měsíci

      ​​@@fire6915true 💯, definitely true yar working women and non working women with clear mindset are all married and happily living .yup there are men do who don't want kids too and we do have options now a days to freeze egg and sperm I think women and men who earn lot and can afford it will choose this.

  • @blossoms974
    @blossoms974 Před 2 měsíci +1

    A woman is also not a robot that she can take care of her children as well as the office.If she is capable to do everything for her children needed to become independent and strong in their lives,then it's enough .why to measure the growth in terms of money.rightly said by sadhguru.working of women has just become a status symbol in the society.

  • @smc1774
    @smc1774 Před 2 lety +11

    I agree with Sadhguru 100%.👏👏👏👏

  • @SPat478
    @SPat478 Před 2 lety +34

    If mothers are only responsible for raising children , then what is the role of a father? If earning is only a responsibility of a father?, then children perceives their father as only an ATM machine...

    • @ThiruRavz_PsPk_
      @ThiruRavz_PsPk_ Před 2 lety +15

      living being is always connects well with mother's in all the way. so women says something to children it goes in their hearts. that's fact. women can excell his children by being with them. but father can't do that. father can speak , maintain ,raise but mother's can make them super powerfull. so mother is always needed for children not father's. don't think against to God creation . accept and Go.

    • @54321saqib
      @54321saqib Před rokem +6

      You want children to perceive both parent as Atm

    • @medic_cheemkachu333
      @medic_cheemkachu333 Před rokem +1

      sure I accept the fact that men Should help women whenever in need in household work(mostly cooking) never leave them alone at all.
      BUT U SHOULD ALSO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT OVER 95 PERCENT OF FARMERS ARE MEN WE CAN'T COOK FOOD UNTIL THEY GROW THE CROPS.
      99 PERCENT OF FRONT LINE SOLDIERS ON BORDER AS A MARTYR ARE MEN NOT GENDER SHOULD PROTECT ALL GENDER
      99 PERCENT OF BRICKLAYER AND SOCIETY APARTMENT BUILDERS ARE MEN WHY SHOULD ONE GENDER BUILD THE SOCIETY WHEN EVERYONE IS RESIDING IN IT. MASCULINITY WOULD BE NEEDING EQUALITY HERE TOO.

    • @gifudemari4072
      @gifudemari4072 Před rokem +6

      First of all, how can u compare a man who has so much to offer in life to money, a man’s duty is not just to protect and provide for his family but also indulge some good skills into his children , to teach them value of hardwork , god , self respect , dignity etc. most of my friends belong to army background , their fathers are out for months and years working , do u think their children consider them as atm only and nothing else . Both gender should understand their roles collectively amd work as single force for the best outcome.

    • @SPat478
      @SPat478 Před rokem

      @Gifu demari , my question is not comparing the work of a father with a mother, no one can beat a mother's sacrifice. when will a man indulge a good habits in children, because he will be solely busy with his career? When he will get a time to do it? But if the woman will share his financial burden too, both d partners will be responsible for the growth of child, as d time will get divided.

  • @reshmam7784
    @reshmam7784 Před 2 lety +7

    Well said !

  • @ModernHomemakingMom
    @ModernHomemakingMom Před rokem +19

    Remember ladies, live beautifully like a flower. Why are we fighting to make life hard?

    • @theparttimehomemaker
      @theparttimehomemaker Před rokem +1

      It's so true!

    • @nousername8947
      @nousername8947 Před rokem +12

      Living Beauifully is living the way one wants. If she wants a career but is forced to be a homemaker, that's the hard life.

    • @ModernHomemakingMom
      @ModernHomemakingMom Před rokem +9

      @@nousername8947 I want to understand how someone is forced to be a homemaker? Did you get forced into to having a child? Did you get forced to marry?
      If you’re career oriented be happy thats your choice. Your either not having children OR use your check to pay somebody else to raise your child. Many career oriented women tend to make soooo much money that their attitude is a turn off from real relationships then you look to “luxury lifestyle” to fill the void.
      Career focused women produce a bunch of children that can’t live up to their potential bc Momma still think it’s about her.
      We are told we can do it all and be a boss chick and there is just not enough time or energy.
      If you want children and a family who else is supposed to raise and take care of them? 🤷🏾‍♀️
      I believe the levels of control that women seek and think they are getting through a “career” can be satisfied by learning how to managing a home and uplift your man to his fullest potential. That’s the only area where you are not replaceable. Why is it acceptable to help your boss reach his goals but not your husband?
      No lifestyle is easy it just the life that you choose.
      In the modern times we are lucky we can become creative with how we bring in income if that’s your desire. But family still has to come first.
      If you really think whatever “career” you have is more valuable than having a family then you shouldn’t have a family. Just be comfortable with your decisions. But the study shows, through the current state of the society and children Mommas need to be home just a little bit more. ❤️

    • @spellcheck5393
      @spellcheck5393 Před rokem +10

      You stay like the flower you are.Some women are born fighters and not cowards

    • @spellcheck5393
      @spellcheck5393 Před rokem +9

      @@ModernHomemakingMom yep because women needs to be all about children.How dare she has any aspiration and personal goals over her children🙄
      When these children abandon you with 0 Rs in your account or you need to beg from them for small small needs you will understand why financial independance is important for living a life of no shame

  • @RS-uz3ud
    @RS-uz3ud Před rokem +6

    You are dispensable to your boss and company but you mean the world to your child. The 8-5 grind is exhausting and stressful with little flexibility and you end up not giving your 💯 to family. Take a career break to make memories and cherish time with your kids!

    • @lepham71441
      @lepham71441 Před 4 měsíci

      But you also make yourself dispensable to your husband.

  • @komaljayswal5070
    @komaljayswal5070 Před 8 dny

    Just a thought I have, please let me know if this is fine ?
    What if a woman since the start of her career, works towards becoming financial independent. After becoming financial independent she get retired and enter into motherhood and keep generating basic money out of money for her security and rest all expenses father would be taking care of.
    Now in this case, as she is financial independent so no one can anymore exploit her, as she is not dependent for money on anybody.
    And as she is no more working so the roles will be happily segregated :- raising kid (mother) and earning money (father)
    Isn't this a good plan ?

  • @theparttimehomemaker
    @theparttimehomemaker Před rokem +9

    I no longer follow Sadhguru since becoming a born-again Christian, but there's a lot of truth in some of his videos- this one is one of then.

  • @stardom3915
    @stardom3915 Před 3 lety +4

    Excellent 👌

  • @vikramchawan3882
    @vikramchawan3882 Před rokem +1

    Guruji, thank you for this answer 👍

  • @roshansinghkshetrimayum2002

    How much money a women make don't determine how much she is respected. But for men it does, nobody respects a man who do not provide or protect but it is not a womens burden to provide and protect. Generally speaking it is optimal for healthy family that the man provides and the women supports her man

  • @prameelarani7425
    @prameelarani7425 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Well said Sadhguru ji

  • @brajeshkumar-si9bm
    @brajeshkumar-si9bm Před rokem +1

    Sadguru is right

  • @birinaL
    @birinaL Před 2 měsíci

    Both of them are correct 💯😊❤❤❤

  • @lalitabamania3873
    @lalitabamania3873 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I agree with you sadguru. 👍🙏🏻

  • @user-zv6jv9on3z
    @user-zv6jv9on3z Před 6 měsíci +1

    I agree there needs to a balance, someone who wants to work outside the home should do that but other parent should be home watching over the foundation and future lineage both are full time jobs and full beautiful balance of Provide and Nuture, Masculine and Feminine ☯️

  • @richasrivastava5910
    @richasrivastava5910 Před 4 lety +2

    Great 👍

  • @babyborn87
    @babyborn87 Před 5 měsíci

    I was not knowing things have been developing to this point. I was thinking the procent of working women in India was only around 18 , as a result of male abuse and lack of interests in childcare and housekeeping from there husbonds,now i get to know its no longer like this, that women all around the world are now free and independent and we do no longer need to feel bad and worry for ower indien sisters. Soon we will see the indian society develop really fast whit public transportation better pay at the work place, better schools and day cares ,What a beautiful world we can now all live in ❤ much love 💜

  • @chhavivarshney5910
    @chhavivarshney5910 Před rokem +1

    Superb

  • @h.googleplaystore9689
    @h.googleplaystore9689 Před 2 lety +1

    Sir aap meri tarah sochte ho sir Rona aagaya 🥲

  • @shabnoorjamal3209
    @shabnoorjamal3209 Před 11 měsíci +1

    So true

  • @moonflower0041
    @moonflower0041 Před 4 měsíci +2

    You can have trust on your parents' money ....but you can't trust your husband's money😊That is why being financially independent is important even for survival ....and you can enjoy the life aesthetically even if you are working....just like many Women who are doing this these days....

  • @arifabd
    @arifabd Před rokem +2

    Something I agree with the guy.

  • @kirtipandey1653
    @kirtipandey1653 Před rokem +2

    🙏

  • @rakhimehrotra6943
    @rakhimehrotra6943 Před rokem

    Namaskaram 🙏

  • @garimatalkk7420
    @garimatalkk7420 Před rokem +1

    Thank you sadguru

  • @Raythelightlife
    @Raythelightlife Před 5 měsíci

    If having children is full time job then why we are not getting salary for it? Does women don't have right to be financially independent. Saari umra Hume kisi ke aage haath kyu failana padta hai? Humare hard work ki value kyu nahi hai?

  • @renjithbs7331
    @renjithbs7331 Před 8 měsíci

    അമ്മ 💞🤘

  • @inspiringyou5642
    @inspiringyou5642 Před 5 měsíci +1

    You don’t even know the world if you don’t go outside…how is she supposed to raise a child the right way then ?? Very regressive thought..every human should earn their own living even if it’s not big..and yes women especially Indian must learn how to take financial responsibilities..it’s not about the amount of money it’s about learning..and this 21st century not cave time…things are evaluated by money not muscles..change is the only constant thing Mr. Godman

    • @sasuke36571
      @sasuke36571 Před 5 měsíci +1

      if this change is causing a lot of problem then its good according to u

    • @sriramdasarathy9089
      @sriramdasarathy9089 Před 3 měsíci

      Well, it is not a regressive thought. Women who stay at home have to be valued because of their contributions. The problem is that so many husbands are bloody idiots! They need to respect their wives who are homemakers. If homemakers suddenly vanish from society, our culture will crumble.

  • @suryakumariayyagari4487
    @suryakumariayyagari4487 Před 7 měsíci

    Men and women both equally must take part in raising the children. Those were the days which made women inferior to men... Those were the days when women were forcefully confined to home..and those were days women used as slaves... These dharma shastras were written by a man to show the hippocratic nature of human beings. Women were not given a chance to raise their voice. It was a worldwide phenomenon just not for India. Now men women are equally contributing their services to science and technology and also playing a major role in family income. So it is the need of the hour to work with cooperation and coordination. It is the matter of understanding ..

    • @Fin-Tuber
      @Fin-Tuber Před 7 měsíci +1

      Very Funny ! Lol I don't know which school you studied -You must have bad father -Feel sad for you.
      To give such comments on Hindu belief system is toxic .
      How come entire world is wrong and you only right ?
      Oh !!! " Women not given chance to raise voice"I think you are poor in social studies .
      Go and live in countries like Iran , Iraq , Pak etc then you come to know the value of our country .
      You seem like might be going through an identity crisis what's causing all this confusion and frustration.
      High time for you to go for mental health check and a less fretting about context in which sadguru is telling us.

  • @gayathrisankar1072
    @gayathrisankar1072 Před 11 měsíci

    What is he even talking i dont get it!!! Is this even a question to be asked to him?
    Why are we discussing this? We dont have to. Each person in this world can decide what they wish to do and become in life. He said if its for income or passion women can work!!
    May I ask, what else is a reason for women to focus on career ? It’s obviously for either of these.
    Nurturing kids is godly feeling and as a mother I know what that is, but tomorrow if I wish to work, nobody even has to sit and discuss this way why iam doing it!! Unbelievable!

  • @Suhani3006
    @Suhani3006 Před 26 dny

    P

  • @essammohammed3947
    @essammohammed3947 Před rokem +3

    Search d same topic done by any muslim preacher, d comments wud b he is denying woman’s rights. Am i wrong here?

  • @Divine25831
    @Divine25831 Před rokem +1

    🙏🙏