How To Destroy Your Enemy Without Fighting | APJ Abdul Kalam Quotes
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How To Destroy Your Enemy Without Fighting | APJ Abdul Kalam Quotes
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A man who remains calm when he is provoked, is a dangerous man.
Forgive and leave it in God’s Hands,He will repay.
“shows that many people bring bad upon themselves: "The one who diligently seeks to do good seeks favor, But the one searching for bad-that is what will surely come upon him".
_Proverbs 11:27
“ They will be unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They will be cruel and hate what is good. Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good”
_ 2 Timothy 3:3
Being calm in every situation was a dangerous weapon
Fruitbeast? Is that a gay pun? Sounds kinda gay.
When facing an enemy show them that you are confident about the situation Silence is the best remedy 👍just ignore and continue your Life ❣️
@@ravenone6255lol
But internally we are triggered
@@Blessedhappygood Your enemy wants you to get triggered that's their plans RESILIENCE COURAGE is the REMEDY Let them see their own IGNORANCE 👍
Evidently you've never been in a situation because ignoring is the last thing that you could possibly do. I was just in a situation And honestly I don't know how I end up getting out of it because this guy had put on gloves and everything. But I already know if something like this happens again i'm going to start carrying for sure
@@tonyphills6075Life in general is a TASK and when you give them a response your ENEMY begins to enjoy himself or herself because your the one who gave them the PERMISSION Be strong courageously with a SMILE have DIGNITY about your own self INTEGRITY is a POWERFUL word which RADIANTLY appeases everyone 🌹
I surround myself with lots of prayers and calmness and they disappear from my life eventually the enemy can be the person closest to you the one that you love and care for ❤
I dun have enemies it's their own thinking which I can't change
Actually that's the only way tho he didn't mention it
This message is very true
Fully correct
Prayers come from the root word to prey, ask yourself what preys? Hunters prey on the weak.
Karma wins last and Karma is on my side
God wins. Get God on your side, as it is written, if God is for us, who could be against us. God bless!
@@justme-cj7rswell said. 😇
1. Stay Calm.
2. Look them in the Eye.
3. Team up with Allies
4. Build yourself up. Living best life. Self care.
5.
The actual enemy in the material world is your own mind ...
@@karlriegler1704animals aren't our enemy
@@karlriegler1704-people who are jealous.
And what they are one of the family friend directly looking at their eyes can make the situation more worse.
Enemies around me are those jealous people. I passed them though I am their junior. They tried to bully me but I am very thankful of my seniors who supported me in any way and in anytime. ❤❤❤
This can especially apply with a hater at work who is threatened by you.
If there is someone at work who treats you unkind and with hate for no purpose of your own, doing these things and more can shift things in your favor. I am personally applying these tactics now and they work.
Here's more of what I do and have learned that works:
Always smile. No matter the circumstances, the hater need to see that you are unbothered even if inside you are.
The hater need to get out of your way. You do not get out of their way. In other words, don't shrink down to a mere version of yourself in their presence. They need to see your head held high and you functioning as your usual high level engaging self
Speak to them say hello. Then ignore them for the rest of the day. They do not exist outside of a formal greeting--- and you don't ever greet them by name. Not ever. They mean nothing to you and nor does their name.
These tactics beat them at their hate of you for no reason.
This happens alot at work, especially among women, regardless of age or education.
Smile mostly when your heart is actually open.
Very true indeed, have been experiencing these kind of problems at work
Man you are on point! Face this every day!
@@misterjahbless Apply them to your situation and see it it helps. Many times when these haters are defeated by your strength and strong work ethic they usually resort in slandering you throughout the workplace and even going to other staff speaking negatively about you to isolate you. These are clear signs of jealousy if this occur. There are a whole set of circumstances and tactics if it has reached this far.
@@akanisilikucali1718 So many of us do. Its a shame people do this to one another, especially at work. Hopefully, these tips can help you? 🙏
No one is my enemy in my life...i forgive everybody in my life.....I'm got no more grudges against anybody in my life....if people think I'm bad they will leave....if they think I'm still lovable they will stay....i cannot compel everyone to be like me.....I'm calm and happy....I'm at peace...god is with me....i trust God 🙏
"PRAYER ... IS THE BEST ABOVE ALL!"♡
I pray and God leads me into the successful happy life that He wants for me. A life without those jealous angry family members who want me to fail.
Prayer is a waste of fkn time.
@@paulleckner8235Tskkk Tskkk Sad Reality 😢. Sometimes friend or other is more better than hmmm tskkk tskkk..
Anyway Good luck to you. Godspeed.
Prayer and action prayer alone is only talking to yourself.
God is the weapon against an enemy and silence which is Gold.
Don't thrive off of the acceptance of others. Be strong and find that inner strength. When you rely on others to lift you up you'll be disappointed every time. That's why step 2 or whatever one that this video said to do is a BUST! Don't ever rely on others in any situation. Being silent is important but for the best results be content with yourself and give it to God. You got this. YOU alone got this!
Thank you.
Very well said. I have problem with my family putting me down and my heart gets sore. I will take your advise. God bless.💙
I don't have enemy's i am loving every one that y i got stuck in my life all ways people are making trouble for me but not going to fight with them always God punish them I saw so many things in my life I have good experience kindness people all ways alone thanks sir 🙏
Then you are hypocrate nodoubt
If they are doing wrong defeat them or else they will trouble other innocents
Its not possible
More Blessings for your kindness 😊🙏
Very good ....god will take care of u ur life will good always.
This helped me alot my enemy is crying right now
Wow😊 Praise God
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
How
I forgive them and don't hold a grudge against them. However, I learn from what they did or said to me and I don't forget it.
You are singing my song! My continued successes while living apart on my own and independently from those who hurt me only proves that I don't need them.
@@paulleckner8235 Good for you. Good luck to you.
Bingo
0:06 1. Stay calm. Don't let your enemies see you upset.
0:30 2. Look them in the eye. Do your best to make and hold eye contact.
1:15 3. Team up with trusted allies. You're more likely to defeat an opponent if you outnumber them.
1:55 4. Build yourself up instead of bringing them down. Disappoint them by being the bigger person. When you lash out at your enemies, it shows that they've gotten to you--which means they've won.
stay calm is the most importend. Dont just react, think instead.
overthinking is bad for health tho all the time. So react .Sometimes best to react n sometimes best is to say nothing
Lot of them their jealous of me because God bless me every day ❤
Really Tskkk woohhhhhh. So sad to know that..
share love
True
You let God take care of them. Vengeance. Is mine saith the Lord.
THERE IS NO GOD . . .
I'm am fearce I am unstoppable, with the truth and facts, nothing else compares
I’m finally retired now, but I have vivid recollections of the people I’ve encountered through my 43 years in the medical profession, let me be completely frank here folks, medical professionals are the most cuckoo-cuckoo individuals In many ways (not everyone of course)
Which brings me back to a very favorite quote from Mark Twain...”The better I get to know people, the more I love my dog.” And you know something? he was right there. 🎯
PS: Tis is directed to all the bullies, the trouble makers, obnoxious Doctors that make nurses cry with their antics, the gossipers and backstabbers. (guess I covered a chunk of traits of the human race there)
No time for bullies keep walking let them move along elsewhere
When I was a youth growing up, I played the Cornet, & Trumpet, gained grade 5 with distinction. My dad had a short temper, and would belt ne or hit me hard, I said if you hit me again, I will hurt you so much . I think he knocked me out. I didn't, play another Musical note Never spoke to him again. One night I heared such deep sobbing, and crying, asked mom what's going on, she said you have broken your dad's heart❤❤. And you know what. I DID THAT without laying one finger on him.
Don't waste time and effort making enemies. Make money, instead.
Some enemies just come out of the blue, especially those you trusted and family members.
Enemies are not made
@@xolisile34yea u trusted them so much but in the end they'll backstab you and leave you
I bet you’re broke af…
The person is not my enemy the devil
Is my enemy. He’s simply using them to come against me & they don’t realize it. It’s time we go after the puppeteer and not the puppet. If you simply beat up the puppet, the hand will find another puppet. Go after the puppeteer and eliminate the problem.
This is what I’m trying to do.
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Silent people you can teach them BUT YOU CANNOT MANIPULATE THEM NOR DECEIVING 😢
It doesn't matter how well it you handle yourself against a bully, when they are a sociopath who turns all the dumb people against you there's nothing you can do.
In this case it is only God who sees all things who can rescue you.
I understand what you said cos I have experienced it before. I suffer!! I survived by the grace of God
@@lindaesmeradaSame
@lindaesmerada You can turn to God in prayer. God will fight for you as you rely on Him one day at the time ✊🙏🙏🙏🙏
Stay clam, don’t give them the satisfaction, look them in the eye, Smile..
Staying away from toxic people is the best thing you can do for yourself, and just ignore them completely as if they do not exist 😊
That's basically true. Staying calm is remaining positive. Watching all the way from Vanuatu
Very good advice and that's what I have done to my enemies and for if someone comes to me and start telling me about them I just keep quiet
Love resist hate. Hate resist love.
Be friend first , not be enemy first.
Nice tips.. Enemy always negative person till die...so be cool and try the best...
It is written, we must endure to the end
Looking people in the eye is the main one
No need for an ally to defeat an enemy! You alone is strong enough to face one. People around you has nothing to do with your own battles. No need to find sanctuary nor find people that will empathized with you. You are not fighting like going into war you are fighting for your truth.
All these things work very well. Some people can jate u for no reason
Those types of people hate themselves
Very true. Somehow the state of mind is not ok l giuess😁
People that hate you for no reason are simply ENVIOUS of you. Their hatred ( envy) lets you know you are better than them. It’s flattery. Enjoy it!
This is very true. I suffered this from a so called head of unit at a former job. It was terrible!
She hated me for nothing so I realized it was envy.
She had issues with a whole lot of people in the office space. She doesn't talk to a number of people, always fighting. She loved to bully others all the time...
Hmm, I suffered in her hands.
But my God rescued me.
My good human relation alone kills her cos she doesn't have it.
I thank God for saving me from such a toxic woman of a head of dept.
All you need is #3. Having a bunch of people taking your side is hands down the best. You don't even have to be on the right side of the dispute.
If you do not want to be on the wrong side and want to go to hell....together with the many, unsuspecting moving forward on the broad way, finding "a bunch of people" (reasonably quick) becomes impossible to do in this world.
Thank you! I needed this. I knew that ridiculing myself wasn't the case, and I'm glad I didn't react ❤.
THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL MESSAGES I HAVE EVER LISTENED TO. IT'S PHENOMENAL..!!!
PUTTING ON THE FULL ARMOUR OF GOD AND KEEPING IT ON 💯 SPEAKING LIFE LIVING THE WORD OF GOD OUT IN MY ACTIONS DAILY IN JESUS NAME AMEN 💯 💛 🙏🏼
The sword of the spirit and the breastplate of righteousness.
Violence is also a very effective technique
but you can end up in prison...if you get caught ;-)
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A great leader and a great speaker
Hello swapang how's your day hehehe 😁
If you're really want to get them you got to stay calm you got to make a very detailed plan you got to execute your plan with precise timing and then a quick extraction. Anything else is just talk and chatter and yep yep yep yep yep that's all it is
Thank you for this important information.
YES I BELIEVE AND I HAVE FAITH IN GOD.
That's The Best thing that we can do specially in the time's of difficulties and troubles. Don't lose Faith.
Thank you sir for your beautiful advice.. I have learned a lot sir..
“do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?”
~ Abraham Lincoln~
But some people never change
Oh my God *top 10 worst potus ever * Forgave the Confederacy then he is killed *January 1,1866 KKK is born &his VP was an awful guy 😮
Thank you Sir for your
most precious psychological concern on how to defeat the enemies. God bless your channel and you. Amen
Well honestly that happens to me when I use to work at the restaurant and one of our dishwasher throw me a staff and I didn’t fight back until 9months later i saw him on the bus stop and I call him and I saw he’s reaction like he was shock when he saw me I have a good car and A good life while he still the same person like who he was before and now I can tell that never took a revenge to others but instead show them your far beyond grater than your enemies
I moved into a place the neighbors hate us and they are all against us we have no one to help.
No one to help? Now give God a try. It is written, if God is for us, who could be against us. God is in control of all things. Give God a try. God bless!
God is the God of miracles. When He gives you a plan that works don't say you were lucky, say you got blessed!
THERE ARE NO "ENEMIES "........THERE IS ONLY YOU
There's both actually. But dealing with ourselves is harder
@@Blessedhappygood ONE IS NOT DEALING WITH OTHERS........ONE IS ONLY DEALING WITH ONE'S OWN SELF.....
@@glenoneill3950 that is true actually
Eye contact isn't fencing, you need to do it first and show an absence of fear in the moment. No one who is predatory likes an immediate sign that they fucked up.
No. 4 should happen naturally anyway.
Pray...And Let The Lord Of Hosts Who Dwells Between The Cherubim handle it. End of story. Period.
I had two and recently, my happiness and not allowing them to get to me, have made them humble themselves and now they actually talk to me again. Not that I needed that, I was happy with how things were, but still had already forgiven them. I just know not to trust them as much again. No love lose, they are already suffering for their life ways.
Your enemy will always see you with evil eyes but when you see him just smile. Your enemies can't destroy your future not even they can end your life. With "these poisoned words nothing will hurt you because when someone hurts you be confident because the arrow or a sword can't hit a powerful person it may be broke easily" ❤
your enemy is yourself not anyone else. others are only a reflection of yourself 🤗
Punch you're self if you believe in that case. Drama hehehe are you crazy? Hehehe 😂
yeah.. drama circle of life is crazy 🤭
It is so truth my friend you are so smart
Peace of mind is the biggest wealth.If you have peace of mind,nothing bothers you.🙏
Miss you Abdul Kalam😢
We miss you too Abdul Kitab. Hehehe 😂
There are those that no matter what at one time or another will approach you in some kind of way that you have to defend yourself.
But remember it better to be calm 🌅🌄
Forget me not who are they enemy no time for her
Yes, they would like to make what they wish for.
Luke 27-28
27 “But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.
But most importantly,”Don’t Be aNo Fool”.
Thank you very much my dear mother universe.
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Love it ,exactly what I'm doing,thanks
Amen! I am unstopable!
Good advice does it work in 3rd world countries?cultural lingual. Differences could have opposite effect😢
ULTIMATE ONE ...😅 THANK YOU GREATEST DR. KALAM SIR. ALLAH MUST GRANT YOU THE JANNAT 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
1.) Stay Cal..
2.) Look them in the eyes, and laugh at they ass.
3.) Team up with some other people.
4.) Build yourself up and be the bigger person.
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"Love your enemy".
Pray for them 🙏🏻.
Bless those who curse you
You can't love your enemy dummy else he'd be your friend
Nope I can't. I can ignore them but don't try to go near me. Do that when they know how to read my mind. This time all they can do is just to use hackers and pretending to be someone.. hehehe yeah I feel while someone read my messages hehehe this is for you bastard..
But that last part, you’re right, success is the best revenge by being better and focusing on your life, you defeat, your enemies a lot more you pretty much make them seem meaningless and you’re better than them. That’s actually the best kind of revenge. Best kind of success
I disagree with the eye contact.
Many conflicts or fights happened after having eye contacts.
When the our enemy push us backwards, i suggest to start seeing chest area.
Not gonna lie i loved this.
*ANGER & NEGATIVITIES HATE BEING DENIED AND LEFT ALONE!!!*
*THAT'S WHY MEDITATION AND SILENCE IS EXTREMELY POWERFUL!!!*
He who does not dwell on the enemy will lose many times. There will always be enemies. It doesn't matter if your passive, or kind or which God you pray to, try to be prepared and keep a low profile.
Exactly. Hostiles simply exist naturally. Accept it and take appropriate measures to prepare yourself for them.
God fight my battles psalm 35
I faceing bullies in school, thank you so much for this video❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊
Enemy is most trusted than a friends
Thanks sir I will definitely use some of this
My enemy try many times to distroy me by coming out often to mock me and my father tolerate them
Also accept that your enemies exist naturally without you really having done anything all that unique to earn them. They were already there, simply waiting to become hostile towards you because you had the gall to exist in the same space as them/looking or talking at them the unapproved way/having traits or quirks that they don’t appreciate/etc. It’s business as usual. Apply everything told in the video and move along your own daily routines.
Thank you God❤
EXCELLENT VIDEO. We need more videos like these. Anything to stop anger, hate, shootings, etc.
How an old man is the one who bully me who do negative .oh my God he even relate to our barangay captain I'm the one who bully him ... I taught 23 yrs in teaching never bully my students...God bless
This message reminds of my old job. No wonder I never fit in because I’m
Always focusing on myself, I’ve got friends, I’ve got life outside work, I exercise a lot. Negative people always been my problem in the work place. 😅
Thank u so much ❤❤ I find myself following these all rules in the present 😊
Yeah this guy really looks like he’s destroyed many enemies
1. Pray for them to repent and turn to God.
2. Do not wish bad for your enemy.
Very difficult. The one that is on my case refuses to give up. Some people can't sleep unless they have caused trouble and problems for others.
No one is enemy in this era, they just gotten confused sometimes, let them gaining trust on you! That you can the best friend of them, is just that simple as look like!
Forgive and leave it in God’s Hands,He will repay.
“shows that many people bring bad upon themselves: "The one who diligently seeks to do good seeks favor, But the one searching for bad-that is what will surely come upon him".
_Proverbs 11:27
“ They will be unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They will be cruel and hate what is good. Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good”
_ 2 Timothy 3:3
Nowadays I'm smiling to my hater
Thanks a lot
I appreciated your advice
“We shouldn't be looking for heroes, we should be looking for good ideas.”
― Noam Chomsky
Very good and yesssss best method
every time someone hurts me, attacks me, makes fun of me, hates me! i let them go.... i turn the other cheek! why you ask? because 100% of the time they will pay... i dont create reality! this is not my world! someone or something is watching it all.... and no one! i mean no one gets away with anything.. you must learn this... let the universe unfold! be good to people who hate you! bless those who curse you! and you will will see yourself! you will begin to fell sorry for those people...even death will follow them! but dont become them!...
Thsnks friend .Best wishes and good bye .
Thanks i really needed these suggestions this moment.
This helped me a lot thanks that I am not alone.Carry on bringing more advises Thank yu
No one's advice or wisdom is valuable...only gods wisdom...🙏☮️❤️❤️☮️🙏
Yes! You got it! Instinct = truth (gods wisdom). Man made wisdom is a fraud.
@@mirailieva8849 I know...I can live more peaceful relying on gods wisdom.....never a wrong decision
Tnk u for this powerful video i did once probably do it again for my new journey
Thank you God for sending this message directly to me today. I really needed it. I love you and my faith is unwavering. Amen.
Never trust anyone handle it alone