THE DAY I'VE BEEN DREAMING OF | The Next Chapter in Life
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- As I stand here amidst the lush greenery of our homestead, I can't help but feel a whirlwind of emotions swirling within me. You see, after years of dedication and hard work in the corporate world, I've reached a pivotal moment: retirement.
It's a decision that's been brewing for some time, yet as the reality sets in, I find myself oscillating between excitement and apprehension. Leaving behind the familiar routine and security of my career is daunting, to say the least. But deep down, I know it's the right step for me, for us. And as I look ahead, I'm filled with a sense of gratitude for the opportunity to pursue these dreams alongside Todd, my steadfast partner in this journey. Together, we'll cultivate not just crops but a life rich in meaning and connection.
So yes, there are butterflies fluttering in my stomach, uncertainties lingering in the air. But beneath it all, there's a profound sense of excitement, of anticipation for the adventures that lie ahead. And with each potato planted and each plan hatched, I'm reminded that this retirement isn't just an end-it's a beginning, a chance to write the next beautiful chapter in the story of our lives ♥
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Watching you describe the wife you want to be for Todd was one of the most precious beautiful moments I think I've ever seen on CZcams! The love you have for him almost spilled from your eyes ;) Congratulations on your retirement! I'm looking forward to following along with all of your new dreams! ❤
Couldn’t have said it better! ❤❤❤
So happy for you. I worked 45 years in healthcare and I have to say I felt the same way, I really wanted to just stay at home with my children. Sometimes life just dictates our directions. I am now retired and am raising 2 grandsons which I love, I garden, can, cook and I like all that. Your days will fill up without you realizing it, you will love it. Congratulations.
So true. Never been better rested as well as good energy morn to evening. :). 🌸
Congrats Rachel. I just retired and the corporate world is off my shoulders and I'm at least 50lbs lighter!😂😂😂❤❤❤
I remember a year to 2 years ago you were having a tough time. We don't know what was causing it but we (viewers) were so concerned because you're emotions are easy to read. Fast forward to today & you look so darn happy! And deservedly so. Retirement is so great. You said you don't know what you're going to do with yourself but trust me. You're going to be so busy. You don't look 55 so you must be retiring early. How nice. Hopefully, Todd isn't far behind. We are so happy for you!
55? Most ppl don't retire till 65
I just meant normal early retirement age of 55 as far as corporations go. Maybe thats not the normal age anymore. I realize many people aren't even able to retire which is sad & unfortunate.
55 is the right age. I turn 55 tomorrow May 17, and likely this coming December I’ll be offered a early retirement. So tempting!!!
@@jessicah2345you said 75 not 65. 65 makes much more sense
@@niecieyukiye6654 it was a typo that I fixed yes
I have watched you and Todd for a while and I am just touched by how you "just" want to be his wife! You have a great partnership and love and anyone that watches can see that. Thank you for being vulnerable and thank you for loving one another!
It never occurred to me that other woman would think like I do. For years I was a stay at home mom and then I went back into the workforce. My husband is older than I am and he is gearing up for retirement. My heart so desires to actually be a house WIFE. I never really truly understood what that was about until recently when it has been put into my heart. In a sense I want to make sure he has the best retirement possible. I want to be by his side and enjoy life together. Thank you Rachel for showing me I'm not alone in this way of traditional thinking.
So happy for you to retire! I could see how exhausted you were with work! Congratulations and welcome to the best stage of life!
I so can understand. I like you spent 25 years as a wife, then stay at home mom. Went through a divorce when my youngest was 15 and just needed a job. I had never worked other than in high school and although I had a college degree, didn't feel like that was where I was supposed to work. God provided mightily and although I only work part time, it has kept the kids and I fed and taken care of. I love my job and the people I work with BUT I have so many hobbies and aspirations from gardening to crafting, baking and sewing, building stuff that I just don't have enough hours in the day to get everything done. I too am a dreamer and dream of a small homestead where I can put my knowledge of gardening and the like to use more efficiently. However, I don't see myself retiring any time in the near future. I have two special needs children who will forever be dependent on me to some degree and since they can't really contribute financially, it's up to me. I thank God daily for his blessings and just try to do the best I can at everything I touch. I know that one day, I may be able to fulfill that dream if I continue to be frugal. Thanks for sharing your story.
Being a godly women is one of the most precious things we can do as women.
What a blessing it is for you and Todd. And, how proud God must feel to see one of His children strive to serve in godly ways.
I, too, hope to one day be able to fully step into being a godly wife because I know the more I serve my husband the more I fall in love with him.
God knew exactly what he was doing when he created us and when we follow his ways it's truly a beautiful thing to experience.
So excited for your life ahead.♡
Tearing up with you 😢❤
Congratulations Rachel!! I was forced into early retirement with the onset of covid. It was the best thing that's ever happened to me! Today, I can't even fathom how I managed to work 60 hrs a week and still managed home to. Anyway lady... take the time to smell the flowers and ENJOY!!
When I retired I left it in God’s hands and He made it happen
Congratulations Rachel. Everyone’s dreams are different and equally valid. I’m happy you are getting to experience yours.
Those laughs were EVERYTHING. GOD BLESS RACHEL AND TODD AND 1870 HOMESTEAD!!!
It's nice to see a happy couple.❤
I here you. I raised my son by myself with no support. I finally retired in 2019 at 65. I don’t regret anything. My son is now 39 and the best guy who helps me.
Congratulations on your retirement!!! What an amazing accomplishment! Side note, I love the way Todd looks at you sometimes. You can see the love.
Racheal, when COVID hit & I was furloughed from a position which I’d held for 40 years. Over those few months of being home, I loved just being here to take care of the house, cook meals, etc. it really gave me insight to what retirement would be for me & I could not wait for that time to arrive. After being called back to work, it was perfect timing to pull the trigger! Within a few short months, I turned 65, had then completed 41 years & made the joyful decision to retire. Yes, it is scary but not for long! I do not miss waking up @ 530am for that job! So, congratulations & enjoy your well deserved retirement!
Congratulations! You'll be so busy you won't miss a working job. Enjoy! I called it quits at age 62.
So true! I retired at 62 and I love it. More time to do all I want to do and so busy making myself happy.
Congratulations, I just retired at the beginning of April. It's so freeing!!! Be blessed, you guys!
You will absolutely LOVE retirement!! I just retired also - well, retired from going to an office daily. Now I’m a professional grandma, chicken tenderer, goat keeper and milker and gardener. I’ve not looked back! I do not miss the office (don’t have time!) Enjoy!! And congratulations on seeing your goals achieved!
Oh I have happy tears for you! I retired at 56 after 31 years in the court system. I totally understand how you feel. Congratulations ya’ll!
I used to want to be a vet, even went through one year of school but then I met God and God changed my heart and made me want to be a stay at home mom. It’s biblical for women to be at home and men work outside, Titus 2 states so. It’s unfortunate that these days that COL is so high that both mom and dad have to work.
thats kind of sad honestly.
These days? There have been 2 income households for decades.
Congratulations Rachel! I just celebrated 30 years with a large corporation, I turn 55 tomorrow, so I will have my full pension, and like you, house is paid for, no debt. Likely I will be offered early retirement in December, but I just don’t know if I can do it. I will vicariously live thru you for the next two’ish years! So happy for you!
Wow! That's amazing! Congrats. 😁
I'm so happy for you guys. I totally understand how you feel about taking care of Todd. My husband is retired military,disabled and he made so many sacrifices for us and our future. I retired because of my health but my dream was to be able to enjoy with him and to do all he has been doing for us since he retired. Enjoy this new stage of your life Rachel and live your dream.Love you guys!
You going to wonder how you ever worked! You will easily fill your time. Congrats!
Congratulations on your retirement! Excited for you 🎉 I can see the joy on your face, it’s lovely 💚💚💚
Good for you Rachel and CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! I'm retired and LOVE everyday. Its such a blessing and I'm happy for you and Todd. You will do great with your little retail stand.
I retired in 2018 and LOVE it! The first three months were and adjustment (especially reminding myself that I no longer had to set the alarm on my clock). Take it slow and at your pace, life is on your schedule now. Enjoy!
Such wonderful news! Retirement is such a gift and I’m sure both of you will thrive. As to having lots of free time, be careful what you wish for…that free time is filled VERY quickly! My story is somewhat like yours, in that my professional life walked side by side with my family life. Raising kids while teaching full time was a stretch, especially since my passion for teaching and desire to always be there with and for our children weren’t always compatible. But the story of your children’s’ successes shows you found the balance. Now you and Todd can explore this new chapter in your lives with joy and eager anticipation. I am so happy for you!
Strawberries look great! I am 42 and I’m not retired yet but I was able to be blessed to take a job at a college to enjoy summer and winter holidays with my grandson. Honestly you’ll see time will go even faster! Enjoy your loved ones! And your husband! I feel your sacrifices because I lived them!
Oh my goodness, I'm so happy for you!! I usually just quietly watch the video and move on, but I had to stop and comment on this. I want to tell you how much of a blessing you are. When I started watching your videos about 2 years ago I adopted you in my heart as my "aunt Rachel" and you're usually the first place I go to find gardening or canning answers and inspiration. Your heart for your family and doing the homesteading life is so inspiring! God is using you in so many amazing ways, and now He gets to do even more blessing through you! If I had to choose someone to exemplify the Proverbs 31 woman, it would be you! Thank you for being the ray of sunshine that you are, and I'm so excited to see what God's going to do in your lives going forward ❤️🙌🏼
Congratulations Rachel. I just retired in January at 63. I looked after seniors for years. Loved the job. Simply exhausted. I have a wonderful husband who just held me one day and said " That is it... quit. Retire. We are okay. Do what you want." I love canning, gardening, baking, making cakes for people. I do not miss working ... not for one minute.
Oh, girl, I get it! Being your husband’s helpmeet is golden. Both of your lives are going to be easier and happier. I love everything you said. You made me cry.
Don’t worry, you’ll be busy. Next year is my last year of homeschooling- a 27 year adventure. We have seven children and the youngest will be graduating. Then I will be a fuller time housewife and mom. What you said about finding purpose resonates true.
I am excited for you.
Y’all’s giggles at the end… that is why I’m invested in y’all. You’re genuine! Please stay true to yourselves! I’m over the moon excited for y’all. Here’s to your next chapter. I’m here for it!
Ticks and chiggers are just horrible this spring. Congrats on the retirement. Welcome to the club. Our GOD is good.
And mosquitoes 😢
You will love it! I retired luckily at 55. I to just wanted to be a wife and take care of my husband and do what I wanted to do when I wanted to do it. Congratulations!!🎉🎉🎉
What a lovely love letter to your husband. My husband and I retired 2 years ago and I also have had trouble finding my purpose. But we have taken up gardening and I now can pressure can so much than before. My next venture, though small, is to begin baking bread. I love to bake but the 2 of us can only consume so much. My husband has a large family and we are able to give them some goodies from time to time. blessings to you and yours and enjoy your future to come.
I'm with ya Rachel! Sitting at a desk everyday drains the life out of me, but unfortunately I don't have a choice. I am lucky with a very lenient job and then understanding my family is #1, but man, what I would do to be home! Happy Retirement, enjoy it, you deserve every minute of it!!!
I'm so happy for you!!! The farm stand will be a hit! You are a natural and a wealth of information for your future customers!!! God Bless you both!!!!!!
Congratulations 🎈 I was scared at first too ,but 10 years later I’m still loving it!
I was blessed by my husband too be a SAHM for 22 years. Throughout that time, I volunteered with Girl Scouts, in the schools, I taught Religious Education, and I became a volunteer EMT. That lead me to my Paramedic career, both in the field and teaching in the classroom. I won't do the field work forever, as I'm almost 50, and it can be tough on the body, but I will always do something in the classroom. So if i'm not digging in the dirt or scooping up chicken poop, or playing with my bees, I'll be teaching the next generation of EMS providers. Theres room for all of our passions, and I'm so excited that you are finding and exploring yours. Also, what a beautiful marriage you have. It's so nice to hear a woman speak so lovingly of her husband and wanting to serve him as a wife. So often we're told that independence as a woman is strength, but I think knowing the beat of your heart, resides in your husbands chest, is a far greater strength. God Bless you and Todd. Looking forward to more Rachel adventures!
***Where do I begin...Let's start with congratulations on your retirement! God blessed me with a similar "Early Retirement package" also. It was so amazing that I knew His hands had crafted it just for me!!! Don't worry about being "relevant" in this new phase of your life. He will continue to open doors for you. You are good at listening for His leading in your life. You will always give it your all and we are blessed to share in your journey. Finally...you cracked me up when you told us not to share with others your new website ideas. I laughed out loud!😅 Seriously? 23 thousand people have viewed this post😂...but don't worry, your secret is safe with me!!!!****
we knew the minute the video started that you were retiring. You had the "look" on your face. That's the same look I had 7 years ago. Congratulations!!!!!!! Us old folks in Florida love your videos. Now maybe you'll have more time for "what's for dinner" videos, and cabin visits !!!! Best to you and Todd.😄😄😄😄😄😄
Happy retirement! So many new adventures await. Glad to see you happy and I'm looking forward to seeing what's down the road for you! 😊
I always wanted to be a stay at home mom. I didn’t get to do it either. I went to college as an adult then worked as a Registered Nurse for 25 years. But, now my daughter and her family live with me and I’m loving retirement.
Rachel, this video brought me to tears of joy for you. I wish the world valued women who just want to love and minister to the hearts of their husbands and children. I totally understand! Nothing (and I’ve had a meaningful career that meant so much to me, ever compared to the years I stayed home with my children and the joy I have of working beside (from home) my husband and caring for him. We run our business from home so that I can be here and care for our home and my husband! We have figured out a way to run the business (no more employees, subcontracting certain aspects, etc.) so it doesn’t occupy too much of my time and energy, what I used to do in 40-50 hours a week, I can now do in 5-10 hours a week! Ministering to my loved ones is my most important priority!
Congratulations on your retirement! It's truly a blessing to see your dreams become a reality. I'm excited to join you for you, upcoming homestead and DIY adventures. Here's to many more fulfilling moments ahead! All the best.
You're retiring on my birthday,which is today. May there be many blessings and new growth for us both!!!!
Bravo, Rachel, bravo! May God bless you richly during your retirement and beyond!
Congratulations! Don’t be afraid. I retired December 2022 and it is Awesome. 👏🏽
The giggly bloopers at the end were the BEST! I'm so happy for you two.
That was so beautiful! I know the feeling of being unfulfilled at a job and always having the feeling that there is more to life than this, more joy & finding your true happiness. I cant wait to retire, been here 25 years & not even 50 yet (started in college) but I know my time is coming. The way you saw God synchronize His plan for your life gave me so much hope & inspiration. Thank you for sharing your heart!
Congratulations on your retirement 🙂. 🎉🎉🎉. The lady that comes to help me, we celebrate today often. So celebrate every day you can.
Congrats! Hoping one of your plans is to do a private group so we can go more in depth on topics. You are one of my favorites to learn from.
Congratulations!!!
I retired in 2010, best decision I ever made!! Hubby retired 2016 !!
Love you guys bunches !!
Patricia ( Daniel) IN
Congratulations and everyone woman needs a Todd in her life ❤
Wow, so happy for you Rachel! I know exactly what you are feeling.
When my husband retired he thought about how much he would be able to do once it was official. I think he went through that process phase “who am I and what does God have planned for me” feelings.
He now has gotten found his purpose and we both wonder how did we get everything done while we worked. So just know you will have many feelings, new thoughts and wonderful amazing blessings. You will be a beautiful blessing to Todd! I believe your desire is right in line with Gods plans for yours and Todd’s life. Many blessings to you during this transition.
Congratulations. I retired December 30th, and was scared to death. What was I going to do? Been the best decision I made. You got this girl.
Congratulations on your retirement!
I am so excited for you, Rachel! Y'all have always been my favorite channel to follow because I appreciate how honest you are about how much work it is to homestead and how you managed it as two people working full time. I felt incredibly seen and watching you and Todd manage all that helped make it feel *real* and *possible* for my partner and me. Having a farm stand has also been one of my future dreams and I am so excited to follow you on this journey as well! Thank you for sharing your lives with us 💗
I am beaming for you!!! And that God thing and numbers to pay off the house, it happened for us that way too!!!! Gives me tears of gratitude every time I sit with that blessing. Oofda!!
Woot woot! Congrats to you, Rachel. You’re embarking on a new journey. You’ll love it
Congratulations, Rachel ! You deserve this time of retirement. It is a big change a good in this chapter of your life . Enjoy it my friend❤
Rachel I so respect your viewpoints. I was teary eyed when you were talking about being Todd’s wife. He seems to be a wonderful man and you both deserve so much happiness. Love your channel… Watertown NY
Beautiful! You, your vision, and being a better wife! Your vision is mine, also! God bless Todd and you and how you believe!
Congratulations on your retirement! You will always have something to do. I just retired after 44 years of service on March 15th. We up and moved from California to Florida. Big changes but looking forward. Again congratulations!
Many people struggle to see the possibility of a fulfilling life after leaving a job. But having less stress and being joyful is priceless.
I am beyond thrilled for you and Todd. I knew Todd was a good man. You dire can tell he adores you. Prayers for much success for you guys!
Congratulations on your retirement, the wife & I both retired in 2021 and first 2 months felt like we were on vacation. Here it is almost 3 years later. Time goes by a little faster now, and it seems like we’re busier now.
Congrats! You'll never be bored. Endless jobs around homestead.
Oh my lord, you both look sooo happy. Bless this new season of life for you both.
Congratulations on retirement. You'll love it. You'll not be bored.
I LOVE the way he looks at you, RACHEL! And the way you look at him! The love between you two is obvious! How refreshing! That alone makes me want to watch your channel! Thank you both!
I just hit 21 years in the Navy (15 has been reserves). My kids are going to be out of the house in the next 3 years, and I’ll be retiring around then. I’m so ready to slow down. I’ll still have my civilian job, but my goodness it will be nice to only have one job.
I’m so happy for you! Enjoy getting to just be Todd’s wife, you deserve all the joy this change is bringing!
I'm so, so happy you are retiring! Like others, I was worried about how exhausted and stressed you've looked the last year or so. Congratulations!!!
Congratulations on your retirement Rachel!! You and Todd were blessed with each other, and I can hear the love in your voice and see it deeply in your eyes that you now can and will be the wife you want to be to Todd! I am so excited about your new adventures. God has seen you through all of this and He will continue to watch over you and bless you and Todd!!
❤ It's a blessing to transition into the next phase in life. God says the Lord 1st, husband then family. We great fully accept your sharing of thoughts & suggestions for this transition. Blessings💞
Retirement is the best job ever!
Congrats Rachel on your retirement, a great new adventure awaits you, which is now time to enjoy what you want to do & spend time with Todd, I am so happy for both of you , thank you so much for always sharing your projects with us all, you inspire me with my 12 raised beds for veggies at my home in the burbs, my garden overflows with activity of bees birds & little animals that gives me a lot of joy! lots of hugs!
May you be blessed so you can bless others with your great garden goods, baked items and stuff.
Awesome news! Congratulations! Cant wait to see your farm stand! Its great to hear someone speak on what God has blessed them with! You and Todd both are truly blessed, not just with the basics, but with each other. Some people never find that certain someone , but the love you have for each other clearly shows! 💕💕💕
I too find great joy in taking care of my husband. That part of your video absolutely resonated with me. I commend you for it, and wish you much happiness going forward in the next phase of your life. It isn’t as long as you think, so make every minute count!
I am so happy for you Rachel. This next chapter for you is well deserved. On the note of being able to be Todd's wife really hit me hard and brought me to tears... I too dream of that day and its so amazing you are finally able to be the wife you've wanted to be for him. Love you! and cannot wait to see whats to come for you!
Congratulations! I retired 9 months ago. And agree with others, you'll be surprised how you had time to work.
I am not religious but when you say you want to be the wife your husband deserves that just hit me. You two are such a beautiful example of what a true partnership is. I can see myself and my husband in you. I hope that doesn’t sound weird! We are at the beginning of this haha a wee way off! But congratulations to you for your retirement. I want to come and visit your farm stall! Sending you all the love at the beginning of this transition enjoy the next chapter!
I am thrilled for You and Tod!!!!! God has plans for you, so don't rush ahead of Him :) Enjoy each and every day!!! Sending prayers for you. Excited for the next part of your journey. Thanks for sharing your hope and dreams.
God is so Faithful and a God of order. Awesome dreams and visions.
Congrats! Im retiring this year too in June. 36 years in elementary school as a teacher and then a reading specialist. Im so excited to not have to get up and go to work! Enjoy!!!
So happy you finally get to enjoy the role God created women for! What a blessing! I'm so sorry that it was stolen from you for so long 🫂. His love for the "non working Rachel" is a testament to God's perfect plan for women to be keepers at home and help meets to their husbands ❤
When you said retirement I literally got tears in my eyes. I retired one year ago and have never looked back. You are younger than I was but I have learned that we just adjust to our new normal. You are going to absolutely love it! You'll never run out of things to do and if there are days when you're feeling lazy then you can just be lazy. I wish I was closer so I could see your stand in person. I think you have a beautiful dream and you'll never regret being free. I wish you the very best. Thanks for sharing your story. I am so very happy for you. I love to hear the excitement in your voice.
I love the way Tod looks at you. His love shines from his eyes. May Yah bless you both abundantly as you enter this next season in your lives.
You can see how happy you both are. Congratulations and Happy Retirement! ❤
Retirement is so awesome! I’m so busy!
I'm so glad for you. I retired February was a year ago, and I love spending more time with our grandchildren.
That mean we’re going to see you in the garden more often that would be great ❤
Congratulations! You will be so much busier……I am and don’t regret it! 🎉💕
May 17? That's tomorrow! That will be a big day for you Rachel. I will be thinking of you and praying for you as you say goodbye and close the door to that period of your life. I'm so excited for your future, not just to see what kind of new content you will churn out for us, but moreso for how retirement will change your life and enrichen it. You will be greatly blessed!
Congratulations Rachel!!!! I don't think Tod would go 100% crazy yet!!!❤😅
Oh, my stars, we lived parallel lives. I am about to retire in 3 weeks. As you told your story it was as if you were telling my story. I, too, have so many plans for my retirement, many of them around my little (soon to be bigger!) garden. But most of all, to just be a wife, to be me, and to direct all my energy to my home and husband. It is a bit scary, but I am so ready.
Hello Racheal and Todd. Congratulations on your Retirement. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY Rachel. From Wendy Bertie a viewer from Toronto Ontario Canada