Boyfriend Used Me For My Money And Cheated So I Ghosted Him And Took His Business.

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  • čas přidán 10. 10. 2023
  • Boyfriend Used Me For My Money And Cheated So I Ghosted Him And Took His Business.
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Komentáře • 88

  • @Telltales.
    @Telltales.  Před 8 měsíci +45

    Opise Dopsie forgot to put the thumbnail!

  • @twgok13
    @twgok13 Před 8 měsíci +332

    How many red flags does she need to throw him out 🤣

    • @SSFighter1701
      @SSFighter1701 Před 8 měsíci +17

      She has 10 cats so like... yeah...
      Edit: I'm a cat person and could never imagine having 10 cats unless I lived in a mansion or something that had plenty of room

    • @DaShikuXI
      @DaShikuXI Před 8 měsíci +8

      She could have a matador wave a red flag in her face and she still wouldn't figure it out.

    • @user-fw7fj3df5r
      @user-fw7fj3df5r Před 8 měsíci +3

      @@DaShikuXIbut it was LOVE 😂😂😂

    • @XVIIstarPt_
      @XVIIstarPt_ Před 8 měsíci +12

      Dude was a walking Soviet Union flag

    • @DaShikuXI
      @DaShikuXI Před 8 měsíci +7

      @@XVIIstarPt_ Under a blood moon

  • @FaizatheTempest
    @FaizatheTempest Před 8 měsíci +140

    This is why you should never forgive cheaters

    • @somethingclever8916
      @somethingclever8916 Před 8 měsíci +7

      If you can't forgive infidelity you should leave.
      It was her fault that she didnt leave earlier

    • @Alexander24871
      @Alexander24871 Před 8 měsíci

      If they cheat once they will cheat again

  • @Arkryal
    @Arkryal Před 8 měsíci +166

    I like OP's style. She's patient and forgiving, but when pushed too far, she isn't vindictive, she's methodical and efficient. That makes her much more formidable. I admire that. I'm sure her emotions were all over the place, but they never dictated her actions, she used her brain the whole time.
    Yeah, she was duped by a charismatic loser who fabricated a lot of stories to cover his true nature. That happens to a lot of people under a lot of different circumstances. We all have a tendency to see what we want to see, more so than seeing what is. Some people prey on that and get quite good at it. I can't fault her for falling for the wrong person. What matters is how you deal with it. She handled it well.
    She did only what she needed to to secure her own happiness and security, and knew that if left to his own devices, he would be the instrument of his own demise. If her observations of him and his family are accurate, and they blame others for the self-imposed inequities in their lives, then just sitting back and letting him self-destruct is the ultimate F-You. Don't give him a scapegoat.

  • @wazzzam
    @wazzzam Před 8 měsíci +18

    OP....bae these red flags are HUUUGE

  • @sanddagger36
    @sanddagger36 Před 8 měsíci +14

    idk, great that OP got out but I feel like the title is clickbait. She didn't really steal his business she just stopped supporting him and supported her sister instead. Also she gave him way to many chances despite knowing he was a cheater. and finally she seems to enjoy social media stalking him and his side chick and taking pride in their falling out despite having no real proof they ever did. OP needs to stop even thinking about this guy.

  • @randomguy6479
    @randomguy6479 Před 8 měsíci +56

    man could you start showing us the accounts that post this and links to the original post

    • @qq84
      @qq84 Před 7 měsíci +2

      You can find them with a full text search, but yes, he should link them.

  • @Justicar2503
    @Justicar2503 Před 8 měsíci +12

    What the bf expected when cheating an air fighter.

  • @frankiemendez2219
    @frankiemendez2219 Před 8 měsíci +74

    Ok, 10+ might be too much, but if he knew about it beforehand, he only has himself to blame
    Edit: Jesus Christ, the guy had way too many red flags

    • @TAC9_
      @TAC9_ Před 8 měsíci +9

      bro ur not taking care of the cats so dont even criticize op bruh and theres nothing wrong with 10 cats i have a lots of cats at my home in ca bruh

    • @frankiemendez2219
      @frankiemendez2219 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@TAC9_ bruh

    • @WolfODonnelfan
      @WolfODonnelfan Před 7 měsíci

      @@frankiemendez2219 bruh

  • @austinflores2139
    @austinflores2139 Před 8 měsíci +20

    4. Don’t trust anyone. Don’t mix love and money.
    Sorry, my love IS my ride-or-die. Don’t mean to sound mean, but if my partner didn’t take care of me when I was sick, made love to me like he wanted me, treated me with love and respect, I wouldn’t be with him - I wouldn’t drag dead weight around, and ignore a million red flags. There are good people out there.

  • @zk6019
    @zk6019 Před 7 měsíci +5

    so this woman was financially supporting a man she wasn't even related to? why?

  • @josieegold6758
    @josieegold6758 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I commend her for rescuing those fur babies

  • @leolienneBonne
    @leolienneBonne Před 24 dny +1

    10+ cats is crazy

  • @KDannXII
    @KDannXII Před měsícem +1

    She saw more red flags than in a chinese parade and said "this is fine"

  • @megamania9393
    @megamania9393 Před 8 měsíci +20

    lovingly thats a lot of cats. Granted my Cousin has had far more cus she fosters them but still, its just a lot of cats.

    • @user-fw7fj3df5r
      @user-fw7fj3df5r Před 8 měsíci +2

      I had a close friend that had 23 during pandemic because in her town they took it seriously. They had to have passes to travel. When her town opened up I visit her and I could smell 👃 it from her visitor parking space and I immediately put back my overnight bad. 🤢

  • @cassieeeeeeeeee
    @cassieeeeeeeeee Před 8 měsíci +6

    idk why yall want the post link but these might be made up (not all but still)

  • @lmusima3275
    @lmusima3275 Před 6 měsíci

    This is why women should never build men up, never relocate for him too. It never works out well. Red flags 🚩

  • @SelflessHero
    @SelflessHero Před 4 měsíci +1

    Love it.

  • @Banana.toulouse
    @Banana.toulouse Před 17 hodinami

    this feels like ai

  • @boblee7998
    @boblee7998 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Trust me the landlord dosent give two fucks about this dude. Of hes been a landlord for long wnough... ppl like this are easy to deal with

  • @TrueBlunty
    @TrueBlunty Před 2 měsíci

    tbh the bf can use u saying "i took his buiness because he cheated and used me"
    yea companys based of that kinda monopoly always gets sued.
    was a nice story till it became fake

  • @Seia894
    @Seia894 Před měsícem

    You’re so intelligent 🎉🎉🎉

  • @kevinmcgowan7788
    @kevinmcgowan7788 Před 8 měsíci +11

    Just leave him jeez

    • @Centiwing
      @Centiwing Před 8 měsíci +11

      did you watch the video

  • @diogocosta2884
    @diogocosta2884 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Post link?

  • @YuniS772
    @YuniS772 Před dnem

    Legendary 😮❤

  • @JustMe-bi5xy
    @JustMe-bi5xy Před 9 dny

    So many ads!!! It’s so irritating!😤

  • @bigtex8991
    @bigtex8991 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Women love Pookie and Ray Ray

  • @dannyyoroi1955
    @dannyyoroi1955 Před 6 měsíci

    Nick how do you fumble a suger mama

  • @eduardoledesma5568
    @eduardoledesma5568 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Wtf is AP?

    • @Zid9219
      @Zid9219 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Affair Partner

  • @DocMartn253
    @DocMartn253 Před 2 měsíci +2

    She was 100% in the right until she started throwing away his items and giving them away to other people. She ended the situation being just as much of an asshole as he was.

  • @quinnquinnquinn12312
    @quinnquinnquinn12312 Před 7 měsíci +19

    I’ve discovered the pattern with these videos: whenever it’s a man getting cheated on the comments are allways angry/hateful towards the wife (which I think is completely valid) but in this video, where a woman is getting cheated on all of the comments are blaming her for some reason like why is everyone here so negative

    • @lemonz0880
      @lemonz0880 Před 7 měsíci +8

      yeah, its sick... i hope these commenters stop thinking in such a blue and pink kinda way.its only holding them back

    • @lmusima3275
      @lmusima3275 Před 6 měsíci +5

      Hypocrisy isn’t it. Why should a woman be responsible for a man’s bad decisions. He chose to cheat, so too he should suffer the consequences

  • @kidm0bius190
    @kidm0bius190 Před 3 měsíci +1

    sooo she just bragged about possibly committing numerous felonies and fraud...

    • @kidm0bius190
      @kidm0bius190 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Also, she is your next resident crazy cat lady.

  • @Hereditary_D
    @Hereditary_D Před 8 měsíci +4

    Did yall pray today? Cause if you didn’t….

  • @quitenerdy1
    @quitenerdy1 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Holy sheet did she need to drone on so long? We get it you're leaving.

  • @WilsonGodoyUmBrindeAEssaPorra
    @WilsonGodoyUmBrindeAEssaPorra Před 8 měsíci +1

    OP went to the red flags as if they where a checklist 😂😂😂

  • @tek512
    @tek512 Před 8 měsíci +12

    Turns out she actually cheated on him first. Additionally, her boyfriend was the one with all the money. She was using *him* the entire time. Rofl. Gotta love these Reddit posts.

  • @AECH_CH
    @AECH_CH Před 8 měsíci +8

    So she stole his clothes? That's not revenge, that's just theft. The rest seems fair enough according to his prior behavior, but you can't take back presents, they are not your property anymore.

    • @saitejtarun3485
      @saitejtarun3485 Před 8 měsíci +53

      If she has the reciept to those items, they legally belong to her and not considered theft

    • @AECH_CH
      @AECH_CH Před 8 měsíci +6

      @@saitejtarun3485 No, a receipt doesn't change reality. If the clothes were used by him for a prolonged period of time, the courts will rule that they were his property, which they morally and legally are ofc.

    • @holyroman6541
      @holyroman6541 Před 8 měsíci +34

      She bought them for him to get on his own feet, but it never happened. Fair enough imo

    • @AECH_CH
      @AECH_CH Před 8 měsíci +6

      @@holyroman6541 This is not debatable. The moment you gift something, it's no longer your property...

    • @Fushigorizz
      @Fushigorizz Před 8 měsíci +26

      ​​@@AECH_CHshe spent her own money on it + it's not like u write a check to the person ur gifting it to plus if u have the receipt regardless of it's a gift or not it's ur and u don't have any proof anyone wore it. Debate ended