Driving Test Nerves - how to stay calm on your driving test.

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  • čas přidán 27. 05. 2024
  • Many people are understandably nervous on their driving test and these nerves can lead to a fail. Being super nervous can cause your mind to rush or freeze which is not ideal when you are trying to drive a car. In this video I give you some tips to help you stay calm on your driving test.
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    00:00 All fingers no thumbs
    00:27 Warm up
    01:02 Examiners
    02:35 Pressure
    03:07 Mindset
    05:08 Food and water
    05:41 Don't be late
    06:10 Know the area
    07:12 Patience
    07:55 Going the wrong way
    08:15 My tests
    14:03 Don't tell
    14:22 Be ready
    14:41 After the test

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  • @rufusgreenleaf2466
    @rufusgreenleaf2466 Před 2 lety +3868

    What helped me on my test was pretending the Examiner was just a guy who needed a lift who wanted to go a specific route. It sounds weird but it made me calmer for some reason. I listened and did all my box ticking for the test but he was actually good to talk to. Test was over quick and only 4 minors.

    • @shirleyz8278
      @shirleyz8278 Před rokem +92

      Thanks for this! Might try this for my 3rd test.... my nerve was killing me.

    • @Sunny24247
      @Sunny24247 Před rokem +22

      Tomorrow is my second day of driving I’ll use this as help 👍

    • @sportsandtravelling7619
      @sportsandtravelling7619 Před rokem

      What are the minors? Is emerging or approaching mistake a minor or serious?

    • @rufusgreenleaf2466
      @rufusgreenleaf2466 Před rokem +52

      @@sportsandtravelling7619 What were my 4 minors?
      - Control when moving off (because i stalled)
      - Approach Speed at Junctions (I got to the end of the junction a little too fast)
      - Observation at Junctions (Same junction, i were a little too fast so i didn't observe in time. Although i did observe and were safe otherwise it would have been a serious)
      - Positioning (Single road split back into two lanes but i noticed a little late, almost drove over the white line in the middle of them)
      Basically the minors i got were what even experienced drivers do on a daily basis.

    • @rufusgreenleaf2466
      @rufusgreenleaf2466 Před rokem +5

      @@sportsandtravelling7619 Also to your second question, it depends on how much of a danger you are when you make that mistake.

  • @crellercorps
    @crellercorps Před 4 měsíci +50

    That hilarious knife chase skit alone banished my anxiety for a moment

  • @eg-bc8ed
    @eg-bc8ed Před 8 měsíci +473

    I passed today on my 3rd attempt with 3 minors. Just want to say, for any learners, don’t be demoralised if you fail. It took a lot of patience and many difficult moments for me to pass. Also, passing a driving test can be especially difficult if the roads are not going your way (my 2nd test was in rush hour and super busy). Just make sure you concentrate, always look out for hazards and be familiar with all the tricky junctions in the area. I believe in all of you!

    • @Inicolle
      @Inicolle Před 8 měsíci +4

      Well done to you Same here , passed on my 3rd attempt ( manual ) My first attempt was in rush school hour too , on second attempt was sure I had passed , unfortunately the examiner failed me for not signaling back after signal gone off itself, the day i
      Passed I was sure I failed due to hesitation , obviously I didn't and I am so glad , can't imagine dealing with a waiting time for booking the test ( it's been nightmare after Covid in London ) 😊

    • @ivayia
      @ivayia Před 2 měsíci +1

      I failed my third test last week and decided to take a month long break to clear my head a bit (doing so helped me a lot with calming down while i was still taking my lessons) hoping for a successful fourth!

    • @eg-bc8ed
      @eg-bc8ed Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@ivayiaThat sounds like a good thing to do. There was 5 months between my 2nd and 3rd test in which I wasn’t driving as often and this just made me a calmer driver which really helped.

    • @ivayia
      @ivayia Před 2 měsíci

      @@eg-bc8ed i took all three tests with a two week gap between then and by the third i didnt even want to get in the car to be honest 😭😭 a break is needed indeed

    • @dubstep2496
      @dubstep2496 Před měsícem +2

      Got my third test tomorrow. 8:10 rush hour.

  • @hrisimirstefanov508
    @hrisimirstefanov508 Před rokem +1101

    Thank you for the tips. I just passed my test today from the first time with 0 faults. To all that are stressed, just to let you know, I am super anxious person. My last days with my instructor were just awful, a lot of serious faults. Everything it's in the mindset , today i was just focused on the road nothing else was important, not negative thoughts nothing. It is amazing feeling, best was to see my instructor with a big smile on his face , he was very proud of me . Honestly he was thinking that i will fail , but i manage to keep my mind on the road and i passed. So to all you guys like me , just try to be calm and focus. I hope I was helpful with this comment. Good luck all !!! You can do it.

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +43

      That's great to hear. Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

    • @HideawayHan92
      @HideawayHan92 Před rokem +17

      Hi. I also have anxiety and I am sitting now waiting to be picked up for my test. I failed my first due to nerves. I feel a little calmer this time but I am trying so hard to centre myself and get rid of these jitters. I might be ok once I'm on the road going to the test centre. I have my own car for motivation but I know I need to just focus at the time in hand. Congrats for passing, wish me luck lol

    • @hrisimirstefanov508
      @hrisimirstefanov508 Před rokem +6

      @@HideawayHan92 Don't Worry, focus on the road only. Don't think it is exam, the instructor already teached u the important things. I know that u can do it, and usually the 2nd time its more easy. Most of my friends failed the first time and still they are great drivers. Just focus and stay calm. Positive thinking, behind the wheel u shoud be calm and the most important thing Just enjoy the driving, deep breaths.

    • @sportsandtravelling7619
      @sportsandtravelling7619 Před rokem +5

      Definitely a comment everyone needs here. Thank You. I also have a exam
      Soon and I am making some small
      Mistakes. Please suggest how to mAke or keep us cool. Especially in a roundabout

    • @zahariacalin1096
      @zahariacalin1096 Před rokem +1

      @@HideawayHan92 you pass?

  • @normie3702
    @normie3702 Před 2 lety +2042

    This is exactly the video I need! I failed my test last week, 2 serious faults - I went into the wrong lane and I almost pulled out in front of someone... Two mistakes I have NEVER done before 😭The nerves got to me, but hopefully next time I'll be able to remain calm. I know I can do this!!!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +255

      I'm sorry to hear that, try not to let it bring you down and stay positive for next time.

    • @tatianac323
      @tatianac323 Před 2 lety +79

      I almost passed last week but failed because of nerves too :/

    • @martindammable
      @martindammable Před 2 lety +91

      I failed my first attempt by also ending in the opposite lane. My teacher was quite perplexed cause we've driven that particular road many times. We even drove there an hour before. It was a case of my mind doing a hiccup.
      My teacher was cool about it. On our way from the test he let me drive, and we took the same route again, so as to get the bad experience out of the system and replace it with a good one.
      Now it's just a fun story I can tell.
      Don't beat yourself over the head with it. Carry on and laugh at it later.

    • @dannyboy798
      @dannyboy798 Před 2 lety +19

      Best of luck to you in the future

    • @XsweetstarliteX
      @XsweetstarliteX Před 2 lety +41

      This happened to me to weeks ago, failed for the exactly same reasons, but I did it today, different area, a lot calm, i talked myself through the entire test while driving and I passed! it was super calm, no minors

  • @RedVine10
    @RedVine10 Před rokem +298

    Your advice to not go into the test TRYING NOT TO FAIL was so very helpful. This was the very issue I had. I didn’t want to make ANY mistakes, not even one. This caused me to be so anxious and overthink every maneuver I make. So, on the day of my exam I exactly did what you said. It helped my calm my nerves. And guess what? I passed without any mistakes! Thank you for your help!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +9

      Wow, what an achievement! Congratulations!

    • @sdwone
      @sdwone Před rokem +5

      Yeah... You will ALWAYS make at least one mistake on a test. I think it's a very rare thing for someone to pass with zero minors. So the best thing is to simply accept that you're Human, like the rest of us, and accept that you will make mistakes. BUT... The trick is to make sure that they're not serious ones. And that, if you know you've just made a mistake, don't let it effect you! Because what you might consider serious, the examiner... So long as they feel safe, might just put it down as a minor!

  • @ohare3891
    @ohare3891 Před 6 měsíci +29

    Had my driving test today and passed first time with 2 minors. I’m honestly riddled with severe anxiety. Had around 3/4 hours of sleep last night, throw up twice and couldn’t even eat anything properly. I had less than half a banana and 2 paracetamol (recommend this btw! But actually have the whole banana 💀) I was certain I wouldn’t pass, but I did. Trust me, if I can do it, you can too! I know you might feel like you can’t or you’re not ready but if your instructor has said you are, then you are. I promise, it’s not as hard or as daunting as you think. If you have your test coming up, I promise you’ll be okay! Pass or fail, you can always redo it. It’s not a ‘be all and end all’ situation. You’ve got this. Believe in yourself, it makes a difference. Best of luck!! ❤️

    • @Redisaid
      @Redisaid Před 24 dny +1

      I am a 66 year old woman who moved to the UK 1 year ago from the USA. For those you feeling anxious, let me assure you that I have been driving for 50 years and even I am nervous about my test in 3 weeks because driving here is completely different than what I am used in the states, and due to all the roundabouts, spiral roundabouts, road markings instead of signs, etc. I feel like it is way more difficult to drive here.
      That being said, I just tell myself to treat the test as an opportunity to learn what I still need to practice and that if I pass, great, if not, try again.
      The one thing I miss the most about living here is my independence and not being able to just get in the car by myself. It is really important to me and I know I will achieve that eventually. Watching these videos is so helpful to me and I appreciate them and thank you for the great instructions and insight you provide. Wishing everyone the best in your driving tests!

    • @gc5258
      @gc5258 Před 9 dny

      This is me and just a mock test today. God knows how I’ll go next week. I’m so upset.

  • @Mina-lo2sn
    @Mina-lo2sn Před 6 měsíci +13

    I PASSED FIRST TIME TODAY WITH ZERO MINOR FAULTS!!!!!

  • @OFFICIAL__NKR
    @OFFICIAL__NKR Před 11 měsíci +177

    Just passed my driving test today with 1 minor! This video was a complete life saver, thank you so much. For anyone who has their test coming up, don’t be nervous. I was panicking and on the verge of throwing up; the first 5 mins are the worst, but after that the test becomes easier. Thanks again for the amazing video!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 11 měsíci +3

      That's great news! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @xCiaraLouisexx
    @xCiaraLouisexx Před 2 lety +827

    It’s so refreshing hearing a driving instructor saying they didn’t pass first time!! I have my driving test in the summer and I heard my family this week talk about their attempts to pass their tests and it put me at ease ☺️ definitely going to put less pressure on myself for my first test!

    • @kay-473
      @kay-473 Před 2 lety +29

      So true. It's depressing seeing everyone say I passed first time no minors🥺. Like seriously where are the people who failed a few times.

    • @Henry-fu2hc
      @Henry-fu2hc Před 2 lety +16

      @@kay-473 I've decided that they are all liars because they feel embarassed to say they didn't pass flawlessly on their first attempt ;)

    • @kay-473
      @kay-473 Před 2 lety +13

      @@Henry-fu2hc I agree with you. Failure is not the end, you just have to keep trying. Am proud to say I passed my 4th time and the truth is I still don't have the confidence to drive by myself so I don't.

    • @silversurfermusicco5263
      @silversurfermusicco5263 Před 2 lety +1

      Are you doing automatic? I think manual is more hassle now with gears esp in busy urban areas

    • @xCiaraLouisexx
      @xCiaraLouisexx Před 2 lety

      @@silversurfermusicco5263 yes I am doing automatic ☺️

  • @p11hrl
    @p11hrl Před rokem +290

    Just passed about an hour ago with 1 minor. watched this video the night before 4 times. The points you made most definitely gave me the confidence I needed for this test, thank you.

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +18

      That's fantastic to hear, thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

    • @greynavigator3221
      @greynavigator3221 Před 11 měsíci

      How

    • @ii_amjae8471
      @ii_amjae8471 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I just watched it & im about to watch again …. My test is tomorrow & im feeling a bit anxious although it the second time & I feel more prepared.
      I felt so calm as I watched through the first time . This is so helpful 🩷🩷

  • @maia9687
    @maia9687 Před 10 měsíci +249

    I watched this video yesterday before my driving test and you helped ease my nerves, so THANK YOU! So happy to say I passed today with 4 minors. Good luck everyone!
    Edit: ALSO just to add, I have ADHD and I can be a very anxious person - not noticeable in my driving - but very apparent in the leadup to an examination of sorts. So, YOU CAN DO IT!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 10 měsíci +8

      That's fantastic news! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

    • @ThunderstyleYTB
      @ThunderstyleYTB Před 7 měsíci +5

      Apparently the ADHD must've been noticeable in my driving - my examiner made me pull maneuvers that were honestly ridiculous to the point where I felt I was being bullied. I was being limit tested as a new driver. Passed 1st time with 1 minor fault.

  • @grace-emilypayne1909
    @grace-emilypayne1909 Před rokem +209

    Watching this the day before my 3rd driving test. I struggle with nerves and tend to be quite tense during the test. Hoping this helps and nice to know you passed 3rd time too! 😌 hopefully be back tomorrow with a positive result 🤞🏻
    Update…I passed! 🥰

  • @raimondgnambodoe5535
    @raimondgnambodoe5535 Před 4 měsíci +15

    Passed my test today, 4th attemp(17 Jan), and I've watched your video night before, very helpful!!! Don't tell anyone you going for it !!! You are right! I'm confident but the 1st time I have failed due to bad observation at the end of the test in the test centre. 2&3 time I was very nervous as I've told my family ,fiancee about it, 4th time I went quitly and focused on the now and I was less nervous !!! For all of you trying Don't give up and don't be diissarthened ,failure is part of success!!!!! Thanks again for sharing those great tips !!!!

  • @Shanicewitter
    @Shanicewitter Před rokem +245

    Passed my test yesterday after the 5th attempt! I only ever failed due to silly mistakes I’d never made until the actual test😭 2 days ago was the first time watching your videos and they really prepared me and calmed down. Thank you!

  • @rstarkey309
    @rstarkey309 Před 2 lety +233

    Passed my test today with 1 minor, thanks so much for these videos they have really helped me!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +14

      That's great to hear, congratulations on passing!

  • @kay-473
    @kay-473 Před 2 lety +197

    I failed my driving test 3 times because I was always nervous and felt my driving instructor was giving me wrong information. Decided to do my 4th test with my husband in his car. The night before my test you uploaded this video and I took you advice. Really didn't worry about the test thought I failed like 2 times but thank God I passed. You really gave good advice. Treated my driving test like a drive with my husband.

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +9

      That's great to hear, congratulations on passing!

    • @chocolateseduction89
      @chocolateseduction89 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I also failed 3 times, hoping for a great outcome with my 4th try

  • @Jkoal69
    @Jkoal69 Před 2 lety +262

    Officially passed last night on first try! I even had the notoriously pissed off examiner too. But passed regardless. Richard is absolutely right that you’d do more mistakes if you’re stressed than not. Thank you Richard for all the videos of advice and driving. Goat 🐐

  • @BLHorsemanship1
    @BLHorsemanship1 Před rokem +41

    This video explains exactly how I feel and is just what I needed. I am absolutely fine driving independently but in lessons/tests I make mistakes because of the fear of being watched. Not many understand how I feel but this but I perfectly. This is a huge help and I feel positive for my next test

  • @randomshiz1810
    @randomshiz1810 Před 2 lety +204

    Failed my first test 2 weeks ago with 2 serious and 15 minor faults. Made 1silly mistake at the start of the test because of the nerves and it snowballed from there. Thank you for this video and I hope I pass my test on April 6, 2022.
    Edit: I passed my test today at April 6,2022 with 5 minors!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +10

      Good luck with your next test!

    • @ggameplayguide
      @ggameplayguide Před 2 lety +11

      How did you get a test so quickly I booked mine in November and it is at the end of april

    • @onyxon7740
      @onyxon7740 Před 2 lety +2

      Random shiz, you failed to follow the tips in the video, now everyone knows when you have the test and will ask you if you have passed :)

    • @randomshiz1810
      @randomshiz1810 Před 2 lety +8

      @@onyxon7740 I passed my test with 5 minors today!

    • @tuffshark
      @tuffshark Před rokem +3

      Well done ✅👍🏾 congratulations

  • @micahmicah5569
    @micahmicah5569 Před rokem +147

    Passed my test for the 3rd attempt today
    With 1 minor
    Watched this video over and over and couple others
    I was nervous at the start of it but after 5 mins it was calm
    Goodluck to everyone who got their test coming up
    You got this 😊

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +4

      That's great to hear, congratulations on passing!

  • @ajojoseph8931
    @ajojoseph8931 Před rokem +18

    I watched this video yesterday and today I got passed my driving test. As he said, I followed his words. Forget about the past or future. Be at the present. This is it. You can do it. I was chanting this in my mind. 😂 Thank you so much mate. 👍

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem

      That's really great to hear! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @paulodemello7834
    @paulodemello7834 Před rokem +85

    Thank you so much for this! Watched this a few times before my test yesterday and passed with 3 minors!! My nephew was born 2 hours later at 5:40pm, I'm now a driver and an Uncle :)

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +6

      That's fantastic news! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

    • @eustace6046
      @eustace6046 Před 3 měsíci +1

      this comment is so cute! happy to hear of both you passing and the birth of your nephew

  • @kjdee140
    @kjdee140 Před rokem +17

    After failing twice, I learned to relax by not getting too attached to the outcome. I was able to stay level-headed and pass!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +4

      That's fantastic to hear, congratulations on staying calm and passing!

    • @kjdee140
      @kjdee140 Před rokem +2

      @@ConquerDriving And I passed my test on the day that my extended permit was going to expire!

  • @pirate11n11
    @pirate11n11 Před rokem +38

    Staying calm under pressure is really important for all the situations and this video nicely explains the need of it in the driving test. During my test today, I thought I did 3-4 major driver faults but the important thing is I maintained my composure and kept driving like I would after every mistake. In the end, I got like 8 minors and PASSED the test. Thanks again for this great video, I would have ended doing many more mistakes and failed if I had kept thinking about what I thought as majors :)

  • @markodespotov1455
    @markodespotov1455 Před 2 lety +112

    ive had similar experience as you did but my heart rate goes up as well when i get anxious but i learned that if you breathe in fully and exhale for like 8 seconds your heart rate normalizes and i used that few times during the test and it helped me pass significantly

    • @joannethilwind3334
      @joannethilwind3334 Před 2 lety +10

      Wow thank you thought it was only me I literally can’t breathe at the thought of my test will try xxx

    • @markodespotov1455
      @markodespotov1455 Před 2 lety +8

      @@joannethilwind3334 yea usualy when was at traffic lights i did this technique few times and just focus myself on what am i doing right now and it did the job for me. good luck tho

    • @teatotaller2924
      @teatotaller2924 Před rokem +1

      @@joannethilwind3334 hey, how'd you go?

  • @TechSpree1
    @TechSpree1 Před 2 lety +99

    I have my FOURTH test in a weeks time.. was feeling a bit hopeless at this point but your video really helped, especially how you said you got fed up with feeling anxious!
    Update: Passed 5th try!!!!!!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +8

      Good luck with your test!

    • @TechSpree1
      @TechSpree1 Před 2 lety +2

      @@ConquerDriving thanks!!

    • @camyeoman4180
      @camyeoman4180 Před 2 lety +2

      @@TechSpree1 did you pass?

    • @TechSpree1
      @TechSpree1 Před 2 lety +10

      @@camyeoman4180 no, I forgot I was in a school zone and sped up to 60km instead of 40 🥲

    • @charlotte_beomgyu7497
      @charlotte_beomgyu7497 Před rokem

      @@TechSpree1 Don't give up you will pass next time !❤️❤️ stay optimistic

  • @beautywithemma7029
    @beautywithemma7029 Před rokem +27

    Today is my driving test I will definitely take on board all this advice and fingers crossed!
    Edit: I PASSED with 5 minors I was very nervous but it wasn’t to bad and your videos have helped me so much so thankyou!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +3

      That's fantastic news! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @user-fn4uu8if9e
    @user-fn4uu8if9e Před rokem +31

    I passed my test first time this morning with zero minors! 🎉 I’ve had very stop-start lessons over the past year due to various reasons, but your videos have really helped me with my driving and this video in particular really helped with my nerves 😄 I found that as soon as the test started I didn’t feel nervous anymore because I had to be so alert and focused on the road! Thank you so much!!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +1

      That's really great to hear! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @lordpoppadom7813
    @lordpoppadom7813 Před rokem +16

    Watched this video 4 times before my test, and I passed first time with 2 minors! Thank you so much!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +3

      That's great to hear! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @Giroutte
    @Giroutte Před 3 měsíci +3

    My problem with not passing first time is having to pay for the test again and the car rental 😂

  • @dt5603
    @dt5603 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Listened to this in the morning before my test and it helped, was so nervous shaking like a leaf and have bad anxiety - I passed first time with no minors, thank you!!💜

  • @ottooctavius9552
    @ottooctavius9552 Před 9 měsíci +10

    I just passed my test a few hours ago after my 5th attempt. I was super nervous and my heart was absolutely racing but this video really helped. Especially the part about making a mistake in the practice run so you don’t do so in the test.
    I passed with no minors. This video was so reassuring

  • @jamestorrens645
    @jamestorrens645 Před 2 lety +39

    As someone who passed my driving test first time a few months ago, the best thing I can say is just do your best to control your nervousness. Meditate, do deep breathing or whatever is necessary to keep yourself from getting too nervous. If you pass or fail, then it is what it is.

  • @sixish
    @sixish Před 2 lety +21

    Would have loved this video a month ago, but I passed my test anyways thankfully. There is so much truth to the "screw it" mentality of whether or not passing is critical. If failing is not a big deal, then you will have better focus on the driving. I went in with very low expectations having had my driving instructor unintentionally kill all my confidence, she got sick before my exam, so I had my warmup with another one who helped me understand some weaknesses I was having that day like mirror checking. It put me at ease knowing what my weaknesses were going in. My examiner was nice enough, making a few jokes before we went and asked me if I preferred small talk or silence while driving, I prefer not having to focus on talking while I'm driving so it was a quiet ride which helped me out a lot.
    I remember thinking I had failed at a relatively early stage in my exam, and I found it quite freeing actually. I relaxed a lot and just focused on what I was doing, I didn't get hung up on errors like I had previously because in my mind it didn't really matter because I would have to book another test so I just treated it like practice. Gotta say I was quite shocked to learn I had passed.

  • @KindredBrujah
    @KindredBrujah Před rokem +3

    I'm loving the lighter tone in this one! The 'ta da!' door opening made me actually laugh out loud.

  • @theSpicyPrince
    @theSpicyPrince Před rokem +47

    Richard, your channel has been SO helpful. I just an hour ago passed my test first time, with 1 minor, and I couldn't be more chuffed. This morning I was sick with anxiety - I couldn't eat, couldn't focus, felt like I was going to vomit, but watching this video plus others on your channel really settled my nerves. I was in the position of it being important for me to pass as my partner is heavily pregnant, and the pandemic plus test scarcesness has meant severe delays in me getting a chance to take my test, so I was worried it might be another 6 month delay if I failed. I was also taking the test in my own car, which meant I didn't have an instructor to help calm me before the test, but you filled that role perfectly virtually!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +5

      That's really great to hear, congratulations on passing!

  • @vikkiwihioka5591
    @vikkiwihioka5591 Před 2 lety +34

    Passed my test yesterday first try after just 13 hours of driving lessons- busy work schedule etc. This particular video was really helpful- watched several times and honestly I remembered everything you said during the test. I drove rather than worrying about not making mistakes. I also did not tell anyone I had a driving test coming up and everyone was happy when I told them I had passed.Thank you so much for the videos. You are an amazing driving instructor and teacher.

  • @emanobop93
    @emanobop93 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Watched this a few times before my test today and I passed with 3 minors!!! I had the worst practice with my instructor beforehand but all the tips in this kept me calm during my test. Good luck to whoever has a test coming up. You can do it!

  • @peaceout8230
    @peaceout8230 Před rokem +5

    Today I had an exam and it was my second one. I watched this vid and bro I PASSED
    EVERY THING U SAID WAS SO HELPFUL. From not thinking too much into a future nor past all the way to concentrate on the present and to calm yourself because it's not like u are driving for the instructor, your re doing this for yourself. THANK YOU SO SO MUCH I CANT WAIT TO CELEBRATE IT WITH MY FAMILY

  • @foodreacts2
    @foodreacts2 Před rokem +4

    I thought I’d be nervous but during the test my nerves went away and the nerves helped me be more concentrated and I did well

  • @celticsean5733
    @celticsean5733 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I have my test in 3 days, and I failed my last one due to having a panic attack. My instructor was shocked he knew my driving standards were much higher. So I've been looking at every video I can find for advice I think this is the one. I will use your advice this week.

  • @_Richard_F___
    @_Richard_F___ Před rokem +5

    I've passed my test , so no idea why I'm watching this. I guess we are always learning..
    When my examiner had a smile and was light-hearted and even spoke a few words. You change the whole atmosphere and made me feel more comfortable

  • @Miles2Go_
    @Miles2Go_ Před 8 měsíci +6

    I have my driving test in 2 days, and after watching this video I feel alot better about going into it! I suffer from social anxiety so I’m naturally a very anxious person, but I have a feeling these tips will help big time! :)

  • @okamikiva378
    @okamikiva378 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I am not sure you will ever read this, but thank you❤️ I was trying to pass the test for 2 years, I took 7 attempts, the 8th was the one! I took your advice on not trying to please the examinator, and it called me down significantly! Thank you, I cried like a baby when I finally got the licence😆

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 11 měsíci +1

      That's really great to hear! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @Martichatte
    @Martichatte Před 2 lety +38

    I passed my driving test today, 1st attempted! Would like to say massive thank you to you, I have been watching your videos religiously and it’s really helped me out a lot! My instructor was amazing, and the combo with your really well explained videos did the magic for it today!
    I was stressed, of course, but managed my parallel park (without the first minutes of the test) and that boosted my confidence. Everything went really good. I am so happy! Thank youuuuu for all your amazing videos 🥰 xx

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +2

      That's fantastic to hear, thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @sreeramv5608
    @sreeramv5608 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Failed my test for the 4th time today. I am devastated. Hopefully I can gather myself and give it another go. Thank you for the video. Watched after I came back. Should have watched it before

    • @Chumbarley
      @Chumbarley Před 4 měsíci

      Keep at it brother I just passed my 3rd test and am so i happy I never thought I’d pass keep trying it’s worth it

    • @Gamer-uu5sw
      @Gamer-uu5sw Před 3 měsíci

      Don't give up got my 4th test on Monday hate tests so much

    • @Chumbarley
      @Chumbarley Před 3 měsíci

      @@Gamer-uu5sw good luck bro

  • @jMick21
    @jMick21 Před 11 měsíci +16

    I passed my test today! Your videos have honestly been such a help for my driving journey so thanks a lot 🎉
    I was so nervous this morning before my test it was a horrible feeling but I took into account what you said in this video and the test was a breeze. It went by so quick and my examiner was lovely and we had a nice chat! I passed with 6 minor faults!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 11 měsíci

      That's fantastic news! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @jasonmckenzie5341
    @jasonmckenzie5341 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Passed my test today on my third attempt. I stumbled across this video on my way to the test and it seriously helped calm my nerves. Thank you!
    To everyone out there trying to pass, stay calm, stay focused and believe in yourself 🥳

  • @philhart2671
    @philhart2671 Před 7 měsíci +10

    Just wanted to say a massive thanks for this video and the rest of your content, Richard. They really helped me conquer (no pun intended) my driving nerves and were often more informative and reassuring than my actual lessons! Passed on my first attempt with 4 minors last week and owe a lot of credit to this channel's advice on both the technical and psychological aspects.

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 6 měsíci +1

      That's fantastic to hear and that pun was why I came up with the name Conquer Driving. Thank you for your generosity and I hope you continue to find the videos interesting.

  • @Lucaswilshaw
    @Lucaswilshaw Před rokem +1

    Thanks, i failed first time but passed second time around. Useful tips :)

  • @sanaamoledina5669
    @sanaamoledina5669 Před rokem +5

    I watched this video a day before my driving test on loop while I was just freaking out. I passed today and I cannot thank you enough for all your videos.

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem

      That's great to news! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @tideofthetoucans9574
    @tideofthetoucans9574 Před rokem +21

    Test nerves were the most challenging thing for me as I completely panicked in my first test back in April, watched this video before my test yesterday and I passed!!! The examiner yesterday made me feel a lot more comfortable and your advice definitely helped!!!

  • @vilmajumila5392
    @vilmajumila5392 Před rokem +26

    Hello! I have been watching your videos whilst preparing for my test and they were such a huge huge help! Very clear explanations and demonstrations, it really helped me for the big day. I passed first time with 2 minors on 22 April and just want to say a massive massive thank you for all you do! All the best ❤️

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +2

      That's really great to hear! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @TheForeword
    @TheForeword Před rokem +38

    This channel is amazing. I spent the last four days watching several of your videos and today I passed my test at the first attempt with only three minors. I had a great instructor, and I have to give him credit, but I really believe these videos pushed me over the line. Keep up the great work, Richard.

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +3

      That's fantastic to hear! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @harrisont2004
    @harrisont2004 Před 2 lety +21

    This video saved me this week. Nerves would have definitely got to me in my test today without your tips and the story of you not passing twice. Passed with three minors. Thank you!!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +3

      That's great to hear, congratulations on passing!

  • @EllaMaiHolmes
    @EllaMaiHolmes Před 2 lety +44

    This is such a great video. My third test is coming up this week and I’m the same as you, got much more anxious as I wasn’t nervous at all on the first test, perfect drive but failed for something silly which I still argue should have been a minor fault💔 and second test my nerves totally took over and had a really tutty and judgy examiner. Hoping third times a charm, i don’t think anything can be as bad as my last test so can only go up from here!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +3

      Good luck with your next test!

    • @amylynch8774
      @amylynch8774 Před rokem +5

      I’m in a similar situation however my first test was awful, my second test I thought I had passed, as it was the smoothest drive I had ever done. Got back and it was a fail. Now I have my third coming up and I can’t stop worrying about failing. It’s the wait times for tests that make it hard for me!

    • @charlotte_beomgyu7497
      @charlotte_beomgyu7497 Před rokem +2

      @@amylynch8774 Don't give up you will pass soon ❤️🦋 I believe in you be optimistic :) Im also doing my driving licence for a long time...

  • @sinkuabhi1
    @sinkuabhi1 Před 2 lety +8

    Great tips as always! Your videos helped me a lot in my prep, still watch it though I passed my test two months ago. :-)

  • @abbiearmstrong3659
    @abbiearmstrong3659 Před 14 dny +1

    3rd try today! So determined that today is gonna be the day. Both times before I’d made silly mistakes due to nerves but I’ve woken up today feeling excited and positive. Hopefully I can come back to this later and tell you all I’ve done it!

  • @GameDesignThinking
    @GameDesignThinking Před 5 měsíci +1

    I don't remember if it was on this video or another one (I practically watched your whole channel) that the examiner just want you to drive safely and legally. That was what I needed to ease my nerves. I passed with 3 minor faults, and remembering that phrase really helped me throughout the test.

  • @keiganemslie2519
    @keiganemslie2519 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Man you genuinely seem like you were born to do this, your awesome, your really good at explaining and showing examples in all of your videos.👌

  • @zipeeeeez
    @zipeeeeez Před 2 lety +38

    Tips in this video are absolutely solid. I personally only had a little sort of mild feel of anxiety on my warm up drive plus me and my instructor have been pulled over by the police on the day of my test :D (just a regular check thing tho).
    My experience (disclaimer - this is is not a tip) : When it came to a start of my test I just switched off myself in terms of nerves or thinking too much in the way that I just drove the best I could with an approach that I don't want to repeat this thing again. Passed it with a 4 minors last week.
    P.S.
    I know every person is different, but this is what worked for me :) Good luck !

  • @chibimbeha634
    @chibimbeha634 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Passed my test with 4 minors faults , nerves were there but I calmed down n did all that I had learned n watched 🎉

  • @spikeybaby1735
    @spikeybaby1735 Před 2 lety +2

    I've never been able to do pressure and failed my driving test twice, the 3rd time I had a large vodka before and past, it's not something I'm proud of but it worked

  • @mariamthomas2749
    @mariamthomas2749 Před rokem +28

    I remember watching this video last week the night before my test. Thank you very much, Richard. I had my test at Bolton in the morning and it was my second attempt. I passed with 2 driving faults. Your videos are just so amazing. Thanks again and keep creating more for super nervous people like me! May your channel continue to shine and grow!!!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +3

      That's great to hear! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

    • @mariamthomas2749
      @mariamthomas2749 Před rokem +3

      @@ConquerDriving Thanks Richard. Good luck with your channel! You're helping people in more ways than you realize.

  • @trashbag3086
    @trashbag3086 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Just passed my test and wow its feels amazing! This video really helped me to calm down and focus on my test allowing me to pass. For those that are worrying, its really not as bad as you think! It was over in a blink of an eye, so don't worry about it. Just drive and pretend your examiner is just another instructor or just some random guy/girl your driving around. You've got this!

  • @keiganemslie2519
    @keiganemslie2519 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I’m watching this 20 days before my test, I’m so excited and super confident that I’ll pass but I still watch all your videos they are extremely useful and I’m certain I’ll still be watching them after I pass!😃

    • @pencilsketches5556
      @pencilsketches5556 Před 3 měsíci

      Did you pass?

    • @keiganemslie2519
      @keiganemslie2519 Před 3 měsíci

      @@pencilsketches5556 nah unfortunately my instructor left it until 1 day before my test to tell me that he’s not taking me to test🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @davidcasanova8381
    @davidcasanova8381 Před 6 měsíci

    I've watched lots of your vids, you're an awesome instructor!

  • @mellowillow
    @mellowillow Před rokem +4

    I’m learning manual currently and your videos have been an amazing help! Thanks for posting.
    Drove a bit late last night and I felt a bit more confident. Maybe I’ll be driving in regular traffic soon. 🤞🏾

  • @minhtam1998
    @minhtam1998 Před 2 lety +4

    I passed my fourth times in last 2 months and still watching your videos, so helpful and thank you so much !

  • @blueninjanoname7338
    @blueninjanoname7338 Před 2 lety +1

    Great video, I really struggle with nerves it's such an ugly feeling, learning that you failed a couple times is very reassuring oddly enough. Thank you 👍

  • @jayg9757
    @jayg9757 Před 7 měsíci

    I absolutely enjoyed this video! Great lad, very friendly, happy and relatable. You've made me feel calmer about my test. Thank you.

  • @alskdjf12
    @alskdjf12 Před rokem +4

    Hahaha when he told the story of his third time I could hard relate to that. I had the instructor tell me off in the middle of the test and that was also my third attempt, I thought I had already failed and just drove pissed off and like I normally do, when we got back to the test building (forgot what it was called) the instructor ask me why I suddenly drove more confidently and more relaxed which in turn made my driving better, I told him I thought I had failed and all the pressure was off so I drove as I usually did. He was a good guy and I learnt more from that last test than weeks and weeks of practice before it

  • @xavierssembusi6651
    @xavierssembusi6651 Před 2 lety +8

    Two days ago I thanked you for your videos helping me to pass my test but I didn’t mention that I failed twice before I passed third time around for the exact reason you mentioned there, nerves , passing my first two tests at the time and getting a license was a major key to my day today life, failing seemed like not an option. The intense pressure created nerves on both days that I did things during the failed tests that I haven’t done before with my instructor or in my driving ie driving on the wrong side of the road , stalling on a turn left junction and at one point my clutch foot was shaking so badly because I was scared of stalling the car or rolling back wards in a car that had hill assist and added on gas for you . For my third test my wife told me it’s okay if you don’t get it this time and we worked out an alternative plan to our worries and she told me to focus on the driving not the pressures of our lives and it was the best drive I have driven with an examiner in the car. Whoever is going for the test , just find a way to calm those nerves , trust me they get to you.

  • @mahneh7121
    @mahneh7121 Před 4 měsíci +2

    i like the advice on training and knowing the area; and mate the fact you made me laugh in such a gloomy day is to thank, so thank you !

  • @mdoohan513
    @mdoohan513 Před 8 měsíci

    Passed this week fella. Your videos did a lot to help me prepare. Good luck to everyone viewing, you’ve got it covered

  • @Dhammaoh
    @Dhammaoh Před rokem +5

    I agree with this video wholeheartedly.
    I finally passed my driving test today after several failed attempts.
    I was actually shaking a little at the start of the test today. I initiated some chat with the examiner to try to calm my nerves down.
    Watching your videos have helped me tremendously. They are well thought out and most articulated. Thank you!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem

      That's really great to hear, congratulations on passing!

  • @theamazingstarn
    @theamazingstarn Před rokem +4

    Richard, thankyou so much for all the effort you put into your channel! I've been an avid watcher early on into my driving lessons, and your videos helped teach new new knowledge, as well as consolidate things I learnt in my lessons. I just watched this video this morning before my lesson and passed first time on a manual car with 9 minors!!! So happy with my result and I know your videos contributed a lot towards making me feel more confident. I'll be watching new videos even though I've passed, to improve my new driver skills! Take care :)

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem

      That's really great to hear! Thank you for watching and congratulations on passing!

  • @database_man1062
    @database_man1062 Před 10 měsíci

    Richard, this is a truly fantastic video!

  • @nosir1479
    @nosir1479 Před 3 měsíci

    i love how you got someone to chase you. 10/10 for effort

  • @michaelarcher6278
    @michaelarcher6278 Před 2 lety +10

    A brilliant video, you described my driving test experience 48 years ago.
    Three tests, one mistake on 1st, terrible 2nd and gave up on third but still passed. Been driving ever since with a clean licence. Best £80 I ever spent and that was a lot of money back in the seventies.

  • @dylanlobban1627
    @dylanlobban1627 Před 2 lety +27

    I have my driving test on the 19th April so this video has made me feel quite a lot better about the test

  • @swinno007
    @swinno007 Před 13 dny +1

    Finally someone that might help me for this week failed in January due to nerves as I made one mistake and in my head I had failed and had 5 minutes where I made mistakes and got 2 majors however the mistake I made wouldn’t have cost me and it’s what happened after that cost me

  • @Muser4Life
    @Muser4Life Před rokem

    Thank you for being vulnerable. I'm a student driver and a therapist - I think you did a great job in reassuring us - even the driving experts have made mistakes and have learned from it.

  • @coldairballoon1395
    @coldairballoon1395 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Thank you mate, I just passed on my 3rd try, just like you. Your lighthearted and quirky way really lifted my mood and gave me a moral and self confidence boost for the test today! Thank you very much! What helped me was that I read a book just before starting the test

  • @katherine4145
    @katherine4145 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this, I’ve got my first test in a few weeks and I’m so nervous, mainly because I think nerves may get the better of me but also because I’ve heard so many people say the examiners in our area are really not nice 🙈 I need to get myself into the frame of mind where that doesn’t bother me.

  • @EvtheNev
    @EvtheNev Před 2 lety

    I'm not from the UK, and I already have a full licence, but I still watch and love all of your vids! 😄 Always learning!

  • @ellbegum6939
    @ellbegum6939 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I passed today with the same mindset as you. After failing so many times, today I went for my test with the whole I dont care what you guys think.. i KNOW myself i can drive. It helped me drive the way I wanted to (safely), not the way i thought THEY want me to. This helped me focus more on the road and not the examiner.

  • @laszlotari6812
    @laszlotari6812 Před 2 lety +5

    This will be my 4th time coming up next week.... Wish me luck on monday! Thank you for your help and stories made me feel a bit better! ✌️

  • @supervitz7178
    @supervitz7178 Před 2 lety +31

    Super interesting to hear your story. I passed first time with 2 minors. I was annoyed, I had planned to get 0 minors. Whilst I was learning, my instructor kept saying I was ready for the test, but I didn't book it until I was confident I would pass and pass well. I also knew that passing would mean no more driving for a while because I couldn't afford insurance, so I wanted to keep taking lessons. I'm glad I took this approach because I definitely got a lot more knowledge from my instructor than if I had passed sooner and stopped lessons. I always planned to do the Pass Plus, but never got round to it and CZcams driving instructors kinda filled the gap!

  • @slonkijippie
    @slonkijippie Před 2 lety

    Ive had my license for 12 years, still enjoy your videos :)

  • @kyle_fletcher18
    @kyle_fletcher18 Před rokem +2

    Passed my driving test last Friday and your videos really did help me, thank you 😁

  • @isomcbuckets9563
    @isomcbuckets9563 Před 2 lety +3

    Passed my test the other day and it was massively to do with your tutorials. Thanks a lot for the help!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +1

      That's great to hear, congratulations on passing!

  • @ryanbuan
    @ryanbuan Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you for your videos! Very fun to watch and of course educative. I’m also applying your tips cause I’m having my driving lessons. I’ll keep in mind everything you’ve shared in this video when I take my driving exam. 🤗

  • @PascalDickhoff
    @PascalDickhoff Před 2 lety

    the chase in the beginning. just awesome. these little details

  • @Justin_ibbi
    @Justin_ibbi Před 2 lety

    You’re so Good I am feeling huge respect and Love Watching your Videos and Assistance

  • @denysmishnov
    @denysmishnov Před rokem +10

    I took my first-ever test today and passed with only 2 minors! I was stressing a lot the day before but I just envisioned myself being a taxi or an uber and it really helped with the nerves. I was friendly with the instructor and had a lot of fun small talk. I didn't look at his iPad once, and I recommend you try to converse with your instructor to really know them as a person and ease your nerves. Thank you for this video as it helped me out a lot!

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před rokem +1

      That's fantastic news! Congratulations on passing!

  • @chadders3768
    @chadders3768 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Watching this on the night before my second test. My nerves got the best of me last time and i am confident in passing this time. My last test i had 3 Majors and 2 minors, all 3 of which i had never done before. EVER! i will update you guys in the morning when i have finished my test, wish me luck!
    Update: I passed!!!! Beep Beep

  • @sherrylyneanneordanza
    @sherrylyneanneordanza Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you soooo much for all the videos you are uploading it helps me a lot during my lessons. I passed my practical test today with 2 minors by remembering most of your tips! Thank you

  • @KilliKonKarnage
    @KilliKonKarnage Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks so much to all the content online. Helped immensely in passing my test just yesterday. Cheers Conquer Driving.

    • @ConquerDriving
      @ConquerDriving  Před 2 lety +1

      That's great to hear, congratulations on passing your driving test!