How A Filipina TRAPS A Foreigner In The Philippines

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  • @sallyfromcali9190
    @sallyfromcali9190 Před 2 měsíci +153

    run for the hills … ⛰️ 🏃‍♂️ … and this is coming from a Filipina 🤣🤣💕

    • @orangebuddha-gm8ku
      @orangebuddha-gm8ku Před 2 měsíci +26

      Exactly what I was thinking!

    • @V4ultr3mTV
      @V4ultr3mTV Před 2 měsíci +24

      He got FINESSED!! She even got the better bed and bathrooms, and all he got is a air conditioned closet... Yikes! 😬

    • @mikelandry6397
      @mikelandry6397 Před 2 měsíci +9

      Ha ha, how many others are like reeling in the fish. RUN

    • @nlo2346
      @nlo2346 Před 2 měsíci +20

      The white knight complex. Filipinas have survived well before you got there and will survive well after he has left the Philippines.

    • @jl909-nr5vx
      @jl909-nr5vx Před 2 měsíci

      Looks like sally escaped Phils and made it to America. No doubt sally knows all the scams that go on back in the jungle.

  • @waterbug1135
    @waterbug1135 Před 2 měsíci +94

    Step 1. Learn to say "no". Or better yet when you get the sad story say "Oh, that does sound hard", "God will provide" and don't mount your steed oh great White Knight.
    Step 2. There is no step 2.
    Can't afford rent...but can afford a phone and dog. Filipino economics.

    • @mikelandry6397
      @mikelandry6397 Před 2 měsíci +19

      And air conditioning going constantly

    • @Frivals
      @Frivals Před měsícem +5

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ricksivley7047
      @ricksivley7047 Před měsícem +9

      And when most filipinas found their self in a bad situation they always go home to mommy.
      Is our mother in the picture anywhere?

    • @cancuncavemanbesthostels6697
      @cancuncavemanbesthostels6697 Před 28 dny +1

      God won't provide , God provides you the knowledge and power to work and pay your bills. He won't pay your rent though

    • @cancuncavemanbesthostels6697
      @cancuncavemanbesthostels6697 Před 28 dny +1

      200 a month is great ..wow

  • @robertgavrich286
    @robertgavrich286 Před 2 měsíci +40

    Cute woman, cute daughter, cute dog. Dude, you're falling prey to cuteness. Stay strong.

  • @lucyong8838
    @lucyong8838 Před 2 měsíci +83

    She's always on the phone. Red flag.

    • @NorKavon
      @NorKavon Před měsícem +8

      Who there isn't? The joke among the Kanos is Filipinas are born with a cell phone in 1 hand and a list of accounts (FB, Instagram, tiktok etc.) in the other hand.

    • @yaimavol
      @yaimavol Před měsícem +13

      @@NorKavon This seems to be next level in Asia. Chinese people walk down the street staring at their phones and not watching where they are going. One guy told me in Malaysia, he went to a movie and everybody in the theater had their phones out during the movie staring at them. This is kind of scary. It's like a world of phone zombies

    • @NorKavon
      @NorKavon Před měsícem +6

      @yaimavol yeah has always been a problem in the Philippines they won't put down their phone for a movie - so i don't go anymore. Looks like a worldwide problem comming. Saw today a bunch of high school teachers in the U.S. are quitting because the students are addicted to the phones and don't pay attention in class or do their homework and the school won't do anything to control it.

    • @yaimavol
      @yaimavol Před měsícem +3

      @@NorKavon In most cities, you can't put your kids in public school in the US now. If it's not a terrible academic school, it's the cultural rot that they get infected with. I have never been afraid of a generation like these post millenials. That's why I am looking for a 2nd home. Just in case

    • @markrivera8587
      @markrivera8587 Před měsícem +2

      He's talking and planning with his bbdd lop

  • @Dee-pv8lb
    @Dee-pv8lb Před 2 měsíci +150

    My friend was stationed at Clark in the day. I went to his bachelor party and he pulled me aside for some advice. He said "NEVER HAVE A PRETTY HOUSEKEEPER." She cooks, cleans and is nice to you all day... things happen and next thing you know, you are getting married. But how can one not want a pretty housekeeper...

    • @jl909-nr5vx
      @jl909-nr5vx Před 2 měsíci +20

      Next thing you know...he's getting her pregnant...and will be paying $$$$$. She knows what she is doing.

    • @allamzon3618
      @allamzon3618 Před měsícem +4

      👍😊

    • @eduardomaldonado1647
      @eduardomaldonado1647 Před měsícem

      Good Pinay behave like very good women. She cleans his house, cooks for him, shows him much affection, introduces him to all her friends and family, showers you with affection. Makes herself look pretty. It’s natural sex will follow and she will make it very easy on you. That is how women trap you. Treat you so well you don’t want to leave. Hahaha

    • @ReadySetGo113
      @ReadySetGo113 Před měsícem +10

      Well a few weeks have past. Is now pretty clear she is more than a "housekeeper".

    • @Filo-Joe
      @Filo-Joe Před měsícem

      ​@@jl909-nr5vxnope. You are stupido

  • @Stonefeather53
    @Stonefeather53 Před 2 měsíci +110

    Oh boy, you are in trouble. So many red flags.

  • @scottlyons8304
    @scottlyons8304 Před 2 měsíci +26

    Mate youre cooked shes got the claws out and wont let go very easy

  • @RayMaranan-hh6cv
    @RayMaranan-hh6cv Před 2 měsíci +36

    Unless you are in a relationship, you should not tolerate this. There are a lot of good people but at the same time lazy. I know several people who depends on 4P's provided by the government because they don't want to work. They will just work for a few months and then resign and choose to be jobless simply because they are used to it, many of them prefer to have a little money rather than getting tired. If her circumstances are that bad then she should be working. Don't fall for the excuses, that there are no work available. People just want an easy comfortable life and easy money.

    • @eleanorleticiadanieltiangs1082
      @eleanorleticiadanieltiangs1082 Před 2 měsíci

      I FIND YOUR COMMENT HEARTBREAKING 💔 ~~> @RayMaranan-hh6cv
      1 day ago
      Unless you are in a relationship, you should not tolerate this. There are a lot of good people but at the same time lazy. I know several people who depends on 4P's provided by the government because they don't want to work. They will just work for a few months and then resign and choose to be jobless simply because they are used to it, many of them prefer to have a little money rather than getting tired. If her circumstances are that bad then she should be working. Don't fall for the excuses, that there are no work available. People just want an easy comfortable life and easy money.
      --
      instead of being HAPPY for them on how they help themselves to get out of PAUPERDOM you write negative words about our fellowman here. KUNG MERUN LANG SANA SILANG MABUTING relatives/ close friend/TAO na malalapitan bukod sa 4P's government support ..

  • @michaelmiller5957
    @michaelmiller5957 Před 2 měsíci +22

    You have been there long enough. You’ve heard all the stories and I’m sure you thought of most of the scenarios. But remember, Filipina’s are always 5 steps ahead of you. Good luck and God bless

  • @CodgersCorner
    @CodgersCorner Před 2 měsíci +56

    Communal live is common in the philippines. Your girl is not homeless. She can also get an apartment for p3k that has a communal bathroom and kitchen. Something that is also commonly done in the philippines.
    Shes telling you that shes homeless and cant find a place for p3k ... time to re evaluate.

    • @andysnyder4603
      @andysnyder4603 Před 2 měsíci +5

      The operative words was "your girl". That's what these she think she is to you and she's going to work on that until she is your girl. I can see it in one moment of weakness she will have some bad cramps or something and you'll go to to help her work it out and one thing will lead to another.

    • @allenelswick6961
      @allenelswick6961 Před měsícem +7

      He is out more than rent money on her. Is there a chance she has a husband close by and is a con artist taking this man for every dollar she can get out of him. This scam happens a lot in the Philippines.

    • @Bitter_Truth_Show
      @Bitter_Truth_Show Před 14 dny

      ​@@andysnyder4603She might top him off if he pressed her, but she's not interested in him. She has her own bedroom. 😅😅😅

    • @michaelchevreaux7780
      @michaelchevreaux7780 Před 8 dny +4

      @@andysnyder4603
      Old Mgtow Saying,
      She's NOT Yours, Only Your Turn.

    • @sabinrichard1245
      @sabinrichard1245 Před dnem +1

      Yes, it is very common for families to live together in communal compounds. My uncle and auntie split time between the states and Cebu. She was from the boonies but is smart and helped me learn some much needed discipline. She has been a nurse state side for the last 25 years. She is wonderful human being. My family lucked out with her and her family as an addition to ours.

  • @mguillen1979
    @mguillen1979 Před 2 měsíci +80

    Brother It's a scam.She has a place to stay I can't tell you how many times that has happened to me It's a way they work the system. This is a red flag My brother You can't help everyone otherwise you'll go broke

    • @lilphucker4561
      @lilphucker4561 Před měsícem +11

      Of course she does, she can stay with family.

    • @blindSilver3090
      @blindSilver3090 Před měsícem +4

      Helping himself to another relationship

    • @boracay12
      @boracay12 Před měsícem +17

      he is an easy target . he doesn't care or can't see the trees for the forest

    • @Frivals
      @Frivals Před měsícem +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @yaimavol
      @yaimavol Před měsícem +13

      Yes, how has she survived for 25 years without him somehow? You can see by the way her daughter clings to him, this could get difficult.

  • @jcpmaling
    @jcpmaling Před 2 měsíci +29

    I don't feel that you are trapped because you are exactly where you want to be and appear to be enjoying it. Let me just say that no one is ever homeless in the Philippines if you have relatives or extended families, that should be obvious to anyone who has lived in the country for a while.

    • @1rockinthedadbod
      @1rockinthedadbod Před 2 měsíci +5

      Very true, with the exception of the cities.

    • @jcpmaling
      @jcpmaling Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@1rockinthedadbod most of the homeless in the cities are migrants from outside, those who don't have relatives who can take them into their homes, or orphaned children or those with mental health issues. The context is Kat and her child.

    • @MelanieMcGhee-hv7xd
      @MelanieMcGhee-hv7xd Před 6 hodinami

      You are exactly where you want to be

  • @davemarshall9925
    @davemarshall9925 Před 2 měsíci +67

    I cant believe this - you lost your mind

    • @northernbohemianrealist1412
      @northernbohemianrealist1412 Před 2 měsíci +29

      This has disaster written all over it.

    • @jl909-nr5vx
      @jl909-nr5vx Před 2 měsíci +11

      No...he doesn't have a mind to loose.

    • @GerinPhils
      @GerinPhils Před měsícem +2

      11k a month is nothing....its less than pocket change.

    • @patrickmunneke8348
      @patrickmunneke8348 Před měsícem +4

      ​@@GerinPhils That's more then some housekeepers make

    • @GerinPhils
      @GerinPhils Před měsícem

      @@patrickmunneke8348 true... but for most western guys its very affordable.

  • @gamerwits4329
    @gamerwits4329 Před 2 měsíci +54

    You got trap again mike and this with the dangerous kind. The younger ones are the most sweet and most vicious and worst than bianca could ever be, so be extra careful.

    • @peter-pg5yc
      @peter-pg5yc Před 2 měsíci +4

      Not really some are just gifts.

    • @orangebuddha-gm8ku
      @orangebuddha-gm8ku Před 2 měsíci

      Cute but obviously very imature and far to young. How could you make the same mistake twice. You are a fit good looking guy what are you thinking? This little girl already has had a child to early and without planning and why is'nt she staying with family. I bet all you get is one word answers because shes to busy on facebook, let alone have a real conversation Shame but there are millions like her, that's life here. Having load on her phone will be more important than you i''m sure. FIll your bike up with fuel and leave before it's to late.

    • @Anonymous-om5yw
      @Anonymous-om5yw Před 2 měsíci +5

      What’s wrong with Bianca? She seems to be like the sweetest girl. Isn’t she the reason Mike is in the Philippines?

    • @vandinroth
      @vandinroth Před 2 měsíci

      @@Anonymous-om5yw literally everything....self centered narcissist that doesn't understand marriage or commitment.

    • @gregkareem9824
      @gregkareem9824 Před měsícem +6

      ​@@peter-pg5ycstop defending bad behavior

  • @myleneballesteros8164
    @myleneballesteros8164 Před 2 měsíci +21

    You're a grown and experienced man.. learn your lesson and don't get scam or worse make sure she's of age cuz anyone can lie about their age..protect yourself pls

  • @michaelverstraeten8272
    @michaelverstraeten8272 Před 2 měsíci +35

    Run Forrest run , I smell some red flags, but as long as you're happy then go for it

  • @ReadySetGo113
    @ReadySetGo113 Před měsícem +23

    The way she hugs you in the pool tells me the "agreement" does not stop at cooking and laundry.
    She run AC in "her" room when room is empty ( a western thing or thoughtless Filipina) , and she sits on the bed in "your" room quite comfortably. Give me a break. LMAO

  • @13ktostay
    @13ktostay Před 2 měsíci +28

    Mike, I have never seen you dance around something so unconvincingly in my life, but I could be wrong... if you wana test it try bringing home another filipina and see how that turns out. 😂😂

  • @Bob-gn8ph
    @Bob-gn8ph Před 2 měsíci +49

    This just turned into a giant soap opera😮 we have to stay tuned now

  • @jtgrec3179
    @jtgrec3179 Před 2 měsíci +31

    Basically, it's a live-in housekeeper situation, not a bad deal if the drama is kept to a minimum

    • @MariaAnaMNowak
      @MariaAnaMNowak Před 2 měsíci +4

      All around I guess 😜😊😁😉🤣😝

    • @reinhardtheler7999
      @reinhardtheler7999 Před 2 měsíci +21

      Live - in Housekeeper in the Master Bedroom 😅

    • @jl909-nr5vx
      @jl909-nr5vx Před 2 měsíci +9

      The only thing she wants to clean his bank account..clean the whole thing out.

    • @markrivera8587
      @markrivera8587 Před měsícem +3

      She Goin to polish something!!!!

  • @Maarten8867
    @Maarten8867 Před 2 měsíci +38

    The next stage is an "unexpected" pregnancy :D

    • @eleanorleticiadanieltiangs1082
      @eleanorleticiadanieltiangs1082 Před 2 měsíci +2

      🤞HOPEFULLY NOT.. YOU HAVE AN ADVANCE THINKING BUT HOPEFULLY IF THAT HAPPENS IT IS BECAUSE THEY WILL DO IT IN THE NAME OF “LOVE” NOT PURELY LUST.. I DIDN’t know there’s something like this going on in our country. Thanks for vlogging this

    • @angryfrogger
      @angryfrogger Před měsícem +1

      True 😂😂😂

    • @NewYork-in-thePhilippines
      @NewYork-in-thePhilippines Před měsícem +2

      Mike is fixed

    • @Not_A_Tourist
      @Not_A_Tourist Před měsícem +2

      Next step is an unexpected visit from Gio.

    • @MelanieMcGhee-hv7xd
      @MelanieMcGhee-hv7xd Před 6 hodinami

      And unexpected relatives who need a place

  • @mikestrenja2966
    @mikestrenja2966 Před 2 měsíci +53

    Hope you’re clear about your intentions. Filipinas can be 5 steps ahead of you planning your life together.

  • @j.kittredge
    @j.kittredge Před 2 měsíci +37

    She seems sneaky.

    • @prideh.easttown3730
      @prideh.easttown3730 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Just shy

    • @jl909-nr5vx
      @jl909-nr5vx Před 2 měsíci +5

      Most of them are.

    • @NightLetterLondon
      @NightLetterLondon Před měsícem +1

      @@prideh.easttown3730 that's right. shyness can come across as 'dismissive', but its really an anxiety to say too much due to a lack of confidence.

    • @angryfrogger
      @angryfrogger Před měsícem +2

      Most of filipinas from the province

    • @angryfrogger
      @angryfrogger Před měsícem +1

      @@Not_A_Tourist typical people from the province. Everything is FAKE.

  • @richieliper4720
    @richieliper4720 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Got yourself a new chapter in life, Mike. We will be here watching. Good luck!

  • @ni9944
    @ni9944 Před 2 měsíci +30

    A filipino always has a place to live unless they have no family or friends. Lots of multifamily communal living. I see a lot of red flags with this situation. Get ready for lots of "emergencies" and other issues to crop up now that you have shown your generosity. I hope everything works out for you because you seem like a really nice guy. Perhaps a little too nice. Best of luck.

    • @markrivera8587
      @markrivera8587 Před měsícem +2

      Make sure u get some benefits like cook wash clean and fun😊😊😊😊

  • @maximusX_
    @maximusX_ Před 2 měsíci +52

    wow$190 a mouth when im paying $2800 a mouth here in the US makes me feel like i'm being robbed 😟

    • @yuriyee6880
      @yuriyee6880 Před 2 měsíci +7

      No you're not. You live in the US. You earn dollar and you pay dollar. If you are a Foreigner in the PH. You earn dollar and you pay in Peso then there is a big difference if you convert your money to Peso.

    • @jsikes4435
      @jsikes4435 Před 2 měsíci +11

      No, for 2800 a month you’re most likely being robbed, but everyone is.

    • @maximusX_
      @maximusX_ Před 2 měsíci +1

      @yuriyee6880 I live in Chicago, IL. we have one of the highest taxes in the US . Chicago is also known for its corrupted politics and alderman. we get robbed all the time as our high taxes get taken and used for other things and go into the pockets of those scandalous politicians. Here, the more money you make the more money they take for taxes

    • @markrivera8587
      @markrivera8587 Před měsícem +1

      You are you should find a remote job and moooove!!!

    • @ahnonymuz9921
      @ahnonymuz9921 Před měsícem +3

      you are really bein robbed. all of your salary just going to rent

  • @TheLEMRR
    @TheLEMRR Před 2 měsíci +36

    You are a good man, Mike. I am hopeful all works out with zero drama in the end.

  • @claylifto2356
    @claylifto2356 Před 2 měsíci +22

    Family, neighborhood, celebrations, and so much more in that great country. But, ohhhhhhhh, is Mike going to get the comments now! No good deed goes unpunished, right?

  • @CHITOWN-BIGGDAWGG.
    @CHITOWN-BIGGDAWGG. Před 2 měsíci +18

    DONT BE FOOLED

  • @thisthatandtheotherthing9179
    @thisthatandtheotherthing9179 Před měsícem +14

    On her phone with her boyfriend. 😂 He is probably nearby waiting for you to leave.

  • @apponsalternative3010
    @apponsalternative3010 Před 2 měsíci +14

    Expect the worse, just be careful, being kind is not always the solution, sometimes its not what u expected it to be

  • @KB-dm7nt
    @KB-dm7nt Před 2 měsíci +79

    None of my business .......just saying Mike.....if the Grandmother was looking after Cat's daughter when you were filming your new rental today, how is it that Cat has nowhere to live? Can't Cat live with her Mum/Grandma too? It will be difficult to 'unwind' your 'situation' now if this is not a relationship you have with Cat.............. unless you have made it very clear to her that she is just the live in housekeeper!

    • @kimojames808
      @kimojames808 Před 2 měsíci +21

      Michael has a good heart and is making a big deposit in his karma bank supposedly. Frankly, I think there's more to the story here. Good luck trying to get out of that arrangement.

    • @martialway81
      @martialway81 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @not-equalx😂

    • @inusaranglaag230
      @inusaranglaag230 Před 2 měsíci

      If she's just the housekeeper, don't even flirt with her, much less try to have s*x with her.

    • @user-um6xh2nk8i
      @user-um6xh2nk8i Před 2 měsíci +37

      Michael, please consider my advice having an open mind and sense of discernment .. my suspicion started when Cat mentioned that she went to Angeles city alone and didn't elaborate why. Most single women from the provinces will never go there alone , some will and resort to "prostitution" out of financial desperation.
      The normative for families especially in the provinces is when a daughter especially a single mom any kind of help, the family will everything to help in every way possible.
      You could get yourself in great danger IF Cat results to be an opportunist...you could get deported, or worst case scenario, get arrested for being falsely accused of a crime. I have a strong gut feeling about all this Michael. Maybe just help her with rent for the two months and terminate to lease contract with the landlord. After all she wasn't homeless before she met you. Please consider my advice and be very very careful my friend. God bless you Michael!

    • @markg.8043
      @markg.8043 Před 2 měsíci +13

      He's made it everyone's business because he's airing his channel on to the world CZcams channel.

  • @kahawaiihele
    @kahawaiihele Před 2 měsíci +50

    Hey man, I didn't like watching your channel when you had your wife(?) on the channel, because she was not intelligent and it was hard to listen to her speak. But I started watching more when I didn't have to listen to her and you showed off the Philippines well. Gave a good preview of potential places to visit. Good stuff. So I am on your side with your content, but man you need to seriously rethink this situation. One video, this girl was taking "vacations" to Clark and leaving her family. This screams of bar girl/pro who is flying in to make money then going back home. Read the flags man.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 Před měsícem

      Exactly! His wife was a Stage 5 imbecile.

    • @SellEverythingMovetoPhilippine
      @SellEverythingMovetoPhilippine Před měsícem

      I laughed so hard cause I hated her voice. I'd show people their videos and had to do the disclaimer, she is so annoying but the video is good.

  • @crazyonvegas
    @crazyonvegas Před 2 měsíci +14

    Going to pay you a high compliment. You’re a good man Charlie Brown.

  • @jayh1256
    @jayh1256 Před 2 měsíci +29

    Love you Mike but you got played

  • @jtraveler888
    @jtraveler888 Před 2 měsíci +15

    What a wonderful place and parade. Thank you for sharing the experience.

  • @jeromego2672
    @jeromego2672 Před 2 měsíci +26

    Bro you could get a lot better with no baggage. Not your responsibility

    • @GodsRockstarMusic
      @GodsRockstarMusic Před měsícem

      I'll take a filipina with a kid to a girl in the states with "American" baggage any day of the week.

    • @jeromego2672
      @jeromego2672 Před měsícem +8

      @@GodsRockstarMusic it’s not either/or. There are many great filipinas WITHOUT kids and the baggage of dealing with the baby daddy drama

  • @jackfrost-fu7hz
    @jackfrost-fu7hz Před 2 měsíci +51

    Someone needs to do an intervention, this can get out of control real fast, what's next, her mom needs money for surgery. Too many single Philippine women with kids looking for a foreigner to take care of them and their kids. This is good for the view count but what happens when he moves on to another story line and wants to stop paying for the apartment

    • @yaimavol
      @yaimavol Před měsícem +2

      What happens when he meets a more mature filapina he is really interested in to date? Is he going to introduce her to his housekeeper?

    • @highclassbum2538
      @highclassbum2538 Před dnem

      You can bet that some of them are already plotting their strategies. Filipinos are grossly jealous and a lot believe if I can t have the foreigner with money than not one else can have him. PH is number 1 with upholding on a pede the 7 deadly sins. See it on TV everyday.stal​@@yaimavol

  • @DONSACUEZA
    @DONSACUEZA Před 2 měsíci +7

    thank you for featuring small but meaningful events in our country. we love you

  • @fortuneybiernas5778
    @fortuneybiernas5778 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Great to be involved with the community...

  • @billgregory9585
    @billgregory9585 Před 2 měsíci +43

    Okay Mike, I know you're getting bombarded below with every scenario possible LOL, but I just want to keep it simple and say I have a newfound respect for you brother. You're a good man

  • @derekslaven3454
    @derekslaven3454 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Wow that is what you call a community gathering of support for all involved..........good video delivery......take care and enjoy the culture.......the people of the Philippines is one you never forget once you experience and you see the real people..........

  • @dondunne5615
    @dondunne5615 Před 2 měsíci +23

    You're a good man and that little girl adores you.

  • @lightyears101
    @lightyears101 Před 17 dny +3

    I am a Filipino and my advice to you is if you don't like her, break up with her it's as simple as that. Don't worry about anything she can survive on her own.

  • @JosephDiveley
    @JosephDiveley Před 2 měsíci +25

    I see nothing wrong with helping her out if there isn't a financial strain for you to do it. Just don't leave her behind with another mouth to feed. If you have to cut her off at least she had a nice place to seek shelter while she could. I hope she takes the chance to find some work and become independent again.
    You can tell it embarrasses her to be in her current situation but that she is grateful at the same time.

    • @markeuringer8106
      @markeuringer8106 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Yah I’d see if she could get some work…. Even if she winds up being attached to you to earn some money would help her feel a bit better and have flexibility

    • @eleanorleticiadanieltiangs1082
      @eleanorleticiadanieltiangs1082 Před 2 měsíci +1

      NICE WORDS , THIS FOREIGNER IS EARNING A GOOD KARMA FOR HIMSELF . BY THE WAY, WHAT DO YOU MEAN “JUST DONT LEAVE HER BEHIND WITH ANOTHER MOUTH TO FEED”? ITS LIKE IMPREGNATING THE GIRL AND HAVE ANOTHER CHILD TO FEED?
      @JosephDiveley
      2 days ago
      I see nothing wrong with helping her out if there isn't a financial strain for you to do it. Just don't leave her behind with another mouth to feed. If you have to cut her off at least she had a nice place to seek shelter while she could. I hope she takes the chance to find some work and become independent again. ( 🙏🏻 HOPEFULLY )
      You can tell it embarrasses her to be in her current situation but that she is grateful at the same time.

  • @hmonglee9638
    @hmonglee9638 Před 12 dny +4

    You don't need a live-in maid. Just pay her monthly like $20USD to clean your house twice per month. This keeps you at a distance and be on a professional relationship with her while you're helping her financially.

  • @MelbaGalardi
    @MelbaGalardi Před 2 měsíci +1

    It brought back memory lane really miss it time fly I now live in the US for 40 years. Thanks for showing us Michael ❤❤

  • @Battlecatmode
    @Battlecatmode Před 2 měsíci +7

    My #1 fan now lol this was a fun video and good luck not getting attached to that young Filipina

  • @Davirdcarrol
    @Davirdcarrol Před 2 měsíci +25

    I nt getting in your business Michael but I think kat is a keeper you need hurry up get your divorce don't string this young lady along just for the viewers if you genuine like her do right by her it's my five cents we all know Filipin is love hard and get attached quick and I do think you are a great guy just be honest with young Lady and I wish you all the best

    • @emanuelusa63
      @emanuelusa63 Před 2 měsíci +4

      💯 agree

    • @i.r.wayright1457
      @i.r.wayright1457 Před 2 měsíci +1

      It will take until next January before he is free.

    • @elizabeth78269
      @elizabeth78269 Před 2 měsíci +4

      why does Mike have to get married? I don't understand the suggestion.

    • @jeffhaggarty9879
      @jeffhaggarty9879 Před 2 měsíci

      @@elizabeth78269 He is currently married and going through divorce. So he doesn't have to marry her or anyone, but to be totally free it might take a little bit is I think what they're saying.

  • @xiaobao4757
    @xiaobao4757 Před měsícem

    The sense of community over there is off the charts! No wonder they are so happy!!

  • @orangebuddha-gm8ku
    @orangebuddha-gm8ku Před 2 měsíci +9

    As long she has her facebook she will be happy, I don't think you will ever have much in comon even conversation. But Your choice, I know you are kind BUT not stupid!!

  • @msd6105
    @msd6105 Před měsícem +2

    You’re definitely a people person and I like how you interact with the people ❤

  • @rickysickles1429
    @rickysickles1429 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Even if you and Cat aren't having a relationship . She will be very protective of you. So dont get wigged out. Just injoy for now and enjoying the Brgy and its people.

  • @davidssunstar
    @davidssunstar Před měsícem +3

    First...Saying love in a few days.
    2..Guilt trip...No rent no food no electric
    3. Overly clingy wayyy to fast.
    4 Ultimatums...demanding a relationship
    5. Shame...uding word like cheap or bad if you dont fiollow their plan
    6 Monopolizing your time so u cant meet others
    7 Asking to drive during sex and not wanting to exit the vehicle at the approprite time
    8 Fake pregnancies
    9 Pregnant from real bf and telling foreigner it is his
    10 Encouraging their kids to bond with you and call you Daddy
    There are so many more..but
    Over attention, Love after a few days, guilt, shame
    🤣🤣🤣 I dont have a load now because I wrote this reply

  • @IrmaAbare
    @IrmaAbare Před 2 měsíci +3

    Nice house and affodable too? I like the house and it is simple but looks decent to leave and clean as well! Good for the time being.

  • @ZoKitchen
    @ZoKitchen Před 2 měsíci +3

    that's a beautiful place kanindot nnyo oy

  • @emmavogel1850
    @emmavogel1850 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I as filipina i dont like our shit mentality that was the main reason why i left my homeland

    • @eleanorleticiadanieltiangs1082
      @eleanorleticiadanieltiangs1082 Před 2 měsíci

      another heartbreaking comment:
      @emmavogel1850
      15 hours ago
      I as filipina i dont like our shit mentality that was the main reason why i left my homeland
      ---
      HELLO FELLOW FILIPINA, I HOPE YOU ARE DOING GOOD WHEREVER COUNTRY YOU ARE NOW .. your term “SHIT MENTALITY” 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 hai grabe

  • @brittbrittingham9871
    @brittbrittingham9871 Před měsícem

    Cat is so shy. I understand what a BIG heart looks like. God open doors all the time . Look now on how much more she is open up

  • @jm31772
    @jm31772 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Very nice! I can't wait to go

  • @gracejonesgj3368
    @gracejonesgj3368 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Everybody seems friendly ❤ .
    That's good to hear you have a lovely lady in the house.😊

  • @rosalinashea5493
    @rosalinashea5493 Před měsícem +1

    I’m new here, but… something different to watch his blog lol. They are so lucky wondering around in Philippines. I’m still working and counting my retirement and back to Philippines someday in god blessings

  • @mikepalmer71
    @mikepalmer71 Před 2 měsíci +7

    You got trapped by the right one 👍 $200 a month is worth it to see her smile and know that you positively changed someone's life.

  • @LarryFournillier
    @LarryFournillier Před 2 měsíci +2

    Blessings and live your life, brother. What you do is entirely *_your_* *_business_* and no one is in any position to pass judgement - more power to you!👍🏾

  • @RetosSpace
    @RetosSpace Před 2 měsíci +1

    Keep Making Magic Brother!!! We need Good Hooomans like you on the Planet, Greetings from Cape Town, South Africa

  • @williamiager8291
    @williamiager8291 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Oh my friend, oh my friend……lol, God Bless you

  • @Rob0917
    @Rob0917 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Love seeing all the happy faces!

  • @mikelandry6397
    @mikelandry6397 Před 2 měsíci +4

    $190 a month with girl included, looking forward on how this plays out

  • @albeenog2432
    @albeenog2432 Před 2 měsíci +30

    what a mess

  • @ricksivley7047
    @ricksivley7047 Před měsícem +2

    I just watched the recent video where you said one of your biggest faults is that you're so trusting. I think you rushed in too quick after youe ex. Why rush it when the philippines is your oyster?
    Be careful and don't ignore the red flags.

  • @joelow1282
    @joelow1282 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Cute doggy 😊

  • @brucebaum1458
    @brucebaum1458 Před měsícem +2

    Not a scam, it’s a business transaction that you voluntarily bought into, no more no less. If you want a pretty girl on your arm you overlooked the baggage which in this case was carried by a freight liner.

  • @markwilliamson2795
    @markwilliamson2795 Před 2 měsíci +22

    190 a month is a great deal....

  • @vinnie1711
    @vinnie1711 Před 2 měsíci +51

    Kat is a good woman caught in hard circumstances, single witha disabled child and zero employment opportunities. If it's a win-win for both of you? No judgment whatsoever! I hope you all stay blessed!

    • @catsupchutney
      @catsupchutney Před 2 měsíci +5

      An unbalanced power dynamic is a recipe for resentment.

    • @TvShots
      @TvShots Před 2 měsíci +2

      She quit her job.

    • @tcs831usa
      @tcs831usa Před 2 měsíci +5

      What do you think the child is disabled? Michael let's not sugar coat things about Kat. Seeing Kat with her arms around you speaks for itself. Good luck with the three of you.

    • @vandinroth
      @vandinroth Před 2 měsíci +2

      ALL filipino women have this same story!

    • @angiewilkins5766
      @angiewilkins5766 Před 2 měsíci +3

      That's a cheap rent , she seemed very nice ,the house is very accommodating with the furniture too good deal

  • @peter-pg5yc
    @peter-pg5yc Před 2 měsíci +7

    If one cannot help others then what is life. but a shared adventure.

  • @fortuneybiernas5778
    @fortuneybiernas5778 Před 2 měsíci

    Thats great Michael. Usually during summer there are basketball and volleyball leagues to keep the kids busy with school out.

  • @wisechoicewon5893
    @wisechoicewon5893 Před 2 měsíci

    Mike you are such a kind hearted person take care and stay safe

  • @JJ-sf3ew
    @JJ-sf3ew Před měsícem +1

    Filipina here, lots of Filipina can be a potential honest and caring wife but yes, there are also ones who can be sly and milk you till you go dry. Help and trust with caution. Hope everything goes well for you. And.. yep when all else fails ruuuuuuuun!!!!!! 😆

  • @prideh.easttown3730
    @prideh.easttown3730 Před 2 měsíci

    Kath is blessed...she have a job at your home..and a roof on her head.. thank you for that.

  • @CavalrySecurity
    @CavalrySecurity Před měsícem +4

    LOL, She is just a woman with a child in need. I think he meant that as a funny. For myself I think living THERE would be more helpful for him as well as her. That beach place failed at being Air BnB, I'd stay there all in for 20K, but need aircon and WiFi, but then I lived a year in the Bukid in our home in Mindanao and took dipper showers with a kettle of hot water heated on palm fronds (Burns almost smokeless, and is plentiful material on Cocoanut land. 1 Kettle heats up a whole black Washtub.
    If I was this Vlogger, I'd stay with the lady and if a relationship happens SLOWLY, or not Ok. Think of the life of that child, not the leg spreading of the mother. You can't help everyone, but you can help someone... You help people out of your blessing not from sacrifice. Your bucket of help can NEVER meet the river of Need...

  • @brantingram
    @brantingram Před měsícem +1

    i moved to cebu in 2010 and travelled to many provinces on motorcylce trips . ililo , negros , cebu , leyte , samar . if you looking for peace and quiet , cheap living , and beautiful beaches with cheap rentals go to southern samar , you can ride a ferry from ililo to negros , then cebu then to leyte and then by road from leyet to samar . its a amazing experience and you will love it , its cheap and once you in leyte and samar there is no traffic . ive made these trips many times and everytime i had a blast and didnt cost much

  • @stevef7798
    @stevef7798 Před 2 měsíci +1

    “Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.” Teach her to fish or this will be a never ending cycle. Your heart is in the right place though, so don't let any critics get to you!

  • @robertcarel7704
    @robertcarel7704 Před 2 měsíci +12

    Seems like you could find a measure of happiness with Kat, her family, and the nice community, while continuing with your channel.

    • @markrivera8587
      @markrivera8587 Před měsícem +1

      You just adopted the whole barangay lol u Goin b broke😊😊😊😊😊😊AF

  • @michaelpeoples9083
    @michaelpeoples9083 Před měsícem

    Samantha 's youngest sister resembles you , the youngest resembles Hannah, wow you can really see the family resemblance. You guys are awesome. Keep on living the dream!

  • @TvShots
    @TvShots Před 2 měsíci +8

    *Insert Admiral Ackbar its a trap gif here*

  • @dougparson4407
    @dougparson4407 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Congrats on the New Family - Kat is Cute !! Let her make you a happy man and see how things go. Nice house if you like green - Hahaha

  • @zibomacadangdang9875
    @zibomacadangdang9875 Před 2 měsíci +1

    That is a nice house. The lighting and colors are very relaxing. Having the girl as a temporary house keeper is a future headache in the making possibly when the time comes to move out. Also sort of awkward if you get the chance to meet other girls. But its also nice to not be alone. Nice set up.

  • @billbradley2480
    @billbradley2480 Před 2 měsíci +5

    What? No beach front property? Maybe later!
    Kat is a sweetheart. Glad y’all are shacking up, Or roommates.

  • @vec306
    @vec306 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Wow it’s so clean

  • @Battlecatmode
    @Battlecatmode Před 2 měsíci +31

    I feel like you just got a wife

    • @JEDI938
      @JEDI938 Před 2 měsíci +5

      And a new adorable kid too! How can you not...right? 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💓💓💓💓💓💓

    • @Battlecatmode
      @Battlecatmode Před 2 měsíci +5

      Absolutely I think it's a perfect scenario I predict and I could be wrong because I don't know this man but I predict he will get his beach house she will be his maid for a while and eventually his wife

    • @Battlecatmode
      @Battlecatmode Před 2 měsíci +8

      I think if the girl doesn't get his heart the daughter will and she already loves himalready you can see that

    • @MyNameIsNotEmail.ItsEmail
      @MyNameIsNotEmail.ItsEmail Před 2 měsíci

      😂😂

    • @peter-pg5yc
      @peter-pg5yc Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@Battlecatmode Nothing wrong with that..

  • @salvacionlacson8413
    @salvacionlacson8413 Před 2 měsíci +3

    None of my business I’m from Tigbawan ,Iloilo Don’t get trapped by this girl

    • @poultryboy1984
      @poultryboy1984 Před 2 měsíci

      Learn to spell the name of the city you claim to live in lol

  • @JamesAlon-no8gt
    @JamesAlon-no8gt Před měsícem +1

    You've got a wonderful and comfortable place there Mike plus a pretty wife or girlfriend and daughter! Enjoy your stay there Mike.

  • @Beau007us
    @Beau007us Před 2 měsíci +5

    Awesome Mike! Kat and her kid are adorable, you are doing a noble deed!! God Bless you bro!!!! Stay Blessed and follow your heart!!!!

  • @serdalkaptan
    @serdalkaptan Před měsícem

    You are very close to my fiance's family's village. When we visit Pilipinas we will give you a shout. Regards from ON.

  • @samquinn6427
    @samquinn6427 Před 2 měsíci +8

    I jsut rented a 10' by 15' storage unit in Orlando Florida for $190 per month and it did not come with Kat so your doing great my friend.

  • @frankmolina6910
    @frankmolina6910 Před měsícem

    This is the true meaning of life, family love, and happiness. You are a lucky man. Do not listen to the negative comments. miserable people love company. This is beautiful❤

  • @locker1325
    @locker1325 Před měsícem +1

    What a great place. You are really getting involved. It's commendable. Gotta help people out. I like your place better then some you looked at. I love the vibe of the neighborhood. Those were some real beautiful filipinas. Like it or not. You are deeply involved in a Filipinas life now. I'm a little jealous. After reading the comments I believe most think you are being played for the fool westerner. I hope that's not the case. Good luck Mike. It's a meaningless gesture but I always wanted you to get together with the horse girl from casa fiametta.

  • @AkilezNewEngland
    @AkilezNewEngland Před 2 měsíci +1

    Province Life Is So Simple and Happy compared to Metro Manila life. When i call my friends in Manila they seem so busy but when I call my friends in the Province they have time to talk to me.

  • @user-ds6vy7ho8t
    @user-ds6vy7ho8t Před 28 dny

    Congratulations 🎊 on your success 🙏🙏🙏👍You work so hard so you deserve every thing. Are friends of Bianca or maybe reunite. Love that girl. Wishing you more success and happiness 🙏🙏😇

  • @stephenhibbert3835
    @stephenhibbert3835 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Yup your done. lol

  • @canadafree5216
    @canadafree5216 Před 2 měsíci +3

    That sweet little girl will sweep you off your feet bud 😊. She needs a father figure , you will become attached to her quickly. My daughter is my life, and Kat’s daughter will be your life soon when she steals your heart. I wish you the best with your plans.

    • @ThatPhilippinesLife
      @ThatPhilippinesLife  Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yea it's hard to say no to a little one like that! Thanks so much