How to Forgive & Forget If Someone Betrays You? | Sadhguru

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  • čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
  • Responding to a question about forgetting and forgiving, Sadhguru looks at why a person feels the need to forgive or forget, and explains how most people are not suffering life but their inability to handle their memory.
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Komentáře • 173

  • @darlenepadilla6186
    @darlenepadilla6186 Před 17 dny +123

    stop being a victim of someone else’s stupidity and just focus on yourself well-being. ❤

  • @alanm6o9
    @alanm6o9 Před 17 dny +55

    The timing on this is no coincidence. This is exactly what i needed to hear right at this very moment

  • @user-wx1gk8md4o
    @user-wx1gk8md4o Před 9 dny +364

    Get the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest, and uncover the secrets they've been hiding.

  • @LIMITSDESTROYED
    @LIMITSDESTROYED Před 17 dny +35

    If you are smart enough to understand everything Sadhguru teaches, you are smarter than 99%.

    • @Giu_443
      @Giu_443 Před 10 dny

      Unfortunately yes…

  • @youyemyay2022
    @youyemyay2022 Před 17 dny +8

    Every word that Sadhguru is saying in this clip is worth its weight in gold. I have had to apply these principles on countless occasions in the past and it has changed (and still changing) my outlook on life for the better. Even though I feel hurt initially when someone says something that is hurtful, my brain reminds my heart about these nuggets of wisdom from Sadhguru and I immediately feel joyful and move on with whatever I was doing prior to the encounter. Yes, sometimes it lingers and smolders longer but I have been able to move on joyfully every time. I have had 2 such unpleasant encounters even in the last 4 days as well as on many previous occasions. Every time I apply this principle and I have been able to emerge unscathed mentally and emotionally.

  • @Elonmuskateer
    @Elonmuskateer Před 17 dny +55

    Suffering your memory is an awful mindset

    • @amarendraborah6941
      @amarendraborah6941 Před 17 dny +5

      "Let's embrace the pain and burn it as fuel for our journey !" - Kenji Miyazawa.

    • @warriorshedge6772
      @warriorshedge6772 Před 17 dny +2

      It truly is, insomnia is what i get for it

    • @amarendraborah6941
      @amarendraborah6941 Před 17 dny

      Infact, it's the other way round ! Someone, who's really so in oneself, and has perfected this obnoxious art through the years, finds one's own reflection in everyone, whenever one ventures to look at others ! Someone might have seen one's own image in the mirror, prior to writing this comment ! How farcical and hypocritical it looks !
      In the common parlance, it's called - "Ulta Chor Kotwal Ko Daten !"

    • @Pee-kay2024
      @Pee-kay2024 Před 17 dny +3

      I think it gets better with time

    • @Jinadaz
      @Jinadaz Před 17 dny +2

      Good lesson for your brain but bad for your heart

  • @2BeefHair
    @2BeefHair Před 17 dny +9

    Sadhguru looking cool AF 😎

  • @dawunigrace9341
    @dawunigrace9341 Před 17 dny +13

    Sadhguru is my God thank you very much

  • @nigelgoodwin5094
    @nigelgoodwin5094 Před 14 dny +2

    We need a plethora of Sadhgurus for this planet!

  • @Amare-r2u
    @Amare-r2u Před 4 hodinami

    What a wise man! And how perfectly he knows people, their minds and life itself... And I really like his sense of humour. And the way he laughs out loud sometimes. 🙂♥

  • @ShivaKailashShambho
    @ShivaKailashShambho Před 17 dny +12

    Sadhguru is a wise guy.

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749 Před 17 dny +9

    Sometimes, our mind remembers what should be forgotten and forgets what should be remebered.

  • @ReikiMasterCarlie
    @ReikiMasterCarlie Před 16 dny +1

    What a truth.💖 All people are horrible, accept them, work with them

  • @chasefancy3092
    @chasefancy3092 Před 17 dny +4

    Namaskaram Sadhguru! Bilqul Say Bhaat Bhai! This is a very serious issue. I have suffered traumatizing events in my past. I use meditation to prevent myself from having "flashbacks" which almost feel like "lucid dreams." I find this is difficult to do because it involves going deep into your neural synaptic wave function. The last thing you want to do is create resentment, bitterness, and negative energy in your soul. It is much better to forgive and forget. I realize this is easier said than done. Excellent Video!

  • @mgroliveira
    @mgroliveira Před 17 dny +5

    Each and every thing in this tridimensional world has a good and bad side operating simultaneously side by side. We need wisdom to surf these pleasant and unpleasant waves of our tridimentional lives, with grace and balance. Forgiveness happens when we remember a certain painful past experience and no longer suffer, or fall off from our surf board, by getting affected negatively by the remembrance of it

  • @firemani
    @firemani Před 17 dny +4

    Intelligence is needed to understand this and apply it to life.

  • @_hdawn9071
    @_hdawn9071 Před 17 dny +4

    “..Long have you thus experienced stress, experienced pain, experienced loss, swelling the cemeteries - enough to become disenchanted with all fabricated things, enough to become dispassionate, enough to be released."
    Assu Sutta (Samyutta Nikaya 15.3)

  • @solshine2510
    @solshine2510 Před 9 dny

    I prayed for saving me from judging others this morning. From tagging and pigeonholing. This is not a coincidence that 10 minutes later this pops. Wise words. ❤

  • @RamyaChandramouli-e4o
    @RamyaChandramouli-e4o Před 10 dny

    just needed to hear this! what a blessing to have you Sadhguru.. I am sorry for taking your wonderful presence for granted

  • @nemoxero
    @nemoxero Před 16 dny +1

    forgiving oneself is the most difficult…❤️🔥🌈❤️

  • @JulianMarkHouse
    @JulianMarkHouse Před 17 dny +2

    Strong enough statements can convince many not all. Agree or disagree with this, that. That's what we are doing today.

  • @BillHustonPodcast
    @BillHustonPodcast Před 17 dny +3

    Fabulous, thank you Sadhguru!

  • @jocometa2024
    @jocometa2024 Před 13 dny

    To me, everything he said made perfect sense.🙏

  • @ritiksain8840
    @ritiksain8840 Před 17 dny +4

    Sadhguru one video on Isha kriya. Please.

  • @jamespratt7574
    @jamespratt7574 Před 14 dny +1

    Thank you I have a smile on my FACE

  • @metalrocker627
    @metalrocker627 Před 17 dny +1

    Yes. You should forgive and forget betrayal.

  • @danihealer
    @danihealer Před 17 dny +2

    You don't full stop, stand up for yourself

  • @kramnam4716
    @kramnam4716 Před 17 dny +5

    Forgiveness is kindness to oneself ☺️🙏🏼♥️

  • @auptag4846
    @auptag4846 Před 17 dny +6

    Isn’t it? Isn’t it so? ❤

  • @kishorekishore1144
    @kishorekishore1144 Před 17 dny

    Excellent tips you have been given to society. Thank you 🙏

  • @rahulgiri5659
    @rahulgiri5659 Před 13 dny

    गुरु देव आपके दर्शन हुए सपने में ❤ पहली बार

  • @DeborahCroft
    @DeborahCroft Před 12 dny

    I ate from 2 Restaurants Thurs. both of the same brand Name. just a few hours later my head was spinning and light headed which lasted for a 3 day minimum. Both seemed cordial but i definitely did not feel that way prior; and 4 days later i am just beginning to feel better. This is where forgiveness is needed.

  • @abhinavgupta6141
    @abhinavgupta6141 Před 16 dny

    Superb video ...Sadhguru's Wisdom ❤🙏

  • @Guru_Ti17
    @Guru_Ti17 Před 17 dny +2

    Forgive and move on...best policy. If you are forgetful then you can achieve real peace of mind...otherwise you can become a criminal...
    Great thoughts by Sadguru.

  • @shara4036
    @shara4036 Před 17 dny

    THANK YOU for sharing your WISDOM Sadhguru ji ❤❤❤

  • @0_3_6_9_0
    @0_3_6_9_0 Před 17 dny +1

    Happy Krishna Jayanti!! Sorry I fell in love at the wrong time! Sorry for having just a little emotions!

  • @user-bm6su2rq5p
    @user-bm6su2rq5p Před 15 dny

    Virtues are the forebears of Values and standards. Let's be Honest and stop suffering yesterday and be present, willing and Available.

  • @RjKatoch
    @RjKatoch Před 16 dny

    Sometimes óúr mind remember what should be forgotten and remembers what should forgotten 😊😊

  • @presntnow
    @presntnow Před 17 dny +2

    Move on from that person

  • @vaibbhavsanwalka4315
    @vaibbhavsanwalka4315 Před 14 dny

    जीवन कुल सहजता में है life is in total ease

  • @chrome2yourdome
    @chrome2yourdome Před 13 dny

    😀 love sadhguru from canada

  • @explorer.samrat
    @explorer.samrat Před 17 dny +3

    Do the best what's in your control. Other's betrayal and behaviour are not in our control...😊

  • @lisanathan2995
    @lisanathan2995 Před 17 dny +1

    Thank you Sadghuru for these words. Bless you - but you already are.I have fermented a lot - liking yogurt a lot :)

  • @raghavkumar3396
    @raghavkumar3396 Před 17 dny +4

    You can't forget anything, the more you try to forget the more you remember. Practice mindfulness which is powerful

  • @shambulingaswamym5890
    @shambulingaswamym5890 Před 17 dny +1

    SirThrugh your channel your goodself Offering Invaluable knowledge AwarenessAnd and

  • @RakeshKumar-nn5hv
    @RakeshKumar-nn5hv Před 9 dny

    The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

  • @LuckyRout-l3f
    @LuckyRout-l3f Před 15 dny

    Sadguru you are my father❤ I choose

  • @JustKamleshP
    @JustKamleshP Před 17 dny +1

    9:39 💀 facts 💯

  • @bhaskarhazarika5241
    @bhaskarhazarika5241 Před 17 dny +2

    জয় সদগুৰু🙏🕉🧘‍♂️

  • @missepicmandy
    @missepicmandy Před 17 dny +4

    I'm just getting nervous all the time jealous nervous lol. maybe even heart rate goes up. I'm scared sometimes to get rejected or something. or just I believe in fantasy

    • @Manish.Meena.M
      @Manish.Meena.M Před 17 dny

      You should do inner engineering😊

    • @amarendraborah6941
      @amarendraborah6941 Před 17 dny +2

      "You have to grow from inside out ! None can teach you, none can make you spiritual ! There's no other teacher but your own soul !" - Swami Vivekananda.

  • @saurabhsingh3583
    @saurabhsingh3583 Před 17 dny +1

    Namaskarm sadhguru 🌸🕉️🙏

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 Před 15 dny

    Tq sadhguru...

  • @ÍndioDaRoleta
    @ÍndioDaRoleta Před 13 dny +2

    Please no music no songs when sadhguru is speaking 🗣️ please no sounds

  • @Naughty-jq2gg
    @Naughty-jq2gg Před 17 dny +1

    Thank you❤🙏

  • @jennybarajas9112
    @jennybarajas9112 Před 5 dny

    Por favor traducir al español. Gracias ☺️

  • @sublimechimp
    @sublimechimp Před 17 dny +1

    Thank you

  • @sudharasanjayaprakash3388

    Thank you sg. 🌞👣🌱

  • @Nayan_Dutta
    @Nayan_Dutta Před 17 dny +1

    You're Love Guru Ji..

    • @amarendraborah6941
      @amarendraborah6941 Před 17 dny

      "Love means not ever having to say - you are sorry !" - Erich Segal.

  • @pulkitpandey3957
    @pulkitpandey3957 Před 17 dny +1

    Sadhguru❤❤

  • @SamadKhan-k4t
    @SamadKhan-k4t Před 9 dny

    there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal

  • @TheVykingJoe
    @TheVykingJoe Před 16 dny

    Sadghuru looks like a movie or game character

  • @NatureHolisticHealing
    @NatureHolisticHealing Před 17 dny +1

    How about if its an ongoing experience from close ones and different people? How to move on ?

  • @shaanvideos8591
    @shaanvideos8591 Před 14 dny

    Guru ji "vimoh" atheist k liye kuch video banaye.. Bhot jyada galat cheejein faila rahe hai aur bhagwan ko kuch nhi smjhte wo..

  • @Teddietonbear23
    @Teddietonbear23 Před 17 dny +2

    🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @paa90777
    @paa90777 Před 17 dny +1

    God

  • @jaibajia
    @jaibajia Před 17 dny +2

    ❤❤

  • @mariammiee
    @mariammiee Před 14 dny

    WAHE GURU

  • @MRINMOYPARAI-mp8nl
    @MRINMOYPARAI-mp8nl Před 13 dny

    If persons are powerfull and doing conspiracy and trying to ruin a life and family entirely .....What I have to do .....

  • @joejo7698
    @joejo7698 Před 17 dny +1

    🙏🏻

  • @jatinvaishnav6934
    @jatinvaishnav6934 Před 16 dny

    Namaskaram sadguru, someone near me has became the victim of non-consensual images sharing, how to deal with the situation where someone has leaked the photos which arent meant to be seen by anybody? aka intimate images, please help, I feel helpless, seeing them suffering. what can they do in this situation?

  • @danielvutran
    @danielvutran Před 16 dny

    5:51

  • @stevewilliams7852
    @stevewilliams7852 Před 9 dny

    If you touch a hot stove and get burned, do you learn to not do it again?

  • @giulialuca8612
    @giulialuca8612 Před 13 dny

    Maestro soffro di fame d aria da dieci anni dicono che ansia nervoso e tiroide mi dicono di fare yoga esercizi di respirazione ma mi stringe la gola è una specie di tic mi esce la lingua vorrei stare più a contatto cn la natura vorrei fare tante cose bma mi riempiono di ansiolitici menomale che ho i miei cani cm fate voi orientali a essere così calmi grazie di tutti i consigli

  • @mayanksamdariyaRewa
    @mayanksamdariyaRewa Před 17 dny +2

    Hello sir,
    If we think in the perspective of determinism and free will.
    I have only one question, who wants free will or if I say in passive, free will for whom.
    As you know, Quantum mechanics is clearly saying that the matter behaves like both meterial and energy.
    (Let's put aside any transcendental things for a while)
    If any event contains cause and effect that means event is predetermined.
    I read recently the book free wii of Sam Harris, he wrote all events are influenced by our past experiences and external influence.
    I don't think that there is anything like self. Even self is also a illusion.
    Experiments of libet clearly said "brain activity gave its descision before 8-10 seconds. Let's assume brain activity works in two types, conscious and subconscious.
    We think my conscious mind is giving descision but descision is given by subconscious mind before 10 seconds ago.
    Questions:
    Who wants free will?
    Or free will for whom?

    • @devanshverma-dh7eq
      @devanshverma-dh7eq Před 15 dny

      There is difference between a sleeping person and a dead person. Same goes for personality and self. Personality is self created you have to find the Self.

    • @devanshverma-dh7eq
      @devanshverma-dh7eq Před 15 dny

      Will is not free. I think this question comes from misinterpretation of Bible. People also made countless books and conclusions on Geeta as well. But from what they understood not by what was the truth .

    • @devanshverma-dh7eq
      @devanshverma-dh7eq Před 15 dny

      Hope you find my comments helpful ❤😁

  • @davidcontreras8583
    @davidcontreras8583 Před 17 dny +1

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @RamiraUbuzimaTV
    @RamiraUbuzimaTV Před 13 dny

    How can I get the phone contacts of Sadhguru? Plz help me i need them so much

  • @justravisopinion3075
    @justravisopinion3075 Před 12 dny

    ❤🙏

  • @PingvinasBuratinas
    @PingvinasBuratinas Před 17 dny +1

    Don’t have to forgive. Why?

  • @sessan6283
    @sessan6283 Před 4 dny

    🙏🏾♥️

  • @GarysTales
    @GarysTales Před 8 dny

    🌸🙌🏻🌸

  • @ndb14421432
    @ndb14421432 Před 17 dny +1

    🙏🏻😇❤️

  • @rabiroy4566
    @rabiroy4566 Před 9 dny

    Find the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest to discover what they're not telling us.

  • @stuckendamiddle
    @stuckendamiddle Před 17 dny +1

    it's a second chance of life

  • @satyamvyas7538
    @satyamvyas7538 Před 9 dny

    Sadguru hearing from two years you default in many parts in this video chemistry is a Mistry

  • @Aikya_sub
    @Aikya_sub Před 17 dny

    Thanks for 100 subscribers completed 🎉🎉❤❤

  • @meszarosmelinda9554
    @meszarosmelinda9554 Před 17 dny +1

    🙏🏿🌹

  • @Aikya_sub
    @Aikya_sub Před 17 dny

    Thanks for 100 subscribers completed 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @rohittamidapati6506
    @rohittamidapati6506 Před 17 dny +1

    Uhm! What if someone is being stopped from reading the user manual? Asking for a friend lol

    • @devanshverma-dh7eq
      @devanshverma-dh7eq Před 15 dny

      Try again from where you left. Whenever you can 😊

    • @rohittamidapati6506
      @rohittamidapati6506 Před 15 dny +1

      @@devanshverma-dh7eq Thank you so much Anna. Means a lot. Always trying.
      Unfortunately Time is all mashed up, I am thirsting for silence, only silence can help me.

  • @horse_rike
    @horse_rike Před 15 dny

    If forgive and forget the traitoress politicians and move on 🎉❤

  • @TheCalmOne353
    @TheCalmOne353 Před 13 dny

    Test

  • @avinashshahi2263
    @avinashshahi2263 Před 13 dny

    8:14 in the nutshell...

  • @MantunSahu-x3v
    @MantunSahu-x3v Před 17 dny +1

    Sorry sadguru 🫣 mujhe maaf kar de

  • @Zhanna-f9v
    @Zhanna-f9v Před 15 dny

    💯👍💯

  • @jerry-mind-sky
    @jerry-mind-sky Před 17 dny +6

    When woman cheated then soul ties with partner are cutted off and forgiving and forgetting will not help. Energy of third party man always will be alive between such woman and her man. It is over.

    • @amarendraborah6941
      @amarendraborah6941 Před 17 dny +5

      Relationships - be it love, friendship, or whatever - thrive on mutual trust, mutual respect, reciprocity, and fellow - feeling ! When that trust is lost, everything is lost !

  • @kimberleyshott8970
    @kimberleyshott8970 Před 17 dny +1

    💯🫂

  • @Daniel-u5m6y
    @Daniel-u5m6y Před 17 dny +1

    Are you going to forgive and forget in 2025?

  • @rudyponzio5871
    @rudyponzio5871 Před 17 dny +1

    Ha, I betray myself... no one else can do it to me.....Why conservation in all directions is best and never not?
    You don't throw out your car alarm because it accuses everyone to be a thief? You use it every time you park.

  • @youngnothingofficial
    @youngnothingofficial Před 17 dny +1

    ✨🐉✨

  • @mukeshrathoore8574
    @mukeshrathoore8574 Před 17 dny +1

    🔱💙🧡❤️🧡💙🔱

  • @smajbaadi
    @smajbaadi Před 9 dny

    Explore the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest to uncover hidden truth.