Challenges of marrying young.

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  • čas přidán 19. 05. 2022
  • Married at 20 years and by 26 years she had 3 kids.
    Her marriage never worked and eventually failed. They separated but she blames it all on herself.
    She has always taught her kids to respect their father for he will always be their father.

Komentáře • 168

  • @mercykihuga8056
    @mercykihuga8056 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank u for being real enjoyed the whole talk.

  • @doriswangui6114
    @doriswangui6114 Před 2 lety +5

    Very educative , informative , she said the truth love yourself enough first before your set forth to love someone else. Very wise woman, her takeaways from her failed marriage has equipped her to help other people. Such a lovely lady!

  • @patrickmugo5962
    @patrickmugo5962 Před 2 lety

    A good approach for the interview. I have learnt something.

  • @estahadassah9470
    @estahadassah9470 Před 2 lety +2

    Anne, you are an amazing lady 💃🏾. Yours is straight talk 🎶👏🏾💞

  • @jenniferk4167
    @jenniferk4167 Před 2 lety +1

    Very educative .Thanks 💕

  • @jamesgathaiya6450
    @jamesgathaiya6450 Před 2 lety +3

    Let's us appreciate our guest today she's such vibe and straight forwards ,,if you feel you're not ready for marriage don't do it untill you feel you're oky ,,,,better broken relationship than broken marriage

  • @idawairimu7093
    @idawairimu7093 Před 2 lety +2

    The host lady has been thru a difficult journey but resilient.. She's a strong lady. Thanks for sharing

  • @bredawakio5381
    @bredawakio5381 Před 2 lety +20

    Mombasa am locked me pia soon nitatafut WAMBUI about fighting something society blames me for yet it's not my wish things are the way they are it's not easy but once my testimony is here I will share it..prayer worriers please interven am passing through alot

    • @annnjoki2421
      @annnjoki2421 Před 2 lety +2

      Hi Wakio,,, take heart ❤️❤️ it's well,,, God loves you n He's always closer.

    • @susankariuki1607
      @susankariuki1607 Před 2 lety

      Nono !!! It's you don't based like that!

    • @annnjeri864
      @annnjeri864 Před 2 lety

      WHAT MY GOD CANNOT DO OR CHANGE INTO GREAT DOES NOT EXIST MY Sister SOON YOUR GOING TO SMILE KEEP STONG IN JESUS

    • @pstleilaciku7171
      @pstleilaciku7171 Před 2 lety

      It shall be well with you 🙏🏻❤

  • @natashablessings4354
    @natashablessings4354 Před 2 lety +11

    I gave birth to my first born at the age of 17 yrs, second born at 20 and third born at 23, my marriage failed when i was pregnant with my third born. I was the topic in my village eti nimerudi kwetu na watoi wawili na mimba, but today God turned the tables watoi wangu wawili wako high school,my first born did last year's KCSE and scored a B+ with 77 points,there is God of many chances 🙏🙏 Wambui please pin this watu wajifunze na my testimony wasife moyo

  • @suzzykaroki6518
    @suzzykaroki6518 Před 2 lety +2

    The best advice i needed to hear. Very timely. Now i have points to talk to my daughter. She's in form 4 and I've been worrying about her life after high school.

  • @africanoafrica2479
    @africanoafrica2479 Před 2 lety +8

    Woow today guest is a bomb very positive story we need her again .... sometimes if we focus to much on negative side people lose taste of marriage.

  • @joystemmukuhi2842
    @joystemmukuhi2842 Před 2 lety +3

    This interview is very good. The guest so great. I really like it.

  • @JUSTWANGUI
    @JUSTWANGUI Před 2 lety +10

    I agree with her 100 percent , I married young and out of desperation I was 20 too , being with someone I didn't really know ,then getting pregnant has really bruised my life to date because I was wrong and I have been very bitter overtime but am getting back to my senses and with mental growth now am ready to identify a spouse that I will be with for the right reasons.

    • @salomewanjiku7370
      @salomewanjiku7370 Před 2 lety +2

      Sure,i get married at 19 ad 3kids my husband was21 then niliteseka sana coz my hazi was not matured utoto ulikuwa mwingi,but thanks to God am still in my marriage now11 years

    • @Cate861
      @Cate861 Před 2 lety +1

      I agree with you at my time I got married@19 and at 24 I had all my 3 kids still in marriage now my grand kids are the ones I tell are my kids

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 Před 2 lety +4

    Ann thanks a lot for teaching us.....♥️am young, a student not yet married n you have helped me learn 🥰

  • @monicamwangi3122
    @monicamwangi3122 Před 2 lety +3

    Congratulations wambui...Annie your story has encouraged many........good job

  • @nellymunene5799
    @nellymunene5799 Před 2 lety +4

    Can't wait to hear this...

  • @shezeel
    @shezeel Před 2 lety +2

    Congratulations wambui 🎉🎉🎉🥳thanks Ann for the encouragement

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 Před 2 lety +3

    You're human. You don’t have to be strong all the time. You’re allowed to be overwhelmed, sad, cry, fall down and get back up again. The most important thing is not to lose your link with your Maker. He has a reason for everything. You’ll emerge much stronger.

  • @Lufion-
    @Lufion- Před 2 lety +1

    Really waiting to hear

  • @rosendunge4217
    @rosendunge4217 Před 2 lety +3

    Wao wambui umebarikiwa..Anne ur so strong woman 👩

  • @marygitundu7746
    @marygitundu7746 Před 2 lety +2

    Maisha ni GOD ajarishi uliolewa na miaka ngapi mimi niliolewa na miaka 16 nasasa niko sawa nyumba yangu nimesimama nakutoka niolewe niko na miaka 26 niko na watoto wawili sasa sisi tumeolewa tuache uongopesha wasichana.

  • @esthermburu6097
    @esthermburu6097 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks madam mras,,accepting the truth u a healed

  • @sarahkague4525
    @sarahkague4525 Před 2 lety +6

    Ann has hit it spot on, unhealed emotional wounds are very bad and they control all aspects of our lives. I wish we could all write our own personal journeys as we could relate with this well.
    I live under the motto that if anything I possess will make me break if I lose it, then I don't need it. Life is too short.

  • @ethanngugi1743
    @ethanngugi1743 Před 2 lety +2

    Its good to be straight forward

  • @Miss-kariuki__251
    @Miss-kariuki__251 Před 2 lety +3

    At my age I have never thought of marriage Annie Thank you sharing this at 20s it's time to learn and build yourself

  • @paulinekomu9010
    @paulinekomu9010 Před 2 lety +2

    He story is nice but left me hanging, we need a full story

  • @joetaxi440
    @joetaxi440 Před 2 lety +1

    Anne Mueiithi, I totally agree with you, if things done match, the best thing is to stop in order to see why things are not going thru. Joseph Wathuta Wa Nduriri Toulouse France from Ihururu Nyeri Kenya

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety

      Thank you Joe for watching..
      You can also follow my channel
      czcams.com/channels/5odJDh0Bc8n5H-7xsHNqFA.html

  • @ukweliKE
    @ukweliKE Před 2 lety +1

    Awesome talk . Most of the ladies go through similar stages in life. This story should be an eye opener to young ladies

  • @wanjikuwaweru8541
    @wanjikuwaweru8541 Před 2 lety +1

    It was refreshing to be counselled...
    😚

  • @zackzackie.
    @zackzackie. Před 2 lety +2

    The woman 👠👠👠 looks🤒 Fantastic namba yake ulisema uifiche kama bangi😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rachelmuiruri5689
    @rachelmuiruri5689 Před 2 lety +4

    You are gud at guiding n giving words of wisdom but hujapeana story yako....ama ni mm sijashika...?

  • @mamadenzel9137
    @mamadenzel9137 Před 2 lety +2

    Her laughter is contagious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @maureengithinji01
    @maureengithinji01 Před 2 lety

    Aki this is me. Am 20. Am married. I sometimes think to myself that I married young. I pray everything to unfold itself.

  • @Miss-kariuki__251
    @Miss-kariuki__251 Před 2 lety +1

    Wambo leta Ann tena she's full of wisdom such a good topic

  • @annejoy1429
    @annejoy1429 Před 2 lety +5

    I second u mama I came from a broken family ....that love every child need to me it's a history so got married at 19 even though it never worked I blame myself for getting married by then.

  • @melissaeston2869
    @melissaeston2869 Před 2 lety +1

    Wambui pia wewe naona ukichukua tips,, which is good. Mee too God bless that girl.

  • @georgekinyajui1689
    @georgekinyajui1689 Před 2 lety +7

    First one wapi likes waiting from kitengela

  • @joycemokoi4275
    @joycemokoi4275 Před 2 lety +2

    Heri yeye alkua 21 Mimi at18 two kids but now am happy kuona niko na watoi wakubwa Nikiwa myoung

  • @muigaiwinnie7313
    @muigaiwinnie7313 Před 2 lety +1

    I love this lady

  • @serahwothaya5476
    @serahwothaya5476 Před 2 lety +1

    Team 'Ras iria honoku' hatubanduki. Tumewakilisha🤣🤣

  • @teresiawambui3372
    @teresiawambui3372 Před 2 lety +16

    For once we have a host admitting her failures,congrats,for being accountable.

    • @jamesmichuki5804
      @jamesmichuki5804 Před 2 lety +1

      I agree n salute this lady. Her honesty and owning up to her weakness are outstanding. She is surely a rare breed of women and easily earns a pat on her back.

  • @trizahshiru2028
    @trizahshiru2028 Před 2 lety +7

    Very educative, marriage is a two way traffic, we should not judge one side only..

  • @janemukami7348
    @janemukami7348 Před 2 lety +1

    Number 5 locked here🤞🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @samuelmuchoki7238
    @samuelmuchoki7238 Před 8 měsíci

    In Everything our God first He is the giver &maintainer of marriages bcoz there even older couples but they are still passing alot of problems in marriages.

  • @maryokendi814
    @maryokendi814 Před 2 lety

    Wambui usifinye toto...Kaa tu comfortable for the sake of that angel....

  • @shirowkihara6577
    @shirowkihara6577 Před 2 lety +1

    Leo nita watch but won't comment 🙌

  • @soniroberts6865
    @soniroberts6865 Před 2 lety +1

    Number 4 ... waiting

  • @alicewambui1190
    @alicewambui1190 Před 2 lety +1

    Wooiih,,,I think myn was lyk a movie at. 17first brn,19sec brn as en 21 third born,,,,,, Mwathani I suffered I remember my neiboor telling me aki unakuwanga na watoto wengi,,,,,,,mhusband tukaanza kusubuana na yye ananishow Sasa wewe na hii nursery yko Nani anaweza kubali uende kwake😭😭😭,,,kibarua ya shamba asubuhi jioni ya kufua,,,,,Nie kwa Ngai ndikauma now my womb opener is 14yrs,sec 11yrs and third.9yrs,,,,,,,,at 31 all my praise unto you my Jehovah

  • @vivsstudio8105
    @vivsstudio8105 Před 2 lety +1

    She is into more counseling than giving out her story...

  • @calvixhkamita6018
    @calvixhkamita6018 Před 2 lety +2

    Waaooh sec born on the way,,,, congratulations

  • @shugunderitu8999
    @shugunderitu8999 Před 2 lety +4

    Me too, kam we stay at 20 gave birth same year and left same year.😂😂😂

  • @theworld7439
    @theworld7439 Před 2 lety +1

    What a point, ladies will always blame men for their failed marriages and viseversa.

  • @rosemwai8791
    @rosemwai8791 Před 2 lety +2

    Hi Wakio.
    You can talk to me .
    I'm here.
    Take heart

  • @Dee_the_blessed1
    @Dee_the_blessed1 Před 2 lety +8

    20 ain't young for girls depending on the mental maturity and the partner you get,

  • @simonmurage7177
    @simonmurage7177 Před 2 lety

    But you don't pick calls wambui..I called several times but went answered

  • @marywanjiku3026
    @marywanjiku3026 Před rokem

    Think uhana ihu

  • @margaretgithu9452
    @margaretgithu9452 Před 2 lety +1

    na wenye badala ya periods tulipata ball at 17 tuseme tulikua minor 😅😅
    nakuzalia home with that age n no one to guide 😢
    kuna tent yetu?
    but sinilyf my son is 18yrs today n iam 35
    apa 🇦🇪 kazi tu as I get free classes of lifestyle through this channel good job wambu

  • @coachannmuriithi1588
    @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety +19

    Thanks wambui for having me ...am humbled 💓

    • @sofiasofia2238
      @sofiasofia2238 Před 2 lety +1

      You are beautiful,eloquent

    • @bredawakio5381
      @bredawakio5381 Před 2 lety +1

      Wow that hitted differently 😭

    • @annnjoki2421
      @annnjoki2421 Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you namesake,, you said it the way it is without sugar coating

    • @libertywild7507
      @libertywild7507 Před 2 lety +2

      You didn't represent us well as Kirinyaga people. Abai lugha itù nìtùmìùwì wee. I mean aria gìkìrìnyaga

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety +1

      Haha liberty wild...yes am from Kirinyaga my dear ..next time nitajaribu sana abai😊💕thank you

  • @ruthwanjiru4495
    @ruthwanjiru4495 Před 2 lety +1

    Wambo tuko locked...

  • @wanyagahostrich2443
    @wanyagahostrich2443 Před 2 lety +2

    Mimi I always wish when I was 22yrs ningeolewa n give birth even before 30yrs nimalize hii chapter ya giving birth 🤰.

    • @mweusimrembo890
      @mweusimrembo890 Před 2 lety +1

      Am thankful i did what you wish, was very difficult but God came through for me. In my 30’s niko sete

  • @simonmurage7177
    @simonmurage7177 Před 2 lety

    Wambui nîwecuka,
    Ona ndikûonete tiga ndaigua nîria hu ra nguo

  • @ja9293
    @ja9293 Před 2 lety +9

    True, unhealed childhood trauma, emotional or otherwise shows up in adult relationships ...I am also against boarding schools for young kids. Let's hold our kids close every day. Avoid boarding schools that tend to cause 'detachment' from parental / guardian love. The seemingly "classy" perception of boarding schools is just an illusion. No teacher can replace the love of a caring mom, or dad, or guardian, or grandparent ( of course this applies if the parents or caregivers are loving and not toxic).

  • @jsamukuyubae4103
    @jsamukuyubae4103 Před 2 lety +4

    Is she talking about me ???this my story very similar

  • @bensonndichu4246
    @bensonndichu4246 Před 2 lety +2

    Wambui ati mukurino and rastah falian

  • @teresiawambui3372
    @teresiawambui3372 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you Anne,you can save a marriage even if yours is broken.

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety +1

      Teresia yes dear ..our experiences should be used to help out others and help them with love

    • @caroslifestyle619
      @caroslifestyle619 Před 2 lety +1

      Very true I am going to call her tomorrow

  • @beatriceweru7894
    @beatriceweru7894 Před 2 lety +2

    My boss back then in chandaria lady with a golden heart

  • @teresiawambui3372
    @teresiawambui3372 Před 2 lety +1

    On a light note, when yo you digest you off load not download

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety

      Haha some times words dissapear when their needed most ... thanks for noting💓

  • @jsamukuyubae4103
    @jsamukuyubae4103 Před 2 lety +2

    I got married at 17 give I first born at 18 ,3 kids a 25😌i also blame myself a gup of 10yrs with my partner also how I was raised intervined

  • @maggienjenga3949
    @maggienjenga3949 Před 2 lety +1

    You were better in age than me hahaha

  • @coachannmuriithi1588
    @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety

    Am in

  • @marykuria8472
    @marykuria8472 Před 2 lety +1

    Tuned as usual

  • @chegecatherine8349
    @chegecatherine8349 Před 2 lety +2

    Ndi kuo ona nii

  • @juliaduncan5009
    @juliaduncan5009 Před 2 lety +2

    You have not given us your story,much of it is coaching

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety

      Sorry julia but that was the objective if you would listen to wambuis introduction.. blessings

  • @africanoafrica2479
    @africanoafrica2479 Před 2 lety +4

    Wambui mwangi why you not talking about the pastor you hosted the other day and she passed away alteast show some concerns to your viewers.
    Wambui nyumba ya shosho wa 90s nayo aje

    • @wambuiwamwangi
      @wambuiwamwangi  Před 2 lety +1

      we posted on Tuesday
      concerning shush house we did a follow na shush akaingia nyumba mpya on December. Though she has been sick on and off

    • @joykimathi3011
      @joykimathi3011 Před 2 lety +1

      What the guy who married 7 ladies ?

    • @wangaremakimii2578
      @wangaremakimii2578 Před 2 lety +1

      Pastor yupi Tena..

    • @africanoafrica2479
      @africanoafrica2479 Před 2 lety

      @@joykimathi3011 wa 7yrs he was talking like whispering

    • @annwamithi8355
      @annwamithi8355 Před 2 lety

      @@joykimathi3011 does she mean that pastor,Wambui tuambie kama ni huyo please.

  • @mamatwins5379
    @mamatwins5379 Před 2 lety

    Twedi ndwari kanini... mahikaga mari teens🙌

  • @jaynesam6958
    @jaynesam6958 Před 2 lety +1

    Wambui wacha kuvinya mtoto.. kaa free

  • @monicakahenya6441
    @monicakahenya6441 Před 2 lety +3

    Mimi niliolewa na 17 and still niko

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 Před 2 lety +1

    You can’t choose your family. The Almighty has done that for you. So learn to give and take as much as possible. Remind and guide when you can. Remain respectful and keep the peace. It’s not easy. But know that breaking the ties of kinship is a huge sin.

  • @joe6680
    @joe6680 Před 2 lety +1

    Sex should strictly come after marriage. Pass this information to your doughters.

  • @rahabnganga2793
    @rahabnganga2793 Před 2 lety +1

    Our guest could be a good counselor she's so deep.

  • @davidkinyaki
    @davidkinyaki Před 2 lety +1

    Ucio Ni mutumia Ngatha

  • @petergicharu7738
    @petergicharu7738 Před 2 lety

    T

  • @bingimwenyewe5416
    @bingimwenyewe5416 Před 2 lety +1

    Unfortunately I never learnt anything today. She never told us her story. Why she left her marriage despite the fact that she's soo beautiful

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety

      Bingu mwenyewe...the objective was speaking about challenges in marrying young.sorry that you learnt nothing.soon ill share in details.

    • @bingimwenyewe5416
      @bingimwenyewe5416 Před 2 lety +3

      @@coachannmuriithi1588 thanks Anne for the feed back. Personally I would like to know the challenges women face because am looking for someone to settle down with and I don't want to mess anyones daughter. I listen keenly to learn what women want so that I won't make a mistake in future others made

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety

      Bingi,i am happy that your keen to understand the woman .. however of importance is to know first that theres always going to be issues of different nature in marriage..and understanding yourself first is what is most important...when we understand ourselves and the inner US then we are able yo be patient as we learn others ..and we can tell if we are able to put up with their nature as well.
      You can reach me if in need of coaching on more of this through the number aired.

    • @bingimwenyewe5416
      @bingimwenyewe5416 Před 2 lety

      @@coachannmuriithi1588 thanks. I will halla. I don't wether you are comfortable because our timings are different. I might call you but it could be late night in kenya.

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety

      Bingi,My working hours is 8am to 5pm Kenyan time.

  • @susanwaggi8903
    @susanwaggi8903 Před 2 lety +1

    Ff

  • @ezranjehia8384
    @ezranjehia8384 Před 2 lety +1

    Sasha hii ni story gani! Nonsense!

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 Před 2 lety +1

      Sorry it didnt impact you .. the intention was good thank you.

    • @joekaruga7746
      @joekaruga7746 Před 2 lety +2

      Ezra what is nonsense to you is so much sensible to someone.Share ur sense.Learn to respect others.

  • @maxwellgichovi4066
    @maxwellgichovi4066 Před 2 lety +2

    I think you are counselling rather than giving your story. Am bored

  • @020shiko
    @020shiko Před 2 lety +2

    Sasa wambui this is my true I need her number