LAUREN JAUREGUI ON BEING QUEER, INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA, & CREATIVITY | SHE/HER/THEY with KITTENS
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- čas přidán 13. 06. 2024
- LAUREN JAUREGUI sits down with KITTENS to talk about her journey in understanding her sexuality, internalized homophobia that she's experienced personally as well as in others, and being compassionate with yourself.
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-She/HER/THEY @sheherthey
-KITTENS @iamkittens
-Lauren Jauregui @laurenjauregui
Since language around gender/sexuality/identity is limited, nuanced, and ever evolving, some of the terms used here may become outdated. Please know our intention in this space is to be inclusive and validating of all marginalized identities. KITTENS is committed to learning the most appropriate terminology along with her guests, but just incase anyone gets it wrong...we apologize in advance and promise to do our best to stay on top if it. xo
CHAPTERS
00:00 - Intro
1:14 - Lauren’s Identity, Pronouns & Sexuality
2:00 - Coming Out Story
3:44 - Creative Process after coming out
5:00 - Queer representation in music
5:44 - Internalized Homophobia
7:06 - LGBTQ+ TikTok
8:01 - Falling for Friends
11:34 - Childhood Crushes & Sexual Awakenings
13:17 - Lack of Queer Media Representation
13:50 - Stigma in Society
19:32 - Lauren’s Dream Creation Zone
21:52 - Dealing with self-doubt as an artist
HOST
Lauren "KITTENS" Abedini
GUEST
LAUREN JAUREGUI
when Lauren talks about women, I feel like I'm in paradise
omg
I know right
Right??? Hearing Lauren talk about how hot women are and having sexual relations with them is basically my foreplay.
Same, it makes me feel so proud to be queer ❤️🌈
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
The fact that you wanted to learn how to properly pronounce her name is so cute.
And then theres all the other interwievers that just don't give a fuck and give up right away oop
@Katara Wilcox that’s absolutely disgusting and most “ethnic” names have meaning whether he chooses to acknowledge that or accept it. There’s nothing wrong with your name love. In fact your name is very pretty. You should put it on a shirt and wear it proudly.
interviewer: how to properly say your last name?
Lauren: "Jauregui"
interviewer: ok, no but tell me how exactly
Lauren: it's just Jauregui
interviewer: NO BUT TELL ME
i had an impression that Lauren was a bit annoyed with that.
@Katara Wilcox Yet he probably named his daughter a basic ass name like Hannah 🙄
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
Lauren talking about how she was outed makes me so sad but im glad she owned it in the letter for Billboard
“Normani” 😭😭😭😭😭😭👀
“A star honey”
i’m the same 😭😭🥺
I came looking for this comment 😭 not even a minute in and I’m already feeling things
My ot5 heart is ugly crying
I replayed that just to see if I heard it right the first time😳
“You might be a little gay” By Lauren Jauregui Ft. Kittens coming out soon 😁
Produced by Ally Hills
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
Lauren smoking not even 1 minute into. Love this vibe. ❤️
And when she said Normani ❤️
Yes I love her and Normani's friendship!
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
@@starhunter9085 take this thought process and the desire to post this under everyone’s comment to your therapist and leave us alone 😭
@@KandyRenee thank youu😂😂
@@KandyRenee I literally see this person EVERYWHERE. If there's a video that has anything to do remotely with the LGBTQIA+ community, they are there copy and pasting under every comment, they are obsessed. I saw them in the comments of The Queer Kiwi's channel first and then in others
Lauren was the first woman that i was like “do i wanna be her or do i wanna date her?” and my answer today is: i want both, but especially date her 😂😂😂
@ Marcela Araujo Lauren was my sexual awakening Lauren in the work from home music video fifth harmony
I'd be too awkward and insecure tbh, I feel like she'd deserve someone better than me, so I'm good with dreaming 😃
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
Same!
ME LMAO
Exactly how I felt about her when I was 15
This conversation was so beautiful also Lauren Jauregui was my sexual awakening
Same
mine too biuadguicqeb
@harpreet kaur Lauren jauregui was my sexual awakening too in the work from home music video 5h 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 so some
I actually came out because of her lol
Mine too 😂😂😂
0:52 "like Rihanna, Beyoncé, NORMANI"
0:59 "a star honey"
I jUsT--💞💓💕💗💕💓💞💗💕💞💗
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom: ped...O...philia is also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*It's been around since the dawn of time: Rape has been around since the dawn of time.*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
Take a shot everytime Lauren said “You know what i mean”
i know a person who also say this all the time....
@@akkk2947 we know , we know , we know
Lauren started this 😂😂 nd then she also start saying 😂😂
@@carlosjaubello3336 camila and lauren both say „you know what i mean“,“you know“ or they use the world „like“ all the time
I just realised that….
@@akkk2947 this is literally what I was thinking
CAMILA!
"like Beyonce Rihanna, normani" that was a cute moment
When she was explaining her ideal creation zone she was ZOOTED 😭😭
😭
Facts🤣🤣
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
@@starhunter9085 girl what. Heterosexuality is also found in nature and so is asexuality. This comparison is stupid because with necro-Philia there is obviously only one consenting partner same thing with pedo-philia and rape. Notice how all of your examples and comparisons only mention examples with ONE CONSENTING PARTY. The difference is consent. Obviously a child can’t consent because they don’t have a full grasp or even the maturity to understand or partake in it.
Necrophilia and rape are literally along the same lines. Just because it’s found in nature doesn’t necessarily mean it’s ok because obviously there are a lot of different circumstances that you’re ignoring.
@@starhunter9085 no I disagree it cannot be used for every other sexual scenario too. I think you’re ignoring the given circumstances babes
she was outed to the world when she was not ready, the crazy shippers sexualized her friendships for their sick pleasure and harassed their partners because they weren't the person they ship with ren, lauren truly deserves the best, she's a sunshine and the best girl:( I feel so sorry for her and what she went through
Don't be shy say camren
@@czenfieds9051 nah bro we not saying that damn ship name she was uncomfortable for so long and y’all didn’t give a shit and ruined a friendship because of your delusional actions
Lauren jauregui says that camren Shippers made her very uncomfortable and Traumatized her by the fanart and fan fiction
I love that she looks at Lauren in awe and listens to her carefully damn
I would be too tbh
When Lauren is excited and won't let Kitten talk 😂😂
LAUREN JAUREGUI IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING PERSON ON THIS WORD👑💕
FUCKK *WORLD 😁
I'm in love with Lauren jauregui 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘
Seriously tho Lauren feeling like a creep stems from Shippers and we should acknowledge that
yeah, they still think it’s real aswell :/
Not to justify shippers, as they did cross many lines BUT in order for something to get to you it usually means you have an insecurity around a subject , probably the Catholic raising and all girl school didn't help either , as she says herself she experienced internalised homophobia before becoming a well known artist
I completely agree
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
Definitely. When I was in middle school and young and dumb I shipped Camren, but now I'm in high school and realize how that must have made her feel. As a lesbian, I completely sympathize with her about feeling like a predator because of it. Homophobes like to promote the harmful stereotype that lesbians (and most gay people in general) are predators, so I completely understand her fear of looking and feeling that way.
I'm gay, but whenever I listen or see Lauren I'm automatically gayer.
Me tooo!!!😭❤️
I felt like this is not an interview. This is a conversation on another level with two humans who are on other level
Not her mentioning Normani 😭💜
"A star honey "
@Lara Machado Costa 0:54
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
@@starhunter9085 bro what 🤔
just 32 seconds in and I already LOVE that she asked Lauren the right pronunciation of her last name queenss
Loved this interview but I'm low-key disappointed in how short and edited it was. I know for fact what a great conversationalist Lauren Jauregui is and I'd like to hear more. Maybe you could do a part 2? Just a thought.
Yes let’s keep requesting it 🙃
Lauren hadn’t felt the same way with anyone since Lucy 😕 this album is going to be heartbreaking
Im so ready tho 😭 can't wait
I can’t wait but like wowww
Lucy said its just a pr though
@@aprilros she never said that, she liked a tweet and also liked another one saying it was real, she just liked the whole conversation
she is obvious talking about camila
lauren smoking and saying am i gay IS WAS THE MOMENT THAT I DIED
@Xzd shes pansexual,or queer. I’m sorry,I really don’t know,but she likes,who she likes,or loves,who she loves. she finds whoever,she founds attractive. she doesn’t just fully like females.
finds.^*
@@ohgreatheavans She's no longer pansexual, sometimes she only uses the term queer but according to the last thing she said about her sexuality is that she’s bisexual
SAME
Lauren burlándose de la masculinidad frágil es lo mejor que he visto
Si, claro😩cuando en realidad le encanta😬
MY QUEEN LAUREN JAUREGUI HAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL SOUL AND THE SWEETEST HEART THAT EXISTS!
She really does 🥺🥺🥺❤️
TRUEEEEEEEEEEEE🤍👑
Yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye vyo yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo lauren jauregui yoyo ye yoyo ye
Not really, Camila is betrer. Lauren is hypocrite
SHE SAID 'NORMANI', my 5H feels!
AND SHE SAID SHE'S PANSEXUAL like myself yaaay
Let’s get Kehlani on here next!!!
I could literally endlessly listen to Lauren speaking. She is so inspiring. I feel like throughout the past 7/8 years that i have been following her she made me into who i am. Like the way I'm thinking, the way I'm approaching some situations... And I'm so thankful for that. Thank you Lauren for saving me. You have no idea how important you are to me 💫❤️🙏
What an intelligent and eloquent woman, the genius with which she expresses herself, shows all the emotional and spiritual work she has done on her person. my total admiration an exceptional artist and human being.
She is a genius
the way she just SPILLED a lot of things in this interview is why its my favorite one so far. Great fking job on the project!
Hearing lauren speak is never enough, I put her speeches on loop , thank you for having her at your show.
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom: ped...O...philia is also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*It's been around since the dawn of time: Rape has been around since the dawn of time.*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
0:30 the way she says “yeah😄”
Just thought I’d leave this here: A mononymous person is an individual who is known and addressed by a single name, or mononym; (of a person) known by just one name, rather than a first name and surname.
hearing lauren just speak about something puts me in awe she’s a precious underrated baby pls
Bestie what should we do to get the unedited version ? I'm ready to do ANYTHING
SAME
SAME
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
lauren jauregui has one of the most beautiful souls. i love her voice so much, singing AND talking!
5H may be over but Lauren will always be my gay awakening. I'll always support her no matter what. Lauren taught more about the world than my teachers at school lol. Love this f*cking woman so much.
When someone tries to hate on the lgbt community, my response will be “do you clean yourself cause exfoliation is now gay haha”...we can all make our own inside joke mahhhh 🤣
I'm queer but I didn't understand this joke :(
@@honeythacker5848 they were mocking men that say everything is gay
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
omg am i gonna cry by the end of this
Lauren is like a teddy bear just makes me feel cozy, comfy and safe all the same time with just existing 😭I love her. God... how is she real ❤️😩✨
Lauren is on cloud 9 and talking about women at the same time. what more could you ask for 😩😩😩❤️❤️❤️❤️
Lauren fumandose uno en plena conversación es mi nueva religión
X2 están sexy cuando fuma
@@sofiareyes7670 si 😄
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom ped...O...philia and raype are also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
@@starhunter9085 Under that point of view
heterosexuality can also be wrong. And we aren't justifying anything, we are just living our lives, the only ones who are justifying that it is wrong or why we don't deserve to love our couple bc of the same gender are the homophobics. Sorry about my english it's not my native tongue. Have a nice day
Lauren casually dropping Normani's name out there :00000
luv don't be shy, post the uncut version too
Right!!!
She is my celebrity crush ✨✨✨
Same
I can’t wait for Lauren’s EP
I can dead ass listen to Lauren all day bro.
" I fuck who I want and I love who I want" period queennnnn
Ver la entrevista sin saber Inglés para apreciar a Lauren significa esperar que las updates lo traduzcan para entender que dice
Same
Así mero jaja
Yo logré traducirlo jsajsja te vas pa subtítulos, generado automáticamente y eliges español ni modo que Ruso
@@sumama1101 a mi me sale [cry]
Same
Idk but there's always a butterflies everytime lauren is talking about ✨woman✨
PARA QUIEN NO SEPA INGLÉS, si estás viendo la entrevista desde un ordenador pon la opción de subtítulos y en el icon de al lado te dará la opción de traducir del inglés al español
Lauren's ideal creation zone feels like the Olympus, and that feels so wholesome
Can we appreciate how these two beautiful women are beautiful and so nice
The conversation about Internalized Homophobia really touched my heart! It made me feel validated and a little better going through this thought unlearning process. Especially knowing others battle through it too.
Love Lauren❤ and Thankyou Kittens for having her on here!!
i love Lauren jauregui the way she is
she is happy with herself that's all matter end of day right
I would sooo NOT mind a second part with all the scenes you cut out! Like one could just feel that you guys vibed and were comfortable talking and rambling. I absolutely loved this interview! Thanks for sharing ❤️
I just got this on my CZcams page after seeing all her fans on wattpad. And let me tell you, it’s ALOT of her fans on wattpad
Lauren has the most beautiful soul
Lauren represent me in all the ways possible
"I fuck with i want and i love who i want" lmao i love her
Lauren Jauregui supremacy
Shes my baby, so proud of this lil big girl♥️
Imagine Ty listened to this interview especially 10:48 😂😂😂
Mk me sentí tan identificada cuando explicó que eran 70 gays en su colegio JSAJSJAJ el coqueteo es único en las escuelas católicas
I loved the way that at the beginning both interviewer wanted to get the terminology correct but started with basic surname. And the way that Lauren just didn't much care about what pronouns etc and whatever. I found this interview fun and informative.
Thanks for the kinda shout out to us who's are straight but didn't care who fuck who😆 bruh i love this women, she is funny af..... "Self care is gay as hell , gay af".. u r incredible queen
please never stop smiling lauren we love you very much and you deserve to be happy
I love to see how comfortable Lauren is getting with herself. So proud of you mama!! Absolutely loved this conversation.. But maybe that's a little gay.. Oh wait, I am gay 😂
I love Lauren Jauregui so much
One request : can u post unedited version too please 🙏🏾
"I fuck who I want, I love who I love"!!!!!! Lauren My loveee, you are iconicccc
oooooh that ending !! it really was beautiful
she deserves the world
when you go by one name it's called being mononymous or having a mononym! love you guys ❤️
omfg this is my favourite one so far. am I shocked? no.
the vibe of lauren smoking in this video its everything for me
i’m just proud of herrrr
*them
@@sararockybrown3242 ? Her. I'm sure marah is talking about Lauren Jauregui.
@@carpediemearth yeah but Lauren said they also identity with they and them pronouns which would make them non binary
@@sararockybrown3242 She didn't say that, she said she's accepting of all/any pronouns. Just like when she talked about pansexuality about loving souls/any gender, and then clarified she's just queer/fluid/bi. Lauren has never said she's non-binary or anything but she/her, or that she identifies with anything but she/her. Don't spread misinformation. People who identify as non-binary specifically come out saying they are non-binary and the pronouns they strictly use.
Sara Yousef bruh she still goes by she/her, she just said that she’s fine with “they/them”. There was no need for the correction, ppl are allowed to say her 💀
Lauren is the most
Lauren is so spiritual and this podcast just had so much going on but so little at the same time, explaining everything in the best way. So ready for Lauren’s album :)
kittens!! this series is amazing!! and this has 100% been the best episode so far because your namesake is fucking amazing!!!
This fuking kittens for you
Yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo ye yoyo sex sex exxxxxx yyygggggggggggg
You lauren jauregui sexy lovit kitten,s sexy ooooooo
Guutyaaaafaka oooooooooo booommm
Fuuuuuuking oooyeeeeeee fuking ooooooyeeeeeeeeee
I just love lauren I love everything about her and how she expresses her love for women 😩
this is my new comfort video now i love this whole conversation so much
Great interview!!! I realy loved that! I am a fifity-year-old woman, gay. I came out in the beggining of 90's and I suffered a lot of prejudice, it wasn't easy for me!. I am brazilian, latin and it's very important for us to have this kind of supporting like you has been giving.
Pleaase release a part 2. This is not enough of Lauren!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
omg i search up lauren jauregui and i see this recent interview. iconic
Same
Lauren 😎 Vibes hits differently 💚💯
Lauren Jauregui 🙌🌈
creo que estoy en el paraíso, escuchar a Lauren hablar es algo tan hermoso...
I didn’t know I needed to hear everything that was said in this interview.
i can literally listen to her talk for hours. her voice and what she has to say is just so relaxing and stress relieving
We need a part 2 ASAP 🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️
I love Lauren Jauregui so much.
*My main problem with the rainbow argument is that every single reason they give to try and justify it can be used for every other sexual scenario too.*
*Two consenting adults: Adultery is between two consenting adults.*
*It's found in the animal kingdom: ped...O...philia is also found in the animal kingdom.*
*It's not a choice: Neck...row...philia is a men-tall diz-order therefore not a choice*
*It can be safe if you use protection: Incest can be "safe" if you use protection*
*It's been around since the dawn of time: Rape has been around since the dawn of time.*
*Love is love no matter who it's for: So if you want to love someone's lover, it's all fine?*
I love Lauren so much. Been a fan of hers since she was on X factor in 2012. It’s been an amazing journey to see her self acceptance and not caring so much about what others think of her. When she came out in 2016, she inspired me to come out to everyone. I was only out to certain people and hiding a lot that I was gay. So I have Lauren to thank for helping me be myself and not care what others think. Related a lot about being raised religious and dealing with internal homophobia.
this right here was an eye opener. thank you for spending your time talking, and really connecting with the listeners. spending love and peace ❤️
Loving all the episodes so far kittens!!!!
I love her, thank u so much for having her ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
So happy to hear and see you 🥺❤
thank you so much for this amazing podcast laurens!
I could listen both of you for hours!! ✨✨