8 Mistakes That Make You Look Insecure | How to Dress with Confidence
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Timestamps:
0:00 - 8 Mistakes That Make You Look Insecure
0:45 - Mistake #1
2:13 - Mistake #2
4:02 - Mistake #3
5:40 - Mistake #4
6:35 - Mistake #5
9:27 - mistake #6
10:41 - Mistake #7
11:12 - Mistake #8
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This whole channel is so helpful for someone who didn’t get this info from their father on how to dress and socialize. The military did me well but this helps ice the cake
Understated confidence is the best kind of confidence. You don't have to go around shouting about how big and bad you are. If you truly know what you can do it'll just come out. Love the fact you're encouraging this kind of character.
There's a quote from when I was a teen that helped me avoid the 'what if' pitfall in mistake #2: "Abandon your fear. Look forward. Move forward and never stop. You'll age if you pull back. You'll die if you hesitate."
Today my grandfather died. He was the one who tought me, how to dress, how to tie a tie. What I need to know on fit so I don't look like a fool. And everything matches with your tips Antonio. Thank you for that. Isn't it funny, that one of my first thought was, that you have so much in common with him.
Greeting from germany
One thing that shows you are secure and confident in yourself is being able to ask for and take advice. You don't know everything. I used to be embarrassed to show a lack of knowledge in a subject. These days I'm happy to ask.someone who knows the subject their advice or opinion. Most people like to share their knowledge and guide you. It works well in shops especially with electrical goods...I go in and say "I know nothing but want to do.. .what should I buy" 99% of the time you get great help
Yes. I’m always asking questions. Especially when I’m out of my element and most of the time I find people engaging and giving me useful information.
Regarding the eye contact. I actually look at the point between their eyes. That's just what works for me.
I'm a lost cause for the negative self talk though. I'm downright cruel to myself on that front.
Thanks for the advice sir.
Context is important to understand criticism. Politely replying with "compared to what?" can help normalize an interaction by encouraging the critic to provide a frame for their assessment. If they don't respond, you can provide your own positive frame and immediately find agreement. Think about how many arguments we have about minute details when we often agree on everything else.
RMRS, Alpha M, and Courtney Ryan are solid people giving solid real practical life advices.
Thank you! Love that you watch them too :)
Nah Alpha M. is the Cosmo Girl of advice channels.
Anyone with "Alpha" in their name is doing the equivalent of the testicles hanging off your truck
If Alpha stopped yelling, he'd be more tolerable. He gives some good advice, but it's hard to listen to him for more than a few minutes.
@@burntvirtue So true
The 8. is really important for man to feel good and escaping regret/daydreaming cycle.
I had a crush on shop keeper girl in my 15s, never had the courage to talk more than "hi, bye" and to this day it eats me up inside way more than many rejections from girls.
Then half assed my military service, even tho I was physically / shooting vise better than most my group.
I could have done more and I did not is much more painful in a long run than actuaaly trying, failing and moving on.
Style score was 509, not sure what it was out of but it didn't seem that high. However I am currently a few months to a year away from some life altering events that could change this for me so I'll definitely take it again in a while. Thanks for your videos, my style score would have been a lot lower before I started watching you and Aaron Marino five years ago.
You poked fun at Canadians, and then immediately gave them a compliment. I thought that was really interesting. You give style advice so that men can control the image they present. I'd be interested in your take on interpersonal skills, maybe dealing with difficult staff somewhere, or anything along those lines.
Been through a tough time recently and this will help me build back confidence. Much appreciated advice.
4:25 that is a tailor fit for sure. Looks good
Perfect way to start my day! Thanks for this valuable content!
You're welcome, Eduardo!
Antonio sir . I always watch your videos and because of you I learned how to match my outfits and look good all the time , that being said I got to a point in my life where I don't care people opinions even if you dress good someone is gonna have something negative to say
Thanks for the video! Great tips that I can use for myself!
As usual, a great video, Antonio! However, one point you mentioned has long baffled me. How is it that men can find business attire (suit and tie/coat and tie) "uncomfortable"...IF they are properly tailored? After all, the modern "business" suit has its origins as beach or resort wear and in days of yore was commonly called a "lounge suit." I wore coat and tie to the office for the last 10 years of my working career simply because I wanted and felt no less comfortable, I'm sure, than my co-workers in T-shirts and sweat shirts!
Love the video, and love the wolverine comics on the bookshelf in the background. Great content as usual.
Great vid as usual!
I got told off for over apologising once, but I don't think it was due to being insecure, it was because somewhere along the line I use 'Sorry' as a polite way to say 'what' if I didn't understand a verbal comment.
Great video again!
Good video, Antonio! Keep going.
Antonio, you basically described Stoicism when you talked about what can and what we can't control, keep up the good work my friend!
Ps: are you considering making a review on the Le Male Elixir?
Great.
Thanks for the love, Antonio! 😅🇨🇦
I've somehow come to the point where I now avoid conflict. I'm not good at conflict and I don't know how to go about it. I tend to fail at it and somehow accidently make others hate me. It's caused me to lose friends.
Thus I now avoid it all together if I can however I still won't back down if I am right and someone challenges me with their wrong idea.
I feel you, conflict sucks, and I tend to avoid it WAAAY too much.
At some point, I just realized, people are more interested in believing what they're ego-invested in than what the truth is.
"A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still" - Dale Carnegie
I've even noticed this in myself... it's not so much the truth that's hard to swallow, it's admitting you were stupid, or ignorant, or gullible enough to be wrong.
A lot of people just see some conflicts as a form of disrespect, preferring to have others hear and respect their opinions, rather than have a discussion and come to the truth.
"Lets agree to disagree" tends to be the end result with those kinds of people... annoying.
LMAO. I love that you called out us Canadians for apologizing all the time. It's engrained in us from childhood.
Excellent video Brother
As a former marine this guy is a pro at pink belt fashion
Confidence 51/150,
Mission 118/140,
Motivation 71/106,
Physical 61/75,
Style Knowledge 268/299.
Total 569/1000.
That's a decent score. What do you plan to get your confidence up?
@@RealMenRealStyle Thanks. I think confidence is gained from your level of ability. So I need to figure out what abilities I'm lacking and improve on those. It's funny that it says at the moment I'm invisible because that's exactly how I feel walking past people on the street.
Your content and presentation are top notch, Antonio.
I appreciate you - thank you!
❤Awesome video sir, as always!!
Thanks, Renato. I appreciate you!
One more thing to add, being on your phone all the time. Interact with the world around you at the moment, not something/someone else on a screen, especially when being hunched over/looking down.
Antonio... Excellent thoughts... It's just that one part in that 1:15 window where you say, ' I'm far from being perfect', the subtitle shows, I'm far from being imperfect'. It should read, I'm far from being perfect.If a physically impaired person ( deaf) is watching, the entire meaning to that person could go in the wrong direction.
Other than that, great video.
I always watch your dress code suggestions.
Keep up the good work brother. ✌
Off topic. But I love that shirt. Who and where? Thanks. Love the video too!
1:00 okay for starters if you put yourself out there on the web for 10 years, there is no such thing as unsolicited feedback. You don't get to go into the town square announce your stance or opinion on a subject and then think of people responding as unsolicited feedback.
I'm from the UK and the first time I ever saw the "balls hanging from the back of a truck" thing was in Florida. I couldn't believe it
In MI, we call "Texas brush guards" Deer Killers. That's the main reason they get installed on a vehicle here.
Nice Video
💛 all your videos mate👍
He's a boss 👊
Thank you!
@@RealMenRealStyle Your welcome mate👍
HEY RMRS! I love your content, but I got a question, I’m starting my professional wardrobe and I found a suit brand that fits great and I love wearing. Would it be wise to buy the same exact suit except different colors hoping for interchangeablity or are there rules to follow encouraging a variety of different fabrics? Thank you in advance
Sounds like a good idea
Marine to Marine, I appreciate this channel you’ve created brother. It’s helped a lot. I’ve got a POS sperm donor, and he hasn’t taught me a ounce of what you inform us on your channel. I truly appreciate it.
- Semper Fi
Semper Fi!
Brush grills, heavy tires, and even the snorkles (higher air intake prevents dust and dirt from getting in) have legitimate and practical uses. Truck nuts just make me laugh, especially when folks get all upset about them. Saw someone walking around with a set of "Croc Nuts" on the backs of his Crocs this weekend.
I always enjoy the use of the word perfect when describing a human being. Since perfect is not a definable word because the definition in itself is undefined. Since the definition focuses on the semantics of faults or desirable characteristics, being that one person could find you imperfect while another person could find you perfect in any given aspect.
Also the argument of the fact that if man is born with sin and built to be an imperfect creature the irony in that statement is that then we are by definition a perfect human.
Antonio is Genius.
That intro was hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
2 comments:
1. #9: Minimizing words. Throwing in those little words like "just" and "a little" or "maybe" in an effort to make the statement more amicable is an incredible way to minimize your impetus as a leader, and as a confident person in general.
"I just wonder if you could maybe get that to me by Thursday? I need it done a little sooner than Friday to make the deadline."
Says the same thing as:
"I need you to get that to me by Thursday, Friday isn't soon enough to make the deadline."
Nobody is gonna be happy with a closer deadline no matter how friendly you try to make it sound; but when you try to soften the edges with minimizing words, you end up reducing yourself in the process. You don't have to be an asshole, there's still an art to directive assertion, but these little words aren't it.
2. I have much respect for brother Antonio, have taken much of his advice in stride over the years. But fuck that looking into their eyebrows shit. When you have something to say, and some conviction behind it, you need to stare so deep into their eyes you can examine their pancreas while you're in there.
Making and holding eye contact not only shows confidence, but more importantly it *builds* confidence. The value of eye contact can not be understated, I promise you that.
Great comment right here, lol on the pancreas part 😂
Using Franku green screen is immediate thumbs up from me.
The person we are today is the sum of every choice and decision we have made, good and bad.
I’m a woman and enjoy your videos😊
It is refreshing to see a channel explaining how to be a strong, confident man - without falling into the trap of toxic masculinity. Clear concepts, presented well.
It's interesting that he put the necklace in the thumbnail b/c he would look so good wearing it. It doesn't seem chunky or too tawdry.
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The eye contact thing is rubbish, I always just end up getting into fights or making people feel uncomfortable when I make eye contact so I don't bother much these days better for them to think I am insecure then them shit themselves.
Style score 386
I would add: learn cultural diferences: some of the things that is considered ”strong” in the US is rude and bad manner in Scandinavia and Japan for example. :-)
#'LilPecKerrr🎉
If it doesn't feel right...rewash..dry lightly..stretch repeat. NO soap! If that doesn't work...ditch it!
Balls under the truck is just a joke to me. I never think: "That guy is compensating." I always think: "funny guy..."
I never forget this phrase: A lion will never have to tell you it's a lion.
I scored 298/299
Antonio luv Ur vids man
Wow, the Canadian myth that Canadians are always saying sorry... will it ever get old?
I haven't been a "work in progress" in decades.
I have blue balls hanging off my farm truck, I guess more to send a sign lol
i got defensive when he said i was an imperfect person
Criticism breeds self awareness
Personally I think the guy who has those hanging from his truck simply has a weird sense of humor.
I’m just here for the slightly homoerotic stock footage.
But my truck is used off-road regularly 😢😂
559
Could You do a video about books every man (gentleman) should read?
And as a Ukrainian, I was even a little surprised that your banner says Glory to Ukraine, I think Ukrainians respect you, at least I do.
What about the full-grown men driving about with the music blasting?
Nuts hanging from a car??? WTF? In the UK we thankfully do not have things like that.
I don't get overcompensation from the testicles. I get childish
Offense is a byproduct of insecurity. Stop being offended by anything at all. Have beliefs that can't be rattled by words.
It is 2023, people get offended for anything and everything.
Omfg the poor deer bro
This is all summed up into 3 words “nice guy syndrome “ read the book no more mr nice guy and all of this and more is in there.
The truck-testicles, I see them as a gag-gift for laughs. But they see it as a "macho" token in all seriousness.
I just wanted to say, if you think you can pull it off and you feel good about it, then do it! Hang those big balls behind your car.
Well, politically I am a reactionary.
Wait Americans hang balls from their truck…wdf
Given the way truck people typically vote, its weird they want to give their truck a gender
Having important exams ahead and oooh boy this man knows when to upload 😂🤍