How To Communicate Effectively With Your Partner - WTW

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  • čas přidán 2. 06. 2024
  • Welcome! In this episode, Dre and Bre take their relationship and give practical tips on how to communicate effectively.
    Dre IG: @itsdresmith - / itsdresmith
    Bre IG: @breannaaponte - / breannaaponte
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Komentáře • 61

  • @insanegamer112
    @insanegamer112 Před 10 měsíci +52

    We nearly gave up. We weren't letting each other know how we felt. We held on to our anger. Even small things became reasons to end our relationship. But eventually we found a way to communicate our feelings through a couple questions game - lovify. Things finally settled down, and we now know a lot about each other:)

  • @grada.22
    @grada.22 Před 11 měsíci +19

    I got teary eyed listening to Bri because I definitely understand getting through that first year and really registering that this person is not here to hurt me but love me and I’m in my own way. And then finding your way through together. It’s really a beautiful thing tho

  • @chaynicole
    @chaynicole Před 2 lety +25

    I relate so much to Bri! I think we were raised in similar households (just from her brief explanation in the video) and I'm struggling with communicating how I feel in my current relationship. It's hard re-learning how to express myself.

    • @relationshiprestored5016
      @relationshiprestored5016  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for sharing!!

    • @jazminerobinson602
      @jazminerobinson602 Před 10 měsíci

      Omg I said the same thing “her personality is Me!” I’m doing so bad at saying what I actually mean and. understanding my person

  • @SuzanneMichaud-ns2mj
    @SuzanneMichaud-ns2mj Před 5 měsíci +2

    Me and my husband Travis Michaud need prayers for our communication issues. I actually have a communication disorder disability. It's listening and applying what I hear to my life and expressing my thoughts and feelings appropriately. I have had this problem all of my life. His problems are with temper and anger issues. We love each other but each of us have a different disability and it makes communicating difficult.

  • @michellereddell631
    @michellereddell631 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I am Bri at the moment and i cried all thru this episode because it gave me hope of saving my 13 year relationship😢❤❤❤

  • @TyajaTamisha
    @TyajaTamisha Před 11 měsíci +7

    I Love that y’all was patient with each other and was willing to put in the work to make it work. At lot of people tend to end things prematurely.

  • @Quavia04
    @Quavia04 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Omg I felt what Bri said so much I had the same upbringing and it’s like when it comes to communicating we just shut down or be on defense. But it really takes time to grow and break from it! I loved this episode it’s actually opening my eyes to a lot🙌🏾

  • @ljharris2971
    @ljharris2971 Před měsícem +1

    Note: it’s important to note that once you stated your love language was touch, but you can’t just do that one thing… I like he continued all the others things we need in a mate!

  • @cierra.iamshe
    @cierra.iamshe Před měsícem +1

    I needed this 😢❤ yall are amazing ! First time watching definitely subbing

  • @elisagarcia3038
    @elisagarcia3038 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love the intro and the music that fades away after some time. Just gives me the good vibes to listen to y’all’s advice.❤

  • @KeithSunnyKing
    @KeithSunnyKing Před 11 měsíci +3

    Definitely appreciate the inner standing. Thnx for growth & wisdom.

  • @graphicsbylex6877
    @graphicsbylex6877 Před 2 lety +4

    Omg awe Bre & Dre thank y’all so much for the shout out! I appreciate y’all continuing to share your story. I felt so welcomed and loved at the event. Looking forward to further connecting through my ShamelessMe membership 💗

  • @BreannaQ
    @BreannaQ Před rokem +4

    Thank you for sharing! It was very nice hearing this from both male and female perspectives! I been struggling with communication effectively with my partner and will take this into consideration and begin to practice changing my choice of words and tone ! 🙌🏾

  • @jainejane107
    @jainejane107 Před 10 měsíci +4

    This is such a great episode! I think it’s also important to practice healthy communication in platonic relationships too. I’m not currently dating or entertaining anyone, but I’m really excited to practice these tips with my friends and family. x

  • @UPayISLAY
    @UPayISLAY Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you both for this episode! I can relate to both of you in my own relationship ours definitely mirrors yours on this topic .

  • @ljharris2971
    @ljharris2971 Před měsícem

    I love that principle your mom allowed! All parents should do that! I also feel every child or adult should participate in a debate class

  • @Maya.Aminah
    @Maya.Aminah Před 11 měsíci

    I relate to you so much Bre! Thank y'all for this!

  • @oscardaniel8087
    @oscardaniel8087 Před rokem

    I love that you are talking from your real life experiences. Very encouraging. God bless.

  • @babykapper
    @babykapper Před 6 měsíci +1

    I feel dre, I find it challenging to feel enthusiastic about celebrating occasions like Christmas and birthdays because I don't have many material desires or needs. My girlfriend, however, wants to give me a thoughtful gift, and I'm having trouble coming up with ideas. This situation can sometimes make her feel disheartened.

  • @maripa971
    @maripa971 Před rokem +1

    Talk to win de soul ! Gospel is everywhere when it is the mission. totally agree , resonate with my thoughts for years.

  • @isac.andrew6498
    @isac.andrew6498 Před 2 lety +8

    I fuck with dre. You can tell what type of man dre is just by listening to his girl.

  • @latanyaharris7160
    @latanyaharris7160 Před 2 měsíci

    This is really good stuff! Thank you!

  • @uwumuremyimagnifique9543
    @uwumuremyimagnifique9543 Před 10 měsíci

    Gosh!! I admire the two of you💖💖- Love all the way from Rwanda (Africa)

  • @shahnazwillis3931
    @shahnazwillis3931 Před rokem +1

    Congrats for your wedding and awaiting till the day.Very Educational to others lovers.
    Stay blessed my Children. All the way from Africa Tanzania, in zanzibar Island.

  • @Rees-Howells
    @Rees-Howells Před 2 lety +1

    I love this! Thank you

  • @kutlomasole712
    @kutlomasole712 Před 2 lety +1

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️.Liked before watching😂😂😂

  • @thetootsmcgee9266
    @thetootsmcgee9266 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing this.

  • @smOaky_robinson
    @smOaky_robinson Před 2 měsíci

    I can relate so much to bro! I never know when my wife’s upset and I do everything: cooking, cleaning, and helping with the kids. But I forget about the little things that matter, and I just coast through or put myself on auto pilot, and that’s fine for me, But not my wife and kids. Have to stop being so selfish and be more conscious and compassionate/considerate of my family

  • @Ohyoucierra
    @Ohyoucierra Před 11 měsíci +1

    Greatttttt episode!!!

  • @kutlomasole712
    @kutlomasole712 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for talking about this Dre and Bri♥️.
    Thank you Jesus

  • @indialong6540
    @indialong6540 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Love you 2!!!❤❤

  • @SlapSoCold
    @SlapSoCold Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank You for this video. My Wife is close to leaving Me because of this same issue i learned alot from this. I hope She doesnt leave Me i Love Her so much

  • @bigmd1343
    @bigmd1343 Před rokem +3

    So I’ve been with my wife for 15 years and my live language is physical touch I’ve asked over the years for her to show me love that way. Even just a hug / snuggle what ever because it means so much to me. And she always says that’s just not who she is, or she’s just not like that. And it drives me crazy. I try and do the things that make her happy and I know I’m not peep, but I do try. I feel like I’m doing it wrong.. please help.

    • @Harlemsweetie82
      @Harlemsweetie82 Před 13 dny

      I think that's a long time to go without getting your needs for touch met.
      Maybe you have to romance, pursue and date your wife more. For example, try giving/leaving her flowers or one of her favorite things for a week or help her with a chore repeatedly AND then see if she will become more affectionate toward you in gratitude. You can even playfully say that you're doing it all for the hugs/squeezes. Love begats love.
      If these gestures don't help, there may be something deeper going on that may require a bit of marriage counseling. If your wife doesn't want to go with you, you should go by yourself b/c the counselor can give you tools to improve your communication and help you to navigate how your wife responds to you.
      Be Blessed💜

  • @copasetiqcee7945
    @copasetiqcee7945 Před 5 měsíci +1

    How can you communicate with someone who refuses to acknowledge their actions?????

  • @jessicah3865
    @jessicah3865 Před 2 lety +2

    Great episode! I needed this today. Did you guys ever find the name of the book?

  • @kimdeane7820
    @kimdeane7820 Před 2 lety +1

    Ty Bri n Dre

  • @ljharris2971
    @ljharris2971 Před měsícem

    And it’s ok if one person doesn’t want to celebrate birthday or gifts.. so the question is can the person who don’t care, can they be that for their partner because it’s meaningful to them and not a check the box

  • @williamsokpukpara6535
    @williamsokpukpara6535 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you❤

  • @mixedrapunzels9969
    @mixedrapunzels9969 Před 2 lety +5

    This is substance.! This is not shock jock broadcasting. The content you create is sustainable and created for longevity. If k.s. had focused more on sustainable material instead numbers and shock value perhaps he would still be with us. Shock is hard on the system; this content creates growth and can be referenced for years.

  • @Gracewalk49
    @Gracewalk49 Před rokem

    Hey there what is the book please ?

  • @blisskitchen9529
    @blisskitchen9529 Před rokem

    Thanks 🙏

  • @shairaq6642
    @shairaq6642 Před 2 měsíci

    thank u ♥️

  • @patrecemilliner6737
    @patrecemilliner6737 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks 🙏🏾

  • @dreamermami
    @dreamermami Před 2 dny

    Did you find the name of the book can I please get the name ?

  • @Jazleen-oe9wg
    @Jazleen-oe9wg Před 2 měsíci

    Okay my relationship is like it over my partner told me i don't have conversation and am like how what is conversation

  • @robsroadtosuccess4205
    @robsroadtosuccess4205 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I mean I watch the podcast but the first couple of minutes and when you mention how to communicate effectively and you said you had to do it through meals that’s kind of messed up because what if you’re going through hard times and you can’t do that no more you can’t go out and have meals because you’re on a tight budget that means there’s no getting through to her because of that one change in how to communicate to her effectively, you won’t be able to do as much or do at all depending on the circumstances so that’s kind of like weird to me. You have to treat somebody to a meal in order to get through to someone when speaking common sense in a relationship, where two should be understanding of one another of their needs and wants, I don’t know that sound crazy. That’s like a man saying to a woman. The only way to communicate to me is through sex other than that if that’s not happening, I don’t wanna hear anything you have to say because basically you can’t communicate to me in the way that I want you to all the way I prefer you to within you know has always double standards when it comes to the other side, sooo😌