Why you don't see my Wife on the Farm
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- People are always asking about where my wife is and why you don't see her on the farm. I guess it's about time I talk about it.
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Y'all inviting us to share parts of your life is a privilege, not a right. She signed up for you, not CZcams. We love y'all and are happy with any snippets that y'all share with us. She doesn't have to be on screen to still feel like family.
Well said.
Yup yup!
Absolutely spot on.. even when he just mentions her kn videos is inclusivity enough for he audience to know she is there.
Privelege is exactly the right word. I always feel grateful to be invited in to peoples' lives in videos like this.
Well said. Couldn't of said it better myself.
Imagine convincing your husband that organic food is good so well that he literally becomes a farmer.
She should be a salesman.
Congratulations Alison! You did very well.
vegan dreams
@@butterpecan077 they eat meat fools organic just means naturally grown nothing special its a gammic to charge more for produce and he clearly says they slughter some of the buds for meat so I doubt they are both vegans lol
@@thehoonta5312 english
Cleaning the snow off her car and warming it up is not silly, it's a lovely thing to do for her and I'm sure she appreciates it.
So much this 👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽
My husband used to clean off my car when he did his- and then he’d leave for work. Every morning, even if he was running late. So I got to start my day feeling so grateful he was my husband. I lost him to cancer but still feel gratitude for those mornings. You are a wonderful and respectful husband and I hope you are both grateful for every day you have together.
Yes. And I am sure she does things for him when she is home to help him out. Cliche to say, but relationships are a give and take. Every relationship lives with different balances of that as well.
Yeah that’s a real sign of love right there
@@alisonwhitlock5987 I'm sorry for your loss. It's a beautiful testament to the love you shared that you still feel gratitude to your husband for all the times he did that for you.
Find you a man who talks about you the way Morgan talks about his wife
Yeap
Be someone like Allison...before looking for a man like Morgan.
@@silvercat3243 yes
@@silvercat3243 😂 yup
@@silvercat3243 nailed it
This was beautiful - like a love letter to your wife.
I thought so too!
That's a lovely and perfect way of putting it and I'm glad Morgan saw your comment! :)
@@julen2380 Thank you and I’m glad he saw my comment too. ☺️
Perfectly put
Wanted to write sth similar. Very touching!
I never really thought about Allison not being in the vlogs much but I did know she's a nurse and as a nurse myself I know how hard it can be and the long hours that have been put in during the pandemic.
Also to be totally honest it's her choice to be on camera or not. We are privileged to be part of your daily lives and Allison has a demanding job in the community.
So why do so many people feel a need to know why she isn't seen.
Love your channel and the way you tell stories is captivating. You should do books for the blind or something along those lines .
I just assumed Alison had her own private life and places to be. She is a talented woman with plenty of stuff to do.
Wife of a youtuber has places to be other than appearing in her husband's video? *gasp* What blasphemy!
IMO, she murdered that chicken. In all honesty, Alison sounds like an angel. You got lucky bud.
*The following is happening in our World and no one is noticing.*
1. Armageddon is about 4 action events.
1st horse, Bow = *Send* it.
2nd horse, Sword = *Strike* it.
3rd horse, Scales = *Split* it.
4th horse, Fire = *Sear* it.
That ='s Our planet for the last 2 years have averaged 3.23 Rockets a day into space.
That's hundreds of rockets we've *Send*/sent up.
We've sent close to a 1000 Rockets/with Elon saying he's sending another 1000.
They are *weapons* designed to stop "Wormwood" in the book of Revelation in the Bible.
All Telescopes on this planet are pointing in the same direction.
Elon is building underground tunnels in major cities.
"Wormwood" is going to hit the PACIFIC OCEAN. *EVACUATE*.
All the ELITE TOP COMPANIES ARE EVACUATING THE PACIFIC COASTS...SO SHOULD YOU!!!
2. "The mark of the beast".
Take 3 6's and place them in a circle and you have a virus warning symbol.
But the Mark is the VACCINE. And because it is a global problem it will demand a global solution.
*The Vaccine will be given Airborne and it will land on your forehead and hands.*
It will try to alter Chromosome 7 lamb1.
It is during these moments where the Bible mentions: *You will wish the mountains to fall on you.*
And this is also the moment where the Bible mentions: The "few" and the "many".
"Few" will die from this Vaccine (millions) and "many" will live (billions).
This vaccine will cure all diseases BUT it will not remove the Pain from any injuries you receive.
That is the moment of the "delusion" mentioned in Revelations.
If you get a cut or any injury, the pain will never go away, they just keep building up.
You will wish the "mountains to fall on you".
666 (six - sick - sicknesses) *Six species of human corona viruses are known* ,
with some species subdivided into two different strains,
making seven strains of human corona viruses altogether.
And you who think the part about the "buying and selling unless you have the mark" is a chip ..that's not right.
You have to understand the person who wrote revelations was seeing specific moments of the future.
When He saw those buying and selling who had the "mark", he was looking at those who were living during the
4 Action Events of Armageddon (see my other video please) and the 7 year reign of the antichrist. Those who are
"born again" have done been raptured away with Jesus. *The body of Christ doesn't go thru those events.* Only ones alive
are the ones who have *LIVED* who got the mark. You see, though everyone gets it..not everyone dies from it. Those who did
die are the *"few"* who are "raptured to Jesus". The "mark" only kill the "born again" people of Jesus (see video and comments for
further understanding)
@@downyourtube please go away
@@nizvkfb7vsbvrsct723 you're so screwed.
You cleaning the snow from Allison's car and warming it up for her makes you worth your weight in gold. You nearly brought tears to my eyes.
his weight in Morgan Gold
I admire partners who are secure enough in their marriage that they give their companion room to be themselves yet still remaining a close knit couple. Thank you for sharing your love story with us.
Alison already has to deal with Morgan’s Shenanigans, she deserves the privacy 😂😩
Morgan: " A lot of people have asked why you don't see Alison in the videos as much"
Me: "my dudes, she's a Nurse Practitioner, it's a lot of work! And she seems like a very private person, I don't think being on camera is her cup of tea"
Also, you wiping her car off for her is not silly, it's an act of love. :)
Dude it's a very powerful act of love. It's not a huge grand crazy event, but that's what makes it so important. It's a boring and mundane little chore that he's actually happy to do because love. That's so unbelievably sweet and amazing it makes me tear up.
It’s a huge act of love. That’s sooo sweet of him.
My husband does the same things with cleaning off the car from snow. It’s appreciated more than you can imagine. I never questioned her not being in the videos. Always assumed it wasn’t her thing (not mine either). But I do get the feeling of a great partnership between you two. Alison- Thank you so much for all your hard work the last year during the pandemic. The world needs more people like you.
You are a team, not clones of each other. Keep far away from the trap of making each other over in "my image".
As Rocky would day, “She's got gaps, I've got gaps, together we fill gaps.” This is great man. That is 100% how it should be right there.
Thanks to your wife and all of the nurses and medical professionals that are out there, who are putting their lives on the line to help others!
It's totally cool that she doesn't want to be a big part of the channel. You being respectful of that shows how much you love her.
As long as she respects the channel as well. And doesn't decide, someday, that he needs to stop it. Then that's fine. 👍
I assumed she was more like my husband and didn't want to be on camera. It's great to see how supportive you are of each other.
You should have called this: “A love letter to my wife”’, and posted it on Valentine’s Day. BEAUTIFUL!
Finding that middle ground and respecting each other's individuality is the secret. Proud of you two.
"I know that seems silly." What? Noooo, cleaning off and warming up the car for your spouse is the HEIGHT of romance! Spouses love that! 💜
Happy 10 year anniversary, a bit early!
It's also completely rational, he's got the cold weather gear on while doing morning chores.
I get excited when my husband plugs my van in for me. Brushing it off for me is like the equivalent of getting a dozen roses 😄
My husband and I have been married for almost 23 years. I'm the farmer in the relationship, but thankfully, he loves the challenge of building and repairing things and he's a great problem-solver. We're making it work like you guys-- mutual respect and honoring the other person. Congrats on your ten years!
Excuse me sir! Cleaning the snow off your wife's car and starting it so that it's warm for her when it's goodness knows how many negative degrees in Vermont is not silly! It is chivalrous and sweet and endearing and is exactly what a husband should do for his wife! Thank you for being so open and honest about how much work a marriage is. My husband and I have been married for 17 years and have spent the last 18 months apart. So marriages do require a lot of work and I commend you guys for being able to make your unusual and interesting lives work! May you have many more happy years together!
I love that you get her car ready every morning, especially when it's snowing. My husband is the same way and makes sure that I'm taken care of in ways like that too. It always makes me smile & I always appreciate it, it never gets old or becomes "norm" for me. We need more men like that! Yes, women can do for themselves, but we also want to be cherished & cared for too. I'm happy that you both are finding your path through life, both together & individually. It's important!
I love how in that shot, Allison pays no attention to the camera and is focused entirely on you.
Congratulations on your 10 year anniversary, and wishing you many more.
Seeing Allison is never an expectation but is always a treat.
“ This farm is so much about our partnership...” Well said sir. Every farm family that I know has one partner who works outside the farm. It will keep your small farm in your hands and that’s a good thing. I know that’s the way we live. I’m the stay at home partner. I love it too. Best wishes to both of you!
I love that you shared this story. Marriage is a lot of helping each other to grow and change while trying to navigate a similar path in life. 50% of it is deciding what to eat and who is more tired though.
you are one of the kindest, most generous and gentle people on youtube. and i bet you would be a great dad if it ever comes to that. ty
It's hard to find someone that is willing to change their entire life with you and support you. You both are very lucky.
It's OK Ms Allison! Our parents dont want us including them in our videos, either. We support you!
Hey Vineyard Chicks! I just watched your “these boots are made for walkin’” video! Y’all are awesome!
@@happycamper4ever873 Awwww! Thank you so much! You made our day!
It turns out that Allison is a good insurance salesman. She convinced you to not only accept the idea or organic food but become a farmer.
And you show yourself a good nurse. Your are not only good at taking care of people, but animal too.
Marvelous.
I think she's an absolutely beautiful soul. Her heart is so big and the farm needs someone like that. She's your anchor and helps keep you grounded.
I LOVE this solely for the fact that you explain that even though you have different goals in life, it doesn’t stop y’all from loving each other. Honestly in a way this is all a country raised boy like my self wants in life. Everything I’ve always wanted in life is someone who supports me as much as I can support them despite our separate goals in this thing we call life.
I didn’t realize Alison was new at being a NP! She’s awesome, tell her thank you for us for her incredibly hard work! ❤️ (my 10 year wedding anniversary is in November and we’ve also moved a lot - it has certainly made life exciting!)
I just like to think of her as a rare pokemon. "Look! We have caught a wild Allison! Morgan uses Lil Barn cat! It's super effective!"
I wondered what the bait would be....
🤣❤️
Nothing says I love you than having someone scrape the snow off my car. And installing a battery heater.
As an arctic fox in Norway. What is a battery heater? A heater that runs on the 12 volt battery? Would seem like a good way to make sure you got flat battery to me :P
Diesel warmer, DEFA system you plug into grid power, or an EV would seem like the better choice. Or just letting the car warm for abit :P
MrDanisve , hey thanks for asking. At twenty below or colder the vehicle just won't start so we use an extension cord to plug it into an outlet, we install some kind of thingy to plug it into the front of the truck, when I use it I just unplug it. I plug it back in when I come home.
Block heaters are standard where I live in Northern Canada - we'd be miserable without them if you can't count on your car starting half the time LOL Lots of my American friends are like"wtf is a block heater?" LOL
@@AJR-zg2py Yes, way back too many years I lived in northern BC. A block heater was a must. Then I moved to Texas and one day at the super market a man came running over to tell me someone must have left an extension coed under my hood. 🤣🤣 I enjoyed telling him about block heaters and the "joy" of living in -30 temps.
@@MrDanisve It's about how many amps the battery can pump out. Cold batteries may be fully charged yet unable to provide enough current to turn over the starter.
It’s wonderful that Allison decided to go for an NP. I believe that will be a key role in the future of American healthcare.
It is the consistent kind gestures that really say "I love you!". I was talking to my Dad about how I know he loves my mother, and he told me that he really appreciates how every work day of their marriage, my Mom made him breakfast and packed his lunch. She never missed unless she was sick. They have been married 40 years and still going strong. He loves her for many reasons he said, and that consistency has meant a lot to him.
Hello Morgan, I love the way Alison lovingly looks at you. You two are a great team and have an inspiring love story.
"Every morning that it snows I try to clean off Allison's car"
*reverse footage of him cleaning off her car making it look like he is covering it in snow*
Was wondering if that was a mistake or intentional. LOL.
😂🤣
Your content are incredible, once CZcams algorithm swings your way and people discover your channel sky’s the limit.
RIP Samson you did the right thing Morgan at least he’s not in pain anymore Samson you will never be forgotten also hope your having a great day
how do you know hes dead
Wrong video!
I deeply respect you, Allison, and the way you have handled the surprises, as well as the challenges, you are taking on day by day
Hmm, I've never actually wondered this about your wife, I mean, you said she was a nurse and nurses have some pretty crazy schedules, so how would she find the time to farm and make videos, I was surprised to learn that she had the energy to care for the garden.
I'm very thankful that your wife is an NP and is so dedicated to her job, it's a very important job and a very demanding one too.
P.s. Cleaning snow off your wife's car for her is never a silly thing, it's an incredibly thoughtful thing.
You guys are setting such a good example, congratulations for your 10th anniversary :) Sending love from Budapest, Hungary, Europe.
When it works, it works. I love that you found a balance that works for what both of you want individually...and together. That’s what marriage should always be like, imo. Two separate ppl...together in life. ❤️
I think I've learned more about marriage in 10mins than any other way in my life.
It’s hard to avoid debates and disputes in a marriage ... and they shouldn’t be avoided. But main thing is to respect and love each other and keep looking in the same direction :-)
Enjoy your time on the farm! You are great, guys!
too many people think a good marriage means you never fight and always agree, but the only marriages I've seen like that are ones where 1 person is just a doormat or its because there's serious problems in the marriage and they're afraid to disagree on anything as if ignoring the problems will make them go away.
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Lots of wisdom in accepting your spouse so fully and supporting each other’s dreams. What a lovely gift to her for you to see her needs and to respect them.
Is no one talking about the chicken that couldn’t wait to go into the goose house as soon as it was opened up? 😂😂
It felt planned 🤔 ... 😆
@@Nansatrojan2010 the chicken is a paid actor?
I think it’s wonderful how you can both go do your own things and still come together at the end of the day. And y’all are happy! And I think it’s beyond sweet that you clean off her car! 💜
That’s so sweet! I’ve always noticed and loved how you respect her space. So many other people think “content first” and it’s genuinely so sweet to see people care about their partnership first. Thanks for sharing all this with us. ^_^
That was one of the most honest, articulate, and heartfelt tributes of a husband's view of his marriage partnership with his wife. 🥰
Please send my thanks to Alison for all her work during this international emergency! We are all doing our parts of staying safe, but she is doing such an important and much larger part in helping people.
This is the best homestead/farm vid yet! Thank you both for being so honest. Thank you Alison for going with your dream and caring for others. I just look forward to all the adventures and I am super glad Alison is a behind the vid superhero that I figured she was ;)
I started watching these videos almost a year ago for the cute little ducks, I now stay for the life journey.
This is one of the most beautiful stories from a married couple I've heard. I really hope your marriage lasts until you are both over a hundred.
This was great Morgan! I absolutely relate to her lack of enthusiasm to be the center of attention, lol. Balance is everything in great partnerships. Stay blessed! -Tory
Love this!!!! I consider hearing Allison’s cute accent and seeing her cute little face a treat. From nurse to nurse I’m proud of her being out there taking care of people😉
Those editing skills!! The stories and their presentation keep getting better each video.
Thank you for sharing with the world 💐
Glad you like them!
You guys seem to live something beautiful together, it's a blessing for me to receive these videos in my sub inbox and always a great pleasure to watch them !
I wish you the best for the future on the farm and in your marriage, much love ! ♥
So basically she's the normal one, and you're the oddball 😆. Beautiful story. I know you get this a lot, but I picture her saying "New York is where I'd rather stay. I get allergic smelling hay".
Very sweet story of two people who understand that the two of you are not carbon copies and that you do not have to be so in order to have a good marriage. Lovely to see that you are supportive of each other.
Clearing the snow from Allison's car and warming it up for her is one of the sweetest and most appreciated and meaningful things you could ever do for her - and the fact that you do it every day is phenomenal.
(Tip: Think CARPORT!)
Congratulations on the 10 Year Anniversary and may you celebrate many, many more anniversaries!
Best wishes from New Mexico, USA for a thriving farm and NP practice.
somehow strange that you opened "the door of your private home" to us viewers. I did not feel that it was my business to know what is on the other side of that door. But that might also be a cultural difference. (German) Regardless, thank you for honoring your wife, loving her with the clean car every day.
American culture is all over the place but I agree with you
It sounds like you two have negotiated a solid balance for your life together. For that, I admire you both! It's not easy! 💖💖💖
This was really moving! I've been watching you for a while, and I never thought Alison should appear more in your videos. We know she is there, but it isnt her thing and that is ok. I love and adore, how you both handle your marriage! Thanks for your honest share :D
Blessings to you both
Thank you for showing us you!!
You have the biggest heart! We need more people like you!
Allison and you are an inspiration for so many who struggle to fund that partnership!
Bless Allison, please tell her thank you so much for all for fighting covid and being strong during this difficult time on behalf of us!
Also your marriage sounds lovely, I love that you guys are respecting and conscious of each other's desires and lives. It's so phenomenal that you manage to create this life together. Every aspect of you guys' story is inspiring, and I only wish the best for you and the farm!
That you are both individuals, this is a true tribute to how it should be supporting each other and your differences. Well done.
Very wonderfully said, Morgan. And a beautiful tribute to Allison. Wise words.
I am celebrating 30 years this year, marriage is hard work, but respect, and support is the foundation. Loved this video!
I feel this so much. The farm life is my dream and my husband supports me in that dream. We plan things together and we're both invested but I do the majority of the Homestead things. He enjoys his career and he enjoys traveling and I am a homebody and would rather work at home and work on the property. It works for us, too. It's a balance and we both accept each other for who we are. Congratulations on 10 years! 2021 is our 10 year as well 😊
Love this. Good for you guys! Love it that you clear the snow off her car in the mornings. As a fellow New Englander, I know what a great thing that is. All respect to her for the vital work she’s doing. Every time you clear off the snow, it makes it that much easier for her to serve your community. Really glad I found this channel.
It isn’t silly that you start her car and clean it off. That is a very real way of showing just how much you care for her and I’m sure that simple gesture is not lost on her. Nicely done!
I’ve been following your page for several months but just coming across this video today. I love this so much. I love that you each can be yourselves yet a team, all in the same moment. Yes, that’s what marriage is all about ❤️ thank you for sharing!
Good morning beautiful people! 🤙🤙🤙
Good morning!
Good morning
Good morning! Thanks for saying hi
With your obvious love and respect for your wife, I can only think she found herself a keeper! Congratulations to both of you for caring about each other so much.
I feel all giddy when you talk about your life, life with Alison, the family, the farm, the lifestyle, everything. You're such a great human being, I wish 2021 kicks ass for you.
You are a good story teller. I've watched every one of your life stories, especially re your college years. I cannot help but feel sad that you are alone so much. I have 4 grown sons, so of course, I am partial.
Thank you Allison for helping us in our rural communities. I know in our tiny town we are desperate for medical care. I hope you understand how much you are appreciated, valued, and loved for your service.
I saw this video when it came out, right as we we're in the process of closing on our homestead. It's been nice to revisit. Thank you!
Love how you celebrate each other’s goals in such a united way!
I enjoyed listening to your explanation of your relationship with Alison and the farm. My wife grew up on a sheep farm and I was the city boy. We're now in our late 70's and we just had our 49th wedding anniversary. We've been together 51 years. Ten years is a piece of cake!
MORGAN, I RESPECT ALLISON AND HER THOUGHTS AND FELLINGS AND ALL OF THE HARD WORK SHE DOES BEYOND WHAT WE CAN SEE. SHE IS SUCH A HAPPY PART OF YOUR VIDEOS. ❌⭕❌⭕❌
In the winter, my paw always cleaned the car off and warmed it up for maw for her commute into work every winter for 40 years. As a farm kid, I thought everybody did that. That's love, dedication, and respect that makes the dream work. You guys are awesome!
Awwww
Good for her! My Dr is an NP. And I love her to death! Allison has a life other than the farm and that's ok! And she deserves to be her own person all on her own. Thank you Allison for being a great person. I have read your interviews over time and like me seem to be an introverted person.. Just be you and live doing what you love.
How sweet to get a cleared warm car! Having had outside cars in snow country I know how special, wonderful and full of warm fuzzies it is. I always makes me feel loved, appreciated and know my husband thought of me as he was leaving. Really does start the day off right.
2:06 the chicken’s desperate to get into the goose shed as soon as possible 😂
It doesn't sound silly at all and that kind of thoughtfulness and love is what is going to keep your marriage filled with happiness and love ❤️
I do watch you all the time and this video was actually my favourite to date!
And by the way, the small deeds are the most appreciated a lot of times. Clearing the car is a great thoughtful idea
Awww... What a wonderful husband you are. I hope you inspire some of your readers to do the same. Those things are HUGE to everyone.
Morgan, I found your story and this video very romantic. It is rare to see the kind of relationship that you and Alison have, where you both made significant sacrifices so you BOTH could pursue your dreams together, even though some of your dreams are different.
The two of you are very inspiring. You don't shy away from hard work to help Alison realize her dreams or your own. Too many people are unwilling to accept anything but instant gratification.
It's great to see that sometimes, the good guys win.
As a child I lived in Kent, CT
Dad was a classical violinist who played at Carnegie Hall
My family is from NY..time has changed alot..I love VT ♡
I just thought she was very busy as a nurse, especially during these times. And you cleaning off her car is very sweet.
You are such a good man. Allison is a lucky woman!! My husband and I have that kind of understanding and acceptance of each other, too and I so appreciate and love him for it.
Never silly treating your wife like a Queen.
It's silly if she doesn't deserve it😂
I love that you clean the snow and ice from her car. After college I lived at home for a year. I started work at 6am. Mom was up first, she was a stay at home Mom, she made the coffee. Dad was up second. I got ready in the mornings listening to the hum of their conversations in the kitchen. So I drank Mom’s coffee and enjoyed a warm snowless car thanks to Dad every morning. I felt their love then and still feel it to this day .... they have been gone many years.
That is awesome - you were very blessed!
You're a good man for cleaning the car off each snowy morning.
Bless Allison for letting you do you & sticking around.
Love your channel.
I got some giggles from the snow being reversed.
10 years!! We celebrate with you. As our friends told us when we got there " you've beat the odds".
Next Monday is our 52nd anniversary. So many great memories!!
You are building a wonderful relationship much earlier than we did.
Blessings!!
1:40 My man got clones confirmed
I commented that too
please don't hate I did not see your comment
@@trickypigeon3338 I’m sure he hates you forever now
@@genesis4k lol
@@trickypigeon3338 I hate you so much rn
Yes he does....I would love to have a clone that liked to clean LOL.
I pray that you and your wife last many years to come. Have peace and joy together. Love your channel!!!