KAYLA NICOLE LEFT TO DEFEND HERSELF! THE DOUBLE STANDARDS WHEN A BW CHOOSES TO DATE OUT!
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- čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
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Black women should date whomever they want unapologetically.
Lol.
Agreed just leave talking anything about black men out yall mouths. We support all your dating choices & will even buy babyshower gifts
Why do black women think they are the only ones who has backlash for dating/mating out?
If you do that, then don’t call yourself black.
@@BlackLaw74do you say the same for black men dating white woman?
Black community be like “I don’t want you, and it’s hopeless to find anyone here who does- BUT- just in case, you better be available for one of us if we change our minds.”
Lol 😂
Exactly
This is infuriatingly accurate
Facts
Exactly
I literally love being a black woman!
Love it 🙏🏾
LUV IT!! ALL DAY EVERYDAY!!! ❤❤❤
Same sis, if I could be reborn I'd still come back as a black woman.
Same honestly
Totally like a celebrity. Total package, a prize and a blueprint. ☺️✨
I do feel bad for her. I wish her tones of healing.
the white man was Dusty he never spent money on her did you read that part
I wouldn’t expect Brittany to defend her 🤷🏽♀️ white women stand with white women most of the time and Brittany may feel like if she says anything to defend Kayla, it’ll ruin her chance at getting close to Taylor, since Taylor may be at the games more often and they’ll be running into each other.
and also, nfl wives are fake. They’re going to become friends with any woman a player brings because it’s not too many getting married anymore. That’s another thing Kayla didn’t have, the privilege of being a nfl wife, which plays a part as well
Exactly they don’t do like us black girls do cause I would’ve stuck beside her and been looking at Travis like he gone crazy. Idk that’s just the black girl in me tho.
@@hellothere8347seriously! A lot of men, no matter the race, also believes once they and a woman separate, she’s basically no one to them but in this case, he should’ve said something, especially considering I only know of him because of their relationship.
Agreed.
@@tiaraw872 girl you had long day? Her comment pissed you off 😂😂😂
Poor woman!!! she didn't ask for that 😑😑
Travis will never defend her. He’s still bitter that she dumped him so he WANTS her to feel small and jealous because he has “moved on” and is with Taylor now. He is pulling a bitter ex move right now. Just proves that she did the right thing by dumping him.
@@Brazen_knightyet you’re here bussy popping. I think you love brad the most.
@@extrashotofespresso_this 💩is funny as hell....lmao
@@Brazen_knightTravis literally said out his own mouth that him not spending money on her was a lie. Also, why do yall act like yall don’t experience the same with white, latina, and asian women? They don’t want yall either! We’re in the same boat and yall are laughing at black women that it’s sinking like yall are sinking with us! A bunch of dummies 😂
@@Brazen_knightYOU LOVE ❤️ BRAD 😂that’s why you care so much! Go find your white Boaz and live your TRUTH bro🌈😅
@@slangtang6671I wish Kayla said nothing. Silence really is top teir. I agree with you
I got left a single mom by a black man, I’m dating a white man who accepts my child as their own. I was told by a black women close to me, I couldn’t get a strong black man so I went white. A white man who has a college degree, own place, career, car, a married mom and dad, 401k, shit life insurance 😂
@@luckydalton1656She can love him and love what he has as well. Black men don’t love anyone and don’t provide anything but community 🍆, unwanted STD’s, single motherhood, and dust
@@luckydalton1656🛑. hating
@@user-ts2gw2ex1z regardless of race and/or culture, get a good man that values you.
@@MrBlueCollar77 Statistics prove otherwise. Bc the few people you know doesn’t represent the collective. You must’ve forgot that black males have the highest unemployment rate. 🥴
@@MrBlueCollar77oh yeah? The lowest salaried race of men?
The double standard is REAL. Nothing Has gotten me more attention than walking hand in hand with non black boyfriends. When I walk alone it’s crickets (usually). It’s interesting to me that I’m of zero interest to BM unless I’m on a white guy’s or an Asian guy’s arm. I think it illustrates the value many of them attribute to whiteness/ lighter complexions.
This resonates with me in so many ways from non-black Uber drivers and how nicely they treat me when I have my multiracial daughter. To the black men that treat me like I am human when they see me and my red curly head daughter together. but when I don't have my fair skinned five year old besides me it's back to the same old thing cricket's.
I have experienced this exact same thing. I've literally been in the club with black men walking past me like a ghost to get to a Hispanic girl. The moment I start talking or dancing with a Hispanic or White guy, they start staring and even trying to grab my arm when I pass by with the non black guy. It's a trip.
@loyalandkindsunshine3382 my son is biracial and I notice the same thing. I get treated better when we are out. It's like people feel more comfortable knowing you're open to other races. Black men are funny because until they see my son they thought they were a catch. Now they are looking like wait she's not into me? She likes white men? Then they are oh so interested. Smh
Self hate. They don't see no value in themselves. Never have.
Good point
She’s so beautiful and humble!! I loved her speech!! I felt it
Far from humble
And again, blk women are not protected. We're left to defend ourselves in all situations. It's sad! 😢
Why is it sad, you said you were strong and didn't need any protection. Even the white boys you beg to love you on social media can't help you? Lol
Yes it is a double standard for black women dating out of her race.
Yea … they get a pass & defense from the sisterhood while the sisterhood drags & hates any Blackman who dates anyone other than them.
Yall would not let a black men date a white women then come back talking all this blackidy black black stuff without a good dragging
I hate it. Black men marry or date out three times as much as any group, but when Black women are a problem. We get called all types of bedwenches and lectured on how we have to continue the Black race. It's so wack. Guaranteed the majority of the Black men who date or marry out never hear that that they need to continue the Black race and they actually make disparaging comments about Black women
If anything it’s a double standard on the other side. Y’all dragged Terrell Owens for saying that black men should date whoever appreciates them, which is what black women say all the time.
@@Chiefteeth1no one cares about yall. No bw wants tyrell. He said, it out his mouth 🤣
@@lifeis2171 you just proved his point
It’s definitely a double standard. They literally hang you to the cross as a black woman.
This is why black women need to stop being loyal to the "bLaCk CoMmUnItY". Stop using your platform to advocate for the same people who tear you down. Mainly black men but some black women are toxic too.
Yea something tells me you never feel empathy for a black man if this is how you see things lmao.
@@slangtang6671F'k Black Men.
@@slangtang6671not when they kill us every 4 hours.
Most BW who date out are the men BM would never want anyway so this assertion is false.
No BM cares who you date.
Dear Black Women - WE ARE OUR ONLY ALLIES... the moment we begin to live this truth as a collective... what a glorious earth it will be!! ❤
This right here shuts down the freakin internet. Straight up truth. The whole world feeds off our trauma. The best thing we can do is heal ourselves and embrace each other for support. Not about lesbianism. I personally think we weren’t meant to be sexual with anyone. The oracles in ancient times were secluded for this purpose. Never to lie with a man or risk corrupting their magic. Channels that sexual energy ladies towards your creativity. Creativity can be a very powerful force to reckon with.
@@sharonivy888it's the lack of respect, not the sex that's the problem.
@@user-ol9bo2ei1rLook I study ancient history, mythology and theology. BW were worshipped as Mother Nature in physical form. To get the land, the king had to marry the woman because we, us black women were connected to the land and nature. BM were our step and fetch it. We were a matriarchy. This is why BM hate BW. Sex is never just about sexual pleasure and getting a kink off. It’s an energy exchange that alters your body vibrational frequency thus your biological chemistry makeup. Men get turned on by sex because to him he is sexually conquering/dominating a woman that is far more superior to him. It’s a power dynamic. This is why older women need to teach younger girls and younger girls need to listen. The Disney movies and this love fantasy has done a number on black women. Come out of the contrived Disney fantasy and into some hard core reality.
I showed support to black women in a comment section on Yani’s page ( i didnt pander though) & a few of them wished death on me…very toxic bunch who need healing.
@@sharonivy888 Superiority complex much? 🤔🧐
I saw so many black men bashing her in her comment section on her Instagram, it was so disgusting. I loved that poem. She’s such a beautiful girl. I wish her all the best.❤
Yea but if ppl weren’t so attention seeking and always post their private stuff online like the attention seekers that they are no one would be in those fake a.. celebs business. Everything she does is for attention just like all the other fake celebs and thotz. Cringe, fake and narcissistic attention seekers
I could imagine. They obviously feel hurt, jealous, conquered and inferior seeing a black sister get with one of the dominant men
@@MrBlueCollar77 🤡🤡🤡👌🏽
They were bashing her when they were together. This is their celebration. Black men hate a black woman would date a white man , so funny how they front on the internet like they’re so unbothered. Black women need to start making them go viral for hating and bullying black women for being with a non black man how they try to create the narrative about us
Yep but those same black men will leave you for a Becky. So they comments are hypocritical and irrelevant.
Imagine having to defend your character bc your ex dating someone else lol. This is nuts. BW, we all we got so let’s be kinder and show more grace towards one another.
this is what i don't understand. When the video said they were together until LAST year i am like well why and how is she NOW getting flack when they have been done about a year ago?
I was thinking they JUST broke up a couple months ago or something. Smh
People were confusing Kayla with his ex before her who was speaking negatively about Travis.
Y'all do the most harm to each other and the sisterhood always fails bw 😂😂😂😂😅
right on !
@@rockfresh5359.. this can't be coming from a bulleet bagg.. y'all Murk each other women children and grandparents for sport
At this point, I’m so ready to disown my damn self from the black community and just be “Pro Self” cause this is just ridiculous. The attacks that Kayla is getting from both black men AND women are so uncalled for. I really don’t see any hope for us honestly. And another thing, I seriously would like to know what did black women find so attractive about Travis 🤔
Yeah right. Now all of a sudden, he wasn't cute anyway talk. 😂😂. Ok. He 6ft 5, white , athlete build. And white with blue eyes. Black women were in heaven. Now have K Michelle talking bout how much she loves a white man. No one has seen her with one, but she loves a white man. Chili has to run around and pretend she is with that played out actor white boy. She been chasing white men since 2008. This is sad for black girls who go to these white universities and let these white boys experiment sexually with them. We all know the truth
He had great marketing on his dating reality show
I think Travis is very attractive, but everybody’s different 🤷🏽♀️
Same ! The toxic group thought pertaining to black women our love lives, specifically with non BM , is very cult like! And don’t let the romance go sour, as it’s only an opportunity for celebration and ridicule…ugh! It’s DEFINITELY time to disassociate from blackistan, and I could be wrong but I personally think BW find travis attractive because collectively, black male adjacent non black men signal the ability to adapt certain aspects of black culture, one of the aspects being to date black women, thus putting him on the radar of BW who want to date out, but find it risky dating non black men who’s angle or adaptation of black culture is unknown and more aligned with traditional white culture and values (dating women who share their likeness/ white women)
So in other words…
White guy who participates in black culture or comfortably affiliates with the black community to some extent = he must date black women
vs
White guy who doesn’t have or want any ties to blackness or black people = must not black women/ probably traditional and dates strictly white women or everyone BUT black women
…again I could be wrong
We not gonna act like he wasn't fine when he was with Kayla. Hair & beard was on point 😂
Lori Harvey would have said nothing and just moved on to the next. Pay them dust Kayla.
I think Kayla gets more hate from BM that Lori. And Lori doesn’t have Swifties coming after her and they are everywhere in all nationalities.
@sharonivy888 What she should be doing is using this attention to promote her brand. She shouldn't speak on this topic unless she is paid to do so.
@@Rice10120She probably CANT speak about him due to NDA she signed before dating him. She put her career on the back burner traipsing behind him on games. He didn’t even bother calling in favors to help his career. She has about another 5 years as an IG model so her best bet is to write a motivational book. Do a weekly podcast. Just running around taking pretty pictures…..she’s about outgrown that. Like really Kayla. You are far more talented than that.
Also Lori only dates BM so that a thing as well but I see your point.
These men dont think white men experience teasing in childhood from their female peers...kids sometimes tease and many times its out of interest or crush. So many black girls can recall being teased by black teenage boys or younger. We accept that it was their maturity level at the time and move on
Great point!
Right, but they hold on to that until adulthood for some reason. A lot of bm need therapy and just won’t go.
@@Blaquebarbgamer ianother way to degrade/displace/destroy the black woman. I can never understand the idea of a "spicy Latina/she'll set your clothes on fire- oh so sexy" to "black women are loud and they wear too much weave". Notice that it is to degrade and demean every inch of a black woman's existence". I see black men praising normal looking white women while dishing out insults to normal looking black women.
White men are brutally teased to the point of school shootings and suicide, yet they don't go around crying about sob stories of what white girls did to them in highschool, they grow up , make money and date white women.
I got bullied terribly by only black boys. Even had one pull a knife out on me in the 4th grade 🤦🏽♀️ . I did eventually grow up however l still think damn, why were they so aggressive at such a young age? The way that they "bully" is damn near assault. Us black girls might say something that'll hurt your feelings or throw hands but a damn knife? Dislocating my shoulder? smh.
I noticed how much Black American men hated their own mums when I moved from the UK to Cali and went to high school. I had never seen/heard so many boys put Black girls down. It was crazy. Also putting African kids down as well. Just for being African. The self-hatred is real! I always took offense because majority of my family is dark and lovely. And both my parents and siblings are dark. It was so strange. But I also didn’t get asked to prom but all the boys wanted to talk to me. It’s all about the image smh. And I hate that Travis basically wore Black face and now he looks like a straight buzz head because of who he’s with. The lack of authenticity is jarring!
Girl, it's crazy.
Cut the bs.
Why would they hate their mother? You want to compare toxic, unknown black women to our mothers? So you hate your fathers given all the hatred you have towards black men. Lol
Not once has she spoken on this situation (that won’t even last) and yet she’s being painted as the opposition. Weird how black women try to be vulnerable and we’re still not taken seriously. She gave him years and he can’t even do as much as defend her. 😒
Or set her up with some security. Until this blows over a year or so. This reminds me of those slave narrative how the white massa would love up on his favorite black girl and when he was done with her, make her sleep with visiting guests or sell her up the River for some coins. Guard your heart ladies.
That's what I have been saying she has every right to defend herself. People are coming for her , and she has not said anything
She was not being vulnerable. Race has NOTHING to do with her breaking up with that guy and him moving on. He black girl letter was trash🚮
@@DoDahhhhhhhhh I see your comprehension skills are down the drain. She was speaking about the black men who were calling her a race traitor. So therefore race does have to do with what she said.
The crazy part about it is that Black people are saying that she’s self projecting. I mean Travis could’ve damn well put out a statement defending her. But I guess he either doesn’t see or really care about the heat that she’s getting. It’s crazy how Travis also got interviewed by two black dudes but none of them came to Kayla’s defense talking about the hate she’s receiving? It’s not a win for a guy to get with a sugar mama. It’s not something that men should brag about. It’s honestly hilarious if they do. And for people saying that she is self projecting, she literally is in the SAME category of what other black women go through. It doesn’t matter how pretty or beautiful you are you’re still gonna get the same treatment especially from other ninjas🥷🏾.
Like I can see her getting heat from the Taylor Swift fans, but why are Black people that don’t care about Taylor Swift or even listen to her music coming to Taylor’s defense? It’s crazy.
@@Patty-ys4pvActually some people do
Kayla dumped him and I think his bitterness is getting the best of him. I think he secretly likes that she’s getting attacked because he wants her to be jealous and regretful.
@@Patty-ys4pv But Kayla did nothing at all, but she's receiving so much hate. So, why wouldn't you defend her?
@@MrsTruthTellerI agree
Her ex looks like Roller on Claws. It's always been a double standard when we date out. A BM I was working with pulled me aside when he realized I was dating a WM (I never mentioned it, but he saw us together when he dropped me off) and confronted me about dating interracially. This man has a pregnant girlfriend and has admitted to dating outside his race. Another BM coworker would joke about me sleeping with my 'owner' yet his ex-wife is a WW. It's annoying 🙄
So by his logic he was sleeping with his owner too then 😂they are clowns 🤡 ! but one thing I don’t tolerate is harassment in the workplace! They way I would report them to HR ! A bunch of HYPOCRITES!
They're mad because she's gorgeous and as a whole they feel entitled to her even though as individuals they could never even get close to this Woman or the circles she runs in.
I was surprised that she thought Brittany Mahomes was her friend. That picture where Kayla is wearing a Black dress and Brittany is wearing a silver dress shows everything. Kayla is comfortable with herself/ confident and Brittany is not. The type of woman that Brittany is, they get jealous easily and cannot be trusted. Kayla should have kept her at arms length. For Travis, in their pictures together, you can tell that she was a novelty to him. There was no love in his eyes, in his stance, in the way he interacted with her, etc. He does not love Taylor either though. Once you can read pictures, you can figure things out pretty quickly. I do not know how Kayla lasted 5 years with him; she should have left after 5 days. If a man does not love you, he cannot grow to love you. A tree cannot grow where a seed was never planted.
Also, Kayla didn't love Travis either. You can tell by looking at their pictures together. She seemed comfortable with him, but she did not love him. Ladies, please do not lose on both ends. Don't date interracially and put with the abuse from the Black community for a man you don't love who doesn't love you either. Make sure you love and respect him, and make sure he loves and respects you. That is what truly matters.
You can tell Travis didn’t love any of them and only loved himself many men do that and only latch onto certain women to make themselves more appealing and please their own egos. He will be done with Taylor as well and then it’ll be the next chick. This man is not looking to love, he’s looking for arm candy and a good time to boost his ego
@rachelesmith3342 taylor is a man eater lol I doubt he's about to play her . When the buzz stops she'll drop him and another hit 😂😂😂
Also, I notice a lot of couples do not love each other just by looking at their pictures. For example, Patrick and Brittany do not appear to love each other either, which is sad because they have children together. The picture in this video titled squad when you look at the two of them, there is no love there. I think people confuse "not showing love" with a lack of PDA but it is much deeper than that. When you love someone it is visible even when they are not around. When you are truly loved, there is a "glow" about you, a certain calmness, like you are no longer drifting but you have a home base, a place where you fit exactly, and no one else could take that space. It's the same when you are confident/love yourself; it is apparent in your picture. If you all would like to learn how to read pictures, let me know. I have studied psychology for years, plus I am naturally good at reading people; it is a gift I inherited from my mom's side of the family. We all have certain gifts, and intuition is one of mine. I have been wanting to start a channel to basically pull myself out of my shell, but I was never sure what to talk about. So many people post pictures but are then blindsided by betrayal, and I have never understood that. Once you look at the picture you took with that person, it should be clear. I think people don't know what to look for though, and this is why they miss it.
@@rachelesmith3342 Travis does not appear to love himself; this is why he needs the ego boost. In his pictures, there is no self-confidence or self-love in his eyes, his stance. He cannot love them because he does not love himself. He needs people around him to make himself feel like somebody, and people like that should not be taken seriously or trusted. They lie to themselves and others too easily; they are a liability. If you know anyone like this, you must be careful. They will betray you without hesitation because you mean nothing to them. You are simply a means to an end.
That is true! It definitely is a lack of love/esteem within themselves that they try to use women, fame, status, and sports to fill. I guess I should’ve phrased it as they only care about themselves/are selfish although they do not actually love themselves. This is very common in professional athlete types which is what gravitates them towards sports in the first place, especially something like football or basketball. He definitely doesn’t look like he’d have anything in common with Taylor or anyone for that matter and comes off very surface level. (Not that I get any exciting vibes from Taylor either tho). She will learn the hard way as well but since she’s yt and has a massive backing, they’ll probably hold his feet to the fire more. He’ll just be more tactful about it
Kayla Nicole is a class act through and through. I think the reason she receives so much hate besides her beauty is because she represents Black women well, and the mainstream media and black media ran by bm to an extent do not like showcasing bw like Kayla. I wish her nothing but the best, I think she can do way better then Travis to be honest.
I think she can too. Swift has a lot of props. She’s been pampered her entire life and is tooo sweet and doesn’t seem sincere. Everybody gets angry sometimes. She’s sold as too packaged. Taylor has a fiery unapologetic personality. She takes pictures with makeup and without. Her confidence is natural. They have their own style but Kayla comes across as more authentic.
Bw are against Kayla for no reason.
She really is! I’m not worried about Kayla tho! She has a strong support system and family who are there unconditionally! Her bounce back is inspiring☺️
Terri Owens, is still not handsome, so he needs to stop lying to himself.
😂
Do you remember when he had his own show? He used to brag about dating white women all the time. I was a kid and I used to think “dude who tf cares”.
Chileeee this tho 💯
Exactly! He is far from good looking.
that alien-looking thing...smh. I just pray for him.
Towards the end she explained what her issue is. She is still trying to be pro black while interracial dating and black women really need to stop doing that. Stop trying to over compensate for being with a white man by being a SJW.
You better get your man and go sit down somewhere and mind your business like Oprah does, Tina Turner did (RIP 🌹) Eve does, and Serena Williams does.
I also had no idea the creator or Star Wars is married to a black woman because she is too busy minding her business and spending her husbands money. 🤑
Black women need to let pro blackness go.
No, we take pride in our blackness, and Serena Williams and her husband gives to the black community. Her husband made a bm a CEO, Serena donates. Tika Sumpter is married to a yt man and is still pro-black. Oprah is always pouring money into Africa, so you don't know what you're talking about. I dated a wm and will still support bw.
THIS 🙌🏽Let THEM march for themselves! BM who date interracially are UNAPOLOGETIC about it and so should we be.
🎯
💯💯💯
Let problackness go so that you can... be with white men.. you see how you sound?? 🤡
They left her to defend herself because she no longer dating Travis… 🧐 BM trolling her for nothing…
Most exes don't defend their exes
For nothing? Really😅
@@Brazen_knight Yes, for nothing, she never said or did anything to bm. So what is the reason?
BW started trolling taylor swift roasting her talking about her body & how Travis downgraded.
Swifties came back & roasted Kayla for being his fetish & somehow black kings take the blame for everything.
The sisterhood is strong I tell you. I see the reason yall need black men is to just pass off blame & assume no accountability on your ends 🤣🤣.
@Brazen_knight ok, pray tell, what did she do to deserve all the vitriol being thrown at her?
Kayla is such a extremely beautiful and classy woman. Is very sad that bw are the only group of women that are left to defend themselves. I am so sad for her
Luv Kayla. Travis‘s ex-girlfriend from his dating show had the same issue. She said she was getting a lot of racist comments from football fans and he didn’t come to her defense.
So
That speech was beautiful. It resonated with me. ❤black men are unhinged but we know that already.
They just beat a man for accidentally stepping on their shoes.
What are BW doing about it, is what needs to be known
@Daughter777_ BW always had access to other men. The problem is they never took their other options seriously. That's where they went wrong.
Kayla looks better than all of them. Just saying lol❤
Unfortunately men of value will downgrade in looks to gain in other aspects that are healthy for relationships.
“For every bad B****, theres a dude tired of F***ing her”
@@slangtang6671 that's very true
I found her video message very uplifting ❤
Yeah I’ve noticed this too. My mom is a bw and my dad is a wm and 99.9% of the h8 that they receive comes from bm.
Can't imagine what looks like to bully by TS fans. People needs to mind their business.
The Swifties are crazy and wouldn't want to tussle with them.
@gloryonyeugbo5398 I know, and she always the card victim and ww tears. She never the problem in all men she dated 🙄.
I assume it’s equivalent to the beyhive and the barbs
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6K-pop fans are worse
@@Rachel_Martin90 yea that’s true that’s why I separated myself from them 😂
You have to go where you're loved. I was skinny and very little in the booty department. BUT that saved me from going down the wrong path. I wasn't attracting dusties whose only goal in life is to be with a woman with a large rear end. I am married to a wonderful, loving, kind Caucasian man who thinks my little booty is a big booty LOL 😂. And I will say this, I have been in a mixed relationship since 2004 and I have NEVER EVER ran into anyone who has said anything out of line to me about dating outside of my race (even living in red states).
Lose the weight for yourself and your own health.
I think that's because no one has an issue with the women, only the men
I think it's weird when people have so much of an opinion on someone dating who they want.
She’s beautiful ❤ It’s ridiculous that they turn on her when she has nothing to do with his new relationship. As for Travis Kelce, he’s too BM identified for me. He behaves like a dusty and it’s likely that just like them, he won’t defend her. BM are such hypocrites too. It’s ok for them to admit they like WW, but when a BW gets with a WM they flip out and call names. It’s fear of loss and a feeling of conquest
Yeah, I really dislike them
@@Heat_RushNo its simple its using the aesthetic as a black man to intrude into the culture, they've been doing this for centuries like how do you not know this, look at the white woman of today the GMO bloating them up, now its BBL or gym or idk, but one things for sure, we are slowly being erased.
Taylor will be his karma in some way. I'm surprised these dudes not scared to date her lol
Kayla wasted some of the best years of her life with Travis Kelsey; he didn't seem to be that into her. He's not defending her from media attacks because he doesn't care about her. I wish Kayla the best; she should do what's best for her and ignore the hypocritical blk people who are attacking her for daring to expand her options. The Swift fans attacking her are just crazy; she dated the man long before Taylor did. The nonBW can have Terrell Owens; he is not a desirable man.
TK is a dbag. He is a scrub with money, like most of these male athletes.
Kayla Nicole was slumming it with TK--I did not realize until recently that recently. (I do not know what facade he put on in private, of course.) Now his older brother? Different type of dude. This one wants to be Mr. Showtime, Mr. Flava, Mr. Vanilla Ice. No thank you
He is most certainly not desirable with his B-Rad behind 😂
Wasted the BEST yrs? Um no sis is still young, looks great, has a good career, can still find a man. It’s not the end of the world now 🥴🤣
@@rosedevereux2391Yes! I like his brother Jason. He’s a different dude.
Kayla Nicole is stunning! 🤎 You can see it in her eyes, while she was reading the poem, she is hurt. I’m praying for total healing over this young lady. She will get her happy ending, but total healing has to happen first. 🙏🏾😌❤
Unpopular opinion, but most white folks are not gonna speak on this topic or touch it with a 10 ft pole, let alone defend Kayla. Unless I missed something, this major backlash Kayla is getting in the wake of the taylor/kelce dating reveal is all from black folks. BC stays consistent with tribalism, colorism and double standards as far as interracial dating. The meanest, rudest, most asinine comments being thrown at her are coming from US and therefore doesn’t have much to do with them (meaning any of the white folks involved). Is Kelce really supposed to come out with some statement on how him dating Taylor has nothing to do with Kayla, or that she has him rooting for team “white girl” now? Is it up to him to tell black folks to leave Kayla alone? Seriously, us black folks need to take a serious look inward now.
You, should be able to depend on a friend, period. It's not about addressing the bc, it's about addressing people period. People have told their fans to fall back.
I mean after 5 years together... kind of. Definitely not making it about race, but letting people know that disrespectful language to his ex shouldn't be tolerated just because they have parted ways.
Thank you! Someone who got some sense in these comments.
@@Heat_Rush i’m just gonna assume that they’re not friends. Not sure how the break up happened, but he probly isn’t someone she can depend on to come to her rescue. That’s kind of a normal thing that goes along with a break up. Yeah race has a LOT to do with this messed up situation. Also, by publicly “defending” her he risks giving even more airtime to these idiots. I’m so done with this. Everybody is so done with this. But ignoramas do what they do, and most of the ignoramas in this case happen to be black folks.
@@huare7946 You might be right, i’m also sure after 5 yrs together he knows when to stay the hell out of black folks business when they get to acting like this and doing each other like this. This black on black crime has to stop, but only we can do something about that… know what I mean?! 😕
Even with that beautiful message she had, the black men and the delusional Swifties still called her bitter, even though SHE was the one who broke up with Travis. Plus Travis still hasn't defenfed her against the Swifties and others attacking her. Plus Brittany looks like she'll be a friend of yours at the moment.
it breaks my heart that she has to deal with all this when she’s been minding her business & clearly didn’t want to be involved with her ex anymore. i’m not black so i can’t even come close to understanding what she and other black women go through but it’s just so sad and unfair. she is truly a beautiful woman inside and out. i really hope all these people coming at her find something new to cling onto and leave her alone. she was doing great on her own & will continue to be great throughout this all
I think Kayla got caught up in the cross fire of hypocrisy in the black community with interracial relationships being deemed as acceptable if black men do it, the fact that Taylor Swift is deemed better because she’s rich and famous due to her being an artist, and the fact that she dated solely Travis instead of dating around (which Taylor did but it doesn’t devalue her).
God it’s giving Jordan Woods 😬 she is badass for not engaging
I was skinny until I was 30+ and black guys always told me to put on weight. and that I did not have a big behind.
Kayla is so beautiful and that poem ❤️. T.O. is still unattractive so he can definitely stick to Becky/WW. It is a definitely a double standard especially in the black community when it come to interracial dating/marrying and colorism.
Ikr idk y he thinks he is handsome
She is KILLING THAT BOB!
I clicked too fast 😂😂😂
It was buffering so I had to leave and click again 😂
Idk why BW gets hate for dating outside her race when we keep hearing that no one wants us from black pill red pill whatever it is. How does that help us to stay and to be hated on by our own people. I don’t discriminate if I’m treated well by any race of men. It’s the integrity, ambition, protection, priorities, responsibilities, etc. that attracts me.
Thank you, this comment needs to be pinned! ❤❤
I think he said everything there is to know about his quality when he dated this beautiful woman for years and years, and did not propose to her! it’s so sickening to see men take advantage of beautiful, black women and then just disregard them. I’m sure Taylor will see him for who he is and Kayla definitely deserves someone who sees and amplifies her happiness!
Amen ! From the surface she looks amazing! Everything you said was spot on !!!
@@kamivenus753 💜💜
The issue is, BM want to see black women living in in the trenches, living a life of hell and poverty and without love because that’s what they believe you are deserving of. Not anything else as a BW. That’s reserved for ww and other nonBW. It’s sick. Why be in community with ppl that don’t value you.
Section 8 😂
BW do that on their own 🤨
Maybe its only losers online but when i say “go where youre wanted/loved” i ALWAYS have a bm reply that “no community wants yall” like it never fails😅 they claim to not want us but want to plant the seed that we have no other options and will die alone smh
They are very sassy emotional men.
A user need you to think you aren’t worth anything and have no other options but them. I smile whenever I see a BW date out.
In other countries this black white thing is just odd. U date or marry who u love period. It only rubs the jellies the wrong way. I wish she took her advice and remained silent cause it truly is power. No one ever said dating white means u hate black or vice versa. Doesn't mean the next relationship can't be another race from the pervious or going back to your own race. I hate people who only see color. Damned if we do and damned if we don't so we neee to stop even responding back. Let them hate.
I’m all for loving who loves you but to say the black/white thing is odd in other countries isn’t true. As someone who’s traveled worldwide, whiteness or anything in close proximity to it; is preferred.
I wish her the best. She deserves the best.
It’s crazy how she was minding her business and has been pulled in this mess.
Girl when y’all were saying Kayla Nicole this was not the girl I was expecting. I’ve been thinking it was the do “do it like a snake” with the silly ponytail girl. 🤦🏾♀️ I have no idea who this influencer girl is but she’s beautiful & will find a new man with ease with her grace & intelligence!
She didnt know that once you arent a WAG anymore those fake heifers act like they never knew you.
I think this lady is beautiful. I wish she would have stayed quiet, leaned into her tribe and heal her own way. Turn off the social media, and do your social work in private and be unbothered. Words hurt.
She has the right to defend herself.
I can’t tell u how many BM that are out with a WW & see me with my husband (a WM) that are _still_ angry, staring, peeved & irritated… 🤷🏽♀️
Terrell Owen's said a whole bunch of nothing.
Whoa this was so beautiful. I appreciate her message. I just had a road rage incident happen and I felt so alone and I felt this white man bullied me because I was a black girl and worst a black girl on her own. A little unrelated but I feel so tired having to deal with this BS and i really needed to hear this. God bless her 🙏🏽. I hope she finds healing and peace
I love the honesty and transparency in this video. I wish her the best! She definitely is a genuine woman👸🏽
I love the beautiful message
Let's be real...I'm sure Kayla had no problem getting attention from men back then and now...These black men are just upset that they can't get her attention..This is how they felt from back then but now they have a platform to hide behind when they voice their resentment....
This literally has me in tears. We bw go through so much. I'm all for dating whoever you want. Don't put down one race of women. Just say this is what I prefer, and that's it. It sounds like he's dating ww due to childhood ridicule or trauma.
This letter was awe striking🦋 😢🦋🙌🏾👏🏾🦋
Yes I still think there’s a double standard when it comes to this issue, but I don’t gaf about their remedial opinions, and couldn’t gaf whether it changes or stay the same.
Wow! Great insight on the videos. I think, we have a serious problem exacerbated by self- preservation of individual's egos. We, as a group, must learn how to uplift each other. Who you love is not as important as why you love a particular person. If you can't explain why you love a person, you actually love that person. Let's work to better each other. Your gain is a gain for me. My strength lies in my compassion for others.
You're right about BW not receiving the same grace as BM when it comes to interracial dating. I've heard that story from Terrell Owens since the early 2000s when he had that reality dating show. Flavor of love era dating shows. He did still get a little heat almost 20 years ago about it, but for the most part people and the BC were accepting about it and felt bad for him. In the case of Kayla, Jodie, Tamera Mowry-Housley, hell even Kerry Washington with scandal the same grace wasn't fully given. Kerry Washington wasn't even dating the lead actor in real life just the imagery alone triggered some people in the BC. Serena Wiliams was seen for years dating black men in the public spotlight, but was still a bed...(you know) when she got with her husband. The same grace is definitely not given.
Listening to Terrell Owens is a tough listen. Does he wear dentures????
I was just thinking the same thing! The way he is talking is as if he has dentures or too big for his mouth veneers
Ear “assault” 🫠
You are proving his point....that's why he don't fu@k with yall
@jereljohnson16
That's a win, for black women!🤷🏿♀️
When he was talking about his glow up, he must have been talking about financially.😂
@@Lucy-dx8rcexactly 😂
Yanie, I am surprised to hear you had a difficult experience dating black men for being a virgin since they are always screaming about wanting traditional women. Black women have the most traditional values in America!
I had the opposite problem being a virgin until a month ago (I'm turning 23 in November), every guy from my community (German-Brazilian and Irish-American) I contemplated dating wanted to be my first, and I was viewed as some kind of prize (or the idea of breaking my hymen was) and they also wanted a trad wife and I absolutely hate cooking and cleaning after others, until I lied and said I had had sex in Brazil with a boyfriend I had there. Every other white guy not from my community acted like I was some sort of Puritan, and didn't want to have the "responsibility" of dealing with a virgin. They didn't want commitment unless they were at least 10 years older than me, and I was not interested. I also no longer have a hymen since I used toys to have fun, and I just started dating a guy who waited for me to be ready and was celibate too at the very least since this Summer, which we spent visiting my grandmother in Brazil, he stayed in my grandmother's house in a different bedroom and he even cooked for us a few times, and he always made his bed and his bathroom was always impeccable, which I took note of. That's how he won me over, by being an adult, even though he had a cook and a housekeeper in America.
On Topic: Honestly, I think Taulor should have been the first one to make a public statement as soon as this mess started, saying no one should be comparing her to Travis's ex-girlfriend and asking the swifties to stop attacking Kayla Nicole because Kayla Nicole didn't do anything to her. She should have made a statement saying that women shouldn't engage in discussions comparing each other. But of course, she didn't, because she thrives whenever there are a lot of people talking about her in the media, she eats it up!
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I was going hard in her comments😂😂😂 think i was the one in her shoes
Yep he seems like a man whose values align with Blk men. So wyte or not he’s showing up similar to the way a Blk man would or rather “not” show up. It’s sad after all their time together he doesn’t have enough luv in his heart to defend her a lil bit. She just taking all kinda heat & he has a new handle bar mustache 🤷🏽♀️
Is it just me or does Kelce resemble "Hitler" with that little mustache and no beard?? Very creepy 🤨
No it’s not just you. 😅🙊
Boooo
He sure does
No he just looks like a redneck lol
2:08 💥 "But you will quickly find out that people don't protect what they don't value."
What’s there to even be mad about????? They broke up and he’s dating another famous woman. What on earth is the controversy?
My issue is how BW are treated periodt !!! BW are allowed to date whomever and not be disrespected by everyone !!!
It’s apart of life , some men of all races will leave you to pursue better opportunities . Both of the women he choose were successful and smart . He is nothing without them.
He didn’t leave her though. She dumped him - he was wasting her time.
Y'all are to funny and hurt about this wow......lmao....TS fans got y'all pissed.
I was teased in elementary school and high school to. I’m African and I was very skinny. I still married black.
Smh
She's beautiful!
Why he look like one of the characters from trapped in the closet episodes 20+ to be exact😅
I love the convo they had
That letter was genuinely beautiful thank you so very much, so many words & statements I really needed to hear, I felt that frfr 🫶🏾Continue being great love 💕💕💕Continue being you 😉
I follow Kayla! She has yet to speak on TK and the ending of their relationship unless the media mentions something. TO and a lot men need therapy.
Baby, yes.
T.O. is 🗑️
I love this video. I didn’t think I need to watch this video 😊
Terrell Owens looks like Jodie (Tyrese) at the beginning of Baby Boy when he was in the womb 💀💀💀💀
That’s crazy because being a virgin for me was the complete opposite experience (im petite) and people interpret that as innocent & men tried to “conquer” me when they found out I was a virgin & then I got taken advantage of but I won’t go into detail but I understand from a different angle. Nevertheless it’s all so unfortunate.
I'm sorry you went through all that
The letter to a black girl was amazing it was graceful and elegant ! … my thing why is him moving in her problem 🤦🏾♀️ … also that woman was never her friend to begin with !
Dating in-spite of another group is a huge red flag 🚩
Kayla is very pretty!!! 😍
The fact that they don’t know “where all this coming from,” is interesting. Like, it’s literally Black American history
Hi bw here👋🏿 i will date whomever i want periodttt idgaf what NOONE says i don't limit myself and i wish alot more bw do the same!
I pray for her to go ahead and have a fabulous life with a king. AMEM
I loved the open letter it made my eyes teary but I’m not surprised by the backlash they always do that I am pro-self and I go wherever I am lived and respected
With that Terrell guy experience. It made me thought of something. Black women focus on looks, hence why we attract so much duties and white women and other non black focus on your pocket. Black women, change your perspective, a man looks won't get us far if he can't protect and provide
They are, that's why bm are yelling that they are getting their passports, bcuz bw are making good money and not willing to take on a broke man.
@@Heat_Rush a small percentage are. And even the so called boss women are taking up duties as a partner. Men they have to support. The number of popular influencer, celebs, reality stars who are so called boss ladies, when they break up, U find out they were the one taking care of the men
I’ve dated some whit men with serious bank but overlooked them. Big mistake. Character first, values second, personality third and attractiveness a distant fourth.
Random, but I love your outro music yanie!
I cried..❤