9 Signs You Have An Attractive Personality

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  • čas přidán 3. 08. 2024
  • Attractiveness is in the eyes of the beholder or is it not? Whether or not you think you are attractive, there are some common traits that make you more attractive than you think! For example, when you see success as more than just work, it already makes you an attractive person. Or if you're super nice to everyone, or when you are humble and show gratitude... These little habits make you attractive. Sometimes, it is not just about looks.
    Writer: Brie Cerniglia
    Script Editor: Denise Ding
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
    Animator: Stephanie Cárdenas Cano
    CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
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    REFERENCES
    Anderson, O. (2021, November 7). 10 signs you have an attractive personality. Medium. Retrieved from medium.com/life-mission/10-signs-you-have-an-attractive-personality-c4165501ee82
    Brown, L. (2022, April 19). 12 signs of people with true inner beauty. Hack Spirit. Retrieved from hackspirit.com/signs-of-inner-beauty/
    Duckworth, A. L., Heckman, J. J., & ter Weel, B. (2006, December). The Economics and Psychology of Personality Traits. Journal of Human Resources. Retrieved from jhr.uwpress.org/content/43/4/972.short

Komentáře • 520

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +461

    What's more important to you looks or personality? or both?

  • @batsysiegel
    @batsysiegel Před 2 lety +1094

    Summary
    1. Your success extends beyond pure work
    2. You're nice to the waiter
    3. You are commonly courteous
    4. You show gratitude and appreciation
    5. You have good conversational skills
    6. You're also a good listener
    7. Drama llamas? Not on this flight.
    8. You're open-minded
    9. You are authentic and 100% you.

    • @beardedfool5865
      @beardedfool5865 Před 2 lety +19

      Thank you for this short recap

    • @fiskitti
      @fiskitti Před 2 lety +10

      Yea thanx. I always feel like these sorts of videos should have a list like this in the description

    • @fat9457
      @fat9457 Před 2 lety +10

      Unfortunately i'm not 100% me...

    • @moneytime1556
      @moneytime1556 Před 2 lety +3

      I learned if someone has a lot of anxiety they can’t be themselves because of early childhood trauma

    • @moneytime1556
      @moneytime1556 Před 2 lety +2

      @@fat9457 sounds like you got some trauma I would recommend some medication for you.

  • @Marcaronipasta
    @Marcaronipasta Před 2 lety +150

    It's okay if you don't relate of any of these. I think you have an attractive personality if you realize what you need to improve on. We all have things we're not great at. Thank you for using you're time to read this.

    • @NerdyMystic09
      @NerdyMystic09 Před 2 lety

      I’m not good at conversation because I don’t exactly relate to my schoolmates as much, so a lot of the time (during our school free time like at lunch) I’m just standing there listening to everyone else talk to each other. I don’t really get to hang out with my friends as much as I like, and they usually hang out with each other, so I literally almost never know what they’re talking about.

    • @happysloth4441
      @happysloth4441 Před 3 měsíci

      @NerdyMystic I’m sorry to hear that, and I get where you are coming from. And I hope now you have been able to find a way to talk about your friends about how you are feeling.

  • @TheDisneyGeekette
    @TheDisneyGeekette Před 2 lety +399

    00:35 Your success extends beyond pure “work”
    01:03 You’re nice to the waiter
    01:37 You are commonly courteous
    02:03 You show gratitude and appreciation
    02:28 You have good conversational skills
    03:04 You’re also a good listener
    03:39 Drama llamas? Not on this flight!
    04:10 You’re open-minded
    05:06 You are authentic and 100% you
    °o°

    • @aaronz6252
      @aaronz6252 Před 2 lety +6

      but everyone thinks im annoying and that I'm rude when im way nicer than them and im super kind and help people but its like they are blind even when i do it in front of them but they dont say anything

    • @nisargshah5470
      @nisargshah5470 Před 2 lety +5

      @@aaronz6252 hey friend, I just wanna say I think you don't have to prove yourself to these kinds of people. And if you are genuinely kind you should do it without any expectations, only then will it reflect in your personality. Cheers!

    • @sirkalilak6841
      @sirkalilak6841 Před 2 lety +3

      @@nisargshah5470 "And if you are genuinely kind you should do it without any expectations"
      This.

    • @userm180
      @userm180 Před 2 lety +2

      @@aaronz6252 hey im sorry ab that. as the person above said, you dont need to prove anything to anyone. just continue doing what you're doing, people are always gonna talk

    • @aaronz6252
      @aaronz6252 Před 2 lety +3

      @@nisargshah5470 aww ty

  • @youmad982
    @youmad982 Před 2 lety +293

    9 signs you have an attractive personality:
    1. Your success extends beyond pure work. 0:38
    2. You’re nice to the waiter. 1:04
    3. You are commonly courteous. 1:37
    4. You show gratitude and appreciation. 2:04
    5. You have good conversational skills. 2:28
    6. You’re also a good listener. 3:04
    7. Drama lama’s not on this flight. 3:40
    8. You’re open minded. 4:11
    9. You are authentic and 100% you. 5:06

    • @cutieoui7772
      @cutieoui7772 Před 2 lety +1

      sigh, when you have of all this but got all destroyed from your own mental degradation. From attractive to insecure and sensitive personality due to hurting environment. I'll get you back, I promise.

    • @pookiebible
      @pookiebible Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/OkY8Iv16xOA/video.html

  • @richiemoshpit
    @richiemoshpit Před 2 lety +33

    I feel like I can relate to this. My personality is very “loud” but not in a bad way. I’m always open and expressive to others around me, and I’m always ready and wanting to meet new people and make new friends. I’m always social and very socially active when I’m around others, although sometimes it can be a little difficult because sometimes people will always be rude about how loud and goofy and expressive I am. But I’m proud of my personality and I think it’s a good one, and I feel like people like me more because I’m always open and very supportive.

  • @Heartsforsnow
    @Heartsforsnow Před 2 lety +95

    I can relate to all of these 😌. This really boosted my confidence. Thank you Psych2go

  • @starsomely
    @starsomely Před 2 lety +175

    im glad i relate to a good amount of these traits- i remember my personality being trash at a time in my life of being focused on fitting in, but i always love seeing signs that im changing for the better! ❤️

    • @coverstar8961
      @coverstar8961 Před 2 lety +4

      Why are your thinking that your personality is trash . You are beautiful just believe in yourself

    • @starsomely
      @starsomely Před 2 lety +3

      @@coverstar8961 it used to be rlly bad- but now its a lot better! i love the compliment tho ❤️

    • @puppycorn_editz7049
      @puppycorn_editz7049 Před měsícem

      Isn’t your personality permanent though?

    • @puppycorn_editz7049
      @puppycorn_editz7049 Před měsícem

      @@coverstar8961 Also that is literally a lie you have never met this person before in your life, so how could you know?

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin Před 2 lety +104

    0:00 Intro
    3:34 1. Your success extends beyond pure work
    1:02 2. You're nice to the waiter
    1:35 3. You are commonly courteous
    2:02 4. You show gratitude and appreciation
    2:27 5. You have good conversational skills
    3:03 6. You're also a good listener
    3:38 7. Drama llamas? Not on this flight.
    4:10 8. You're open-minded
    5:05 9. You are authentic and 100% you.
    5:45 Outro

    • @Anonymous_Anon882
      @Anonymous_Anon882 Před 2 lety

      Thanks.

    • @hanabi9492
      @hanabi9492 Před 2 lety

      You guys are still doing an amazing job 😍 thank you so much from all around the world - Jesus ✝️
      Ps: this show layout format formula and constructively guided and dedicated staff and a consistent soft sweet voice setting tone and having empathy, to well at least trying to strive to have everyone heard
      I just love the easy to digest manner I would love to see a video on how this can put in place in action for what methods way would constructively work best depending on the give situation or manner or speaking
      Again much love c: still love the channel
      Pps maybe give, "don't hug me, I'm scared" a view it's a little more vivid with the topics at hand dealing with mental health and our world view and again how some of these methods can be input via demonstrations of the actions taken by the characters

  • @friedchicken7494
    @friedchicken7494 Před 2 lety +19

    Thank you for all your supportitive videos! It makes me very happy when a new video comes

  • @CWazBroadwayBandGeek
    @CWazBroadwayBandGeek Před 2 lety +12

    I see several of these traits in myself…and yet I’m always someone’s second choice, or nobody’s choice.

    • @olgakim4848
      @olgakim4848 Před 2 lety +4

      Look at it this way; it's their loss and those people probably weren't worth your precious time and precious energy, anyway.

    • @makatsue4598
      @makatsue4598 Před 2 lety

      Go meet more people who will appreciate 👏

  • @kingzuzu9225
    @kingzuzu9225 Před 2 lety +2

    How you treat others goes a long way. Not only is it attractive but leaves a long lasting memory to remind those there's still cool decent individuals in the world.

  • @love_bug.
    @love_bug. Před 2 lety +4

    I love how the videos have gotten more artistically creative lately

  • @SmtoonStory
    @SmtoonStory Před 2 lety +2

    *I love you and you're awesome! Thanks informing us all*

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 Před 2 lety +6

    You are the most attractive ,when you love yourself and you consider others ,even when you may not want to.........❤

  • @kuromikendall
    @kuromikendall Před 2 lety +25

    The more you love your decisions, the less you need others to love your decisions. ♡

  • @mauriccey1369
    @mauriccey1369 Před 2 lety +4

    I think as I'm becoming more open to the world, more comfortable with myself and other people, I'm becoming a really attractive attractive personality. Recently I've been to a cool festival where I might have not looked very cool in terms of clothes and makeup (which i don't wear) but people still liked as I wasn't afraid to talk to them and be friendly. At some point I felt ugly but then the most beautiful girl fell in love with me and now I just know that it's not always about the looks.
    I hope I'll carry this on

  • @vishistasingh9562
    @vishistasingh9562 Před 2 lety +4

    Loved this video! It was so really helpful and acknowledging

  • @teiko2227
    @teiko2227 Před 2 lety +3

    made my night because i can relate to all of these, thank you psych2go!

  • @hehiaya1334
    @hehiaya1334 Před 2 lety +3

    THE ANIMATION LOOKS SO SMOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOTHER NOW IM SO HAPPY

  • @architecturefan4
    @architecturefan4 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you for another great video Psych2Go!

  • @catalina1816
    @catalina1816 Před 2 lety +5

    The art style is so cute!!

  • @pinktequilla
    @pinktequilla Před 2 lety +11

    Of course both. Don't settle for less. 😎 But some looks could be deceiving so, in the end, you will still like a personality as always. However, looks are always part of the blessing and points as being well crafted.

  • @TheSilliestGooseOnThisPlanet

    Love ur videos! They seriously help :)

  • @xirensixseo
    @xirensixseo Před 2 lety +17

    ive legitimately felt like ive grown more as a person ever since watching these videos, im grateful to the team

  • @vvveraaa
    @vvveraaa Před 2 lety +1

    thank you guys for this great video! i can already see some of these in myself and i know what i can work on. have a great day :)

  • @kyleslavik6324
    @kyleslavik6324 Před 2 lety +3

    Yeah I would say this me thank you for the video.

  • @margaritabn6128
    @margaritabn6128 Před 2 lety +7

    I appreciate all the work behind these videos. I always learn new aspects of the human psychology in a pleasant way. I would like to incorporate some of them in my class. Is it possible to add greek subtitles in your videos?

  • @pablozanoto5801
    @pablozanoto5801 Před 2 lety +3

    I just love this channel. ♥️
    It provides great help about the abstract concept of the human mind, an aspect that I sure enjoy!
    Also, it's so cool to watch these glamourous animations! I really like the fact that there is like, 20 drawing and animation styles, that take turns in each video; this is so amazing!
    (Sorry for bad English)

  • @saggytheii
    @saggytheii Před 2 lety +4

    Not the last one...
    My personality changes a little by 5% everyday ..

  • @thiagor8722
    @thiagor8722 Před 2 lety +2

    What a gorgeous vídeo 🖤✨

  • @bishnupriyapatalsingh
    @bishnupriyapatalsingh Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this video! 🤗

  • @dominic.h.3363
    @dominic.h.3363 Před 2 lety +3

    6 out of 9... I'll take that as a win.

  • @remmytherat8914
    @remmytherat8914 Před 2 lety +2

    the animation on this one is rlly cute whoever did it i love u

  • @59xjash12
    @59xjash12 Před 2 lety +1

    UR ALMOST AT 10 MILLION!! U DESERVE IT 😭

  • @Artisan_Of_Chaos
    @Artisan_Of_Chaos Před 2 lety +3

    Depends on the person

  • @drinasun6984
    @drinasun6984 Před 2 lety +4

    I'm all of these things!

  • @JustAnotherZoomer
    @JustAnotherZoomer Před 2 lety +4

    Literally me.

  • @thecelesteial5918
    @thecelesteial5918 Před 2 lety +4

    *see, sometimes one being themselves is something that people shun them for though, and in large amounts

  • @Mangle_the_Pirate
    @Mangle_the_Pirate Před 2 lety +9

    Personality is more important because that what keeps love going. It's what you like about that person. Looks will fade one day, so they're only a perk. It's fun to explore a person's personality because they have so much you want to know and it's good to do that in order to establish a good relationship with any person. Whether it's a Platonic or romantic relationship

  • @christopherrannikko1372
    @christopherrannikko1372 Před 2 lety +3

    Missing the most subtly important time stamp: 4:40 the SpongeBob reference

  • @heheuu_
    @heheuu_ Před 2 lety

    Thanks for affirming

  • @verlenecayetano6040
    @verlenecayetano6040 Před 2 lety +5

    Very informative video love it

  • @themidnightotaku22
    @themidnightotaku22 Před 2 lety +5

    I wish I was a better listener but my thoughts, some extra noise & certain dialects from customers with distant backgrounds get in the way sometimes. I guess being able to communicate at all is still a good thing though in the long run.

  • @tamaravella1791
    @tamaravella1791 Před 2 lety +2

    Completely unrelated but the artstyle in this video is so cute 😭

  • @Yuva789
    @Yuva789 Před 2 lety +3

    I've always been told I'm a likeable person, I make friends quite easily and now I think I know why! Its great to know people like me for my personality and not looks or anything.
    Have goodnight/goodday everyone, and keep going Psych2Go! ^^

  • @anne16.
    @anne16. Před 2 lety +10

    One things for sure though, every person has their own way of telling what is attractive for them. Thus, we are all attractive in our own ways, with or without these signs.

  • @WarioTimeWarioTimeWarioTime

    after watching this video in full, I can say that I am likely to be alone forever
    Good thing I’m aromantic AHAAHAHAHA

  • @jecaleons
    @jecaleons Před 2 lety +5

    Cute vídeo! 💖

  • @teacupanimates
    @teacupanimates Před 2 lety +1

    Surprisingly, I relate to alot of these traits..... Interesting And btw that out to animation is so funny

  • @SaraAhmed-wl6nl
    @SaraAhmed-wl6nl Před 2 lety +4

    I feel everything is fixed in my life How different my outer world becomes

  • @kimberlys.7097
    @kimberlys.7097 Před 2 lety +1

    This is lovely.

  • @Mari-sx5dd
    @Mari-sx5dd Před 2 lety +3

    good video!

  • @millytheotterlover1680

    There's a guy I go to school with and he's in one of my classes. He always says hi to me and gives me a high five when he sees me. He includes everyone because he knows what it's like to be excluded. It makes me smile, because I'm so shy and quiet that I get excluded super often. In 7th grade, I had no friends and there were days that people would literally bump into me like they could walk through me, then I was the one to apologize. The exclusion would get so bad that, some days, I would question whether I really existed and it would bring me to tears. It would make my day when someone so much as smiled at me. I'm just glad I don't have to go through that anymore.

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove Před 2 lety +4

    In order to attract the love that you desire, you must take care of yourself first. When you love yourself, accept yourself and put yourself first, everything falls into place. The one thing that blocks you from manifesting a healthy relationship is when you put everyone else before you. 💙CZcamsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @PLPCPLAPD
    @PLPCPLAPD Před rokem +1

    I'm starting to get a better picture of why I tend to always become the closest friend of anyone I meet and connect with...

  • @lofijunky
    @lofijunky Před 2 lety

    i’m in love with your voice

  • @Lucky-fq3uo
    @Lucky-fq3uo Před 2 lety +2

    One of the best video

  • @luisagf1385
    @luisagf1385 Před 2 lety +1

    So happy to say this is the fist Psych2Go video I can fully relate to! I'm not trying to brag, but I'm really happy and proud I relate to all the points in this video (not that I needed the validation in the first place!)

  • @lild7360
    @lild7360 Před 2 lety +3

    One of the firsts! Btw I love your videos!

  • @sophiacalon3463
    @sophiacalon3463 Před 2 lety +1

    I believe in treating others the way we’d like to be treated. But I always feel like I’m not good enough but people don’t understand since I look nice

  • @mariahamblin923
    @mariahamblin923 Před 2 lety +1

    I THINK PERSONALITY IS! LOOKS CAN FADE AS WE GET OLDER, BUT LOOKS WILL BE IN THE BACK SEAT, WHILE PERSONALITY IS FOREVER IN THE FRONT SEAT!

  • @lauriebriscoe6983
    @lauriebriscoe6983 Před 2 lety +6

    Another trait or habit I enjoy are those who don't mind doing learning and discussing those interests in a humble way
    Very attractive and engages others

  • @wanderingthoughts16
    @wanderingthoughts16 Před 2 lety

    Love the background music 😻

  • @kuitaranheatmorus9932
    @kuitaranheatmorus9932 Před 2 lety

    This video was pretty good and I like it

  • @user-bu7dp8zd1d
    @user-bu7dp8zd1d Před měsícem

    Every bit of this holds good value.. and yes..i relate.. to all of it😊

  • @sara_armylenator367
    @sara_armylenator367 Před 2 lety

    i feel good after watching this video thankyou!

  • @lesilebarber261
    @lesilebarber261 Před 2 lety

    Big hugs cool stuff ty 🌷

  • @tonyke2550
    @tonyke2550 Před 2 lety +3

    To me, I think personality and looks are both generally equally important. Just like how the Greek goddess Libra holds a balance, I think of the exact same thing when it comes to dating: you can't have more of one over the other. They should be balanced!

    • @fat9457
      @fat9457 Před 2 lety

      Do you mean, when someone doesn't have a perfect face they should get a surgery?

    • @tonyke2550
      @tonyke2550 Před 2 lety +1

      @@fat9457 Nooo. Absolutely not. You can't have more than what you can't do (i.e.: if your personality isn't the best, to me it's pointless to get surgery, because it might just worsen your face). That's what I'm saying.

  • @snow8617
    @snow8617 Před rokem +1

    Someone said I have a funnel-like mind because I'm open to listen to everything and anything but does not absorbed everything. It's a compliment for me though.

  • @Lusitania_memes
    @Lusitania_memes Před 2 lety +1

    Hello Psych2Go.
    Hope you're doing well, what I do appreciate is a sweet personality haha, just like a lot of people, I do relate to every sign

  • @springseason2706
    @springseason2706 Před 2 lety +2

    i think having a good humor also makes a person attractive.

    • @olgakim4848
      @olgakim4848 Před 2 lety +2

      Showing kindness and compassion to EVERYONE you meet, AND to yourself. And, yes, a great sense of wit and humor and intelligence are extremely attractive

  • @soupdAssistant
    @soupdAssistant Před 2 lety

    This felt good

  • @DrummerSwagger
    @DrummerSwagger Před 2 lety +1

    Great animation

  • @GenuineHuman7
    @GenuineHuman7 Před 2 lety +4

    The video as always is beautiful
    But especially, the background music suits this topic so much.
    Its too good !!!

  • @evollove3522
    @evollove3522 Před 2 lety +2

    I think all apply to me except I'm kinda bad at conversations. I tend to become somewhat of narcissist but I just really want to keep the conversation going just not in the best way ie low key bragging.

  • @lotemnagar6821
    @lotemnagar6821 Před 2 lety +3

    Agree on this video

  • @shirleyohara5943
    @shirleyohara5943 Před 11 měsíci

    I think myself worth And driven outlook makes me a strong person and not matter how someone thinks about me am the person I am now

  • @sasiwimonthammakun514
    @sasiwimonthammakun514 Před 2 lety +3

    Wow ~ I love the animation of the vodeo so much ! 🌈😊✨ super cute and relaxed to watch ~
    Thank you so much for another great content
    The most difficult one for me to achieve is the last one 😂, I’m always afraid people are not going to accept who I really am. I think the problem is I’m not so proud of me and I need to fix it by being my own bestie 🌼🌼🌼 l love you me ( fake it until we make it !!! )

  • @moskeetees
    @moskeetees Před 2 lety +1

    Gonna send this to my friend to remind him that he is, in fact, attractive

  • @yana.rya_____
    @yana.rya_____ Před 2 lety +33

    Doing a phd in personality psychology so I feel like I can comment on this 😂 - there are some traits that are generally well liked by most people, but everyone is so different that what one might see as an attractive trait in one person is different to what someone else might think.
    For example: I really like people who are open minded but I definitely know people who don't consider open mindedness to be on top of their list! (Like my parents)

  • @elizabethwalsh3279
    @elizabethwalsh3279 Před 2 lety +7

    Personality, I think being able to talk about what I or they love is a better quality than looks. Tho looks always help, I think they always do, lol. Tho you are all perfect just the way you are, wether your personality is on or in this video or not. Your attractive in your own way, always be yourself!
    Love you all and be safe!

  • @angelfaithparba9940
    @angelfaithparba9940 Před 2 lety +3

    I was here before 30 minutes!!😳💓

  • @Yashuop
    @Yashuop Před 2 lety +12

    Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here❤️

  • @spoky1057
    @spoky1057 Před 2 lety +3

    Hi, I love your videos they helped me cope with a lot of things but I was wondering if You can talk about paranoia & overthinking, Like having the worst thoughts that someone you love might die or just when You start being ok, You suddenly have that feeling that things will turn bad again. I hope You understood what i was talking about. And thank you a lot.

  • @zalenmawiileni4750
    @zalenmawiileni4750 Před 2 lety

    I'm glad i have both ☺

  • @TheNonameHousehold
    @TheNonameHousehold Před 2 lety

    Ooh... the nose art style is back ♡

  • @bravequeen4650
    @bravequeen4650 Před 2 lety +5

    If u want to attract someone be funny and always make them laugh
    Being funny is the most fastest way to attract someone when it comes to personality

  • @14shrak
    @14shrak Před 2 lety +5

    Ok

  • @doroma967
    @doroma967 Před 2 lety +7

    I have actually have all of them- but my looks isint the best but I don’t let that bring me down Ty for the video made me realize a lot of stuff in me that is good bc I’m 15 going to 10th grade and I really needed this and confidence so Ty ❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @HeathenGranny
    @HeathenGranny Před 2 lety

    I never gave up on my inner child.

  • @glarak9819
    @glarak9819 Před 2 lety

    Could you please make a video about how to handle severe regrets in a healthy way?

  • @nanachi369
    @nanachi369 Před 2 lety +2

    whats the song in the background? I really like It! is very calming

  • @arielmaule
    @arielmaule Před 2 lety +1

    Nice content.

  • @fiskitti
    @fiskitti Před 2 lety +2

    love the anime music in the background

  • @gracegarner9311
    @gracegarner9311 Před 2 lety

    It was a gamble coming here and boy did I lose

  • @katrinarobinson1037
    @katrinarobinson1037 Před 2 lety +1

    4:40 THE SPONGEBOB REFERENCE💛💛💛

  • @ritaaaaaaa
    @ritaaaaaaa Před 2 lety +2

    infp here !!

  • @asadickens9353
    @asadickens9353 Před 2 lety +1

    The only time i stole silverware is when a friend needed a fork to eat food and they had covid. So i stole a fancy fork from a restaurant in ibiza to deliver it to them…. I have a terrible personality D:

  • @kaitoshion6982
    @kaitoshion6982 Před 2 lety

    For No. 2: I am typically “kind to the waiter”, but cannot hold back what I believe in even if it’s unpopular, not to mention I hate small talk. When some people just tell me “hey” or “how’s it going?”, I really want to skip it, or not do I over and over again. I don’t like to talk to people just for the sake of talking. I’ve been told this is due to my introversion, social awkwardness, Major Depressive Disorder, but most peculiarly my “neurally atypical” brain. I seek information, ideas, and action, I don’t want a foundation in a relationship just built on pleasantries… is there something wrong with me?