The over-stimulation as a mom, especially to young kids, is REAL!!! And definitely exacerbated by a hubby who is NOT quiet. Been there experienced it, and still not over it.😂 I first noticed it one day driving in the car alone. Partway through the drive I realized that I hadn’t put the radio on…made me realize I had reached a new point in my life where peace & quiet was now a blessing….sometimes necessary for mental health.
I drive home in silence almost everyday. I have 4 teenage girls and all I get on a daily basis is drama. My peace and quiet on the car ride home is a blessing. And my drive is not long enough. 😂
Amen, girl! That stimulation max can bring out the ugly in us when, as you said, tapping, chewing, clicking and sound machines are the tipping point. Especially when there are conflicting noises! Being awake when hubby is snoring and my child, who is sleeping in between us, is snoring too. I feel your pain!
She's so hilarious! She says "I feel like Al Roker, the weather guy from the Today show" then her description of the"It's a gusty 50 mph wind , grab your rain jacket and parkas" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love it!!! I love how you said “My wife is mad at me” And then Abby is immediately “I’M PISSED!” And then she’s immediately laughing and then she’s going on abt how’s she’s at her tipping point.
I love how happy abby has become! Abbys back to being abby as a mother of one I know that 1st time mom feeling and it took me alot longer to find my self and it makes me so happy to see abby happy and her self again ❤
@@monika-1315 I wish it was, but it's inside the pump, you can literally see her nipple pumping back and forth, around 17-18 seconds in. They should take this video down, I don't know how they missed it.. such a weird time to be filming her anyways, like put the camera down..
@@sarahswizzle5567what’s so offensive and inappropriate about a nipple anyway? You’re focussing on seconds of a video where you really actually have to be looking for it to see it. Their job is content creation and the content here was a relatable point about overstimulation which a lot of people seem to be relating with. So job well done! 👏
Love you guys always going to get a good laugh for sure 😅 I thought a sound machine was only used for babies to help them fall asleep 😴 Thank goodness they were not around when i had my 6 children , honestly it would have done my head in . I understand Abby completely ❤❤
Over stimulation is soooooo real. Physical, sound, mental. I have 2 under 2 and I feel like I’m constantly hearing eating, crying, snoring, playing, sound machines, constantly getting tugged on. While I love it, over stimulation is so real 🫠🫠🫠
Omw I feel this! I never realised how sound sensitive I was until I became a mom!😂 I highly recommend Flare Calmer ear plugs, they have changes my life!
I love you guys “I’m pissed” got me laughing so loud but Matt wanting to hear the sound of thunder and lightning got me laughing even more bc they are the same thing!!
i’m audhd and i get overstimulated easily. i don’t have children, i know i can’t handle it. the overstimulation causes visceral rage and sometimes i cry because it is so overwhelming. and having a husband that is also always making some type of noise doesn’t help at all 😂😂 we still love them though ❤
This feeling is so real. When my 2 youngest are stomping through the house screaming at each other, and then my oldest son decides that's a good time to start beat boxing or hitting some random thing against the wall..... I lose my shit
The sound machine is most often used to create "white noise" to help someone including children relax & fall asleep. Just like a baby swing can help a baby get to sleep. But the draw back to leaving it on or leaving the baby in the swing is that they will habituate to it. Just like we as adults dont usually hear the AC cut off & on. 😊😊
Agreed. Noise pollution is a thing! I crave silence and it's bothersome when those around me always want to interrupt my peace with their desire to have some type of background noise going at all times. Seriously, even when going to bed and sleeping through the night 🙉 like, ah, no!
I understand the overstimulation as a mom!! Thats why I felt so much better when I slept in a room seperate from baby after 8 months. Finally restful sleep. Finally silence.
We have 4 window units in our house that are very loud and have a hum that drives me nuts if the TV is on and our 3 little kids runnjng around, i wasnt to scream and run away lol
I always forget to turn the sound machine off (ADHD - hyperfocus on something else) and then get over stimulated by it too. I sympathize with you both lol
Oh my goodness! You have the nicest hospital grade pump. How did you make the decision to splurge? I wanted it, but couldn't make myself take the plunge.
As soon as my child wakes up I instantly turn off the sound machine I can’t handle the sound of it when he’s not sleeping. Plus isn’t it wasting battery and energy to leave it on all day? You just gotta click a button it’s easy
I used to live In Arizona, and I remember it this storm was soo BADDD I got blown away at like 90 pounds lol, I remember lots of thunder but only certain times of the year
Omg her feelings about the noise stimulation is so valid!
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‘I’M PISSED’ got me 😂😂😂
love you guys bye 🫶🏻🫶🏻
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@@KTKLCPissed isn’t a cuss word…
“Grab your rain jackets and your parkas!!” 🤣🤣 Love you Matt and Abby!! ❤️🫶🏻
The over-stimulation as a mom, especially to young kids, is REAL!!! And definitely exacerbated by a hubby who is NOT quiet. Been there experienced it, and still not over it.😂
I first noticed it one day driving in the car alone. Partway through the drive I realized that I hadn’t put the radio on…made me realize I had reached a new point in my life where peace & quiet was now a blessing….sometimes necessary for mental health.
I drive home in silence almost everyday. I have 4 teenage girls and all I get on a daily basis is drama. My peace and quiet on the car ride home is a blessing. And my drive is not long enough. 😂
@@jaythom107 😂😂
@@jaythom107😂😂😂😂
Both of my boys are raised and gone, and I am STILL thankful for when hubby goes to work! 😂
Amen, girl! That stimulation max can bring out the ugly in us when, as you said, tapping, chewing, clicking and sound machines are the tipping point. Especially when there are conflicting noises! Being awake when hubby is snoring and my child, who is sleeping in between us, is snoring too. I feel your pain!
She's so hilarious! She says "I feel like Al Roker, the weather guy from the Today show" then her description of the"It's a gusty 50 mph wind , grab your rain jacket and parkas" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Sometimes I feel like I have reached my stimulation max” Same girl, same!! 😂😂❤❤
People pay thousands of dollars for silent retreats for a reason😂❤. Love your honesty.😮
I'm sending this to my husband. Thank you for explaining this so well Abby!
I love Abby's description of the sound machine 😂😂😂😂
“its like a circus act!” 😂😂😂
I love it!!! I love how you said “My wife is mad at me” And then Abby is immediately “I’M PISSED!” And then she’s immediately laughing and then she’s going on abt how’s she’s at her tipping point.
Abby is so cute. 🥰 She has such a great personality. ❤️
“It’s a 55 mph gust wind”.😂😂😂😂
I have watched this over and over because Abby’s forecast makes me laugh so hard 😂
“IM PISSED” Abby is so funny
I love how happy abby has become! Abbys back to being abby as a mother of one I know that 1st time mom feeling and it took me alot longer to find my self and it makes me so happy to see abby happy and her self again ❤
I felt that Al Roker impression!😅
And here in Flagstaff you can definitely get your thunder fix especially during monsoon season!
The end 😆😆 so relatable. Not about the sound machine for me, other things. But so true 😂😂
OMG Did he really say “who is Al Roaker?” 😂 you guys are so cute!!!
ooh girl i feel you on another level!!!! the overstimulation can be a huge frustration
Grab your rain jackets and parkas. Had me jumping for joy
I FEEL this in my bones. At the end of the day dealing with three kids under four I and just maxed out on noise and touch. It’s tough.
I live in KC and absolutely need the sound of rain and thunder to fall asleep. It's sooo relaxing.
😂😂OMG!!😂😂 I JUST REALIZED THAT ABBY IS PUMPING❤🤦♀️😂
And the blurring isn't working, cuz you can definitely see nipple!!😮
@@sarahswizzle5567I think it's her hand with red nails...
@@monika-1315 I wish it was, but it's inside the pump, you can literally see her nipple pumping back and forth, around 17-18 seconds in. They should take this video down, I don't know how they missed it.. such a weird time to be filming her anyways, like put the camera down..
@@sarahswizzle5567 Who cares. Get a grip
@@sarahswizzle5567what’s so offensive and inappropriate about a nipple anyway? You’re focussing on seconds of a video where you really actually have to be looking for it to see it. Their job is content creation and the content here was a relatable point about overstimulation which a lot of people seem to be relating with. So job well done! 👏
the al roker impression is amazing 😂
Matt: I wanna hear the sound of lightning
Me: ... LIGHTNING DOESNT MAKE SOUND 😅😂
Yes… it does… that’s what thunder is….
@@crystalgaming12 that’s what they’re referring to, that lightning doesn’t have a sound, thunder does ig
Thunder is the sound caused by lighting, lol so ... lighting does have sound... its called thunder 😊
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matt: my wifes mad at me
abby: IM PISSED
Yall are so funny and I love it. ❤️
"The sound of lightning"
-Matt Howard
😂
I get overwhelmed by the sound machine too! My husband doesn’t understand lol
As a mom of 2 littles, I so feel this. Sound machines, robot vacuums; it all just contributes to the constant overstimulation 😆
I love, I definitely leave both my kids sound machines on in their rooms all day😂
Love you guys always going to get a good laugh for sure 😅 I thought a sound machine was only used for babies to help them fall asleep 😴 Thank goodness they were not around when i had my 6 children , honestly it would have done my head in . I understand Abby completely ❤❤
Sound machines r supposed to b calming, but they annoy the shit out of me 😅😅
She evhoed what most of of feel 😂😂😂. Not just moms. Ahahahaah
I get extremely overstimulated too😂
Over stimulation is soooooo real. Physical, sound, mental. I have 2 under 2 and I feel like I’m constantly hearing eating, crying, snoring, playing, sound machines, constantly getting tugged on. While I love it, over stimulation is so real 🫠🫠🫠
Omw I feel this! I never realised how sound sensitive I was until I became a mom!😂 I highly recommend Flare Calmer ear plugs, they have changes my life!
As a mom of 4 and a husband who us loud, I'm with you, Abby. Too much stimulation!
I love you guys “I’m pissed” got me laughing so loud but Matt wanting to hear the sound of thunder and lightning got me laughing even more bc they are the same thing!!
i’m audhd and i get overstimulated easily. i don’t have children, i know i can’t handle it. the overstimulation causes visceral rage and sometimes i cry because it is so overwhelming. and having a husband that is also always making some type of noise doesn’t help at all 😂😂 we still love them though ❤
I can’t keep my sound machine on all the time because I WILL fall back asleep😅
I can relate. I have 4 kids and it can get LOUD!
Abby’s face is like “can you believe this guy”😂
matt and abby i know you’re probably not going to see this but i love yalls videos so much and y’all inspire me so much!!i love y’all!!!🫶🏼🫶🏼
LMAOOOOO it’s a GUSTY 50MPH WIND 🤣 GRAB UR RAIN JACKET ! i audibly lmaod
Why does she look like a really good mix of Debbie and Fiona!!!
I agree, so much. I immediately turn off the sound machine when I walk in my son's room... thankfully it's my alexa so I don't have to press anything.
LMAO Abby is hilarious
Is nobody going to acknowledge that they are having this argument while Abby is pumping? Women multitasking AGAIN for the win 🏆
The fact that someone doesn't know who Al Roker is......
Hearing the sound of lightning??? 🤔 Lol!
That’s what thunder is
Thunder is the sound of lighting 😊
That look at the end. It looks like she was really thinking about it....
No girl, the kids broke it😉
Shes cute, let her rule the house!
Our sound machine has been on for almost 2 years hahaha
The Circus is all the dang noise. I feel ya 😅
Abby I LOVE your pants so much❤
I completely understand what you mean. I can't stand getting overstimulated by noise.
This feeling is so real. When my 2 youngest are stomping through the house screaming at each other, and then my oldest son decides that's a good time to start beat boxing or hitting some random thing against the wall..... I lose my shit
The sound machine is most often used to create "white noise" to help someone including children relax & fall asleep. Just like a baby swing can help a baby get to sleep. But the draw back to leaving it on or leaving the baby in the swing is that they will habituate to it. Just like we as adults dont usually hear the AC cut off & on. 😊😊
Haha you guys are the best! I just subscribed! Keep on making these vids ❤
Abby is SO FUNNY she made me laugh so hard 🤣
For love of Abby make her happy ❤❤❤ you are quite good at it Mr Matt get too it 😂
My husband and I keep the sound machine in our room on 24/7.
I'm team sound machine. Can't live without mine.
MATTS HAIR IS GROWING BACK
How are these people so clueless? No wonder her parents moved in to take care of the kids.
Clueless??? Explain!!!
Lol love your videos ❤❤
I've been a preschool teacher for 18 years, my stimulation radar is also very low 😂
Arizona is too hot! Lived there 7 years and got burnt so many times even with sunscreen !🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you guys are the cutest couple😊
Someone get Matt a sound machine with a timer PLEASE
I feel you Abby. I feel you.
Hi Matt and Abby, you guys are my favorite youtbers and yall are so funny.
Also, Early gang!
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"I just heard our child scream."
"Sometimes I just wanna rip it out of the wall snd throw it."
Never take these sentences out of context 😂
I feel the same way.
Can we all just talk about how moms get over stimulated...
My husband leaves it on too! I don't get it 😂
I love you You guys are the best❤❤❤❤
She got 3 kids fs 😂
I agree we moms need quiet sometimes
Agreed. Noise pollution is a thing! I crave silence and it's bothersome when those around me always want to interrupt my peace with their desire to have some type of background noise going at all times. Seriously, even when going to bed and sleeping through the night 🙉 like, ah, no!
I understand the overstimulation as a mom!! Thats why I felt so much better when I slept in a room seperate from baby after 8 months. Finally restful sleep. Finally silence.
I'm pissed! 😡. 😂😂😂😂😂❤
Noise cancelling headphones 🎧 (a sweet escape from sound)
Not Al Roker🤣🤣🤣
We have 4 window units in our house that are very loud and have a hum that drives me nuts if the TV is on and our 3 little kids runnjng around, i wasnt to scream and run away lol
I always forget to turn the sound machine off (ADHD - hyperfocus on something else) and then get over stimulated by it too. I sympathize with you both lol
Abby 🤣
I couldn’t agree more 🤣
EARPLUGS ABBY ❤ its a game changer
Idk how any parent uses a sound machine because of this exact reason. It raises my anxiety to have that noise running 😅
I agree, we are so overstimulated by children's noise😂
Yes!!!! Mine leaves the fan on all day. We use it as white noise at night. Fantastic for sleeping. Horrible during yhe day
We leave our kids sound machines on all the time 😂😂
My house is naturally noisy: no sound machine needed. It would be thrown out the window.
Oh my goodness! You have the nicest hospital grade pump. How did you make the decision to splurge?
I wanted it, but couldn't make myself take the plunge.
As soon as my child wakes up I instantly turn off the sound machine I can’t handle the sound of it when he’s not sleeping. Plus isn’t it wasting battery and energy to leave it on all day? You just gotta click a button it’s easy
I agree with you, Abby! We live in a world full of noise pollution & it drives me crazy 😑
I used to live In Arizona, and I remember it this storm was soo BADDD I got blown away at like 90 pounds lol, I remember lots of thunder but only certain times of the year