Finding Love in a Destroyed Marriage
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- čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
- Brandie and Dustin married at a young age and never really developed a strong foundation for their marriage. As they each put more emphasis on career above one another, Brandie entered into an affair with a coworker.
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My wife left me more than a month ago and everytime I think about the hurt of being left behind I turned to God. Maybe the pain I am experiencing now is beyond words but I trust God to work on me, to work on my spouse. When the time comes that our marriage is restored we will be better than ever. Because no relationship is beyond repair with God.
Awesome testimony! Days before our 5th wedding anniversary my wife revealed that she had an affair. It has been a little over a year and God has completely restored our marriage! Just as God loves us, someone was going to love my wife regardless of what she has done. I decided it was going to be me! We are now looking forward to the birth of our first child together! Be encouraged, your marriage can be restored!
Matt i told my husband about one i was involved in that i ended. how long was it before restoration, he said he never will trust me again and never wants to be with me, which I rebuke. I realized what I did was wrong and want our marriage restored. Hes not saved, were you saved when your wife told you? How long was it before your marriage was restored.
Thank you for sharing Matt! With God anything is possible! Have a blessed week :)
Has your wife done anything to prevent future affairs?
I am praying I could meet people like this to help me through my marriage separation. I live in Sacramento too. Praying God sends me godly people to help me
If God can do it for this couple, he’s able to do it for me. Glory to the name of our God!
Hope it worked out for you.
Amen
Just wanted to follow up, how did it end up? If u can please share. Got bless you and stay strong
Dustin, I'm in your shoes. He still looks so hurt. And no, it's not about your sins vs her sins. If she effed some guy in your own house or was gallivanting around hotels with the AP while you took care of the kids, you have to live with that ghost for the rest of your life. It will haunt you to no end
I really admire you. For forgiving your wife . I personally am not strong enough to forgive my wife if she would ever stray from me . I truly believe trust is key in a marriage,without it there is nothing. I've been married for 22 years n it's been amazing, thanks to his blessings each n everyday. thank you for sharing your story
great white shark no real man would do that be proud u r a real man
Please pray for my husband and I. He left me and our two children over two months ago. we miss him so much! I have been praying daily, asking, begging God to restore our marriage. To restore our hearts, our love for one another. I am trusting the Lord. His Will be done! There is power in the blood! Take over, Lord! Amen!
Dear Brittany, thank you for reaching out to us during this difficult time. we are so sorry to hear about this but It is so inspiring to see your faith and trust in the Lord! We encourage you to keep on putting your family in His hands, For He knows your hearts desires and He knows what is best for you. Today We are praying for peace, restoration and comfort for your family. We would also love to pray with you over the phone, please feel free to call us on 0300 561 0700. Our prayer line is open from 8am to 8pm (Monday to Friday) and 8am to 12.30pm on Saturdays. We wish you a blessed week and we would love to keep in touch with you to see how you and your family are doing. blessings!
HopeAtLast.com. this has helped me
How are u
How are things now?
Hope you are well now? Please do you still use this line?
God is good. I am praying for my husband gone home and God restore my Marrige in Jesus name plz pray for me
Can someone pray as we are already separated due to my own fault. Now i need my ex wife badly after realizing deep down my heart. Im broken. I asked her to come back now she has moved on to new relationship cz of me as I rejected her initially & insisted for separation, now unable to move on. I want her back. Please
I’ll pray for you. It’s been a year, how’s it going?
I am struggling so hard for 2 years to forgive 4 years of lies. I'm dead inside
Hi Mary, It sounds like you have had a really tough time. We are praying for you and here if you would ever like someone to pray with you. Our Hope line can be contacted on 0300 561 0700. We'd love to stand with you in this.
please pray for my marriage. I step out of my marriage and my wife wants a divorce. It's been a year that we have been separated. I need a miracle. please pray for Anthony and Nicki White
Hi Anthony. Thank you for commenting. We pray for peace over your situation. Our God is a good God and he will always provide! blessings :)
My body was heating up reading your prayer. The Lord is answering! Please be patient and keep your eyes fixed on Him :)
im grieving my wife...I was faithful but I didnt show my appreciation
Start showing it with overwhelming love and patience. It’s never too late to do the right thing
This gives me hope
Please pray for God to restore marriage soon! He has told me he will restore it! He has called me to stand for marriage even though my husband and I have been divorced since Feb of 2017. Please pray pray!!
Hi what happened in your marriage?
Beauty from ashes
Amen!
Thank God for His Grace🙏
Omg I love this testimony thank you for sharing ❤️ 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
Thank you. Plz pray for my marrige restoration and we have the peace of jesus in our life. God bless you and pray I love the lord more then my husband or anyone. God bless you
Hi Luna, we are praying for you. We pray for the peace of God to fill your life! God bless you!
Thank you so much my god bless you and you're familly
What a gut wrenching story… However, she is one of the few wives who has been unfaithful that I’ve seen on the stories that has described her activity as “horrible”. She did not seem to try to gloss over it or anything. She seemed sincere. However, you can see the brokenness in his eyes. :/ Hopefully, for his sake, and even for hers, she is truly broken and disgusted by what she did and he is truly able to forgive her and look past it and maybe even forget it. Part of me wonders if the child is the only thing holding that marriage together. We all know that the marriage starts in this hill through the love of the husband and wife and that a marriage held onto for child sake will and as soon as the child moves on. Hopefully this is not the case here. Hopefully it is a true story of love and complete redemption in the Lord.
I think too that new child is keeping them together, and the Grace of God of course. In all the cases that I've seen when is the christian wife who commits adultery they never express the renewal of the love for their husbands. It is always the renewal of their connection with God, which is amazing and laudable but as a man I guess it is what we have to endure to achieve the restoration of the holy union.
HELL no!!! When I see GOD.it's gonna be yes am still SINGLE.I thanks it's better than being married to a lie
Thank you my god bless you
I did everything praying and fasting still nothing he is gone 6 months and I don't know what to do but pray. I am loosing my faith in God
Luna Mohamed if you are praying, and letting the tears fall....God is speaking, the quiet still voice inside of you!!!! You must keep the faith, and see your victory in advance. .... thank the Most High as if you have already received restoration in YOUR MARRIAGE....THE CHANGE STARTS WITH YOU!....Be encouraged!
Mine has been gone a year. He actually has another woman , trailer lol , and child on the way. Yet God each time I try my husband is on my heart ! Lift your heart and know this is a time for you and God !
Luna Mohamed
I don't know if you are still going through the separation with your husband. But I want you to know that my husband to had left my kids and I for 6 months... I had to really stand strong in my faith. And just to know that God is faithful even when our spouse wasn't. I prayed for my husband and read scriptures for how I wanted him to treat me and the kids. And it seemed like it got darker and darker. But I kept believing that with God all things are possible. While he was away he cheated twice.. and I saw everything. There was a song I sang to the lord "even when it hurts like hell I'll praise you" and even going through everything God used me to pour love to someone who was hurting my kids and I ...I worshiped and praised God believing that my husband was coming home even though he had not yet physically come back and was living with the other woman God was with me every step of the way. Don't loose hope and walk in love. Because love conquers all things. And then the day came where he started changing toward me and the kids and then God gave us our miracle and brought him home. He is now a better husband than ever before. And we love each other deeper now... don't give up hope
Alyssa Juarez thank you for sharing your testimony, I'm standing for my marriage and reading your testimony further inspired me....To God be all the Glory!!!! I will share my testimony when Jesus sends my husband home!!! what scriptures did you use? God bless you and your union!!!!!!!!#praisereport
Tanara Reynolds I'm so glad! It is hard to stand! But God numbed the pain enough to get me through it. I can't really explain it. It felt like forever. But God is a good father. And he will walk with you every step of the way. There is a scripture God had showed me and it helped me to understand what was going on. That we are not fighting against human. Wing we are fighting against the evil in this world. Your spouse isn't evil and isn't who is hurting you it's the devil masked behind your spouses face. My husband has. Even home for 7 months now and he cherishes me more than ever before. And tells me I showed him Gods light when he was in a dark place. It's still hard because of the hurt. But I know God is bigger than the hurt and will heal just like he brought my husband home. Prayers being sent your way. Never give up. And fight in prayer! God is amazing and he won't diappoint
Thank you. My God bless you. I missy husband. I don't know what gods telling me or how the holly spirit works. I am happy you are doing good. I have good people praying for me and I am praying and don't know what else I can do this point. My god keep family's together and make our marriage victory. Jesus and the father is all I have and mother merry. Love and light to you. Merry Christmas I pray good news to come to us. Gods time
Lumina hon, mother merry is not alive.. Jesus is! he is the way, the truth, the life.. no one gets to the Father except through him.. pray to father God,Jesus and the Holy Spirit (spirit of God that comes and lives in us he is our teacher and comforter 💜 read the New Testament by yourself and the Holy Spirit to travels truth to you . 💜 I’m praying for your marriage in Jesus name
Thank you for the story. It's hopeful
I pray he is coming back to you. Stay in faith pray I am still waiting my husband come home in gods time and if God wants for me to let go I will I am open to gods blessing in my life it's new year and I want the blessing of God. We deserve love true love and husbands who want to be whit us and God will give us this whit or whit out our husbands. Love you my sister if there is anything I can help you whit
Thank you for sharing! This blessed me!
We are so glad this impacted you! blessings.
I need a miracle
We are praying for you Steve!
Me too.
Thank you for sharing. God bless you.
Thanks for commenting! God Bless!
Thank you
@ everyone did your spouse come back and you guys reconciled?
God bless you
Hmmm
What happened to the other couple
Please pray for my marriage. My husband left me and my kids. It's been so hard.
PK Pink dont lose hope..pray
edpeciehumana yes, I've been praying my husband to come back. Can you please pray for me too thank you
The Lord Jesus Christ loves you unconditionally!!!
Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me
Thank you for reading.
The Lord bless you and keep you; The Lord make His face shine upon you, And be gracious to you; The Lord lift up His countenance upon you, And give you peace
Have a good day! Amen in Jesus Christ precious name.
In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you
Master, which is the great commandment in the law?
Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
This is the first and great commandment.
And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.
Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.
My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:
And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.
Delight thyself also in the Lord: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.
Bless the Lord, O my soul: and all that is within me, bless his holy name.
Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits:
Who forgiveth all thine iniquities; who healeth all thy diseases;
Shew me the tribute money. And they brought unto him a penny.
And he saith unto them, Whose is this image and superscription?
They say unto him, Caesar's. Then saith he unto them, Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar's; and unto God the things that are God's.
For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not.
Which of you convinceth me of sin? And if I say the truth, why do ye not believe me?
He that is of God heareth God's words: ye therefore hear them not, because ye are not of God.
Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it. And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not.
Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.
Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
The light of the body is the eye: if therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light. But if thine eye be evil, thy whole body shall be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in thee be darkness, how great is that darkness!
No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon. Thou shalt have no other gods before me.
Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me;
And shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments. Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain; for the Lordwill not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain. Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy.
Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work:
But the seventh day is the sabbath of the Lord thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, thy manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within thy gates:
For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: herefore the Lord blessed the sabbath day, and hallowed it.
Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.
Thou shalt not kill. Thou shalt not commit adultery. Thou shalt not steal.
Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour.
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's. He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength.
Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall:
But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:
Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.
For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.
My brethren, be not many masters, knowing that we shall receive the greater condemnation. For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body. Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body. Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and aredriven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor listeth. Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth! And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind: But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be. Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter? Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh.
Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things.
But we are sure that the judgment of God is according to truth against them which commit such things. And thinkest thou this, O man, that judgest them which do such things, and doest the same, that thou shalt escape the judgment of God? Or despisest thou the riches of his goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance?
But after thy hardness and impenitent heart treasurest up unto thyself wrath against the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God;
Who will render to every man according to his his deeds:
To them who by patient continuance in well doing seek for glory and honour and immortality, eternal life: But unto them that are contentious, ot obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, indignation and wrath,
Tribulation and anguish, upon every soul of man that doeth evil, of the Jew first, and also of the Gentile;
But glory, honour, and peace, to every man that worketh good, to the Jew first, and also to the Gentile:
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God. Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you
Depart from evil, and do good; seek peace, and pursue it. Fear God
Amen
Hi Luna, we hope you are well. Please keep us updated with any prayer requests you may have as we would love to continue praying with you! Have a blessed day :)
He was a predetor
What an amazing way to make infidelity acceptable. Bravo Brandi!!!!
Thank you my god bless you