🔴 Less painful breakups
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- čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
- In my experience the WORST breakups I’ve had, were the ones where I didn’t clearly understand why it ended… The games. The distance. The unanswered questions. The words left unsaid. The feeling of it being “too late”. The closure I'll NEVER get… In other words, where I felt that one (or both of us) weren’t being transparent with each other, and we gave up and just moved on... In this LIVESTREAM, I talk about what I tried to do in my later relationships to make the breakups LESS painful.
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DATE: 7-JULY-2024
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“You need to find something more important than women”
This is vital and I wish every guy would take it in and try to apply it to their life … but they won’t .. I see guy after guy that get even a little attention from a woman and he’s just gone and every ounce of his energy is geared towards her. They dive in and look past all red flags and if they start dating - they are just shocked that it didn’t work out
A solid take. I've noticed that at the end of my past relationships when things got shaky, the both of us seemed to change character almost overnight. Either In attempt to please the other, or hurt the other. Yet it was the most transparent, poor act you could imagine, and we both knew it.
Interesting
In the end, survival mode kicks in and can be very unpredictable... unfortunately, it's often not very civilized... (I've been there myself).
Toxic people and relationships, where you have to dance to their tune, push/pull dynamics, create more intense emotions, trauma bonding, which make you addicted to the other person and very difficult to break up.
Results matter. Women and men train each other with results. Certain traits are dealbreakers.
I think unfortunately while we think we know who we are, as a person, we don't know who we are as a couple, which in a lot of ways more difficult.
True, but the closest we can get is talking directly to each other. That's the only way I can 'square things off' for myself.
Well… I‘m all in for speaking out in sincerity, as far as speaking out at all. But… communication is factored in by all sides involved, and contextual conditions maybe. Thus, what I verbalise as clearly | rationally as can won‘t necessarily be what another side understands, based on latter’s predisposition, and expectations. This holds even more devastatingly, when (as for most xx.ine utterances) gents can‘t give much on words spoken or written, but needs to observe behaviours + conduct instead. And as for all that, respect and trust always are to be earned (to be of any value), and granted eventually, in adherence to current observer‘s valuation frame. possibly, latter is benevolently pre-disposed for coexistence | collaboration - but as deep as intergænder antagonism has come now, one shouldn‘t put too much of a bet on it.
Didnt get an alert for this one earlier. Im gonna check my settings
Do you have the 'top' bell activated on my channel?
@huMANs_channel yes, I double checked a little while ago
hmm...I just right now got an alert for this on Sunday morning USA time.
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