53. Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
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- čas přidán 10. 04. 2024
- This week, Deepti and Natalie dig into the intriguing topic of infidelity. From dissecting the public drama of Brittany Snow and Tyler Stanaland's alleged cheating scandal to sharing the latest in Natalie's saga with the infamous ”New York Boy," the duo leaves no stone unturned. Tune in as they also take shocking submissions from listeners exploring their personal experiences with cheaters and cheating.
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“Don’t cheat - just break off the relationship!” 💯
Deepti is 5’2”! She looks 5’8” to me. Even when I watched her season, I thought she was taller
What's wrong with 5,2 in comparison to 5,8 for a female 😂
Thank goodness Natalie is honest. Deepti is trying to placate the listeners .
I grew up like Deepti and understand 100% of not bringing anyone around unless you’re going to marry them. I finally introduced someone at 31
I love Natalie's dry response to Deepti's singing and her Cubs jacket 😂 Deepti is so cute 🥰
I love Natalie's personality LOL "Here we go, with the backwards hat" hahahahaha
Yeah… no, I’m with Natalie. There is zero excuse for cheating. If that’s the direction you go in for whatever reason, even relational dissatisfaction or whatever, you’re shitty.
I agree. It’s an excuse to not do the hard thing and leave.
I believe when I enter a relationship I am very up front with my zero tolerance. No cheaters, no smokers etc. This sets up my expectations and boundaries.
Well I’m glad your life is so black and white and it’s just so easy for you to do this. It’s not always even possible to just leave. Life is complicated sometimes and things happen.
@@philmccracken2534 It’s not like the options are leave OR cheat. You are responsible for yourself. Always. If you feel you can’t leave for some reason, regardless of what else is going on there is no excuse to cheat.
@@racheljane_ You’re very naive.
Beards are also a guys’ makeup 🤣
True that!!
Look forward to listening every week!
“Leave my community alone!” 😂
My favorite part of the whole episode. I laughed so hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hot Take - I think the girl who cheated on her ex 7 times deserves some grace. I also think the ex coming to warn the current BF was messy AF. It’s not exactly a selfless act to “warn” new people about your ex.
It is obviously bad what the girl did, but she didn’t do it to her current partner. If she’s in therapy and hasn’t done anything wrong in her current relationship, I don’t see what the problem is. How long should she be exiled from relationships because of what she did to one guy? Obviously, if she does cheat on her current boyfriend he has every right to dumb her.
Genuinely curious, would you take the same stand for a man who cheated. Like for example New York Boy. No judgement, just very interested in your opinion
@@MartinaFerra Gender doesn’t make a difference here. If the hypothetical guy in this situation is in therapy and he’s not cheating on his current partner, he deserves grace. I don’t think people should just become written off from having any future romantic relationships ever because of infidelity
@@TheJadedJamesI phrased my question incorrectly, I apologize. What I meant was would you accept New York Boy going on about his dating life with a new partner knowing the details Natalie provided about him in the video. Regarding your general point I agree that people should be able to get second chances
Love your podcast and simply enjoy your conversation simply just flows. Thank you so much
I love Deepti's laugh , she has amazing sense of humour ❤
The couple where the girl cheated, because partner was not giving her what she needed physically....I think this would have been a good opportunity to discuss open relationships, and how that could have been an option for this couple. For her to explore physical intimacy outside of the relationship openly with her partner knowing. Deepti mentioned her partner could have had low self confidence, but he could also just be asexual, and not require physical intimacy. Or maybe has other sexual preferences that he hasn't explored. I love your podcast, This was such a great discussion!!
It doesn’t matter what everybody thinks. This is why couples should defined what is considered cheating for the each other. Set boundaries.
Hey, you have a typo in the description, it says "Next York Boy", not "New York Boy" :)
I read it as onto the next :)
Thank you! We updated it :)
Omgg not the babies on season 30😂😂
More like season 70 with how many they are doing🤣🤣
Love this podcast so much I always hurry to listen u guys😅💕 my personal girl talk time!!
Love you girls!! Are you going to interview anyone from the last season on your show?
The girl who cheated 7 times, I'm pretty sure she was never in a real relationship with any of the guys. She was just sleeping around and not commiting. Maybe there was some sort of miscommunication.
The woman that cheated with seven men needs serious therapy! This is crazy! We need more explanation and details.
She went to therapy and proved that to her partner. I feel like if she is remorseful, she deserves A chance.
Listening from Aussie land love you both 🌺🌺🌺
Y’all are so funny🤣. I can’t bring myself to pay for apps either!!!
singer/music teacher here! it’s totally possible to learn how to sing :) hehe
love your podcast ❤❤
I would love for you guys to do an episode on distorted thinking. For the pod bestie who has someone who cheated on an ex with 7 guys, I think it comes down to figuring out what is reality. They don't have to discount the positive but it would benefit them to figure out what is reality and what is the potential to happen. How they in his relationship is real, but there's also a real past and truth to the pattern. They can love this person but also go forward knowing they have a higher potential of having poor coping mechanisms.
Wow coffee 5.99 in Chicago I thought things in Texas were cheaper my coffee is like 9.88 😮
Here’s what I don’t get from Deepti, on one hand you’re saying you reconsidered because you saw him as your husband and on the other hand you say you were unsure about him after multiple years. You cannot have both. Is always either one or another. my perspective comes because I lived through something similar were I was the person someone else was unsure of. Love the podcast!
Can you guys cover the upcoming season of selling Oc? Coming soon.
The serial cheater... they should try couples therapy if they do decide to go on with the relationship. There's a lot to unpack with that fiance..
I don’t enjoy watching anyone doing anything mostly 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Great timing just found out my bf was cheating on me lol!!!!! In midterm season!!
Noo😭
LIB Sweden does have a couple that had the female much taller than her pick. Now they are married and have a kid on their way🙈
There was some research done I think saying short men are better partners! Lol
17:36 was exactly my reaction after i watched selling the oc & googled everything
anyway, Brittany Snow 💅
I dislike baseball with a passion lol but I agree with Deepti about the backwards hat!
The backward hat ... Every time my boyfriend wears it this way I love him even more 😂
And I look like a postman when I wear a hat ...... 🙃
Omg ladies your views on cheating are disturbing to say the least. People who cheat they cheat because they want to cheat , this is not something that done by accident. Those who cheat lack a moral compass and they don’t respect or value you , once a cheater is always a cheater .
I will say though I don’t think a cheater is always a cheater. I’ve cheated before and I wouldn’t cheat at all in my current relationship. Maybe the person needs to grow and be in a different relationship but a person can evolve and change.
@@Jess_cool25 You are 100% right.
$2.99 shipping LOL girl math
No judgement but...backwards caps, lip rings, and tattoos? Girl. I feel like your subconscious has stories to tell. Stay safe please!
Maybe seven years of therapy will help 😂
Tayler always flirted with Alex, but I guess he cheated on his wife with Polly, when they secretly kissed and Kayla found out. He's an idiot
I NEED you and Sam from “Locked on Cubs” to meet! He is more pessimistic like Natalie and I think Deepti and him would vibe so much! Ugh I just want y’all to meet in the bleachers and have your backward hat love story!
Baseball is the ONLY sport i like. GO CUBBIES
Natalie has no idea what she is talking about! Good god! Who are you to pass judgement about people that you don’t even know, SHUT UP PLEASE!!! Deepti is soo right, so empatic and so in the right mindset, I salute you girl❤️
First ❤
Hot Take - I think the girl who cheated on her ex 7 times deserves some grace. I also think the ex coming to warn the current BF was messy AF. It’s not exactly a selfless act to “warn” new people about your ex.
It is obviously bad what the girl did, but she didn’t do it to her current partner. If she’s in therapy and hasn’t done anything wrong in her current relationship, I don’t see what the problem is. How long should she be exiled from relationships because of what she did to one guy? Obviously, if she does cheat on her current boyfriend he has every right to dumb her.