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JulySummers It was very refreshing to see a normal couple with normal problems. I actually liked them both by the end of the episode. And that's pretty rare lol
you re so on point ....i love them,decent people,decent man,bills payed,gives wife allowance,has just one kid from prior relationship in college,wow,no cheating allegations....I m proud to be black now..hahahhahha...not racist comment ppls,i m just excited for them and the hope they bring to the black community.
I may be young but if my man is paying the bills and making sure our kids have a roof over our head, you best believe I'm going to feed him 🥘, clean the house 🏡, put the kids to bed 👨👩👧👦, & when he gets home we're gonna be rocking the sheets .... quietly 🤐 while the kids are sleep 😴😂😂😂
Girl you're a stay at home mom. It takes 10 minutes to throw something in a crock pot. It takes 5 minutes to throw clothes in the washer and dryer. She just needs a schedule! Her time management skills probably suck.
@@lovinmycurvescurls3842 It doesn't sound like the kids are out of control. It sounds like she does spend quality time with them. Teaching them and caring for them. She could cook and still do that, I agree. The husband did not say anything about her parenting.
She doesn't have a problem she is just trying to create one. She needs to take care of her damn man and grow the hell up. If he starts eating elsewhere then she is going to have a problem. She is using a washing machine for crying out loud.
I don't see "sexist" coming from him. Although I'm not a woman. But dang if he's working 10-12 and taking care of the house when he comes in that's not sexist at all.
I agree and I’m a woman and there’s only 24 hours in a day if he’s working 12 of them then coming home cooking doing laundry spending time with the kids when is he supposed to sleep and she talking about woo me, he did by paying all the bills and taking care of the house now handle business with this man before he handle it with somebody else! Period!!
I agree. When he said “12” hours, I turned my head to the woman. Lady said she’s not working, I assume she’s a home maker/housewife. With the way she talks, I thought she was working too! But nope, just creating a problem from a simple expectation of a man looking forward to a clean house and a hot meal after sacrificing half a day, every day to feed his fam and pay for the bills AND her vanity. If I was her, I’d welcome him home with a foot rub too!
I absolutely loved them, this episode was enjoyable. They were a breath of fresh air from the recent couples. They had regular relationship issues, loved that no one mentioned abuse, cheating or side babies.
Donald Neil Yeah I don't think he's sexist, I just think that she doesn't know how to express that she doesn't like his expectations of her. She definitely has a lot to learn. But they both seem like nice folks so I hope it works out.
I'm a little late to the party, but she's trippin'. There's no reason for him to be working 10 hour shifts and still coming home to cook food and do laundry. Start pulling your weight ma'am....
I totally agree. Side note. She need to stop wearing that dark eyeshadow it make her look like raccoon and she looks old enough at 29. She just don't need that
I find her selfish. She speaks and acts like she doesn't owe him anything. Since she's the woman and taking care of the kids he owes her to always accommodate her and not expect the same in return. o.O
+Ge MIIO, And THAT is the problem. She wants the title without the responsibility. Shoot, I know mothers who have to tend to the children, cook, clean, work outside of the home, and they still make time to cook a few meals here and there. It is doable if you prioritize.
Ge MIIO right, that's really what it sounds like. she didn't sound like she actually really appreciated him much at all, but I think she's just a lil bit young minded. He def is a good man and I think she is a good woman and mom, but she has more growing to do.
Why can't she do the house duties if she staying at home? How about all the other parents that do it and work...how long does it take to bake some meat and prepare a side dish with vegetables? If she can't handle the kids, she shouldn't have got pregnant. The judge is so right...she is a consumer and needs to shop intelligently. She should try to find a way to make her own money. She would feel better about feeling like a child and be able to save and do more in the future for the children. He needs to be more romantically and fulfill her sexual needs. Wishing them well.
+drlovie, You just summed it all up perfectly. I understand that having to care for three children under the age of 3 is taxing. However, if you have time to go on shopping sprees and hang out with your friends you've got time to nuke your hardworking man a meal!
Thank you! You brought up a good point too...it is just a shame. Who knows what kind of junk those kids are eating. It is parents' duties to make sure the family eats properly. It doesn't even take long to prepare meals...esp if one prepares in advance...cutting and prepping makes it easy. Crocks pots and baking pans do wonders...in addition to eating raw/steamed veggies. Food can be freshly made everyday doing that...maybe even every couple of days. Shopping and shopping...yet no income and no savings. Also, as an individual, no career...at such a young age. Anything can happen. It is great for one's dignity to make one's own money. Who wants to have to ask another human being for money...?
wow!!! i guess my mom is wonder woman and super man in one because she raise two boys and her younger siblings by her self, while she was working.......this man works 12 hrs and can't get a meal wow.
Lol she wants it all doesn't she 😂😂. This man is working hard to provide for you and your kids yes I understand that having kids is a huge job but while you are at home taking care of your kids like feeding, bathing, running errands, etc that man is at work getting money to pay for the roof over your head, food that you and the kids eat, bills, etc. Cooking isn't even that hard and this is coming from someone who didn't know how to make shit. The fact that he is willing to even help out around the house after working a 12 hour shift is a freaking blessing!!! She has a good man.
I bet if the roles were reverse and she was pulling a twelve hour shift while he neglect his household duties, she wouldn't be in the mood for romancing either. I was a stay-at-home mom with two toddlers. My husband came home to a clean house, homemade meals, always have clean clothes to wear to work, and still put it on him when he needs it. A marriage works when both party do their parts and not expect more from the other.
She's what I call The Diary of the (Single) Married Woman. She's not doing what she needs to be a wife. There's nothing wrong with having him do laundry and cook a meal every now and again, but if you're the stay at home wife, you need to take care of the house for the most part yourself. So many of these women get on this show and they start tallying up what he's doing and saying, if he's not doing this, I'm not doing that. And that's why they're in the mess they're in today. Stop keeping score and communicate and get both your needs met. There's no way in hell she can't have the house clean and meal waiting for him when he gets home, because she wouldn't accept him not coming home with half a paycheck. She's full of it.
You said it! So true. There is no reason at all. It looks like she wants to be single. Honestly their age difference may not seem like much, but it is. Also, she should have waited to have children. It would be nice to have a career, spend , save, and go out with friends.
Taking care of kids is a lot of work especially with no assistance. I can work an office job for eight hours and still not be as exhausted as I would be from being with children for less time than that. One is expected to exert more energy when you're with children. It may appear to some that it's not that overwhelming because you could sit them near a tv, ipad or computer all day but inorder to FULLY develop cognitive, social and other essential skills in children you can't just expect a gadjet to raise your children. You have to be their entertainment for lengthy periods of time. They require constant stimulation through various activities. You never get a break even to use the bathroom and your eyes have to be fixated on them at all times because they can venture away and hurt themselves. Overall, I quite enjoyed this couple. They seem to have a pretty solid foundation. Hope they are able to make things work. All the best to them.💟
+Chey C -- Yep, parents don't even get a break to use the bathroom. After I was born, my mother didn't take her next shit until I was 18 and out the house.
Too true! And at work you can converse with coworkers, laugh off stress, have stimulating interactions with people on your level. When you baby talk or try and reason with babies all day or singing nursery rhymes all day... cabin fever will come knocking!
She's just spoiled and a little immature. Marriage is in and of itself a life long commitment that requires focus and work. He has to do what I had to do, remind her that she's the reason he's working so hard. They'll be just fine.
Spoiled not. She is hood and has never seen what wife role looks like she needs to make hood use of her time during the day and let TT (single hood fri6) stay away from her home. I bet they wish they had him.
i dont think ppl understand how hard it is being a stay at home mom. you have to depend on someone else for money and to take care of you and the babies crying, fighting, pampers have to be changed, they need to learn, they have to eat, you have to clean up every 10 minutes on top of trying to keep your man happy. smh i feel her pain. thats a full time job that doesnt pay by the hour
Crock pot, air fryer , Insta pot Rotisserie chicken get it together. No hourly pay but you have what you need at least there is no side chick and outside babies. She dosen't know how blessed she is.
Yes i agree.. it's a non stop job however she needs to manage her time allot better. That man deserves a meal, clean clothes and a clean house. That doesn't mean he can't help with these duties from time to time but she should be able to handle that mostly on her own. I too am a stay at home mom/student.
LOL, she is saying she has to attend 3 kids a for the whole day which is why she can't cook for her man but I bet through out the day she is also talking nonsense on the phone, watching TV, and playing video games.
They were so freaking cute at the end. I thought she was gonna ignore the judge's advice but supposedly not. She accepted her flaws too. Now Mr. Tyson she is 29 so definitely does have some maturing to do but she's not lazy and she is in school so kudos to her. I have to say I am sooooooo proud of Mr. Tyson for changing his ways and even putting his oldest son through college once he got out of prison. Complete 360 and that doesn't happen often so I am proud of him! Ms. Tyson mature and listen to your man as far as spending habits and I won't say anything about you lacking at times in your house wife duties because 3 kids under 3 and school online !!!!!! No ma'am!!! I understand and kudos to you. But if you see this comment I will say if you put them on a schedule the house will run smoother. This is coming from someone that currently has a 1, 2, and 3 year old so just a bit of advice love. Love and respect one another, keep those wild single friends at a distance, budget that money a little better and do Judge Toler's 5sec foreplay rule and you guys will be fine. Good luck to the both of you!
well guess what.. he's bringing home the money and has to tend to his kids too. so after work he gotta work too...... you are a stay at home so TAKE CARE OF HOME. give the kids nap time and cook for your husband. I wish I could stay home and take care of the household. house would be clean. food hot. kids washed.. hell I'd have time to workout and find a side at home business to keep extra money in our pockets... she tripping.
Panther Jade I don't have kids and I work and still cook clean and my husband does the laundry we share in the household work and both have full time jobs
JulySummers I wouldn't exactly call a stay at home mom a "kept woman" the same way I wouldn't call a stay at home dad a "kept man." I'd reserve that term for people who stay in the spa all day 😂
+MartianBlues, In no way did I mean to imply that stay-at-home mothers are kept women. I was raised by one and I know they are the most hardworking people on the planet. I am referring to her outlook on how her husband treats her. This man is working 10+ hours daily, bringing home the money so she can stay at home, gives her an allowance, and he still has to come home and cook and clean AND tend to the kids? It's great that he does that (because I think it's important they dads contribute to the household in that way as well), but the fact that he HAS to is the issue.
Now I will say the hospital story I get both side ONLY because my father loves my mother but could NOT stomach childbirth!!! He damn near passes out at getting his own blood drawn so I understand. However my father is amazing and raised all 5 of us, along side our mother to be the responsible adults we are today. So although he was squeamish in the hospital delivery room once we were out he worked his ass off. But I have birthed two children of my own so like I said I understand that it is essential during childbirth to have support during and after delivery. Especially back to back. Hell if she sneezed too hard a baby might have fell out!
She has a good man, and I think if they do what the Judge says they marriage can only get stronger. I'm with Judge listen to your man concerning your spending and those friends..and with him giving more appreciation and foreplay through out the day they gone be just fine..may their union continue to be blessed!
They have 3 kids under 3!!! They're going to have to figure out how to carve out some adult time for the two of them at least once a month. Even if that means finding a baby sitter and going to sit in the parking lot at Walmart. lol Children under the age of 5 require a lot of stimulation, so it's easy to get overwhelmed and loose track of time when it's just you . She has to get them all on the same schedule, nap and clean while they're sleep, and utilize a crock pot. They'll be fine. I like them, they were quit refreshing considering everyone previous.
This lady is a perfect example of the entitlement so many women feel today. No matter how good they may have it, the just HAVE to find something to be perturbed or feel victimized about. This is sad.
Just like my wife...living with her mother, her brother and a baby when she met me..now I put her in a nice house nice cars etc & she acts like it isnt enough
She's irritating to listen to!Immature and entitled.She better count herself lucky...with that nonsense she's keeping up.He'll probably get fed up one day,then she'll act like the victim.
It's not that hard to make sure your man has something to eat when he comes home. I'm disabled and I still make sure I have a meal ready for my husband when he gets off work as well as doing our laundry and cleaning the house. If I can do it she can, just put your kids down for a nap or in a play pen in the kitchen while you cook.
Ugh. girl. I wouldn't mind having a man like him. My ex..my ex don't even wanna work, as soon as I walk through the door from work, he'll say, "what u cooking for dinner, I'm hungry." appreciate what u have!!
So Mrs Tyson, you're saying you stay home with the kids and the man can't get dinner? Damn.. So what do you feed the kids? My mother was the stay at home mom and breakfast and dinner was on the table every day and she has 6 of us. Girllll 🙄
she talking about meeting halfway.... if your only job is keeping up the household while he takes care of the finances he is meeting you halfway. God damn these women think just because your not home all day that you just bsing. step your game up woman. and what makes it worse is he's also helping her domestically
I'm assuming you missed the part where she says she is going to school. Granted it's at home, but she's just not home all day doing nothing. Kids don't work on a schedule and they could careless when toddlers if you're going to school. Unfortunately, some things end up on the back burner. She does need to do a little bit better. Possibly get some help or assistance for a couple of hours a day. Her husband does deserve a warm meal, even if he has to heat it up in the oven real quick. Make some meatloaf, mashed potatoes and broccoli. Make his plate, wrap in aluminum foil and put it in the oven on warm. He'll be thankful and she'll get what she wants too.
The decision or unspoken agreement to have 3 kids under the age of 5 automatically shuts out FUN TIME with the adult friends. That doesn't mean that life ends; it DOES however mean that you have to better prioritize. I honestly believe that she would have adored him more if he came home and had that "institutionalized frame of mind" going on. Hearing that this man was in jail during the marriage and came out and is more stand-up than a man sitting around here in society being so-called productive is a blessing. He loves her. He loves his family. He makes a way out of no way or small openings. Nothing in the whole episode implied that he was a convict; that in itself is successful and commendable. Every day I am further validated in my stance that we do NOT know what we want in this life. Here is a prime example. They will be fine though.
\\ Every day I am further validated in my stance that we do NOT know what we want in this life. // I'd love to hear you elaborate on this more...but I doubt you'll do. Your comment is from 3 years ago,lol.
so many women & men need to understand what you just said.. I literally had my wife who had nothing when I met her say we should divorce because she was basically bored..keep in mind this is after ive taken in her/ her child (when I had none at the time) , plus raised the ones we have together , put her in better living conditions than she ever had in life before me...AND my retired parents w/ grown kids took in HER brother's disrespectful teen son who paid them back by stealing from them and giving them hell....
Using the kids as an excuse tho... she can work a bit harder at making him want her...he has to come home and wash an all that... I think she be online/ social media . . nothing is wrong with that man... she lucky he still wants it fr her and not stepping out
I love it how most of the people in the comment section are young people, it is a beautiful thing that marriage is still intresting and desired. I live in a country (Finland) Where marriage is seen like a bad thing like it makes no sense and ruins things. I love african american culture. It is so similar to mine since I am originally from egypt. The way the Men treat their woman with passion respect and the women are the strongest women i've come across with the most loving hearts and still do that old school thang for each other u know. 😍😍
My mom had 7 kids ,cooked, cleaned, grew a garden and never complained . Now women have 1 and they act like they done something special. It's caused laziness.
I ABSOLUTELY love them. They don't any issue they can't overcome. They are solid and headed in the right direction. I hope they make it. #blacklove is a beautiful thang!!
They’re both very giggly, happy, and in tune to the relationship. It’s very heartwarming! They smile so much it’s hard to imagine them with attitudes towards one another. And I’m glad to see such from a very beautiful Black couple. Stereotypes say we aren’t this way, and they give me hope.
Wait so he works and she's home? My mom worked as a co and had dinner ready plus cleaned etc.. plus she did over time. But she can't cook ? When I finish school and didn't wrk I cleaned cook and took care of my baby cousin.... it's not easy. Hut I always had dinner ready and clothes clean. But he was wrong for being distanced during giving birth. But once again he paying all the bills, not cheating, not beating on you ...
She keeps calling him sexist because of his expectations but he's not sexist when he's working 12hour days or giving her money, Lol. She might have a touch of lazy but I think their a good fit. Hopefully she realizes it before it's too late
This is one of those instances where I think the wife needs an outside job even if part time that covers day care and a little spending change. She is feeling restrcted and confined not everyone is cut out to be a 24/7 homebody.
This is why men dont get married. Theres no benefit for him. Can't even come home to a home cooked meal from a SAHM. Women and other wives HAVE to work both inside and out the home. This woman is crazy!
You keep conflating hurt boys in big men suits for men not wanting to get married. This is just a matter of learning to communicate and working out on things. You guys are acting as if life is about roses and as if disagreements aren't part of it. Grow a pair.
I feel like they're going to make it. Their issues are minor compared to most couples that be on Divorce Court. I hope they both know how blessed they are.
I'm only 7 minutes in and it's like a tennis match. I'm going back and forth with who I'm understanding to and who I want to roast. I was going to drag her for not cooking and cleaning and then she mentioned having three young kids and cooking four days a week. Ok, that's not bad. It's more than half the week and raising three little kids is rough. I get it. Then I was about to roast him for the hospital story but he said that the doctors asked him to move for a minute and that he's afraid to look. Ok, that's not terrible. He should be more supportive while she's giving birth but it's not the worst thing ever. Then I was going to roast her about her friends but she explained that. Then I was going to roast him about going to jail, but I don't know enough about it. This is very strange. They both have their issues and they both seem to be doing pretty ok. I'll just have to see how the rest of the episode goes.
" your honor he gets a meal ." That line reminds me of the movie " Conspirator " about Lincoln when the person holding the assassins said " they are fed "
No babymamas, cheating scandals, or disrespect and abuse? I'm here for it!
JulySummers
It was very refreshing to see a normal couple with normal problems.
I actually liked them both by the end of the episode.
And that's pretty rare lol
JulySummers Right? I love it...
you re so on point ....i love them,decent people,decent man,bills payed,gives wife allowance,has just one kid from prior relationship in college,wow,no cheating allegations....I m proud to be black now..hahahhahha...not racist comment ppls,i m just excited for them and the hope they bring to the black community.
*Don't compare with the worst, compare with the best*
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This episode made me happy. It is so nice to see a good black man and black love with no ratchetness.
I agree
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It made me happy too❤️❤️
I smiled all through it. Lovely people. Beautiful woman and a handsome man. Those kids must be gorgeous.
Good man 👊🙂
I may be young but if my man is paying the bills and making sure our kids have a roof over our head, you best believe I'm going to feed him 🥘, clean the house 🏡, put the kids to bed 👨👩👧👦, & when he gets home we're gonna be rocking the sheets .... quietly 🤐 while the kids are sleep 😴😂😂😂
Hi Valeria, how are doing?
Super Women....
You need to holla at me, then.
Valeria Kanisha I need that only if God’s know 😐
Be a mother and wife FIRST... Then give your view 😂.
Girl you're a stay at home mom. It takes 10 minutes to throw something in a crock pot. It takes 5 minutes to throw clothes in the washer and dryer. She just needs a schedule! Her time management skills probably suck.
Yeah she does.....and I bet those kids are a little outta control so she has to run behind them every five minutes
@@lovinmycurvescurls3842 It doesn't sound like the kids are out of control. It sounds like she does spend quality time with them. Teaching them and caring for them. She could cook and still do that, I agree. The husband did not say anything about her parenting.
Yeah routine is key when working at home. Especially with 3 little one. And they need nap time so she can start dinner
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A schedule
I have nothing bad to say about this couple. I wish them the very best of luck!
Terail LeSane jesus
I don't think she knows the actual definition of sexism...
she don't smh
That's a good thing, isn't it? It indicates that she was not confronted with real sexism up to now :)
She doesn't have a problem she is just trying to create one. She needs to take care of her damn man and grow the hell up. If he starts eating elsewhere then she is going to have a problem. She is using a washing machine for crying out loud.
Queen GenesisLove she just kept saying it & it was driving me CRAZY
To be fair, before the case even started he said that he has to do the “manly duties and her job.”
They are okay. No sidechick, no social media issue. They better than most couples here.
I don't see "sexist" coming from him. Although I'm not a woman. But dang if he's working 10-12 and taking care of the house when he comes in that's not sexist at all.
Yup I agree
Agree, also.
Agreed. He’s not asking for too much
I agree and I’m a woman and there’s only 24 hours in a day if he’s working 12 of them then coming home cooking doing laundry spending time with the kids when is he supposed to sleep and she talking about woo me, he did by paying all the bills and taking care of the house now handle business with this man before he handle it with somebody else! Period!!
I agree. When he said “12” hours, I turned my head to the woman. Lady said she’s not working, I assume she’s a home maker/housewife. With the way she talks, I thought she was working too! But nope, just creating a problem from a simple expectation of a man looking forward to a clean house and a hot meal after sacrificing half a day, every day to feed his fam and pay for the bills AND her vanity. If I was her, I’d welcome him home with a foot rub too!
I absolutely loved them, this episode was enjoyable. They were a breath of fresh air from the recent couples.
They had regular relationship issues, loved that no one mentioned abuse, cheating or side babies.
Teosha Farquharson indeed! Was expecting the Cheating Word.
I'm trying to find his sexists moments , she's just young and still has alot to learn
Donald Neil
Yeah I don't think he's sexist, I just think that she doesn't know how to express that she doesn't like his expectations of her.
She definitely has a lot to learn.
But they both seem like nice folks so I hope it works out.
shes been brainwashed by BLM. Not everyone is a goddamn sexist.
lmao
暗黒騎士 Ankokukishi BLM doesn't even talk about feminism much. People just try to blame feminism for everything.
I don't think he is sexist at all
Awww....he's very sweet; he makes me smile when he smiles. His love for her is so clear. Good luck to them both. X😍
I'm a little late to the party, but she's trippin'. There's no reason for him to be working 10 hour shifts and still coming home to cook food and do laundry. Start pulling your weight ma'am....
I totally agree. Side note. She need to stop wearing that dark eyeshadow it make her look like raccoon and she looks old enough at 29. She just don't need that
She could bake some chicken or something!!!
I find her selfish. She speaks and acts like she doesn't owe him anything. Since she's the woman and taking care of the kids he owes her to always accommodate her and not expect the same in return. o.O
+Ge MIIO, And THAT is the problem. She wants the title without the responsibility. Shoot, I know mothers who have to tend to the children, cook, clean, work outside of the home, and they still make time to cook a few meals here and there. It is doable if you prioritize.
Ge MIIO right, that's really what it sounds like. she didn't sound like she actually really appreciated him much at all, but I think she's just a lil bit young minded. He def is a good man and I think she is a good woman and mom, but she has more growing to do.
Exactly
I don’t see that actually she takes care of 3 kids that’s a big thing to do lol
Why can't she do the house duties if she staying at home? How about all the other parents that do it and work...how long does it take to bake some meat and prepare a side dish with vegetables? If she can't handle the kids, she shouldn't have got pregnant.
The judge is so right...she is a consumer and needs to shop intelligently. She should try to find a way to make her own money. She would feel better about feeling like a child and be able to save and do more in the future for the children.
He needs to be more romantically and fulfill her sexual needs.
Wishing them well.
+drlovie, You just summed it all up perfectly. I understand that having to care for three children under the age of 3 is taxing. However, if you have time to go on shopping sprees and hang out with your friends you've got time to nuke your hardworking man a meal!
Thank you! You brought up a good point too...it is just a shame. Who knows what kind of junk those kids are eating. It is parents' duties to make sure the family eats properly. It doesn't even take long to prepare meals...esp if one prepares in advance...cutting and prepping makes it easy. Crocks pots and baking pans do wonders...in addition to eating raw/steamed veggies. Food can be freshly made everyday doing that...maybe even every couple of days.
Shopping and shopping...yet no income and no savings. Also, as an individual, no career...at such a young age. Anything can happen. It is great for one's dignity to make one's own money. Who wants to have to ask another human being for money...?
drlovie exactly. Her ass is lazy. She can put a pot on the stove and throw something together.
Drlovie, wheres the love?????
drlovie i
wow!!! i guess my mom is wonder woman and super man in one because she raise two boys and her younger siblings by her self, while she was working.......this man works 12 hrs and can't get a meal wow.
your mom is great God bless her
you should have your mom contact her and show her how it's done! damn lazy
my mom raised me n other 4 siblings without any job!! in Africa!!!
Good time management can do wonders.
Lol she wants it all doesn't she 😂😂. This man is working hard to provide for you and your kids yes I understand that having kids is a huge job but while you are at home taking care of your kids like feeding, bathing, running errands, etc that man is at work getting money to pay for the roof over your head, food that you and the kids eat, bills, etc. Cooking isn't even that hard and this is coming from someone who didn't know how to make shit. The fact that he is willing to even help out around the house after working a 12 hour shift is a freaking blessing!!! She has a good man.
I bet if the roles were reverse and she was pulling a twelve hour shift while he neglect his household duties, she wouldn't be in the mood for romancing either. I was a stay-at-home mom with two toddlers. My husband came home to a clean house, homemade meals, always have clean clothes to wear to work, and still put it on him when he needs it. A marriage works when both party do their parts and not expect more from the other.
You must’ve been Blessed with good kids!! ☺️
I was just about to say this!!!
Aww they are actually a lovely couple. If you pay attention to them lol
Estelle Klair Umm You're fine asl. So I checked out your page. DOPE vids 🎥
I agree. They are a wonderful couple.
Yes they are lovely.
She's what I call The Diary of the (Single) Married Woman. She's not doing what she needs to be a wife. There's nothing wrong with having him do laundry and cook a meal every now and again, but if you're the stay at home wife, you need to take care of the house for the most part yourself. So many of these women get on this show and they start tallying up what he's doing and saying, if he's not doing this, I'm not doing that. And that's why they're in the mess they're in today. Stop keeping score and communicate and get both your needs met. There's no way in hell she can't have the house clean and meal waiting for him when he gets home, because she wouldn't accept him not coming home with half a paycheck. She's full of it.
You said it! So true. There is no reason at all. It looks like she wants to be single.
Honestly their age difference may not seem like much, but it is. Also, she should have waited to have children. It would be nice to have a career, spend , save, and go out with friends.
Jesus loves you all ❤️🙏🏾💯
She has 3 kids under 3. Think about it!
Thank you. I had never thought of that. I will keep this in mind.
Omg! Her facial expressions got me rolling 🤣🤣😂😂😂😩😩😩 I can't be the only one!! 😂😂😂
Ha I was looking through the comments for someone to say something about it 😂
I love the Judge and the couple
Its like when she dips her head down shes's mushing her face into an expression. I noticed then checked to see if anyone else noticed. lol
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@@cryslinorigins5216 😂😂😂😂
Taking care of kids is a lot of work especially with no assistance. I can work an office job for eight hours and still not be as exhausted as I would be from being with children for less time than that. One is expected to exert more energy when you're with children. It may appear to some that it's not that overwhelming because you could sit them near a tv, ipad or computer all day but inorder to FULLY develop cognitive, social and other essential skills in children you can't just expect a gadjet to raise your children. You have to be their entertainment for lengthy periods of time. They require constant stimulation through various activities. You never get a break even to use the bathroom and your eyes have to be fixated on them at all times because they can venture away and hurt themselves. Overall, I quite enjoyed this couple. They seem to have a pretty solid foundation. Hope they are able to make things work. All the best to them.💟
+Chey C -- Yep, parents don't even get a break to use the bathroom. After I was born, my mother didn't take her next shit until I was 18 and out the house.
Too true! And at work you can converse with coworkers, laugh off stress, have stimulating interactions with people on your level. When you baby talk or try and reason with babies all day or singing nursery rhymes all day... cabin fever will come knocking!
She's just spoiled and a little immature. Marriage is in and of itself a life long commitment that requires focus and work. He has to do what I had to do, remind her that she's the reason he's working so hard. They'll be just fine.
Spoiled not. She is hood and has never seen what wife role looks like she needs to make hood use of her time during the day and let TT (single hood fri6) stay away from her home. I bet they wish they had him.
No accusation of cheating. Great couples all I see in them is love.
It was so cute how excited she was about the idea of being seduced by her husband.
I like him, he's a keeper Mrs Tyson. Good show.
i dont think ppl understand how hard it is being a stay at home mom. you have to depend on someone else for money and to take care of you and the babies crying, fighting, pampers have to be changed, they need to learn, they have to eat, you have to clean up every 10 minutes on top of trying to keep your man happy. smh i feel her pain. thats a full time job that doesnt pay by the hour
Crock pot, air fryer , Insta pot Rotisserie chicken get it together. No hourly pay but you have what you need at least there is no side chick and outside babies. She dosen't know how blessed she is.
Yes i agree.. it's a non stop job however she needs to manage her time allot better. That man deserves a meal, clean clothes and a clean house. That doesn't mean he can't help with these duties from time to time but she should be able to handle that mostly on her own. I too am a stay at home mom/student.
Lol! And we working Mom with kids and no Nanny still get it done and cook food too. Time management is the biggest factor in raising a family
LOL, she is saying she has to attend 3 kids a for the whole day which is why she can't cook for her man but I bet through out the day she is also talking nonsense on the phone, watching TV, and playing video games.
She looks older than 29!
John Preston
Yeah she does!
I think it's the eye makeup because she looks much younger in the picture during the intro.
John Preston
And ugly too
She looks exhausted
John Preston 🤣
Honestly I was shocked she was only 29... I'm 32 and I look younger than her
They were so freaking cute at the end. I thought she was gonna ignore the judge's advice but supposedly not. She accepted her flaws too. Now Mr. Tyson she is 29 so definitely does have some maturing to do but she's not lazy and she is in school so kudos to her. I have to say I am sooooooo proud of Mr. Tyson for changing his ways and even putting his oldest son through college once he got out of prison. Complete 360 and that doesn't happen often so I am proud of him! Ms. Tyson mature and listen to your man as far as spending habits and I won't say anything about you lacking at times in your house wife duties because 3 kids under 3 and school online !!!!!! No ma'am!!! I understand and kudos to you. But if you see this comment I will say if you put them on a schedule the house will run smoother. This is coming from someone that currently has a 1, 2, and 3 year old so just a bit of advice love. Love and respect one another, keep those wild single friends at a distance, budget that money a little better and do Judge Toler's 5sec foreplay rule and you guys will be fine. Good luck to the both of you!
no excuse for her. my mom raised 10 kids cooked and cleaned. my dad worked and had a meal when he came home. and my dad helped with us kids
Celeste Cruthird taking care of kids is big damn and 10!! I think they should take turns cooking I don’t see anything wrong with 4 out of 7 day week
That's why she had 10lmao
You are RIGHT. She is. LAZY
This woman needs a outside job.
They needs.to stay. together
Bruh you had kids with a kid. Not in age but mentality. She still wants to play in the streets.
well guess what.. he's bringing home the money and has to tend to his kids too. so after work he gotta work too...... you are a stay at home so TAKE CARE OF HOME. give the kids nap time and cook for your husband. I wish I could stay home and take care of the household. house would be clean. food hot. kids washed.. hell I'd have time to workout and find a side at home business to keep extra money in our pockets... she tripping.
Panther Jade Sounds like you would do a great job! :)
Panther Jade im sure she feeds her kids junk instead of cooking a meal for everyone in the household to eat including her husband
Panther Jade I don't have kids and I work and still cook clean and my husband does the laundry we share in the household work and both have full time jobs
Panther Jade That's what I was wondering...if she's not cooking for her husband then what are her kids eating?
Girl, if you want more from your man, you've got to give a bit more. It's hard to live like a kept woman and not be treated like a kept woman.
JulySummers
I wouldn't exactly call a stay at home mom a "kept woman" the same way I wouldn't call a stay at home dad a "kept man."
I'd reserve that term for people who stay in the spa all day 😂
JulySummers i agree!
+MartianBlues, In no way did I mean to imply that stay-at-home mothers are kept women. I was raised by one and I know they are the most hardworking people on the planet. I am referring to her outlook on how her husband treats her. This man is working 10+ hours daily, bringing home the money so she can stay at home, gives her an allowance, and he still has to come home and cook and clean AND tend to the kids? It's great that he does that (because I think it's important they dads contribute to the household in that way as well), but the fact that he HAS to is the issue.
That's a rough 29!!
cool yess She looks 42
Yup
Yes it is a rough 29. I'm 51 and look younger than her wow
What you said? I thought she was a lot older than 29.
I hadn't noticed her age on the screen and when I saw this I thought you read it wrong! 29 😳😬😳 I'm 43 and look younger than her!
I really like them two I pray that they take every word she give them to heart
Now I will say the hospital story I get both side ONLY because my father loves my mother but could NOT stomach childbirth!!! He damn near passes out at getting his own blood drawn so I understand. However my father is amazing and raised all 5 of us, along side our mother to be the responsible adults we are today. So although he was squeamish in the hospital delivery room once we were out he worked his ass off. But I have birthed two children of my own so like I said I understand that it is essential during childbirth to have support during and after delivery. Especially back to back. Hell if she sneezed too hard a baby might have fell out!
Rosa Siler 👍🏿👍🏿
*Men should pass out more lol. I also think women should use that stimulation kit where the guy gets to feel what contractions feel like.*
She has a good man, and I think if they do what the Judge says they marriage can only get stronger. I'm with Judge listen to your man concerning your spending and those friends..and with him giving more appreciation and foreplay through out the day they gone be just fine..may their union continue to be blessed!
They have 3 kids under 3!!! They're going to have to figure out how to carve out some adult time for the two of them at least once a month. Even if that means finding a baby sitter and going to sit in the parking lot at Walmart. lol Children under the age of 5 require a lot of stimulation, so it's easy to get overwhelmed and loose track of time when it's just you . She has to get them all on the same schedule, nap and clean while they're sleep, and utilize a crock pot. They'll be fine. I like them, they were quit refreshing considering everyone previous.
Judge Lynn advice though .. on point
This lady is a perfect example of the entitlement so many women feel today. No matter how good they may have it, the just HAVE to find something to be perturbed or feel victimized about. This is sad.
Just like my wife...living with her mother, her brother and a baby when she met me..now I put her in a nice house nice cars etc & she acts like it isnt enough
She's irritating to listen to!Immature and entitled.She better count herself lucky...with that nonsense she's keeping up.He'll probably get fed up one day,then she'll act like the victim.
He looks like an old school prize fighting boxer, and she looks like an extra in a Tyler Perry movie or play.
It's not that hard to make sure your man has something to eat when he comes home. I'm disabled and I still make sure I have a meal ready for my husband when he gets off work as well as doing our laundry and cleaning the house. If I can do it she can, just put your kids down for a nap or in a play pen in the kitchen while you cook.
bein romantic is NOT JUS UP TO THE MAN
I agree
She keeps throwing out sexism, not trying to understand his perspective.
Gawd dog...shes only 29 years old? u can see the rough life in her face. Wow smh
Ugh. girl. I wouldn't mind having a man like him. My ex..my ex don't even wanna work, as soon as I walk through the door from work, he'll say, "what u cooking for dinner, I'm hungry." appreciate what u have!!
Wtf! Hell no...
The Bible says a man who doesn’t work , doesn’t eat ! Lol
So Mrs Tyson, you're saying you stay home with the kids and the man can't get dinner? Damn.. So what do you feed the kids? My mother was the stay at home mom and breakfast and dinner was on the table every day and she has 6 of us. Girllll 🙄
i thoroughly enjoyed this episode. nice and calm.
she is a broke stay at home mom.....but is calling her husband sexist...meanwhile she is unemployed and spending money he gives her..🤔🤔🤔
Something tells me me her friends are single. She will be too soon!
she talking about meeting halfway.... if your only job is keeping up the household while he takes care of the finances he is meeting you halfway. God damn these women think just because your not home all day that you just bsing. step your game up woman. and what makes it worse is he's also helping her domestically
I'm assuming you missed the part where she says she is going to school. Granted it's at home, but she's just not home all day doing nothing. Kids don't work on a schedule and they could careless when toddlers if you're going to school. Unfortunately, some things end up on the back burner. She does need to do a little bit better. Possibly get some help or assistance for a couple of hours a day. Her husband does deserve a warm meal, even if he has to heat it up in the oven real quick. Make some meatloaf, mashed potatoes and broccoli. Make his plate, wrap in aluminum foil and put it in the oven on warm. He'll be thankful and she'll get what she wants too.
I love them. What a really sweet couple. Their issues are so minor.
There is nothing sexist about him. He seems like a really sweet dude.
its just a matter of time before her friends convince her to cheat just like the tricks they are i see it coming\
The decision or unspoken agreement to have 3 kids under the age of 5 automatically shuts out FUN TIME with the adult friends. That doesn't mean that life ends; it DOES however mean that you have to better prioritize. I honestly believe that she would have adored him more if he came home and had that "institutionalized frame of mind" going on. Hearing that this man was in jail during the marriage and came out and is more stand-up than a man sitting around here in society being so-called productive is a blessing. He loves her. He loves his family. He makes a way out of no way or small openings. Nothing in the whole episode implied that he was a convict; that in itself is successful and commendable. Every day I am further validated in my stance that we do NOT know what we want in this life. Here is a prime example. They will be fine though.
\\ Every day I am further validated in my stance that we do NOT know what we want in this life. // I'd love to hear you elaborate on this more...but I doubt you'll do. Your comment is from 3 years ago,lol.
They should stay together. Don't break up a home because you're bored.
so many women & men need to understand what you just said.. I literally had my wife who had nothing when I met her say we should divorce because she was basically bored..keep in mind this is after ive taken in her/ her child (when I had none at the time) , plus raised the ones we have together , put her in better living conditions than she ever had in life before me...AND my retired parents w/ grown kids took in HER brother's disrespectful teen son who paid them back by stealing from them and giving them hell....
Loved this couple. Make it work.
Am I wrong to think that maybe the husband was turned on while Judge Lynn was telling him her patient pending 🤣 5 minutes romance?
Using the kids as an excuse tho... she can work a bit harder at making him want her...he has to come home and wash an all that... I think she be online/ social media . . nothing is wrong with that man... she lucky he still wants it fr her and not stepping out
I know this is bad sounding, but I absolutely love seeing Black couples. I could understand where he was coming from about the meal, though.
Good couple!!! She a little immature, but she'll be ok.
I have watched a whole lot of the shows. this couple was pretty normal, sensible, calm, & a lovely couple. 👐😙
I love it how most of the people in the comment section are young people, it is a beautiful thing that marriage is still intresting and desired. I live in a country (Finland) Where marriage is seen like a bad thing like it makes no sense and ruins things. I love african american culture. It is so similar to mine since I am originally from egypt. The way the Men treat their woman with passion respect and the women are the strongest women i've come across with the most loving hearts and still do that old school thang for each other u know. 😍😍
My mom had 7 kids ,cooked, cleaned, grew a garden and never complained . Now women have 1 and they act like they done something special. It's caused laziness.
What a happy, peaceful and respectful episode.
God bless this couple
I ABSOLUTELY love them.
They don't any issue they can't overcome. They are solid and headed in the right direction. I hope they make it. #blacklove is a beautiful thang!!
They’re both very giggly, happy, and in tune to the relationship. It’s very heartwarming! They smile so much it’s hard to imagine them with attitudes towards one another. And I’m glad to see such from a very beautiful Black couple. Stereotypes say we aren’t this way, and they give me hope.
Yes! We trip a little but together we need to spring up. Let's get back to our vision. I am here for it!!!
She looks so tired.
Wait so he works and she's home? My mom worked as a co and had dinner ready plus cleaned etc.. plus she did over time. But she can't cook ? When I finish school and didn't wrk I cleaned cook and took care of my baby cousin.... it's not easy. Hut I always had dinner ready and clothes clean. But he was wrong for being distanced during giving birth. But once again he paying all the bills, not cheating, not beating on you ...
Great people...i m so happy we have decent people like this,nice.....i pray for them to success....just great people great people.
love this couple.
Judge Toler is just amazing her advice here was just on point !!!!!
This is a good episode. Good luck to them.
I love this judge. She is so real on the issues.
She keeps calling him sexist because of his expectations but he's not sexist when he's working 12hour days or giving her money, Lol. She might have a touch of lazy but I think their a good fit. Hopefully she realizes it before it's too late
This is one of those instances where I think the wife needs an outside job even if part time that covers day care and a little spending change. She is feeling restrcted and confined not everyone is cut out to be a 24/7 homebody.
I've raised my son as a single parent and was able to do all of the above. She stays at home and can definitely make time to do everything mentioned.
I liked them. They didn't argue and over talk each other. They were respectful of each other and the judge.
This was by far one of my favorite episodes it’s more realistic not all that cheating in shit just common relationship problems
This is the first episode, that I'm really joyful about the success of this couple! They look happy & wish them the best future!
I took a pen and started writing the judge's 5 minute romance
This is why men dont get married. Theres no benefit for him. Can't even come home to a home cooked meal from a SAHM. Women and other wives HAVE to work both inside and out the home. This woman is crazy!
You keep conflating hurt boys in big men suits for men not wanting to get married. This is just a matter of learning to communicate and working out on things. You guys are acting as if life is about roses and as if disagreements aren't part of it. Grow a pair.
I love that they actually have love for one another
I think their issues are most certainly fixable! There certainly needs to be more compromising and innerstanding but I think they'll fine!
I feel like they're going to make it. Their issues are minor compared to most couples that be on Divorce Court. I hope they both know how blessed they are.
Oh, I loved this episode! Hope it works out for them!
Aww they're so cute together. They both have work to do, more so Burlinda but I wish them the best.
wow.. she looks like she is in her late 30's..
He said, "I'll give you 6 1/2." Oh! My!
This one was funny and positive because they were both willing to work on themselves. I love it!❤
I'm only 7 minutes in and it's like a tennis match. I'm going back and forth with who I'm understanding to and who I want to roast.
I was going to drag her for not cooking and cleaning and then she mentioned having three young kids and cooking four days a week. Ok, that's not bad. It's more than half the week and raising three little kids is rough. I get it.
Then I was about to roast him for the hospital story but he said that the doctors asked him to move for a minute and that he's afraid to look. Ok, that's not terrible. He should be more supportive while she's giving birth but it's not the worst thing ever.
Then I was going to roast her about her friends but she explained that.
Then I was going to roast him about going to jail, but I don't know enough about it.
This is very strange.
They both have their issues and they both seem to be doing pretty ok.
I'll just have to see how the rest of the episode goes.
MartianBlues Funny commentary. 😄
MartianBlues that's her job thou…
Omg Judge Lynn that necklace is FABULOUS!!!!!!!!!
29 years old no way I thought she was way older than 29
" your honor he gets a meal ."
That line reminds me of the movie " Conspirator " about Lincoln when the person holding the assassins said " they are fed "
She bout to loose a good dude acting goofy.. I aint shit.. So I know aint shit dudes when I see one.. This a good guy…
Gorgeous couple. I wish them the best.
They are both suffering from neglect. Intimacy does not come easy in that environment.
He is such a lovely person. May God help them push through♥
Karen Cristina Concepción He is more likeable than her. He seems like a very sweet man with an immature wife.
I'm a lady, and I agree with him.