Gambling almost ruined my life

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  • čas přidán 25. 04. 2022
  • I'm grateful that I've found support. I'm grateful that my family is understanding.
    I'm grateful I stopped.
    But now it's opened the door. Do I have a drinking problem?

Komentáře • 75

  • @robinacosta1698
    @robinacosta1698 Před 7 měsíci +25

    Gambling is a horrible addiction. It's ruined my finances and it me in such a bad place. I refuse to give the casino another dollar.

    • @Davidsmith-go9oz
      @Davidsmith-go9oz Před 3 měsíci +2

      How about 50 cents? Could change everything 😂

    • @ronaldsmith8771
      @ronaldsmith8771 Před 3 měsíci

      I have to break myself from going to casino's too...I go for fun to shoot craps...but I may be lost $50 thousand in my lifetime ...wow

    • @HecMan-kp8jm
      @HecMan-kp8jm Před 25 dny

      Yes people!
      Casino gambling of any kind sucks! Stay away from

  • @Voltanaut
    @Voltanaut Před 3 měsíci +13

    What helps me overcome my desires to gamble is my hatred of casinos. I hate them so much that I would rather never give them another buck than satisfy my personal gambling desires. Hating the right things can be a very good and powerful resource to do good and overcome bad.

  • @amyrose1763
    @amyrose1763 Před měsícem +5

    I go from one addiction to another. I always have an addiction. It's currently online sports betting and it has nearly destroyed my life within 8 months. I've been completely out of control and destroyed my credit and use money that isn't even my own. God bless you and stay strong. I find that gambling is the hardest to quit out of all of the addictions I've had.

  • @shaunaklimchuk
    @shaunaklimchuk Před 3 měsíci +9

    I’ve been fighting my gambling addiction for 25+ years, I’ve had up to 2 yrs of not playing then get pulled back in. It’s a constant struggle. I too have ADHD, not sure if that’s part of the reason all I know gambling is so hard to quit. Good luck to you and all of us.

    • @Hilary945
      @Hilary945 Před 3 měsíci +2

      There is definitely a link between ADHD and addiction because you are seeking dopamine. I hope you are able to get help!

  • @peternjuguna6034
    @peternjuguna6034 Před 3 měsíci +14

    Be strong, you are not alone. Casino's take our brains by making it look like we are winning, while taking a lot and giving very little. By the end "boom" they have taken it all. Every one needs to get out. Lets go play golf and other games not for betting but for body fitness

  • @Sutterjack
    @Sutterjack Před 8 měsíci +9

    Good luck in your recovery and I feel your pain - I'm a recovering alcoholic (27 years) and I've struggled with a horrible gambling addiction (the worst addiction of them all!). I benefited greatly from AA but the local GA group treated me with indifference and an almost "what are you doing here?" attitude that I never experienced in AA. Left me feeling the 12 step programs doesn't translate seamlessly to every addiction. Oh well

  • @PeterBornAgain
    @PeterBornAgain Před 3 měsíci +9

    I lost a lot over 20 years gambling probably upwards of 6 - 7 mil its a vicious cycle once I had to get a real job I stopped completely one thing I learned is "enough is never enough" I wish you all the best on your journey to recovery.

  • @user-vh6wq6eh9z
    @user-vh6wq6eh9z Před 4 měsíci +11

    Forgive yourself. It is understandable. You are not alone. There is always room to control your spending. Best wishes.

  • @drew263926392639
    @drew263926392639 Před 8 měsíci +7

    I love your openness and honesty. You give people hope. God bless you.

  • @maxjackson6559
    @maxjackson6559 Před měsícem +4

    I was a HEAVY drinker for years. Quitting almost killed me. And it never had even half the grip on my soul that gambling does. Losing sleep, racing thoughts, forgetting to eat, putting off work, spending hours just watching and thinking about gambling.
    Its a drug. Why do you think we regulate it like one. And if the irl casinos are like heroin then the online sites are like fentanyl.
    Edit: one year and 4 months sober from alcohol. I want to take my first bet free day in months tomorrow.

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před měsícem +1

      Congratulations on your sobriety!!! I believe you can quit gambling too.

  • @botheyesUp
    @botheyesUp Před 10 měsíci +7

    Thank you. Im struggling to overcome it. I have PTSD and when the trauma rears and i panic i go to relieve it. Im ashamed im weak. ❤ you wont screw up. I dont know you but i feel what you say.

  • @ritacraig5250
    @ritacraig5250 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this Alison . I identify with the gambling addiction . Mainly going to clubs and casinos playing slots. The have got me hooked. I know I have to stop . I use them to get away from problems too .

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 3 měsíci

      I understand how you’re feeling. ❤️ sending you strength Rita.

  • @alvinchan6842
    @alvinchan6842 Před 8 měsíci +7

    I feel you…. I’m in the same position…

  • @jesussavesgodislove9106
    @jesussavesgodislove9106 Před 2 lety +13

    I am going through this myself. I rely on Jesus Christ for hope. I don't want to hurt myself. I am so in debt. I am scared. I am scared of losing my family. I am in a bad place. Please pray for me. I too have a drinking problem which has caused me to gamble hard.
    I too have taken thousands from my husband my mom. =(

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 2 lety +2

      I'm here for you.

    • @jesussavesgodislove9106
      @jesussavesgodislove9106 Před 2 lety +1

      @@allisonzed thank you. I am here for you too! We can do this =)

    • @sjs1555
      @sjs1555 Před 3 měsíci

      Perhaps you should consider that God does not exist. If he did, why would he have people suffer with addiction? Is he out there cherry picking who should struggle, and who shouldn’t? If that’s the case, that’s a horrible God.

    • @Archie-23
      @Archie-23 Před 19 dny

      ⁠@@sjs1555I get that people don’t understand God and His ways. How can we? But God is not horrible. He loves us but also respects our free will. Love won’t force anyone. I think God tries to speak to us but do we listen? I know myself rushing into things without thinking and praying first. I’ve made huge mistakes and gambling is one of them. Led into it by someone I shouldn’t have been with in the first place. All my choices. I thank God that in all the mess I’ve managed to make of my life through my own folly, I can look to my faithful loving God and know He is the same yesterday, today and forever and loves me always. He is with me as I try to live and rebuild my life with His help and guidance. God bless.

  • @recovery66
    @recovery66 Před měsícem +2

    Iam addicted for 4 years really ruined my life and never have money on my bank account, last night i still gamble online, the worst decision of my life but i reallh wanted to stop.

  • @josephvolgyi3382
    @josephvolgyi3382 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I feel so bad for you, yet I’m going through the same thing.

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 3 měsíci

      I’m here for you. You can do this!

  • @krazyfarmhomestead2239

    Best way is to NOT go in the Casino at all, a cousin said something to me, he said "I cannot go into a Casion because I will not leave until I do not have $1 left. so for ME it is best to just NOT go in EVER!" I got that. best advice I think there is, if you do not go in you cannot gamble in them.

  • @johnobrien8398
    @johnobrien8398 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Hello I hope you can stop gambling. I’ve had an awful gambling life it really never stops the urge to bet it really consumes you it ruins your life it really is an awful addiction Good luck hope you can succeed.

  • @robinacosta1698
    @robinacosta1698 Před 7 měsíci +6

    How are you doing now?

  • @jeanaston6824
    @jeanaston6824 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Bless you you're not on ur own ❤

  • @hbrotha1866
    @hbrotha1866 Před 13 hodinami

    Gambling has fucked me up for 5 years. I’m just a degenerate

  • @gamerd8709
    @gamerd8709 Před 3 měsíci +3

    been gambling for 15 years, never had a problem

    • @kimhyungju3717
      @kimhyungju3717 Před 3 měsíci

      good for you. just shut the xxck off because that does not help people who have the problem.

  • @ratso4443
    @ratso4443 Před 2 měsíci +3

    There is only one person that can forgive you for your transgressions: Jesus Christ. Once you ask Him to forgive you, then forgive yourself because He wants to set you free. Take it from me, I’ve been freed from drinking, smoking, gambling, etc. and it turned out I had a spiritual problem. Now I’m addicted to peaceful, normal moments that feed my spirit. God bless you Sister.

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 2 měsíci

      I’m sorry but that’s not my belief.

  • @bryanfournier7337
    @bryanfournier7337 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I just started playing vlts and won. Now i just want to keep playing even tho i know i will lose it all. I have no friends or family . Gambling to win is my only friend. Im 43 and have nothing more to lose .

    • @Archie-23
      @Archie-23 Před 19 dny

      I don’t want to sound corny but God wants to be your friend. He loves you with an everlasting love.

  • @bryontharp5790
    @bryontharp5790 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Almost did all ready did mine

  • @mustbenicemusic
    @mustbenicemusic Před 3 měsíci +1

    Saddest part is she’s nowhere near rock bottom by the way she is doing this video more to find a common ground. Also saying things like “2-3 drinks. Concern is about weight loss. “Stop for a while. “Might slip but.” My heart goes out to her

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Hi! First thing is rock bottom looks different for everyone.
      But, I’ve done a lot of work on myself since then. I wasn’t being honest with myself about how much I was drinking. That has changed. But it wasn’t the drinking that was the problem it was gambling. The real issue is not being able to moderate … anything. ❤️

  • @zachduplechin8352
    @zachduplechin8352 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Gambling did ruin my life

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před měsícem

      I'm sorry to hear that. Sending

  • @Deciple
    @Deciple Před 8 měsíci +7

    Gambling addiction is a demon and is destroying lives 😕
    JESUS saves 😃
    Thoughts and prayers from germany 🙏 😇

  • @MegaEpicGamingGuy
    @MegaEpicGamingGuy Před 3 dny

    i have a gambling problem and i finally beat the casino, i win.

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 3 dny +1

      @@MegaEpicGamingGuy congratulations

  • @johannesswillery7855
    @johannesswillery7855 Před 26 dny +2

    Sports gambling, porn, food, Social Media............... All designed to keep you uninformed, ignorant, distracted and compliant.

  • @johnzawatwicz3867
    @johnzawatwicz3867 Před 3 měsíci +1

    No losing ruined your life you can gamble and win and have a great life but when you lose, it’s your own fault and you have a losing problem not a gambling problem

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 3 měsíci

      If that’s what you want to believe that’s fine

    • @kimhyungju3717
      @kimhyungju3717 Před 3 měsíci +1

      just shut up, people who have the problem is not about losing or winning, they need to gamble to feel normal and the consequence is fatal.

  • @r1pperuk
    @r1pperuk Před 2 měsíci +1

    I work so hard for my money. NO WAY im giving those MFKers any of my money! Dont do its all a scam! Work harder you can earn $200 on the weekend doing extra work if you love money!

    • @bofadeez4079
      @bofadeez4079 Před měsícem

      lol I made $200 in 10mins playing blackjack… why sure I took a risk of losing my money but it beats spending the whole weekend doing random labor 😂

  • @barryw6988
    @barryw6988 Před 2 měsíci

    I think your problem is that you think you lost unfairly as mentioned with algorithms.

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 2 měsíci

      What? No. Do I think they control the player journey? Yes.
      Do I take accountability for my choices? Of course

  • @shelleycoleman670
    @shelleycoleman670 Před 2 lety

    ρɾσɱσʂɱ

  • @duds1916
    @duds1916 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Boring...

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 2 měsíci

      By commenting.. you’re just increasing the likelihood I’ll keep popping up 🥰

    • @duds1916
      @duds1916 Před 2 měsíci

      @allisonzed well good luck. 👍

    • @allisonzed
      @allisonzed  Před 2 měsíci

      @@duds1916 same to you

  • @turkeyleg1
    @turkeyleg1 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You should be ashamed

  • @marykgarciapalacios5981
    @marykgarciapalacios5981 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I feel sorry for my mother in law she is so addicted to gambling.