What It Feels Like Becoming A Parent | Podcast Ep 004
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- Becoming a parent is going to feel different for everyone but there may be some commonalities between all new parents. Have you felt any of the same feelings as us?
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You are a good interviewer Brad.
You'll say over and over..."now THIS is my favorite age!" My mind is blown listening to you both! My daughter is pregnant with her fourth child. She and her husband do such a fantastic job as parents. Whenever I compliment her on her parenting, she often replies "Dad....where do you think I learned that?" Here come the tears! You're going to be great parents!
Thank you for leaving this comment! It's so wholesome and so cool you guys have a big family. That's our dream! ❤️
I agree 100% - being a mother just lifts you to a whole new dimension … the more he grows the more powerful the feeling grows. My daughters are in their early 40s, and they have given me 4 amazing grandchildren. My mum is still alive, she's 83 and it's just wonderful to watch our family bond. Just relax and enjoy it Lex.
Your daughters are in their early 40s? How? You look too young for that.
There is a saying, “to become a parent is to forever have your heart walking around outside your body “. I have 4 children and it’s so true! Congratulations to you both ❤❤
My Granddaughter had a boy three months ago. I now have five great grand children. I will give you the same advice I gave her. You must have patience with them. If your baby is crying, it is your responsibility to figure out what is wrong. Do not flip out, wet pants,hungry, tummy ache something. they can't talk so this is their way of telling you something is wrong.When I watch the news and I see these young parents have abused their baby because they lost it I get so mad. So please love your baby and watch this young life grow up to be someone who you will be proud of. And by the way come back we miss you two so much.
When my first daughter was born, I felt the center of my being shift permanently outside of my physical body to the space between the three of us. It made me a better man and kicked off a long growth arc.
Little Jack is very lucky to have you two. Enjoy the journey 🇨🇦🇨🇦
You will NEVER stop worrying about your children. That never goes away. The worries just change.
Beautiful conversation. Love the way the both of you communicate. Very much appreciate the way you intellectualize visceral experiences. Not to mention how it will inspire others to explore their feelings. Thanks so much for sharing ❤
Every phase of a child's life comes with its own unique set of challenges, as well as the joy that comes as you watch your child learn and grow... my daughter is now 20, and that joy never ends, it just gets stronger with every memory made, looking back and laughing at the struggles that seemed so momentous at the time, and reliving the joy we felt in the memories that we share... unconditional love and a best friend for life...
As difficult as it can be sometimes, it is all worth it in the end...
I definitely love the fact that you two are just sitting down and asking each other questions and answering each other honestly and openly. Conversation in young folks today just desnt carry the curiosity and respect like the two of you. Jack is a VERY lucky kid with you two for parents!!
You two have such good souls…
I’m 57, never married or had children… wasn’t in my cards. Seeing you guys mature and open up to the world is glorious… staying true to you is the key IMO…. Wishing you 3 big love 💙
I still remember the first time I watched a reaction video of yours even though I don’t remember what song it was. In spite of how much I miss the two of you in the studio on a music journey, I’m finding myself even more interested in these new videos. I think the world of you both as people and now as parents and I hope your journey stays as full of love and satisfaction in the ordinary day to day experiences that you are clearly enjoying right now. Pay attention. Savor it. These years go by so fast. My son is 26 and we work together every day. The pride and satisfaction I feel is unparalleled, but sometimes I miss him being a little boy with questions instead the man who needs so much less dad than he did in the past. Congratulations on living life to the fullest. Keep doing what you’re doing and we’ll keep coming back to visit.
Lex you are a natural mom, love for your child is in every part of your being, and I'm so happy for this child because he has two parents who love him very much, can't ask for more than that. Sadly there are many who don't have your energy and probably fit more in the category of just because you can doesn't mean you should. I am so happy for you and Brad that you are experiencing such joy, can't wait to see how you grow as a family.
I think you both are doing an amazing job. Jack is a happy healthy baby who is extremely loved. I am loving these podcasts. ✌️❤️
I can't wait until Jack starts walking! That should be fun to watch. I can picture him laughing and giggling when he takes his first steps across a room! You 2 are the best! Peace!
It doesn't matter how much you earn or how mature you are, nothing prepares you to be a parent, you just learn as you go...
Find the joy with every age! The teen years were some of the best! It's an amazing journey!
I’m really enjoying these podcasts. You guys are a natural in front of the camera
I can't think of a more lovely, delightful person in this world than Lex. How could anybody not love her? That baby is so lucky to have Brad and Lex as parents. Æx 🙏
Best regards from Cracow, Poland
I’ll tell you exactly what it feels like to be a parent….that’s the easiest question ever? Ready……..
“TIRED”……
Next…..
Love you guys❤❤❤❤! Enjoy the wonder of a child!
My beautiful daughter genuinely saved my life. I can completely relate to every word you guys are saying 🥰
With his parents intelligence, personality and beautiful looks he cannot help but conquer the world....Good work guys!!!
Would love to see you do some music genre specific podcasts. You could start off by talking about your experiences growing up with the songs you heard and then how your opinions changed on the genre after becoming CZcamsrs. You could also talk about the songs that influenced your opinions and the bands/artists you have grown to love. I think some podcasts sharing your journey over the years of each of the biggest music genres would be great to watch
Love the real talk... genuine and true, as well as relatable... you two are great parents...
I love the 2’s, it’s the 3’s where they are adventurous ❤❤
So happy for you & to experience this love. But the thoughtfulness before & after, the real joy & finding the new sense of meaning in life are a pleasure to see & share.
Love to you Three. Much Love & God's Blessings, always.
You can never really know what an awesome gig being a parent is until you are one.
If i could give you guys a little bit of advice it would be to tell little Jack that you love him and that you are proud of him every day! My son is 40 and every time i talk to him i tell him that. ❤❤
It’s a higher love , being a parent! Bliss is a great word for that emotion…good one Lex!🫶👏🏻
You never leave your child, you just teach them to fly on their own...
i totally missed out on this because my wife came pre-equipped with children from a previous relationship and I have no biological children. But now I am experiencing being a grandparent. I think the most difficult year is between one (when they start to be mobile enough to get into trouble) and two (when they can speak well enough to understand "Stop that, it's dangerous"). However I guess they understand some stuff sooner - this morning I said to my one year old granddaughter "stop playing with your uncle's bike" and she stamped her feet and wagged her finger at me ... she was obviously trying to argue back even without being able to speak, yet.
It is so cute to see you two having this conversation.. something my husband and I never did.. we had twins that were 9 weeks premature, so we had a lot of stress at the beginning and their future was not clear as far as if they were going to have any long term complications, so that was a constant worry that did not stop until they were around 2 or so (they are going to turn 38 in September and they are wonderful young ladies). It's funny that Lex was expressing how she worries about every little thing and that is how it is when they are first born and then when and if you have another child, you are so much more relaxed about things.. where you always sterilized everything for the first baby, with the second, you are like meh.. much more laid back and not so worried about every little thing. As for the "terrible twos", I waited for that and noticed that the second year was not bad at all.. they were so cute and pretty easy to manage.. it should be called the "terrible threes" because this is when their personalities REALLY start to emerge and when they start telling you "no" and start expressing their own opinions (which is really fun).. I fretted and fretted over potty training and it was SO EASY.. I just got two little portable toilets and put them where ever we were in the house at the time so that when they had to go, they could see them and use them easily and in no time, they were trained and in big girl panties... and I stressed needlessly because, at the end of the day, they are going to get it. They are not going to be adults who aren't potty trained.. LOL.. Enjoy your son and each other. Thanks for the video guys.. it was so cute!!
I think most moms have natural instincts built in, and you just keep following them. You both are doing great. I have two boys and neither had the “terrible twos”. I hate to say this but I believe our children are reacting to us and the environment we’ve created, so many of those terrible twos are a reflection of their parents/upbringing. Harried and insecure parents will have harried and insecure children. When you have your second child nothing of what you’re going through right now will be present. Of course you will love him/her wholeheartedly, but any insecurities will be gone. Only thing I really worried about with my second is monitoring his sleeping. That still scared the crap out of me him! Great discussion guys, keep them coming!
Each phase brings challenges and beauty 💕 especially the first baby… as my son is growing it all feels hard (embracing the terrible 2’s, three-nado), since it’s my first time with a kid this age. But having my second, the newborn phase felt “easier”. You two are beautiful and just love all the moments. Good and bad. It’s all gone too quickly! Love you both!
I remember when she was pregnant and you were preparing to have the baby.
I told you you can’t really articulate how it feels to be a parent, it’s something you have to experience to understand.
Congratulations!
Interesting, it's an amazing journey being a new parent. With our first born, my wife worked night shift and I worked during the day, we just did'nt trust leaving her with strangers. My wife studied and got a degree in early childhood developement and day care administration, then we opened a home daycare where we eventually took care of kids who's parents were some of our first kids in the day care, two generations. I'm so happy for you guys, a positive attitude is very important.
So true, it’s indescribable and such an amazing journey ❤ love listening to your new podcast!
*These need to be longer! At least 2-3hours.. and do some live. Just 2 lovers talking about life. Like if you’d watch!!*
You two should keep a journal to document Jack's early life.
When my eleven-year old was little, he could not understand why people died. My wife told him that old people die to make room for the younger people. My kid said that he was going to invent a machine that would make Earth bigger so there would be more room, and people would not have to die.
Congratulations! I'm so happy for y'all! In a world where all the powers that be are trying to discourage people from starting families it's so refreshing to see people become parents and find out what a blessing from God it is, and how beautiful it is. God is Great! Y'all will be awesome parents!
You guys really need to keep a copy of this video for the days to come when you are chasing him all over the house getting in to everything or when he's 14 and moody and slamming doors and "it's all your fault" is getting screamed at you lol, coz we were all brats sometimes so keep this for those times and remind yourself of this blissful joy. Keep up the great work Mum n Dad you got this ❤
“Always be learnin” -Brad 2023
It's wonderful seeing the emotions on both your faces as you talk about your son. There's nothing like being a parent. It's definitely a roller coaster of emotions. One word of advice: your child's love is NOT unconditional. That will become apparent much, much further down the road. How you treat them will reflect in the ways you interact with them for the rest of your life. That said, I have no fears for how you two will treat your child. You both glow when speaking of him.
I resonate with this from personal experience 💯 great advice.
Congratulations and may God be with you both and Jack.
When I was a fairly new parent I was talking to a buddy who was insisting he never wanted to have a child. He said, "they are just useless, helpless creatures that rely on you for everything. "
I said, "well yes, but you know what else. You get to get down on the floor and play with them. When was the last time you got on the floor and just played!"
Well, he met a women he loved enough to want to have a child with and had a son and was the most doting and dedicated father imaginable. Kids change you for the better, if you are open to it.
Congratulations! I miss seeing your reactions. "Bliss" is a good word.
Congratulations 🎉
I always think of it as the. " trying twos" and the terrible threes at 2 they still don't really talk to you so it's hard to know what they need or want sometimes but at 3 they start to talk back and just really question your Authority😢❤❤
❤❤❤ I love being a parent. The first years are so fabulous, even in the difficult moments.
I didn’t mind toddler phase at all.
If I had to pick an age that was difficult it’s teen. Just because they are becoming so independent you no longer control them. You can’t always protect them. Their bad decisions can be really bad…. Stuff like that. Even now that my kids are in their 20s their decisions scare me because I’m afraid they will make this random bad decision that hurts them. But all the ages before teen was pretty easy. Maybe it didn’t “feel” easy but looking back it was. Hope that makes sense
Congrats! Have all the fun you can in the first 12 years, before they start to hate you.
I can see the happiness in both of you! So amazing. Good for you both.
What a true blessing a child is, a gift from God, specifically chosen for you …nobody else. Y’all are beautiful people, so happy for your family! God bless from S. GA. 😊. (& as far as “having enough to give”, the only thing they need is to know there is a higher power, that character means more than education, career or material things. Best thing I taught my six kids was that there is an eternal home & to deny themselves.)
You are the best mother. Let me know if you need anything. Stay blessed.
I love you two. It’s beautiful to see you together. Show us that baby.
My 27 year old son has lots of friends who have known me for 14 years and they all call me mom. I told my son that and he said “mom you’re everyone’s second mom. A great compliment
Brad, the pride you feel for completing something you’re good at pales next to the pride you feel when your son does that same thing even better than you. You’ll see. 😊
You two are very fortunate to be stay at home parents! I was a stay at home mom as well. Although I don't have a lot of education and a big career- I have no regrets. ❤
Good to see you folks doing well and having a great life. You're a nice family.
I wish you, and your growing family, nothing but the best!
Family =Happiness.
Kia ora hello guys from Aotearoa New Zealand.
Hay terrible twos nah i was the stay at home parent for all three of my boys 36 years old when my oldest son Strummer Clash was born.if you bring them up with boundaries and calmness don't lose ya cool with them they will follow suit ever since they were tall enough to reach the kitchen sink after eating they take their own dishes to the kitchen bench don't let them just drop wrappers or whatever on floor or ground/car floor but be lenient and patient they are learning all the time but small things make the big picture brighter and easier to paint for a long lasting future 😜
I am definitely more aware of my mortality, but it's not so much a fear of dying at this point as much as it is a fear of leading my child in a world unprepared. She encourages me to do things I didnt do before, including thinking more about my healtb
Bliss and joy! Yes!!
Absolutely living life to the fullest !!
Toddlers are the best, to me. There learning words and how to do things, and that's so darn cute (& funny).
When Brad said he thinks abt his mortality now, I thought abt how many times I flew places with no stress. Once I had kids I got nervous. What happens if I die? Responsibility!
Your a great couple wonderful wife. God bless u both. I remember when i witnessed my first born being born. It really felt like a miracle!
I have 4 children that came forth from my loins hajaah!
I always thought about the terrible twos is because the kids are gaining some independence and walking pretty good so they find things to get into and some of it is mischievous. There’s a lot more to come but I can promise one day you’ll be looking back with loving memories.
Kids are definitely a different journey. The first one is interesting for sure.
It's called terrible twos because of the fact that they start getting into everything and learning how to talk back and say no. And they're testing boundaries and testing mom and dad's limits. They're still amazing, beautiful babies, they're just ......terrible. 😂😂
Congrats to u both. Enjoy this age it's wonderful and worth all the list sleep.. my baby girl is 30 and I have an 11 yr old grandson my life.
Oh Wow. Congratulations to you both. Wonderful news. Best wishes to you all in your future ❤❤❤
You two make me believe in the goodness of people. I adore you xo ❤
I second that emotion!
Kids are great, but just know grandkids are so much better!
So happy to hear the young mum again. One advice , love is all that Jack need. True and infinite love !!! I got two 27 boys. The time is so precious but run soooo fasr. Don't miss a second with your little beautiful and holly Angel. Amen...❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊
At first didn't recognize you Brad. Congratulations on transformation
I have a 6 and 1 year old. I'm a stay home dad and feel this same way. I agree, this is the phase when he's walking and saying da da da da da. I'm 48, 2nd kid, and it still feels like the first time. I love it. So happy for you guys. It is the best being parents, but it's tiring and life consuming. Congrats. Love we are at the same point with our boys. Hope things get better soon.
God Bless you guys... such a beautiful family.
Love it!!!! So happy for you both!!!!!
You guys are awesome!
Love you guys sincerely!
Congrats. You guys will be wonderful parents.✌️
Great interview
So awesome, guys!! 😃😃
Congrats!!!
Im sure you both will be awesome parents do do just fine..
Now get back on the Stream so we can play some heavy Rock N Roll Lex!!!!
Congratulations! Wishing you all the best..
Congrats! You two rock!
I absolutely love this! So happy for you all and what a great dialogue you both have together. You are truly blessed. All the best!
You guys are feeling exactly how and what you should be feeling. You'll do great. We've all seen the differences in you. You've come so far.
it is the best!!!!
Awesome video! So well articulated. Makes me wish I had kids. That boat sailed long ago. But I couldn't be happier for you two. The love in your family is obvious.
You guys are awesome and will make excellent parents..
Congratulations-God bless you
Miss your music reactions!
Congratulations.
Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
Thumbnail is funny af never heard of these two b4
Enjoy it all while you can! They grow up so fast. I hope you never have to go through what are right now - one in his 30's & one in his 20's... BOTH have the same parents, but the one who is 37 has turned our lives into complete HELL. THE 28 yr old is a "perfect child"... was the economics of each child a part of that? We didn't have $$ with the 1st, but did with the 2nd. CRAZY life, us Mom's go through...