The James Saroka Files | A Worse Onision Ep.1

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Komentáře • 17K

  • @backwardsbandit8094
    @backwardsbandit8094 Před 4 lety +637

    He's FURIOUS every time his girlfriend has an opinion. I'm in fear for her every time she speaks

    • @mattsouth6930
      @mattsouth6930 Před 4 lety +5

      @AsHLiegH-MaRie HoPe Hi Ashliegh, are you on the Narcissistic support group on FB? I found some valuable info on there, lots of people going through similar stuff.

    • @jilbobaggins6644
      @jilbobaggins6644 Před 4 lety +1

      AsHLiegH-MaRie HoPe please message me if you need any help or support. You need to get free from your abusive relationship. You deserve so much better. That is abuse. And NOBODY deserves to be abused EVER.

  • @antisocialsocialite5046
    @antisocialsocialite5046 Před 4 lety +1700

    The scariest part about this man is that you can tell he 100% believes EVERYTHING he says. Hes not just a lying scam artist who does it for the money, but at least they're SELF AWARE enough to know that they're spewing bullshit. They dont actually BELIEVE the insane shit they say. But this guy? No, you can tell he COMPLETELY believes every word that he says whole heartedly! And that is even more frightening to me than a simple con man...

    • @coliedeekenzo
      @coliedeekenzo Před 4 lety +27

      He 100% believes his bullshit! And believes he's entitled! Sickening!

    • @aoefeable
      @aoefeable Před 4 lety +6

      Antisocial Socialite bingo

    • @paulghignon4092
      @paulghignon4092 Před 4 lety +1

      His look an behavior reminds me a lot of Marshall Applewhite in so many ways, and look how that one turned out.

    • @5555Jacker
      @5555Jacker Před 4 lety +17

      This makes me even more worried for his girlfriend. If he completely believes everything he's saying, all the insults and manipulation against her, that could mean he's not only abusive but directly dangerous to her as well. Who knows what he could do...

    • @angryunicornproductions2633
      @angryunicornproductions2633 Před 4 lety +5

      I agree he needsto be in jail his girlfriend needs lots of tharapy and a restraining order

  • @RBEkline
    @RBEkline Před 2 lety +659

    He was arrested in Claremore, Oklahoma yesterday for hitting her in public!

    • @Long-live-vacation
      @Long-live-vacation Před 2 lety +27

      Thank friking frik dos she have to press charges or how dos that work😟

    • @rosieoliver7164
      @rosieoliver7164 Před 2 lety +23

      Thank fuck for that..what a twisted guy

    • @clsatc
      @clsatc Před 2 lety +32

      What? They're still together? We have to save her!

    • @MsTinkerbelle87
      @MsTinkerbelle87 Před 2 lety +8

      @@clsatc How????

    • @DisDatK9
      @DisDatK9 Před 2 lety +69

      Unfortunately, due to Oklahoma law, he is only being held on a misdemeanor charge. But now her family is aware of her location, and they can really start trying to help her. During the meet the officers said she kept asking him if she could talk to the police. She’s completely gone mentally at this point, so here’s hoping her family can help her stay away from this crazy asshole and she can begin to feel loved again.

  • @charliedeegan1598
    @charliedeegan1598 Před 3 lety +680

    "I abuse my wife and its society's fault"
    EXCUSE ME SIR WHAT

    • @_labacanitaz
      @_labacanitaz Před 2 lety +4

      "hi I'm Charlie Deegan and my pfp is 🔥🔥🔥🔥"
      EXCUSE ME , WHAT--
      you look GORGEOUS 😍

    • @michaelpopescu6615
      @michaelpopescu6615 Před 2 lety +11

      Your giving him to much credit by saying "sir"

  • @samferrante2788
    @samferrante2788 Před 4 lety +505

    “This is a conversation between two adults.” NO THAT IS A CONVERSATION BETWEEN AN ABUSER AND HIS VICTIM

    • @skwidthecrayfsh34
      @skwidthecrayfsh34 Před 4 lety

      But they are both adults, so no

    • @thatonecatwiththetophat
      @thatonecatwiththetophat Před 4 lety

      The fact that he was telling her to grow up was worse.

    • @megsmacgregs320
      @megsmacgregs320 Před 4 lety +4

      An adult can still be a victim. So what’s your point?

    • @skwidthecrayfsh34
      @skwidthecrayfsh34 Před 4 lety +1

      Megan MacGregor that your statement is wrong, you clearly state that it is not a conversation between two adults, but they are both adults (you already admit it is a conversation) therefore your statement is wrong

    • @sulcuryaltinone4570
      @sulcuryaltinone4570 Před 4 lety

      @@skwidthecrayfsh34 Megan never said what you say she did. She pointed out that an adult can be abused. He may be past the age of being an adult, but he does not have the mental abilities of an actual adult. Him being the age of an adult is irrelevant. The original comment was not about how old he is. You said your point was that he is the age of an adult...you may be right in the literal sense, but that's besides the actual point of what was said in the first place. Ignoring what was meant in order to be right by seeing it literally being about how old he is a waste and muddies the water, but sure you're right. He is an "adult".

  • @keddy7861
    @keddy7861 Před 4 lety +592

    Something about him saying “like your dad” “like your uncle” is making me feel like he’s using something that happened to her in the past that involved them to manipulate her

    • @duckz134
      @duckz134 Před 4 lety +68

      I read in the comments of another video that he brainwashed her into thinking that her family were abusive to her so as to distance her from them

    • @andrewquick4176
      @andrewquick4176 Před 4 lety +5

      ABSOLUTELY

    • @afree6339
      @afree6339 Před 4 lety +24

      It’s possible. Toxic people love to use anything in your life that can be used against you later. Which is why you should never divulge too much personal information with potential relationships. It sucks and it hurts.

    • @ashleys2994
      @ashleys2994 Před 4 lety

      Oh he ABSOLUTELY is

    • @ivantheterriblepart3
      @ivantheterriblepart3 Před 4 lety +13

      She has a good family he beainshwashed her into thinking they abused her and it wasn’t just them it was her friends, coworkers, church friends etc pretty much any support system she has. Her family has been trying so hard to get her back and away from that nut job.

  • @rosarioby612
    @rosarioby612 Před 2 lety +133

    I honestly never thought that I'd see someone who actually makes Onision look like a _nicer person._ This is scary...

  • @Euphrosyned
    @Euphrosyned Před 2 lety +174

    This is what a psychopath who never learned how to mimic other people's expressions looks like. He can't recognize emotions in her and can't make his own. His lack of empathy is on full display. Given the right environment he'd probably kill.. Women.. Obvs. Definitely the type who escalates and eventually kills his gf.

    • @zammymynakersnackstbmoth
      @zammymynakersnackstbmoth Před 2 lety +8

      He's a psychopath. The charming charismatic type who mimics human emotion is a sociopath.

    • @bobohobo7652
      @bobohobo7652 Před 2 lety

      no

    • @emmm_4465
      @emmm_4465 Před 2 lety +4

      well you're not wrong the POS was arrested for beating her (WHILST PREGNANT) in public and seemingly annoyed when people stepped into his business to stop him. emotional abuse => physical abuse => d e a d. I hope someone gets her out before its too late...

    • @pdcdesign9632
      @pdcdesign9632 Před 2 lety

      For every psycho online like this Saroka character, it takes a group of GULLIBLE RELIGIOUS weak minded
      people to ENABLE him.
      Go MURCA. What about my FREEDUMBS?

    • @Euphrosyned
      @Euphrosyned Před 2 lety +4

      @@zammymynakersnackstbmoth that's not true. From mental heath site. You can Google.
      Psychopaths tend to be more manipulative, can be seen by others as more charming, lead a semblance of a normal life, and minimize risk in criminal activities. Sociopaths tend to be more erratic, rage-prone, and unable to lead as much of a normal life. When sociopaths engage in criminal activity, they tend to do so in a reckless manner without regard to consequences.

  • @vampvhs
    @vampvhs Před 4 lety +2501

    “Take him outside, look at the sunset together, and just shoot him in the back of the head” -Filthy Frank

    • @jenpai_senpai
      @jenpai_senpai Před 4 lety +108

      I've never seen a more fitting quote for this situation than this one

    • @HaidebugCreates
      @HaidebugCreates Před 4 lety +62

      VAMPVHS **to james** “know your place trash”

    • @BubJeans
      @BubJeans Před 4 lety +22

      That would be to good for this guy

    • @peternakic5049
      @peternakic5049 Před 4 lety +3

      Bruno
      Hey! Shit’s too much of a delicacy for him.

    • @VoodooChiilld
      @VoodooChiilld Před 4 lety +4

      I miss him...

  • @kimberlyleon9293
    @kimberlyleon9293 Před 4 lety +717

    This made me cry. She has a permanent scared face. She never knows when he’s going to snap. I’m so sorry to say this but if she doesn’t get out of that relationship HE’S GOING TO KILL HER

    • @abdullahsepic
      @abdullahsepic Před 4 lety +4

      fr

    • @Feteronii
      @Feteronii Před 4 lety +15

      that was one thing that freaked me out too, like when he changed from neutral to angry in that last clip her expression didn't even change bc she looked scared the entire time

    • @Meiabell
      @Meiabell Před 4 lety +16

      Never cry in front of a narcissist, they get high on the power. You get your power back by not caring about his opinion.

    • @ronaldmexico1297
      @ronaldmexico1297 Před 4 lety +10

      It seems like she maybe doesn’t have enough experience outside of the relationship to understand that she can/should leave. Idk if its a Stockholm syndrome thing or something but it seems like she doesn’t know how horrible her situation is because she doesn’t have the perspective.

    • @Meiabell
      @Meiabell Před 4 lety +2

      Once I stopped being “moved” to tears or admiring his pondering. He lost his ever loving mind. He could have killed me at that point because it was the end of power, but instead he cried. And tried to make me pity him. I said nope, and goodbye.
      There really is power is it. And once you see him as pathetic, it changes the dynamic.

  • @BK_ZERO
    @BK_ZERO Před 3 lety +469

    This is genuinely terrifying. He's going to end up killing her. I pray that she gets away from him and that he gets some help. What a sick individual.

    • @Treeeee2008
      @Treeeee2008 Před 3 lety +28

      I'm sure my pointy beak would fit nicely in between his narcissistic eyes

    • @Long-live-vacation
      @Long-live-vacation Před 2 lety +6

      I dont think she sees it especially because he actually have people following him so it feels like she is ind the wrong 😧

    • @Treeeee2008
      @Treeeee2008 Před 2 lety +6

      @@Long-live-vacation how is she in the wrong for being a victim?

    • @helpimshinjinow9026
      @helpimshinjinow9026 Před 2 lety +12

      @@Treeeee2008 I think they're saying she feels in the wrong because he has followers saying he is in the right.

    • @Mel0nCake404
      @Mel0nCake404 Před 2 lety +6

      @@helpimshinjinow9026
      Yeah, that's part of manipulation unfortunately

  • @coreyh8589
    @coreyh8589 Před 3 lety +175

    I don't know why this sticks out to me, but the fact that he was "so exhausted" that she had to wipe his own poop is...the weirdest control move I've ever heard of.

    • @pommiebears
      @pommiebears Před 2 lety +18

      It’s disgusting, debasing, and abusive. He made her wipe his ass because he felt good making her do it. That’s how sociopathy works. They thrive on others pain, on their shame, and embarrassment. Why? Because their whole lives is spent projecting.

    • @babe1er
      @babe1er Před 2 lety +3

      Pommie 🐻 Bears wouldn't it be embarrassing for him but?

    • @user-ft7xi7on8p
      @user-ft7xi7on8p Před 2 lety +3

      @@babe1er To normal folks it would be. But whatever disconnect there is in his brain, likely does cause him to get some kind of pleasure or satisfaction out of it. When I heard that part, I immediately thought back to the beginning of the video where he says God was in his seat. He sees himself as greater than God. Even though from what we’ve seen his life is a constant struggle to the point of him “having” to scam the vulnerable to eat. So having her wipe his butt more than likely wasn’t an “exhaustion” thing, but probably a power tripping, embarrassing and shaming her kind of thing.
      Sick stuff. I really hope the girl gets out of that situation before he either kills her or damages her beyond repair. No one deserves to be treated that way.

    • @stephenhatt6622
      @stephenhatt6622 Před rokem +1

      Wow that’s definitely NOT an image I want in my mind 🤢🤮💩

  • @addisons2583
    @addisons2583 Před 4 lety +445

    He genuinely makes almost no sense whatsoever when he speaks. He just speaks so “matter-of-factly” he thinks he’s speaking intelligently.

    • @breannenicole9264
      @breannenicole9264 Před 4 lety +17

      he's really trying the 'fake it until you make it' motto

    • @kiki29073
      @kiki29073 Před 4 lety +6

      Manic phase. He even mentioned his mania in one of tje clips.

    • @BrookeKatherine.
      @BrookeKatherine. Před 4 lety +2

      kim mcdonald and said he didn’t have it?

    • @littlea967
      @littlea967 Před 4 lety +3

      Just like a psychopath

    • @nightcoreeclub
      @nightcoreeclub Před 4 lety +2

      He done took the word salad apart and organized it by color

  • @harleysghost5782
    @harleysghost5782 Před 4 lety +2168

    he doesn’t even make sense , he talks like someone was typing sentences by using the random word suggest.

    • @joejohnson8192
      @joejohnson8192 Před 4 lety +37

      Harleys Ghost We that know him call it word salad 🥗

    • @jaydenrock
      @jaydenrock Před 4 lety +26

      Reminds me of the nonsense Charles Manson spews.

    • @St0N3RZoMBiE
      @St0N3RZoMBiE Před 4 lety +7

      Alphabet soup

    • @hotgirladjacent
      @hotgirladjacent Před 4 lety +89

      It's a gaslighting tactic used to confuse you so you don't know what's true or not and you have to get them to clarify what they said, therefore making you the dumb one. I've lived through it.

    • @mermaid8935
      @mermaid8935 Před 4 lety +6

      @@hotgirladjacent Sorry that you had to go threw it!

  • @quirch43
    @quirch43 Před 3 lety +57

    James Saroka: World’s first serial killer outed before he ever got to start killing.

  • @TaylorrrM-np7ou
    @TaylorrrM-np7ou Před 2 lety +126

    UPDATE: apparently Kate is pregnant and he was arrested yesterday(7/26/21) for domestic abuse on a pregnant female and interfering with an officer. He looks pretty rough in his mug shot. Hopefully she can get away from him now.

    • @srlkiller
      @srlkiller Před 2 lety +23

      More specifically… he beat her in her pregnant stomach & officers all mentioned how bizarre it came across when confronting the couple as she only would speak after looking at him and waiting for validation in order to speak

    • @RachelMarotta
      @RachelMarotta Před 2 lety +13

      That is terrifying. Hopefully she stays away from him because he will end up killing her.

    • @srlkiller
      @srlkiller Před 2 lety +2

      @@RachelMarotta I posted an update about him on this vid yesterday !!

    • @RachelMarotta
      @RachelMarotta Před 2 lety +2

      @@srlkiller sweet checking it out now

    • @SlashinatorZ
      @SlashinatorZ Před 2 lety +3

      Surprised the officers didn't side with him & deputize him

  • @XlittleXdrummerXgirl
    @XlittleXdrummerXgirl Před 4 lety +456

    "I'm not abusing you" -literally every abuser ever

    • @prizmarvalschi1319
      @prizmarvalschi1319 Před 4 lety

      My brother :

    • @andreahernaiz7776
      @andreahernaiz7776 Před 4 lety +8

      Honestly, if you HAVE to say “I’m not abusing you” that should be a sign that something’s very wrong

    • @Romanticoutlaw
      @Romanticoutlaw Před 4 lety +7

      not to mention that he says ANYMORE after it. He admits to abusing her in a way that implies she should be “over it” by now. Disgusting.

  • @Sara-ez3em
    @Sara-ez3em Před 4 lety +7529

    this girl is so clearly dissociating while he talks to her. I can't imagine where her self esteem is at. I feel....so horrible for her

    • @succubasu
      @succubasu Před 4 lety +463

      @Jennifer yeah no it's not. She's a victim of a narcissistic abusive asshole

    • @jasminescott2354
      @jasminescott2354 Před 4 lety +167

      Hopefully she comes out of this smarter and stronger with some self esteem....if she ever gets out alive that is...

    • @s0lastsummer7
      @s0lastsummer7 Před 4 lety +464

      Her deep breaths that she's letting out slowly through pursed lips, that's a relaxation technique that he's brainwashed her into doing non stop. After I suspected this was the case, I found a video of him coaching her to breathe like that. Everything she does is what he's beat into her because he has convinced her that she's overreacting all the time and abusing HIM. He's a psychopath.

    • @savhannah9889
      @savhannah9889 Před 4 lety +252

      It's actually hard to watch. You can see the light suddenly leave her eyes.

    • @Sara-ez3em
      @Sara-ez3em Před 4 lety +60

      @@s0lastsummer7 that is so disturbing wow

  • @FrankieLeeH
    @FrankieLeeH Před 2 lety +40

    For anyone who hasn't heard- he was arrested July 30th 2021 for beating a pregnant Kaitlin in public. Sadly, due to Oklahoma laws, it's only a misdemenour charge but according to the police Kaitlin's parents drove straight down to collect her and she's currently under their protection. The police description of Kaitlin is really tragic, they said she's displaying all the signs of battered wife syndrome and kept asking for her husbands permission before giving a statement.

  • @theundeadcactus6194
    @theundeadcactus6194 Před 3 lety +30

    he's like a fusion of Ben Shapiro and onision doused in earwax with the personality of rusty nails being gargled and then washed down with drain cleaner

  • @OGSkullKid
    @OGSkullKid Před 4 lety +9629

    He speaks like he thinks he's extremely intelligent, but he's actually just a rambling lunatic.

    • @loveitsonlybabyscars6778
      @loveitsonlybabyscars6778 Před 4 lety +269

      Ted Bundy also acted the same way

    • @cmg6765
      @cmg6765 Před 4 lety +427

      he sounds eerily similar to Ben Shapiro.

    • @user-pp6kd7ut4k
      @user-pp6kd7ut4k Před 4 lety +198

      @@cmg6765 yes. Ben Shapiro is not an idiot but he's not a genius and he's so convinced he is

    • @sopholmes939
      @sopholmes939 Před 4 lety +87

      I can't understand half the shit he is dribbling? 🤯

    • @akumaplantstudios8869
      @akumaplantstudios8869 Před 4 lety +128

      @@sopholmes939 It's because he sees himself beyond everyone. He's no different to a cult leader.
      Problem is, unlike those guys nobody cares who he is or what he has to say. He has a young girl under his control and at no point will she run from him because she doesn't see a way to escape. He's convinced her that he's God and The Devil. The only way she can leave is if he says so. (That's how abusers work)
      The local authorities need to see this.
      Problem is, I can't see it being taken seriously, and the more that people make youtube videos and talk about him, the bigger his ego will get.
      The more danger she will find herself in. This is an issue for the police.

  • @revolverjesus98
    @revolverjesus98 Před 4 lety +858

    Whenever this guy talks it feels like I'm in a bad fever dream. Nothing makes sense and I feel more and more discomfort as it goes on. I'm genuinely disturbed by this guy, and I don't even know why.

    • @xoxoPinkVoltage
      @xoxoPinkVoltage Před 4 lety +6

      Jude Macpherson EXACTLY

    • @SpaceBirbLizzy
      @SpaceBirbLizzy Před 4 lety +23

      I feel the same way. The worst is the smile at 6:55
      That guy immediately triggers my fight or flight response

    • @somedude172
      @somedude172 Před 4 lety +19

      its a manipulation tactic, called word salad iirc. it makes you question your sanity, and just accept whatever he says bc *obviously* youre just too stupid/out of it to understand

    • @smprocks321
      @smprocks321 Před 4 lety +8

      My ex used to pull this crap whenever I confronted him. Combined with aggressive behavior it’s surprisingly effective at making you feel disoriented and stupid.
      I hated it with a passion then and I still do now.

    • @raptoid2518
      @raptoid2518 Před 4 lety +9

      @Jude Macpherson I know it's not to the same extent women have to be afraid, but this is the kind of guy everyone should be afraid of. He gives me Serial Killer vibes. He's a danger to society and should be in prison.

  • @DarA-vh5zo
    @DarA-vh5zo Před 2 lety +65

    The look of joy in his eyes as he’s abusing her is appalling and terrifying.

    • @dahliacheung6020
      @dahliacheung6020 Před rokem +1

      Seriously though, he look excited as hell as he's bring cruel and terrorizing then and the more distressed they get it's like he gets to a point where he's actually grinning.

    • @EEsYouTubeChanel
      @EEsYouTubeChanel Před rokem +1

      He SMILES when he says he hits her and other women

    • @__rm307
      @__rm307 Před rokem

      Real life Prince Geoffrey

  • @uglyboynat5743
    @uglyboynat5743 Před 2 lety +55

    “Victimization doesn’t make the big bucks 😤”
    *literally victimizes himself throughout every live*

  • @paolagracia4876
    @paolagracia4876 Před 4 lety +1040

    "I'm not angry, anger is when you lash out at someone"
    *Proceeds to hit his girlfriend*

  • @TheNomadicSunny
    @TheNomadicSunny Před 4 lety +5598

    if he treats Kaitlin like this on camera... i can only imagine what life is like with him off-camera.

    • @jaredmartin7040
      @jaredmartin7040 Před 4 lety +222

      He's fuckin nuts

    • @strudelh
      @strudelh Před 4 lety +176

      Apparantly he's worse than onision so im worried-

    • @TheNomadicSunny
      @TheNomadicSunny Před 4 lety +129

      Jared Martin i’m scared for her :( i noticed there is a Kaitlin Be Safe channel link the in description of this video, i’m going there after this

    • @Syn1
      @Syn1 Před 4 lety +31

      That's a scary thought! 😯 I can't even imagine how bad that would be.

    • @bethdutton4433
      @bethdutton4433 Před 4 lety +90

      Yes. And to me she looks malnourished as hell.

  • @TheAllyPatty
    @TheAllyPatty Před 3 lety +68

    Him: *I don’t do victimization*
    Also him: *ppl hurt me, send money*

  • @uzaiyaro
    @uzaiyaro Před 2 lety +42

    “I can’t relate to homosexuality at all.” I can’t relate to being a monster at all, ditto having a face so irresistible for me to cave in with a crowbar, half life style. I wouldn’t want you to relate to us.

  • @jennyneedsmeds
    @jennyneedsmeds Před 4 lety +3527

    he tries to act like he's not abusive because she sits quietly while he abuses her, lol, that's literally what abusers do.

    • @gemmacook1753
      @gemmacook1753 Před 4 lety +119

      Men.. sorry cowards like him will never admit any fault. He will always be the victim in his mind, he will.always be "putting up" with his girlfriend. He actually thinks he is doing the world a favour. He doesnt see himself as the abuser, he sees her as the abuser

    • @KingOfGaymes
      @KingOfGaymes Před 4 lety +74

      “I’m not hitting you, so it’s not abuse”

    • @rodrigobento4570
      @rodrigobento4570 Před 4 lety +88

      He's acts and talks like a cult leader, except he isn't even able to get followers.

    • @Martitaj0nes
      @Martitaj0nes Před 4 lety +36

      he is like, you're stupid, im not abusing you, you look like an abuse victim, but youre not, like wtf

    • @LilNuggzzz
      @LilNuggzzz Před 4 lety

      j money yea..🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @kenseihaup
    @kenseihaup Před 4 lety +688

    He can’t pick which lane he wants “Nice guy” “white knight” “imma a hero” “truth sayer” “incel” “iamsmart” dude is giving me whiplash

    • @artoriapendragonidilfitri7414
      @artoriapendragonidilfitri7414 Před 4 lety +46

      Easy just categorise him as 'SCUMBAG' like I do

    • @picklejuice-je9qz
      @picklejuice-je9qz Před 4 lety +18

      @Women Most Affected you're* so all female cancer patients with short hair are "queer"? Or male metalheads with long hair are "queer" too? Crawl back in the cave you just walked out of

    • @stoppre88
      @stoppre88 Před 4 lety

      R/'s wet dream.

    • @sukatidi
      @sukatidi Před 4 lety +1

      truth slayer nice guy incel

    • @elobiretv
      @elobiretv Před 4 lety +1

      Do you even know what any of those mean? How on earth is someone with a girlfriend an incel?

  • @hannahreed2451
    @hannahreed2451 Před 2 lety +83

    My ex was exactly like this, the way he speaks, carries himself, all the way down wiping his own butt. He used to put me on the spot like this, not in front of a camera (although he did record me upset a few times to prove I was the “crazy” one) but in front of friends, family, in a grocery store, etc… I would disassociate just like this because if you challenge, even just a simple “I think differently than that” would result in getting hit. In my 5 years of hell I stood up to him ONE time…he beat me to a pulp and left me for dead in our backyard. Literally admitted to a judge he thought he killed me, and left me out there to drink a beer and figure out where to hide my body. Thankfully, that was the last time I (and our children) ever saw him. Aside from our court dates because the state pressed charges.
    What Kaitlin needs is professional help. She needs some where to go without judgement, and someone to prove to her this isn’t normal behavior. Someone to prove to her that he doesn’t love her, and as harsh as it is that she is just a “toy” to him. It’s incredibly hard to get through to a victim of DV because they tend to adapt to the situation, she can’t see past the lovebombing and the “yeah he hits me but it’s not always that bad”. Your mentality is so manipulated during a relationship like this which makes it hard to recognize how dangerous it actually is.
    Gosh, watching this makes me sick to my stomach because I’ve truly been there and I know I most likely wouldn’t have left if I wasn’t forced to by the courts. An abusive relationship is similar to a drug addiction, only the abuser is your drug..you know you’re better off without it but you just can’t make yourself walk away….
    I really hope she gets the help and support she needs to get away.

    • @wrenisabird6193
      @wrenisabird6193 Před 2 lety +3

      There is an update! He got arrested

    • @nomdeplume2213
      @nomdeplume2213 Před 2 lety +2

      Same. Im so sorry you had to experience it as well. Its so hard for ppl who have never been in an abusive relationship to understand. Thankfully he got arrested and she's back at home with her family.

    • @ashleighmorton7605
      @ashleighmorton7605 Před 2 lety +1

      I’ve been there in that mindset as well. My heart goes out to you and I’m so happy you got away. 💖

    • @hannahreed2451
      @hannahreed2451 Před 2 lety +4

      I know it doesn’t happen over night but I really hope now that he is arrested Kaitlin can actually start her journey of healing. I’m not gonna lie I actually cried a little when I saw he was arrested. I’m aware that sounds ridiculous, but this is a major step to her healing. I just pray she has a huge support system behind her to keep her strong when she feels weak. Separating them was hard but keeping them separated will be harder, she’s going to need 24 hour support and I truly hope she has that.

    • @katem3
      @katem3 Před 2 lety +1

      @@hannahreed2451 I'm so happy you're out of there and safe!

  • @BlueGeen
    @BlueGeen Před 2 lety +65

    “I make my own punishment. So now no one else can punish me.” Well folks, now someone else is finally punishing him. 😁 Jimmy’s jail era!

    • @nomdeplume2213
      @nomdeplume2213 Před 2 lety +10

      Can u imagine what his fellow inmates will do when they find out who he is and that he beat a pregnant girl? Even criminals have morals and they dont put up with child abuse.

    • @zammymynakersnackstbmoth
      @zammymynakersnackstbmoth Před 2 lety +1

      Did he really get locked up? Please say yes! 🤞🏾

    • @saracampbell4323
      @saracampbell4323 Před 2 lety +5

      @@zammymynakersnackstbmoth yes, arrested and charged with domestic violence. He got her pregnant and got physical with her during the pregnancy. She’s back with her family, for now.

    • @zammymynakersnackstbmoth
      @zammymynakersnackstbmoth Před 2 lety +1

      @@saracampbell4323 yeah i saw the update. Thank God. He deserves more than the few months though. He needs a couple years or more.

  • @s.o.k.1393
    @s.o.k.1393 Před 4 lety +1811

    Jesus Christ, I feel like I'm being abused just watching this video

    • @doublefeature
      @doublefeature Před 4 lety +76

      for real, it's super difficult to watch.

    • @libera7161
      @libera7161 Před 4 lety +29

      Me too, I can't listen to him, I mute him when I see him on the screen

    • @dirkbuskermolen4174
      @dirkbuskermolen4174 Před 4 lety +23

      He made the evidence himself, should make it easier to get him arrested

    • @jinon_music
      @jinon_music Před 4 lety +3

      Yep. Same 😩

    • @madlygilstrap8193
      @madlygilstrap8193 Před 4 lety +10

      Yeah I’m getting sick..

  • @Rosebud0801
    @Rosebud0801 Před 4 lety +6685

    She looks so ... exhausted, like she has given up defending herself entirely and goes into a neutral, emotionless state. It’s horrifying to watch and I hope she escapes this monster unscathed.

    • @BabvBlues
      @BabvBlues Před 4 lety +293

      it hurts my heart

    • @Princess_Soulless
      @Princess_Soulless Před 4 lety +165

      God I've been in two relationships like this and I know that feeling exactly. You just get so tired of fighting a losing battle that you just go numb inside.

    • @SunnyDragonfly
      @SunnyDragonfly Před 4 lety +118

      Dealing with monologuing, abusive narcissists does that to a person.

    • @DarthVaderReturns1
      @DarthVaderReturns1 Před 4 lety +24

      @@SunnyDragonfly my former best friend use to treat me the same way as James saroka trets kait he would do the same things James saroka does to kait he would like hurt me being in a friendship with my former best friend he was the monster and master and he loved treating me like shit

    • @foxronyo
      @foxronyo Před 4 lety +83

      The projection from Jimmy is mind blowing.
      The amount of accusations over 'anger', 'gaslighting' and 'lying' he makes about other people, when anyone who watches his videos can see that it is HIM, is crazy.
      Even his 'fight' with Josh, he essentially implies that Josh started it.
      And that's something else. He claims that Kait has a "victim mentality", when he's the one always begging for sympathy with crocodile tears, and stays with her despite all the times he says he's going to leave her.
      Personally, I think Kait has PTSD and some degree of Stockholm Syndrome at this point. She's been psychologically damaged to the point she can't fight back, and there's a part of her brain, massaged by his empty words, that makes her feel like he's the only one who can help, especially given how she has alienated herself from her family and friends at his insistence.

  • @kellyetallent
    @kellyetallent Před 2 lety +27

    He just got arrested in Oklahoma for beating her while they were walking down the road. She's pregnant.

  • @mywingsareyours
    @mywingsareyours Před 2 lety +45

    did he literally rant about her saying shes lying and hes gonna tell the whole truth but then he basically just says what she said again???? like huh??? she was saying it was a huge act of love BECAUSE you are put through a lot of horrible shit tf. like dont accuse someone of lying just because they used a phrase that you dont understand lmao

  • @chekinemi951
    @chekinemi951 Před 4 lety +643

    She looks so lifeless and scared. I feel so bad for her. When she cries she when hes telling her to stop lying and that she isnt abused, I just cant help but want to cry with her. Her situation is so fucked up.

    • @Fot113
      @Fot113 Před 4 lety +15

      makenna lee I want to take her away and go to Disney land for like a week

    • @Jonny.Jr.Jay.Junior
      @Jonny.Jr.Jay.Junior Před 4 lety +7

      My chest hurts so much just seeing how that girl looks.. I almost cried because how badly she's been treated .. I hope she gets out of this safely!

    • @dustinsmith842
      @dustinsmith842 Před 4 lety

      so sad it reminds me of why to stay broken heart forever

    • @zeroxcrusher
      @zeroxcrusher Před 4 lety

      Why doesnt she leave?

    • @indigo7333
      @indigo7333 Před 4 lety +8

      @@zeroxcrusher Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? Because it's hard to leave one, dear.

  • @chloejohnston5359
    @chloejohnston5359 Před 4 lety +481

    his obsession with his own "honesty" is so reflective of Onision, and it's so clear that this is what abusers do. how many times do we have to hear them talk about honesty and being truthful and only speaking facts? like if you're a good, honest person you should never have to tell anyone you are, it should just show through in your behaviour and mannerisms

    • @user-kp8wn1iw8o
      @user-kp8wn1iw8o Před 4 lety +1

      He feels like onision before most of the internet hated him

    • @smileitsjustagame2937
      @smileitsjustagame2937 Před 4 lety +3

      A man that used to abuse me used to do that. He always told people that he would never hit a woman, and he did it to me multiple times. He would also brag about how he was honest, and that he valued truth over everything else. And he ended up cheating on me. So not only was he violent, but he was a liar too. Of someone has to tell you they are good, most of the time they are trying to convince you.

    • @samcresp5440
      @samcresp5440 Před 4 lety +1

      My narc dad was like that. All about being logical and factual, but a lot of their points are just fucking nonsense. Gaslighting and making me doubt my sanity and if things had happened, that’s the goal. These people lie and only know how to lie. They believe it 100%

  • @TheColorfulPuppehKat
    @TheColorfulPuppehKat Před 3 lety +38

    When they were talking about the eggs and the complete switch from him being "civil" and him calmly accusing his girlfriend of lying gave me chills. That man is going to murder her.

  • @shirochii
    @shirochii Před 3 lety +183

    I swear on everything, he is the love child between Onision and Ben Shapiro.

    • @manamejeffbeezos1238
      @manamejeffbeezos1238 Před 2 lety +8

      thank you, I was trying to piece it together xD

    • @bobtheball5384
      @bobtheball5384 Před 2 lety +17

      Holy shit that is so true. I got major Ben Shapipo vibes

    • @zammymynakersnackstbmoth
      @zammymynakersnackstbmoth Před 2 lety +6

      EXACTLY!! Onision, Ben Shapiro and Charles Manson.

    • @sofiab.9129
      @sofiab.9129 Před 2 lety +3

      @@zammymynakersnackstbmoth even manson treated his girls better.... He is scarier than manson.

    • @devan8432
      @devan8432 Před 2 lety +2

      He's even worse...

  • @kurtengel4652
    @kurtengel4652 Před 4 lety +829

    "A worse Onision"
    I imagine Onision's narcissism didn't like that very much

    • @chessnitemayr
      @chessnitemayr Před 4 lety +32

      Someone should share this to him just for the emotional breakdown it will cause him.

    • @kurtengel4652
      @kurtengel4652 Před 4 lety +15

      @@chessnitemayr lol he'd definitely act out again for attention. but I don't think anyone wants that

    • @stateofdisorder1
      @stateofdisorder1 Před 4 lety +1

      😂🤣

    • @zomb_bree7950
      @zomb_bree7950 Před 4 lety +2

      FOR REALS

    • @Mimyakko
      @Mimyakko Před 4 lety +11

      Omg imagine Onision trying to take this guy down so he can be the center of attention again

  • @vonwaxman1220
    @vonwaxman1220 Před 4 lety +1849

    He is genuinely so terrifying. I've had boyfriends that were like a diet version of this guy. I can't even imagine what Kaitlyn is going through right now, but no matter what I hope she gets out asap. I genuinely think this guy is dangerous, and I hope he gets his comeuppance directly.

    • @MeloncliHil
      @MeloncliHil Před 4 lety +33

      I agree. He is so directly horrible to her... I hope they both, but especially his girlfriend, get the help that they desperately need. This is awful.... But YES! Total "diet" version for me too.. sadly.. and I know of many other people who have gone through this type of abuse as well.. My sons father is a total diet version of this monster... 😞

    • @JisooTurtleRabbitt
      @JisooTurtleRabbitt Před 4 lety +9

      Von Maria at 30:58 what the actual frig, I don't even understand what he is going on about, I'd be confused as hell, ughhh I hope she cracks and decks him one day

    • @abethepunk
      @abethepunk Před 4 lety +9

      I didn't even realize how abusive my past relationships have been, nothing like this thank God. I keep seeing little things with this psychopath and onision. Her life must be a nightmare, can anything be done?

    • @nealtoner7875
      @nealtoner7875 Před 4 lety +3

      @@JisooTurtleRabbitt unfortunately he would just spin it and torture the poor lass even harder. Snake 🐍 does not do this ejit justice.

    • @darlenesnyder3599
      @darlenesnyder3599 Před 4 lety +6

      and...AND... SHE IS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!!!! Why she'd ever be with his Icel - got - laid - one - time - Eddie Monster - lookin - "assshh", is beyonde!

  • @mya3895
    @mya3895 Před 3 lety +29

    the god complex this man has is terrifying and he's really triggering my fight or flight response

    • @pdcdesign9632
      @pdcdesign9632 Před 2 lety +1

      For every psycho online like this Saroka character, it takes a group of GULLIBLE RELIGIOUS weak minded
      people to ENABLE him.
      Go MURCA. What about my FREEDUMBS?

  • @vickrice6082
    @vickrice6082 Před 3 lety +14

    “I don’t believe I hit her yesterday”
    “Oh I did? What about today?”
    That just shows how constant and normal it is for him that he can’t even remember if physical violence occurred 24 hours ago

    • @pdcdesign9632
      @pdcdesign9632 Před 2 lety

      For every psycho online like this Saroka character, it takes a group of GULLIBLE RELIGIOUS weak minded
      people to ENABLE him.
      Go MURCA. What about my FREEDUMBS?

    • @thetea4093
      @thetea4093 Před 2 lety

      @@pdcdesign9632 you’ve made the same comment 12 times shut up

  • @DarlingJubilee
    @DarlingJubilee Před 4 lety +618

    Onision: FACTS
    James Soroka: LOGIC
    now i can see how they are 110% similar LMAO

    • @PersonsUnknown
      @PersonsUnknown Před 4 lety +21

      Onision isn't as bad as this

    • @SavvyMuhon
      @SavvyMuhon Před 4 lety +21

      Anton-Constantin
      I can’t believe I’m actually agreeing with that statement

    • @pigeonlele
      @pigeonlele Před 4 lety +2

      onision+soroka=ben shapiro XDD

    • @najadamu2724
      @najadamu2724 Před 4 lety +12

      @Cait L. I wouldn't call Onision intelligent, but certainly more self-aware to be able to pretend that he's progressive and whatnot to get what he wants.
      This James Saroka guy just seems... completely unhinged and unable to fucking calm down about anything.

    • @ryeuhnbrus8287
      @ryeuhnbrus8287 Před 4 lety

      @@pigeonlele
      What an even more asinine comparison. You must get so dehydrated from drooling on yourself all day.

  • @ChicBeautyxo13
    @ChicBeautyxo13 Před 4 lety +2035

    As an abuse survivor myself I can see how bad she’s disassociating when talking to him and it makes me so sad for her... :(

    • @selathekobold9832
      @selathekobold9832 Před 4 lety +40

      You two even have the same name... Kaitlyns gotta stick together

    • @justin48914
      @justin48914 Před 4 lety +3

      Do you think she hits him too? Just a question

    • @eggsous8858
      @eggsous8858 Před 4 lety +120

      @@justin48914 Most likely out of self-defence. Based on what I've seen, she's so emotionally drained and disassociated that she just gave up. She really needs someone, any sane person to help her. As for the shit stain of a man, I don't think anyone would be sad if he died lol

    • @inzolight
      @inzolight Před 4 lety +11

      It's so hard to watch. I hope she gets away from him.

    • @luciferssecondincommand6570
      @luciferssecondincommand6570 Před 4 lety +39

      It's hard to watch her reaction to his yelling, I just wonder how bad it is off camera since he's admitting to hitting her. I hope she gets the chance to get away from him before he starts escalating the abuse

  • @rpnct
    @rpnct Před 2 lety +30

    His video have a strong "found footage horror movie" vibe. I'm pretty desensitized to everything, and I have little to no empathy, but he makes my skin crawl (especially his interactions with his victim).

  • @user-eg3tb3kn7p
    @user-eg3tb3kn7p Před 2 lety +7

    This is exactly how my mum treated me. It's literally textbook behaviour from start to finish. If you're someone who doesn't believe that shouting can be a form of abuse, this footage is your education. I hope shes okay.

  • @schy505
    @schy505 Před 4 lety +728

    “If you weren’t comfortable talking about it in public, you shouldn’t have talked to me about it in private” that’s-not how a relationship works but okay

  • @grimmoflunalis1440
    @grimmoflunalis1440 Před 4 lety +376

    he speaks like a wannabe cult leader who thinks he's actually this loved, untouchable entity who can do no wrong

    • @MrsGump
      @MrsGump Před 4 lety

      @Todd Lynch I know the others you names but this undertaker guy, can you give me a rough outline of what he's done/does? out of curiosity :)

    • @Champagnebear
      @Champagnebear Před 4 lety +2

      Cult leader attitude totally! The sense of grandeur he has is exactly how cults start and he preys on vulnerable people

    • @4579storywriter
      @4579storywriter Před 4 lety +1

      He also speaks like an insane incel, based on his clear hatred and disrespect towards women, and always has to play victim when not getting his way.

    • @MrsGump
      @MrsGump Před 4 lety +1

      @Todd Lynch omg that's sounds awful. A "friend" can do SO much damage to someone psyche, fucks with ur self esteem, makes you self doubt urself, even when you know ur right etc. The part I hate most is these sadistic narcissistic fuckers always have people who believe their bullshit n no matter what they cannot see the truth, the fog of the narcissist is so thick n they are so good at twisting the truth n telling lies to suit them.
      I'm sorry you went thru that, but so glad ur away from that toxic poison n gaining a real friend is always a bonus :)

    • @grimmoflunalis1440
      @grimmoflunalis1440 Před 4 lety

      @Todd Lynch yeah, I'm not sure who that is, but the internet is full of people who should either be behind bars or lose internet privileges

  • @darenmiller2218
    @darenmiller2218 Před 2 lety +8

    At about 30:35 when he says she lied, you can see the physical change in her emotions like she knows it’s coming. Having been in that situation for years, it really hurts to watch it happen to someone else. I hope she’s ok wherever she is.

  • @nikkimorris8655
    @nikkimorris8655 Před 2 lety +8

    He was just arrested in a town over from me in Oklahoma. Kaitlin got to go home thank God but his bond is only 25,000.. should be more.

  • @ahonestwoman
    @ahonestwoman Před 4 lety +668

    This guy makes Onion look a nice guy. He actually gives me the chills and serial killer vibes... The abuse is sickening.

    • @sarahcatherine2788
      @sarahcatherine2788 Před 4 lety +25

      It’s unbelievable and so hard to watch

    • @lghths
      @lghths Před 4 lety +17

      He definitely dabbles in the dark web

    • @Mystra
      @Mystra Před 4 lety +5

      I wouldn't go that far they're both pieces of shit. Onision is still a predator.

    • @ahonestwoman
      @ahonestwoman Před 4 lety +6

      @@Mystra Onion is a sicko for sure. The way this guy talked to his girlfriend was horrible and pushed my buttons. I only heard about onion but, have not watched his videos.

    • @Mystra
      @Mystra Před 4 lety +2

      @@ahonestwoman Onision is more calculating than ...this other sicko. What I mean by that is, most of his videos are all an act. It's what's been leaked/testimonied behind the scenes that's horrible with Onision. I don't even know where to begin with him, there's so much. I'm new to this other guy but clearly he is abusive.

  • @gabbyadams3620
    @gabbyadams3620 Před 4 lety +617

    Whenever he opens his mouth, I can’t understand the point he is trying to make. Like his views are so twisted that he doesn’t make any sense and literally everything he says is contradictory to how he acts. I feel so bad for his girlfriend.

    • @matthewmcallister9354
      @matthewmcallister9354 Před 4 lety +29

      I know it's just the deranged ramblings of a sick person. He was just made wrong.

    • @Gaby-fb7gh
      @Gaby-fb7gh Před 4 lety +4

      Yeah, he makes no sense.

    • @marinathedramatic7463
      @marinathedramatic7463 Před 4 lety +39

      Okay i thought I was losing it. I tried so hard to follow his logic but he just says words. And I'm sitting there like... Wait what?

    • @spanglelime
      @spanglelime Před 4 lety +24

      Somehow he IS worse than Onision. I think it’s because Onision smiles and tries to engage his audience and it’s a lot more convincing when he does it. This is just smug narcissism and it’s unbearable to watch. There’s nothing likeable about this guy, and he thinks if you don’t like him that’s your problem, you’re simply just not smart enough to ‘get’ him.

    • @fabuloussheila
      @fabuloussheila Před 4 lety +15

      It's not a girlfriend at this point, she's a victim. Being constantly gaslit and abused physically makes her vulnerable and he's taking advantage of her.

  • @PennyJackson123
    @PennyJackson123 Před 2 lety +5

    A malignant narcissist. They feed off of other people’s pain, discomfort, and fear.

  • @hissesquietly
    @hissesquietly Před 2 lety +12

    The blind rage I feel when I hear this man talk

  • @ninathenotsogreat5793
    @ninathenotsogreat5793 Před 4 lety +3494

    Note to self: NEVER date anyone who goes by the name of James and Greg

    • @saladman4748
      @saladman4748 Před 4 lety +119

      My names Greg and I'm better than this guy or onion man will ever be

    • @xFlubbiex
      @xFlubbiex Před 4 lety +173

      @salad man well... that‘s not exactly that much of an achievement... 😅

    • @danyellx615
      @danyellx615 Před 4 lety +51

      Kimberly J. That wasn’t his point 😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @val-wr4je
      @val-wr4je Před 4 lety +98

      Nina TheNotsoGreat ok but I have an ex named Greg who is the sweetest person who has ever graced this earth but I also have an ex named James who tried to kill me

    • @EpicSmileyMan64
      @EpicSmileyMan64 Před 4 lety +53

      Welp, my name is james, guess i'll be forever alone. XD

  • @alisonmcnubbins4657
    @alisonmcnubbins4657 Před 4 lety +290

    It’s like if an incel finally got a girlfriend and then continued trying to blackpill themselves

    • @maaikequest3760
      @maaikequest3760 Před 4 lety +17

      Omg. This. A few days ago I signed up for an incel forum just out of curiosity and they simultaneously told me my picture was "suifuel" and that they wanted to kill me. I showed no interest in anyone and they were the ones who started interacting with me, yet they told me I was an attention whore and should die for it🥴

    • @TallulahLaGhash
      @TallulahLaGhash Před 4 lety +6

      Yes!! He nice-guyed himself and when he did the sit on his finger thing, I thought of an incel saying cock carousel loll

    • @keatonmask1918
      @keatonmask1918 Před 4 lety +1

      Shit, exactly this.

    • @redsquirrel6131
      @redsquirrel6131 Před 4 lety +1

      Jesus this comment is so god damn true. The poor girl didn’t know that you aren’t supposed to fall for the “nice” guy. Poor little fool. Breaks my heart for her. Hopefully she realizes that she can leave and be done with him.

  • @Smashingit2022
    @Smashingit2022 Před 3 lety +18

    Dear God. I felt physically ill watching this. I knew a guy like this once. I stood up to him.needless to say he felt so slighted that he tried to destroy my life. Thankfully everyone around him realised how insane he is. But those several years were hell. He’d talk like this. Talk like he had the most intelligence among the human race yet he just sounded insane.

  • @kimcherry5216
    @kimcherry5216 Před 2 lety +9

    He's been arrested in Rogers Co, Oklahoma

  • @graysonrogers-barnes6302
    @graysonrogers-barnes6302 Před 4 lety +431

    She looks like she's constantly dissociating. I want to protect her.

    • @maggiee639
      @maggiee639 Před 4 lety +35

      Derp Nottus oh my god I know. You can literally watch her dissociate in her eyes. It’s hard to watch.

    • @hexenfree
      @hexenfree Před 4 lety +2

      we have an inability to directly help any of the people he has or does abuse, we can only spread the word

    • @SariennMusic73
      @SariennMusic73 Před 4 lety +3

      She's in extreme danger.

  • @FrauStormm
    @FrauStormm Před 4 lety +800

    Everything out of his mouth is word salad. None of it makes much sense. He’s clearly in a state of delusion and an immediate danger to her and himself. We need to do all we can to get her out before it’s too late.

    • @HeavyMetalKittenx
      @HeavyMetalKittenx Před 4 lety +16

      Justin 7 because sometimes they don’t realize they’re being abused. Or...They think they can “change” them. I went back with my abuser when I was younger because I thought I loved him and thought I could change him. The good was really good even though the bad was very bad and I thought that was love. I was young and naïve

    • @HeavyMetalKittenx
      @HeavyMetalKittenx Před 4 lety +20

      Justin 7 and also you get beaten down so hard you start thinking you deserve it.

    • @dfgiuy22
      @dfgiuy22 Před 4 lety +1

      It’s tiring hearing people who throw around mental health terms to sound smart. Try the below link or just search for word salad, this guy does certainly not have that. He’s certainly a prick, manipulative shit head who is a danger to the poor girl. Word salad though, no sorry.
      czcams.com/video/qkGz-4pFWKE/video.html

    • @pissapocalypse
      @pissapocalypse Před 4 lety +11

      I legit went brain dead when he started talking like I have no fucking idea what he's saying

    • @Mm-vn4do
      @Mm-vn4do Před 4 lety +9

      @Justin 7 A lot of abusers beat into your head constantly that you are the worst possible person. ( What this guy is doing is a perfect example. ) He keeps beating into her head that she's a liar and just so terrible. He pretends to be nice to her so she will make herself vulnerable. Then, no matter what she says when she opens up to him, he turns and twists it into her being a terrible liar and him being the righteous one. This along with other abuse and isolation beats you down so fast, it can actually change your whole persective on who you are as a person. It makes you almost feel like you're lucky to have your abuser, because you're such a terrible liar, no one is ever gonna want to be around you I hope this made sense. Sorry for any grammer or spelling errors.

  • @perspgold8945
    @perspgold8945 Před 9 měsíci +2

    that feeling of "what are you talking about?!" is one of the lesser discussed traits of narcissistic relationship companions

  • @adamgardiner5869
    @adamgardiner5869 Před rokem +4

    FYI this asshat is now in jail. Kudos to the neighbors who reported his abuse and got his ass arrested. Kaitlin is back with her family and I really hope she is able to rebuild her life and find happiness.

  • @kirbfx
    @kirbfx Před 4 lety +791

    If James is so “logical” and is a “saint” while Kaitlyn is so “evil”, then why is he with her?? If she is so awful, that he has to spend hours and hours a day lecturing and “punishing” her, then why wouldn’t he have used his “logic” to break it off with her?? I notice that abusers like him constantly accuse their partners of being “cheaters”, “whores”, “liars”, and “evil” yet if they are those things, then why would they be with them???

    • @em_poteat
      @em_poteat Před 4 lety +56

      my guess is that he is, unfortunately, using her as an easy to reach target to fuel his narcissism and egocentrism

    • @differentbutsimilar7893
      @differentbutsimilar7893 Před 4 lety +24

      Maybe in his mind that makes him a good guy? I mean, he says he doesn't judge people... so if he says your evil, it must simply be true. That's not him passing judgement. Just making an observation.
      He's just spewing words rapid-fire. Shock and awe manipulation. Don't give them time to stop and think so you can inject controlling thoughts before they even realize it's not her thoughts but his.

    • @gemmacook1753
      @gemmacook1753 Před 4 lety +32

      One word. Control. Cowards like this guy get off on the control he has over his partner. Most people would never put up with this shit and he knows it, but to have a girlfriend who is so damaged that she doesn't put up a fight anymore makes him feel powerful and in control. He is a bully, and is only happiest when showing off to world look how strong I am, look how clever i am, look how amazing I am, look how i am a victim of this horrible woman who lies ect ect
      He is building a delusion and has convinced himself he is just so victimised and a saint.. he makes me want to puke

    • @shellyedmb117
      @shellyedmb117 Před 4 lety +8

      My best guess is cuz this is a classic empath/narc relationship. The narc essentially always finds the girls who he/she feels would be easiest to manipulate and has a very big heart. They are parasites. They love the empath cuz that's their power supply. The seek approval. They dont give a shit about anyone /anything other then themselves. Any emotion you see from a narc is an act. Nothing is EVER their fault. Ite always the others' fault. They feed their ego and sense of control doing shit like this. I know, cuz I've dated 2 of em. My first was 2 years. I didnt know what a narc was until that relationship has been over. The 2nd one, I recognized the red flags and said fuuuuck no lol not ever again.

    • @yasminchan7425
      @yasminchan7425 Před 4 lety +4

      I think its bc he's a huge narcissist, he needs someone to abuse when he's in a bad mood or something, to feel better, I guess

  • @bionic_bat
    @bionic_bat Před 4 lety +816

    Wtf. She gave her opinion about the eggs. And he freaked out. For no reason? How is she lying? I'm so confused. Non of his actions make sense. He is insane. Hope she finds her way out.

    • @brittanyholland313
      @brittanyholland313 Před 4 lety +74

      pxe girl exactly. That was one of the most mind blowing flips I’ve ever seen. Home girl needs to run. I got anxiety just watching their interactions.

    • @savagealleycat
      @savagealleycat Před 4 lety +31

      I think it was the part where she said it was an act of love. I think this guy is crazy as hell but that’s what it seems he was talking about. If he wasn’t insane and actually cared about women’s health he probably could have just done a segment on how he thinks it’s not safe or healthy for women. But instead he called her I liar, which is a strange choice of words, and then verbally abused his girlfriend to make himself look like this grand feminist. Came off like a warped white knight with serious mental issues.

    • @Timmering
      @Timmering Před 4 lety +14

      pxe girl
      He freaks me out.
      Actual psychopath.

    • @connie4131
      @connie4131 Před 4 lety +29

      she explained scientifically how it works and then he literally said the same thing in different words. The part that he has a problem with is that she says it must be an "act of love" which she used to explain how hard it is on the body. The way that one phrase set him off makes me so uncomfortable

    • @aposematicayu
      @aposematicayu Před 4 lety +34

      And then he calls her a narcissist when it's so obvious he's the narcissist. Absolutely maddening. The gaslighting is even more infuriating

  • @ladyfable
    @ladyfable Před 2 lety +14

    He talks like an Anime villain. I feel so sorry for his girlfriend..

  • @jessewru6425
    @jessewru6425 Před 2 lety +3

    God it’s like seeing Cersei’s son-brother if jamie and lulu cousin boy died and Joffrey wound up dad.

  • @staggbones
    @staggbones Před 4 lety +729

    James Saroka: Yeah i'm abusing her and hitting her, i'm not ashamed
    Also James Saroka: /deletes everything in an effort to hide what he's doing/

    • @DannyD-lr5yg
      @DannyD-lr5yg Před 4 lety +4

      Gnomehuts Total speculation, but I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t delete it because he knew deep down he’s been awful, but rather because he doesn’t want people like Daniel to steal his genius content 🤦‍♂️

    • @itsMe_TheHerpes
      @itsMe_TheHerpes Před 4 lety +3

      he's your idol, ey ? scumbag !

  • @AhavatYisraeI
    @AhavatYisraeI Před 4 lety +399

    I'm a criminal justice major. I was assigned a few books to do research on how criminal minds work and why they do what they do. I'm NOT an expert, but I see a significant parallel between his behavior and the kinds I've studied. He has major control issues, every person in his life has to be under his thumb in order for him to feel good about himself. That's how he functions in society. He is massively insecure but puts up a cocky front and has similar tendencies to a narcissist because his worst nightmare is someone getting one over on him, or not listening to him, or his manipulation not affecting them. He uses this shield of "logic" not only to get people on his side but to make himself feel "smart" and better than everyone. And he genuinely does not see anything wrong with what he is doing, doesn't recognize his own logical fallacies and will victimize himself before he will admit he did something wrong. He will probably say he has a tragic past and a rough childhood, or was abused, but will neglect that he was often the abuser in his relationships, whether against siblings or parents or friends, but he would NEVER admit to it being his fault. A guy like him believes he is too smart to be caught and put in prison.

  • @Stuartette
    @Stuartette Před 2 lety +3

    14:00 “she doesn’t believe she deserves to be equal. So I told her she wasn’t. And she listened” THIS IS SO BLATANTLY ABUSIVE

  • @blairdowell4213
    @blairdowell4213 Před 2 lety +5

    FYI James saroka got arrested in Rogers county Oklahoma yesterday for domestic abuse against his pregnant girlfriend. The article is online. I live in Oklahoma also.

  • @alexxander966
    @alexxander966 Před 4 lety +883

    Am I on drugs or something? Every time this guy starts talking, I feel like he’s just talking nonsense, I can’t understand what point he is trying to make lol

    • @marisnir
      @marisnir Před 4 lety +71

      I've watched these clips multiple times and I still have no idea what he's saying

    • @stewybagodonuts817
      @stewybagodonuts817 Před 4 lety +22

      アレックスAlexander word salad

    • @kokosaffron1196
      @kokosaffron1196 Před 4 lety +43

      It’s allllll word salad 🥗 part of his mania .

    • @kokosaffron1196
      @kokosaffron1196 Před 4 lety +10

      It’s allllll word salad 🥗 part of his mania .

    • @alexxander966
      @alexxander966 Před 4 lety +74

      Oh thank god, I’m not the only one. I was concerned I was having a stroke, but then Repzion would speak again and I could understand HIM just fine

  • @bri.janell13
    @bri.janell13 Před 4 lety +824

    He keeps using her past against her. “Like your dad did.” “Like your uncle” like you can see the manipulation...

    • @aoefeable
      @aoefeable Před 4 lety +10

      Bri Krepel he has groomed her over a months to believe that she was abused. Her “abuse” is that she was asked to help with family meals.

    • @elliotx25
      @elliotx25 Před 4 lety +1

      How does that work though?

    • @s0lastsummer7
      @s0lastsummer7 Před 4 lety +48

      It's all lies he convinced her of. Her parents both suffer mental illness problems, but she was absolutely not abused and he made her believe she was so she'd cut ties with everyone. And yeah he uses those lies against her constantly. CONSTANTLY. He created "daddy issues" that she didn't actually have to make her feel crazy.

    • @rosienelson4767
      @rosienelson4767 Před 4 lety +32

      Do you not understand how psychological abuse works?
      I’ve been in abusive relationship and we know fullwell what they’re doing is wrong, but we also are manipulated to believe we can’t leave.

    • @bri.janell13
      @bri.janell13 Před 4 lety +6

      Rosie Nelson I’ve been in an abusive relationship, thanks. I was pointing out how fucking sad it is.

  • @505izzy01
    @505izzy01 Před 2 lety +6

    I wanted to scream when he said he hit his girlfriend because she did something he admitted to also doing himself in the SAME SENTENCE but the way she did it was apparently "worse".

  • @_labacanitaz
    @_labacanitaz Před 2 lety +7

    what's crazy is all he needs is to spend a WEEK , a WEEK , with a PoC matriarch and all these years of "toxic" will be gone by the next morning.
    why are we scared of this little boy? is he really supposed to be threatening to anyone BUT her?

    • @stardoogalaxie9314
      @stardoogalaxie9314 Před 2 lety

      True! He genuinely needs to live with a matriarch of color, she would NOT take that bs! He's so pathetic.

    • @_labacanitaz
      @_labacanitaz Před 2 lety

      @@stardoogalaxie9314 she'd be kicking his ass all over the place!
      *and I'd pay GOOD money to see it!* 😂😏😌😌😌

  • @lexxoot
    @lexxoot Před 4 lety +465

    he really tried to say "tHiS iS a sOciEtY" as an excuse for abusing his girlfriend

    • @justme-dg8uf
      @justme-dg8uf Před 4 lety +7

      lexxoot he is literally the joker onion boy tries so hard to be

    • @NovaKnowsBeauty
      @NovaKnowsBeauty Před 4 lety +4

      Wait....
      What's that religious couple? Dan & Meg or something (that's definitely not their names lol). Anyway he said the exact same thing "We live in a society" when referring to how she's supposed to be obedient to him.

    • @darkcutie112
      @darkcutie112 Před 4 lety +3

      @@NovaKnowsBeauty You're talking about Paul and Morgan right?

    • @mscookie3613
      @mscookie3613 Před 4 lety

      Dark Cutie I was so confused who they were talking about “dan and meg”? Who tf is that 🤣

  • @sarahlynne6599
    @sarahlynne6599 Před 2 lety +3

    In July 2021 he was arrested (Thank God) for beating his poor (pregnant, now wife) on the side of the damn road and refused to stop even when police approached. Current updates are that his partner has basically been missing from her family for three years because he isolated her and refused her access to money or a car. Disgusting. The article I read said that she is now safely with her family, I pray to God he never gets near her ever again!

  • @MamaAteistka
    @MamaAteistka Před 2 lety +2

    Definitely worse than Onision! Thank you Repzion, you are doing great job by disposing those psychopaths.

  • @izzybee_1234
    @izzybee_1234 Před 4 lety +502

    Every time she like zones out and takes a deep breath it makes me so sad she’s like trying not to have a panic attack

    • @ladydie1234
      @ladydie1234 Před 4 lety +14

      Stockholm syndrome

    • @somedude172
      @somedude172 Před 4 lety +49

      it reminds me so much of my mom when my abusive father would start going in on her. she would basically shut down, her eyes would gloss over, and all she could say was "okay" and "i understand". kaitlyn does the exact same thing except she cant even say anything. its so fkn sad, i really really hope she gets out.

    • @christianobangnaldo3393
      @christianobangnaldo3393 Před 4 lety +12

      My family's abusive and i do this _a lot_

    • @lexxoot
      @lexxoot Před 4 lety +26

      she's dissociating to deal with his abuse, it's so sad to watch :(

    • @chloedsmith
      @chloedsmith Před 4 lety +15

      Because shitheads like this will shout and scream and swear to grind you down into a paste but if you dare to sound even slightly aggravated or emotional it's now *you* who is the problem. It takes a lot to swallow all of that and respond without emotion but the alternative is more abuse.

  • @mockersjayparker813
    @mockersjayparker813 Před 4 lety +592

    The girlfriend literally looks like she doesnt want to do this. This man is messed up. I cant tell you how many times Ive had to pause the video to quit frothing with rage.

    • @NWCPcbenchmarks
      @NWCPcbenchmarks Před 4 lety +8

      Mocker's Jay Parker Im right there with you, it’s shocking that girls and guys in relationships so toxic won’t leave.
      No matter what help they get offered they think they can fix the toxic person

    • @mockersjayparker813
      @mockersjayparker813 Před 4 lety

      Yeah. I have a barrier where I hate people and want to kill someone. This is the only person to cross the barrier into kill a man.

    • @Gallant_Silver
      @Gallant_Silver Před 4 lety +2

      Same.. I've been going back and forth between watching this video, and ranting to my sister about all this shit.

    • @mockersjayparker813
      @mockersjayparker813 Před 4 lety

      @Sophia Anderson agreed.

    • @zenaphillipsjensen7262
      @zenaphillipsjensen7262 Před 4 lety +1

      Mocker's Jay Parker same.. it’s horrific too watch.. I had too stop this so many times..

  • @meagankerr4140
    @meagankerr4140 Před 2 lety +8

    3 minutes in, this guy is a narcissistic sociopath.. I feel so bad for that girl

  • @wildsagediary1109
    @wildsagediary1109 Před 3 lety +12

    I’ve never said “wHaT? o.O” so many times in a video in response what this dude says 😂😂

  • @NonCrazyCrazyCatLady
    @NonCrazyCrazyCatLady Před 4 lety +5468

    It is a rare thing to se someone who speaks so much, without actually saying anything.

    • @anabhousen7159
      @anabhousen7159 Před 4 lety +201

      We see it daily with trump too

    • @NonCrazyCrazyCatLady
      @NonCrazyCrazyCatLady Před 4 lety +126

      @P. consuela banana H. Damn good point! I did not think of that tho because I’m Danish and I honestly try to limit my intake of that creature to a bare minimum. Stay safe ❤️

    • @rainbowdeathhearts1466
      @rainbowdeathhearts1466 Před 4 lety +2

      Legit

    • @skinsey85
      @skinsey85 Před 4 lety +24

      You must not be familiar with the amazing world of CZcams lol

    • @kizuni3266
      @kizuni3266 Před 4 lety +96

      Dude yes literally every time he spoke I was like what in the actual fuck is this guy saying...

  • @NickyHayward410
    @NickyHayward410 Před 4 lety +404

    i thought the "worse onision" was hyperbole....no, he's actually worse.

    • @geometricheaddress9457
      @geometricheaddress9457 Před 4 lety +7

      This is probably how Onision acts behind closed doors.

    • @lismeseeks8971
      @lismeseeks8971 Před 4 lety +5

      Geometric Headdress that’s probably. But if this is how this guy acts in the public eye then imagine what he does behind closed doors ☹️

  • @breezimckinney6909
    @breezimckinney6909 Před 2 lety +5

    This reminds me of what I went through, I remember having that look on her face. I remember being done defending myself, and sitting in silence, silently crying and feeling empty. I can only imagine how horrible she feels, and seeing that look on her face brings me to tears. What a terrible man. If you’re seeing this and you’re in this situation, it will be okay if you leave. I know they swear they’ll hurt you, or your family, but you can leave. There are places you can go, you deserve better, man or woman, they/them, whoever you are. You’re so strong for going through that, but it’s time to go and heal. Love you guys, and stay safe.

  • @subparsenpai
    @subparsenpai Před 3 lety +9

    His words are jumping from one subject to the next and it's really hard to understand what he's saying. The way his thoughts are reaching so far so quickly is insane, and it's especially evident when he's in the middle of verbally abusing those around him. I may not have articulated why he's so confusing but this is disgusting. I hope he winds up in therapy as well as those he abuses.

  • @MrSparklytuxedocat
    @MrSparklytuxedocat Před 4 lety +611

    “She hasn’t gone through as much pain as I have” .....literally hits her......

    • @Fot113
      @Fot113 Před 4 lety +31

      Cake Batter imagine having such a fucked up mentality that he thinks that life trauma is now a social class

    • @megamage911
      @megamage911 Před 4 lety +20

      Yeah I used to have a friend like that... Not that she abused me, but that she claimed my problems weren't worth talking about, because her problems were worse and more important... Great friend as you can hear.

    • @creaturesofmars9940
      @creaturesofmars9940 Před 4 lety +7

      Cake Batter you shouldn’t want anyone to go through pain, especially if it’s pain you went through.....

    • @megamage911
      @megamage911 Před 4 lety +13

      @James Nail Is that the excuse you always use to hit women, or do you change it up from time to time?

    • @lucian5646
      @lucian5646 Před 4 lety +5

      Kefka Palazzo i think thats his alt account lol

  • @marleym808
    @marleym808 Před 4 lety +541

    This is gaslighting. I was married to a narcissist (actually diagnosed narcissist) I got nauseous and dizzy listening to this guy and that is the exact feeling I used to get when he was going off on me. He also ended up hitting me splitting my lip. I feel so bad for the young woman. I know the low self esteem and fear and confusion she is feeling. It’s horrible.

    • @chlorinelori1064
      @chlorinelori1064 Před 4 lety +24

      Marley McCord so glad you came out of that relationship,I wish you all the best and I mean it.

    • @fattychoccie
      @fattychoccie Před 4 lety +11

      I was in a similar relationship too - for 14 years. I look back now and think why the hell did I stay in that toxic situation for so fucking long. I wasted the best years of my life. I hope you're in a happier place now! ♡

    • @gayspacemagic2306
      @gayspacemagic2306 Před 4 lety +11

      @Jude Macpherson I don't usually comment on things cause of anxiety and paranoia but here goes...
      I read all of your story and though it probably doesn't mean anything from an Internet stranger: I'm so glad that you've gotten yourself out of that relationship and toxic environment and that you're becoming and rediscovering the amazing and astronomically strong you are. Cause you are amazing, for everything that you've been through and to still be standing, though a piece of me wishes there was something I could've done to help you personally, words genuinely can't express my absolute delight to know you're out of that situation. I know I'm just a random commenter but I wish you and everyone who's suffered in any way at the hands of people like this all the love my heart can provide, I'm proud and happy for you and I'll be rooting on for you ~💞💖❤💖💞~
      (P.s. don't apologise or anything for it, and no need to thank anyone who read it :) it's a privilege to know your story, if anything we should thank you)~

    • @BasicCoverMan
      @BasicCoverMan Před 4 lety +6

      Yeah it was horrible to watch, the way he excuses his own behavior by pressuring her to admit/say she's abusive too, maybe that's true but not the vibe I got, it felt more like he's convinced her she's toxic. Then the bits where she says or does something and he picks up on one little bit and drives it home like when she doesn't completely spell out the medical process of donating eggs, he then effectively repeats what she said but focuses on that specific bit to go into more detail and conclude she's lying. I feel so sorry for her that she's stuck in that life, it was honestly difficult enough just listening to him in this video.

    • @marleym808
      @marleym808 Před 4 lety +4

      I wish I could hug each of you that have commented...and just an FYI I’m not an affectionate person because of childhood trauma so pls know that I when I say I want to hug each of you it’s a big deal. It means you all touched my heart in a special way 🤗 ✌️&🤍

  • @ganjathegr8143
    @ganjathegr8143 Před 3 lety +10

    I would describe his speaking style as, “the ranting of a madman”

  • @uzaiyaro
    @uzaiyaro Před 2 lety +8

    A local (Oklahoma?) person told me on another video that this thing has been arrested in the past few days for abusing its wife, and its poor wife has finally gotten away from it. I don’t really know anything beyond this, but do watch this space for more updates.

  • @davidsteffan9301
    @davidsteffan9301 Před 4 lety +320

    when he called her a LIAR and just stormed out of the room i just felt so so sorry for her. she thought they were having a moment and he all of a sudden screams at her and insults her and just left her there. she couldn’t even defend herself or talk with him. the only person that is giving her the feeling she’s worth something insulted her and left. he left her feeling like crap and he knew that! that’s why he did it

    • @joshualeahy2162
      @joshualeahy2162 Před 4 lety +14

      What an utter mong. Shit like that is just so messed up. They know just how much they're affecting/damaging people when they do things like that but do they care or show any remorse for that kind of behaviour? No. And that's why I hate individuals like that with every fiber of my being, to no end.

    • @bezilliox
      @bezilliox Před 4 lety +3

      Yes - he is a narcissist and may be a sadist as well. I really feel for that girl.

    • @Emmerron
      @Emmerron Před 4 lety +3

      The fact he did that and then said practically the same thing was even more disgusting

    • @Shinisoup
      @Shinisoup Před 4 lety +3

      I imagine every "moment" they have together ends this way. He seems incapable of just enjoying a conversation with someone. He's always got this twisted paranoid thinking going on in his head and misinterpreting everything everyone says. He's in dire need of medication.

  • @saiikik2727
    @saiikik2727 Před 4 lety +638

    He is acting like he's in some sort of relationship where his girlfriend just totally stresses him out. Like, "Women, am I right?" But it's not the reality. He's the aggressor.

    • @taylordavison6849
      @taylordavison6849 Před 4 lety +9

      He breaks her down and convinces her everything's her fault. The upside is at least he doesn't kid around about blaming everything on her like any complaints she makes have no legitimacy. I know because I had something similar happen to me. To add insult to injury, my father did absolutely nothing about it, which led to him being disowned.

    • @ImRefraction
      @ImRefraction Před 4 lety +1

      sounds like hes got daddy issues

  • @s.c.craven5304
    @s.c.craven5304 Před 2 lety +2

    Ever single statement out of his mouth lacks accountability. Everything is justified in this man's mind. He needs in patient therapy, stat.

  • @mitch19636
    @mitch19636 Před 2 lety +2

    Charming.
    ' Tulsa police said they've arrested a man suspected of domestic abuse after witnesses said they saw the man hit his pregnant girlfriend multiple times in the face. 😡
    The suspect was identified as 24-year-old James Saroka from Pennsylvania, who refused to answer any questions officers asked.
    The woman, who was identified as Kaitlin Cizewski, was visibly pregnant and, according to Dorsey, exhibited multiple indicators of battered women's syndrome. 😢
    Officers said Kaitlin was extremely reluctant to answer any questions and attempted to ask James permission to talk on several occasions. 😢
    When authorities got a hold of the woman's parents, they drove down to Oklahoma so fast Walton didn't think they even stopped to pack their bags.
    "They got here, put her in the car, and left," Walton said simply.
    Walton said the woman was gone so quick he didn't even get time to take a statement from the parents.'

  • @Solaris_102
    @Solaris_102 Před 4 lety +322

    He seems like the type of guy that would cheat on his girlfriend and then blame society for how she’s reacting

    • @hodgepodgemeh5473
      @hodgepodgemeh5473 Před 4 lety +23

      Or worse, blame her for "making him do it". He absolutely would go there. And the worst part, he would feel no t a shred of guilt or regret.

    • @Yoyoze
      @Yoyoze Před 4 lety +8

      I'd like to agree, but he seems to be far, faaaar worse than that. This guy is absolutely, completely nuts. Like, beyond repair insane. The way he treats his girlfriend makes me want to bawl my eyes out, honestly

    • @Thawah
      @Thawah Před 4 lety +4

      @@hodgepodgemeh5473 Lol when my manipulative ex (who was very reminiscent of James) cheated on me, he told me it was my fault for "being a bad girlfriend" even though I worshipped him and had terrible Stockholm Syndrome.

    • @hodgepodgemeh5473
      @hodgepodgemeh5473 Před 4 lety +1

      @@Thawah im so sorry that happened to you 😔. Im thinking that in her case she will either end up dead or missing if we let it go. He will also have everything to do with it too. If hes capapble of hitting people he is capable of far worse. I really really hope shes saved somehow. I cant express enough how bad i want that. But in our system how it usually works is they dont make it if they are in her stage of delusion. Its been said before but ive never wanted to kidnap someone to get them out of something so terrible before. The fact that it seems like hes untouchable and were powerless ... idk how to describe it its.. depressing to put it one way.

    • @Thawah
      @Thawah Před 4 lety +1

      @@hodgepodgemeh5473 Thank you. ♥️ And I completely agree with everything you said. I wish I could understand the psychology behind why victims like myself stay for so long, and I wish I could give advice to people currently in those "relationships", if you can even call them that. But all I can say is the longer the victim stays, the less likely they are to be able to break away. The sooner they do it the better, but unfortunately in many cases no one can tell them anything that will convince them to leave. I know in my case manyyy people tried to wake me up to reality and I just didn't listen. I think I stayed for 2.5 years. I have no idea why or how I broke up with him; it just happened one day. It's such a complicated thing.

  • @solaireofastora417
    @solaireofastora417 Před 4 lety +228

    This man makes me genuinely sick. I feel so badly for the girlfriend. she looks so scared. It's truly unnerving seeing him openly treat her the way he does. It really triggers me as a survivor of domestic abuse. I hope she's one day able to leave him. I truly hate this man.

    • @InvaderTak176
      @InvaderTak176 Před 4 lety +2

      You can see that she is walking on eggshells when talking to him.

    • @bridgetcaloroso3246
      @bridgetcaloroso3246 Před 4 lety +1

      I feel the same way.I couldn't watch the whole vid.I was triggered too.he needs to be in jail.

    • @dragonskizi7681
      @dragonskizi7681 Před 4 lety +1

      If he (he likely will) goes to jail, he’s going to get treated VERY poorly... inmates REALLY don’t like abusers and predators....

    • @Nekulturny
      @Nekulturny Před 4 lety

      He seems like the type of narcissistic person who would have kids, fuck his life up somehow and be a family annihilator.. The movie Stepfather (the original with Terry O'Quinn, I haven't seen the remake) comes to mind.

    • @solaireofastora417
      @solaireofastora417 Před 4 lety

      @@bridgetcaloroso3246 honestly same. There are times when I'm listening to him speak and I have to shut off his videos because they make it literally hard for me to breathe. He is genuinely genuinely GENUINELY a piece or human garbage.

  • @helenstewart1832
    @helenstewart1832 Před 3 lety +4

    I've been through 2 rounds of IVF to try desperately to have a baby and yes it is physically a nightmare, worse emotionally but in total, worth every second of it.
    I was blessed with my daughter.
    I can tell you that women donating their eggs is out of this stratosphere, an act of kindness, love, selflessness and strength and I have utterly all the time in the world for these women and what they go through to help people.
    James, this S.O.B has zero idea of what in the hell he is talking about. I'm so angry I don't even know what to do with myself!
    I don't blame his girlfriend for not doing it. It's scary, painful, emotional, a process with insane pressure and if I was the donor, not the woman receiving them, I'm not sure I could do it. I got something out of it, I had a beautiful gift that is priceless!
    These women do it and then have nothing at the end but emotions to try to ride out. They are incredible!

  • @Shurime
    @Shurime Před 3 lety +11

    I feel so bad for his victims, I feel like crying for the way she talks to them. I hope she gets out before it's too late.

  • @TwinkleTwinkleTruly
    @TwinkleTwinkleTruly Před 4 lety +406

    “I hit a woman” *smiles gleefully*

    • @ChunkyJo
      @ChunkyJo Před 4 lety +10

      LongLiveHarryPotter7 “we both lose. Nobody wins. I make my own punishment. Or realize there is no punishment.”
      Like what?!

    • @camethyst1736
      @camethyst1736 Před 4 lety +4

      ChunkyJo he’s insane