In Loving Memory of Marion and how Gridley came into my life

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  • čas přidán 13. 05. 2023
  • This video is made in loving memory of my late wife Marion, who passed away in 2011.
    I normally don’t like to publish topics that are personal, painful or private, but Marion would have turned 60 on Monday, May 15, 2023, and I wanted to honor her in a nice way and share a little of her story of battling a stroke from an (AVM) Arteriovenous Malformation at the age of 19, then years later Ogilvie's syndrome, and finally Cancer. This video also tells the story of how Gridley came into my life.
    Please note: I turned off all monetization for this video. I also mis-pronounced "Arteriovenous Malformation.”
    Thanks for watching and sharing in the memory of Marion,
    TheVillagesChief

Komentáře • 482

  • @athenaskellion6171
    @athenaskellion6171 Před 2 hodinami

    You and Marion are both amazing people! It's so inspiring to find someone as dedicated as you both were to each other. God Bless!

  • @Shopgirl49
    @Shopgirl49 Před měsícem +1

    What a beautiful and loving tribute to Marion who was a remarkable woman and the love of your life. Sorry too about the loss of your furry buddy who brought you so much joy. God Bless and thank you for your service 🇺🇸

  • @annebingham7583
    @annebingham7583 Před rokem +32

    So sorry to hear about all of Marion's life challenges. But I am glad that you were gallantly there for her ! That was a wonderful tribute for your beautiful wife who always thought of others despite what she had to endure with all of her medical troubles for a big portion of her life ! And thank you for your service to our country, Chief !

  • @josephschmidt2183
    @josephschmidt2183 Před 8 dny +1

    Amazing what life can bring our way but we have to keep moving forward. You had a great and strong woman in your life.

  • @TommyK88
    @TommyK88 Před rokem +22

    What a beautiful tribute to your wife. This video is full of love and you have done a tremendous job of preserving Marion’s legacy.

  • @westcoaster
    @westcoaster Před 27 dny +1

    Just saw this video. Your tribute to Marion was so beautiful I had tears running down my face. And Gridley sounded wonderful for both you and Marion. Thank you for sharing. Cindy

  • @carolapostolos8929
    @carolapostolos8929 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Such a wonderful tribute to your beautiful wife. Thank you for sharing this lovely story. Thank you for your service.

  • @LandGirlGB
    @LandGirlGB Před rokem +12

    The price we pay for love is grief! May you find comfort in knowing you have a very special angel watching over you and Gridley! Thank you for sharing Marion’s story, her resilience, courage and strength is a lesson for us all.

  • @JasonBleakley
    @JasonBleakley Před rokem +1

    God bless. Thanks for sharing.

  • @oursenioradventures8513
    @oursenioradventures8513 Před rokem +1

    What a beautiful woman and dedication to your partner. Now, off to find a new puppy.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      Thanks so much ❤️❤️❤️ good luck with the new puppy :)

  • @nissamills576
    @nissamills576 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing this sweet story. God Bless. 💔

  • @shelleycoykendall8878
    @shelleycoykendall8878 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Marion sounds like a remarkable special person who blessed others. I ran across this video while doing research in Ocala, where my son lives. I live in Oregon and my husband passed last year after battling not only cancer, but a rare Paget’s disease, and also a paralyzed vocal cord in the mix. He was on hospice and passed at home. Our kitty stayed with him and now she’s a huge companion for me. I’m slowly adjusting to a new life, and not sure if Ocala is right. I do love the horses and the horse farms and I’ve been to the Villages several times during past visits. I’ll be there in April and will be checking out some of the 55+ communities.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thanks so much Shelley for your kind words and sharing, I’m very sorry for your loss as well. Good luck on your future home search, keep doing what you’re doing, take your time and I’m sure you’ll make the best decision on where to live.

  • @galechicago325
    @galechicago325 Před rokem +1

    I would have liked Marion. From your story, I know she was a beautiful soul. Thank you for your wonderful video.

  • @diannawrylo1441
    @diannawrylo1441 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This was a beautiful tribute to your wife and the love you shared. And, I love Gridley❣️ Thank you for being so vulnerable.
    I thoroughly enjoy your videos.

  • @tombiehler4932
    @tombiehler4932 Před rokem +3

    I understand Chief...I lost my wife of 30 years to Cancer 7 years ago. The pain never leaves!

  • @bonnywoodward6750
    @bonnywoodward6750 Před 29 dny +1

    So sorry you had to go throught this, your story bought tears to my eyes, life is so hard at times, I know your beautiful wife and sweet Gridley as well as God are with you everyday.

  • @NatalieSkadra
    @NatalieSkadra Před rokem +5

    What a beautiful love story. She gifted Gridley to care for her the way you cared for her.

  • @robcordts1976
    @robcordts1976 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Great story Thank you for sharing.

  • @laurarahz12
    @laurarahz12 Před měsícem +1

    Wow that was a tough watch… how beautiful ❤

  • @LesliLove
    @LesliLove Před 2 měsíci +1

    Wow, what an incredible story! ❤ Thank you for sharing & being so vulnerable. God Bless!

  • @madaketmom
    @madaketmom Před 7 měsíci +1

    Beautiful tribute to your wife ❤

  • @leilanihimmelmann9190
    @leilanihimmelmann9190 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Such a lovely story. Thank you for sharing with us. Marion sounds amazing. My condolences to you for your loss.

  • @lisasindoniliberio426
    @lisasindoniliberio426 Před rokem +1

    So that was a beautiful story. I cry easily and your story did it. Thanks for sharing. She was very beautiful like a movie star.

  • @robertwilliamson9255
    @robertwilliamson9255 Před rokem +2

    You are a remarkable human being! I would love to meet you but probably highly unlikely. You inspire love and kindness --sadly missing in this world at present!!

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      Thanks so much for the kind words Robert, I’m just normal guy who was blessed to have a special woman in my life. Thanks again ❤️

  • @stevebuckey4640
    @stevebuckey4640 Před rokem +3

    A lot of respect to you for sharing this Chief.

  • @jay7621
    @jay7621 Před 7 měsíci +3

    What a wonderful tribute to your wife. God bless!!

  • @robynmoxham4255
    @robynmoxham4255 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Your story made me cry, but was so beautiful. I’m sorry for the passing of your beautiful wife. I’m also so sorry for Gridley’s passing. Dog is God spelled backwards. ❤️

  • @beckyforbis4858
    @beckyforbis4858 Před rokem +10

    Amazing woman, amazing story she certainly chose well ❤. Thank you for sharing. 🙏

  • @mytgervega9967
    @mytgervega9967 Před rokem +1

    You are a beautiful soul I am sure your angel keeps an eye on you and seems like you are in a very supportive environment stay positive its the best workout for your mind and wellbeing.

  • @evazee772
    @evazee772 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for sharing your your story. At this time of watching this video now Gridley went over the rainbow bridge . Sorry for both of your loss. My Condolences. Sending you healing vibes your way. I too went through a similar experiece. Sending you a big hug with huge healing vibes. Take care and stay safe.

  • @nightengale2123
    @nightengale2123 Před rokem +14

    Chief, thank you so much for sharing such a personal part of your life. Your wife sounds like she was 1 in a million. ❤️ Well, I will share with you a personal part of my life. In 2001 when I was age 44 I discovered at my beloved 49 year old husband Tom in cardiac arrest on our kitchen floor. At that time I was an ER nurse and had performed successful CPR on countless patients, but my efforts to revive my beloved husband was not meant to be. I can't even begin to describe the grief I experienced following the death of my husband, but it would have been far worse had I not had our two golden retriever children Duffy & Kelly with me that provided me much comfort and I to them as they were very close to my husband and too were grieving his loss. As time moved forward and I had to return to work and fully engage again in all the other aspects of my life I never thought of or desired to ever remarry but my fate had a different agenda. I met a terrific man named Frank through purchase of a car from him which led to us becomming friends as we shared many mutual interests. Our friendship gradually evolved into a pleasant dating relationship and we eventually fell in love and life was good. But that would all change a year after we began dating when out of the blue I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer. Frank decided after I informed him of my cancer diagnosis and the need for major surgery and possibly more treatment that he was going to move in with me to take care of me and my dogs that now he too loved. Frank brought me home from the hospital following my surgery at which time I was in pretty bad shape and could barely walk. Shortly after we got into the house he went down on bended knee, presented me with a beautifu ring, and asked me to marry him. Frank then said he believed my late husband Tom by some divine intervention brought us together so I would have a good man to love and take care of me through my cancer ordeal and other bumps in the road of life that followed since he no longer could be there physically for me and I believe that as well. Despite having a questionable cancer prognosis when Frank proposed, he said he waited all his adult life for me ❤️ , and he was willing to accept whatever time even if was short we would be blessed to have together. This coming October we will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. 💕 And I feel truly blessed to not only be a many years cancer, but also to have been married to the two most wonderful men that ever walked this planet. Chief, no amount of time spent with those we love is ever enough!! But that love we shared with them never dies but instead fuels our belief that we will be reunited with our loved ones in an eternal place one day where we will never ever have to say goodbye to them again.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem +1

      What a beautiful story thanks so much for sharing! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @foxiedogitchypaws7141
      @foxiedogitchypaws7141 Před rokem

      When your married to one person , the only person for your entire life then they die, (mine a heart attack,) your left with emptiness and just having good older friends who have gone through that and know that same feeling can be good enough. Sorry for your loss and your found. ❤️ 🐕🐕🦊

    • @11candy11
      @11candy11 Před rokem

      Wow, Nightengale! That's an incredible, and inspirational, story.

    • @annetteburnett3132
      @annetteburnett3132 Před rokem

      So so sorry! She sounds like a incredible woman! I am a widow of 4 mos. I understand your grief. ❤

  • @spiritualascentionsociety9394
    @spiritualascentionsociety9394 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Sooo sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. I admire your perseverence and bravery. Such grace & strength you hold, gives ppl the hope and encouragement to keep going despite what trials we may be facing, so..thank you for that!
    P.S. I knew there was something special about Gridley! ❤❤😊
    Take care you.

  • @Livinglife11-lt4hf
    @Livinglife11-lt4hf Před rokem +1

    What a beautiful tribute to your beautiful wife.
    You are such a compassionate and loving husband. Seems to me you were both so fortunate to of had each other.
    I turned 60 on May 16th- Happy Birthday Marion ❤
    My husband was also in the Navy.
    He passed suddenly a little over 2 years ago. I understand Chief - 🙏🏻
    Special pup as well 😇🙏🏻

  • @blancacolon5949
    @blancacolon5949 Před rokem +2

    Wow, what a sad yet beautiful story! I'm so sorry for your loss. It must have been extremely painful for you to go through all that. I hope doing better and thriving. I'm sure that's what Marion would have wanted for you. Hang in there and God bless!

  • @kathysarmiento4652
    @kathysarmiento4652 Před rokem +2

    I’m sorry for your loss.

  • @ramonablue5598
    @ramonablue5598 Před rokem +2

    What a LADY. I would never survive for 5 minutes having to go through this. It is just amazing how some folks can be so strong. I know myself well enough to say I could not ever be that strong or brave. Blessings to you.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      She truly was amazing. It’s almost like she never blinked going through any of that stuff.

  • @christinemowbray6116
    @christinemowbray6116 Před rokem +2

    😢 lots of bravery , dedication and love in your bittersweet story . Good bless you and your late wife . 🙏

  • @cimarron35022
    @cimarron35022 Před rokem +3

    What an amazing tribute to Marion. I'm sure she's looking down and watching out for you and Gridley and smiling.

  • @peace-a
    @peace-a Před rokem +1

    Sending you hugs.

  • @debbiemiller4992
    @debbiemiller4992 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Wow..what a beautiful tribute to your precious wife. I know she is very proud of you. It brought tears to my eyes. I’m praying for you and your family. I lost my beautiful son in 2016 and the grief is unbearable most days. Thank you for sharing her story. God bless you and thanks for your great videos. I am wanting to move to The Villages within the next 2 years and your videos are very informative. 🙏❤

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks so much for the kind words, I’m very very sorry for the loss of your son. The grief can be overwhelming and never really goes away but as time goes on I try and use it as a way to be more compassionate and understanding to others. Hang in there Debbie ❤️

  • @weareallamericans7358
    @weareallamericans7358 Před rokem +2

    You're an Amazing Man who was blessed with an even More Amazing ❤️ Women.

  • @stonecrestquilt
    @stonecrestquilt Před rokem +1

    Only warriors are laid to rest at Arlington, how suiting for Marion💪🏾. Loved her story, thanks for sharing. I feel Marion was dealt a terrible hand but I can bet the she would say she felt blessed. Subscribed 🙏🏽💪🏾

  • @landahoy5217
    @landahoy5217 Před 8 měsíci +1

    What an uplifting video!!

  • @lindaearley4099
    @lindaearley4099 Před rokem +1

    Wow! What a beautiful story you have. You were so lucky to have her and she you. I was also blessed to have the best husband and friend i could ask for. He passed in 2010 very suddenly at 52. We were together 33yrs. I live in tampa area and always heard of the villages but didnt know much about them. Now im learning all about them. Lol. Enjoy your channel!
    Thankyou for your service.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      Thanks Linda, and very sorry for your loss, thanks for sharing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ElleParkerX3
    @ElleParkerX3 Před rokem +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss… 😢

  • @lovingjesus5184
    @lovingjesus5184 Před rokem +1

    This is heartbreaking. So much pain. So sorry.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much, but there was also a lot of joy in our lives ❤️

  • @Cwgrlup
    @Cwgrlup Před rokem +2

    The first thing that struck me about you was a sadness that is so palpable it comes through your videos. I believe your wife is still very much in your presence and watching out for you.
    I’m a nurse, starting retirement, but was diagnosed with a rare form of systemic lupus erythematosis called CNS vasculitis. I had three small strokes, as I went misdiagnosed for a long time, and subsequently have lesions (scarring) on my brain. They have caused many medical problems as well. Not seizures, but other deficits. This was one of the reasons I left floor nursing. I never wanted to put any patient in jeopardy. To be an excellent nurse, we must be in superb physical and cognitive health.
    At one point, my colon shut down from my lupus and I went into septic shock. That is absolutely a life threatening situation. Many times I was really lucky to survive my condition. I can appreciate the agony you and your wife have lived through. I’m grateful to also have a husband who is willing to put up with all the medical issues as it’s very difficult on him. I’ve never been through half of what you’ve experienced and I’m still on the planet. I do know that those kinds of experiences are so hard on the body mind and spirit and show what kind of person you are inside. It sounds like she was truly an inspiration and an incredible human being. She was a strong woman and more concerned about others around her. That said, it takes a very special husband to stand next to and love someone with such devastating medical conditions. I’ve seen a lot of marriages fail the test. Your love shines through in this story. Thank you for sharing with the world what real love looks like. Some people never experience that kind of love in their entire life. It seems a bit cruel that in this world of duality, with every beautiful thing, with the sunshine, come the shadows as well. God bless you, dear.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem +2

      Thanks P for sharing your story and your kind words, hang in there, you sound like a fighter as well! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Cwgrlup
      @Cwgrlup Před rokem +2

      @@TheVillagesChiefanimals help! One thing that hit my heart was your wife knew exactly what she was doing when she put Gridley for you!
      When I first got lupus and they put me on all these meds, I started going down the pity route… my husband knew I loved horses and took me out to an equine therapy session. Fast forward I rescued my first racehorse. That put me on a path to healing! Actually, he was a Florida horse (Ocala). Best thoroughbred I ever had. (I’m in California). Nothing happens in God’s world by accident. Hang in there. You will be okay. Keep looking for the little signs that she’s still with you. ❤

  • @kathykulba4320
    @kathykulba4320 Před rokem +2

    To love and be loved like that................that's what life should be about. I am so glad Gridley is there with you.

  • @RobertgreenblattRealtor
    @RobertgreenblattRealtor Před rokem +1

    Beautiful story. ❤😢❤

  • @renethompson9744
    @renethompson9744 Před rokem +4

    Your memories of Marion remain alive through your daily life today. She was very wise and you were wiser to follow her suggestion to get a dog who helps you make decisions and navigate today. Thank you for sharing and amazing part of your life. Happy Heavenly Birthday to Marion.

  • @mavisrobin
    @mavisrobin Před rokem +3

    In honor of your wife's memory - for treats for Gridley. Thank you Chief for sharing this very personal and touching part of your life. Your wife sounds like an amazing person.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem +1

      Robin your are way too sweet, you really didn't have to do that, I don't know what to say other than I promise every penny is going to gridley's treats. Your a sweetheart.

  • @Brunettebeach
    @Brunettebeach Před rokem +2

    Your story❤💔. Thank you for sharing. Your wife sounds very special, may she rest in peace and no pain! Glad you have Gridley and are in a house and location you seem to enjoy!

  • @debgifford4289
    @debgifford4289 Před rokem +2

    True love is all we can ask for in life. I know her spirit is showing up in you. Marriage is not two people. It is two people who become one. My husband of thirty eight years was taking in a accident a little over a year ago. Life gives us joy the sorrow is because we had such joy. I like you decided to embrace today. I decided to sell my home in Indiana in March. Moving to the home I have now in The Villages. I will begin again by breathing in all the activities The Village offers. Keep moving and enjoy the ☀️😊

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem +1

      God bless you Deb thank you so much and I’m sorry for your loss too ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dianekimura5593
    @dianekimura5593 Před rokem +1

    I am new to your page, and enjoy your postings. Very upbeat, down to earth and always optimistic. Not to mention the beautiful mornings at Sumter Landing with a little coffee. Thank you for sharing this personal and heartwarming tribute about your life with Marion, her selflessness, courage, and her lasting gift of love to you when Gridley came into your life. My uncle lives in Sumter Landing, and lost his beloved Janie in Sep 2022. Like you and Marion, they were married many years. It is the love of family and his little dog Cocoa, his veteran friends, a few rounds of golf and friends at Cody's that gets him through those days when he is feeling low. If I spot you and Gridley when I am down end of July, I will introduce myself, say hello to Gridley, and introduce you to my uncle (vietnam veteran). Stay strong, and sorry for your loss.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      Thanks so much for sharing, hope to run into you and your uncle!

  • @ruthlaibe369
    @ruthlaibe369 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I just happened upon your video tonight! I loved your tribute to your wife, Marion, and I’m so sorry for all she had to endure in her life, etc. Sounds like you’re enjoying your time there thus far! I’ve made a lifestyle visit and hope to get back soon!
    Peaches

  • @drbrz8470
    @drbrz8470 Před rokem +2

    Such a beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. The life you love with Gridley is a testament to the ongoing love that lives inside your heart for Marion.

  • @jillkudla6958
    @jillkudla6958 Před rokem +1

    What a sweet story. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for your vulnerability. Rest peacefully Marion ❤️

  • @andreav6048
    @andreav6048 Před rokem +1

    Dogs are wonderful earth angels.

  • @deb1012
    @deb1012 Před rokem +2

    No matter how many years pass certain dates in our lives are forever celebrated. I love, that for you, two of those are the day your lovely wife arrived on this earth and the day you married her. That in itself tells volumes of who you are and the value of your time together. Her efforts to ensure you had a reason to get out of bed after she was gone, a happy puppy soul to keep you company in your grief also speaks to her love for you. You were so very lucky to find each other! My condolences on her loss. I hope memories of her bring a smile to your heart more often than an ache. She would want that.

  • @sherrycampbell9196
    @sherrycampbell9196 Před rokem +2

    Mr Chief..first lifting heavrnly birthday wishes to Ms Marion..God had created a beautiful kind caring loving understanding joyful earthly angel that became your hearts love and wife..mother of a precious son..grandmother of a precious grandchild or grandchildren..she loved life to the fullest that her earthly body would let her due to different illnesses that she endured but fought like a trooper through each with love grace and dignity..her earhly angel even cared and was compassionate for others during her health battles to ensure all that met her or she guided to get the help they needed... they knew someone cared..that they too were not alone..and even through all of those task she also made sure her earthly family and friends knew the depth of love she had for them..showing strenghtn and courage and grace as each day or hour could bring a change on her earthly body and limits that she might face..she loved you deeply mr chief to the piont where she prayed and cared who would make you still want to get up show up and move forward daily so unliving life unenjoying life that God also gave you would not stop..there in is where mr
    gridley comes into the loving unit ms marion and
    you had..mr gridley became your furbaby earthly angel to be there to make you get up show up and learn to slowly enjoy life and the little things around you as Ms Marion prayed for mr gridley to do..she was thinking of others and their unknown or known needs while her body was transitioning to become your heavenly angel..God gave you the gift of one of his special earthly
    angels..for which you showed kindness love compassion caring worry understanding and yes many tears..you are one of a few..and God knew exactly and where to give you his precious created gift..Ms Marion...i shall wish you and Ms Marion a heavenly anniversary tribute..because that love endures through time as long as one earthly partner is left on earth for a time..Thank You and mr gridley ..for opening your heart to share this most blessed precious loving part of your and Ms Marions life's story..someone somewhere near or far needed this story for they might be afraid to share..
    Lifting prayers daily for you Mr Chief and for furbaby mr gridley and all the family that Gods protective loving arms are always around all of you...from a Indiana girl(that lives with a permanent brain injury since march 23 1993 )living on the Virginia Tennessee line ❤

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem +1

      Thanks you so much for your beautiful words Sherry, very sweet :)

    • @sherrycampbell9196
      @sherrycampbell9196 Před rokem +1

      Thank you Mr Chief for your service to country...and for sharing your wife's loving blessed story..I have to admit it made me cry..it also brought joy to my heart that Ms Marion loved life as I do even with the illnesses she had and that i live with my brain injury daily..live love laugh life to its fullest every moment of every day..sending mr gridley a hug ..belly rubs and perhaps his human dad will give him extra treat...have a blessed beautiful week..

  • @ldhawthorne
    @ldhawthorne Před rokem +1

    Goosebumps! I hope i get a chance to meet you and Grindley when i get down there!

  • @thegooddoctor911
    @thegooddoctor911 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @bartola_ing
    @bartola_ing Před rokem +2

    Beautiful and heartfelt tribute for your late wife, Courageous and selfless in spite of her challenges. I’m so sorry for your loss..

  • @scotteastin1433
    @scotteastin1433 Před rokem +1

    Great tribute

  • @danaanderson8435
    @danaanderson8435 Před rokem +1

    So amazing, thank you for sharing this tribute :)

  • @Younified
    @Younified Před rokem +2

    So sorry for your loss. She sounds like a very strong woman. Prayers and blessings. My mom had brain surgery for blood clots and had seizures as well.

  • @sandykish9608
    @sandykish9608 Před rokem +2

    What a beautiful woman! My sincere condolences to you😢I know a bit about what your going thru unfortunately…..
    I’m so glad she got to know Gridley before she passed..She sounds like an amazing, smart, kind person. Happy belated Birthday Marion! Thanks for being a good keeper of her story..it’s important to keep her memory alive and well remembered..Peace to you and Gridley brother..Stay strong, but enjoy your life now, you deserve that and she is cheering you on every day..God Bless you!

  • @brianmcguire3814
    @brianmcguire3814 Před rokem +4

    What a beautiful tribute ❤️. I already had the upmost respect for you because of your service to our country but now hearing about your life and love with your wife, we can truly see what a wonderful husband and man you are.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      Thanks Brian, but I did not deserve her, she was a cut above for sure.

  • @SFL323
    @SFL323 Před rokem +1

    Totally blindsided by the video. Guess it’s getting dusty over here. We’re getting ready to make the move down to the Villages in a few months and my wife and I devour the villages content on YT. I’m sitting here on our couch holding her hand watching in awe of your tribute to Marion. Thanks to you and Gridley for sharing.

  • @trudyyurina5473
    @trudyyurina5473 Před rokem +6

    This gave me goosebumps. I'm so sorry that she had to go through so much. Sometimes life isn't fair. I'm so glad you have Gridley and just how special he really is. Thanks for sharing with all of us.

  • @joanbrown9263
    @joanbrown9263 Před rokem +1

    Sorry for ur loss,I am glad you had ur soul mate.
    Just started watching you,very interesting.
    I live in Edinburgh, Scotland.
    Seems a great place to live.
    Keep strong Joan.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      Hi Joan, thanks so much ❤️❤️❤️ and nice to hear from Scotland :)

  • @clestemanning6357
    @clestemanning6357 Před rokem +1

    I CANNOT IMAGINE WHAT YOU HAVE AND ARE GOING THROUGH. BLESS MARION'S HEART. THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS BEING SENT TO YOU. MUCH LOVE FROM VERMONT STATE. (SORRY ALL CAPS AS IAM LEGALLY BLIND)

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      Thanks Cleste ❤️

    • @clestemanning6357
      @clestemanning6357 Před rokem

      @@TheVillagesChief NO THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR VERY PERSONAL LIFE EVENTS. I WISH I HAD ONLY HAD AN OPPORTUNITY TO MEET YOUR COURAGE AND SELFLESS WIFE & YOURSELF. BLESS YOU

  • @markedwards5512
    @markedwards5512 Před rokem

    Such an amazing video, to share your story of personal loss with the CZcams world. To say Thank You For Your Service doesn't begin to cover it. I hope you have found the peace Marion wanted you to have. I am sure you will find all the support you need in TV. God bless and keep you.

  • @trudyf8733
    @trudyf8733 Před rokem +7

    What a wonderful tribute ❤

  • @mamaburr2963
    @mamaburr2963 Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your love story ..Your beautiful wife Marion was a special person..You are soul mates..I give you a lot of credit coming to the village's with Gridley..Enjoy your new adventure.

  • @mellowdisco
    @mellowdisco Před rokem +1

    I stumbled on your channel the other day bc I hope to retire to FL by way of my current employer in the next few years.
    This video popped up today and is so touching. Thank you for sharing. Godspeed, Marion. 💗

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mellowdisco
      @mellowdisco Před rokem +1

      @@TheVillagesChief I live in GA and heard you say how much you loved it up here. It’s definitely God’s country. Good luck to you in all you do.

  • @karensnook7419
    @karensnook7419 Před rokem +1

    Wow...this left me in tears. What an amazing woman. You both were lucky to have each other. Blessings to you & Gridley.

  • @margaretstein
    @margaretstein Před rokem

    Thank You for sharing

  • @DeniseandDainis
    @DeniseandDainis Před rokem +2

    This video should make all of us appreciate our spouses and our own health. Thank you for sharing

  • @carolyndrumm3797
    @carolyndrumm3797 Před 3 měsíci +1

    So for the loss of your lovely wife.
    You were both truly blessed to have each other. 🙏♥️

  • @shilohwoods4516
    @shilohwoods4516 Před rokem +2

    Military spouses have incredible strength, much of which is unrecognized. Sometimes, it seems like they fight more combat battles at home than the deployed service member. It sounds like your late wife was a combat fighter on a different level. God Bless you for the long hours of love that allowed her live a life serving others. Give Gridley some hugs from all us in your CZcams family.

  • @jeanneh.1021
    @jeanneh.1021 Před 2 měsíci +1

    What a beautiful tribute, and how wonderful that your late wife is buried in Arlington. I've loved watching your videos since the start and always enjoyed seeing Gridley. So very sorry for your loss.

  • @dianehaigh3254
    @dianehaigh3254 Před 2 měsíci +1

    God bless you and thank you for sharing your heartfelt story about your beautiful wife Marion.

  • @robertawitham1050
    @robertawitham1050 Před rokem +3

    I am grateful you shared your wife's birthday and anniversary. For those who have not experienced such commitment and love, your sincere video was beautiful to watch. Thank you for sharing, her legacy has made a difference to countless people you so bravely shared this tribute.

  • @4tun8nanette
    @4tun8nanette Před rokem +2

    New sub. What a lovely tribute to your wife and and her health challenges. She sounds like a she was a wonderful person who was a fighter. I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @marywilson1948
    @marywilson1948 Před rokem +1

    Thank you , Chief, for sharing the story of your beautiful wife, Marion. Her struggles were immense and yet her spirit of love for you and her life seemed to reach beyond those awful , troubled times of medical interventions. The happiness that Gridley brings you is her living testament to you, her loving husband. God Bless you

  • @irenesingleton3427
    @irenesingleton3427 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing. I am a nurse and can only imagine how difficult your family's challenges were. This is a beautiful love story. Glad you have Gridley. Thank you for your service.

  • @patriciakimberlingsab6015

    May god bless you and gridley and your daughter and grandchild. Such a wonderful tribute to your wife. I know loss too, my husband of many years, I took care of him at our home until he passed away. He was retired U.S. A. F, and a military fighter pilot. I understand grief. Bless you for your courage and please keep going forward with your life know your wife is always with you. I’m going to visit the villages to hopefully retire there, and hope to meet you. Give gridley a “petting” from me and my sabby.

  • @mommamiap
    @mommamiap Před rokem +3

    It took "guts" to post this and I'm so grateful you did! Sharing your story about your wonderful wife touched my heart. God Bless you, your son and your precious grand daughter .. where Marion continues to touch your lives. And give Gridley a little extra piece of "human yummy food" for the unconditional love he gives you daily. What a great pup! :) I hope in everyone's caring posts, you find love and embracing comfort. It's our turn to show that we can take care of you!

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      Thank you Maria everyone has been very kind. Thank you so much.❤️❤️❤️

  • @wallymann
    @wallymann Před rokem +2

    Blessings and Love Always. Her Spirit lives on. Thanks for sharing. ❤

  • @EllieBowers
    @EllieBowers Před rokem +1

    What a beautiful soul she is.... that will never disappear fron the people that loved her,I'm sorry for your loss and am glad Gridley is with you...sending you best wishes and a hug

  • @cynthiaamitrano8915
    @cynthiaamitrano8915 Před rokem +1

    I wondered. She was very fortunate to have found you and you her. A true love story.

  • @lezlierussell2834
    @lezlierussell2834 Před rokem +4

    So sorry for your loss. I lost my husband almost 7 years ago to heart failure. In 2000 he had open heart surgery and he was basically sent home to die. He was a fighter and lived for 16 more years. He left one morning to get coffee and went into cardiac arrest while driving home. Thank you for sharing this touching story.

  • @aponoypi
    @aponoypi Před rokem +1

    thank you for sharing. Sorry for your loss. May God bless you. Gridley will keep you positive. Yes life goes by so fast. Also been living with a rare disease called AL Amyloidosis since 2009 caused by toxic exposure when I was on a ship. I also have pets that keep me positive and busy while my wife still works.

  • @Joy80JJ
    @Joy80JJ Před rokem +2

    New subscriber & started from beginning of your journey & this one came next. So sorry for your loss. A beautiful tribute to your wife. God Bless.

  • @christineevans8272
    @christineevans8272 Před rokem +1

    Such a beautiful tribute to your wife. What a courageous, loving woman you were blessed to have in your life. And through all that her main concern was for you. Thank God for Ridley. So sorry for your loss 🌹

  • @andreav6048
    @andreav6048 Před rokem +1

    Your poor wife. My heart goes out to her and all she had to endure. My heart goes out to you, too, for your loss, dedication, and all the care and love you gave her.

  • @sweetrosemary2000
    @sweetrosemary2000 Před rokem +2

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your wife seems like a beautiful soul. I watched your video of your experience living in the Village. Thank you for sharing your beautiful love story of the love of your life Marion. And Gridley. I lost my sister (we were like two peas in a pod) two years ago to breast cancer. I was with her 99% of the time when she was first diagnosed. She had a full year of cancer free before the cancer came back with a vengeance. Again, I was with her everyday. She was 5 years younger than me, I was lost for two years before I could resume life without her. I went back to the gym to get mentally healthy again, A day doesn't go by when I don't think and miss her. If I wasn't keeping myself busy on a daily basis I would be depressed. Again, thank you for sharing you beautiful love story.

    • @TheVillagesChief
      @TheVillagesChief  Před rokem

      Thank you Rose for sharing that. I’m so sorry for your loss as well ❤️❤️❤️

  • @denisebryant4685
    @denisebryant4685 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Gridley is adorable. I’m sorry for your loss, but happy you had so many wonderful years together ❤

  • @jorgiepoorgie
    @jorgiepoorgie Před rokem

    Very sorry for your loss Chief R.I.P. 🙏🙏🙏