I just came across ur channel. I have been take meds for antidepressants and anxiety for many years. I also had issues with needing or depending on meds. Early on, I would stop taking meds after few months and fall back into depression but worse. I know there are many opinions but I have come to know that depression/anxiety is a illness and its ok to take meds. It's not a "happy" pill it helps with keeping me balanced. I will keep you in my prayers and I hope things continue to improve for you. ❤
Keep God first, and you will succeed in whatever you do. Thanks so much for stepping outside of your comfort zone and speaking on what you've been going through. Continue to take it one day at a time.
I had to learn to pray for like minded friends. I use to hang around toxic cousin and it was wearing me down. So you have to be mindful of who you have in your circle.
Hi. In spite of ur situation. Please talk to God about how u feel. Remember we are not perfect, only God is. Put ur life in His hand He knows what ur going through.
@@lifewithvuyo Just talk to your Father JESUS CHRIST cose only your Father JESUS CHRIST knows how you feel and what you are going throu so keep trusting in GOD ❤❤❤
New subbie here. Glad I came across your channel. You are the cutest and your heart is big! As a licensed professional counselor with over 20 years of practice, just know that you are not alone! I don't think people realize that mental health is not just when you are dealing with something. Mental health can be healthy (mindfulness, positive events in life, self-care, etc.) and unhealthy (trauma, depression, anxiety, mood instability, psychosis, etc). You are stronger than you think! It takes a lot of bravery to get on camera and be transparent. Thanks for sharing your story. I'm here cheering for you!!! ❤🤗
Vuyo, thank you opening up and your honesty about the depression and anxiety you have been suffering with. I hope you countine to look and pray to God about things more. God bless.
Be encouraged because to be honest, life in Europe, USA or Canada is not easy. It can feel so lonely. Sorry for what you are going through. Note that medical help is useful but quite often If you go to the doctor they give you medication which is good for thier pharmaceutical businesses but can be addictive harming families and ruining personal life. Invest in self esteem, exercise, make friends and build your own self confidence. This is very important because social connections are usually not strong or sincere. It can be depressing and commercial. Because what's valued is money, materialism, things. But there are also some good opportunities. Therefore even if people go through a lot, find a way to sail the storms and be encouraged. If one is new wherever it takes time to adjust t o life, for example in a new country. Make friends or have a good social circle. Be encouraged.
Thanks Vuyo for sharing, you have just described me and I'm in tears. I didn't know what was wrong with me and just before the holidays i had the worst mental breakdown down followed by a heavy panic attack that the whole work station came to standstill on the most critical time and day. As you speak about your meds it has triggered a memory that once in my youth i did take antidepressants for months. I will try to get help as soon as possible. Thanks for telling your story. Depression is a very deep and dark disease. I dont remember the last year where i had real friends because i just closed the doors.
Hi. Thank you for being brave and opening up. I hope you are doing better and continue to do better. I am also on antidepressants and suffer from depression and anxiety. It is not easy but support goes a long way❤😊
Hi sweets. That is really true, having the proper people around you may make things seem a little bit simpler. Thank you for being so kind. I feel much better now. I hope you are feeling better as well.❤
Hi gal,I'm a new subscriber from Kenya and I want to say thank you for sharing your story,You're stronger than you think and I pray that God will continue to strengthen you and be your guide. I'm praying for you🙏🙏
Hi my daughter, when you feel overwhelmed, always remember your Hubby is always there for you. I'm so proud of the person you are today, You are doing great, 2024 onwards is your year of greatness, super proud of you my daughter 💗
Thank you Vuyo for sharing. God bless all the people and families who are currently dealing with any kind of mental health issues or like me who have supported my sister who had went through this . Good news is she has learnt to recognize the things that triggers it and to apply the help she got from therapy, this includes talking to people close to her when she doesnt feel ok and doing the recommended exercises. She is still on meds but living a normal life.( after years of struggling , trusting God, taking Drs advuce). Therapy helps a lot, I used to accompany my sister and it also healed me and restored my peace because it was hard for all of us at home when she was sick . For you also I like the fact that you can recognize the warning signs, then you calm yourself down, encourage yourself and reassure yourself that everything is ok or is not so bad. This is good and shows that you and the sickness are not the same thing. So at some point you will be able to totally put it under control. It is good to love yourself and be kind and gentle and patient with yoursef. Gratitude is also good. At some point you will make friends, enjoy their company and be less isolated and lonely. Its a war and from experience I can see you overcoming . God bless your fiance for being such a great man.
You such a beautiful young woman. I thank you for sharing your vulnerability with the struggle of depression. I know it's not an easy topic to discuss, but it's a necessary one. I appreciate your concerns about taking the medication since the side effects can be strong and cause suicidal thoughts. More importantly, I appreciate your reliance on the Bible and drawing strength from God. One of favorite scriptures is Psalms 34:18 "God is near to the broken hearted and those crushed in spirit." Sometimes when we suffer from depression our souls feel crushed. Thank you for your courage and bravery. I appreciate you.
Thank you so much. I appreciate you taking the time to watch my video and leave such a touching response. That is a powerful scripture. Your words of encouragement brightened my day. May the Lord richly bless you. ❤️
I am so proud of you for coming over here telling people about your antidepressant I also take medication to I was Born this Way I was born with cerebral palsy osteoarthritis disc disease of the lumbar spine mild case of retardation off-center 😊 left eye I had a knee replacement he messed up my right leg so now I have to wear what happens to lift on my right foot 🦶 I used to be ashamed to talk to anybody now to say I got schizophrenia by pulling up my medicine for it everybody has mental disease in their family we just don't know what I got it my other brother didn't get it and my twin identical twin that 2 hours after birth I was born at 6 and 1/2 months I weighed 2 lb and 7 oz she weighed 2.08 so I have all these complications but I don't let it get me down I keep praying to God and have people I can talk to go to I go to counseling and I go to CS psychiatrist so this helps me a lot to talk about my problem with them too my best friend that I went to school with and sometimes talk to my sister that you should be made to call him my sister and sometime I talked to Tanya but it depends most of the time I talk with God sometimes I talk to my husband depend on what it is but I'm thankful to be here sometime I supposed to go out and ask somebody to make me be born this way with all these problems so that's when I get frustrated but don't feel bad cuz you ain't got a lot of friends I don't need them you know that the people with my friends I just wondered what I have want to know my business I have disabled but I thank you for putting this on CZcams you meant a lot to mewould you make my night open up with your feeling and that made me feel better cuz I was going through something as well tonight but thank you for being a blessing to me as well as to yourself always text me back and I'll text you I mean I never want a fan for life God bless you young lady good nigh you're not alone in this world by yourself you can reach out and talk to people on chat you can also get into the women's group they have one chance to discuss different things like what we going through it took a lot of courage to do what you did and I'm so glad you did it just check things online they have boots about this for women talk about what they're going through to help each other balance out each day and you get your book a notebook and write one by the night or two words a night to get a journal to make a journal in other words that will help you express your feelings by writing it down on paper God bless you and have a smile on you my favorite Bible verse is the 23rd psalm 1 I we can reach out to each other and understand what each other's going through God bless you and again don't feel like you in this world by yourself because there's a lot of people on medication for anxiety disorders you just want did you still say anything I'm proud of you getting help it took me 30 years to get help for all I've been through raping and everything always smile always have a smile on your face cuz you are so beautiful and God has a lot in store for you to bless you with in Jesus name I pray amen ♥️♥️♥️♥️🖐️🙏🙏🖐️🇱🇷💎💯 God will let your heart know who to trust he will give you a feeling and he will let you know who you can trust and who you can't trust😊😊😊 take one step at a time little baby steps you make one God will make you manifest for sending your heart and your soul in your journal manifest it out loud if you talk to somebody talk to yourself when you're in the house like I do amen ♥️♥️🎈💚😘🍔🍟🎉🧁 and please don't forget to eat a little something before you take your medication I have a sandwich a piece of bread or some crack or some cookies or something then you won't fill off balance or drink some soda and sweet juice okay smile
God is always there for us, hold on unto him all the times. Thanks for opening up and seeking professional help. This vlog will make a difference or bring up change in many lives. ❤ Vuyo
I'm only half way through this video and I have to speak about it! I would have never known you was going throught this after watching your trip to Germany around January 2024. You are and will be helping many people that are going through this. I pray nothing but the best for you!
Thank you so much ❤️ I appreciate your kind words. The purpose of this video is to help other people that maybe going through similar situations. I must say, I’m doing so much better now, praise to God. ❤️❤️❤️
Vuyio I salute your courage. All your attempts to get out of this seem incomprehensible to me. Also being this professional you had to feel this need and understand your inability to fight against yourself. You are radiant, a sign of better stability while not having a vision of yourself before. Maintain this confidence in yourself and in those who love you. I know South Africa well from Zimbabwe to Cape Town and your region in particular, hence my sensitivity. Take care of yourself, I send you a warm hello from Guadeloupe West Indies 🏝️
I admire your courage sharing your experience with your yt fams. In times lije that when you're overwhelmed with anxieties,communicate the God of all comfort, and throw all those anxieties on Him, and thus enjoy the peace of God that surpasses all human understanding Philippians 4:6,7.Speaking to your friend that time also helped for a friend is loving all the time,born for times of distress.This content is impactful 👍👍👍👍
Remember your husband can give you words of comfort just like you give him but always remember this first God is taking care of both of your emotionally and physically keep me up together and knowing that this is meant to be for the both of you I love you God bless you and your number one fan for life thank you for making CZcams remember when you met him this was going to be a long situation because that's who God chose for you and you for him so when you get set write a poem for him and read it to him and tell him the beautiful times you had together talk about that that also helps everything I did in my husband 3 years long distance then we got married he lived in South Carolina I live in New York City I had to start my life for a little bit and take it slow at first I was aggravated want to go back home but then as time went by and enjoy it and I'm still in South Carolina 31 years God bless you and always remember I have a best friend you can talk to a girlfriend or something I'm sure you have a good friend that you went to school with somebody you can come and say what about the things that above and you also open up to go out and talk out loud manifest what you want to go and give it to you and get your little teddy bear to sleep with that reminder holding your husband that's what I used to do sleep in 10 minutes still do anything send him a teddy bear stuffed animal that he can hold a pillow with your name on it or something he can hold like he's holding you at night that helps with the distance and and the depression😊😊🎉❤❤❤
Either way, know that you’re not alone. I’m not saying that to be cute, but I go through EXACTLY what you are describing Words can’t really describe the pain and sadness and frustration. Even though I have people and family around, it doesn’t matter.
Pray about it Lebo, I know it’s not easy. On one of the videos that I uploaded “life update” I shared how prayer and trusting in God has healed me and I now see life and difficult situations different. Sending you much love 🤍
Please don't feel bad about depression or anxiety studies show it has to do with a chemical imbalance. I went through a similar situation and I learned about depression and anxiety. I learned what was triggering me. Its been over 20 years that I dealt with either one of them...I learned how talk, cry and share my emotions. Something I never done before today I take care of ME!
You take care of you self and one thing I learned was I fused to let anyone to overcome my life and run it I learned that the hard way so I'm in control of Everything I feel good remember God got you girl hello❤
Thank you for sharing your story..I m going through anxiety,depression and ocd, and I m reluctant to start medication or seek help I depends on God only for now and I understand you, how it feels....
I’m happy to hear that. The purpose of this video is to bring just a little bit of light to others going through similar situations. I’m glad you found it a bit helpful. May the Lord be with you, never stop praying.❤🙏🏾 Much love
Wow thanks so much dia, i surely needed this video , i felt i went thru this and sometimes i also dont like talking to people , i end up quiet and ignoring,but atleast with your video , i can see a solution.
Many people in the world are in mental illness situations right now, including me, I'm not on medication for that, I try hard to focusing my attention to others things, and soon I got better🙏💪💯
@@yonelayozza536 you not alone my love, but we have Jesus I always advise people to give their worries and troubles to God. He’s never too far. Sending you much love ❤️
MY SWEETHEART..🥰💕🙏🏽 I AM NEW TO YOU BUT YOU ARE EASY TO LOVE I AM TO A BELIEVER IN GOD I KNOW HE SENT ME YOUR WAY YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL FROM THE INSIDE OUT YOUR TESTIMONY WILL HELP SOMEONE BELIEVE ME I KNOW I AM STILL NOT THE MOST TRUSTING PERSON BECAUSE OF LIFE BUT I TRUST WHAT AND WHO IS MEANT TO ENTER MY SPACE WILL DESPITE ME… AND YES CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR ENGAGEMENT WISHING YOU NOTHING BUT THE ABSOLUTE BEST I DO KNOW DESPITE OURSELVES GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF US…🥰👑💕🙏🏽 THE BIBLE SAYS WEEPING MAY ENDURE FOR A NIGHT BUT JOY COMMETH IN THE MORNING …🙌🏾🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you so much for being so kind and for spreading love sweetheart. Your words mean a lot to me. I’m happy that you’re a believer, I strongly believe that if we make God our firm foundation we can conquer anything. Much love and may the Lord bless you 🙏🏾❤️
I commented to for opening up about something so personal. You will be OK. When I listen to you, I hear my daughter. But what I noticed that you too have in common is that you both have a calling on your lives. You both love the Lord, and the enemy is trying to abort the purpose for your lives. Don't give up. I'll be praying for you.
I'm on treatment for +5-8 years now... never ever stopped but hoping to do so 1nce I retire from work believing that my problems will come down. I had chronic anxiety for abt 10-20years and on agreement with my GP was later put on treatment. Things got more and worse in 2020 until I crashed in mid 2021 and was diagnosed with burnout. I was admitted for a period of 2weeks...that was the best treatment from where I learned abt being open abt my situation. The psychiatrist put me on same day medication but changed the nyt one as prescribed by my GP. I'm still on medication and doesn't want to know how I'd react if I stop bcse I'm not gonna take chances. I talk abt it freely with intentions of educating others who think it's madness
Ah thank you for sharing your story my love, hearing someone else’s story helps ease things a little bit. I pray that you feel better soon and may the Lord give you strength and watch over you. 🙏🏾❤️
Im 18 and i have been feeling so empty inside this entire year,Academically i was a top student throughout but this year has been challenging.i isloated myself from my entire family after the pandemic and it still feels they don't know me.I constantly feel sad most if the time and its a struggle.. my Anxiety this year got really bad(etc when i had to leave home i would always panic)
I’m sorry to hear that Palesa. I think you should also seek professional help if you haven’t. Try to open up to your parent or someone that won’t judge you so you have someone that can help you walk this journey. I know sometimes things may not be easy, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You will feel better again. Acknowledge how you feel also talk to God about it. Prayer really helps ease the pain. I hope you get better soon. May the Lord watch over you and be blessed. 🙏🏾Much love❤️
Hey I been watching you for 4 days Now So I guess Im a New Subscriber ❤I want to say have a sit down and have a little talk with Jesus he knows what we going to go through before we do never be afraid to cry God said fear not for he is with you, and our tears are anointed and Jesus hear our cry😢 Put it on the alter and Give it all to Jesus while we trying to figure it out God already worked it out in.Jesus Name Amen my Prayer are with you🙏!!!!
Hey Tina, amen 🙏🏾 thank you for the support darling. I totally agree with everything you say, if you watch my life update video which I uploaded about 2months ago, I said exactly what you’re saying here. I’m no longer a slave to depression God has healed me. ❤️🙏🏾
I hope you find peace within. Continue to seek God and I know you will be able to come to a conclusion with depression/anxiety. You know that God is able to do above and beyond whatever you ask. Proverbs 3:5,6 has helped me. Talk about it, however take everything to God in prayer. Much love, peace to you always. ❤
Would you feel comfortable connecting through email? I really resonate with your experiences and I haven’t found anyone that has had these similar feelings as me
Everybody goes to depression and anxiety I'm on medication for anxiety and depression I am 60 years old my husband is 64 we're best friends that we separated but we are best friends we take care of each other and make sure everything is okay I have a son 37 years old be 38 November what is your husband's name and when did y'all get married I would like to see a wedding picture you are a perfect match for each other and I love the way you put on your makeup you're not alone in this world don't ever 🇱🇷🖐️🙏💯💯🌹🌹🌹🍦🍦💎💎❤️🩹🎂🎂🎂😃
Vuyo you should also watch what you put into you. Example ensure if you are watching sad shows, turn it off or shows that play on emotions to feel down. This will also apply to music, books and even when you have bad thoughts, take a minute and start thinking about things to be happy about, life, family etc. Remember pills have side effects therefore lean not on your own understanding but talk to the Lord Jesus and lean on him . Every bad thought is from the enemy, counter it with praise and worship music. Blessings, peace and favour onto you in Jesus Mighty Name.
Talk to God do not put your business out there, the enemy is hearing you and will continue to taunt you, until you put your full trust in God. Stop trying to get views some things should only be shared with your friends or family
Let God be your counselor in this. Not Medicine! God is the best medicine. He is the greatest Healer, Miracle worker and Greatest Physician. Get herbal teas & honey, that make you sleep at night.✝️🙏
Being in Africa and taking chemical 😢😮. You have plenty of plant alternatives, with no or little side effects , the organic good food should help you too.
I just came across ur channel. I have been take meds for antidepressants and anxiety for many years. I also had issues with needing or depending on meds. Early on, I would stop taking meds after few months and fall back into depression but worse. I know there are many opinions but I have come to know that depression/anxiety is a illness and its ok to take meds. It's not a "happy" pill it helps with keeping me balanced. I will keep you in my prayers and I hope things continue to improve for you. ❤
Thank you so much babe. I also pray that you also get better. With God on our side we can overcome anything ❤❤❤
Keep God first, and you will succeed in whatever you do. Thanks so much for stepping outside of your comfort zone and speaking on what you've been going through. Continue to take it one day at a time.
Vulnerability makes people connect on deeper level, you opened up and acknowledged you were not always right !!! Proud of you for posting this
That is so true, thank you so much Schatz ❤️
Girl the struggle is real I know by speaking out you would have helped a lot of others.
We all need friends so find yourself with a few valuable ones
I hope so Debs. We definitely need people to talk to. And when you hear other people that are going through depression I know helps. 🙏🏾❤️
I had to learn to pray for like minded friends. I use to hang around toxic cousin and it was wearing me down. So you have to be mindful of who you have in your circle.
Hi. In spite of ur situation. Please talk to God about how u feel. Remember we are not perfect, only God is. Put ur life in His hand He knows what ur going through.
Amen 🙏🏾 I’m 💯 percent with you on this one. Without God I don’t know where I would be. Thank you for your kind words. 🙏🏾❤️
@@lifewithvuyo Just talk to your Father JESUS CHRIST cose only your Father JESUS CHRIST knows how you feel and what you are going throu so keep trusting in GOD ❤❤❤
Thank you for opening your doors to us literally and just giving us a small but, big part of your life. It’s nice to be in your personal space ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are so welcome! 😊❤❤❤❤ thank you for always being so kind.
New subbie here. Glad I came across your channel. You are the cutest and your heart is big! As a licensed professional counselor with over 20 years of practice, just know that you are not alone! I don't think people realize that mental health is not just when you are dealing with something. Mental health can be healthy (mindfulness, positive events in life, self-care, etc.) and unhealthy (trauma, depression, anxiety, mood instability, psychosis, etc). You are stronger than you think! It takes a lot of bravery to get on camera and be transparent. Thanks for sharing your story. I'm here cheering for you!!! ❤🤗
Vuyo, thank you opening up and your honesty about the depression and anxiety you have been suffering with. I hope you countine to look and pray to God about things more. God bless.
Thank you so much for your kind words Anne. May the Lord bless you ❤
Vuyo, thank you so much for opening up and sharing!! Sending you well wishes and hugs!! 💞💞🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you so much sweetheart ❤
It is well my sister, thank you for letting us into that part of your life God be with you through your struggles depression and take care much love❤
It's takes strength to make a video like this and share it with the world ❤
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Todo va a estar bien , te felicito por tu Fortaleza,
I’m glad you took the first step to getting better. Love and comfort ❤babes. Get strong love❤
Be encouraged because to be honest, life in Europe, USA or Canada is not easy. It can feel so lonely. Sorry for what you are going through. Note that medical help is useful but quite often If you go to the doctor they give you medication which is good for thier pharmaceutical businesses but can be addictive harming families and ruining personal life. Invest in self esteem, exercise, make friends and build your own self confidence.
This is very important because social connections are usually not strong or sincere. It can be depressing and commercial. Because what's valued is money, materialism, things. But there are also some good opportunities. Therefore even if people go through a lot, find a way to sail the storms and be encouraged.
If one is new wherever it takes time to adjust t o life, for example in a new country. Make friends or have a good social circle. Be encouraged.
Thanks Vuyo for sharing, you have just described me and I'm in tears. I didn't know what was wrong with me and just before the holidays i had the worst mental breakdown down followed by a heavy panic attack that the whole work station came to standstill on the most critical time and day. As you speak about your meds it has triggered a memory that once in my youth i did take antidepressants for months. I will try to get help as soon as possible. Thanks for telling your story. Depression is a very deep and dark disease. I dont remember the last year where i had real friends because i just closed the doors.
Hi. Thank you for being brave and opening up. I hope you are doing better and continue to do better. I am also on antidepressants and suffer from depression and anxiety. It is not easy but support goes a long way❤😊
Hi sweets. That is really true, having the proper people around you may make things seem a little bit simpler. Thank you for being so kind. I feel much better now. I hope you are feeling better as well.❤
@@lifewithvuyo ♥
Hi gal,I'm a new subscriber from Kenya and I want to say thank you for sharing your story,You're stronger than you think and I pray that God will continue to strengthen you and be your guide. I'm praying for you🙏🙏
I like the most when you said you trust God in everything you do,continue trusting him and the help from your doctor, that's the best way ❤
Keep praying my dear. My best wishes for your speed recovery. You will get there , what you are going through is for a season . Thanks for sharing.
Hi my daughter, when you feel overwhelmed, always remember your Hubby is always there for you. I'm so proud of the person you are today, You are doing great, 2024 onwards is your year of greatness, super proud of you my daughter 💗
Hey mam Lungi, thank you so much. Much love 🤍❤️
@lifewithvuyo I'm working night duty tonight but always remember uyathandwa ndim🤍
It’s very therapeutic to talk about issues like this. Good job girl.
I agree, thank you my love ❤
Awwwh man 🥹 sending you so much love ma’am Vuyo ❤️🙏🏽 All of the best my love. You gots this 🙌🏽.
Thank you sweetheart, I appreciate.❤️
Thank you Vuyo for sharing.
God bless all the people and families who are currently dealing with any kind of mental health issues or like me who have supported my sister who had went through this . Good news is she has learnt to recognize the things that triggers it and to apply the help she got from therapy, this includes talking to people close to her when she doesnt feel ok and doing the recommended exercises. She is still on meds but living a normal life.( after years of struggling , trusting God, taking Drs advuce). Therapy helps a lot, I used to accompany my sister and it also healed me and restored my peace because it was hard for all of us at home when she was sick . For you also I like the fact that you can recognize the warning signs, then you calm yourself down, encourage yourself and reassure yourself that everything is ok or is not so bad. This is good and shows that you and the sickness are not the same thing. So at some point you will be able to totally put it under control. It is good to love yourself and be kind and gentle and patient with yoursef. Gratitude is also good. At some point you will make friends, enjoy their company and be less isolated and lonely. Its a war and from experience I can see you overcoming . God bless your fiance for being such a great man.
That's why i don't talk about my depression & Anxiety because of the same reason, but Thank you for sharing it might help me opening up more.
I hope what I’ve shared helps you. Talking about mental problems is a difficult subject I know. I pray that you feel better, God bless you. ❤
You such a beautiful young woman. I thank you for sharing your vulnerability with the struggle of depression. I know it's not an easy topic to discuss, but it's a necessary one. I appreciate your concerns about taking the medication since the side effects can be strong and cause suicidal thoughts. More importantly, I appreciate your reliance on the Bible and drawing strength from God. One of favorite scriptures is Psalms 34:18 "God is near to the broken hearted and those crushed in spirit." Sometimes when we suffer from depression our souls feel crushed. Thank you for your courage and bravery. I appreciate you.
Thank you so much. I appreciate you taking the time to watch my video and leave such a touching response. That is a powerful scripture. Your words of encouragement brightened my day. May the Lord richly bless you. ❤️
@@lifewithvuyo 💙💦💙💦
Sending tumbillions and billions of hugs and kisses. I love you🥺💕
Thank you my frrrr. I love you too ❤️
This felt like i was listening to myself, thank you Vuyo❤
Thanks for sharing your story that was so bold of you. This has made me see things around me.
I’m happy to hear that. Thank you 🙏🏾
Thanks for sharing this young lady,also you helping many who think it is a shame to talk about it ,God will help you .
I am so proud of you for coming over here telling people about your antidepressant I also take medication to I was Born this Way I was born with cerebral palsy osteoarthritis disc disease of the lumbar spine mild case of retardation off-center 😊 left eye I had a knee replacement he messed up my right leg so now I have to wear what happens to lift on my right foot 🦶 I used to be ashamed to talk to anybody now to say I got schizophrenia by pulling up my medicine for it everybody has mental disease in their family we just don't know what I got it my other brother didn't get it and my twin identical twin that 2 hours after birth I was born at 6 and 1/2 months I weighed 2 lb and 7 oz she weighed 2.08 so I have all these complications but I don't let it get me down I keep praying to God and have people I can talk to go to I go to counseling and I go to CS psychiatrist so this helps me a lot to talk about my problem with them too my best friend that I went to school with and sometimes talk to my sister that you should be made to call him my sister and sometime I talked to Tanya but it depends most of the time I talk with God sometimes I talk to my husband depend on what it is but I'm thankful to be here sometime I supposed to go out and ask somebody to make me be born this way with all these problems so that's when I get frustrated but don't feel bad cuz you ain't got a lot of friends I don't need them you know that the people with my friends I just wondered what I have want to know my business I have disabled but I thank you for putting this on CZcams you meant a lot to mewould you make my night open up with your feeling and that made me feel better cuz I was going through something as well tonight but thank you for being a blessing to me as well as to yourself always text me back and I'll text you I mean I never want a fan for life God bless you young lady good nigh you're not alone in this world by yourself you can reach out and talk to people on chat you can also get into the women's group they have one chance to discuss different things like what we going through it took a lot of courage to do what you did and I'm so glad you did it just check things online they have boots about this for women talk about what they're going through to help each other balance out each day and you get your book a notebook and write one by the night or two words a night to get a journal to make a journal in other words that will help you express your feelings by writing it down on paper God bless you and have a smile on you my favorite Bible verse is the 23rd psalm 1 I we can reach out to each other and understand what each other's going through God bless you and again don't feel like you in this world by yourself because there's a lot of people on medication for anxiety disorders you just want did you still say anything I'm proud of you getting help it took me 30 years to get help for all I've been through raping and everything always smile always have a smile on your face cuz you are so beautiful and God has a lot in store for you to bless you with in Jesus name I pray amen ♥️♥️♥️♥️🖐️🙏🙏🖐️🇱🇷💎💯 God will let your heart know who to trust he will give you a feeling and he will let you know who you can trust and who you can't trust😊😊😊 take one step at a time little baby steps you make one God will make you manifest for sending your heart and your soul in your journal manifest it out loud if you talk to somebody talk to yourself when you're in the house like I do amen ♥️♥️🎈💚😘🍔🍟🎉🧁 and please don't forget to eat a little something before you take your medication I have a sandwich a piece of bread or some crack or some cookies or something then you won't fill off balance or drink some soda and sweet juice okay smile
Hi I’m new to your channel and I’ve been catching up on your videos.
This video here all I’m gonna say is that I can definitely relate.
Blessings 🙏🏾
God is always there for us, hold on unto him all the times. Thanks for opening up and seeking professional help. This vlog will make a difference or bring up change in many lives. ❤ Vuyo
I'm only half way through this video and I have to speak about it! I would have never known you was going throught this after watching your trip to Germany around January 2024. You are and will be helping many people that are going through this. I pray nothing but the best for you!
Thank you so much ❤️ I appreciate your kind words. The purpose of this video is to help other people that maybe going through similar situations. I must say, I’m doing so much better now, praise to God. ❤️❤️❤️
❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉weldone Vuyo. You took the best step of your life. The first step in therapy is accepting the whole situation. 🎉🎉🎉
Vuyio I salute your courage. All your attempts to get out of this seem incomprehensible to me. Also being this professional you had to feel this need and understand your inability to fight against yourself. You are radiant, a sign of better stability while not having a vision of yourself before. Maintain this confidence in yourself and in those who love you. I know South Africa well from Zimbabwe to Cape Town and your region in particular, hence my sensitivity. Take care of yourself, I send you a warm hello from Guadeloupe West Indies 🏝️
I admire your courage sharing your experience with your yt fams.
In times lije that when you're overwhelmed with anxieties,communicate the God of all comfort, and throw all those anxieties on Him, and thus enjoy the peace of God that surpasses all human understanding Philippians 4:6,7.Speaking to your friend that time also helped for a friend is loving all the time,born for times of distress.This content is impactful 👍👍👍👍
God already have u covered my dear.keep the faith and trust in him always. A wonderful life to u and ur man ❤❤
God bless you and thank you for sharing your story.🌷🌸🌷
Remember your husband can give you words of comfort just like you give him but always remember this first God is taking care of both of your emotionally and physically keep me up together and knowing that this is meant to be for the both of you I love you God bless you and your number one fan for life thank you for making CZcams remember when you met him this was going to be a long situation because that's who God chose for you and you for him so when you get set write a poem for him and read it to him and tell him the beautiful times you had together talk about that that also helps everything I did in my husband 3 years long distance then we got married he lived in South Carolina I live in New York City I had to start my life for a little bit and take it slow at first I was aggravated want to go back home but then as time went by and enjoy it and I'm still in South Carolina 31 years God bless you and always remember I have a best friend you can talk to a girlfriend or something I'm sure you have a good friend that you went to school with somebody you can come and say what about the things that above and you also open up to go out and talk out loud manifest what you want to go and give it to you and get your little teddy bear to sleep with that reminder holding your husband that's what I used to do sleep in 10 minutes still do anything send him a teddy bear stuffed animal that he can hold a pillow with your name on it or something he can hold like he's holding you at night that helps with the distance and and the depression😊😊🎉❤❤❤
Either way, know that you’re not alone.
I’m not saying that to be cute, but I go through EXACTLY what you are describing
Words can’t really describe the pain and sadness and frustration. Even though I have people and family around, it doesn’t matter.
This made me cry my doctor has been telling that I’m depressed and have anxiety but I don’t wanna admit it 😫🥹😭😭I keep on saying I’m okay Doctor
Pray about it Lebo, I know it’s not easy. On one of the videos that I uploaded “life update” I shared how prayer and trusting in God has healed me and I now see life and difficult situations different. Sending you much love 🤍
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Please don't feel bad about depression or anxiety studies show it has to do with a chemical imbalance. I went through a similar situation and I learned about depression and anxiety. I learned what was triggering me. Its been over 20 years that I dealt with either one of them...I learned how talk, cry and share my emotions. Something I never done before today I take care of ME!
You take care of you self and one thing I learned was I fused to let anyone to overcome my life and run it I learned that the hard way so I'm in control of Everything I feel good remember God got you girl hello❤
Thank you for sharing your story..I m going through anxiety,depression and ocd, and I m reluctant to start medication or seek help I depends on God only for now and I understand you, how it feels....
Listening to you just give strenght my dear ,I m on anti depressants too since July 2022,only hoping for God's intervention
I’m happy to hear that. The purpose of this video is to bring just a little bit of light to others going through similar situations. I’m glad you found it a bit helpful. May the Lord be with you, never stop praying.❤🙏🏾 Much love
Wow thanks so much dia, i surely needed this video , i felt i went thru this and sometimes i also dont like talking to people , i end up quiet and ignoring,but atleast with your video , i can see a solution.
Many people in the world are in mental illness situations right now, including me, I'm not on medication for that, I try hard to focusing my attention to others things, and soon I got better🙏💪💯
The story is touching 🙏🙏im so emotional.
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I’m crying, akukho lula 😭😭thank you Vuyo for sharing sometimes it’s always good to know that you are not alone ❤️ 🫂
@@yonelayozza536 you not alone my love, but we have Jesus I always advise people to give their worries and troubles to God. He’s never too far. Sending you much love ❤️
@lifewithvuyo you are so sweet sana , thank you for responding , love you loads ❤️🫂
Many people fine sorrow, and sadness that you can't let it go. Antidepressants are used when it's needed' do not be afraid. Get the help you need.
Like you said, it doesn’t matter who the people are around you
I hope everything works out well for you. Have a good day.
Thank you sweetheart. Have a great day too ❤
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First time watching your videos. Watching from the Caribbean
MY SWEETHEART..🥰💕🙏🏽 I AM NEW TO YOU BUT YOU ARE EASY TO LOVE I AM TO A BELIEVER IN GOD I KNOW HE SENT ME YOUR WAY YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL FROM THE INSIDE OUT YOUR TESTIMONY WILL HELP SOMEONE BELIEVE ME I KNOW I AM STILL NOT THE MOST TRUSTING PERSON BECAUSE OF LIFE BUT I TRUST WHAT AND WHO IS MEANT TO ENTER MY SPACE WILL DESPITE ME… AND YES CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR ENGAGEMENT WISHING YOU NOTHING BUT THE ABSOLUTE BEST I DO KNOW DESPITE OURSELVES GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF US…🥰👑💕🙏🏽 THE BIBLE SAYS WEEPING MAY ENDURE FOR A NIGHT BUT JOY COMMETH IN THE MORNING …🙌🏾🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you so much for being so kind and for spreading love sweetheart. Your words mean a lot to me. I’m happy that you’re a believer, I strongly believe that if we make God our firm foundation we can conquer anything. Much love and may the Lord bless you 🙏🏾❤️
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I love you vuyo ❤❤❤❤ God loves you
Thank you for sharing your story..I’m experiencing the same symptoms you were talking about…
Girl friends can be great but its about quality not quantity thxs 4 sharing ❤
So true ❤️
We love you babe ❤😘 we know its not easy
I love you too sissy 😘❤️
I commented to for opening up about something so personal. You will be OK. When I listen to you, I hear my daughter. But what I noticed that you too have in common is that you both have a calling on your lives. You both love the Lord, and the enemy is trying to abort the purpose for your lives. Don't give up. I'll be praying for you.
I commend you
I'm on treatment for +5-8 years now... never ever stopped but hoping to do so 1nce I retire from work believing that my problems will come down. I had chronic anxiety for abt 10-20years and on agreement with my GP was later put on treatment. Things got more and worse in 2020 until I crashed in mid 2021 and was diagnosed with burnout. I was admitted for a period of 2weeks...that was the best treatment from where I learned abt being open abt my situation. The psychiatrist put me on same day medication but changed the nyt one as prescribed by my GP. I'm still on medication and doesn't want to know how I'd react if I stop bcse I'm not gonna take chances. I talk abt it freely with intentions of educating others who think it's madness
Ah thank you for sharing your story my love, hearing someone else’s story helps ease things a little bit. I pray that you feel better soon and may the Lord give you strength and watch over you. 🙏🏾❤️
Im 18 and i have been feeling so empty inside this entire year,Academically i was a top student throughout but this year has been challenging.i isloated myself from my entire family after the pandemic and it still feels they don't know me.I constantly feel sad most if the time and its a struggle.. my Anxiety this year got really bad(etc when i had to leave home i would always panic)
I’m sorry to hear that Palesa. I think you should also seek professional help if you haven’t. Try to open up to your parent or someone that won’t judge you so you have someone that can help you walk this journey. I know sometimes things may not be easy, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You will feel better again. Acknowledge how you feel also talk to God about it. Prayer really helps ease the pain. I hope you get better soon. May the Lord watch over you and be blessed. 🙏🏾Much love❤️
I will pray for you. God will help us. I feel your pain. And we all go through one thing or another. Every one journey is different.
Thank you so much Jennifer, by His stripes I am healed 🙏🏾
And thank u for sharing ur story ❤❤
I get that way sometimes just know your are a child of God and he have you always 🙏😇.
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God bless you ☺️
Thank you so much. May the Lord bless you too🙏🏾❤️
Hey I been watching you for 4 days Now So I guess Im a New Subscriber ❤I want to say have a sit down and have a little talk with Jesus he knows what we going to go through before we do never be afraid to cry God said fear not for he is with you, and our tears are anointed and Jesus hear our cry😢 Put it on the alter and Give it all to Jesus while we trying to figure it out God already worked it out in.Jesus Name Amen my Prayer are with you🙏!!!!
Hey Tina, amen 🙏🏾 thank you for the support darling. I totally agree with everything you say, if you watch my life update video which I uploaded about 2months ago, I said exactly what you’re saying here. I’m no longer a slave to depression God has healed me. ❤️🙏🏾
I hope you find peace within. Continue to seek God and I know you will be able to come to a conclusion with depression/anxiety. You know that God is able to do above and beyond whatever you ask. Proverbs 3:5,6 has helped me. Talk about it, however take everything to God in prayer. Much love, peace to you always. ❤
May the Lord God Almighty U serve continue to heal u in Jesus's name i pray
Amen 🙏🏾
Would you feel comfortable connecting through email?
I really resonate with your experiences and I haven’t found anyone that has had these similar feelings as me
For the first time i wacth your vidio, i like it so much
Thank you so much 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you for sharing Vuyo
Hi i'm very much understand becz i go throught that and ppl do not know that only if you when throught it.
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Thank you 🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@lifewithvuyo can we be friends am from Zambia????
Your living my story. Stay in therapy it helps.
Hi dear I think you need to go see your family my love. Clear the air. Everyone needs someone close to them.
For me i do not stop think.
Thank you for sharing
My pleasure
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I understand you ❤
Thank you so much for sharing. I feel everything that you said.
Hi Vuyo cc ..... yhooo u brave my love. ❤
Hi my love❤️ thank you
Everybody goes to depression and anxiety I'm on medication for anxiety and depression I am 60 years old my husband is 64 we're best friends that we separated but we are best friends we take care of each other and make sure everything is okay I have a son 37 years old be 38 November what is your husband's name and when did y'all get married I would like to see a wedding picture you are a perfect match for each other and I love the way you put on your makeup you're not alone in this world don't ever 🇱🇷🖐️🙏💯💯🌹🌹🌹🍦🍦💎💎❤️🩹🎂🎂🎂😃
Don't be hard on yourself to err is human .
Vuyo you should also watch what you put into you. Example ensure if you are watching sad shows, turn it off or shows that play on emotions to feel down. This will also apply to music, books and even when you have bad thoughts, take a minute and start thinking about things to be happy about, life, family etc. Remember pills have side effects therefore lean not on your own understanding but talk to the Lord Jesus and lean on him . Every bad thought is from the enemy, counter it with praise and worship music. Blessings, peace and favour onto you in Jesus Mighty Name.
Vuyo❤
Don't wear makeup you look good with out
Thank you my love. ❤❤❤
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Talk to God do not put your business out there, the enemy is hearing you and will continue to taunt you, until you put your full trust in God. Stop trying to get views some things should only be shared with your friends or family
Just a suggestion I don't know where you are with God. But I wish you would take the time to pray and ask God to help you and get in the Bible.
Let God be your counselor in this. Not Medicine! God is the best medicine. He is the greatest Healer, Miracle worker and Greatest Physician. Get herbal teas & honey, that make you sleep at night.✝️🙏
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Being in Africa and taking chemical 😢😮. You have plenty of plant alternatives, with no or little side effects , the organic good food should help you too.
Thank you so very much for this my sista❤❤ one love🫶🏾🙏🏾
I’m glad you took the first step to getting better. Love and comfort ❤babes. Get strong love❤
You’re such a sweetheart, thank you so much babe.❤️
Praying for you babes. Have a lovely Sunday night❤.