The Power of Kindness | Simon Sinek
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- čas přidán 27. 05. 2020
- Oxytocin, the chemical responsible for feelings of love and connection, binds us as human beings.
In this Mindset Moment, Simon talks about the power of kindness and the chemical reaction we have to acts of generosity.
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Simon is an unshakable optimist who believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together. Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon teaches leaders and organizations how to inspire people. With a bold goal to help build a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single day feeling inspired, feel safe at work, and feel fulfilled at the end of the day, Simon is leading a movement to inspire people to do the things that inspire them. Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and Find Your Why. His new book, The Infinite Game, will be released in 2019.
Simon’s WHY: To inspire people to do the things that inspire them so that, together, each of us can change our world for the better.
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Kindness is the best example of butterfly effect. Your single act of kindness has the power to transform the world.
Yes!
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Very true 👍💯💯
“It Must Be Genuine.” There is no higher truth!
I have learnt that you genuinely help harmless and moderate people n you must defend n fend off violent tyrants like bullies and criminals and ccp.if not there shall be no peace with criminals stationed at every oceanic n building n train station corner
Kindness is everything. This African American Lady found me by the roadside waiting to cross the road, it was heavily raining 🌧 she stopped her car ,requested me to get in and drove me to my apartment . Wherever and whoever you are, you touched my heart with your act of kindness 💛 Keep doing what you do and may you never lack anything you need
Anger can knock down doors, but kindness can move mountains.
I'm not boasting, just giving an example.
My old boss was a piece trash - still is as far as I can tell. He and his wife demoralised their staff and belittled them for the smallest mistakes, publicly reprimanding them and even whinging to customers about them (me included). Whenever these things happened, I made a point of cheering them up somehow. Doing some of their work, cleaning up their mistake, making them a coffee, getting them to do something easier for a while and so on. Just to make them feel okay. It got to the point where staff said they hated working at that place but didn't want to leave because they liked working with me. I ended up having enough of the boss after seven years and leaving just before Christmas and every single staff member except one left within a week.
Kindness matters.
Totally agree..Act of Kindness should be genuine
True. People respond positive to kind behavior and negative to bad behavior.
The last statement is true... '...it must be genuine...'
We need this in America right now.
Revenge never healed a wound
Hate destroys the vessel it's kept in.
Be the person to spread genuine kindness.
Change the world with kindness - love it!
the ultimate act of kindness... My uncle donated his bone marrow to my father who was dying of leukaemia at the time. Unfortunately, it was too late and my father passed away, but that act will stay with me till my dying day 🙏
For those that don't know, the extraction of bone marrow is an insanely painful procedure.
Indeed, kindness is a gift that everyone can afford to give 🖖
Apparently not xijinping.not everyone is capable of sanity.
Not Trump. I'm not American so I have no axe to grind, but by his words and actions he is not a naturally kind person.
Le lo re baba Mera kindness
Man, I love this man. Thank you for being a torch of light in these times of confusion
I think sometimes the ‘be kind’ statement is reductive somehow like saying “reach for the stars” when you’re run down. My very nature is being kind since i was in school, and of course it makes you feel good but I lately i tend to see the wider picture and that i have to be careful. It’s also made me wonder my natural kindness has a social reason. Over time I have had different reactions, like curiosity (‘Why would you be kind to your ex that cheated on you ?”), I’ve had people raised up by my kind attention, but there’s also another side, you’re taken for granted, end up carrying emotional burdens that’s not yours, constant high expectations of you, having to explain myself and how kindness can be seen to be weak and easy to make fun of. It’s even changed the dynamic in relationships. Over the years i’ve become a lot more introverted as people can be exhausting. I need to be assertive. I don’t mean to berate kindness, as random kindness to strangers is a beautiful thing. I think sometimes the ‘be kind’ statement is reductive somehow like saying “reach for the stars” when you’re run down. The ultimate kindness for me anyways is to be kind to myself first and foremost..
Simon, you are really inspiring. Your books *Start with why* is one of the best books I've read. I try to use all that you spoke about and My why is strong that I started my own CZcams channel!
You got a new sub! Great content
This guy is like if Jordan Peterson didn't suffer chronic depression. I love that he's as meaningful, intelligent and articulate - but actually believes in a happy life. I have been hoping to "manifest" or find a teacher like this since I first saw Peterson and thought "you but more hopeful" and then I stumbled on this. Brene Brown was close, but not what I meant.
The impact of one specific act of kindness has lasted through generations.
I doubt that the African American couple who helped my mother (on a dark winter night in Detroit, circa 1940) when she had slipped on ice and cracked her head on a concrete curb would have expected that this would influence my mother's children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren so far.
Their example goes beyond far beyond simple kindness because all too often any interaction with "white" people could easily have proven dangerous to them. They could have just walked on with no risk.
Pass it forward
You are absolutely correct about the surge that comes from oxytocin. We need more of this for our good. Cheers to the people who are genuinely doing acts of kindness.
Treat others the way you wish to be treated and the world would be a much better place. Unfortunately I found most people are only nice to me because they want some thing.
I’ve just seen a video with 0 dislike !!! It feels so good and having more oxytocin 😁
Beautiful! I also find that kindness helps me to change my day/mood from a bad one to a good one. So I use my bad day to think of how can I make someone else's day better. It works amazingly and usually ends up making me feel way better. Oxytocin rocks!
It must be genuine
Kindness is contagious. Every act will ripple in some way. Thanks Simon🙏
The best social influence I know.
Intelligent and smart!!
Does he have a podcast?
The secret to your strong appeal is your kindness🙏❤
Only to good people.not to china or bullies.
And theres kindness in protecting the weak from tyrants like ronald Reagan said. Peace through strength.
Kindness must be genuine, without an ulterior motive
Perfect timing on this upload Simon. As we all start going out into the world again we all need this.
Simon ur someone i can listen n be positive whole day .hats off👍
Simon, you're one of the best speakers and storytellers I've ever watched. Thank you for the management and leadership lessons you continuously share 🙏🏽
Kindness is a feeling felt on being kind. It would be so great, if we can create a platform to share an act of generosity and motivate others.
Yes! Small acts of kindness are so powerful - for both the giver and the receiver. And the potential ripple effects from the smallest gesture can extend far beyond our imaginations.
I totally agree. Kindness is powerful
Kindness creates winwin. It is amaizing! So many times you put into words my thoughts and believes.
I highly respect what you said. I believe we all should be kind with each other. But in the corporate world, kindness considered as weakness or lack of leadership! Can we change this culture?
Yesss! It's perfectly true!
Sometimes people are surpised at an act of kindness but you know you left a mark and showed that person that kindness really exist! I just love doing that even if sometimes people become suspicious thinking that you might have a secret agenda! It took years to one of my colleagues to really trust my unconditional kind attitude! But it feels great anyway! 🌹🤗
I want to spread out your messages to as many people as possible.......
Something deep within me says your are right. I don't know what that is my guts, minds Or heart........
Thank you Simon Sinek you always inspired me and millions others. Someday I will also inspire people........
Truly impeccable 🙏 Be more generous and kind
Great. If we see someone doing good, we tend to do good
IT'S A POWERFUL FEELING AND VERY FULFILLING SOME TIMES IT'S CONTAGIOUS,YOU NEVER GET TIRED BECAUASE IT COMES FROM THE BOTTOM OF YOUR HEART.
What a great guy
We need this right now. Thank you... great vid👌🏿
I love love love it, yes !!!!
You is the best Simon sink
Love this.
Fantastic Simon as always. Cheers.
Thank you sir!! Your videos always inspire me :)
the best part of this talk are the last 3-4 words...
Thank you….
Words of wisdom
Brilliant!
I find being kind.... it doesn’t work... people walk over one... I still won’t change... but it’s a fact... people don’t like nice people .. ❤️❤️🥰🥰
Amen
I love this video
Great 👍🏼 thank you
I would love to see you and Matthew Kelly have a conversation about this... or anything actually!
Inspirational stuff mate!
"THE VERY NATURE OF KINDNESS IS TO SPREAD. IF YOU ARE KIND TO OTHERS, TODAY THEY WILL BE KIND TO YOU AND TOMORROW TO SOMEBODY ELSE."- Spiritual Master - SRI CHINMOY
Deep and Dope
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Imagine if the govt was kind to people durinf this pandemic
No expectation is key
So simple. Exponential rewards/results. Do it. :)
Mr Simon, what if we help people and the person gets angry at us? What should we do?
Just love a person win there heart do good more those who r ungreatful .u will find more happyness
@@alexanderselvan2390 thank you for your reply 😊
Wer ru from
Am from India
Some people will react that way for sure. I really like the quote though that says, "People may not remember what you said, or what you did, but they will remember how you made them feel." -Maya Angelou.
Even if in the moment they are upset at least someone did care enough to do that thing for them. Sometimes this can come off a bit hand-holdy but if you truly help someone like how Simon explained here you should feel good about it and hopefully the other person will too. There's a balance to it, but yeah if you're genuine about it it'll really add to the joyful song in your soul. Maybe they'll ask why you did that for them.
In any case just because someone responded poorly one way doesn't mean that it won't help a different person. We all have different needs. Some people are really hoping someone will help but they won't ask for it. Others are the opposite. The fact that you want to help others is a wonderful thing though. I wish you only the best in your endeavors.
Agree with the other replies. We can't control how people receive or respond to our kindness, but if we are coming from a place of genuine and authentic kindness, that's all that matters. We can't know the type of day someone is having, or the struggle they are facing that causes them to respond unfavorably, but extending grace and kindness still puts goodness into the world.
It also goes for difficult people. People can be annoying. Incompetent. Ridiculous. But as I told my own subscribers, you have to make an attempt not to hurt them. And usually that means even their feelings. You have to understand that many will have annoying traits that are not necessarily bullying traits but just what they are--annoying. And usually this type of behavior comes from their own internal unrest. As one of my Muay Thai coaches said: if a tiger attacks you in the jungle you must draw your knife and kill it. But if a little dog was nipping at your heels would you kick it to death? No, you move it gently out of the way. And that is the effort you have to make with people. Not everyone is strong, most aren't warriors. They aren't confident therefore have to be dealt with gently like the above analogy. And if you do that daily, you will find that it reflects back and gives you only more tranquility. Hope this helps someone out there---Charles
I consider myself kind but I admit there are times I know I can help but I hesitate, but at times I do help with the intention to make myself feel good or rather make myself look good (I know pretty selfish and egotistic). So in this case, is my act of helping out of making myself feel better not genuine?
Billions of us do the same! Human nature.
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Be kind.
Wise advice from Simon Sinek. Now if only he would apply some of that wisdom to his next purchase of pants, then perhaps he'll buy the right size next time.
Thumbs up for the great content!
As a poliician once said: "once you can fake sincerity you have got it made".
Not according to the last five words in the video.
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This content is teeming with innovative and challenging ideas. Reading a book with similar themes contributed to my personal enlightenment. "Kindness Unveiled: A Journey to a Happier Life" by why i live a happy life
Where is he from?
almost 1 mil B)
The problem:
every time I do something kind without any expectations, people think I have a motive. And instead of having a happy moment, poeple resnet me 😅
Yes, some people are so cynical that they refuse to believe that someone could be nice just to be nice and that those people have a second goal.
If kindness is a type of superpower. Thanos would have been saved.
who else's art teacher made them watch this?
Nope always got taken advantage of in situations like this and at work...that’s where you get taken advantage of the most. To many horrible stories to list but I don’t help people anymore.
Same. But I'm still kind to people with my words. I will also pick up a few papers or whatever, but I won't spend hours and hours helping someone (e.g. pack up their house).
Bottle this oxytocin up and give it to the Politicians and the filthy rich,if it works then that will be the end of poverty.........
I wish he wasn't using the same examples all the time
this sucks