Assumptions about our Marriage *TEA* | Chins & Giggles Ep. 55
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- čas přidán 4. 05. 2023
- Hey girl, hey! Welcome back to another week of Chins & Giggles. On this episode we're bringing Raul back into the studio and this time he has plenty to say. Join in the conversation as Karina and Raul catch you up on married life- are they ready for baby #2? What's it really like living with Karina's family? And answer more of your relationship questions.
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We need a squish and brayan version but solo. I would love to hear them both out!
@karina please see this lol!
I feel like we need chins and giggles twice a week!!!!
Definitely!
YESSS
I agreeeee
Agree 👍
Did you not hear. They busy af
awwwww!! The part where Karina tells Raul he is an amazing father and Raul just lights up and smiles ear to ear!!!!!!!🥺🥺🥺🥺🫶🏻🫶🏻
I seen that 😢❤
Karina, you seriously hit the jackpot with Raul. He's so genuine and chill.
“I got my dad’s breasts but my mom’s areolas”
I CACKLED!!!!!
Karina I love you! Lmao 😂
I cannot 😅😅😅😂
😂💀
She’s hilarious 😂😂😂
Omg me too 😂😂😂
Lol. The math aint mathing 😂😂
You don’t have to justify Myra’s absence. Anyone that has had a baby knows how much of a change it is ❤ I have 6 children that are 2 years apart and those younger years were hard but they are almost all grown now, the years go by so quickly so please enjoy them
The insecurity during intimacy is a BIG thing! Ugh these men are kings not caring how we look but we’re still like 🥴 turn the lights off lol
Lol I think it's spouse's in general because I'm a thick girl and my wife of 17 years about shit a brick when I wanted and stared to lose weight I'm like 30lbs down and feel disgusting she's all about I love it all I'm like does it get any darker in here
Karina: “it was giving very much pointy triangles” Raul nods head “yeah” lol 💀 53:50
He agrees 😭😂
😂
I fucking died😂
Me 👁👄👁 when he agreed😂🤣
Im rolling guys 🤣🤣🤣🤣 if you knew how many time I repeat that part 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 “ yeah “”😅
Aww Raúl talking about his insecurities, I hope to God no one bullied this man - he’s so sweet😭😭🤍🤍
Fr they will catch these hand
You bought your home with the dream of having all of your family together. You accomplished that dream and made it work for 6 years. Of course your home is sentimental, however with time comes change. You have a baby now, your siblings are older, your going to have more kids, etc. What used to work then maybe isn’t going to work now. These are the hardest type of conversations to have especial with Latino family’s. I hope you guys find the perfect solution for your future home life 💞
Perfectly put 💯
Lmao Raul spilling the beans on how to keep the love alive 😂😂
Raul is such a low maintenance king, tbh I love how chill and down to earth he is. He doesn't speak a lot but when he does he has great judgment! Everyone needs a friend like that especially higher energy/overstimulated people.
“We’re literally family Mia sees us as one” 38:45 I’m in tears this has to be the most precious statement I have ever heard! Y’all make a great family. ❤
Raul- “I thought they were good🙂”
Karina- “lord”
I LOVE you guys 🤣🤣
I love that they didn’t cut, they left the call Raul got them Karina in there 🤣
Not me crying when Karina said her love for Raul flourished when they had Mia. 😩❤️
Girl no it does not take a while to wear off… I was literally on my last day off my depo when my husband you know… & well me also thinking “ oh it’s ok it’s going to take a while to wear off” & BAM I Got PREGNANT
ME TOO LMAO!! Got off of it because I hated the side effects. A couple weeks later,.. pregnant 🫠 now I have my 2 year old 🥹
I saw a post that said “why would I care what you think about me? My child calls me their hero and THATS what matters” or something like that and it’s straight facts!!
Shoutout to Raul for being such a supportive partner! Really liked this episode 💜
Got pregnant at 15, had my daughter at 16. Graduated at 18 at that time I was 5 months pregnant with my son, moved into my first apartment… I’m now 34 my daughter will be 18 on the 18th of this month!!! And my son will be 16 in October.. raised them by myself their whole lives, with the help of my parents thank goodness.
Queen! 🤍🤍🤍
@@destinyluna7795 thank you 😊
Shout out to single dads too! My husband was a single dad at 18 and was able to raise his little baby on his own until we became a family when she turned 5!
Thank You! I'm a C-section mommy and did it all on my own. My daughter is now 12, but those baby years were soooo hard. There was times I would cry because I was all alone, exhausted, and when ever I wasn't feeling good, there was no resting. It's all worth it and it gets so much better through the years.
I know several people that think of marriage as a “piece of paper” but people forget that in unwanted circumstances (death, medical decisions, accidents, etc) that piece of paper is so important. For example the Enky Boys situation, they considered themselves married but weren’t married legally & his family (who weren’t as much involved) basically took what he had after his passing leaving his wife with nothing and they had a whole argument and couldn’t let her mourn properly. Marriage is important, in my opinion
Oh wow didn’t know about that 😢 good example for sure
If Mayra wants to come back, let's have a pajama party in her house lol podcast sleepover special style
I can’t with karina 😂 the whole “have my dads boobs but my moms areolas” 💀 that part bitch! I felt that 😂😂😂
I loved this episode! Raul needs to
make appearances more often 😊 He just brings really good energy and the conversations were 💯
Yes! Just sat down to relax and this popped up‼️ Love it❤
The whole talk about what keeps the love alive within you guys totally made me feel like a third wheel watching this 😩😭 I can see it both your eyes and when you look at eachother talking and smiling.😋
Just love love💛
I love how real you guys are being. I hope Mayra is healing well physically and mentally. It’s a lot being a new parent and dealing with loss of another child. I fell her pain 💜🫶🏼
I felt that when you talk about stay at home mom bc this shit is hard I am the village the village is me I am surprised when I make it out through the day your podcasts always make me so happy plz never stop 🫶🏼
we need all this type of content.. variety!! the twins the brothers and parents and more yes and yes we all up for it !!!!❤ thank you Karina ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ saludos desde Houston 🫶🏾🤘🏾
Hope Mia gets well soon. You guys are an incredible couple. Si yo tuviera a alguien quisiera que fuera así, donde trabajemos juntos y compartir todo el tiempo posible juntos....siempre enamorados😍
Aww Raul 🥺 Karina you guys are truly a beautiful couple. Thank you for sharing your life with us 💕
The last 20 mins about your home life with parents, siblings & husband is so SPOT OONNNN, I’ve always had the idea to buy land & build houses on that. That way everyone would be neighbors with each other and y’all would still have yalls own space while still being able to see each other everyday if y’all wanted too
Raul came to spill the intimate beans! 😅😂😅😂😅😂❤❤🎉🎉
I can so relate with you karina about moving out , I literally moved out down the street from my parents house with my bf and I cried like a baby , it’s a different feeling like a loneliness feeling takes over and sets in but girl having your own spot with your own little family is beautiful ❤ something to call your own , now I’m here in my ranch home with my bf and our 2 girls and a butt load of animals ❤
I have never related so much to a podcast! ❤ we need more of these couple venting ones.
He gives me Taurus energy! I’m an Aquarius and my husband is a Taurus and I absolutely feel so lucky and happy that I’m spending my life with him and our boys 🩵💜 we can relate on every level with both of you!
can't wait for you and raul to get your own spot, it'll be such a fun, exciting change 💕💕💕
I lived with my grandparents for so long even after having my first son, and when I moved out it was hard at first but then I got use to it and now my kids get so excited when I tell them we are going to Mama's house, it would be different if we where with them every single day
Myra moved out and she is thriving ❤
Raul is a charm and Karina you’re gorg! Thank you for the laughs. After a hectic week I always look forward to these ❤
Can we get a part 2 with more questions! ❤ I love you & Raul together your personalities complement each other so well!
I love how Raul explained how your baby sees your family as one! That is so sweet. Karina and Raul, it's very plain to see that you two are good partners, parents, friends and family. Blessings always to you.
Prayers for Mayra to continue healing and remember to give herself grace and time. She is a mama of 2 and is and will always grieve the earthly loss of Briancito! The process of learning to live with a child in heaven instead of in your arms is mentally exhausting! 😢❤
Me just waiting for both of you to start crying because you are both complementing each other’s amazing parenting! I love you so much! You are amazing. And also thank you for being so caring for your sister she’s amazing!❤
Raul should come more often since we don’t know much it’s all about Bryan which is not bad but we want to also know y’all as a couple more and we love you & you guys are great parents !
They way you both talked about your own insecurities and we’re both able to see through them 🥹🫶🏼
Pt 2 I loveddd this episode! I love you guys !! Bring Raul back talk more about moving girly !
I love Raul! He’s so easy going & so supportive love this for you!🥰
The party of men not being chismosos enough is so true 😭😂 I literally tell my man not to tell me anything if he doesn’t have the full story
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😂😂😂😂😂
Idk why you don't have a house next to each other so that your still close but still have your own home you know.... if you guys got the money I would have my mom right next door so that we still have our privacy but still right next door.
One of my favorite podcasts !! Kept me awake & laughing my drive back home ! ❤️ love y’all ✨
It does feel that way when you’re leaving your parents BUT once you do leave the nest TRUST me girl it feels GOOD! As close as you guys are it’s just different. You’ll always be visiting so it’s not a big deal. I’m sure your parents understand. And maybe they even have plans of moving themselves. I’m sure they’re not planning to live there forever 😊
Omg please do a part 2 with Raul! 😊
Yay Raul is back!
we definitely need to see Raul more, he did so good :)
I wasn't expecting to cry today!! once you started talking about moving away from your parents I got in all the feels. You are SO fortunate to be in a position to be able to give back to your parents by having a roof over their head. I can tell you don't take that for granted and that says a lot about your character
It gave me goosebumps when you said, it takes a village to take care of a kid. 😥 I am that village.. 💔
Why is this one of my favorite episodes this far? y’all cracked me up 😂
We definitely need a podcast from you two !!! Love your chemistry and how smooth this was ! Loved it ❤
Absolutely obsessed with chins and giggles 😂🩷🫶🏻
This podcast is so so so good!! You and Raul are such a good team!! ❤️❤️💯💯 you should make a couple podcast… i love you guys❤❤❤ This episode was an emotional roller coaster.. totally kept me engaged
Lmao the fact they addressed the whole him talking part.. I was legit like I’m Raul in every situation I like to listed to the talkers ahaha
Thank you Karina for letting Raul talk! LOL I would love to hear his POV on more topics in y'alls relationship!
Loved this episode ❤
I got married super young and it was hard to find genuine friends/connections where one can have these kind of conversations.
Raul is super chill.
Yay! I love Fridays!! Cause it’s a great way to start my weekend 😅😊
I love you guys so much man the transparency man I love it. The way y’all do open about living together you know. I feel like I can talk to y’all. I love this. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have been waiting for your episodes. I wish the YT came out sooner than the Spotify. I love watching you guys after a busy weekday. Friday’s, I am finally able to wind down and watch one of my fave podcasts. 💕
This was an awesome episode! Its nice to see the 2 of y'all working together and Lear more about y'all as a couple ☺️
Loved this podcast. Made me feel so comfortable I love you two together ❤❤❤
Karina!!!! I freaking love you!!! this podcast had me laughing and smiling 🤍🤣
Props to Raul🎉 he did a great job on here!!!
“But what happens at midnight” -Raul 😆
Mayra get all rest you need sweetie you deserve it especially after having a C-section. Can’t wait to see you enjoy your baby growing up it’s your spot light this time. I loved watching your sister Karina having her baby and Mia growing and getting bigger and it was enjoyable. You both are very blessed ❤️
I was DEAAAAD when they both started being on the phone 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I just moved out with my family, I totally feel karina. You need your space but our parents are everything and having our kids so close to them it’s so hard to take them but the toll of living together is a lot
Definitely felt you Karina it’s soo hard moving out from your parents. I recently did a big change & moved to a different state. It has been tough being so far especially having my daughter & how close they are with her. It definitely takes time to adapt but you got this mama it’s a bittersweet thing 🤍
Not you guys feeling like you have to justify that Raul TALKS! I am deaddddd love y’all
Loved this episode! Thank you both for sharing. Don’t feel bad about thinking it’s time to separate from your parents. Marriage is about having your own space. Wether your parents move or you guys move, always know that your parents will always be there to support you guys. ❤
I enjoyed this podcast,Raul is a wonderful husband and father and he speaks. My daughter her husband lived with me and she had my first granddaughter who she named after me and when she was 3 years old they moved out it killed me and my granddaughter cried for me, I would go visit on the weekends and to leave era Todo UN show it was hard but they needed there space, I wouldn't get involved or say anything even if I heard them arguing. Your siblings will be going through there teenage years and you might get sucked in like you said, you'll be going through it with your own children you and Raul don't need that stress.
Loved the podcast ❤ it would be fun doing one with Raul again and with Myra and Bryan
Love this! made me think a lot of my Husband and I …. Love it.
I loved this episodeeee!!! U guys are so funnn
Aw karina i started crying with you when u were talking about moving out and seperating mia from ur parents😢🥹🥹
You are the sweetest Karina
Been waiting for this lol 😂refreshing like crazy
I was on the DEPO shot for two years and I got pregnant immediately after I stopped using it‼️So do not believe everything you read because I did and Now I have a 17 year old😂
Exactly lol can’t trust birth control 100%
Same here, I was on it for YEARS. Finally decided no more… couple weeks later, PREGNANT.😂
Loved this episode so much!!!
Karina you are a beautiful person!!!! I enjoy watching you!! ❤
Its always seeing the queens, Mayra and Karina, but it was nice to see Raul and the chance to hear you both. Yall are amazing!
Im glad you guys bring the pros and cons of living with parents/parents in law. I live with him and his family and they took me in without question when things got rough at my home without question(bless them, they are the best people in the world), but it can be a little hard when you have something in the fridge and its completely gone the next day. Dont get me wrong, they share their food and I dont mind when they get ours, only a little when its specific items (like an ice cream, or a bundle of bananas and its all gone the next day, or a drink I prepared).I sometimes dont know how to bring it up because I dont want to seem disrespectful, specially since it is their home and dont want to seem like I want to change their habits
I got the Dep shot in January as well & it was also my first dose. I am with Karina on this one! There’s days I am spotting & there’s days where I am fully bleeding!! Really hard to know when it’s your period! Hopefully the shot starts to wear off soon🤞🏻🫶🏻
Girlll I don’t live with my parents but they see my daughter like every day! Sbe doesn’t even know the difference and even has her own room over there. Having your own space is sooo important. Love being at my parents house but I also love when it’s time to go home.
loved this episode!!!!!! 🫶🏼
Ahh!! I was waiting for this all morning lol! ❤️😂
Love y’all guys so much. ❤ love the fact I can relate to you guys. So real and down to earth. Love love love hearing y’all talk about real life things😊
Thanks for bring Raul, this was actually an awesome episode. Such interesting conversation.
One the house issue I know it's hard but I see the advantages too. Now I do think too that since it is your home you need to put your foot down if it ever came down to a sibling bring a partner to live there. That should be a no no, cause then it would be 3 family dinamics clashing. Anyhow my parent lived with us until they both passed and I do not regret one bit living together, but I don't think I would have liked my brother and his spouse living with us.
I was on the depo too! I was on it for 4 years and stopped getting it during covid. I thought it would take me years to become fertile since "research" says it stays in your system for bit. I was fine with that since I wasnt planning on getting pregnant anytime soon.
Sike! Turns out I got pregnant 2 months after stopping. But I’m happy it worked out the way it did. Soooo becareful Karina it could happen faster than you think lol
It’s been abt 4 years that I been on depo and girl I missed my appointment for the first time yesterday and now I can’t have the appointment till the 9th 🥹
I'm a single mother and had a C-section and i had to move around the moment I had my daughter 💕 and is hard but that's life ❤....
The part of husband not communicating the ☕️ I felt that! 🤣
same i wanna know everything!!!
Karina even when you move the stress of being the head of the household doesn’t go away. As women we carry the family. I don’t call them burdens because it is a very ugly and nasty word. But as women we just naturally feel responsible for everything and everyone even if we don’t live with our parents. Only girl and youngest of 5. I feel like mom to everyone even my own mom sometimes. Especially as our parents get older it’s hard for us to not feel like we need to see them all the time. Even moving out won’t get rid of your stress I promise.
Awww I LOVED this one with Hubby!! 🙌 Also I cant hear any speech impediment from him. I just hear his accent
Omg! That part girl where men don’t tell their wife the chisme and they don’t give us details! I always have to find out through other people! Uhm we live for the tea 😂💕
Hella true ! my man’s never asks for details !! Im like how the hell don’t you ask for the deetz !!?! I need me some tea 🍵 lol