Trans Woman: How did I find my "female" voice?
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- čas přidán 22. 08. 2024
- 3 words of advice: Sing, train, impersonate. And hey, if Jackie could do it, so can anyone, basically :v
It's been a journey, and as you can hear it hasn't always been a smooth ride, but at some point you find something you're comfortable with, and you stick to it!
Remember to seek out the help of far wiser CZcamsrs and/or vocal coaches - it's important to take care of and not damage your voice!
Speaking of not damaging your throat, why not give it a rest and visit our Instagrams?
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I just found you two today and you are both so great! I came out to my wife two months ago, and we're still navigating a lot of the early things. One of our early hurdles has been all the negativity online. We are happily married for over twenty years and are more in love now than ever. But it seems like so many of the stories we were finding online were about the tragedies. It was so frustrating and disappointing for us. We felt like we were in love, we felt like we were in a good place but it was like the internet was saying "nope, you're doomed". Little by little we're finding that it's more about the internet loving bad news, and in reality there are many many couples that survive and thrive through transition. Your channel is such a ray of sunshine! Thank you thank you thank you!
Ignore Instagram and Facebook they are full of sh*t and trolls and bad vibes.There is a lot of anti trans feeling at present especially on the internet and in the media.If you don't read it and ignore it then it won't bother you.Concentrate on what is important to you which is each other.I have been trans for 7years and it's cost me my family but that's too bad.They have a problem with me but that's their problem i have to be me.Fu*k the internet and the media just be who you should be and love and support one another.Blessings
Karen💐🐻🤗👍
Testosterone thickens the vocal chords giving them a deeper more (Male) sound. Estrogen does not touch the Vocal chords therefor MTF on Estrogen will not automatically get a more feminine voice. Voice training is where its at ♥ Thanks for sharing this girls. Much love :3
Indeed for us transgals it's all down to work and training for the right voice.
Thanks for making this video! I'm training to be a speech-language pathologist and transgender voice training, as well as other voice and speech challenges, fall within the scope of that practice. It's really interesting to learn about the physiological reasons why someone's voice sounds the way it does. It has to do with the size and shape of not only the vocal folds but also the vocal tract through which the air resonates before exiting your mouth. However, there are a lot of psychological influences as well. As you mentioned in the video, when listening to the recording of a person's voice or speaking to a stranger over the telephone, we can usually pretty quickly and often subconsciously assume their gender. While the pitch of the voice plays a role in our perception, manners of speaking has a lot more to do with how we perceive gender through voice. A speech-language pathologist who specializes in transgender voice therapy specifically can give advice and training on speech habits and other behaviors that will really influence people's perception of your gender identity, and, maybe most importantly, can give you advice on what not to do with your voice so that you don't end up damaging your vocal folds and end up with a different problem. Good luck to all people out there who are struggling with their voice!
Thanks for another great video. I love your channel.
I am a 64 year old trans woman. I began my transition 7 years ago, and try as I might, I have always struggled with my voice. I get sir’ed on the phone 100% of the time, less in person, but still about 50% of the time. For years I’ve been telling myself that it doesn’t matter to me, but of course it does. It’s very painful. I have found a new voice therapist recently and I have confidence that this time something good will happen. Wish me luck!
Good luck to you, Girl! I'm sure you'll be successful!❤️☺️
I wish you luck.You have been on transition more or less than he same time as me.I also struggle with my voice but i am making headway.One thing i did do was listen to a lot of Peter Sellers sketches and the Goons ect.I worked out a lot of what he was doing with his voice.I found i could mimic them.Even though they were male voices it expanded what i could do with my voice which i think is helpful.I guess we all find our own way.It really shouldn't matter what one sounds like but sadly people do judge you on your voice especially on the phone.Blessings karen
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I've never felt confident about my voice, though my friends tell me it's fine. How do you get such confidence? I train every day! I can't wait until I attain it. I love you guys, your videos are so comforting and informative. ❤️ I consider you friends.
Singing really helped me with my feminine voice too. I started by singing along with male singers with higher pitch (Queen, the Eagles) then moved on to female singers. I also did lots of breathing exercises. At the start it took more work to speak in a higher pitch so I would run out of breath quickly.
10:48 "I'm just asking for a freind" lmao
Your voice is pretty unclockable my dear. Lovely 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
I am gonna do a woman now. Turn off the camera boys. Letting yourself loose there Anya. Love it when you’re relaxed enough to say anything
You're both too funny and positive in your life explanation. Keep it this way it's such a pleasure we wait every week. Humor and kindness are becoming rare these days. Big hug from France ! ❤️
I found mine buy imitating Janis Joplin . That raspy southern wisky voice .
That is so cool! What a great idea ☺️
I love u guys so much!
Thank you so much, you're so sweet! :')
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"You're gonna do a woman now."
Haha feel so fun to watch you video, Hi from Singapore… I m also working hard for more feminine voice but just very hard lol
Keep working on it.If you really want it you will get it.💐🐻🤗👍
Do more videos 👍🏻. You both are amazing. Deserve more subscribers. Awesome channel....
You are so sweet Darling. The "key" is hard Work. That's it. Such a lovely cuple You two are. And between us.... You naild the technique girl! 👏 not esay but You know it 😉
It's an idea you should suggest to Disney, A cartoon on 2 princess looking like you ;) The princess of 2022 !
I love this channel 🎈
So cute. Turn off the camera, boys! I did a water spit take, perfect timing! Well played, Anya!
Super cute couple
Good Girl!
No idea if you even read comments anymore on an old video like this, but did your trained voice sound weird to you at first? That's my biggest hangup at this point. My voice still sounds weird, like I have more range I should be putting effort into going to, but every time I try it doesn't change it whatsoever.
My voice sounds decent to my ear as I'm speaking, but in recordings I swear it just sounds like my old guy voice pitched up a little bit and that really messes with my self confidence. Yet lots of people I have asked about my voice say it sounds good to them and not like a guys voice whatsoever.
I think I just have to use my voice more in a bunch of different situations where nobody ever clocks me as male, to truly trust that my voice sounds good. But I guess I'm a bit disheartened because I wanted my voice to sound better to me as I'm speaking and it just sounds decent, not great, to my own ear.
Hii😉 Girls!!! 😍😍👍
I love real trans women. Thank you for not being a loon and actually socially transitioning.