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Jonathan Haidt, a very prominent social psychologist in the US found that certain social media usage, especially among girls, was directly and causally related to depression. These apps do more damage to girls than we can possibly imagine. I'm a man and I got rid of social media about 7 months ago and have been clean since. In fact, I have no desire to go back on it but I can only imagine what it does to girls because it seems to draw them in and influence them more.
I got raised in a family who despise social Media and westernized mindset.this is not to say that they old barbaric. No, my siblings are educated young lads in their 30-40s with good career.. I too used to see them as unprogressive minds but honestly they at peace in their world and healthy well I the modern kept struggling with proper hijab trying to fit in. Alhamdullilah ,I come to realize the harm of social media through them
@@imahhassan9356 salam, did you "try to fit in" because you felt that was the norm of how to be, or because you feared how they'd treat you? Is this in the USA or Europe?
@@woah5985 the world is digital dear,wherever you are you get influenced by the modern hijabis if you view their platform. Alhamdullilah ,I came to realise this is propaganda of washing away the real hijab from the Muslim women world..This so called hijabis live the lavish life,dress modern because they funded to support a system. Well its a jihad for young Muslim to keep with the deen.I tried to fit into the normal Modern Muslim but my friends and family kept me awake. Alhamdullilah..
@@imahhassan9356 ah ok. Gotcha. Sort of. You're referring to the hijabi influencers who only know basics of Islam (sometimes even that incorrectly), and use Islamic identity to promote products and lifestyles that are completely materialistic? And liberal views on fundamental orthodox positions? Yep I've heard of them also being approached with very lucrative offers to sell-out the Deen and push an unislamic agenda.
I believe Muslim women go through phases. They will eventually come back if they dont it's what God wanted. The thing is each women must have a root reason as to though why they wear it. Yes it's a visual representation that this is a Muslim women and is obligatory. Let's not forget that God blessed ever human being with free will and free morality the choice to believe what they want. I too had periods of removing it and being a part time hjiabi but slowly I found a reason why I'll keep it on. Even my own family whose muslim wants me to take it off saying I'm going to lose my hair and it's for older woman. I would of faulted if I heard this statement back then but now I have more confidence to keep it on😊
To : Oromo Chic Aslam aleykoum ! i wanted to tell you this : dont 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 your sin (s) , because when you reveal your sin (s) you are taking away the cover of Allah off. heres a hadith of the prophet (s.a.w) : ¨I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saying. "All the sins of my followers will be forgiven except those of the Mujahirin (those who commit a sin openly or disclose their sins to the people). An example of such disclosure is that a person commits a sin at night and though Allah screens it from the public, then he comes in the morning, and says, 'O so-and-so, I did such-and-such (evil) deed yesterday,' though he spent his night screened by his Lord (none knowing about his sin) and in the morning he removes Allah's screen from himself." so sins , ar - Rasul (s.a.w) tells us dont expose your sin (s) out of happiness and even dont expose them , if there is 𝗻𝗼 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 to expose them . because it gives other people the idea . Source of the evidences that i copied : 1. czcams.com/video/2Zy5FBW0ZR0/video.html (a vid from : MercifulServant) 2. sunnah.com/bukhari:6069 ( form : The Noble Quran - Quran .com ) may Allah bless you sister
@@user-ty1ro4zo1s As far as i know, the hadith is talking about people who brag about their sins, which can be intrepreted from the lines " 'O so-and-so, I did such-and-such (evil) deed yesterday,'" but i think its a different story when you talk about previous sins to educate people. Allah knows best
@@serajalwani6334 yeah i also thought about the brag thing ig but i feel like if you expose your sin of the past without a educatinall purpose then i will warn them but i also share your opinion . may Allah reward you fot your effort
I stopped posting on social media, I wiped it clean, I've always been struggling with my hijab since I first converted when I was 12,, I am yet to wear it full time but social media is one of the things that both made me not want to wear it and want to wear it, but outside influences as well I.e my family is why I don't wear it. What you surround yourself with is what you'll gravitate towards more
When you say social media made you not want to wear it, what do you mean exactly, that the most famous and influential women on social media didn't wear it?
@@woah5985 I mean it depends on what side of social media you're on. If my feed is filled with people who wear proper hijab I'm more inclined to want to wear it. But when I'm on the side of vulgar music and trends and what's popular even hijabis on that side make me feel more tied to this dunya and when I dress trendy in a hijab in my non islam household they tell me its better if I take it off, the hijabi women on the mainstream side of social media eventually take theirs off too so I felt like it wasn't a bad thing to do. But the more I learn and grow the more I'm able to think for myself I guess
@@luvlihyunjin May Allah SWT make it easy for you to follow and do what pleases Him more! This dunya can certainly be a difficult test for us. Try your hardest to remain steadfast and seek Allah's SWT pleasure over pleasing others in the worldly life. It will certainly pay off, as Allah SWT will bless you with immense peace and satisfaction and will increase your Imaan. Abu Qatadah reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, you will never leave anything for the sake of Allah Almighty but that Allah will replace it with something better for you.” I advise myself of this also. May Allah SWT make it easy for us believers to sacrifice what displeases Him in favor of what pleases Him, SWT. Ameen. Baarak Allahu feekum. Was-Salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.
One aspect of wearing / taking off hijab: With hijab, our sisters present themselves as Muslim, in times of pressure from the majority society. It's easy to say: "You need stronger iman, or so." At the same time, the brothers are not so conspicuous. More balance is needed.
Parents don't monitor their kids phones or put parental controls on, so what do you expect? Yes, you can't monitor your children forever, but you can and absolutely should until they turn 18...
@@user-cq7ec7zf3g I agree up to a certain point, but teenagers can and do get phones behind their parents backs if they're not allowed one. If we're talking about trust, then parents need to trust their older children to be responsible enough to have a phone. Not giving them a phone when they're older will certainly create trust issues...
@@Ricestlover oh, well I am conservative and that's why I was creeped out by all your questions since you're a stranger. Anyway, no harm done. Have a good day
Here’s my observation: It’s because beautiful women (whether it be Muslim or non-Muslim) who don’t cover usually get the most attention on social media. Everyone says “mashallah” or “beautiful” even to the beautiful Muslim woman who’s not wearing hijab while a hijabi woman who’s trying her best gets ostracized left and right in the comment section. It’s already hard to be a Muslim in the west while on top of that, you’re being yelled at from random aunties and online trolls for not wearing the hijab correctly. All women deserve love and affection but if a woman does not receive any positive affirmations, then it’s a higher chance for them to go to the wrong way. It is what it is and our community is not helping at all. 🤷🏻♀️
I will be honest it starts at home.Good parenting good muslims not by force but the same way reverts are accepting islam with reasoning.The truth prevails.
@really not important I have no idea whether she still believes or not but her change in lifestyle didn’t happen overnight. I know that for sure. I didn’t quite understand how she is a victim and of what exactly?
@really not important Makes sense. I agree with you. A christian friend of mine had seen her pray during lunch time in high school so he was more shocked to see her change.
Maybe she did it because you are opressive, cruel, over strict father? Who instead of loving and caring for her mom and her only opressed them? 🙂 People like you and daniel are shame to beauty and true message of islam. Islam is about beautiful behaviour, kindness, empathy. Muhamad saw was never cruel to his family.
@أبو أسلم البربري hijab is important and we should wear it. But lets not assume, maybe he made her hate religion by his actions and unfairness. She still should not have left it. But again, he is not sincere
@أبو أسلم البربري i agree. Many fathers do their best and thwir children sadly leave the deen. Then its on children, their chpice. But lets not forget that some parents do whatever they want, and then are very cruel and abusive towards children, and sadly they bring islam into it and claim they do it in religion name. Astagfirullah. Even tho islam is perfect, and Muhamad saw was loving, caring, patient HUSBAND AND FATHER. instead of following his example they become cruel and abusive. Dani Haqiqatoju and this brother are like that. They need to follow prophetic example and be kind and caring towards family. And not hating, abusive, cruel people who only spread toxicity and hate on soci media. Salam
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Jonathan Haidt, a very prominent social psychologist in the US found that certain social media usage, especially among girls, was directly and causally related to depression. These apps do more damage to girls than we can possibly imagine. I'm a man and I got rid of social media about 7 months ago and have been clean since. In fact, I have no desire to go back on it but I can only imagine what it does to girls because it seems to draw them in and influence them more.
I got raised in a family who despise social Media and westernized mindset.this is not to say that they old barbaric. No, my siblings are educated young lads in their 30-40s with good career.. I too used to see them as unprogressive minds but honestly they at peace in their world and healthy well I the modern kept struggling with proper hijab trying to fit in. Alhamdullilah ,I come to realize the harm of social media through them
@@imahhassan9356 salam, did you "try to fit in" because you felt that was the norm of how to be, or because you feared how they'd treat you? Is this in the USA or Europe?
@@woah5985 the world is digital dear,wherever you are you get influenced by the modern hijabis if you view their platform. Alhamdullilah ,I came to realise this is propaganda of washing away the real hijab from the Muslim women world..This so called hijabis live the lavish life,dress modern because they funded to support a system. Well its a jihad for young Muslim to keep with the deen.I tried to fit into the normal Modern Muslim but my friends and family kept me awake. Alhamdullilah..
@@imahhassan9356 ah ok. Gotcha. Sort of. You're referring to the hijabi influencers who only know basics of Islam (sometimes even that incorrectly), and use Islamic identity to promote products and lifestyles that are completely materialistic? And liberal views on fundamental orthodox positions? Yep I've heard of them also being approached with very lucrative offers to sell-out the Deen and push an unislamic agenda.
don't you know youtube is also a social media?🤣🤣🤣🤣
I believe Muslim women go through phases. They will eventually come back if they dont it's what God wanted. The thing is each women must have a root reason as to though why they wear it. Yes it's a visual representation that this is a Muslim women and is obligatory. Let's not forget that God blessed ever human being with free will and free morality the choice to believe what they want. I too had periods of removing it and being a part time hjiabi but slowly I found a reason why I'll keep it on. Even my own family whose muslim wants me to take it off saying I'm going to lose my hair and it's for older woman. I would of faulted if I heard this statement back then but now I have more confidence to keep it on😊
To : Oromo Chic
Aslam aleykoum ! i wanted to tell you this : dont 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 your sin (s) , because when you reveal your sin (s) you are taking away the cover of Allah off. heres a hadith of the prophet (s.a.w) : ¨I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saying. "All the sins of my followers will be forgiven except those of the Mujahirin (those who commit a sin openly or disclose their sins to the people). An example of such disclosure is that a person commits a sin at night and though Allah screens it from the public, then he comes in the morning, and says, 'O so-and-so, I did such-and-such (evil) deed yesterday,' though he spent his night screened by his Lord (none knowing about his sin) and in the morning he removes Allah's screen from himself." so sins , ar - Rasul (s.a.w) tells us dont expose your sin (s) out of happiness and even dont expose them , if there is 𝗻𝗼 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 to expose them . because it gives other people the idea . Source of the evidences that i copied : 1. czcams.com/video/2Zy5FBW0ZR0/video.html (a vid from : MercifulServant) 2. sunnah.com/bukhari:6069 ( form : The Noble Quran - Quran .com ) may Allah bless you sister
@@user-ty1ro4zo1s As far as i know, the hadith is talking about people who brag about their sins, which can be intrepreted from the lines " 'O so-and-so, I did such-and-such (evil) deed yesterday,'" but i think its a different story when you talk about previous sins to educate people. Allah knows best
@@serajalwani6334 yeah i also thought about the brag thing ig but i feel like if you expose your sin of the past without a educatinall purpose then i will warn them but i also share your opinion . may Allah reward you fot your effort
I stopped posting on social media, I wiped it clean, I've always been struggling with my hijab since I first converted when I was 12,, I am yet to wear it full time but social media is one of the things that both made me not want to wear it and want to wear it, but outside influences as well I.e my family is why I don't wear it. What you surround yourself with is what you'll gravitate towards more
When you say social media made you not want to wear it, what do you mean exactly, that the most famous and influential women on social media didn't wear it?
@@woah5985 I mean it depends on what side of social media you're on. If my feed is filled with people who wear proper hijab I'm more inclined to want to wear it. But when I'm on the side of vulgar music and trends and what's popular even hijabis on that side make me feel more tied to this dunya and when I dress trendy in a hijab in my non islam household they tell me its better if I take it off, the hijabi women on the mainstream side of social media eventually take theirs off too so I felt like it wasn't a bad thing to do. But the more I learn and grow the more I'm able to think for myself I guess
@@luvlihyunjin May Allah SWT make it easy for you to follow and do what pleases Him more! This dunya can certainly be a difficult test for us. Try your hardest to remain steadfast and seek Allah's SWT pleasure over pleasing others in the worldly life. It will certainly pay off, as Allah SWT will bless you with immense peace and satisfaction and will increase your Imaan. Abu Qatadah reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, you will never leave anything for the sake of Allah Almighty but that Allah will replace it with something better for you.” I advise myself of this also. May Allah SWT make it easy for us believers to sacrifice what displeases Him in favor of what pleases Him, SWT. Ameen. Baarak Allahu feekum. Was-Salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.
May Allah guide us all to what’s best and protect us all and our progeny. Allahulmusaatan
Ameen
One aspect of wearing / taking off hijab:
With hijab, our sisters present themselves as Muslim, in times of pressure from the majority society. It's easy to say: "You need stronger iman, or so."
At the same time, the brothers are not so conspicuous. More balance is needed.
Life / dunya is just a test... To ummah, government, society, parents and individual...
It’s become a trend. Even married ladies are taking it off.
Prevention is better than Cure
may Allah subhanah wataAllah guide our children on the straight path 🤲🇰🇪
Ameeen 🇰🇪
May Allah protect us
Assalamu alaikim brother, great video. Can you please increase the volume on your videos. Thank you.
جزاك الله خيرا وبارك الله فيك
Parents don't monitor their kids phones or put parental controls on, so what do you expect? Yes, you can't monitor your children forever, but you can and absolutely should until they turn 18...
This creates a trust problem
Just don't give them phones in the first place
@@user-cq7ec7zf3g I agree up to a certain point, but teenagers can and do get phones behind their parents backs if they're not allowed one. If we're talking about trust, then parents need to trust their older children to be responsible enough to have a phone. Not giving them a phone when they're older will certainly create trust issues...
@@Ricestlover yes I'm from the UK but why are you commenting under all my posts? You've been doing that for days and it's a bit weird...
@@Ricestlover oh, well I am conservative and that's why I was creeped out by all your questions since you're a stranger. Anyway, no harm done. Have a good day
@@Ricestlover cousin?
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All us..
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Here’s my observation: It’s because beautiful women (whether it be Muslim or non-Muslim) who don’t cover usually get the most attention on social media. Everyone says “mashallah” or “beautiful” even to the beautiful Muslim woman who’s not wearing hijab while a hijabi woman who’s trying her best gets ostracized left and right in the comment section. It’s already hard to be a Muslim in the west while on top of that, you’re being yelled at from random aunties and online trolls for not wearing the hijab correctly. All women deserve love and affection but if a woman does not receive any positive affirmations, then it’s a higher chance for them to go to the wrong way. It is what it is and our community is not helping at all. 🤷🏻♀️
I will be honest it starts at home.Good parenting good muslims not by force but the same way reverts are accepting islam with reasoning.The truth prevails.
Jazzakallah khair
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Of course; when she has two mothers....why not?
Very low volume.
The video is soo hard to hear.
I know one who took off her hijab and completely switched sides. Now she drinks, smokes and posts bikini photos on instagram.
@really not important What do you mean by have equality?
toxic as hell
@really not important I have no idea whether she still believes or not but her change in lifestyle didn’t happen overnight. I know that for sure. I didn’t quite understand how she is a victim and of what exactly?
@really not important Makes sense. I agree with you. A christian friend of mine had seen her pray during lunch time in high school so he was more shocked to see her change.
That is very common for western born muslimahs.
My ex wive also take it off
wen ex wives take it off, it's not the only thing that comes off
Many divorces tend to take off hijab and want to liberate. Or not have anything to do with Islam.
Maybe she did it because you are opressive, cruel, over strict father? Who instead of loving and caring for her mom and her only opressed them? 🙂
People like you and daniel are shame to beauty and true message of islam.
Islam is about beautiful behaviour, kindness, empathy.
Muhamad saw was never cruel to his family.
@أبو أسلم البربري hijab is important and we should wear it. But lets not assume, maybe he made her hate religion by his actions and unfairness. She still should not have left it. But again, he is not sincere
@أبو أسلم البربري i agree. Many fathers do their best and thwir children sadly leave the deen. Then its on children, their chpice. But lets not forget that some parents do whatever they want, and then are very cruel and abusive towards children, and sadly they bring islam into it and claim they do it in religion name. Astagfirullah. Even tho islam is perfect, and Muhamad saw was loving, caring, patient HUSBAND AND FATHER. instead of following his example they become cruel and abusive. Dani Haqiqatoju and this brother are like that. They need to follow prophetic example and be kind and caring towards family. And not hating, abusive, cruel people who only spread toxicity and hate on soci media. Salam
@أبو أسلم البربري shes probably just butthurt.