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My dad always told me “When you mind your own business, you’ll live a lot longer.”
Like that's a good thing??
Exactly
@@DDoubleU8001 most people want to live longer lol
That's awful advice
I agree with that. Unless someone/ something is being harmed, hurt, killed. I look the other way. It will call come to the light. I saw my co-worker back into a stop sign,to this day, I never told him. After he hit the stop sign ( loud noise), he got out and looked at me. I acted like I didn't see it.
Who needs enemies when you have friends like this?
Exactly
Like who? The scammer?
Karen needs to find something else to do with her free time 😂
This is the type of person that calls DHS because someone’s kid walked home from school.
Man she super jealous
Why are we using a woman’s name as a slur?
@@karyndewit193 Tradition.
Leave Karen’s out of this
“That guy has a wheelchair and here I am using my legs like a sucker!”
Homer Simpson
LOL!
So much wisdom in the simpsons
What irritated me the most from this call is the fact she called herself a friend.
Honor before friendships.
She is a friend with integrity and shouldn’t be friends with a scammer
I loved when Jade said "she's home eating a ham sandwich and you're ripping your hair out" Spot on! 😂
Ham sandwich is Jade's version of rice and beans.
Extra mayo. Falling off the sandwich with every bite.
When the caller tried to say she wasn't that bothered and Jade said "It's enough to make you call the show!" I said "Ouch!"
Hey
Perhaps "ham sandwich" is code for 'living high on the hog'?
"not your monkeys, not your circus"
💯
Going to borrow that with gusto.
But we are all buying the bananas for those monkeys. Right?
Stolen taxpayer money is EVERYONE'S business.
Not my sink not my dishes.😅
It's not jealousy, its distain. The caller needs to let go & move on.
How bad was di stain? It must have ruined all her white clothes smh, you’re right. She’s gotta let it go. Life doesn’t end over a stain.
Yeah I think a lot of people are confusing jealousy with contempt.
@@anndeecosita3586Absolutely.
She is jealous 😂
Very jealous
100000%
Super jelly
Karen’s old single living with her cats and is pissed about it
When you have integrity and work hard you're actually bothered by people who cheat. You wouldn't know that so you see it as jealousy.
Sometimes we outgrow friendships. She doesn't align with your values, so maybe it is time to step away from this friendship. The most important thing is to not ruminate over this. Make the decision and move on and let go.
So true. I had a friend for 30+ years who became angry and bitter over time. Every several years, she had a meltdown and took her unhappiness out on me by picking a major nonsensical argument. I very recently ended the friendship because -- while she does have some very nice traits -- she became too much work to have as a friend and I always knew another nonsensical argument loomed in the future. She has major meltdowns with her other friends, so it wasn't just me.
Jealousy of a fake friend, stay away from the fakes
The friend lacks integrity! You need to end that friendship!!
hows come you Americans never hold your politicians and their corporate sponsors accountable for integrity? They steal billions from you and destroy the economy.
Most states have a workers comp fraud line. If she is that concerned, she can call it and try to get an investigation started.
Snitch
@@midlifecrisis7888lol
Wondering why she doesn't make use of this.
@@Vydio Then she would have nothing to piss and moan about and feel self-righteous.
@@Vydio because they don't have a platform to air your grievances to the media for an audience the way Ramsey does.
Because of fraud like this, taxpayers get punished collectively. The treasury never loses, taxpayers do.
This is a few thousand dollars over a few years. You want to go after fraud, you should focus on corporate fraud in Medicare
Buddy the government does thingd that are indescribably worse in terms of devaluing the dollar dont worry sbout the occasional workers compo
that's what the government would LOOOVVE for you to keep thinking. Keep directing your anger at the guy next leeching off the system. While it the government makes multi billion dollar decions that are not in your best interest.
@@willleslie2745 500 hundred dollar toilet seats for the Air Force Brass. Billions of dollars in waste and mismanagement in the Covid 19 relief loans to small business and rent relief. Out of 50 billion allocated for rent relief, only 5% was ever given to renters. What happened to the rest of the money the states were given to help renters facing eviction during Covid-19. One scam after another.
No you don’t pay you take on debt
That's none of your business mam 😂
"Sometimes a friendship has run its course." Accepting that sad but true fact can save you an incredible amount of time and energy in life.
Amy just went Ultra Instinct Karen 😂😂😂. Dave is right 💯 you become who you hang out with.
Hahahaha
And it's not necessarily doing the same thing. In this case the friend is entitled and she's becoming entitled too (I pay taxes, I've worked hard). It's the same thought process just different methods because each has different circumstances.
Is the power of influence. One's influence will win over the other.
Either you become them, or they become you.
I don’t think she’s being entirely Karen because she says her “friend” insults her for working. It would be different if scammer did her thing, keeps her mouth shut about it and minds her own business.
@@anndeecosita3586 Yeah, the fact that the friend insults her about working . . . Well, what's the caller supposed to do? Get injured and collect worker's comp? What would the friend suggest the caller do to replace working for a living? Maybe the friend will get her dose of Karma one day when it's discovered she wasn't eligible for all that worker's comp and now has to repay it.
They basically told her “mind your business lady”
No wonder why she’s divorced lmao who takes the time to call a talk show about personal finances just to talk about your “friends” financial being
Right she is a weirdo. She is so jealous it’s sick
jealous and hater
People call in for reasons other than financial management. No need to jump to conclusions about her divorce; you have no facts. She raised 2 kids and is a hard worker. You could be less harsh.
I don't think so. It's hard to confront people when you know they are doing WRONG.
Fraud is theft from taxpayers. Do you not pay taxes?
This is why you don’t tell people shit.
Keep things to yourself.
I’m sure this lady has told lies in the past.
If she has an issue with what her friend is doing then she should stop being her friend.
LMAO this is not a FRIEND!😂😂
🤣🤣💯
Ugh, spineless people annoy the heck out of me. Get new friends, lady, and stop being such a pushover.
They were very kind to this caller, I wouldn't have been so kind.
She obviously has a lot of trauma in her life.
I don't think they understand what she is asking. She is part of a GROUP of friends they hang out with. If she deletes this woman from her life then she is losing her relationship with the other real friends in the GROUP.
Dave’s answer was stop going to parties where she will be which is unrealistic unless you cut off your entire friend group. I have an ex -friend who I still run into because we have mutual friends. I see her at their gatherings. One time she sat down right next to me at a dinner party. When I see her I say hello and am civil but I don’t chit chat or act fake. Also asking people not to invite someone because you are uncomfortable also feels childish.
But she said that other people have an issue with it too in the friend group so like Dave said either be around her or schedule shit without her it’s not a hard concept yall I know they don’t teach much in school but come on we can’t be this slow
That's the question she asked at first, but the real issue bugging her was that the cheat makes off while her and her kids are working hard.
OMG - I was literally yelling at my phone for them to let her friggin talk!
Not my problem, not my business. If it bothers me, Im just moving on.
Yeah but it is, since its treasury money that goes into this. And taxpayers fund the treasury, so that means you too.
@@francefradet2116 this and all the other fraudsters. But im not the IRS. If it truly bothers you then report and move on. This call is childish
If anything she should advise her, then leave the rest to God
So you're fine with working for a company where the revenue from your labor goes to paying people who do nothing except encourage others to do nothing and they gloat over the fact that you're working and they aren't?
@@gorkyd7912 the fact that she chooses to be around some gloating is the issue. Outside of that im not the compliance officer at my job so I’m not gonna lose sleep over someone cheating the system. You reap what you sow and I’ll sleep fine knowing that life has funny ways of getting back
You called into a radio show for this?
thats what I thought. like why?
The people without integrity are really putting it out there in the comments. They really really wish they could get in on this scam and they're mad anybody would be bothered by it.
Looking for this comment. They’re fine with fraud if they can get away with it!
This. It's shocking really.
I had a friend in the navy that was able to get full disability pay and jokes about it. It’s the integrity factor. Funny enough that safety blanket of a monthly check has made him completely useless. He honestly could be a doctor if he had any ambition but he sold himself out for a monthly check.
He was in the military he deserves the extra money my great grandfather always said u get on disability ur life is gonna end sooner but we don’t know if that’s 100 percent true my grandfather fought in ww2 came home got a job at a glass factory retired and lived a peaceful like no disability check but if ur body got hurt over seas just tell him joking about u got hurt and now ur ok and getting feee money isn’t funny if he keeps doing it explain to him u don’t want him to get bad karma
She is definitely jealous of her. And she is looking for ways to get back at her and hurt her in some sort of way. She is looking for somebody to tell what she wants to hear. Someone that agrees with her
I agree this caller is a little toxic and vengeful. It's like why have a friend you resent so much, be mature enough to cut your ties, mind your business and move on with life. This friend is smiling and eating ice cream while this lady is all worked up.
If she is hurt and wants to get back at her it’s probably because the lady insults her because she works.
If you can't tell a friend the truth and confront them on their messed up behavior, they're not your friend.
Or you tell them in a non-combative way and they aren’t open to listen to what you say. I had a friend who was repeatedly rude to servers. When we were alone I asked her not to do this because it upset me and when we are together her behavior reflected on me. She didn’t care and not only continued to be rude to them became the same way with me. She said some crap about people just don’t understand her. Friendship over.
She needs Delony😂
I think this would've been a call for the John Deloney show
Comparison is the thief of joy. move on and live your life.
What Amy really wants is to report her
I would be rich if I had a dollar for every person I ever known that committed fraud. Leave that alone.
why do you know so many scumbags?
@@jamesseurat8679 Its better than having no friends and hanging out with your cats on Saturday night.
@@jamesseurat8679I think he was talking about the politicians he votes for
I work for the post office and there's a poster on the wall in the break room that TELLS us to report it if we think a coworker is guilty of workman's comp fraud. It has a photo of a guy, at 8:00 am, visiting the doctor with his arm in a sling, and the same guy at 5:00 pm, rolling a bowling ball with the same arm that he "hurt".
I wouldn't hesitate to report someone like that. They are stealing; plain and simple.
They are stealing and the rest of us are paying for it.
To quote the late, great, DMX, “mind yo business, lady”
Never let someone else's actions effect your actions
“Show me your friends, and I’ll show you your future”
This is weird. Mind your business and move on. Why are you even calling DR with this nonsense?
That’s what I’m wondering. Why call Dave? Like she doesn’t have anyone else to gossip with? 😂
@@Whiskermanshe probably has no other friends
MYOB, the truth will come out on its own eventually.
Exactly!
"You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with."
Facts!
Stop being a hater. 😂 She's just mad her friend has it easier than her. Girl, stop it, mind your business.
The friend isn’t minding hers if she is insulting the caller for working.
she sounds a bit jealous more than frustrated. maybe the frustration comes from jealousy... im not gonna be mad at someone for winning against the system unless i wanted to have that. lol
We all want free money, but most of us have a conscience that stops us stealing it. She isn't "winning against the system". She is stealing.
@@thomasdalton1508 yet the system is stealing from everyone of us who pay our taxes and nobody bats an eye…. How much of OUR money has gone to Ukraine and politicians that have no plan to really help us. Stealing or not, eye for an eye. If the government who is supposed to have our best interest doesn’t care and throws our money around like it’s nothing why would it be so wrong for someone else to take advantage? Because it’s illegal? The biggest crooks out there is the government.
@@thomasdalton1508 eye for an eye. The government is blatantly robbing us and using money for wars and bs that has nothing to do with Americans. They are the most crooked and yet nobody stands up to them… it’s because they can’t. But when a neighbor has a way to take advantage of the system how they take advantage of us everyone who’s jealous it’s not them wants to be the first to talk crap or report them.. can 100% guarantee majority of people would scam the government if they weren’t in fear of being caught and prosecuted. But given the right chance and circumstances most people would. Morals are real but at the end of the day the gov has zero morals.
We all want free money yes, but when someone find a way to do it people get jealous regardless of legal or illegal. The government is scamming everyone of us and you aren’t reporting them? It’s because you can’t and doing so would get you no where lol. If anyone of Americans that needed it had the chance to scam the government they 100% would. Unless you are living in fear of being caught and prosecuted then you probably won’t. But legitimately the gov is robbing us all. Power to the people. Not only that but snitches get stitches is a real thing. Like unless if involves someone getting actually hurt you gotta mind you’re business in this world. Like if it doesn’t directly impact you keep it pushing, not your problem. If they win they win if they get caught they get caught. Because we aren’t getting the freebie means I gotta report you? Lol never would I stop someone from taking advantage of the government. How much of our money has gone to Ukraine? Last time I checked we have major financial problems here and it’s got nothing to do with ole girl scamming lol.
Worker's Compensation where I live does all they can not to pay. So I am surprised they didn't come up with some weird reason to cut off compensation. You also have to have doctors look at you all the time and send reports to them. So I am wondering how this person is conning the system.
I’m working hard my kids don’t have money, my “friend” is getting free money and I’m jealous
You don't get "more" money when you're on workers' comp. I was on it, legitimately, for three months and my paycheck was about 15% less. I understand that I didn't have to work during that time, but it's still less money than if I was working.
Sounds like she’s bitter that her “friend” is getting money in and not working while she’s over here busting her butt off at a job she hates for peanuts. This is not her “feeling bad about it.” This is her feeling jealous and bitter about that particular person.
She needs to be reported to the Bureau of WC. Wrong is wrong and she needs to be called out. She will be responsible for repaying all of that and my get some jail time depending upon the judge. I work in HR, I've seen these cases before. She is the reason that so many that SHOULD get WC, can't get it. It can be reported annonymously.
Amy, if you read this, I understand where you’re coming from about you work hard and others take advantage or get it easy whether that be things handed to them or committing fraud.
I would say that once you distance yourself from this person, you won’t think about it so much and you won’t ruminate on it and drive yourself crazy. Thankfully, this person is a friend that can be easily let go and not family. The people I deal with this kind of stuff with is family and I wish they were friends so they were easier to remove from my life.
she’s just mad she was collecting free money while she’s busy working 😂😂😂 play the system or they play you
She is jealous .
No, she works and pays taxes. It bothers me, too!
No, it's not jealousy. It's being irritated with low lives that want a free ride when they should be working. Those of us that work hard and pay taxes understand the frustration. Those that are leaches don't understand where the lady is coming from because they are part of the problem.
lol poc morals.
She's resentful and a little envious of the fact that her friend is committing fraud and has no qualms about it whatsoever. She probably wishes she could do what her friend is doing, but she has values and principles that prevent her from ever considering doing something like this. Either way, the caller should cut ties. The "friendship" is driving her nuts. Time to let go!
@@vickieclark5931 She literally cited her jealousy as a reason for her frustration. “I’m a mother of two, I work hard, and my friend is making me feel bad for working”. As for the taxes, I don’t understand why anybody would get upset over tax unfairness when anybody in their right mind would refuse to pay taxes if they had the opportunity no matter how unfair it may be. It’s hypocritical.
I'm with Ramsey, have friends who vote and think differently than me. Good to check my ideas, and they are around when the game is on and enjoyed!
Workers comp has doctors and investigators that determine disability. "Karen" isn't a doctor and seems to me like she is resenting her friends situation. She needs to stay out of it.
Seriously. I mean does she honestly think the workers comp system can be scammed? She's insane. We all know better, right? 😂
Exactly my thoughts. They’re pretty good at investigating. I think she’s just jealous and called to get a confirmation bias. Her friend is probably not a fraud
That's what I was wondering. Where I live, they do all they can not to pay. And doctor's reports go to them. Hard to scam. Maybe she is, but I would want to know how.
Bro what is this? 7th grade lunch table drama?
And Dave talked like he was in the 8th grade
Dave says it's none of her business? Fraud affects all of us.
Either do something by reporting it or just move on. Don’t let it destroy your mental health. I think that was the message.
Lol mind your business.
She's definitely jealous. I have an Ex friend that abuses the WIC system. She wanted me to write a letter stating i gave her money. No...we are no longer friends and i just let it be. That's her karma....
Heard a story about two neighbors calling the cops over an allegedly neglected dog. No amount of proof was ever enough. Cops kept asking them both to knock it off. Not sure how you would ever prove workman's comp fraud.
1:18 "I'm divorced". No surprise there. How lonely, empty, and obtuse must someone be to call a financial advice show for this other than to hear herself online? This is Dr. Phil's territory.
She also needs to call her state workers comp fraud hotline.
I would be tempted to do that too but in the end, it may be easy to figure out who did it. If Amy and this group of friends is 5 people, let’s say, and all of a sudden 1 person stops talking to you and now you’re under investigation for fraud, it’s easy to figure out that Amy was the reporter.
Another comment here said to let it go, it will come out in the open eventually. Whether that be another person, the government, work comp people, family, or God, it will bite this person in the but. So, why stress being that person to out another?
@@terrao4971 Who cares? Stealing is stealing. Be an adult.
@@alinatamashevich3354 But it's not stealing if the workers comp has determined that she is eligible for what she's getting. Which they may or may not have done as thoroughly as they could have, or want to have done. A call to notify workers comp that they may want to look into the friend is not out of line, but it's not "stealing" just because you're jealous.
Na she don’t need to call her states workers comp. What she needs to do is mind her fucking business and end her friendship
@@zeref100 Yeah, when you find out your friend steals cars on the weekend you just mind your own business, right? Calling the cops would be nosy. 🙄
Frenemies 😂
How do you know what disability she has?
I would call my friend out. Good friends hold each other accountable. If they don't like it, some people don't need to be in your circle.
Yes. Unless there's a reward, then hell yes.
Karenism is at finest 😂
Had a casual friend who worked for the state but checked in every morning, went to a second job and then checked out in the evening. So slimy.
My tax dollars at work!
She's jealouuussssss 😂
The thing is, that the caller thinks is "fraud" might not be fraud legally. A lot of people throw around labels like "fraud" without actually knowing what that means.
It IS fraud. Having said that, this woman was calling the wrong show; it’s not a financial question.
@@Person-mh6xqDave Ramsey also talks about moral, religious and relationship-related stuff.
This is the type of caller to call L&I on a neighbor for doing work in their own house
So the bottom line is, Mind your business lady 🤣🤣
She said her injury was legit. How does she know if the lady is dealing with other pain or trauma from the workplace injury. This lady needs something to do.
Those friends are gonna know who called in on her 😂
She needs an entirely new friend group. She’s hanging out with toxic people.
They had a falling out. It's been YEARS. Either she always hated her or she is her in other areas of her life. If all the others in the friend group felt the same way, this woman would have booted out mean girls style. She likely turned them against her and her only avenue were to call strangers online, which says a lot. Smh. This lady is seething. 😂😂😂
Basically everyone former military collects money for ‘disability’
If it was such a good deal everyone and their neighbor would be fighting their way into recruiting offices around the country.
Agree, You need to cut ties with her. She does not have the morals you do and as said you not going to fix her.
Keeping a friend that was your best friend in grammar school could be a great thing, or it could just be a sentimental attachment. Sounds like this one is the latter for Amy. Sentimental attachments to people or things can really weigh you down if that’s all there is to that relationship.
3:55 NO SHE WANTS TO PUT HER NOSE IN OTHERS BUISNESS AND THATS THE ACUAL PROBLEM
Get over it.
I was playing my then public golf course a few years ago and the guy I paired up with shared that he was not working & collecting disability injury compensation from his "logistical company - you have definitely heard of them" while we were teeing off on the 15th. 😂😂
Not sure that guys situation but disabilities aren't always that black and white. You can be going through treatment, physical therapy, or just be taking advantage of a good day. I have a disability and it prevents me from being able to work consistently or reliably. I'll get horrible flare ups that can last for weeks or months at a time with periods of feeling normal in between. While I'd like to work when I'm well, it's hard to find an employer who's able to deal with that kind of thing on an in going basis.
@@thestorybehindthat5236 Not in this case. Strong union. Guy on vacation getting paid full time and no issue physically golfing 18 holes on a walking course with a ton on hills. I don't really care...I just found it funny unlike this caller that freaked out and she can't handle the reality that people do it.
@@JustinCase780 the caller was annoying AF.
What kind of "friend" is she if she breaks the law and is committing fraud? You have integrity - report her. You have lost no friend here.
Report her then ditch her. You pay taxes. Fraud is theft from taxpayers.
It’s easy to look at other people’s lives and not understand their emotions. I admire this lady who wants to do the right thing….while knowing in her heart this is a broken relationship. I imagine so many of us that are commenting have a similar situation going on in our lives. In summary, it is easier to solve other people’s problems than our own. Thank you Dave for helping us walk through emotional situations with your rational thought.
Do the right thing. Report her.
The right thing is minding your business. Does it affect you? How miserable do you have to be to call someone your friend but have such negative feelings towards them? You and every person who liked what you said sound mad people have easy lives
If she wasn’t committing a crime, and was just not an ethical person, I’d just end the friendship and be done with her. But because what she’s doing is illegal, I’d report her too. People need to quit being so terrified of doing the right thing.
Be careful, some rather serious neurological conditions can be hidden…if you turn her in and you are incorrect, there can be ramifications for you regarding the situation.
Edit to add: Avoid her and stay out of it. Be happy that you are healthy employed and completely capable mentally and physically
Honestly just mind your own business and stay in your lane. If it bothers you that much then just don't be friends with her
Karma will get her.
if thats the case karma would have got our politicians and corporations decades ago
There were 2 key things missing from this call for me:
1. Why did they not encourage her to report the woman for fraud? Surely you can do that anonymously?
2. She should tell the rest of the friends group that she's not comfortable with it. That way they can either all get on board and try an intervention. Or they can all agree to stop seeing her if they all feel the same. Or at the least, they'll know that they have to choose who they invite to group gatherings.
everything moves at the speed of trust! I like that!
Wow jealousy at a whole new level
And this is supposed to be a friend, that’s scary
I would absolutely report her! It’s weird that Dave and jade didn’t think of that?!
This is why I dont have friends groups. I have acquaintances. Someone is always going to be misbehaving. Hang out with your family.
Let the hate flow through you Amy
She should go ahead and report her, and unleash a total hell's mess.
Something makes me think Dave would consider me “someone who votes wrong” lol
Why would you call Dave about this? Sheesh
Looking for moral guidance about financial fraud.
If student loans ever get forgiven, she’ll probably have an aneurysm
Some people loans are being forgiven.
Now of course, they have to claim the forgiven amount as income and pay taxes on it
She could write her a letter. This has been a lifelong friendship, I don't feel right about ghosting someone like that. But this woman needs to hear the truth, and since she has a habit of cutting you off, a letter might be best. Also report her. What a shame.
The caller spoke specifically in a context of a "friend group." The caller is NOT going to leave this peer group, and I would be willing to bet that the fraudster (who calls others to the carpet but doesn't let others to do it tp her) is the "leader" of the friend group.
I wouldn’t even tell no one about my money blessing that’s not a friend
Amy is bitter for a person scamming from a multi billion private insurance company 😂
I busted out laughing when Dave realized Jade said ham sandwich 🤣