⚠ MENTAL HEALTH UPDATE ⚠ - What my wife needs!

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  • čas přidán 26. 10. 2023
  • This is a mental health update. I've figured out something my wife needs!
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Komentáře • 58

  • @LaGuardiaCross
    @LaGuardiaCross  Před 7 měsíci +27

    I’m gonna KEEP learning, y’all! Support the channel here: laguardiacross.com

  • @Texbun2
    @Texbun2 Před 7 měsíci +40

    Yes, there are times when you talk about the heavy, and times you shut out the outside world negativity. It's why I don't watch the news. It intensifies the anxiety. Y'all are doing great!

    • @m.elizabeth0302
      @m.elizabeth0302 Před 7 měsíci +6

      I stop watching the news years ago. My sister will let me know what is going on. My health and peace is more important than the outside world. Be blessed. Be peaceful

    • @keciamclendon4537
      @keciamclendon4537 Před 7 měsíci +5

      I don’t watch the news either. It’s been years. It makes such a difference

  • @reginadeadrick2902
    @reginadeadrick2902 Před 7 měsíci +34

    Learning to listen is a challenge when you want to "fix it" for your loved ones. You don't have to (and sometimes you can't) fix it. Listen to understand, not to respond. Leah appreciates you, and you need to appreciate the privilege of being the leader of your family. I'm proud of you. ❤

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 Před 7 měsíci +15

    " we would just hug ... and keep it at that " Sometimes that's exactly what you need.
    This ENTIRE video was powerful! Thank you so much for doing this.
    Especially love the analogy of how we deal with children. I needed that.

  • @carolineseguin-ro5vt
    @carolineseguin-ro5vt Před 7 měsíci +10

    Great idea. I never watch news anymore, and I watch a lot of comedy. 🙂

  • @ashakiwest4244
    @ashakiwest4244 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Listen to understand not just to reply.

  • @factsoverfear9771
    @factsoverfear9771 Před 7 měsíci +14

    I used to somewhat hate my wife …. But when I found out it was a for real mental situation she needed WE HAVE GROWN CLOSER EVERYDAY SINCE 👍🏽💡

  • @BsTheLadynred
    @BsTheLadynred Před 7 měsíci +10

    Thank you for this!! I'm turning 65 in a few months and have been dealing with clinical mental health issues most my life and I can say, this is so true!! There's been so many times I just want to escape from being myself. Not constantly feeling like I'm the person with these issues. Or people viewing me as a person with my issues...

  • @PricklePrice
    @PricklePrice Před 7 měsíci +12

    Way to hang in there w her 🙇‍♀️& learning your skills that many don’t ❤

  • @wingsly
    @wingsly Před 7 měsíci +4

    Excellent and a brave share. Important advice here too! Thanks!

  • @b4real2me
    @b4real2me Před 7 měsíci +3

    I wish more men would be like you. It's normal to see women stick it out and be there for their spouse. However it's rare to see men. CONGRATS TO YOU MY BROTHA!!! Keep pushing, keep praying, and keep being present!!! I'm a new family member and I will be supporting... I love t-shirts and stickers anyhow. 📖🙏🏾🙋🏾‍♀️💖

  • @TruthBeTold24_7
    @TruthBeTold24_7 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Man, that's What I've been saying. I wish everything could just be simple again. Unfortunately after breaking away from the programs i.e. religion and more simplicity goes away. You're now at a state of accountability for your own well being. Seems like healing never stops. It can be stressful but we got this. Keep waking up, keep living, and keep building. Love you both and the girls as well

  • @hazelwitherspoon2721
    @hazelwitherspoon2721 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Prayers still going up that you continue to learn new things to support your wife

  • @venitakbennett-bonaparte1986
    @venitakbennett-bonaparte1986 Před 7 měsíci +6

    LaGaurdia, as you know sometimes you must step back to become focused on what is important. You and Leah are doing well together in this chaotic world. No, as Adults we don't have all of the answers. That is where the growth comes. Yes, stepping back from the negativity of the issues that beset you is the first step toward healing. Everything takes time. Life is hard and it is a long journey. One day you and Leah will look back and realize that you are stronger than you realize. Hug the Girls. You and your family are loved. We are praying to Our Creator and Our Divine One. You are not alone in this. Venita

  • @globalconcern4995
    @globalconcern4995 Před 6 měsíci +2

    You are so right. I've had to do that too, and it did help.

  • @arethawilliams321
    @arethawilliams321 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Thank You for sharing! ❤❤❤❤

  • @patriciaatkinson2435
    @patriciaatkinson2435 Před 7 měsíci +3

    La Guardia, I see that you are performing the greatest therapy in the world according to many therapists - walking. I see that you are still being "manful" as well as mindful. I see that your dear wife has remained set on her goals and on the health of her beloved family. Bless you.

  • @sharonbond18398
    @sharonbond18398 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I love you guys. So glad you are all figuring out what works best for you! I've been watching since 2020, and I'm inspired by Leah's journey and the entire family dynamic of you guys sticking together and not giving up or giving in. It's so amazing how supportive you are, and Leah receives it by not pushing you away.

  • @ButterflyBree
    @ButterflyBree Před 7 měsíci +3

    I appreciate you for sharing Leah's journey and how you're learning to support her. I love y'all!! 💜💜

  • @joyb2840
    @joyb2840 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Simple and positive brother keep it simple and positive. When she's going through it get rid of outside sources get rid of all that negativity coming in Karma and do just what you you said watch comedy shows play games with the kids, do things that keep the focus off of the negative eat good foods not necessarily a lot of sugar but eat good things,comfort foods. And Lots of hugs kisses and positive affirmation ❤

  • @jentrification_
    @jentrification_ Před 7 měsíci +1

    i needed to hear this today! 🙏🏾

  • @yagua0500
    @yagua0500 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Tao Te Ching is a great audio book/book for insights to natural simplicity perspectives.

  • @jend8759
    @jend8759 Před 7 měsíci +2

    You are such an amazing husband. Leah is so lucky to have you to support her.

  • @Lady_Clare4
    @Lady_Clare4 Před 7 měsíci

    I can really relate to this message! Thank you👍🏽

  • @ms.divine4696
    @ms.divine4696 Před 7 měsíci +2

    83rd like. Very glad that yall are working it out great job keep up the good work. Love and God bless yall.

  • @arose1111
    @arose1111 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Everything you said La Guardia is so on point. 💯💖❤🙏. That is almost explaining my own personal journey, which everyone's journey is different to everybody. I see a therapist and I talk about my feelings to my partner Rudy and writing in my journal. All of that helps and Laughing helps a lot too. Always love watching The La Guardia Cross family. 💖❤💯🙌🙏🙏

  • @remilemonde
    @remilemonde Před 7 měsíci +2

    This is so great.

  • @tinygamer4962
    @tinygamer4962 Před 6 měsíci

    Oh my I havent been this happy about a video in so long. I remeber when I first came across you guys, and I must say I am very happy to see you guys are still going strong. I know this may get skipped over, but I am truly praying for you guys, and the little ones. So much time has passed my youngest is 4 now, which would mean baby girl should probably have her excavator now 💖💖

  • @darawilson4101
    @darawilson4101 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I highly admire you and leah for talking about the good and the bad. I have depression too and sometimes i feel lost cause when nothing seems to go right i just want to run and hide and pretend the world doesn't exist. Not all the time but enough times. I love my therapist 😅

  • @theoriginalniceone
    @theoriginalniceone Před 5 měsíci

    I have PMDD too and I can do understand what you mean. While the mind is going 1000 mph... it's hard to focus n it starts to trigger.

  • @mommyneedsatimeout
    @mommyneedsatimeout Před 7 měsíci

    Easily one of my fav content creators

  • @arielleb.9291
    @arielleb.9291 Před 7 měsíci

    I know it's probably not easy to share y'alls journey to the world but I am grateful. It really helps me seeing another husband's perspective while supporting his wife, and it's not just about the person who has the illness but the people that support them. I want my husband to feel just as supported as he is for me. Love your family!

  • @t-dawg5813
    @t-dawg5813 Před 7 měsíci

    You are always in my heart and my thoughts. Sending you all ❤❤❤❤

  • @LindysEpiphany
    @LindysEpiphany Před 2 měsíci

    LaGuardiaisms....pay attention people he knows what he's talking about!

  • @cynhanrahan4012
    @cynhanrahan4012 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Holy cow I get it. I am seriously filtering. I watch some headlines, I am being precious with myself. LaGuardia, white wannabee auntie from across the bay. It's real, the overwhelm. Staying informed on national and world events is important, but staying out of the overwhelm is important.

  • @rachelcallahan2612
    @rachelcallahan2612 Před 7 měsíci

    There is a time and a season for ALL things. So, you are absolutely right because there is a time to SPEAK OUT and there is a time to SHUT UP! And that's why it is so important that in all that we do and/or say our timing is RIGHT! 🙏❤🙏

  • @OneNumerologistKelz
    @OneNumerologistKelz Před 7 měsíci

    Yessir. KISS Keep It Simple + Smooth! Love y’all

  • @mikezap1800
    @mikezap1800 Před 7 měsíci

    I think thats one of the major keys is to keep things simple and lightheaded. Find that inner child again where nothing bothers you.

  • @ososandi
    @ososandi Před 7 měsíci

    I love y’all

  • @reneejackson6425
    @reneejackson6425 Před 6 měsíci

    I wrote on here before about hormones and just heard about a diagnoses that might help her get treated Sheehan Syndrome is what I think was my problem before I had my thyroid removed. hope this helps

  • @TABULOUS1
    @TABULOUS1 Před 7 měsíci

    2:35!!

  • @kimberleyallen3350
    @kimberleyallen3350 Před 7 měsíci

    Good day to laguardia and his wive . Oct 27 2023

  • @NDJunction
    @NDJunction Před 7 měsíci

    sometimes when spirit picks up on your soul just trying to simplify, it takes care of the complicated and complex with ease; because you're no longer standing in the way of you ^^

  • @sisterg1216
    @sisterg1216 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Help us Lord Jesus!!❤ All of us!

  • @lorrainethomas241
    @lorrainethomas241 Před 7 měsíci

    Amen, amen, amen!!!!!!!!!

  • @pr3ciousg1ft
    @pr3ciousg1ft Před 7 měsíci

    🙏🏾💚🙏🏾

  • @sheilahooper1437
    @sheilahooper1437 Před 7 měsíci

    Now your talking haven't you ever the term kiss which comes from love but I also means keep. It. Simple. Stupid. Hug and kiss

  • @YayaJ4579
    @YayaJ4579 Před 7 měsíci +1

    La Guardia, you both gotta know that you are an extension of the Creator/ Source/ god. However you see the Divine, we ALL are the energy of the Divine One. Everything you need is already in both of you and your children. You have to know that first. Observing those things within. The subconscious of everything that we have been taught and programmed with when we all came into this world. My suggestion is to register for this webinar coming this sunday. The blueprint for Godpower 2. I truly believe that this would be the answer. PLEASE CHECK IT OUT.😊❤

  • @bernadettef6712
    @bernadettef6712 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The gift of ‘hush’🤫🫢

  • @joelynnhill8684
    @joelynnhill8684 Před 7 měsíci +2

    First 😊

  • @nummipills
    @nummipills Před 7 měsíci

    We arent your therapists

    • @Akichan07
      @Akichan07 Před 7 měsíci

      Then kick rocks......if you have nothing nice to say....KEEP YA MOUTH SHUT

    • @2EKgn16
      @2EKgn16 Před 7 měsíci +3

      🤨🙄

    • @nummipills
      @nummipills Před 7 měsíci

      @@2EKgn16 yeah my same reaction

    • @2EKgn16
      @2EKgn16 Před 7 měsíci +3

      ​@@nummipillsI know y'all use the internet to spew the darkness in your minds and souls. This is not the way dear. It really isn't.