Thats not true at all. Theres never been more people that cared. We live in a society now where practically anyone is prepared to listen and a stranger is willing to talk with someone over the phone for hours to help them. Youve got to start seeing the reality and stop feeling sorry for yourself. That will never get anybody anywhere. The reality is is that life has never been easier. Let that sink in for a moment. Compared to a thousand years ago and all the time periods throughout history humans have never had more ease. We no longer have to hunt for our food, no longer have to live in caves for shelter, were less likely to die from illnesses, we dont have to travel for months at a time. Life is very different to what it used to be, and for the most part thats good. For others not so. “As life becomes easier, we become weaker physically, and emotionally as well.” Chad Howse We need to harness strength. Every single one of us. It shouldnt be only the few that ever aspire to be strong, tough and gritty but everyone. Depression isnt something unique or new, its been around for as long as humans have. More people than not experience depression at some point in their life, so its not an excuse not to live and not an excuse to quit life. In fact its probably a bigger reason not to give up
To Live is an Act of Courage “I saw not my own courage in dying, but his courage broken by the loss of me. So I said to myself, ‘You must live’. Sometimes even to live is an act of courage” Seneca (4BC-65AD)
@@LightningWolf09 aka "Stop being sad, other people have it worse"...please NEVER speak to someone who has major depression in a time of crisis. You will literally make everything so much worse as you clearly don't understand mental health with all these insane generalizations and ignoring how difficult longterm help is to find.
AMEN TO THAT ... Preach It!!! Know The Truth and The Truth Will Set You Free!!! - John 8:32 :) Don't Say Things Like This to People When Their Dead, Say it Too Them When Their Alive!!! :)
Knowing that the people around you care about you and struggling with depression and other issues that become too painful to bear are two very different things. Please don't blame their loved ones for their passing..
I have depression and it isn’t that I am physically lonely, it is that even though I have these friends and people who care about me I still feel empty.
To Live is an Act of Courage “I saw not my own courage in dying, but his courage broken by the loss of me. So I said to myself, ‘You must live’. Sometimes even to live is an act of courage” Seneca (4BC-65AD)
Its sad because there are a lot of suicidal people like me who have no best friends, no loving family, no nothin. This would be a lot more comforting if I knew people actually liked me
Jesus is the only way truth and life. Seek him he loves you. You were born into Gods though and you were created because you are loved and have a great life ahead of you. read the bible and learn about Jesus please. If you need someine to talk to on a deeper scale i an here. X
@double donut, firstly, Islam is the truth. Turn to our Creator, Allah, may He be exalted. Ask Him for guidance and to give you the peace you seek. Also: Don't compare your life to what you see portrayed by others. Have you heard of photoshop? People recreate their physical appearance with this tool. Similarly, when you see the good things about others, you may be seeing one aspect of their reality. Sometimes, like the photo-shopped images, this too may be fabricated. For all you know, a person may have friends, family, opportunities etc, and be even more unhappy than you. Start socializing more and extend your circle. If you don't go out much, join an online forum where you get to chat with people. But stay away from those forums where people just sit around discussing their misery and problems. I think some people get even more unhappy by constantly focusing on their problems.
I tried to commit suicide when I was 18. I have had chronic depression since I was a child and I took enough pills to kill an elephant. By some miracle I survived. All these years later, I realize that I didn't REALLY want to die.....I just wanted the pain to stop. Recently I confessed to my sister what I had done and the first thing she said was "how could you be so selfish.....have you any idea what that would have done to us?" In all honesty, I wasn't even thinking about my family when I made my suicide attempt.......I just wanted to find peace. But I am wondering.....who are the REAL selfish ones? The only thing my sister cared about was what effect it would have had on HER......she didn't even ask me the reason WHY I wanted to die at such a young age. MAYBE if people who are suicidal had some REAL support and love in their lives (instead of selfish families complaining about how it would hurt THEM).....then MAYBE there would be less suicides.
As a live long sufferer of depression and suicidal thoughts I found this video a bit tone deaf. I know how much it would hurt the people I left behind but do they know how painful it is for me to stay alive? People who don’t suffer from depression have no idea what we go through daily. I just lost my mom to cancer and everyone was like, “It’s better now that she doesn’t have to suffer.” Yet, no one will say that about someone who takes his/her own life. Just bc our pain isn’t physical doesn’t mean we aren’t dying inside. If more people practiced empathy and tried harder to understand our circumstances maybe we wouldn’t take our own lives. Sorry, I know you mean well but this video just proves how far we still have to go in order to understand depression.
You matter more than you think. You are more loved than you know. I am certain of it. You matter, and things can get better. Wishing you all the best and sending love.
They do, I promise. There are always people who love you unconditionally no matter what. In those really dark days it seems like no one really cares about you and everything is too heavy to carry alone. But I can tell you that's not true. You never have to fight completely alone, even if it seems like you have to. Most of the times we just forget to tell others how important and beloved they are and that their lives matter so much to us. Never give up, because there are sooo many great storys people can tell about you and there are more to come. You are worth of love, hope and happiness:) You will feel better;) (Sorry for the bad english. I'm not a native)
People do. You may think it's best to leave them, but, oh, how they'd miss you. I cannot remember where I heard this, but: "To the world, you're someone. To someone, you're the world."
Don’t worry, they do. It might seem like the world hates you, like you were a mistake, but, you were put on this earth for a reason, and I assure you that people love you and they care. Stay strong, you’re not in this alone.
2:30 yes suicidal people think about loved ones. That’s why they leave notes. But suicide and depression are strong things that not even support from loved ones can be enough sometimes.
@@kelliequinn3565 I don’t really have the right words to say to you if you’re struggling but I really do want you to know that you’re stronger than you think. I hope you’re keeping your head up
@@Nillowo I agree sometimes love just ISN'T enough, I know that I have a lot of people in my life who love me to death and would do anything that could if they could help me and stop my agony and despair, that's why I'm fighting for my life every single day to resist the overwhelming desire to steal a gun and eat a bullet, I know it would absolutely LITERALLY kill my Mommy if I did that, she's a strong Woman but she isn't strong enough to handle finding her Baby Boy's corpse with a hole in his Skull in a pool of his Blood and his special Aspie Brain all over the damn wall, it would literally kill her, she'd either A, take her own life the minute she put me in the ground or B, she'd drink herself to death cause she'd have constant unrelenting night terrors and die that way, also I know it'd break the Hearts of my Friend Chris and his wife Haley, as well as their little Daughters Gwen and Genevieve, it'd absolutely crush my Best Friend Makoto Kaiser (shout out to her YT btw) and Dontae, it'd break my Boyfriend's Heart, same for my Friend Laura back in Oregon it'd break the Hearts of all my Friends and Colleagues at New Moon where I worked before covid, I have so many people who love me and I don't want to give up and hurt them, but that being said I'm scared that I'm losing the fight and I don't know how much longer I can keep fighting, cause like I said love sometimes isn't enough when you're in constant unrelenting horrific AGONY, constant sleep deprivation AND despair from loneliness mostly because of Boyfriend who I'm in an LDR with!😞
@@sherylg2601 that's really kind of you to ask. If I'm being honest, no. I go through times of serious depression very often but I manage.. just as we all do. I hope youre well and I appreciate your comment♡
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i had a cat i loved it with all my heart now its gone we could not afford its oparation, money comes first before life.did you know the police will arrest you if you die by suicide. ha ha ha they are stupid.
@@qwertyman459 I'm sorry for your loss. I agree it's awful that people put money before life. Just because you didn't have enough money shouldn't have meant your cat had to die.
@@lindenlynx thank you, why is it so expensive for a cat or dog to be fixed. is it so you wont try and help them i know they dont have long in this world. my its family. its not a pet. its love waiting for you every day all ways happy to see you.
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"i wish i knew why" top 10 bullsh*t words that come out of people mouth when their related family or friends took their own life , but when they were alive, no one cares about what they said/what they shared about
It's not their fault,as a person who struggles alot with suicidal thoughts,I'm screaming on the inside but when someone notices the change in my behavior,I just dismiss them with a smile so they would stop looking at me differently...so, yeah it's not their fault if the say these words
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I don't think that people who commit suicide don't think about how it would affect loved ones. Thats the main reason they didn't do it sooner, I know for a fact that thinking about my family has definitely saved my life. Sometimes the pain is too much and you don't think clear enough.
To Live is an Act of Courage “I saw not my own courage in dying, but his courage broken by the loss of me. So I said to myself, ‘You must live’. Sometimes even to live is an act of courage” Seneca (4BC-65AD)
As someone who was on the verge of taking my own life many times before, imagining that there might be people that would react like this to my death held me back. I just wish people would tell eachother how much they mean without them having to die first. We should open up about our feelings more.
I was there too (I only planned and not committed or tried) but same story for me. I watched videos of people grieving and the after effects of suicide. That's what stopped me.
marte me Thousands, maybe millions of people care about you....we just haven't met you yet and if you're gone we will never have the chance to meet you. I agree wholeheartedly, we should tell eachother more about how we feel. So I'm going to tell you....I want you alive in this world....I care about you and hope you are feeling better.
It’s hard it really is to be open about your feeling in my head I am one person and around everyone else I am a different person no one in the whole world accepts me for who I am everyone judges me and I take those judgements and add another thing about my personality that changes I am not who I really would like to be I am who people want me to be I cry a lot and my dad being an drunk and high all the time doesn’t help at all I keep so many thoughts to myself no one even knows I am depressed my life should end I am worthless
People are selfish monsters. They never care about you, even after you're gone. They only feel guilt because they think they failed as parents/friends/family, not because they think about you.
I can relate to this....People know about my suffering and call me mean names like negative or confrontational when I try to advocate for myself. They do not realize the damage this is causing. How can people kick me when I am down? They know that I am experiencing almost every kind of loss.
This morning i was thinking about killing myself. Depression got me again. This video has saved me this time. These strangers, i feel like they're talking to me...
I know this comment is long ago… but if you need someone to talk to I'm here. I know how it feels if you think you have no one to talk about you're problems… and this loneliness just makes it worse… … so if you need someone, you can talk to me :) have a hug and a cookie 🤗🍪
as someone who has been suicidal for years and has attempted many times, we always think of you. we wouldn’t forget you. you were most likely one of the people keeping them alive. the only thing you can hope about the people you love and who love you when attempting suicide is that they will be able to recover and live a good life without you. the last thing we would ever want is for someone we love to feel the same pain as we do. we do love and care about you and I want you to know that it’s not your fault. you gave them light when there was only darkness, and eventually the darkness took over. you did the best you could at the time. it’s alright. they love you and miss you. they won’t ever leave you in your heart.
OctieBoopTurtle I always cried the first night. You never know what to expect. But going has changed the way I saw the world. Made my problems seem a lot less when you get to hear other people's struggles. Going is not weakness, going means you're strong. You're willing to face what many can't. While you're there. Listen, and take advice. You will be okay. You are not alone.
Manni Interrupted Thank you so much. I'm glad to hear that it will get better and that I am not alone. Thanks so much for sharing your experience with me, I'm glad I found your comment. I'm also thankful that you are feeling okay too :)
For everyone who reads this. I love you. I may never have seen you or have never known your name, but that doesn't stop me from caring about you. The world is better with you in it and know that you can always reach out.
My cousin committed suicide when I was little. I miss him a lot. If he were alive today I'd thank him for teaching me how a real man treats women. I'd also tell him how much l miss his bear hugs and hanging out with him and the family. RIP Alex👼❤️
Not to criticize, since I have been suicidal before, but someone said in the video "Did you think about us? Or maybe you didn't so we wouldn't change your mind." A lot of depressed and suicidal people think they are doing what is right for the others in their lives. They think everyone will be better without them. So yes, they were thinking of others. It is not always only about themselves. And saying that may make other depressed and suicidal people feel selfish. And that does nothing to help. It makes it worse. Please don't criticize like that. Please. A simple criticism like that might be the one that pushes a depressed, suicidal person over the edge.
I don't think that's criticism. I don't personally take that as criticism. I'm depressed from times to times, and I really can't see the light at the end of the tunnel for both times and tried to take myself. But if you really put yourself in their shoes, you really empathize for them. Vocalizing thoughts does not actually work for everyone, but it really took them a lot of courage and strength. Sometimes they're so emotional they lost track on phrasing their sentences, so they just express anything they feel that time. It's really a void.
Not everyone who commits suicide thinks they're doing it for others. I can say when i heard her ask her questions, it made me tear up. I think it's an honest question from the heart. Definitely something someone who is considering may want to think about... Some may be thinking they're doing something to help their loved ones, but it's not true. People with suicidal thoughts may not see value in themselves, but someone else out there does.
I just came to the comments to see if anyone was saying something about it, cause I couldn't be only one who thinks that's selfish, I'm glad more people agree with this
People say suicide is selfish, taking a life without thinking about the feelings of others; however I feel it is selfish for people to want you to suffer for their happiness. Death can be a beautiful thing. Sometimes life begins when another ends. Someone is born. And life can begin for loved ones once mine ends. Family can start living their lives without the constant worry. I called the hotline today and the lady basically said she couldn't help. Told her I wanted to take a gun and just blow my brains out, means I know will be successful. I can only speak for myself I'm in a circle and there's no way out. Work to pay bills only for more bills to be in default. left kids in care of a family member, only for their son to molest my child. Now with dcfs involved how can I get them back with no job, no vehicle, no home. Start working and what am I supposed to work on first. Vehicle or home. Don't forget no one does anything for free and might I add no public transportation where I stay. Those of you who says it'll get better. I'm waiting. Until I don't. Then its over.
As someone who lost their best friend from elementary school almost a year ago, this helps. I wasn't there for him after we started middle school, or even when he moved away for high school. It hurts. Knowing you were so close and then weren't and haven't kept in contact after he moved. It hurts, but one day, it won't hurt as much,
I'm almost 20.. and many times I sit and look out my bedroom window and just wonder if this is all worth it. I think of it many times but I never act. Watching these videos reminds me that I'm not alone in this battle. I love you all, thank you for sending hope.
Your comment is from a year ago but I hope you're doing well and are feeling better. Especially right now as the pandemic has made some peoples mental health even worse, my own included. I'm glad your family saved you. Stay safe!
I lost my brother to suicide two months ago. There’s so much I want to say to him. The most important one is that he’s so valued, and so loved. My heart is broken.
Yeah... Iam so sorry my boyfriend lost his brother and he's going insane about him he doesn't even think about me anymore I just want to know what would he do if iwas dead?
I know that the guy in the blue shirt said something about wishing that he could have saved his friend's life physically. So, I'm putting out a little PSA. If you find somebody who has overdosed, the most important thing is to *open their airway.* Many people use drugs that, in some way or another, suppress breathing. So make sure their tongue is out of the way, roll them to the side, and don't be afraid to give a couple of breaths if they are breathing shallowly (of course, if they aren't breathing and/or don't have a heart rate, start CPR immediately). You could save their life, either completely or from coma or brain damage/death!
This week I lost a friend to suicide I still don’t wanna think that it’s real it’s so heartbreaking…. Our mental health system definitely failed him and it makes me so upset Rip my dear friend you will be missed forever
I have reached my endurance capacity. I don't know how the kid I once was ended up so badly... I mean sure the world is unkind, and especially brutal to some (raises hand). I just hope there'll be something good to remember about me, something valuable to learn, and just because its okay to dream, maybe something treasurable too. I have lived, I have loved, I have tried to overcome, and now my moves are over.
Suicide, to friends and loved ones left behind seems selfish; but really it is a selfless act. When someone is done with life, they are done.....their reasons are personal. Those reasons do not need to be justified, and may never be fully understood as they are not meant to be. Sometimes when someone knows or feels, that they have fulfilled their purpose in this earthly realm, it is simply time to move on. Friends and love ones may never understand. The flip side is to ask yourself, if the person who decided to end their own life was in that much pain (emotional, physical or both) then would you not want them to have the peace they craved, that they so desired in life but could not attain? It’s very much a double edged sword & every situation is different.
You know instead of calling it a selfish act, just act the right way and help that said person; calling it selfish won’t help anyone, the “ Selfish “ person would feel much more sadder and the guilt would increase by ten folds. Please, help those who are in need of dire love and affection.
Recently my father passed away from suicide last year and to be completely honest I’ve never felt more shitty in my entire life. It took such huge toll on me that I started missing school, dropping out of sports I enjoyed, stopped socialising to people I would usually talk to, and basically giving up on everything I used to love. I eventually had to get put into counselling because I started to get the same thoughts my dad must’ve had on the day he took his life. His death impacted me greatly and made me start thinking and believing awful things like “If suicide brought you peace dad, well hey maybe it might bring me peace too and ease the pain of dealing with your death” Suicide does not end the pain, but only passes it on to someone else. And to me that doesn’t feel or sound very selfless.
xdead_acc0untx I’m very sorry for your loss. I’m sure you miss your dad very much and that it is so hard for you. I lost my love 20 years ago to suicide. It has gotten easier as time goes by. Hugs.
To Live is an Act of Courage “I saw not my own courage in dying, but his courage broken by the loss of me. So I said to myself, ‘You must live’. Sometimes even to live is an act of courage” Seneca (4BC-65AD)
That one hit really close to home I recently got diagnosed with bipolar disorder 2 and I really struggle with depression so sometimes when I am really down low I come back to this (edit)
Thank you... I've been contemplating suicide and I needed to see this. This was an excellent reminder that ending my life would impact everyone I love.. It's so frustrating that I can't trust my own thoughts and emotions.
It's definitely frustrating and scary and uncomfortable, but you are so right. There are absolutely people in your life who love you and would want to help. And remember, you can always text "HELLO" to 741-741 if you ever need to talk about it.
vivimivi When people are considering suicide, they are often not thinking straight; it is the nature of strong unpleasant feelings like depression/grief/anxiety/anger to trick our minds and cause us to focus more on the negative aspects of our thoughts and emotions. This is why it is vitally important to talk to someone about what's going on - a therapist, a counselor, a guidance counselor, a spiritual leader, a suicide/depression helpline, whomever/whatever you prefer (as long as it's someone who will really hear you) - because keeping those thoughts hidden inside often leads to them growing, resulting in more psychological suffering. Please find someone to talk to soon; there are caring people who are helpers out there who are nonjudgmental, wise, respectful and nurturing. If the first person you talk to doesn't reflect those qualities, talk to someone else. Please. You deserve to feel better and have a happier and healthier life. If you're in the U.S., call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (they take calls 24/7) at 800-273-8355. Their website is suicidepreventionlifeline.org We're with you.
Im not suicidal but Im depressed, and lonely and have social anxiety. Seeing this just annoyed me so much. People will say all this stuff when youre gone, never when youre still there. When youre still there they take you for granted and dont see you at all. Sometimes people like us just feel like "maybe they will see me then". Even though its pointless, it feels as if its worth everything to get you feeling noticed and appreciated. Sometimes it gets too hard and you cant take it anymore. I was just so angry.
i lost my girl to suicide.. the pills got her in the end and i could never blame her for what she did, i just wish i could help her and take her pain away while she was still alive. i told her how much i love her all the time and if anything i know she knew i meant it every single time. my last words to her were perfect so at least i don't blame myself for anything i said. my last words to her were "i love you my little snowman"..
I dont quite too, im Just scared if it hurts and If something good MIGHT happen sometime... And i still need to write down alot of my thinking and life before it..
Bahira Al-Haddad so I posted that around a month ago. Since then I’ve quit caffeine which was the cause of a lot of emotional problems. I also experienced a huge heartbreak which strangely made me realize I’m pretty content with my life overall. And the thought of committing suicide hasn’t reappeared again even when I feel very down at times (which is part of the normal human experience). I recommend the book Happy by Derren Brown which has helped me more than any other philosophy or religious text and it’s convinced me a lot of contemporary self help books are more harm than good.
I am sorry if i am too softspoken but when you do a suicide that will be always selfish. I understand why and i don't judge peoples who kill themself but that is selfish if you have even one people who love you
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To my friend Andy. You're an amazing person and everyday I miss you man. I'm gonna head over to your grave in December to say hi again buddy. Love ya. 🐬
Suicide has effected me greatly. MANY of my closest friends have chosen to end their lives this way. I carry them in my heart. I've come to think of it in two or more ways. They were in so much physical or emotional pain that they needed at out. Or, they felt trapped physically or emotionally with no hope of escape. HOPE is the key word here.
I want to end my life soon but I don’t want to hurt my close friends. I feel Its unfair to do this to them but I can’t keep going in this life anymore. I can’t.
NathanJamesOfficial you are amazing. I am so glad you are still here. And you are so brave for sharing. I bet a million dollars you make the world a brighter place.
Dear Dad, I miss you more and more everyday, and people keep saying that one day it won’t hurt anymore but it just keeps getting worse and worse. I don’t know what to do without you, I try to stay strong for you, I never saw or knew you were hurting and I wish I could go back in time and change what happened that day. That morning when my mum walked in my room crying “your dads gone, he died” broke me. When I found out you committed suicide 4 years later, that crushed me even more. You always seemed so happy, how did you stay so strong on the outside? I miss you so much, I love you dad
Every children was born as a bless, but I can't help feeling... I was born as a curse. To myself and to my parents... I feel the need to be completely gone
You should tell those that you love that you love them while they're here. Too often we assume that they just know. "Well of course they know, we talk all the time." "Of course they know. They're my kid. I'll always love them." That's not always true. Don't assume. It can help. Not always, but if it does it can save a life. If it doesn't at least you got to say it and let them know that there's someone, anyone, who cares.
I have shortness of breath for years...am so tired of living...I sometime think of taking my own life but I don't wanna end up in hell and that's what stop me
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I find myself watching these videos right now because the thoughts have crossed my mind more lately. As much as I’ve tried to stop my own child from wanting to commit suicide & have friends that have died of suicide I now understand why. Sometimes you feel you’ve made so many mistakes in life & your tired of being a failure that the world is better without you. Thanks for the video I have to find my own encouragement.
I miss you. I still remember that boyishly charming smile, those incredibly blue eyes, and that contagious giggle. I regret not being able to help you. Once I lost you, I felt incomplete. So many thoughts raced throughout my mind. How could you leave me alone ? Lots of things remind me of you. The sunset, baseball bats, the ocean, etc. You were always so selfless and sweet. I still hear that angelic voice occasionally. Words cannot describe how much I miss everything about you. It has been two years. All that time spent without you by my side. It's funny - You would have made a joke about me becoming so emotional. You had such an amazing personality, bub. So much potential. As time continues, I keep finding new ways to cope. I no longer feel at fault - Nobody was at fault. You hit a rough patch, and couldn't recover. You always were very sensitive. I'm becoming stronger, and more aware. I'll always miss you, Luke. I will never, ever forget you. I'll cherish our memories. I'll think back to simpler times - Like when we would dig up worms as little kids. You always loved that. I love you, Luke. You were the best friend I could have ever asked for. Hope you're at peace - May we meet again. >
I'll do this one day. and now I'm doing my best to be remembered the same way. We always think of those who will stay, which is why we want to create the best possible memories
Why does my intention of committing suicide get stronger with these videos? I mean, They've got to help me right? I got confused and this is a reason for me to live a bit longer. I wanna figure out why...
Hrmicö I know exactly how you feel. I wish I knew why. When I watch these videos they do help, but at the same time I feel like I’m all alone and worthless.
You should both talk to someone. If this isn't helping, (and I don't know why), then you need to find another method of treatment. Stay alive. Stay strong. Sending hope and love your way.
Maybe you're feeling like all the suicide victims in the video have people who miss them and you don't feel like anyone would miss you. That's not true. You matter much more than you know. People love you much more than you think. You are loved. You will be missed whenever you go. Please, don't make it soon.
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People are so selfish to think of what they have lost instead of what pain the person must be going through to want to die and yet they still want them to stay and endure it for them. One guy even said the loss was unbearable, but its not. If it was unbearable he would be dead too.
I lost one of my best friends from suicide 2 years ago and it still hurts to this day. I talk to her on imessage even though she can’t respond. It makes me feel better. Lexi, I love you for everything you did to make me smile during our friendship. I’m so glad I got to met you. It’s hard to get through life without you in it but, I’ll see you again soon.
Dear Ellie, You were my best friend. No one compared to you. Everyday I looked forward to coming home from school and texting you until 4am. You were like a brother to me. I felt as if I could tell you anything without being judged. You also gave the best advice. Everyday I wish that I would've listened to some of the things you said. You're the reason I'm still alive. I remember the day we made our promise to not commit suicide so we could always be there for each other. Even though you didn't hold up your side of the promise... I will continue to go on with you always on my mind. Fifteen was way to young for you to leave. You had so much to live for. R.I.P Ellie 5/17/17💕
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"I wanted to save you.....I physically wanted to save you..." This video just reminded me I have a little brother.... To the bold guy in this video....I dont know who you are but you have just saved a life tonight....
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it's a shame that the organizations can't work effectively to help people live better lives because "it costs too much money " the deaths wether on a battlefield of war, or on the street due to overdose , or hanging on self in a mansion is a sign that it's all a problem of the society in General. if your friends forget to talk to you that means they're not doing their part to check in on people that seem depressed or troubled. sometimes they avoid It because they don't want to feel like they're to blame somehow by association.
IV ketamine treatment is successful with PTSD, OCD, depression, anxiety, and is even showing promise with addiction. It is very effective with bipolar depression too. and it stops suicidal thinking... in a couple hours. It's saving lives but people need to know.
Cyndee Davis I suppose it can help with a perspective shift, however I believe often times there needs to be a team commitment that makes the individual feel accomplished with tasks. however there is issues of letting go of trouble from the past that I think has to be completed with acceptance of disappointment. medication may help with that but it's temporary alteration.
Matfey Avgustin: Sweetheart, you are very ill and need to get help for yourself. It is not your fault that you are ill, but you do need help. How do I know that? Because your cold heart and lack of empathy for people who hurt so bad that they believe death is the only way to end their pain, is a symptom of your illness. Sorry to reveal your secret, but you hurt inside as much as they do. You do not have to continue hurting so. You will be so much happier when you are given your heart transplant. When you allow GOD to take your heart of stone and replace it with a heart of flesh. It is those with the hearts of stone who are causing our children to take their lives. Not to mention causing adults to do the same. I beg of you to become part of the solution as opposed to continuing to be the problem.
I cried so much when I heard the news. I never met you, but I learn to love you through your mother's eyes and conversations. I heard how much she was trying to keep you alive. She missed you so much and she is devastated. There is nothing that can replace all the love you inspire to her. The pain to see her in pain is unbearable.
Dear Jonghyun You were such an inspiration to me, I might’ve not been a shawol since debut but i love you, you didn’t know I exist, but I know you still loved me, I still talk to the sky at night because I miss you so much, if you were still here maybe I’d be okay, when I found out that you were gone for good... I just sat there numb for 15 minutes and then reality slapped me across the face and I just broke down, I couldn’t breathe, all I could do is cry, I started to hate myself for being so oblivious to the situation because you seemed so happy. I’ve been listening to Excuse Me Miss on repeat ever single day because that’s the song that got me into SHINee, Minho, Taemin, key, and ownew are so hurt that you’re gone along with me and every other shawol but we don’t blame you, we still love and support you no matter what, I’m happy for you, it hurts a lot, but I’m happy for you, I’m happy you’re happy now, and I’m sure everyone else is too. We miss you Jonghyun, I still hear your voice repeating in my head when I’m sad, but don’t worry sweetie, you did good❤️ 천국에 쉬다 종현 사랑해 그리고 그리워✨❤️
Let's fight and not give up 💪! I will stay strong and I hope I can keep on going even thought it's hard... I hope you can do the same! I wish you all the best 💗
People will travel miles to be at your funeral, but won't walk across the street to see how your doing
@Marina Mansfield So sorry to hear that, it's awful
that is so true
😩
So sad but true, now more than ever i realise that 💙
People only care when something big happen. If we die, or if we suffer greatly and result in dying.
i watch these videos to remind myself why i shouldnt
“funny when you’re dead how people start listening”.
I know right?
Thats not true at all. Theres never been more people that cared. We live in a society now where practically anyone is prepared to listen and a stranger is willing to talk with someone over the phone for hours to help them.
Youve got to start seeing the reality and stop feeling sorry for yourself. That will never get anybody anywhere. The reality is is that life has never been easier. Let that sink in for a moment. Compared to a thousand years ago and all the time periods throughout history humans have never had more ease. We no longer have to hunt for our food, no longer have to live in caves for shelter, were less likely to die from illnesses, we dont have to travel for months at a time. Life is very different to what it used to be, and for the most part thats good. For others not so.
“As life becomes easier, we become weaker physically, and emotionally as well.” Chad Howse
We need to harness strength. Every single one of us. It shouldnt be only the few that ever aspire to be strong, tough and gritty but everyone. Depression isnt something unique or new, its been around for as long as humans have. More people than not experience depression at some point in their life, so its not an excuse not to live and not an excuse to quit life. In fact its probably a bigger reason not to give up
To Live is an Act of Courage
“I saw not my own courage in dying, but his courage broken by the loss of me. So I said to myself, ‘You must live’. Sometimes even to live is an act of courage” Seneca (4BC-65AD)
If I die young band perry best song I want it at my funeral
@@LightningWolf09 aka "Stop being sad, other people have it worse"...please NEVER speak to someone who has major depression in a time of crisis. You will literally make everything so much worse as you clearly don't understand mental health with all these insane generalizations and ignoring how difficult longterm help is to find.
Bet none of these people heard this when they were alive
Thank you!
Luke Gomer fr
AMEN TO THAT ... Preach It!!! Know The Truth and The Truth Will Set You Free!!! - John 8:32 :) Don't Say Things Like This to People When Their Dead, Say it Too Them When Their Alive!!! :)
Knowing that the people around you care about you and struggling with depression and other issues that become too painful to bear are two very different things. Please don't blame their loved ones for their passing..
Agreed.
Such a sad irony that you usually only get the love you seek once you're dead
"I wanted to save you"
that broke my heart
I have depression and it isn’t that I am physically lonely, it is that even though I have these friends and people who care about me I still feel empty.
For those who don’t appreciate my presence, I gift you my absence
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@@sherylg2601 Bruh way too long
@@linkfromzelda1002 Hehe. Yeah. Coz she tells her full story there
To Live is an Act of Courage
“I saw not my own courage in dying, but his courage broken by the loss of me. So I said to myself, ‘You must live’. Sometimes even to live is an act of courage” Seneca (4BC-65AD)
Facts 💯
Its sad because there are a lot of suicidal people like me who have no best friends, no loving family, no nothin. This would be a lot more comforting if I knew people actually liked me
Read Islam book you will find solutions to your depression I promise you
Jesus is the only way truth and life. Seek him he loves you. You were born into Gods though and you were created because you are loved and have a great life ahead of you. read the bible and learn about Jesus please. If you need someine to talk to on a deeper scale i an here. X
double donut stay atheistic please
If you ever want to talk hmu
@double donut, firstly, Islam is the truth. Turn to our Creator, Allah, may He be exalted. Ask Him for guidance and to give you the peace you seek.
Also: Don't compare your life to what you see portrayed by others. Have you heard of photoshop? People recreate their physical appearance with this tool. Similarly, when you see the good things about others, you may be seeing one aspect of their reality. Sometimes, like the photo-shopped images, this too may be fabricated. For all you know, a person may have friends, family, opportunities etc, and be even more unhappy than you.
Start socializing more and extend your circle. If you don't go out much, join an online forum where you get to chat with people. But stay away from those forums where people just sit around discussing their misery and problems. I think some people get even more unhappy by constantly focusing on their problems.
I tried to commit suicide when I was 18. I have had chronic depression since I was a child and I took enough pills to kill an elephant. By some miracle I survived.
All these years later, I realize that I didn't REALLY want to die.....I just wanted the pain to stop.
Recently I confessed to my sister what I had done and the first thing she said was "how could you be so selfish.....have you any idea what that would have done to us?"
In all honesty, I wasn't even thinking about my family when I made my suicide attempt.......I just wanted to find peace.
But I am wondering.....who are the REAL selfish ones? The only thing my sister cared about was what effect it would have had on HER......she didn't even ask me the reason WHY I wanted to die at such a young age.
MAYBE if people who are suicidal had some REAL support and love in their lives (instead of selfish families complaining about how it would hurt THEM).....then MAYBE there would be less suicides.
As a live long sufferer of depression and suicidal thoughts I found this video a bit tone deaf. I know how much it would hurt the people I left behind but do they know how painful it is for me to stay alive?
People who don’t suffer from depression have no idea what we go through daily. I just lost my mom to cancer and everyone was like, “It’s better now that she doesn’t have to suffer.” Yet, no one will say that about someone who takes his/her own life. Just bc our pain isn’t physical doesn’t mean we aren’t dying inside.
If more people practiced empathy and tried harder to understand our circumstances maybe we wouldn’t take our own lives.
Sorry, I know you mean well but this video just proves how far we still have to go in order to understand depression.
I doubt people think about me like this.
You matter more than you think. You are more loved than you know. I am certain of it. You matter, and things can get better.
Wishing you all the best and sending love.
They do, I promise. There are always people who love you unconditionally no matter what. In those really dark days it seems like no one really cares about you and everything is too heavy to carry alone. But I can tell you that's not true. You never have to fight completely alone, even if it seems like you have to. Most of the times we just forget to tell others how important and beloved they are and that their lives matter so much to us. Never give up, because there are sooo many great storys people can tell about you and there are more to come. You are worth of love, hope and happiness:) You will feel better;)
(Sorry for the bad english. I'm not a native)
Yes. They do.
People do. You may think it's best to leave them, but, oh, how they'd miss you. I cannot remember where I heard this, but:
"To the world, you're someone. To someone, you're the world."
Don’t worry, they do. It might seem like the world hates you, like you were a mistake, but, you were put on this earth for a reason, and I assure you that people love you and they care. Stay strong, you’re not in this alone.
" i still hear your voice"
I can hear dead people
i cried harder at that part
I got chills when she said that
2:30 yes suicidal people think about loved ones. That’s why they leave notes. But suicide and depression are strong things that not even support from loved ones can be enough sometimes.
True.
Yes yr so right I do love them but I can't help my feelings I'm scared fearful everday I don't no how much longer I can stand it ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@kelliequinn3565 I don’t really have the right words to say to you if you’re struggling but I really do want you to know that you’re stronger than you think. I hope you’re keeping your head up
@@Nillowo I agree sometimes love just ISN'T enough, I know that I have a lot of people in my life who love me to death and would do anything that could if they could help me and stop my agony and despair, that's why I'm fighting for my life every single day to resist the overwhelming desire to steal a gun and eat a bullet, I know it would absolutely LITERALLY kill my Mommy if I did that, she's a strong Woman but she isn't strong enough to handle finding her Baby Boy's corpse with a hole in his Skull in a pool of his Blood and his special Aspie Brain all over the damn wall, it would literally kill her, she'd either A, take her own life the minute she put me in the ground or B, she'd drink herself to death cause she'd have constant unrelenting night terrors and die that way, also I know it'd break the Hearts of my Friend Chris and his wife Haley, as well as their little Daughters Gwen and Genevieve, it'd absolutely crush my Best Friend Makoto Kaiser (shout out to her YT btw) and Dontae, it'd break my Boyfriend's Heart, same for my Friend Laura back in Oregon it'd break the Hearts of all my Friends and Colleagues at New Moon where I worked before covid, I have so many people who love me and I don't want to give up and hurt them, but that being said I'm scared that I'm losing the fight and I don't know how much longer I can keep fighting, cause like I said love sometimes isn't enough when you're in constant unrelenting horrific AGONY, constant sleep deprivation AND despair from loneliness mostly because of Boyfriend who I'm in an LDR with!😞
Thanks for saying it cuz nothing is helping me even the unlimited love I’m getting from my family
The problem is... people only miss you when you're gone.
Everything ok?
Devastating truth
@@sherylg2601 that's really kind of you to ask. If I'm being honest, no. I go through times of serious depression very often but I manage.. just as we all do. I hope youre well and I appreciate your comment♡
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Take care
I hope everyone is okay. I love all yas
You don’t know what you have until it’s gone 😔
i had a cat i loved it with all my heart now its gone we could not afford its oparation, money comes first before life.did you know the police will arrest you if you die by suicide. ha ha ha they are stupid.
@@qwertyman459 I'm sorry for your loss. I agree it's awful that people put money before life. Just because you didn't have enough money shouldn't have meant your cat had to die.
@@lindenlynx thank you, why is it so expensive for a cat or dog to be fixed. is it so you wont try and help them i know they dont have long in this world. my its family. its not a pet. its love waiting for you every day all ways happy to see you.
You don’t know what you had until it’s gone
Luke Williams true
How can you watch this and not cry? It's just not possible.
That young man who's father died has the most amazing smile❤
He's so vibrant
Sammy mine
I was thinkin the same! Its like so attractive
I watch this video maybe once every 2 weeks to make myself imagine that people would say this about me
Brian Chafin you’re loved.
Hi Bri if you ever need to talk to anyone who’s going through the same situation as you here I am !
Bri chain
You matter, you are loved.
You are beautiful man
We need you to stay
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I love you and you are needed.. God loves you
"i wish i knew why"
top 10 bullsh*t words that come out of people mouth when their related family or friends took their own life , but when they were alive, no one cares about what they said/what they shared about
True asf bro
When people ask why, i think they always expect some deep reason. But sometimes the reason can be as simple as just being tired of breathing
They knew why, they just refused the reason and gave bs and cliche explanation.
It's not their fault,as a person who struggles alot with suicidal thoughts,I'm screaming on the inside but when someone notices the change in my behavior,I just dismiss them with a smile so they would stop looking at me differently...so, yeah it's not their fault if the say these words
@@DesmondMwangi-qo7bh good luck surviving with that attitude bro
Everyday I’m fighting to survive and I thank the people I have in my life.
Keep going, you've got this 🥰You are an amazing person ❤ you deserve so much love ❤
Keep fighting ❤️ you are very strong ❤️
You are gonna be alright. We will pray for you.
I’m so proud of you for making it through each and every day!! Keep on pushing through. Life’s tough but so are you. You are so strong and inspire me.
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I don't think that people who commit suicide don't think about how it would affect loved ones. Thats the main reason they didn't do it sooner, I know for a fact that thinking about my family has definitely saved my life. Sometimes the pain is too much and you don't think clear enough.
hamster play big big i agree
Some of them do. They just think that their loved ones would be better off without them. That’s the exact thought I had.
To Live is an Act of Courage
“I saw not my own courage in dying, but his courage broken by the loss of me. So I said to myself, ‘You must live’. Sometimes even to live is an act of courage” Seneca (4BC-65AD)
@@LightningWolf09 true.. to live is an act of massive courage
@@user-iq2ng3qc7x Absolutely
Irony how people doesn’t have time to talk instead they grieve and shower all the love once you are dead
If I died tomorrow, I can envision all my family and friends being sad for about 10 minutes and then just going on with their lives.
Same here. I'm still here, I don't know why😢.
The pain never goes away.
As someone who was on the verge of taking my own life many times before, imagining that there might be people that would react like this to my death held me back. I just wish people would tell eachother how much they mean without them having to die first. We should open up about our feelings more.
I was there too (I only planned and not committed or tried) but same story for me. I watched videos of people grieving and the after effects of suicide. That's what stopped me.
marte me Thousands, maybe millions of people care about you....we just haven't met you yet and if you're gone we will never have the chance to meet you. I agree wholeheartedly, we should tell eachother more about how we feel. So I'm going to tell you....I want you alive in this world....I care about you and hope you are feeling better.
Jennifer Jiang Same for you....I want you in this world....I care about you and hope you feel better. You're not alone.
Emotions are for girls
It’s hard it really is to be open about your feeling in my head I am one person and around everyone else I am a different person no one in the whole world accepts me for who I am everyone judges me and I take those judgements and add another thing about my personality that changes I am not who I really would like to be I am who people want me to be I cry a lot and my dad being an drunk and high all the time doesn’t help at all I keep so many thoughts to myself no one even knows I am depressed my life should end I am worthless
"and to this day everytime I walk in that house, I still look up those stairs. I still hear your voice.
People are selfish monsters. They never care about you, even after you're gone. They only feel guilt because they think they failed as parents/friends/family, not because they think about you.
Agreed
I can relate to this....People know about my suffering and call me mean names like negative or confrontational when I try to advocate for myself. They do not realize the damage this is causing. How can people kick me when I am down? They know that I am experiencing almost every kind of loss.
It’s just that you want your pain to end. You realize it never ever gets better no matter how much you try to wait and see. It never does.
i needed this.
This morning i was thinking about killing myself. Depression got me again. This video has saved me this time.
These strangers, i feel like they're talking to me...
Thanh Hien Nguyen Me too
I know this comment is long ago… but if you need someone to talk to I'm here. I know how it feels if you think you have no one to talk about you're problems… and this loneliness just makes it worse… … so if you need someone, you can talk to me :)
have a hug and a cookie 🤗🍪
I hope you are still there, because you matter. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise, even when it is yourself.
Thanh Hien Nguyen I hope you are doing okay. We all believe you matter. You don’t have to go through this alone. Stay strong.
♥️
one thing they are doing wrong is the typical "didnt you think of us?" that is the most selfish reason i have ever heard
Consider the human factor and the process of grief before you call someone selfish for reacting to a traumatic event.
as someone who has been suicidal for years and has attempted many times, we always think of you. we wouldn’t forget you. you were most likely one of the people keeping them alive. the only thing you can hope about the people you love and who love you when attempting suicide is that they will be able to recover and live a good life without you. the last thing we would ever want is for someone we love to feel the same pain as we do. we do love and care about you and I want you to know that it’s not your fault. you gave them light when there was only darkness, and eventually the darkness took over. you did the best you could at the time. it’s alright. they love you and miss you. they won’t ever leave you in your heart.
thank you
someone is cutting onions in my room
Lea Lammers
Damn ninjas
Ohhh yes, those sneaky ninjas
dolan twins. i love them and ur profile pic. ok sorry bye
Somemones cutting onions in my life
in mine too...D:
To my Brother and my best friend,
Danny, I miss you every single day and I wish you were still here with me 😢
I love you so much ❤️
"Did you think about us? Or maybe you didn't so you wouldn't change your mind?"
Damn. Did that hit home. 😔
Selfish.
That felt disrespectful, like hell yea she thought about you, but she was in more pain daily than she could take
I think that sentence was incredibly disrespectful and selfish.
Oh we think about everyone but rarely does anyone until it’s too late
The thing is, no one ever says anything until the funeral.
I just want to say, coming from someone who was in and out of rehab. It gets better. I'm better. It will all be okay. *Don't give up* ❤️
Manni Interrupted I don't know who you are but I'm very proud of you rn.
Muskan Chhajer I'm just a person who doesn't want to die anymore. I'm here to give life hell. Enjoy it as much as possible.
Manni Interrupted I'm about to go into rehab. I'm scared, what should I expect? I'm scared of what will happen, can you please help? Thank you :)
OctieBoopTurtle I always cried the first night. You never know what to expect. But going has changed the way I saw the world. Made my problems seem a lot less when you get to hear other people's struggles. Going is not weakness, going means you're strong. You're willing to face what many can't. While you're there. Listen, and take advice. You will be okay. You are not alone.
Manni Interrupted Thank you so much. I'm glad to hear that it will get better and that I am not alone. Thanks so much for sharing your experience with me, I'm glad I found your comment. I'm also thankful that you are feeling okay too :)
For everyone who reads this. I love you. I may never have seen you or have never known your name, but that doesn't stop me from caring about you. The world is better with you in it and know that you can always reach out.
“You don’t know what you had until it’s gone. Truth is, you did know. You just thought you’d never lose it”.
My cousin committed suicide when I was little. I miss him a lot. If he were alive today I'd thank him for teaching me how a real man treats women. I'd also tell him how much l miss his bear hugs and hanging out with him and the family. RIP Alex👼❤️
Not to criticize, since I have been suicidal before, but someone said in the video "Did you think about us? Or maybe you didn't so we wouldn't change your mind." A lot of depressed and suicidal people think they are doing what is right for the others in their lives. They think everyone will be better without them. So yes, they were thinking of others. It is not always only about themselves. And saying that may make other depressed and suicidal people feel selfish. And that does nothing to help. It makes it worse.
Please don't criticize like that. Please. A simple criticism like that might be the one that pushes a depressed, suicidal person over the edge.
I don't think that's criticism. I don't personally take that as criticism. I'm depressed from times to times, and I really can't see the light at the end of the tunnel for both times and tried to take myself. But if you really put yourself in their shoes, you really empathize for them. Vocalizing thoughts does not actually work for everyone, but it really took them a lot of courage and strength. Sometimes they're so emotional they lost track on phrasing their sentences, so they just express anything they feel that time. It's really a void.
i agree wth this 100% it’s selfish to say that, ahh people..
Not everyone who commits suicide thinks they're doing it for others. I can say when i heard her ask her questions, it made me tear up. I think it's an honest question from the heart. Definitely something someone who is considering may want to think about... Some may be thinking they're doing something to help their loved ones, but it's not true. People with suicidal thoughts may not see value in themselves, but someone else out there does.
I just came to the comments to see if anyone was saying something about it, cause I couldn't be only one who thinks that's selfish, I'm glad more people agree with this
People say suicide is selfish, taking a life without thinking about the feelings of others; however I feel it is selfish for people to want you to suffer for their happiness. Death can be a beautiful thing. Sometimes life begins when another ends. Someone is born. And life can begin for loved ones once mine ends. Family can start living their lives without the constant worry. I called the hotline today and the lady basically said she couldn't help. Told her I wanted to take a gun and just blow my brains out, means I know will be successful. I can only speak for myself I'm in a circle and there's no way out. Work to pay bills only for more bills to be in default. left kids in care of a family member, only for their son to molest my child. Now with dcfs involved how can I get them back with no job, no vehicle, no home. Start working and what am I supposed to work on first. Vehicle or home. Don't forget no one does anything for free and might I add no public transportation where I stay. Those of you who says it'll get better. I'm waiting. Until I don't. Then its over.
As someone who lost their best friend from elementary school almost a year ago, this helps. I wasn't there for him after we started middle school, or even when he moved away for high school. It hurts. Knowing you were so close and then weren't and haven't kept in contact after he moved. It hurts, but one day, it won't hurt as much,
I'm almost 20.. and many times I sit and look out my bedroom window and just wonder if this is all worth it. I think of it many times but I never act. Watching these videos reminds me that I'm not alone in this battle. I love you all, thank you for sending hope.
You matter. I promise ❤
I attempted and my family saved me. I am so glad i’m still here.
Your comment is from a year ago but I hope you're doing well and are feeling better. Especially right now as the pandemic has made some peoples mental health even worse, my own included. I'm glad your family saved you. Stay safe!
@@leeriches8841 thank you! I am doing great! Back in school and exercising a lot! Life is 10x better.
I lost my brother to suicide two months ago. There’s so much I want to say to him. The most important one is that he’s so valued, and so loved. My heart is broken.
I'm very sorry for your loss. That must be extremely difficult...love and prayers from SC ♡
I'm very very sorry. You could say it to me like I was him. Because I'm really thinking of going
Charlotte R I'm so sorry about your brother. I lost a friend of mine to suicide in April 2018. And I wish I could talk to him again.
Yeah... Iam so sorry my boyfriend lost his brother and he's going insane about him he doesn't even think about me anymore I just want to know what would he do if iwas dead?
I know that the guy in the blue shirt said something about wishing that he could have saved his friend's life physically. So, I'm putting out a little PSA. If you find somebody who has overdosed, the most important thing is to *open their airway.* Many people use drugs that, in some way or another, suppress breathing. So make sure their tongue is out of the way, roll them to the side, and don't be afraid to give a couple of breaths if they are breathing shallowly (of course, if they aren't breathing and/or don't have a heart rate, start CPR immediately). You could save their life, either completely or from coma or brain damage/death!
This week I lost a friend to suicide
I still don’t wanna think that it’s real it’s so heartbreaking….
Our mental health system definitely failed him and it makes me so upset
Rip my dear friend you will be missed forever
I have reached my endurance capacity. I don't know how the kid I once was ended up so badly... I mean sure the world is unkind, and especially brutal to some (raises hand). I just hope there'll be something good to remember about me, something valuable to learn, and just because its okay to dream, maybe something treasurable too. I have lived, I have loved, I have tried to overcome, and now my moves are over.
God bless you
Felt the same. When I look at my childhood, its like a different life time. Completely opposite to this hell im currently in.
Suicide, to friends and loved ones left behind seems selfish; but really it is a selfless act. When someone is done with life, they are done.....their reasons are personal. Those reasons do not need to be justified, and may never be fully understood as they are not meant to be. Sometimes when someone knows or feels, that they have fulfilled their purpose in this earthly realm, it is simply time to move on.
Friends and love ones may never understand. The flip side is to ask yourself, if the person who decided to end their own life was in that much pain (emotional, physical or both) then would you not want them to have the peace they craved, that they so desired in life but could not attain?
It’s very much a double edged sword & every situation is different.
Lela Gallo it’s not a selfless act in any way
You know instead of calling it a selfish act, just act the right way and help that said person; calling it selfish won’t help anyone, the “ Selfish “ person would feel much more sadder and the guilt would increase by ten folds. Please, help those who are in need of dire love and affection.
Recently my father passed away from suicide last year and to be completely honest I’ve never felt more shitty in my entire life. It took such huge toll on me that I started missing school, dropping out of sports I enjoyed, stopped socialising to people I would usually talk to, and basically giving up on everything I used to love. I eventually had to get put into counselling because I started to get the same thoughts my dad must’ve had on the day he took his life.
His death impacted me greatly and made me start thinking and believing awful things like “If suicide brought you peace dad, well hey maybe it might bring me peace too and ease the pain of dealing with your death”
Suicide does not end the pain, but only passes it on to someone else. And to me that doesn’t feel or sound very selfless.
xdead_acc0untx I’m very sorry for your loss. I’m sure you miss your dad very much and that it is so hard for you. I lost my love 20 years ago to suicide. It has gotten easier as time goes by. Hugs.
To Live is an Act of Courage
“I saw not my own courage in dying, but his courage broken by the loss of me. So I said to myself, ‘You must live’. Sometimes even to live is an act of courage” Seneca (4BC-65AD)
That one hit really close to home
I recently got diagnosed with bipolar disorder 2 and I really struggle with depression so sometimes when I am really down low I come back to this (edit)
life hurts
so much trauma
so much suffering
heartache and despair
rage and grief
I can no longer bear the darkness
Same
Been fighting depression since 2004 💪
Keep going friend ♥️
Was it worth it?
I survived my suicide attempt & this hit so close to home, I can‘t stop crying.
Thank you... I've been contemplating suicide and I needed to see this. This was an excellent reminder that ending my life would impact everyone I love.. It's so frustrating that I can't trust my own thoughts and emotions.
It's definitely frustrating and scary and uncomfortable, but you are so right. There are absolutely people in your life who love you and would want to help. And remember, you can always text "HELLO" to 741-741 if you ever need to talk about it.
SoulPancake thank you ❤
vivimivi stay strong, you've got so much life to live! Sending you love and positive energy :)
vivimivi When people are considering suicide, they are often not thinking straight; it is the nature of strong unpleasant feelings like depression/grief/anxiety/anger to trick our minds and cause us to focus more on the negative aspects of our thoughts and emotions. This is why it is vitally important to talk to someone about what's going on - a therapist, a counselor, a guidance counselor, a spiritual leader, a suicide/depression helpline, whomever/whatever you prefer (as long as it's someone who will really hear you) - because keeping those thoughts hidden inside often leads to them growing, resulting in more psychological suffering. Please find someone to talk to soon; there are caring people who are helpers out there who are nonjudgmental, wise, respectful and nurturing. If the first person you talk to doesn't reflect those qualities, talk to someone else. Please. You deserve to feel better and have a happier and healthier life. If you're in the U.S., call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (they take calls 24/7) at 800-273-8355. Their website is suicidepreventionlifeline.org We're with you.
I wish people would know that its not always about being selfish to live..but instead sometimes its being selfless to live for others too.
The sad truth is nobody appreciates you until you're gone...coming from a suicidal person myself
"Somewhere in the decision making process you figured that everyone would be better without you and that's not true."
Some really strong fellings .Made me cry .
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I watch this video whenever I wanna cry and feel alone
This breaks my heart into a million pieces.. I miss my friend
Im not suicidal but Im depressed, and lonely and have social anxiety. Seeing this just annoyed me so much. People will say all this stuff when youre gone, never when youre still there. When youre still there they take you for granted and dont see you at all. Sometimes people like us just feel like "maybe they will see me then". Even though its pointless, it feels as if its worth everything to get you feeling noticed and appreciated. Sometimes it gets too hard and you cant take it anymore. I was just so angry.
who else is watching this while crying? Cause i know i am😩😭
i lost my girl to suicide.. the pills got her in the end and i could never blame her for what she did, i just wish i could help her and take her pain away while she was still alive. i told her how much i love her all the time and if anything i know she knew i meant it every single time. my last words to her were perfect so at least i don't blame myself for anything i said. my last words to her were "i love you my little snowman"..
......snowman. No wonder she wanted to go.
@@skyjack8541 kitten is worse
What if I actually don’t care what my loved ones think ....?
Stuart Brown Lol wow your life must be pretty amazing if you go on CZcams to convince vulnerable people to commit suicide. 👏👏👏
I dont quite too, im Just scared if it hurts and If something good MIGHT happen sometime... And i still need to write down alot of my thinking and life before it..
Bahira Al-Haddad so I posted that around a month ago. Since then I’ve quit caffeine which was the cause of a lot of emotional problems. I also experienced a huge heartbreak which strangely made me realize I’m pretty content with my life overall. And the thought of committing suicide hasn’t reappeared again even when I feel very down at times (which is part of the normal human experience). I recommend the book Happy by Derren Brown which has helped me more than any other philosophy or religious text and it’s convinced me a lot of contemporary self help books are more harm than good.
I am sorry if i am too softspoken but when you do a suicide that will be always selfish.
I understand why and i don't judge peoples who kill themself but that is selfish if you have even one people who love you
dbsk06 stay strong, don’t do it
Is there any way to like this video 291992282 times???😭❤️
To quote my absolute favourite band, All Time Low, "don't lose your fight, kid. It only takes a lil push to pull it through.."
Missing you- All Time Low one of the most inspirational songs if you ever feel depressed
Mattie Stricker yesss, can’t agree more it’s so motivating
with so much left to do, you'll be missing out, and we'll be missing you
Muskan Chhajer fave all time low song for sure!! i cried when i saw them play it live
To my friend Andy.
You're an amazing person and everyday I miss you man. I'm gonna head over to your grave in December to say hi again buddy. Love ya. 🐬
I'm so sorry for your loss. Wish you the best
Blessings for all the souls that have died by suicide and blessings for their loved ones
Suicide has effected me greatly. MANY of my closest friends have chosen to end their lives this way. I carry them in my heart. I've come to think of it in two or more ways. They were in so much physical or emotional pain that they needed at out. Or, they felt trapped physically or emotionally with no hope of escape. HOPE is the key word here.
I want to end my life soon but I don’t want to hurt my close friends. I feel Its unfair to do this to them but I can’t keep going in this life anymore. I can’t.
I miss me.
I am proud to say, I am a suicide attempt survivor ♥ ✨
NathanJamesOfficial Yeah! Never be ashamed of your past. You are a fighter, and you've won this battle, so you got every damn right to be proud! ❤️☺️
NathanJamesOfficial you are amazing. I am so glad you are still here. And you are so brave for sharing. I bet a million dollars you make the world a brighter place.
Sonya Chemouni Bach omg you're making me so emotional. Thank you so much ♥
Yukino Fairytail omg. Thank you so much, that means so much to me ✨
NathanJamesOfficial you are so welcome. You got through this!! You conquered your worst fears and I am amazed by your strength.
Dear Dad,
I miss you more and more everyday, and people keep saying that one day it won’t hurt anymore but it just keeps getting worse and worse. I don’t know what to do without you, I try to stay strong for you, I never saw or knew you were hurting and I wish I could go back in time and change what happened that day. That morning when my mum walked in my room crying “your dads gone, he died” broke me. When I found out you committed suicide 4 years later, that crushed me even more. You always seemed so happy, how did you stay so strong on the outside? I miss you so much, I love you dad
Thank you for always being here and your messages. Love all four of you❤❤❤❤
My family bullied me so much when I was a kid. I used to be so happy and energetic. I just burned out. I don't know what I did wrong.
Every children was born as a bless, but I can't help feeling... I was born as a curse. To myself and to my parents...
I feel the need to be completely gone
You should tell those that you love that you love them while they're here. Too often we assume that they just know. "Well of course they know, we talk all the time." "Of course they know. They're my kid. I'll always love them." That's not always true. Don't assume. It can help. Not always, but if it does it can save a life. If it doesn't at least you got to say it and let them know that there's someone, anyone, who cares.
I have shortness of breath for years...am so tired of living...I sometime think of taking my own life but I don't wanna end up in hell and that's what stop me
Thanking all four of you for offering some sanity and soothing words-Love you also
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Thank you for this❤️
evie may sellars You're the one with the nice multifandom videos! :D
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evie may sellars I made a vlog about my depression story and I would love for everyone to check it out on my channel! It would mean so much to help as many people as I can who struggle with mental illness! Thanks!
This changed my mind about possibly ending my life. I needed to see this.
I find myself watching these videos right now because the thoughts have crossed my mind more lately. As much as I’ve tried to stop my own child from wanting to commit suicide & have friends that have died of suicide I now understand why. Sometimes you feel you’ve made so many mistakes in life & your tired of being a failure that the world is better without you. Thanks for the video I have to find my own encouragement.
No. That is not Why people take their life. Mistakes has nothing to do with it. Mistakes are a «peace of cake».....
Dear all of you,
I love your book! Please don't end it this soon!
I miss you.
I still remember that boyishly charming smile, those incredibly blue eyes, and that contagious giggle. I regret not being able to help you. Once I lost you, I felt incomplete. So many thoughts raced throughout my mind. How could you leave me alone ?
Lots of things remind me of you. The sunset, baseball bats, the ocean, etc. You were always so selfless and sweet. I still hear that angelic voice occasionally. Words cannot describe how much I miss everything about you.
It has been two years. All that time spent without you by my side. It's funny - You would have made a joke about me becoming so emotional. You had such an amazing personality, bub. So much potential.
As time continues, I keep finding new ways to cope. I no longer feel at fault - Nobody was at fault. You hit a rough patch, and couldn't recover. You always were very sensitive. I'm becoming stronger, and more aware.
I'll always miss you, Luke. I will never, ever forget you. I'll cherish our memories. I'll think back to simpler times - Like when we would dig up worms as little kids. You always loved that.
I love you, Luke. You were the best friend I could have ever asked for. Hope you're at peace - May we meet again.
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He was 12??
Does anybody know the feeling, when you’re so sad, that your body begins to tingle all through your body? Idk just wondering
I feel this in my cheeks when I have a mental breakdown
Yes
yea
Yes
Literally rn lmao
If I saw people saying this to me after doing it all I could say would be "liars" I asked for help and you were never there until I was gone
I'll do this one day. and now I'm doing my best to be remembered the same way. We always think of those who will stay, which is why we want to create the best possible memories
Why does my intention of committing suicide get stronger with these videos? I mean, They've got to help me right? I got confused and this is a reason for me to live a bit longer. I wanna figure out why...
Hrmicö I know exactly how you feel. I wish I knew why. When I watch these videos they do help, but at the same time I feel like I’m all alone and worthless.
You should both talk to someone. If this isn't helping, (and I don't know why), then you need to find another method of treatment. Stay alive. Stay strong. Sending hope and love your way.
Maybe you're feeling like all the suicide victims in the video have people who miss them and you don't feel like anyone would miss you. That's not true. You matter much more than you know. People love you much more than you think. You are loved. You will be missed whenever you go. Please, don't make it soon.
Guys! Can y'all watch this? m.czcams.com/video/mxxxH_cX1zg/video.html . It's about a person who came out of depression and anxiety. Don't give up. There is still hope and love around you.
@@sherylg2601 you're so sweet, you've been spamming the comment section with that video link 😌💗
Rips my heart to shreds
People are so selfish to think of what they have lost instead of what pain the person must be going through to want to die and yet they still want them to stay and endure it for them. One guy even said the loss was unbearable, but its not. If it was unbearable he would be dead too.
You are so right... I wish there were more people like you around that actually _think_ about things and understand them...
I lost one of my best friends from suicide 2 years ago and it still hurts to this day. I talk to her on imessage even though she can’t respond. It makes me feel better. Lexi, I love you for everything you did to make me smile during our friendship. I’m so glad I got to met you. It’s hard to get through life without you in it but, I’ll see you again soon.
this hits home hard
Dear Ellie,
You were my best friend. No one compared to you. Everyday I looked forward to coming home from school and texting you until 4am. You were like a brother to me. I felt as if I could tell you anything without being judged. You also gave the best advice. Everyday I wish that I would've listened to some of the things you said. You're the reason I'm still alive. I remember the day we made our promise to not commit suicide so we could always be there for each other. Even though you didn't hold up your side of the promise... I will continue to go on with you always on my mind. Fifteen was way to young for you to leave. You had so much to live for. R.I.P Ellie 5/17/17💕
Sometimes you just wanna peace..stop fighting..it's just emptiness
Ivana How are you now? Do you suffer from depression? Please watch this: czcams.com/video/mxxxH_cX1zg/video.html . It's about how a lady came out of years of depression
"I wanted to save you.....I physically wanted to save you..."
This video just reminded me I have a little brother....
To the bold guy in this video....I dont know who you are but you have just saved a life tonight....
He doesn't care about you dumbass, the video is for clout and clicks 🙄
@@cornycan1 Never seen such a clown before.
Im proud of you❤️
Bigbird232 hey :) How are you? Do you suffer from depression? Please watch this: czcams.com/video/mxxxH_cX1zg/video.html . It's about how a lady came out of years of depression
You can see how powerless the guy in blue looks when he's talking about his experience. It's heartbreaking.
Sexy101 helpless * not powerless
it's a shame that the organizations can't work effectively to help people live better lives because "it costs too much money "
the deaths wether on a battlefield of war, or on the street due to overdose , or hanging on self in a mansion is a sign that it's all a problem of the society in General.
if your friends forget to talk to you that means they're not doing their part to check in on people that seem depressed or troubled.
sometimes they avoid It because they don't want to feel like they're to blame somehow by association.
IV ketamine treatment is successful with PTSD, OCD, depression, anxiety, and is even showing promise with addiction. It is very effective with bipolar depression too. and it stops suicidal thinking... in a couple hours. It's saving lives but people need to know.
Cyndee Davis I suppose it can help with a perspective shift, however I believe often times there needs to be a team commitment that makes the individual feel accomplished with tasks.
however there is issues of letting go of trouble from the past that I think has to be completed with acceptance of disappointment.
medication may help with that but it's temporary alteration.
I agree with you..
Matfey Avgustin: Sweetheart, you are very ill and need to get help for yourself. It is not your fault that you are ill, but you do need help. How do I know that? Because your cold heart and lack of empathy for people who hurt so bad that they believe death is the only way to end their pain, is a symptom of your illness. Sorry to reveal your secret, but you hurt inside as much as they do. You do not have to continue hurting so. You will be so much happier when you are given your heart transplant. When you allow GOD to take your heart of stone and replace it with a heart of flesh. It is those with the hearts of stone who are causing our children to take their lives. Not to mention causing adults to do the same. I beg of you to become part of the solution as opposed to continuing to be the problem.
Cyndee Davis I think CBD helps me.
I feel so bad, thank you all for your soothing voices and words that I used to know that I used to feel.
I cried so much when I heard the news. I never met you, but I learn to love you through your mother's eyes and conversations. I heard how much she was trying to keep you alive. She missed you so much and she is devastated. There is nothing that can replace all the love you inspire to her. The pain to see her in pain is unbearable.
Dear Jonghyun
You were such an inspiration to me, I might’ve not been a shawol since debut but i love you, you didn’t know I exist, but I know you still loved me, I still talk to the sky at night because I miss you so much, if you were still here maybe I’d be okay, when I found out that you were gone for good... I just sat there numb for 15 minutes and then reality slapped me across the face and I just broke down, I couldn’t breathe, all I could do is cry, I started to hate myself for being so oblivious to the situation because you seemed so happy. I’ve been listening to Excuse Me Miss on repeat ever single day because that’s the song that got me into SHINee, Minho, Taemin, key, and ownew are so hurt that you’re gone along with me and every other shawol but we don’t blame you, we still love and support you no matter what, I’m happy for you, it hurts a lot, but I’m happy for you, I’m happy you’re happy now, and I’m sure everyone else is too. We miss you Jonghyun, I still hear your voice repeating in my head when I’m sad, but don’t worry sweetie, you did good❤️ 천국에 쉬다 종현 사랑해 그리고 그리워✨❤️
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*cries internally* you did well jonghyun..
ㅠㅠㅠ😭😭😭😭😭😭...
you did well...💔
it’s been a year. :(
Let's fight and not give up 💪! I will stay strong and I hope I can keep on going even thought it's hard... I hope you can do the same!
I wish you all the best 💗
Thanks to all 4 of you for your help and soothing connecting voices
Thanks for all your voices and comments you help me in different ways at different times❤❤❤❤Love all 4 of you....