This is your sign to Stop Hating Yourself
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- čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
- #mentalhealth #psychology #selflove
Love yourself like your life depends on it.
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0:00 The dark room
0:44 The dangerous rise of...
3:26 How to care for yourself
5:10 (1) Overcoming thought loops
6:03 (2) Meditation (hear me out...)
6:57 (3) The question
7:19 Remember, you're human
9:02 Outro rizz
"Lewis what's the biggest risk you've ever taken?"
"Telling my audience which is 90% male to love themselves."
😂😂
I’m not surprised that your audience is 90% male. Men tend to seek wisdom
Are you mad? ;)
to all the brothers from other mothers, i love you bro
obviously bros before hoes
Out of millions of videos on youtube, I think this one's the best to watch today.
Thank you :)
i do like this video, however i'm kind of lost in what is best or what i wish for myself. I don't think I necessarily hate myself, but I genuiely don't know what's important for me anymore.
Anymore? I personally in my 20+ years of living have never known, really have never cared much for anything.
@@frostkiller I thought at some point I did honestly. I've traveled across the world, studying in university, having a nice life overall, but I just don't know now.
I hope you find a purpose for yourself
@@papafouplays2991 Thank you!
Don't give up hope. Sometimes, what ignites our passion evolves over time. I hope you rediscover what sparks the fire within you.🙏
Hi mate. It seems you're feeling a little lost in life. Do you know what your values are?
@@NewelOfKnowledge I saw you made a video about it, I'll watch it when I come back! But overall I would say not as much as I would like to say. It's hard to pinpoint , but I genuinely know friendship is one, family is another , compassion if I would have to name some. Also knowledge if it is one.
Man I don´t know where you came from in my algorithm, but... thank you. Recently a good friend of mine told me he was suic*dal and since my own mental health isn´t the best right now I am spiraling so badly. I am throwing away my opportunities in my education because they just seem insignificant and meaningless, I haven´t worked out in a good month, I declared each and every single hobby and interest of mine useless... And videos like these help, while I try to get into therapy. No idea where I will go from here, but I am deathly afraid of staying the way I am, stuck, lonely and out of visions and energy. Thanks. I will try and love myself, even if I have no idea how to get there.
God loves you.
As someone who's gone through similar stuff as you, don't let it beat you. Just take things one step at a time and go easy on yourself. For example, working out: Try 5 push-ups while you wait for the shower to heat up in the morning, then work up to 10, then start doing a few sets of something before you even turn on the shower. It's a slow process, but in this state, burning out is easier than ever, so go easy on yourself, because steps forward in any regard are better than no steps forward at all. Take the same tact with your education and hobbies. But don't let this break you, trust me, it's not worth it. Vegging will just compound the misery. You've got this mate! Just take little steps and one day maybe a month or two or three from now you'll be able to go do one of your hobbies once a week for a couple hours, and things will start looking up with time.
@@ReddList Thank you. I have an appointment tomorrow, maybe I can get some light medication. I have to perform in some capacity, like I stil go to my job and I have started going for walks. Besides I need to get my masters thesis on the rails, which proves difficult too, because every time I open my emails I get a panic attack. Even went to the doctors because I felt like I had a stroke, but turns out I just full on panic... from emails.
On the other hand I also stayed in bed until 2 pm for the entire week and just slept. So... yeah. I will try getting the routine of working out in some capacity. The worst thing about all this is, that when ever somebody else asks me to do anything I stil do it, it´s just that I don´t have anything on my own. Again, thanks for taking the time to talk to a stranger, I´ll try and think of your kind words. I hope you made it out the other side.
Hello mate, thank you for the kind words. There are a lot of positives in your message. The main one being you clearly have an idea of where your actions could lead if you continue down this path and you also want to get yourself out of this dark place. So double down on that energy: wanting the best for yourself. Just continue asking "what's the next right thing to do?" and do that repeatedly. You got this mate.
@@NewelOfKnowledge Thank you, again. You have an approach to these things that just came through for me. Like how you don´t yell at me to just grind, or go stoic, or whatever. Been there, done that, wasn´t real. Because so often we try to adopt mindsets that don´t fit us, and in my case I tried running into whatever philosophy without doing the ground work.
So I commented, and now I have two guys on my virtual back. Which is strangely comforting. What a time to be alive :D Have a good one, will keep watching.
The way you speak always keeps me coming back.
I always think "what if he doubles down on the classic aesthetic and makes peaky blinders styled decor and wears their hat or something"
I honestly would love to see that!
Hahaha! Thank you kind sir. I have the exact hat you're talking about and have worn peaky blinders hats since I was 18. Yet I've never seen the series - I guess its just a very British thing. Thanks again!
Yeah, this seems like one of the biggest problems in the self-iprovement industry. A lot of people (me included) just copied the desires of those role-models and didn't really think what they really want. This is a trap many people fall into and it made them and it made me miserable even though I was still doing all of the self-improvement stuff.
Its such a slippery slope. But just shows our susceptibility as humans. I'm glad to see you've noticed the trend in yourself though.
Lovely video, just what i needed today.
You are about to blow up my well spoken brother. Keep making this insanely great content and you will touch millions. Liked, subscribed and hoping this comment will help your content reach more starving chefs. Much love
Thank you Dan! I appreciate your confidence :)
the outro rizz got me.
This was an awesome video. I really appreciate this channel and the work you're putting in to help others.
I appreciate you too Alex. Have a great week.
Thank you mate ❤
Needed this tbh
I needed this
I love the way u talk. Please make a video about how to communicate clearly like you
i second this
I really appreciate you reminding people that they’re human and it’s normal to not be all in place at every second of every day. It’s also worth noting that it takes time, a lot of time and I know that because I’ve been on the journey for a while and I will probably be on the journey my entire life. It’s worth it though so I hope that anyone out there in the same boat can find peace no matter how long it takes.
The editing has significantly improved! :)
Your videos are great! Keep going!:)
Oh mate, another video that seems to come with perfect synchronicity. Really needed this one brother, excellent work once again!
Thank you sir! Glad you found value in it :)
I‘ve been looking for a channel like yours forever mate, I appreciate you, keep doing what you’re doing, we viewers will learn to love ourselves, but we do all love you 🤙
Thank you Kai, I appreciate you too. I'm glad you're here.
Thank you.
Lowk may have been the best video I’ve watched in a while. I really appreciated this 🙏🏽
I appreciate you :)
Dope 🎉❤thanks 👏🫶
Most important question, how did you learn to talk so good? Did u take any courses or some sort of practice or its just natural process of learning along the way? and did you put alot effort into narrating or it just happened? thanks Newel :)
intense and necessary
Will you make a video on speaking eloquently? I really like the way you convey your message.
Thank you :) I'll see what I can do.
outro rizz hits hard bruh
so the key to loving myself is gaslighting, great :D
🤣🤣🤣
Just in time
I really love your style. It resonates with me so much. You described everything perfectly. I am a big fan of Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now. If you haven't read it already, you should give it a try.
See you again bold brother from another mo. Keep up the great work, you're doing God's work.
Thank you sir! I have read that book but I'd need to return to it. I appreciate you brother. Have a great week.
0:09 Arsenal! Arsenal! Arsenal!
Hey Newel I’ve been following the content for a while and I love this channel too much I’d love to see it grow to an exponential number. I am a video editor and I would do anything to make your content as amazing as possible. I would take time off your hands so you could use it towards more productivity rather than having to do the boring stuff. I can make it as entertaining and pretty as can be, whilst also doing the same for the thumbnails. Even if it’s a no, I’d still be here supporting you no matter what.
Thank you :) send me an email: lewiscorse@gmail.com
i hope you get famous
The myth of Narcissus - the tragedy of unrequited self-love - is too real in my life. However, if we are to take the version where he falls into the water and drowns, it doesn't necessarily have to be a tragedy. Water is symbolic of deep emotion, and if young Narcissus steps into the water, he can feel that self-love. I dunno, it made more sense when Hekate said it.
Where do I find valid invite to the discord server? the one from description is not working
Same, the link might only be temporary unfortunately
💯 💯 💯
Hey man, what if i am already on the spot where i dont even want to love myself, like my self-esteem is completely destroyed and i actually dont feel like i deserve even my own love? Maybe you could consider making some video about improving selth-worth for the people that completetly lack it?
Hi mate, what'd I'd say is something similar to the quote at the end of the video. In order to love yourself you must behave in ways you admire. Think of the qualities you admire in others and strive to emulate them yourself.
those thought loops sound yummy
Easier said than done.
True.
Nothing is easy
But how do I get myself out of the rut if I just don't feel like I have enough energy to do so?
The do something principle. Its a tough reality but you'll have to create the momentum you want mate. Do something, anything to kickstart it; have a shower, cook a meal, clean up a bit, do a 2 minute workout even!
Normal People: Love yourself!
Me: no! >:(
Lewis: Love yourself!
Me: Ok :)
:')
why did the captions disappear mid video?
You'd prefer them all the way?
What is hate? who is hate? why is hate?
Oh, this video isnt going to be for me. I absolutely adore myself! If anything, I need to dial it back a bit. Lol.
Can this get more views for fuck sake
I just dont think there's anything special about me or worth loving. Liking sure, loving no.
I'm sure you're not that bad ;)
@@NewelOfKnowledge anything good or kind I do is bare minimum
@@eta_carithebrightlord3396 As Newel said at 4:25, It's easier to be helpful, kind and of service to the world when you love yourself.
Loving Jesus Christ is what turns the light on in your life