How to Talk to Yourself to Improve Your Life 😎 Change Your Conversations, Change Your Life
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The past is just a story we keep telling ourselves. Your thoughts are the building blocks of your future. In today’s video, learn how to put your faith in your current self and your future self rather than your past self by changing your energetic possibilities and the way to talk to yourself.
Timestamp Menu:
(04:20) Energetic Possibilities
(07:50) Becoming Aware Of Your Conversations
(12:30) Change Your Story & The Way You Talk To Yourself
IN THIS VIDEO WE DISCUSS:
Changing the way you look at yourself
Energetic possibilities
Subconsciously absorbing others opinions of yourself
Self-fulfilling prophecy
Becoming aware of your conversations with yourself and others
Isolating your negative thoughts
Rewiring your neural pathways
Changing the stories you tell yourself
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When we don't live in the present, we live the majority of our lives in something that only exists in our own heads 😱
My favorite affirmation from you is: what I seek is seeking me 🥰
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Words by great sufi philosopher- Rumi ❤️
if you’re reading this, it’s coming. be patient. the universe has your back. don’t worry about it.
~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction CZcamsr💜
Gavin do you have a program that posts these comments for you or is it really you lolol
@@LeeorAlexandra this killed me
@@LeeorAlexandra Good one 🤣
No guys I’m really wondering bc I KNOW Gavin and he never responds to me when I answer these inspirational messages hahahaha
@@LeeorAlexandra but it’s still FUNNY
I think it’s more attractive to see people speak positively about themselves, fully loving yourself is the most complimenting feature of an individual in my opinion.
I have been complimenting myself so much lately. That I'm starting to see it and believe it. it feels so good to be positive.
What would you do if you are surrounded by people who are negative
Love that for you, I need to do that
Never thought of “I need to..” and “ I should” as another form of “I can’t”
Definitely an eye opener for me . Thank you 💜
No seriously!!!!
Whenever I think "I need to" or "I should," they are usually about activities that I feel obligated to do. But now, I rewrite these thoughts with "I want to" and I found that it really helped motivate me to do them! I can't wait to further rewrite these thoughts as Leeor described :)
@@heatherdoolan9249 I'm gonna try thissss!!!
This!! I used to say that all the time. Also “I’m trying” is something I loved to use as an excuse. But now I am going to do what I’ve been “trying” to do. No more excuses 😊
@@sweetpeahunnybee exactly! No more excuses ! We can definitely do what we choose to do
To all my open-minded friends over here, I want to say that one time , last year, I was speaking to the setting sun and genuinely, a thought came to me that I hadn't thought myself! The sun freakin replied to my question! Aaaa🤯🙆🏽♀💖
That definitely happens!
@@LeeorAlexandra i feel the universe channeling me messages when i speak to my grandma and this boy that died a month ago who i am deeply in love with. i’ve been so hurt about him recently but it’s really opened my eyes and made me realise so much stuff. it’s absolutely nuts. we are all healing our own wounds, nobody is perfect and we can’t always be our happiest and best self. forgiveness really is the key to happiness
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😜😜
Queen we need an updated video on heartbreak, healing, being single and how to glow up! You always have a different approach to these topics and I only trust you!!!
Yes please
agreee
In the beginning I was like “she’s so pretty” and then you say you call yourself cute and pretty in the mirror 🥰✨
We all are safe, healthy and protected... We are beautiful people ❤️
Happy Monday beloved 🥰❤️
Happy Monday! 🌸🤗💖
Happy, happy Monday, Leeor!! 🙂
Happy Monday Leeor! I hope you have a great day 🥰
Happy Monday 🥰🥰
Happy Monday to you too, love !!!
I feel so lucky to live in a body that reflects my beautiful heart and soul from the inside out. I care so deeply for others and live a successful life because I know i make a positive impact in the lives of those around me 💕 and that’s all I’ve ever wanted to do.
That’s awesome, good for you and the people who meet you! 🌹
Remember to tell yourself, everything is working out best case scenario. I am strong. I am wise. I am patient. I am kind. I anchor in the most optimal timeline here and now. I spread light and love. And so it is✨
I AM a home for myself within myself ☺️
My sister made me realize that our family is so used to self hate, so since we were kids we talk to ourselves in a very mean way, now that I’m almost 30, I no longer talk to myself in that way, but is still a work in progress because I say to myself that I’m average, but I am more than that, I am a beautiful hardworking woman with a lot of drive and love ✨
This is so accurate, I used to manifest negative situations all the time by just thinking about them and then I'd say
"I knew it". Now it's different, I know the power of my mind and I'm only manifesting good things. Thank you for this video! (:
I am peace and happiness..l am beautiful and loved by all.l love myself
Yes I'm starting to realize this more and more that words have powers😌
The Universe is always providing for me what I need when I need it! Much Love!!!
Thank you for sharing this. It is true, when you write down your ideal future and life, and keep repeating it and thinking about it and manifesting it, you WILL see changes in your life. You just have to let go of the blocks
Blessings to everyone, you are exactly where you need to be 💠🙏💖
Sometimes it feels like a job, an exhausting cycle of constantly "trying to feel good" when you're already in a spiral...it's easy to fall into a depressive mood and willow in my own negative energy. That is my experience right now and I tend to forget to take a breather. So thanks for reminding me again, Leeor :)
Iam worthy ,I can do anything
Iam a magnet for prosperity and abundance
Iam enough and deserving of all the good this universe has to offer ❤
And so it is
In relation to your story about not being able to remember names, I used to tell myself that I was shy and can’t hold a conversation. But now I try and stick to telling myself “I’m outgoing and I can hold conversations easily, it is easy for me to click and connect with people” and it has been working it’s charm!
Today I realized we can only live in the present because the fabric of reality is always changing. We therefore have the power in our hands to create our future
Hey Leeor...this is like the one main thing i learned from you in the past year to be kind to myself even when alone.....this has changed me a lot thank you so much for instilling this idea in my head.... Have a magical day❤
Thank you so much Leeor! Since coming across your content about a month ago, my whole vibration has completely changed and I feel I’ve regained my soul sovereignty by recognizing all the power within me! Thank you for all your light that you share 🥰
I am so happy to have you here love!!!
Not only are you stunning, the self love you emit is so beautiful. Thank you
I can do this, I can do anything, and I thank the Universe for bringing me to this video and your warm, encouraging energy. 💕 Let’s be our highest selves today and everyday!
I was just talking to my friend how I'm so scarred from my past
Everytime you post the topic and timing is always soo in alignment of what I need at the moment
Love you so much 💖
Thank you for everything 💖😊
This morning I wake up thinking "how am I gonna survive in life? What should I do after my parent died? My business still not where I want it to be" I feel scared and unmotivated. I want to change how I talk to become:
"I am smart, I am more than capable, I have amazing ideas everyday, I am creative, I am introspective, I can ask people, I can google, I can do promotion, influencers, I have so many ideas I can try. I am beautiful inside and out, I have many opportunity"
Thank you Leeor I feel better 🥰 I will do my best today 💪🏻💪🏻
Honestly, Leeor, this video was big synchronicity because my older sister has been critical, demining, and trivialising my success. However, I can acknowledge that she is probably trying in her way to help me, but it really does not feel like it. Also, in the past, I struggled with a lot of negative beliefs and thoughts about myself. So I am truly grateful that you just reaffirmed what I was intuitively thinking anyways. My older sister thinks it is arrogant to think positively about oneself, but the truth is that she does not have the life I desire to have. Even though she is highly educated, her attitude and perspective on life is too negative. Consequently, I have realised why her emotional state/ energy is always just off is because of her view on life and the way she chooses to describe life, which is often negative. To make it short, I realised I just have to tune out my sister and head in the direction I want because of my results. Thank you, I really needed this video and truly appreciate it as well.
Wow, I am sure I am not the only one, but I did get that comment in my 5th grade science class from a teacher about my art and I did let it get to me. I'm so glad that I have people in my life that support my artwork and while I stopped for many years I'm back at it. Love the video, Leeor!
Absolutely needed this. Yesterday i was thinking why is my life not changing. Although I m not living in the past but i truly agree if you don't generate new thoughts and actions , the past reality is gonna repeat itself. Thank you leeor. Your energy feels home to me 🙏❤️
I lovee that you talked about this! I’m always telling myself how i’m terrible with directions & because of that i’d be a terrible driver, i’m now 23 years old & I still don’t have my license but that’s going to change soon 💗 I doubt myself way too much so this message was needed - thank you for bringing this realization🦋
As children we also take on positive thought patterns that aren't ours, too. For me, I have a gift for writing, but I soaked up the idea that I needed to write fiction, as a result of my mother's own unfulfilled potential/desires. But that wasn't the right fit for me. And while I ran headlong in that direction for years, it never really felt right or gained much traction.
Omg I’ve had bells palsy 3 times!!!! I’ve never met anyone who has had it More than once and especially so young
“The world needs your unique gifts, don’t leave with them still inside you” - Yogi tea wisdom
THANK YOU for recording this even though you were on your moon, I was wondering if you were okay. 🥺 The efforts you put into getting these messages to us are very much noticed and so very appreciated! 💜
INCREDIBLE points as always! Watching this over and over again- in combination with reading the book SUPREME Influence: Change Your Life with the Power of the Language You Use by Niurka (highly recommend), and Marisa Peer’s emphasis on the transformative and liberating powers of the “I Am Enough” statement- has allowed for the coalescence of a beautifully empowering picture, this illuminating understanding that we have always been whole, that we have always had the power within us, that the hero is within, and that we are here to create, to change, to transform, and to just BE.
To hear of all the wonderful ways your life improved when you started to change your narrative is so moving and so touching. Just hearing about your self image with bell’s palsy just makes me want to give that Leeor a hug, it moves me to tears because your beauty and light has ALWAYS shined regardless of that. Looking at yourself from a place of unconditional self-love is such a POWERFUL message and one that I’m grateful to be reminded of constantly by your example. You’re right, focusing on the past keeps us from moving forward, like setting sail with your anchor lowered the whole way through, like a stasis to divine flow. But the past is merely something we learn from, the future, fuel and motivation to keep us going, and the present, our experience and experiment with creation. Thank you for constantly reminding us that there truly is unlimited possibility and creative power in the present moment. And that we should consciously think about what we’re about to create, because with our words we can speak flowers into existence or weeds. That example with the student is so powerful and relevant. We shouldn’t fault someone for not being great at everything. We should allow them the room and opportunity to discover their UNIQUE gifts, as each of us is a unique spark and creative expression of the divine. We are more than our grades, or looks, or anything else that can be measured externally. We are enough and whole as is. We are creators. And these truths and lessons are worth learning time and time again.
THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO ✨💜
I still watch that “how I talk to myself matters” video. It helps.
I’m so confused as to who would ever thumbs down this video!? This was amazing and exactly what I needed many others needed to hear! Thank you!❤️
I know you’re on your moon but your energy in this video is so soothing 🤍
Here is to putting our faith into our future selves rather than our past selves 🤍🌸🌞 So well said Leeor!
I love how you tell it straight at 15:25 haha
I love your dedication to your dharma and how you contribute to humanity. Such a beautiful reflection. Thank you💛
Thank you for this 💕 I love this and it felt like this video really spoke to me. I'm an artist since I was a little girl and my aunt used to tell me that I'll never make money as an artist. I believed that for a very long time until recently that I started to paint again and tap into the artist I've always been.
Ooh yes, the title is what I live for! Still learning to talk and treat myself like I do to other people. When I started to become less hard to myself and loving my inner child as I am, my world pretty much shifted for the better. ✨🦉
Speak beautifully with yourself.
I complete all my work on time and with the perfection of a professional, I'm spiritually uplifted, loved by shiva and I'm very intelligent and beautifully designed by the creator.
I Am Amazing Here and NOW
Its Always NOW
I totally agree with this and I am conscious about the power of words and how changing your story will change your life and it also brings you peace with people and bad experiences that will allow you to move forward with confidence
I’m gonna change my life with this :) And I know you will too ✌🏽😎
Great video! Thank you! I am free in every aspect of my life, now. Thank you God and Universe 🙏🏽
I’ve had Bell’s palsy twice, too, and the aftermath of that also bothers me sometimes - I have to remind myself to just be grateful that I’m not completely paralyzed 🤣 Also, you’re gorgeous, woman… just as you are right now. Inside and out. Your light is so radiant! You ARE light. 💖
Love this!! So on point! 🙏🏻❤️
Need this yesss thank you love 💕 💗
I needed this a lot 💗💗
You’re always there for us Leeor, thank you!
Love you leeor
Yeeaaass I've been waiting for this video !💃💃💃💃🤞🏾
Love this ❤️
Needed to hear this today. Thank you so much Leeor! 💜
I definitely needed this video today!! 💜
Great video!
Yay! You uploaded another video I couldn't be more blessed 😍 love yooou
Thank you for this 🌹
I needed this🥺
Thank you Leeor🥰
Thank you Leeor for your videos 🤍🤍 sending so much love to you!!!!
It’s so good to come across such topics when I really wanted to know about it. Exactly what I needed at this moment!
Thank you Leeor!!
woww thank you so much, this video was needed 💕✨
was literally just watching one of your other videos hoping you would post another one soon :)
I really needed this video❤️. Thnks leeor
Thank You so much Sis Leeor ♥
Wow, I needed to hear this! Thank you 💖😊
A few years ago, I used to struggle keeping the house clean. I heard about something like this so I began to tell myself that naturally, I kept the house clean and that I was a clean person. It worked! Still is working! :)
Blessings to you Leeor! Thank you for this video! 💕❤💕❤💕🙏✨
Sending you loveeee!!💕
Super!!!
Stumbled upon your channel and I’m so grateful for your videos 🥰I’m on a much needed /long overdue healing journey , so THANK YOU for such REAL wholesome content.
This video is exactly what I needed to hear, thank you so much Leeor!! ❤️❤️
In my view what we say or think about ourselves first start as an emotion within us that fuels that thought or behaviour. Sometimes all you need to do to stop thinking negatively or talking to yourself in a bad way. Is to notice when you are in that space of talking bad about yourself, and realise that holy crap! Right now I'm feeling something within me that is making me distract myself from it by engaging in this negative thing like analysing how I'm not good enough or w/e! In that moment, take your attention into your core and accept what you are feeling without distracting yourself from it with negative thinking. By accepting and noticing it, you start integrating and healing that aspect of yourself. It's really simple! You can see that emotion within you that is fueling your self-talk as your hurt inner child cause that is usually what it is. And it jsut want's be heard, it doesn't want you to look away anymore by distracting yourself with aspects of your personality like your behaviour, reactions, actions, thoughts and so on. Stop the pattern by not doing anything! Not acting on that emotion anymore but see it for what it is instead, a ´part of you that is hurting and want's to come back to you. If you give space for it and accept it you can become whole again and in that process your self talk improves naturally.
Really needed this today 💞💞💞
You’re so amazing ❤️🥺!!!!
Leeor! Your videos always lift my spirits! Thank you for existing and spreading your light ☺️
Holy shit.. I just only 12 hours ago had an aha moment of realizing the missing piece of being stuck was I kept telling the stories that supported it. (Which I know you always talk about but I still wasn't seeing it.)
So I made the definitive decision to tell new stories. Stories of my true self. The timing on this is impeccable 🎉
I appreciate you Leeor!!💚✨🙏🏽🕊🌊
I really needed this video 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 thank you 😘
Omg!!!Phenomenal video 💓 Thank you for this!
Going to watch this very soon. Looks amazing. Great topic. Thank you, Leeor!
Love this video and love you Leeor❤️
This makes so much sense. Sister, preach! ❤️❤️❤️
Yes yes yes new upload thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu ahhhh. I'm CALM🥺
Thank youu soo much Leeor 💓💓💓
Thank you so much leeor.
I’m thankful for the fact you’re in my life 🙌 thank you! ❤️
The video I really needed. Thank you Leeor ! 🌟🙏💛💕 I’m going to change my life with this ..😉🌞💕🌻
You always make me feel better, thank you!
Love these videos, they always put me in a better mindset.💙
Love Leeors videos! So immediately effective and packed with so much value and power. Blessings from one queen to another❤️⭐️👸🏼
Thank you Leeor, you always post on the right time 🙏 bless you gorgeous
Thank you Leeor! so much love from Argentina ❤️
very great video!!! :D thank-you for the good energy! :D