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"When you're ugly and someone loves you, you know they love you for who you are. Beautiful people never know who to trust."
-Drax the Destroyer
I'm glad you found someone my friend
True
@@loveinautumn3978 draxx
I felt this.
@@aryanamrute6500 I swear I thought he was quoting Drax too, towards mantis🤣. But seriously tho, I wholeheartedly believe this
Drax!!
Me: 2020 is a shitty year
Never give up: Got a girlfriend and he's doing ok
Me: Perhaps i treated you too harshly, 2020
Yeah for sure! Life looks better now!
This guy deserves it
lol thanos
This is the kind of comment I need more of
Yeah. Be grateful for what you have bro.
2020 is definitely not as bad as 1942 or whatever. At least we have comforts, food etc.
I was a pretty child, but I didn't handle puberty very well. I was bullied relentlessly in high-school, by everyone. I was regularly told I was ugly, and I'd be tripped up, pushed, punched, have things thrown at me, etc... every single day. I developed such an intense self hatred. Even when I left school and managed to make myself quite attractive, I didn't believe I was and was constantly obsessed that I was ugly and everyone was going to hate me. The anxiety and depression was intense, and I held myself back in everything. I'm now 35, and I realise looking back at old photos in my 20s, that was actually an attractive woman, but how people treated me changed how I perceived myself. I realised that it doesn't actually matter what you look like, it's how people treat you. I was an ugly teenager, but I did not deserve any of the treatment I got. It's disgusting that others will think they can mistreat a person because they don't consider them attractive. Like, why do that? Just be friendly or don't make conversation. No reason to seek them out and torment them.
You’re still young though! I’m sure in a few years you’ll see pictures of you now and realize you were very much still attractive
Your next lesson may be that how people treat you doesn't matter, either (in terms of how you view yourself). Learning to love ourselves -- irrespective of external circumstances -- is an essential part of everyone's journey. ♥
I treat those same people with the energy they give me. It makes me feel so good when I can mirror a gossiper or bully. I’ll just stare them down and talk shit in my friends ear while laughing.
Same! As soon as I hit puberty everything went downhill. I’ve been called ugly numerous times, but it never really hurt me. I’ve always believed everyone is entitled to their own opinions, and if numerous people say that, than it is most likely true. I don’t like to fight the truth and feed into delusion like most people I’ve seen. I like to accept it and I’ve learned to love and live with myself.
Cz most people are ugly, in their heart!
I am seeing this happen. I used to be really pretty (I didn't realize it at the time). People were always nice and courteous to me. I thought that was just how the world was. Now in my late 40's, I have chronic illnesses which have taken a toll on me and medications caused weight gain and inability to exercise. Strangers (ex. Store clerks, Drs, etc) are routinely almost aggressively rude to me when I'm being super nice and polite to them. I couldn't figure out why. Last night my husband said, "maybe they treat you that way because of your looks?". That's how I found your channel. I do know that my confidence and self esteem are zero and that doesn't help things. Keep your head up. Looks fade, but being a genuinely good person is rare these days and lasts forever.
@@crystalxwolf9487 I don’t think so, I wouldn’t interpret it that way. He was probably referring to how people are rude to heavier people. Doesn’t mean he isn’t attracted to her
I dont know what illnesses you have but the only thing that would cure anything is walking (as an exercise)
@@anahitaazadeh3449 he was just being honest, people aren't always nice
your husband just called you ugly
@@crystalxwolf9487 u just proved the point of the guy in the video, that people seek only body attractiveness. good job and sad life you have
"No one is born ugly, we’re just born in a judgmental society" - Kim Namjoon ( RM )
u copied rosexxi lol
Sad snake baking sand cake who tf is the great leader lmfao
Juan_macroso oh i never saw the comment lol sorry 😅
@@veezavm ah i zee
@@veezavm Juan_macroso
Juan_macroso
5 hours ago
You think you're ugly... thats because u didnt meet me yet
Y'all ain't even talking about his new mic😔
bitch this-ok 💀🤷🏽♀️
Ikr
😂😂😂
Looking for this comment right after i clicked on the vid😂
Jajjaja
Hey man, I came across your content recently, and I just wanna say you're a real inspiration!
As someone going through problems with anxiety/depression and really struggling with how with how I see myself visually (and sometimes personality wise) seeing you being open about these things and also seeing you make content and doing things that make you happy gives me hope.
I hope you're doing okay these days and if you ever see this comment, I just want you to know you've made a positive impact on my life.
Peace ✌
This guy is a true motivational speaker, man! Absolute respect. Thank you for bringing comfort and a will to push on for so many!
You're kyutt
This guys English has improved and nobody talkin about it
No.
It always has been good.
Always has been
ABCD they said it improved
ABCD u right
groomhot gok u right
He doesn’t deserve to feel this way about himself. He’s seems so nice and wholesome. He needs a hug man ;(
True, but i’am 98% sure that all of you commenting nice things about him, would never have told him that or anything if he was going to your school or something. Trust me, when people get a chance to be nice, they don’t, they stay for themself and their friends. But when they see something online, then they fast wants to become a hero and their friends.
@@akaashaars1832 yes, because it's easier and you don't have to back things up
@@chubbymike3372 And you are always chasing easier?
@@user-dw6uk9kz9q I don't get what you are saying?
@@akaashaars1832 You're right - the vast majority of the time, when people sense social weakness, especially teenagers in high school - you're screwed. If he was just some shy, lonely dude at a school, people would say he was weird but when he uploads a CZcams video that goes viral thanks to the algorithm, people are more than willing to get their likes.
You touched my heart in both of your videos man. Thank you for sharing
I love these videos please do more, its just so nice to see somebody actually able to talk about this stuff thank you so much for being alive
Gonna say it, he has a really smooth, calming and attractive voice.
He should start a ASMR channel.
His voice really improved from that "ugly" video.
Red Pirate MC He improved in general!Where he is filming makes it look like he cares more about creating a nice environment for himself, his clothes look neat and like he invested some though on putting himself together in the morning, the hair suits him better as it doesn't look like an accident anymore plus the voice as you guys noticed and I am sure the voice could even end up sounding WAY more attractive if he starts to gain more confidence and speak in a more affirming manner.
He caims surgery is the only way of fixing your facial appearance but really keeps dismissing the impact that is in your own power! He now looks a lot more attractive than in that first video that's just factual
🧢
yesss
Is nobody gonna talk about the mic upgrade 😀
😂 on first vid his mic was broken he said. I remember. He's so funny. Cool
And the English speaking upgrade, this guy is a king 👑
Now he can be a rapper.
Yea I can hear him now:)
That was literally the first thing i noticed and thought about haha
You are incredably smart its inspiring. Definitely giving the vibe of not giving up. Simply a warrior! And i love the hair.
I am so glad to see this update. You come across better and your English has improved. And you have found somebody that you can relate to. So there are some positive things. Cool! The most important thing is being at peace. We make it hard on ourselves. Sometimes we can be so stupid like a cow.
This guy is so chill and wholesome, who wouldn’t want to be friends with him
U litteraly have Osama bin Laden as your profile pic
Maxim Ciobanu 🤣🤣
Maxim Ciobanu who’s osama bin laden
Maxim Ciobanu sounds like a nice guy
People who care about looks I think.
this guy has improved his broken microphone into a studio microphone and nobody talking about it
200th like
The blue yeti isn't exactly a studio mic but it's better than what he had for sure
Azu ;-; oh yeah he had that broken one he tucked into his shirt XD i forgot
@@fisherman5996 noice
And his english is good now but nobody talk about this
You deserve so much! !It's happy to hear that you've found someone genuine.
Bro I wanna give this dude a warm nice hug :( He deserves to much better. He is human like everyone else. Nobody is perfect and appearences aren't important. You deserve love and respect man
It’s awful how even his family didn’t support and help him
I wanna like but 666 likes
@LIL SZL I liked it because I’m no devil supporter (:
@@sillyrabbit6318 BRUHHH U RUINED IT
Gotta be 690 then
@LIL SZL U got some cheese that I can eat?
I understand some of you are trying to be supportive by saying “I don’t think he’s ugly” or “looks are subjective”, and I recognize your good intentions, but if I were this guy and I read those comments it would frustrate me because you’re missing the point.
He’s not uploading these videos as a cry for help or to receive validation. He’s putting this content out to create a sense of community for people to who might be able to relate to him, and to dismiss his problems so trivially shows you don’t truly understand where he’s coming from, and you’re discounting the years of emotional strife he had to endure.
The unfortunate reality is that he and others like him were, are, and will be treated differently by the large majority because of their appearances. Sure, looks are subjective, and there are a few people who can look past them, but it doesn’t change how society as a whole treats these people nor does it negate the psychological trauma that was already inflicted. He said it himself: he’s with a wonderful person now (and I’m happy for him), but it’s still hard for him to accept compliments from her because he was scarred by his past.
Also, to argue “I don’t think you’re unattractive, you shouldn’t be so hard on yourself” is only reinforcing the idea that value is based on appearances.
Again, I think it’s nice how some of you are trying to be supportive by saying nice things, but it’s not helpful because all you’re saying is his problems are not as big of a deal to you as they are to him.
That said, can others do anything to repair society and prevent cases like this entirely? Personally I don’t think so. There will always be some standard of beauty and people who are treated differently because of it.
But to everyone who is struggling with the same problem, just know that you are not alone and to “never give up”. The odds are against you, but with persistence and hard work eventually you will find yourself in a better place.
Umm I get it, I really do. But after the 50th sentence, I stopped reading
@@braedenturner4254 So savage 😂
And let's be real here, a lot of people say good things on the Internet but don't do shit irl
Couldn't have said it any better! This comment is absolutely amazing.
Yes, totally agree
Millions and millions of views brother. What you share is relatable to millions of people. Thank you
Bro you deserve my follow, i can’t explain how much you help me with this type of video
you seem like a cool dude, don't be so hard on yourself.
hey, I'm subscribed to you for your minecraft with ray tracing videos, it's nice to see you here!
I don't think you know him enough to give advice am I right?
@Paddy Mcdoogle never said that
@Paddy Mcdoogle ur so dumb
@Paddy Mcdoogle the truth hits hard buddy
Man you are spreading good energy in the world ... god bless you!
No
true energy
he's a very kind person in general. kinda to humble i think. Great personality is more then a still picture.
You Tube Stfu
You Tube shut up
im so sorry dude. you're so smart and i can tell that you're just an amazing person.
working out not only lowers face fat but also boosts your confidence trust me i felt the same way. my face got slimmer and i didnt care much for girls or being accepted. i just felt great after an intense workout. work on what you can and embrace what you cant.
Great advice
Bruh. The only thing that is ugly in 2020 IS 2020.
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And Seborrheic Dermatitis.
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Even "positive" is a negative word in 2020 lmaoooo
I swear if reincarnation is real, his soul will make him beautiful af
It's real my bro, and you true
He’s gonna be Kim kardashian in his next life 😂
He'll probably become a douche 😂
If reincarnation was real we wouldn't have seen beautiful people with shallow personalities
It is
This guy is not ugly he just didnt have good people around him
Everything has beauty, but not everyone can see it.
Eh I don’t know about that one
Pedophilia
Necrophilia
Bestiality
Murder
Rape
Cannibalism
Maybe you meant everyone instead of everything?
I can see it
Tbh he's not ugly
Not everything has beauty bro. Would you date an ugly girl ?
It's a quote from Confucius...just trying to spread some positivity :)
Funny thing is, I know a guy who looks a lot like him, who became a fashion designer. He wore really outlandish clothes, but exercised a lot and had a lot of neat hobbies and ridiculous confidence and sense of humor. He may not have been the best looking guy, but he invested a lot in himself and cared for himself well and naturally drew people to him.
can you drop his ig or name?
Yeah, sure exercise, fashion and personality can do the trick. Hairstyle too. However, nobody has to do those things If they don't want to.
Exactly. I know a bunch of guys with this kind of face (and honestly I like those kind of faces? Go figure) and taking care of oneself changes everything.
One doesn't have to go there, and people who don't resonate with that absolutely shouldn't, but even people who see beyond your temporary skin bag can be held back if hygiene isn't there. On the other hand, you'll probably along the way find people here and there who really don't mind, cause we're all different like that.
Someone from the try guys look like him,ig ned
@@dianas7429 Nobody is forcing you to do those things? Why so mad?
Congratulations on finding the love of your life. Your dedication, perseverance, and willingness to share your story have inspired many, and I'm so happy to hear that your efforts have paid off in such a meaningful way. I also wanted to send my best wishes for your health. I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with health issues, but I hope that you're receiving the care and support you need to manage them. Please know that you have many people rooting for you and sending positive thoughts your way.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us and for being a source of inspiration to so many. Congratulations again, and all the best for your continued success and well-being.
Youre a gem, a genuine person.
“A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.”
Roald Dahl?
Elisabeth Amelie ye
Man I love Roald Dahl :)
@@hammywhammy9947 Ikr, I love Roald Dahl too
too bad thats bullshit lol
"You don't even view yourself, it's other people that view you."
*thats deep bro*
What he missed is other people view you how you view yourself, so how you feel will make people view you differently. If you feel depressed and ugly and weird, people will treat you as such. I literally said the same shit about myself in highschool. People thought I was the weird kid who no one will love... then I dropped acid, realized everyone has their own beauty standards and that no matter what, me (and this guy too) are a 10 on someone's scale. So next year i showed up in a choker, crop top, short shorts and thigh highs with platform boots. Never have i gotten so many genuine compliments from women (and men). Now if a (3/10) 17 year old male wearing women's clothing and *still* getting compliments isnt literal proof that its all about how you see yourself, i dont know what is
@@rodrickheffley8032 so initially the more the confidence you, the more you'll receive respect
@@rodrickheffley8032 Not giving a crap does not solve it. Good that it worked for you but don't assume that it will work for everyone.
@Ebestech 2.0 ok, maybe I'm *really* harsh about my looks, but still
That’s deep bro
This is so wholesome, everyones capable of a huge glowup. We just need to keep working towards it
I was told I was beautiful for as long as I can remember, but I was also treated like I am stupid, and garbage and purposeless more times than I can count.
I spent years being used for gratification, finally I had to come to a place where I would rather be happy with myself than unhappy with others that don't value me.
These are the thoughts I have when I watch your videos because I think your so genuine and real that I don't see any ugly. An ugly person is how they treat other people and what they will allow other people to be treated .
I know you probably get so many comments you won't read this but I hope you do.
This man is still playing on veteran mode and crushing it. Meanwhile others are quitting whilst playing on recruit difficulty
Shakur Variawa Birdman x)
@@raidenskywalker7143 lmao yeah.
sometimes he goes overboard though but i think it's just for the meme
Those playing on nightmare mode though...
@@xenomorphlover or Akumu
When I say true I really mean
When I speak I dont talk
There’s a quote that goes kinda like: “It’s a shame that humans equate beauty with goodness”
It’s a subconscious thing. It is a shame, however it isn’t as if people are choosing to consciously do this.
I agree with Markos. It has something to do with unconcious deffensive mechanisms but I can't provide arguments right now. I'm sure I've read about this topic somewhere tho.
sllaveq its called the halo effect. Its well known in psychology
It should go - “It’s a shame that humans equate beauty with goodness across other humans” beauty is inherently righteous, anything unsightly or hideous is of dark origin, that’s why we try to look good, and make ourselves presentable in a worthy fashion via clothes, hair, fragrance. But I’m not arguing that principle applies to the some of us that aren’t handsome, that ridiculing someone for their looks is right, I’m arguing the opposite. I’m in complete agreements with the notion of the quote, Just pointing out a flaw in that quote, it’s missing the part that beauty and goodness work with each other in most of reality’s design, but not in regard to one’s looks. Why are we attracted to a shiny red apple? Because it’s delicious and worthy, unfortunately we have the same mechanisms for rendering each other when really the beauty lingers somewhere else than in looks.
@@xXPretzelsMeowXx well said dude, well said
Great courage you had to do this. Believe in yourself, there are so many ways you can outstand from others and beauty is not the only one.
ur the guy that the world needs !! keep up the good videos!!!!!!
Unpopular opinion: I like his long hair. Looks better on him than on most people 🤷🏽♀️
Guys with long hair >>
I agree!
Yes unpopular is right
Ikr? I don't get why so many people are against dudes with long hair, I honestly think it's really cool
I think your likes would disagree with the ‘unpopular opinion’ part....you are 100% correct it is not opinion it is *facts*
"If our eyes could see the soul, our definition of beauty would change"
Also we would hate alot of people
If that were the case then I’m fucked. Or I have some form of impostor syndrome
Sure it would .. it would be even worse as most people are assholes
I agree .
not really
This man acts so much nicer than 90% of the world.
I also have a breathing problem, and don’t even know if it’s heavy breathing. I just have to keep breathing so heavily to get over this wall, hard to explain.
But you are honestly one of the nicest people I’ve ever seen on the internet, no joke. There’s people who get plastic surgery for being bullied about facial features at school, in public, or anywhere else. I’m very glad you speak up about it. Even if I, or others, may look ugly, we all are more understanding of it. Many people don’t, and shouldn’t cry about being ugly. Not even if anyone calls you ugly, because that makes them uglier for who they’re being. There’s kids at my school who all act pretty gangster-like, and that’s a very big reason of why I stay away from kids at school. Of why I’m the “quiet kid”. So I don’t become ugly on the inside like them. I have trichotillomania, and I’ve had it since I was 5 or 6, and people call me out over it. “Where’s your eyelashes?” “What happened to your eyebrows?” “What’s that red bump on your eyelid?” I hate when people are so curious over that. They blurt out the worst things that get you thinking about life over and over again. I stay up late at night, even if I have the choice to sleep. Mostly because I love to paint or do art, and I do nothing with my life. That causes me to have eye bags, so I look like some depressed kid. I don’t have insomnia, sleeping disorders, sleep paralysis’s, nothing. I just DON’T sleep. And all of that makes me look ugly, but I don’t cry about it.
So all of that is something going on right now, but I’m glad you can say your word on it. Thank you!
Edit: and you are NOT ugly at all. in fact, you look amazing!
He has so much wisdom. He helps me accept myself.
This dude is trying to single-handedly save 2020.
and it's working..
Lmaooooooooooo y e s
no he's not, he's blackpilling people and that helps nobody
He will cure Coronavirus and take us to mars. God speed
do more metallica reactions bruh lol
I admire this man. He is very genuine
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Agreed
and who's hachiman exaxtly?
Yeah he's very thoughtful and sweet
I have felt like I'm a outcast most of my life. feeling like I am unworthy of happiness has been a daily battle. all we can do is keep battling until hopefully some day our perseverance is rewarded with a happily ever after. I'm just a beast waiting for my bella. keep your head up.
You represent the toughness and overcomingness of the good strong side of humankind, and when i see some true vulnerability expressed like you done in your 18 and 20 video, i feel i kind of still have reasons to admire our mankind, appreciate it, and, just stay strong boy.
I think hooking up is about looks. Relationships are about how you make an other person feel.
Yup, but what to do without a hook?
@@BHBalast $$$
Everybody wants a hook up first
YES
Exactly!
CZcams recommend me the old version yesterday and then recommend me this right now .___.
@@sedgrill953 same
Same
Yep
Same
Wtf is going on??? Same 😂 strange
You make the kind of videos that you want to. The people that sincerely care about you will want that. You look and sound great in this; a lot healthier and maybe even a little happier.❤
Great to see you again mate. I'm loving your long hair! I'm a little over 2 years into growing my hair out also. Take care :)
The chad of all chads has returned
Chad of incels
MORE LIKE GOD CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE
This guy FUCKS.
Gigacope.
How is he a Chad? He ugly AF
Everyone telling him to cut the hair, like he obviously likes it. It takes years to grow your hair that length. There are things he could improve like his dressing, but he seems a average attractiveness. His realistic attitude is actually attractive in my opinion to be honest, he just seems like a guy who was bullied and tormented for his looks and it seems to have messed up his self image which fucking sucks.
@@MrSnake9419 Look at that hair mixed with his face. It would not look better short. He's best to keep it long.
You're right, it's a struggle to have your hair long. It probably took him about a year or more to get to that length, I'm also growing my hair out, I'm at month 4 and people are already telling me to cut it. He looks so much better with long hair, like he has this chill dude vibes, but also somehow baddass metalhead vibes as well. I think he's thought about it and would never cut his hair.
@@elgatocapibara It's really respectable. I really feel like he looks better with long than he would would short, both for personality and aesthetic reasons.
@@Vaporvision ikr? It really adds something to his persona!
@@elgatocapibara yeah same, been growing my since October and top for a year and it takes forever, real dedication, but persevere in 20 months when your hair down to your shoulders they will all be jealous of it.
all ima say is this dude seems very intelligent socially and has such a great sense of self awareness. he knows his worth, his goods and bads. he is considerate and can treat his girl well it seems, but has self respect for when it gets toxic.
i love the way he identifies his mistakes and the potential cause of it all (eg. him taking in his ex was definitely regrettable and he admits to being in a lonely, vulnerable state). it takes a level of confidence and honesty to be able to realise all of these points touched on in these videos.
the determination to get sum pus is respectable, and its quite satisfying that he found someone and seems to be in a healthy relationship rn.
******all in all, chill lad, good human brain, would definitely encourage alcohol abuse with and hang out
The feeling of looking in the mirror and feeling like it’s not enough, mate you aren’t alone. Our looks no matter how “attractive” we are are never enough in our own eyes nor do we feel like it’s enough for someone else.
But that should never stop you. It’s what’s inside that keeps people around. Don’t stop the grind my friend
As an ugly man myself, I would like to say that there are evolutionary reasons why we find certain people attractive and others not. Still single but also the one thing I want to stress is that relationships do not mean happiness, and being alone isn't the same as being lonely.
True. I’ve been in a few relationships and honestly it’s better to be in ur own world. Yes, some ppl can be better when they get in a relationship but for some ppl it’s better to be alone.
Damn
@@Name-tn1zg I don't know if it's better to be alone than in a relationship, but I think that if you are an unhappy, incomplete person when you are by yourself, then being with someone else will at most be like sticking a bandaid on a deep wound. It might stop the bleeding but there's damage that needs to be fixed deep beneath the surface
I suggest doing a bit more research on what ppl have considered beautiful in different societies throughout history-you'll see although there is some evolutionary involvement, sooooooo much of beauty standards are man-made. And it has reached a dangerous and unhealthy extent now as beauty standards have become so narrow but spread all around the world. I look at today's beauty standards less as having to do with evolution and more like a man-made pandemic of insecurity. Studies of newer generations show more body dysmorphia, including of the face, bc constantly looking at social media has led us to look at a normal or average, un-photoshopped faces, even on a fairly attractive person, and see it as monstrous or mutated.
@@anonymouse7773
The beauty standards of women are indeed sway by men, so are the beauty standards of men are sway by women. Humans do like face symmetry and all that.
The long hair really suites him ngl
Totally does!!!
Especially if he ties it up into a bun
I think he would look good with a mustache
He needs to hit the gym.
@@jones9309 fuck off
Det som berör mig mest är att de närmast dig, familj och vänner, har kallat dig "ful" genom åren. Det är verkligen inte ok, jag förstår inte det beteendet. När man lär känna någon på djupet "försvinner" utsidan. Hoppas du träffar ditt crew en dag och att du finner dig själv och ditt sammanhang och lämnar all den här skiten bakom dig.
Bro I really don't want you to talk about things that bring you down I wanna hear good stuff from you im glad your life is changing and I hope it gets even better
Being ugly doesn't take anything away from your personality bro. The type of people you want around you will recognize that ❤
2 things that 2020 blessed us with:
1. Cave update
2. This guy
Lmao this guy😅🤣-Agree🍃😊
What cave? OwO
Maxinne Roseño Minecraft
@@scherebeatle 😹 brilliant
@@sychomadman your apartement or house
Nah being born good looking doesn’t automatically mean you have confidence, trust me, confidence comes after you learn self-love
Fuckin amen ‼️
true, the most confident people ik irl are actually kinda ugly or not very attractive.
Confidence comes from validation from other people you don’t just press a button and become confident so being good looking gives you validation = confident stop being delusional
Ozymandias if you seek validation from others then you have something majorly wrong within yourself, self love above all else will lead you in a happier path in life. But if you feel the need to seek validation from others then you do you
This!!!
I am a 6-foot-4 male who is "conventionally attractive". But i don't feel super confident. I am single and am actually jealous of this CZcamsr because he has a partner! Lol
The grass isn't greener on the other side. There is always someone out there jealous of you.
Incel Culture is really toxic and glorifies Chads, like we have it made. And, yes, people are "nicer" to you when you are hotter...but it's all fake. It's kinda gross how you can tell people are only being friendly with you because they like how you look. It's a superficial friendship feeling and not genuine. Or not a nice feeling that most people wouldn't hang out with you for your personality haha
from your 2018 video, your looking better now. I can see it. Your looks have improved
thank you for sharing with us, i enjoy your lovely, calm, motivating speech
Being ugly and resisting simping is incredibly admirable
its sad that people find that admirable
never simp!
GuapStunnaVry why though? I think anything going against any negative stereotype is admirable. And this is one of them.
aka Incels
Qwerty093 who stereotypes ugly men with simps? did simp lose its meaning already
A lot of guys in Arkansas look like him and they all have kids and baby mamas. Just come to america bro.
Just walk bro
@@mainao3443 just walk bro
@@mainao3443 just walk bro
Shut up roastie
Rick Sanchez just walk bro
you should make podcast brother. your sound is easy listening , your perspective about something is straight to the fact, no bullshit like the others. i'm curious what's thought about another topic because yeah...
You sound so much more confident and happy now. Im so happy for you
me: why is this on my recommended?
also me: *looks into mirror*
Awh dont worry, youre a beautyfull girl
@@pietpaulisma491 😂
@@pietpaulisma491 You talking to a guy
That's crazy bro
Alex T i was laughing then i saw your comment...
I love this comment section, it’s just positive energy and wholesomeness
@The One it's from noragami
@The One it’s yato! 😄
IKR I LOVE IT!
Opposite of reddit
@@v0idcaster my phone is black and blue and white themed Bc with iOS 14 u can have photowidgets so they’re all black and blue and my main wall paper is a pic of yato and it looks so cool
Oh there is so much progres from the first video great work, never give up!
You channel inspired me man I feel shitty sometimes but the only thing keeping me sane is making music
I feel like a biography written by this guy would easily become a best seller.
@Yeet Job eat shit
That yeet dude they're talking about was being an asshole and his account got taken down
@Yeet Jobeat shit
@Yeet Job eat shit
@Yeet Job eat shit
Wait... His family told him he is ugly??? Now I understand why this issue harmed him so much. Parents should never tell their sons or daughters that they are ugly (even if they may think so). That only damages the child's self-steem. They do no favor to him. A mother that loves her child would never call him ugly.
@@dragond1537 I'm sorry for you, then. I hope that life is treating you well enough to get going
My mom has called me "ugly" and she told me "that is why people are staring at you". Don't get me wrong, I love my mother, may be she was angry when she told that.
@@deadlifts_steaks. Oh...
I think that realizing that you are ugly should happen but maybe when you are older and can understand it better
@@TheSirgo23 But uglyness is subjective... It's just that people are called ugly when they do not fit in the canonical standards of aesthetics
You are a big inspiration
Glad to see you didn’t give up my guy. 🤙🏽
I honestly dont find him to be ugly, im not sugarcoating or saying it to be nice, i genuinely dont think he is ugly or undateable
He is, today's women are very picky thanks to social media and dating apps, they pretty much only date the top 20% of men. Besides, dudes don't know how to rate other dudes.
multirampage1 It’s like gay people don’t exists
@@Champ0222 The majority of dudes aren't gay.
multirampage1 There’s enough bi and gay people to not assume a man’s sexuality or erase the existence of non straight men (I don’t mean to be dramatic about it)
@@Champ0222 "There’s enough bi and gay people to not assume a man’s sexuality"
No, there aren't. Non straight people are around 3% of the population.
Source: www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhis/sexual_orientation/ASI_2018_STWebsite_Tables-508.pdf
I was in a catastrophic accident when I was a sophomore in high school and broke my neck in two places and became a quadriplegic instantly. In literally one second I became someone who got “special attention and treatment” in school and kids began to bully and harass me when I finally came back full time. These kids would have never messed with me before because I was 6’ and 190lbs since I was 12 and I lifted weights and did judo but now all bets were off. This wore down my self esteem and I’ve spent most of my adult life trying to have a normal relationship. You are an inspiration buddy and if you ever need to chat I’m here for you
It's all backwards ! You have had a terrible life experience and may doubt about love because it's not just about holding hands. Have you watched the movie Intouchables (it's subtitled) ? It's inspired by a true story and yes the quadriplegic is rich but the friendship story is real. So are his kids, his wife (not in the movie). A feel-good story about a tetra. Not a wallow in self-pity about a perfecly ordinary guy.
You Dear Sir are very wise and
good person, we must count our
blessings God Almighty gives us,
and be thankful with all our hearts
I'm really sad about your story, I hope you are fine now
Chris you’re an amazing and strong soul.
you gotta think of it this way since you have been through that it proves you can do anything, nothing will be harder than what you have already been through.
Hey Bro, glad to see that you are still hanging in there. Don't give up and don't be so hard on yourself. One of my best friends in high school wasn't exactly a GQ model, in fact he considered himself pretty homely. That being said, he was a hell of a nice guy, very intelligent and thoughtful. Because of his wonderful soul, he attracted just as many girls as I ever did, and the ones that he did attract, were more sweet and sincere than most of the girls I ended up with. The good ones will see you for who you are, and not what you look like. Just keep being yourself, and all will be well. By the way, you ain't so bad lookin' dude. You ought to see me on a bad hair and face day. Yikes!
Do looks matter? Yes. Should they matter? No.
Unfortunately in this crappy world, people will treat you based on your looks, nearly nobody cares about what's inside because they only care about the outside. When you're ugly you will see the real side of people and how cruel they can be, specially those who ''seem nice''. When you're good-looking everybody will treat you really well and with so much respect. Now having money changes everything, being good-looking or ugly does not matter, everybody will treat you well because they are gold digging, not because they wanna be friends with you. Don't trust anybody, these people suck.
People are hypocrites, as a good looking guy I can confirm. I don’t know if when I do good things I’m actually applauded for doing them or because I’m just good looking, it’s all fake.
They shouldn't matter but they always do, to everyone looks matter. I'm sure that applies to you and me as well. Of course the inside is most important, but looks will always influence things.
Unfortunately, it's how we humans are, looks have always mattered. Maybe that could change but i don't see it happening in the near future.
true
I’m sick of the society.
You can’t really blame society. It just the way humans are built and wired biologically. Maybe even blame god for making humans so flawed.
Boys, we live in a society 😢🤷♂️🤷🏼🤷🏾♀️
Ye
we live in a society
@Xin G there's a story in the Bible that had God eliminate all humans for being so corrupted.
“Being ugly: update”
*recommended for you*
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Just copying the old comment that got 78k likes. Not funny, didnt laugh.
@@yehojo Facts
Thank you for sharing! Being ugly or good looking is a human construct, mental construct. A cat or doggie doesn't differentiate which person is more good looking and who is not. The human babies do not. They are connected to their innate nature-- love, joy, peace, wisdom. Just like race-- "white", "black", etc. This is a human construct. There's only one human race. Many of us are still working on ending racism. And we still can't forget that we are all one human race, even if some people started discriminating groups of people, linking with capitalism, colonialism, patriarchy. Every person is beautiful. Just like every tree, every flower, every blade of grass is beautiful. The kitty, doggie, baby, like many people, feel the energy of the person, the beautiful spirit of the person. Many 'good looking' person's ego gets inflated due to the attention. Many actors, actresses, models are not living the great life as some people think here.
Our work is to focus on not buying into this crap. "If you don't shape your world, the world will shape you." This is about focusing on one's health-- emotional, mental, spiritual, physical, developing independent thinking, critical thinking. Each of us is responsible for changing the culture-- to a world based in love, peace, joy, wisdom, free of bias and ignorance. I find the sharing and work of Thich Nhat Hanh and Plum Village, Deepak Chopra transformative. Sending love and blessing to everyone! 🥰
Your hair looks awesome 🎉 you did a great job growing it out
he said bad posture and i immediately sat up straight
2:17 I laughed so hard my ribs hurt
Same lol
@@scottiemccarthy896 hahahahaha uhhh no
me too !!!! every time I hear the word "posture" I sit up straight.. I always forget about it
Now it's 3 weeks later.. SIT RIGHT POSTURE POSTURE!!
Sense of humor, genuine personality, and self confidence are the MOST IMPORTANT things!
If a girl only cares about your looks, she's not worth your time.
If a girl wants a real, genuine relationship, she will only care about your heart & the way you treat her!
Also.. I know you're insecure about your "big" lips, but that's not a bad thing! I'm pretty sure most of the world loves big lips in 2020 lol
Jo Ch. my guy doesn’t even have big lips
I have big lips myself especially on camera. It sucks. But hey girls love it 😂😂
@@rio7323 he is insecure because his lower lip is bigger than his upper lip
@@honeymoonontop I thought that's how big lips usually look? That's how mine look
His lips look pretty normal. Better than no lips at all 👍🏻
its good to see you back bro i hope you dont ever call yourself ugly again because your not ugly your beautiful just how you are and i mean it.
i learn that expecting something from other human will always result in dissappointment. its not always about hoping someone to call me pretty, sometimes its about priority with friends, sometimes its just what it is. i have anxiety since im in childhood. and now i working as an artist. (i never into romantic things so i have no pointview in dating since im pretty aromantic) things that destroyed me so much is expectation from other people.
so i changed pointview since that. good thing is i have a very nice religion that set my goal and thats life is only temporary. so im not focused on finding validation from people for me and for my artwork. i life more peaceful and happy since that :)
i came here because i see your previous video. youre not ugly, you're just you. and i think you have a nice personality, and good speaking on explaining something (which a positive point i didnt have). if you're keep being nice and keep being who you are. it is enough.
stay healthy guys!
you’re not ugly, society is my man.
We are the society
They judge us even though we did nothing wrong.......
He actually isn't ugly! At least to me, and I'm a female. Obviously, he isn't conventionally attractive but he looks just fine!
We live in a society!
Ur not getting the point if u say he's not ugly
Imagine me, scrolling through youtube and seeing this video of a guy who looks very similar to me titled "Being ugly"
bruh moment
You need a haircut
he's not ugly lmao
RobbenUlaynov facts
you're probably not ugly, this man just needs a haircut tho and some confidence CUZ HE AIN'T UGLY
For someone who's been called ugly even by his own mother (Whom i love to bits and won't trade for no other), i can guarantee you that you've not been alone on that journey. Strangely enough, the one thing I wouldn't change about myself even if i had the means would be my face.
i’m so sorry to hear that your mom would say something like that…you’re very strong tho keep ur crown up king❤️
king
or queen
You’ve come a long way mate, look forward to your next videos. The internet has your back
I actually like the hair. Long hair only looks bad on a guy if he doesn’t take care of it. But thats my opinion
Keep that opinion for yourself. No one asked for it.
@@lilna7444 This entire comment section is people's opinions.
@some random guy well, bad guess.
Sonia Koehler “A fine head of hair adds beauty to a good face, and terror to an ugly one.”
@@lilna7444 well, bad answer
U should do a podcast, your voice is really soothing.
Whats wrong with videos?
@@tiarafarina or he is not his type
@@aggressivebeaver dude what
@@aggressivebeaver Are you slow?
@@aggressivebeaver are you OK? podcasts are video blogs this is a video blog a podcast is just making a professional use of the video blogs.
The mewing do change your face I mean, really, I'm 23 and mewing helped me a lot, now I have squared face
thanks for existing... and posting this vedio