it's so sad that in the past when I was in grade school, autism wasn't well known.. And we probably knew kids with autism and had meltdowns, but adults saw them as just being a brat and severely punishing them, which makes everything worse..
Well this is why Autism gets such a terrible reputation. Autistic people behave badly and they get away with it, which they shouldn't. A normal person would be punished if their behaviour was appalling. Autistic people should never be treated differently like that. If their behaviour is unacceptable, correct them and make them realise that.
Its like i have another person inside me that wants to be heard and let out and embarrass me in front of people. Like i know i can function and understand stuff, while my head is always like yellowstone, letting off bits of steam and waiting for its moment to ruin everyones day.
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My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
I've always said it's like having a calm and angry person inside and the calm person is you but the angry person has the meltdowns and anger and irritation but the calm person sits passenger and just watched when the angry person comes out...but they're both me...just feel like I'm dissociating from myself while watching what I'm doing
As an autistic myself when meltdowns happen I suddenly feel the rage and urge to hit walls, break objects, call people names or even worse hitting them. After that I regret what I’ve done and try to clear the air with people involved.
I have borderline personality disorder and thats EXACTLY how it feels for me. I'm sorry you go through it too. Its horrible and ruins my life and relationships. I hope you can get it under control with some good therapy and hard work. Mine gets better and better every day. My bf has autism and we relate so much to one another. He blames himself for everything and I do too. It works out well. We end up working things out very well when we have challenges because we can relate so much.
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Well, i don't mind if an autistic is hitting walls or destroying things as long as they're not mine. But i will never ever accept the "hitting and hurting others thing", i would let them taste their own medicine ...
I have mild autism I have autism meltdowns well I will come really angry and let my anger get the best of me. I become so outraged overwhelmed anger well I scare and terrify others. I like being around others who have autism because we can relate to each other and understand each other and what we go through life challenges.
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I can relate to you so much. People often say to me 'you look timid you couldn't hurt a fly'. Yet when I get meltdown rage, I am uncontrollable expressing seemingly unfitting strength! When I snap, I REALLY snap!
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
I really hate it. People who see me as calm and collected have never seen me have a meltdown. I can feel them coming on, but there's not always a quiet room for me to ease the tension.
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I get those meltdowns too, except I don’t hit walls or destroy objects. However I get hit by waves of negative self talk and it’s been bothering me whenever these moments arrive
My meltdowns range from running hurting myself and others to just not doing work or saying different words but cuz I dotn have a diagnosis yet the skl cant put anything in place to help
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Many severe meltdowns are rooted in undiagnosed, undetected medical etiologies, such as toothache, earache, headache, stomach pain, gas, constipation, sub-clinical seizures or/and a cold, sinus infection or other illness they can't communicate is causing them to have sudden, acute, off baseline behaviors. Imagine being in pain or feeling ill and all people think is, "it's just their autism," when really it's a medical issue causing the behaviors. Case in point, our son woke up at around 3am smashing his fists into his head and screaming when he had a great day and was sleeping well. We noticed he was gassy, and hitting his stomach and head. We gave Gas-X FAST MELT when we could about 14 minutes after trying to re-direct him from punching himself (since it's not easy to get any treatment PRN down, right when a person is screaming and hitting themselves). These situations are very challenging and it's an invisible world of autism that few people understand.
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Definitely agree. I am an engineer and have aspergers. Just experienced a meltdown few minutes ago out of rage. And as for today , I had pain in my tooth and have a cold. Even high IQ high functional autistics have these meltdowns. It is involuntary
I have a meltdown and cry and yell into my bag, my partner says I scare him and ruined the day. He has a lashing out and kicks the coffee table, he justifies it and says its normal and should be allowed. My life is hell right now.
My adult daughter is extremely abusive and violent she calls names and manipulates willfully. She will not stop and I cannot control her how much is autism? How much is just being mean spirited? How much is manipulation? I find it impossible to sort it out and time is ticking I'm an older heart patient I am scared of her when she comes over I hide all the knives and anything else that can be used for self-harm or harm of others it is a horrifying experience and there is no end in sight seemingly
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Ma’am you need to either call the police or call a mental facility for help if your safety is in danger, this is not autism this is people having aspd traits and possibly having aspd.
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I would just like to remind people that not all Autistic people have meltdowns. I’m a high functioning autistic person and I have never had a meltdown before in my life. I didn’t even throw tantrums as a kid.
For me, while I have them, I've somehow never had them in public. Not in front of friends or strangers, only family. I've had one while I was on a call with friends once but they wouldn't have seen it obviously and I walked away from my microphone. This has always made me feel like I'm just making it up, sort of like impostor syndrome, but I still get them since I've moved out and live on my own. I scream and kick and hit mostly myself and then I am so exhausted I lie on my bed for up to an hour. Objectively, I can't say it makes any sense I'd be doing it voluntarily, but I still always think to myself 'why did I do that? Stop doing that' but it just always happens. However, I believe I have sort of shutdowns when in public, where I stand completely still not saying anything for a long period of time after being overwhelmed, so maybe it is a rechanneling of sorts?
Keep in mind, not all meltdowns look like this! I don't have many meltdowns, but when I do other people often assume I'm just losing my temper. I'm usually not physically disruptive at all (sometimes I am, but usually only whem I'm alone), but I become extremely verbally aggressive and may start crying and rasing my voice. Sometimes I can even internalize it to the point no one around me knows it's happening.
2 of my nieces and brother have autism the hardest part of these melt downs are the ppl that dnt understand what's going on. I had once had a guy tell my brother to shut up while my mom was waiting in line with him to pay for her groceries. Bastard so lucky I wasn't there !!!
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My autism gave my parents untold grief and ambiguous loss knowing I had no direction and would amount to little. No education, career or partner/children. Would have been better if I hadn’t been born.
Yeah, I question that behavior from her as well because most autistic people dont like to be touched but if they have a good relationship and he trusts her, then he might not see it as a bad thing and understands that her gesture to touch him is coming from a good place although I dont like the way she states that his actions are violent. It's very overdramatic...unless she has seen him become physically violent.
I have ADHD but not autism but I get bad meltdowns with screaming and that relieves the discomfort and then I am back to my baseline. I used to think they were anxiety attacks but the more I hear about meltdowns that is exactly how I would describe it.
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I can see when you are younger to have meltdowns, but when you get older, still having meltdowns as an adult they should have be taught coping skills don’t use autism as an excuse don’t always underestimate them
Well, some people go through many years without an autism diagnosis. They don't know they have autism, and they struggle to regulate because nobody really provided them the support they needed as they got older. Some of them may have gotten support, but not the proper support to learn how to cope in their older age. Everyone's stuation is different.
Meltdowns are not tantrums. We literally cannot control them, it's our natural response to feeling overwhelmed. "Coping mechanisms" often just mean teaching people on the spectrum to internalize it and can make us feel extremely alienated and can take a huge toll on our self esteem. It's important for both the autistic person and their family/friends/teachers to know and understand their triggers so meltdowns can be prevented. I do agree that as autistic people get older, they should start having a better understanding of themself and should take steps in helping prevent meltdowns, but stopping them entirely is impossible.
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Literally just gave myself a contusion and fat lip on accident and that just sounds so dumb and impossible I assume to someone who doesn’t deal with severe meltdowns. But it’s like I have an instinct to just hit myself to gain clarity or regulate myself. It never hurts I assume bc of the amount of adrenaline going through my body.
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I dont know if I have meltdowns or panic attacks. After my dad died unexpectedly... years ago... they became public. It used to be compartmentalized and private distress. Now it is cyclic. I'm fragile afterwards. Sometimes for days. I get soamatic nauseated before and after... sometimes for days. My fear is now that it is going to happen again... in public. I have been able to stiffle how "bad they get" since it doesn't seem to stop happening. Inadquate coping and overflow. Im sick of it. I fear my career is ending because of my inability to cope like an "adult" should. Hoped it was situational r/t grief... but years later still persists. It has impacted my life greatly. I'm mad but try to be kind to myself. It is okay to say "I can't"... well... I'm still working on it. Even when you arrive at being okay... you spend life trying to explain it to others. I keep breaking... I put myself back together. I tell myself and other my limits... they say "nah your fine". I want to appease and or believe I am better now... and I break under the pressure. Cyclic. 🥺 Frustrated with my limitations... but ignoring them only hurts me more. To what end?
My husband’s meltdowns happen anywhere anytime. (In public is the worst.). I walk away. He can’t be reasoned with so there’s never any point. Triggers are stress related. I know it’s coming when he starts racing around, won’t look me in the face, and just keeps saying, “Ok, Ok, Ok” and then it just takes one tiny thing in that moment and he loses it.
You shouldn't be married if your solution to noticing he's going to have a meltdown is to just ignore him and walk away. That is quite literally the worst thing you could possibly do. You seem to have a good understanding of what triggers them, so I would instead recommend helping him avoid those triggers (Some common triggers tend to be a sudden change in plans, loud noises and too many demands placed on them). If you notice he seems like he's going to have one, don't get upset with him. Remember: he can't control it. Talk in a calm manner and ask if he wants to leave whatever the situation may be. Help him find a quiet place away from people where he can release stress on his own. As an adult who's had meltdowns myself, not feeling understood and cared for in these moments often make it worse. Please do better.
I commend you for recognizing when heis triggered and for giving him the space to let the moment pass by giving him space. The other comentor doesnt understand that every autistc person is different and everyone has to find what works for their own situation. You have recognzed what works for you and him and that is good! Yes we also need to show them compassion and patience as well but accept that at the moment of their rage, talking to them might make things worse. Talking to them afterwards is good as long as they are receptive to it and we dont come from a judgemental place. 🙏
My school would lock us in a room is we didn’t do work or had breakdown then they would pick at us like we would listen when we we’re literally crying and breaking down stuffed in a tiny room until we would obey then like actual fucking dogs .. this isn’t how treat any child especially kids with disorders
@Custom BatchServices no u damn well did NOT. A healthy diet is great for your overall health but herbal supplements would NOT fix a nero disorder or a mental illness
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Your herbs has work wonders in my family. Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism spectrum with your herbs. Your herbs is the best. #droyalo
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Your herbs has work wonders in my family. Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism spectrum with your herbs. Your herbs is the best. #droyalo
As an autistic person my anger problems got better with age I used to throw and break shit In my special ed teachers classroom now I kind of just scream and cry and maybe slam doors either way they're not as extreme And I remember even having blackout rage once and not really knowing entirely what happened but I do think people should talk more about the mental health symptoms of ASD
Hey paul is not the only one me too at school sometimes even though im a nice guy i have meltdowns too sometimes and i kinda had one today so im with paul
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Ugh, I have these explosions of rage and hatred towards people or things, but they look nothing like this. Thank god that I am just bipolar or antisocial and not fucking autistic.
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@@TheJoker-nl8lk No but my mom has suspected I do have level 1 or 2 since I was 3 and I went when I was for I met half of it to be diagnosed but they ended up saying I didnt im going in jully this year to be retested by a guy who does testing but he actualy has autism and a son who does and we already have a lot in common which is pretty cool he will also do thearapy with me after my visit
NO, NO, NO! Kids that have these "meltdowns" should NOT be mainsteamed into regular schools! The time the teacher takes to deal witih the meltdown is taking away time from YOUR child's educiation! So the teacher gives ALL of her tme and attention to the meltdown and 25 to 30 OTHER kids are NOT getting their education because of ONE kid? Unfair and Wrong to the other students that can actually LEARN!
I would never be violent in return but autistic people should be disciplined the same way as everyone else. Otherwise they will never be taught that what they're doing is wrong. They could go round being really dangerous people.
@@bunchberry9957 "Let's discipline these extremely different and seriously disabled people the same way as everyone else! I'm sure that'll work perfectly! Oh wow, what a brilliant idea that has totally never been tried before and absolutely hasn't ended in total failure!" Seriously. Why do you think these strategies have been developed? Because the normal strategies didn't work. If the normal strategies worked, there wouldn't need to be different ones. Don't know why you think you're the first special precious little ubermensch to think of that, because you aren't. You aren't special for thinking of that, thousands of people have had that idea before, and just like them you will find out that you can't twist these people's nervous systems to do what you want just because you thought you had a good idea that wasn't actually good at all. Treasuretrails, btw, you're either stupid or a troll, because you know as well as I do that slapping them is only going to make the meltdown worse - seriously, adding more input into an already overwhelmed physical nervous system? - and good luck when the guy with no inhibition or control over his actions starts fighting back! Would be hilarious to see the state of you after that fight.
Clearly you’ve never experienced a person like this to understand you will not win. If you wanna mess with someone who’s brain is igniting 99% of muscles in his or her body, don’t expect them to pay your dental bill after you try to be a hero.
@absinthe___ when people have outbursts and then say they feel like something else is controlling them that is exactly what is happening. Demon possession takes on many forms and in today's age we call it by medical terms that seem to suit our needs instead of what it really is. Satan is a deceiver who comes to steal, kill and destroy and what you see happening in the souls of these people is exactly that.
i have a brother and because he seen my cousin with a iphone 12 he now is begging and calling the whole family mad because he can’t get one he’s 23 with autism and he’s done this before but i’m trying to get my family to be consistent with him with saying no because we literally just got him a iphone XR and if we buy him this one he’s just going to keep begging again and again
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it's so sad that in the past when I was in grade school, autism wasn't well known.. And we probably knew kids with autism and had meltdowns, but adults saw them as just being a brat and severely punishing them, which makes everything worse..
my life
and u even ended up on prison locked into solitary confinement for a years
@STONER HISTORY aw man I'm sorry dude.. we need more awareness of autism
Well this is why Autism gets such a terrible reputation. Autistic people behave badly and they get away with it, which they shouldn't. A normal person would be punished if their behaviour was appalling. Autistic people should never be treated differently like that. If their behaviour is unacceptable, correct them and make them realise that.
@@bunchberry9957 did you even see the video?
Its like i have another person inside me that wants to be heard and let out and embarrass me in front of people. Like i know i can function and understand stuff, while my head is always like yellowstone, letting off bits of steam and waiting for its moment to ruin everyones day.
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@@bolinhong2598fuck off that shit is fake
I've always said it's like having a calm and angry person inside and the calm person is you but the angry person has the meltdowns and anger and irritation but the calm person sits passenger and just watched when the angry person comes out...but they're both me...just feel like I'm dissociating from myself while watching what I'm doing
As an autistic myself when meltdowns happen I suddenly feel the rage and urge to hit walls, break objects, call people names or even worse hitting them. After that I regret what I’ve done and try to clear the air with people involved.
I have borderline personality disorder and thats EXACTLY how it feels for me. I'm sorry you go through it too. Its horrible and ruins my life and relationships. I hope you can get it under control with some good therapy and hard work. Mine gets better and better every day. My bf has autism and we relate so much to one another. He blames himself for everything and I do too. It works out well. We end up working things out very well when we have challenges because we can relate so much.
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@@Sarahizahhsum Arent borderlines the cause and trigger of meltdowns ? I stay away from these kind. For my security as well as theirs.
Well, i don't mind if an autistic is hitting walls or destroying things as long as they're not mine.
But i will never ever accept the "hitting and hurting others thing", i would let them taste their own medicine ...
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This "doctor" is a criminal who only wants one thing, peoples money.
I have mild autism
I have autism meltdowns well I will come really angry and let my anger get the best of me. I become so outraged overwhelmed anger well I scare and terrify others. I like being around others who have autism because we can relate to each other and understand each other and what we go through life challenges.
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I can relate to you so much. People often say to me 'you look timid you couldn't hurt a fly'. Yet when I get meltdown rage, I am uncontrollable expressing seemingly unfitting strength! When I snap, I REALLY snap!
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
I really hate it. People who see me as calm and collected have never seen me have a meltdown. I can feel them coming on, but there's not always a quiet room for me to ease the tension.
I mostly cry during my meltdown, although sometimes i can get really angry
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u liar
I get those meltdowns too, except I don’t hit walls or destroy objects. However I get hit by waves of negative self talk and it’s been bothering me whenever these moments arrive
You are doing really well not to hit or hurt people when frustrated. You should be proud of having this self control.
My meltdowns range from running hurting myself and others to just not doing work or saying different words but cuz I dotn have a diagnosis yet the skl cant put anything in place to help
If I’m in school doing something that has to do with paper I destroy it
2 years late, but my meltdowns consist of screaming, crying, cursing a LOT, and withdrawing completely.
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Your herbs has work wonders in my family.
Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism
spectrum with your herbs. Your herbs is the best. #droyalo
Many severe meltdowns are rooted in undiagnosed, undetected medical etiologies, such as toothache, earache, headache, stomach pain, gas, constipation, sub-clinical seizures or/and a cold, sinus infection or other illness they can't communicate is causing them to have sudden, acute, off baseline behaviors. Imagine being in pain or feeling ill and all people think is, "it's just their autism," when really it's a medical issue causing the behaviors. Case in point, our son woke up at around 3am smashing his fists into his head and screaming when he had a great day and was sleeping well. We noticed he was gassy, and hitting his stomach and head. We gave Gas-X FAST MELT when we could about 14 minutes after trying to re-direct him from punching himself (since it's not easy to get any treatment PRN down, right when a person is screaming and hitting themselves). These situations are very challenging and it's an invisible world of autism that few people understand.
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Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
Definitely agree. I am an engineer and have aspergers. Just experienced a meltdown few minutes ago out of rage. And as for today , I had pain in my tooth and have a cold. Even high IQ high functional autistics have these meltdowns. It is involuntary
I have a meltdown and cry and yell into my bag, my partner says I scare him and ruined the day. He has a lashing out and kicks the coffee table, he justifies it and says its normal and should be allowed. My life is hell right now.
You both have emotional problems yeesh
My adult daughter is extremely abusive and violent she calls names and manipulates willfully. She will not stop and I cannot control her how much is autism? How much is just being mean spirited? How much is manipulation? I find it impossible to sort it out and time is ticking I'm an older heart patient I am scared of her when she comes over I hide all the knives and anything else that can be used for self-harm or harm of others it is a horrifying experience and there is no end in sight seemingly
Bring her to the doctor
please speak with a mental health facility about resources for ur daughter! Ur safety is important
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Ma’am you need to either call the police or call a mental facility for help if your safety is in danger, this is not autism this is people having aspd traits and possibly having aspd.
Or it's *you* who might affect her ways. Who knows, maybe you're a narcissist that's trying to squeeze a bit of sympathy out from the other people
I'm 44 and suffer these type of meltdowns.
I'm 39. Same
@@kutay8421 Basically what I do is just get up and walk away.
yeah , you may hide the crime weapon anytime you like later =)
I have Asperger’s syndrome myself and I had a meltdown like Paul did once but they weren’t many times at school.
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Your herbs has work wonders in my family.
Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism
spectrum with your herbs. Your herbs is the best. #droyalo
I would just like to remind people that not all Autistic people have meltdowns. I’m a high functioning autistic person and I have never had a meltdown before in my life. I didn’t even throw tantrums as a kid.
For me, while I have them, I've somehow never had them in public. Not in front of friends or strangers, only family. I've had one while I was on a call with friends once but they wouldn't have seen it obviously and I walked away from my microphone.
This has always made me feel like I'm just making it up, sort of like impostor syndrome, but I still get them since I've moved out and live on my own. I scream and kick and hit mostly myself and then I am so exhausted I lie on my bed for up to an hour. Objectively, I can't say it makes any sense I'd be doing it voluntarily, but I still always think to myself 'why did I do that? Stop doing that' but it just always happens.
However, I believe I have sort of shutdowns when in public, where I stand completely still not saying anything for a long period of time after being overwhelmed, so maybe it is a rechanneling of sorts?
Keep in mind, not all meltdowns look like this! I don't have many meltdowns, but when I do other people often assume I'm just losing my temper. I'm usually not physically disruptive at all (sometimes I am, but usually only whem I'm alone), but I become extremely verbally aggressive and may start crying and rasing my voice. Sometimes I can even internalize it to the point no one around me knows it's happening.
Shutdowns enter the chat
Some meltdowns are silent and completely inside of you
2 of my nieces and brother have autism the hardest part of these melt downs are the ppl that dnt understand what's going on. I had once had a guy tell my brother to shut up while my mom was waiting in line with him to pay for her groceries. Bastard so lucky I wasn't there !!!
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@@gracechristopher3133enough already I see you and the other guy on like every comment
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My autism gave my parents untold grief and ambiguous loss knowing I had no direction and would amount to little. No education, career or partner/children. Would have been better if I hadn’t been born.
He looks like Abraham Lincoln from clone high if he was a dirty blonde
*0:00** lmao bro struggled to rip a piece of paper*
When she grabbed both his arms in kind of a friendly, comforting way, would that usually upset them?
Yeah, I question that behavior from her as well because most autistic people dont like to be touched but if they have a good relationship and he trusts her, then he might not see it as a bad thing and understands that her gesture to touch him is coming from a good place although I dont like the way she states that his actions are violent. It's very overdramatic...unless she has seen him become physically violent.
It really depends on the person. Some are calmed by being touched. Others get set off even more.
@@freetobmehis mama that’s why
I struggle a lot with it
Autism is a signalling issue, if you think of the brain like a receiver, basically the volume on emotive/pain signalling is sky high
I experience it as being close to my limit all of the time, I find myself unable to discharge myself emotionally in a moderate manner, I feel anxious
I have ADHD but not autism but I get bad meltdowns with screaming and that relieves the discomfort and then I am back to my baseline. I used to think they were anxiety attacks but the more I hear about meltdowns that is exactly how I would describe it.
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I can see when you are younger to have meltdowns, but when you get older, still having meltdowns as an adult they should have be taught coping skills don’t use autism as an excuse don’t always underestimate them
Well, some people go through many years without an autism diagnosis. They don't know they have autism, and they struggle to regulate because nobody really provided them the support they needed as they got older. Some of them may have gotten support, but not the proper support to learn how to cope in their older age. Everyone's stuation is different.
That doesn’t work with severe autistic adults
@@muddlasvegas This too. Wonderful point.
Meltdowns are not tantrums. We literally cannot control them, it's our natural response to feeling overwhelmed. "Coping mechanisms" often just mean teaching people on the spectrum to internalize it and can make us feel extremely alienated and can take a huge toll on our self esteem.
It's important for both the autistic person and their family/friends/teachers to know and understand their triggers so meltdowns can be prevented. I do agree that as autistic people get older, they should start having a better understanding of themself and should take steps in helping prevent meltdowns, but stopping them entirely is impossible.
I agree! My mum treated me no differently than my little brother who is neurotypical (I have HFA, diagnosed at 4)
I have meltdown all the time at school but I have good support i have meltdown it’s usually sometimes like I feel very anxious
Same
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Your herbs has work wonders in my family.
Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism
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Literally just gave myself a contusion and fat lip on accident and that just sounds so dumb and impossible I assume to someone who doesn’t deal with severe meltdowns. But it’s like I have an instinct to just hit myself to gain clarity or regulate myself. It never hurts I assume bc of the amount of adrenaline going through my body.
I have autism but i never had meltdowns in public or at home
Autism affects everyone differently
Exactly
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Your herbs has work wonders in my family.
Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism
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I dont know if I have meltdowns or panic attacks. After my dad died unexpectedly... years ago... they became public. It used to be compartmentalized and private distress. Now it is cyclic.
I'm fragile afterwards. Sometimes for days. I get soamatic nauseated before and after... sometimes for days.
My fear is now that it is going to happen again... in public.
I have been able to stiffle how "bad they get" since it doesn't seem to stop happening.
Inadquate coping and overflow. Im sick of it.
I fear my career is ending because of my inability to cope like an "adult" should.
Hoped it was situational r/t grief... but years later still persists.
It has impacted my life greatly. I'm mad but try to be kind to myself. It is okay to say "I can't"... well... I'm still working on it. Even when you arrive at being okay... you spend life trying to explain it to others.
I keep breaking... I put myself back together. I tell myself and other my limits... they say "nah your fine". I want to appease and or believe I am better now... and I break under the pressure.
Cyclic. 🥺 Frustrated with my limitations... but ignoring them only hurts me more.
To what end?
My husband’s meltdowns happen anywhere anytime. (In public is the worst.). I walk away. He can’t be reasoned with so there’s never any point. Triggers are stress related.
I know it’s coming when he starts racing around, won’t look me in the face, and just keeps saying, “Ok, Ok, Ok” and then it just takes one tiny thing in that moment and he loses it.
You shouldn't be married if your solution to noticing he's going to have a meltdown is to just ignore him and walk away. That is quite literally the worst thing you could possibly do.
You seem to have a good understanding of what triggers them, so I would instead recommend helping him avoid those triggers (Some common triggers tend to be a sudden change in plans, loud noises and too many demands placed on them). If you notice he seems like he's going to have one, don't get upset with him. Remember: he can't control it. Talk in a calm manner and ask if he wants to leave whatever the situation may be. Help him find a quiet place away from people where he can release stress on his own.
As an adult who's had meltdowns myself, not feeling understood and cared for in these moments often make it worse. Please do better.
I commend you for recognizing when heis triggered and for giving him the space to let the moment pass by giving him space. The other comentor doesnt understand that every autistc person is different and everyone has to find what works for their own situation. You have recognzed what works for you and him and that is good! Yes we also need to show them compassion and patience as well but accept that at the moment of their rage, talking to them might make things worse. Talking to them afterwards is good as long as they are receptive to it and we dont come from a judgemental place. 🙏
Is meldowns lifelong for autistic persons?plz reply anybody...
My school would lock us in a room is we didn’t do work or had breakdown then they would pick at us like we would listen when we we’re literally crying and breaking down stuffed in a tiny room until we would obey then like actual fucking dogs .. this isn’t how treat any child especially kids with disorders
My son does this the split second he's lost intrest in something. He'll hold intrest on things for half hour or less b4 he becomes violent
@Custom BatchServices no u damn well did NOT. A healthy diet is great for your overall health but herbal supplements would NOT fix a nero disorder or a mental illness
@@gracechristopher3133 your full of shit..scammers!!!
I either run, go really quiet or start hitting myself
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Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
Your herbs has work wonders in my family.
Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism
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Yeah I’ve felt angry because of my anxiety before and I’ve felt angry at my life lots of times
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I end up biting myself
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Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
Your herbs has work wonders in my family.
Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism
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Why? What's the reason for that?
As an autistic person my anger problems got better with age I used to throw and break shit In my special ed teachers classroom now I kind of just scream and cry and maybe slam doors either way they're not as extreme And I remember even having blackout rage once and not really knowing entirely what happened but I do think people should talk more about the mental health symptoms of ASD
Hey paul is not the only one me too at school sometimes even though im a nice guy i have meltdowns too sometimes and i kinda had one today so im with paul
I can't wait for him to say peasants
Twitch streamers when they die in CoD for the 203rd time:
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Ugh, I have these explosions of rage and hatred towards people or things, but they look nothing like this. Thank god that I am just bipolar or antisocial and not fucking autistic.
Thanks for sharing this because I am winging it . And it’s not working…
Self advocate here, I’m curious but can I have a meltdown without feeling angry
Really? Teachers should? Is that required of them by law?
Wives, girlfriends and partners need to be educated also otherwise, you can be injured.
I take medication for mood
They don’t need to be in a public school where they can attack the teachers or other students !!!
The Teachers abuse the students sometimes do you realize that?
I AM A SURGEON!!!!
Spazz attacks
You can tell the kid is in pure pain and agony and depression deep in his mind .
Yes because he's been treated Subhuman for his whole life
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i have autism im 13 and had to be pulled from school to homeschool
Were… you diagnosed?
@@TheJoker-nl8lk No but my mom has suspected I do have level 1 or 2 since I was 3 and I went when I was for I met half of it to be diagnosed but they ended up saying I didnt im going in jully this year to be retested by a guy who does testing but he actualy has autism and a son who does and we already have a lot in common which is pretty cool he will also do thearapy with me after my visit
Paul
This is what happens to someone I know from UK called Rexy, she has mental breakdowns very often and it's pissing me off
They can't help it, a meltdown is when they are distressed.
it’s not their fault? imagine how she feels. asshole
@@kunpunko Is this to KolaPro or someone else? Not to accuse you of anything.
then stop hanging with her, or learn how to support her.
Excuse my ignorance but can't their parents teach them to not do this? At least in public? Won't it increase the chance of bullying?
Daniel Larson
NO, NO, NO! Kids that have these "meltdowns" should NOT be mainsteamed into regular schools! The time the teacher takes to deal witih the meltdown is taking away time from YOUR child's educiation! So the teacher gives ALL of her tme and attention to the meltdown and 25 to 30 OTHER kids are NOT getting their education because of ONE kid? Unfair and Wrong to the other students that can actually LEARN!
If that dude melted down on me I'd just slap him into submission until he stops, these girls are too soft!
I would never be violent in return but autistic people should be disciplined the same way as everyone else. Otherwise they will never be taught that what they're doing is wrong. They could go round being really dangerous people.
@@bunchberry9957 "Let's discipline these extremely different and seriously disabled people the same way as everyone else! I'm sure that'll work perfectly! Oh wow, what a brilliant idea that has totally never been tried before and absolutely hasn't ended in total failure!"
Seriously. Why do you think these strategies have been developed? Because the normal strategies didn't work. If the normal strategies worked, there wouldn't need to be different ones. Don't know why you think you're the first special precious little ubermensch to think of that, because you aren't. You aren't special for thinking of that, thousands of people have had that idea before, and just like them you will find out that you can't twist these people's nervous systems to do what you want just because you thought you had a good idea that wasn't actually good at all.
Treasuretrails, btw, you're either stupid or a troll, because you know as well as I do that slapping them is only going to make the meltdown worse - seriously, adding more input into an already overwhelmed physical nervous system? - and good luck when the guy with no inhibition or control over his actions starts fighting back! Would be hilarious to see the state of you after that fight.
Clearly you’ve never experienced a person like this to understand you will not win. If you wanna mess with someone who’s brain is igniting 99% of muscles in his or her body, don’t expect them to pay your dental bill after you try to be a hero.
@@jacksonrelaxin3425 Agreed
no sht
Pretty much described every Fortnite player😂
This is demon possession
nope. try again.
@absinthe___ ok...This is demon possession. How many "try agains" do I get?
@@mroakarm multiple until you understand. educate yourself.
@absinthe___ when people have outbursts and then say they feel like something else is controlling them that is exactly what is happening. Demon possession takes on many forms and in today's age we call it by medical terms that seem to suit our needs instead of what it really is. Satan is a deceiver who comes to steal, kill and destroy and what you see happening in the souls of these people is exactly that.
@@mroakarm Life must be hard believing in ghosts
i have a brother and because he seen my cousin with a iphone 12 he now is begging and calling the whole family mad because he can’t get one he’s 23 with autism and he’s done this before but i’m trying to get my family to be consistent with him with saying no because we literally just got him a iphone XR and if we buy him this one he’s just going to keep begging again and again
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What kind of picture is that, ew.
@@slimthickaz.I know you not talking.😒