That Comment Was WAYYY Too Much - Just Have To Get This Off of My Chest - I Am UPSET!
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- čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
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My husband calls them Keyboard Commandos. They are a lower form of life.
All of my 82 years I have been less than 5 ft. I beared all the short jokes but I walk with my shoulders tall and proud as if I were 6 ft. tall. God loves all my 4" 10'.
Ha ha! I am right there with you! It's probably a VERY good thing that God only made me 4'10". I can only imagine how this attitude would be in someone 5'8" or taller.....
I was 4’ 10.5” when I was a teenager but I’ve undoubtedly shrunk over the yrs. my averaged height grandson is nearly 10 and is catching me up! I have no problem with that.
I am 4’11” after 3 back surgeries. At my tallest I was 5’ 1/2” 😂 I have always loooooved being short…I always got to wear high heels! Not so much anymore after continual back issues..c’est la vie!
So sorry this happened. Like you said people hide behind their keyboard! Shame on that person.
Thank you!
So infuriating when people try to tell you about yourself and act like they're an authority on things they know nothing about!!!
It's unfortunate that social media has turned some people into online bullies. They derive satisfaction in assaulting others which tells you what kind of person they are. They are most likely living lives lacking in real joy.... don't let them take away yours.
Dear Betty, please dear one, don't allow an evil, uninformed, ignorant person to cause you pain. I'm a retired teacher and counselor. You mentioned reading your Bible, so I feel comfortable in saying this: God loves you, He created you for a purpose and He does all things well. You are perfect in His eyes. We love you, too. I'm praying that the Lord will give you the strength and the grace to pity this poor, ignorant person who made that foolish comment. We look to Jesus, our example, who forgave His enemies. God bless you as you continue with your wonderful videos!! (New Subscriber)
Some people can be so hateful, rude and hurtful , Take all the time you need WE ALL LOVE YOU MS. BETTY❤❤
Thank you Ms. Deanna. You have been one of my biggest blessings from this YT channel.
Just be you. That's plenty good for us. ❤
People today get offended over nonsense, & most of them are looking 👀 for something to get offended about! Stay joyful 😊
Sadly thats so true 😢
Don’t let anyone steal your Joy!❤
So sad to hear how cruel people can be to one another. What is happening in the world today? Shame on you keyboard COWARDS…. Betty you are truly an inspiration. Please don’t let them get to you. Chin up and keep on keeping on. Sending hugs
Thank you so much!
Little people are just Condensed Wonderfulness💐! Ignore mean people. Don't let them live in your head...they are NOT worth it!
Remember that offence is taken, not given. I don’t know why people are nasty. Blessings from Australia.
There is always that one person who is so unhappy with their lives, they troll the Internet just to insult people to make them feel better. I know a lot of creators that have endured this. You have over 12k subs. Imagine that! Trying to please over 12k people. Wow, it's impossible. That one person is not worth your unhappiness. Think of your lovely kind hearted followers who don't judge you. Be strong ❤
The whole point of these online trolls is to get into your head. Don’t let them live there rent free. Just ignore them. Keep being you.
It's so sad that people can be so cruel; there is no excuse! Take care Betty ... we'll see you when you're ready to return ♥
Sadly, there are some ugly hearted people in this world! Blessings
Some people are not happy in their own lives, so they want to hurt others. There is no excuse for it. I was taught growing up that if you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all. Betty, don't let someone upset you like that. Block them. 🙂♥️
Thank you!!
I am so sorry that this happened to you. Please keep in your heart that the vast majority of us love you and appreciate all the hard work you put into your work.
Thank you so much!
I've never seen your channel before this video popped up on my screen, my heart goes out to you. I'm sorry someone went out of their way to make a cruel comment. I subscribbed 😊
In 1967 I met a lady who had dwarfism, and she described herself as a midget till the day she died in 2004. She did have the typical bone deformities, but she didn’t let it hold her back. And thank God she was not defined by it any more than she had to be.
I haven’t let my height hold me back. Lol. I could only imagine what this attitude would be like in a bigger person! (Actually, I don’t have to imagine-my 3rd daughter is 6 foot tall AND inherited my attitude - TROUBLE!). Ha ha. ❤️❤️
As one of the over 12 thousand.... I'm sorry for the stupid people out there that you have to endure . You keep doing what you do and ignore them.
Thank you so much!
It’s alarming how people can think they can say whatever they want on the anonymity of the internet. It’s insane! I would be angry too. I support you!
Just keep living your authentic life. People behind the keyboard do hide, it emboldens them to speak even with no authority. You are beautiful and strong. Looking forward to you coming back.
Thank you so much!
PLEASE READ: I know you will be inundated with support from all those who love you dearly. You may remember me. I live in Australia and I waited for a while after Miss Edith lost her beloved husband, to write to you to thank you for the support and love you gave this amazing lady. I am still crying after listening to your video. I have watched you so often and the only thought I ever had about you was how tiny and petite you are and that I was a bit concerned lately that you may have lost too much weight. Everyone knows that the best things in life come in small packages! People can be so cruel. I remember when someone wrote to Miss Edith to tell her she had "ugly hands". Can you believe that. Such people like yourself and MIss Edith are just beautiful souls. The only thing I wonder about your size is how you manage to contain a heart so big!! You have a loving (and very funny at times) husband and I cannot remember how many children you have but I know it is quite a few. I too suffered the same fate as your poor mother with her first child. Mine was my fourth. The Lord gave me five healthy daughters, but took my only son. One day I will get to hold him and you and your parents will be reunited with your brother and sister. Miss Betty, I know it is easy to say, but please, please do not let the ignorance and cruelty of one person upset you. Not even for one moment. They are NOT worth the trouble it took to make them, as a friend of mine used to say. You can be lifted up and carried by your husband in his arms. I would have given anything to have that, but being clinically obese, and a widow, that just will never happen. Yes, there may be things that you could have done had the Lord granted you a few more inches, but I know that there are things that you can do that an overweight aging women like me never has and never will be able to. You thank the Lord for every precious inch he gave you, because every inch of you is worth 100 times what the "expert" who tried to educate you is worth. This is written to you with love and the hope that I may "educate" you a little on the immense positive impact you have on so many people. God bless you and may he light your path and shield you with his love from future hurt from morons like the one who hurt you so deeply with their ignorance and lack of human decency. Love and blessings from Rose in Australia.
Rose, thank you so much! You have no idea what your comment means to me. ❤️
You are a beautiful person, Ms RoseMarie! Your message to Ms Betty is so sweet, it has me in tears. I wish you, my dear, a wonderful life. Be not discouraged by the haters in our lives, and especially do not be hard on yourself. As you said to Betty, it's easier said than done, but we must always start with loving on ourselves first.
God bless you for your kindness. You seem like a genuinely wonderful person. 💐🙏🏽😊❤️
@@bhornannawindeedeigh5007 Thank you so much. Caring costs you nothing but can be of great value to the person receiving it. Your kind words did mean a great deal to me. Thank you again...
People like that need some Karma coming on them...just remember sweet Betty GOOD THINGS COME IN SMALL PACKAGES...and we love you no matter what......❤❤🙏🙏
Dynamite also comes in small packages. lol
@@BettysCustomDesigns 😂😂😂! Yeah! 👍
I am 4”11 and my granddaughter asked me if I was a little person. I told her that I am not I am just very short and she then decided that I am a mini person.
I'm 70 and when i was growing up our neighbors were little people but called themselves midgets back in those days. I did all their shopping for them and mowed their grass etc etc because back then they got made fun of and even harassed in public yet they were kindest 2 people i ever met as a child.I absolutely hate labels
Misery loves company, don’t be company! Responding to rudeness empowers the rude person to continue being a keyboard commando. How someone treats you is a reflection of them, not you.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I don't know why people have to put labels on each other!! My Mama always said, "if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all"! God bless you and keep you!!
Omg. Some people are just evil. I’m so sorry you have to endure this. Its unfair. I’ve read comments in different people’s videos where I cannot understand how they can’t know their words are offensive. Sending you prayers of comfort and peace. ❤
Thank you so much.
Betty read Let Them by Cassie Phillips . It had helped me many times with so many situations that are abusive unfair and just unkind. I know what emotional pain feels like but I feel better when I read “Let Them” much love and healing 🙏💕
That person would never say it to your face…just like you said, hiding behind their keyboard…You are an amazing, beautiful person….you bring Light to this world…. That persons wounds were speaking, so do not allow that person to effect you. You’re light was too bright for her/him…..she reacted to her own wounding …..wishing her healing and Wishing YOU DEEP PEACE 🙏🏻🦋🌎❤️
So sorry for your pain Betty. Don’t let anyone steal your joy! God bless you 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤
Nobody can steal my joy! This joy that I have, they didn't give it to me and they can't take it away! Thank you for your love and support.
Omg Betty my heart goes out to you beautiful lady .You certainly didn’t deserve that stupid comment .I remember how kind and helpful you were to your friend Edith when she lost here hubby
Thank you so much!
I'm just stopping by to tell you what you are is a Beautiful Lady . Peace and Love to you✌️❤
Do not let anyone rob you of your joy and what you love to do. In this world today, a lot of people do not have any filters. Shame on this person! Yes they are big and brave behind a keyboard, but I can guarantee that it would be a different store if it were in person. These people are ignorant and not happy and the only way they can feel happy is to tear other people down. As mad as it makes you, me, and all of you other faithful followers all we can do is to pray for you and the person who made this very insensitive comment. I am going to pray for peace for you Betty. Sending much hugs and love to you my friend 🧡.
Thank you! This joy that I have, they didn't give it to me and they can't take it away!
@@BettysCustomDesigns Absolutely! Our joy comes from the Lord!
I’m so glad that the “rude and insensitive, person” is not going to stop you. We miss you.
Nope! Absolutely NOT stopping me - if anything, they just made me push to keep on going. =)
You were perfectly and wonderfully made by your Creator. Take a deep breath, smile knowing God truly loves you. Go and be the best version of you!
Good for you for saying something and educating these fools with the truth and grace!
Just remember the haters in this world have to find a problem somewhere...anywhere. this is how we can use discernment. Problems feed off of emotions. Im sorry this person was so inclined to scold you over something they clearly are beyond juvenile emotionally. We all love you and respect you and KNOW YOU ARE AN AMAZING HUMAN. Thank you for all you do and share with us!!!!!
I hope this one gets to you. YOU ARE AWESOME❤ It's always good to hear your gentle perspective. Class act ma'am....
Betty, thank you for sharing part of your testimony. That person must be a broken hurting person.. hurt people hurt people. You have an abundant life.. They must not.. We'll see you when you come back. Prayers up blessings down
Thank you so much!
God bless you Betty . God rest the souls of your beautiful little brother and sister Angel. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hi. You popped up on my page and I thought I’d watch. Now I’m subbed. I’m a small person and I know now that it was likely that I had a growth hormone issue as a kid because I passed it on to one of my children. Back in the 70’s, I suppose doctors didn’t know that much. I was able to get my girl on growth hormones to give her a chance to avoid some of the health problems that come with dwarfism, and we got her to 4’10”. Now she stands next to me and we’re the same height. I was an only child too, like you.
I’m sorry someone thought it was their place to correct you on something you know all about. People can be cruel.
I just watched your video...I'm so sorry you had to deal with such hateful people. You have 2 beautiful angels watching over you. You are a very beautiful person, inside and out...no matter how tall you are.❤ Bless you, you are loved.
Betty, I am so sorry and you owe no one an apology. I just found your channel and I love your videos. Watched the Temu one and was so inspired and I went and ordered from it. I never have but you convinced me. Nasty people are so brave on their keyboards and phones. I personally feel that people who do videos are being very brave and people can be so shallow. You rock on!!!!! Never mind the naysayers!!!
I'm sorry you had to go through that. 😢 there are so many mean miserable people out there that want to hurt others because they are evil. Try to forgive them and go on b with life. God loves, I love you and so do many others. I'll keep you in my prayers. Linda
God bless you. You are a beautiful creative lady. You are loved by many.
I have never commented on your videos, but I am so sorry for the ignorance of some people. I live by the mantra on social media, if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Prayers 🙏🏽
I'm so sorry that happened to you. People can be so heartless. I stopped posting on my blog once because I had posted about a parasite infestation I had, trying to educate people, and some really mean people decided to troll me, share the pictures and make fun of me. Then they trolled me for years, no matter where I went or what name I used. I finally just closed all my blogs, closed all my social media accounts and stopped posting at all. I just found your channel, and I love crafts, so I'm subscribing and will watch some old videos until you come back. I'm looking forward to getting to know you.
I'm new to your channel. You're brave for adressing that bully. People get away with so much h a t e and their demeaning behavior online it's scary. 😢🥰
You got me to thinking. I am under 5’ and I get comments all the time. I am generally good natured. I noticed a tall friend always has to make a comment and it is because she is uncomfortable with her appearance. I am comfortable with my appearance. Grateful for how God made me. So I have been nice but you know these comments pile up and I need a comment to say back. I cannot believe how long I have put up with not exactly insults but silly comments focused on how small I am. They think they are funny. It is usually said for the entertainment of others. Self esteem is so precious and shame on anyone who pulls us down. Turning to God and reading your bible is the answer.
God love you! Let it go sister…you are a blessing! Don’t let a sour-puss, attention seeker get the best of you. God is bigger and with Him you will come through this stronger. I love you and everything you do . ❤
Please smash the like button to show your support and prayers for Betty in this hurtful incident! We are with you Betty!❤ 👍🏻 📖🛡✝️
Thank you sooooo much!
@BettysCustomDesigns Big hugs sweetness!! You are a gift, never forget that!!
Its the sign of the times. Im sorry people are so mean.😢
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You are a beautiful soul. I’m glad you brought this out. I’m sorry that happened to you that brought up so much pain. Please keep shining your bright light into the world ❤
Thank you so much!
You do NOT have to EVER apologize to us. Someone else should be doing the apologizing not you. Words can be so hateful and shame shame ON THEM, not you. I've been following you a short time and you have become one of my favorite ladies on here. You do YOU and let the haters hate. We love you, Betty. My parents lost a child before me. Like your sister mine was beautiful and looked like she was sleeping. It was 1949 and she worked so hard to be born and just wore herself out. There were few C sections done back then and she just stopped breathing coming down the birth canal. My parent grieved her the rest of their lives. Don't let these small, minded people get to you! They are not worth your time, but I admire you so much for standing up and saying ENOUGH. You go girl!!! Hugs...Rita
Thank you so much for your love and support. My heart truly breaks for anyone that has ever lost a baby. It has been almost 50 years since my parents lost my last sibling and they still hurt and grieve just like it was yesterday.
Some people can be dumb, stupid and hateful. I am so sorry
Thank you so much!
People are so touchy nowadays. I'm an old fat lesbian I'm not offended being called that. ❤
Take all the time you need and same on the person who said that just put it in God's hands and he will take care of it. I just always tell myself they will have to answer for all they say and do. You are an amazing person
Some people are just insensitive idiots...god bless you and yours..❤
I’m so sorry this happened to you. You are an amazing person, and I love watching you craft. We love you and are praying for you. Many blessings.
Oh, Betty, I'm so sorry that this happened to you. Whether or not you knew about it, the comment should have never been made. I pray for that person to have more tact and sensitivity and compassion. I hope that she thinks before she comments. Again I'm so sorry that this happened. Keep doing you and thank you for all your videos ❤
Thank you!
New subscriber here! Thanks for sharing your story and your heart! Love and hugs to you! ❤
Thank you so very much!
You are perfect in every way❤ Well done video. You are genuine in every way!
So sorry for the pain that person caused you. It is difficult to ignore these things but I send love and hugs and hope you find comfort in those many people who love you so much. 🤗❤️🤗
You are an amazing person. Thank you for your videos ❤
You are perfect just the way you are. You never need to apologize. Bless you sweet lady!
Thanks for sharing your story. Don't let the craziness stop you from doing what you love. You have so many people that love you. Hugs❤
I'm not going anywhere. I've made too many friends and been way too blessed to stop!
I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. People can be so mean and cruel. You be you and God will heal your wounds. ❤️
Thank you so much!
I'm so sorry someone said horrible things to you. Like you said, they are behind a screen and are cowards.
You've handled this just fine, and did not need to apologize.
As a Mom of 2 beautiful and healthy daughters, born in 71 and 74, my heart breaks for your sweet parents losses. Prayers!!
Thank you. I can't even imagine the heart ache that my parents have suffered all of these years.
Betty, thank you for sharing this story. I am so sorry someone was so hateful. It's rampant these days.
oh Betty, you are one brave lady to stand up to that bully. I had no idea you were a little person. Thank you for sharing. That's just one more thing that makes you amazing and unique. As much as this one hurt affected you, know there are hundreds if not thousands more who find you inspiring and fabulous! Thank you for being who you are. God loves you, Betty, and so do I.
So sorry Betty that this happened. People do not think before they speak that’s for sure. You are precious and have a huge heart. Glad you’re not quitting. You love what you do and it shows. Will keep you in my prayers. 🙏❤️🙏
Thank you so much! I'm definitely not quitting. I've made too many friends and been way to blessed to give up now.
Betty, I can relate to what you’re saying. I have a small channel and most comments are very sweet and encouraging but there have been a few that have been hurtful or very critical and it’s hard to make peace with that. No one has been nearly as hurtful to me as what this person said to you but it is devastating because we put the best of ourselves out there. This is hard work and it is meaningful to us. It’s so good that you’re getting it off your chest. I think reporting and/or blocking that person is in line with CZcams’s policy for everyone to feel safe here. It’s also in line with God’s Word telling us to “shake the dust from our sandals” when someone doesn’t accept what we have to offer. They don’t deserve your creativity and joy (although they need it the most). I know your subscribers love you and will be protective of you. Thank you for sharing about your family and what this meant to you. You are loved and you are special and you are brave! ❣️🙏❣️🙏❣️🙏❣️
God bless you!! I'm glad you stood up to this person (and any others) that "think" they know things but are actually ASSUMING, and we all know what ASSUME means! God bless you for not letting anyone stop you being you, you doing videos, and just living life on YOUR terms!!! Keep doing you!!!
TO ALL OTHERS: IF YOU CAN'TBE KIND THEN AT LEAST BE QUIET!!! Keep your ASSumings to yourself!!!
lol. Your comment actually made me chuckle! Thank you so much for your support.
Take your time. Your videos are so pleasant and uplifting to me so I’m looking forward to more. It takes me awhile to move past hurtful remarks; I hope you soon have peace about this and can continue with the work you so obviously love to do.
Thank you so much!
Thank you for sharing this with us. I have always enjoyed your videos. Please don't let one comment ruin your joy in creating beautiful things and sharing with us. Thank you and God bless you. I have been wanting to do an art journal but not sure how to begin
Thank you so much. I've always wanted to do an art journal too. I don't know how good mine is going to end up, but I will love it no matter what.
Never let people take you out of your peaceful space. Keep crafting and ignore the crazies.
Hurt people, HURT PEOPLE.
I am so sorry that this person hurt you. Thank you so much for sharing your testimony. The Lord has you in his hands for sure. I, for one, love watching you craft, and listening to you chat. I just feel like I am hanging out with a friend when I watch your videos. Be blessed Betty! Because you sure are a blessing!
Thank you so much for your kind words!
Thank you Betty for all you're wonderful videos! I certainly have learned a lot over the years. I pray that our Lord will heal that wound and grant you His peace. Take your time for I can relate to hurtful words and I k own that God's word has come In my heart and heal. Love you ❤️
Thank you! I normally don't let much at all get to me, but that comment just hit too close to home with my sister having passed away at birth due to her dwarfism.
Sending you big hugs all the way from Melbourne, Australia 💗
Awe! Thank you so much for your love and support.
I'm so sorry that people are so ignorant. I am so grateful for you. I love you. Praying for God to protect you from other hateful people.
You are so awesome! Both as an artist and a woman. Thank you.
Oh goodness. Thank you so much!
Oh Betty. Know matter your physical size, you've got a beautiful huge, living heart and your a very precious person. Don't let them ever take that away from you! Whenever I've seen you I've always thought you were perfect! Ignore them. Some people don't even like themselves so they can't possibly like others! Bless you!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much!
Sending you big hugs and blessings. It’s a shame people dont understand the “if you can’t say something nice” part of their upbringing. I apologize for the ignorance of this person. Civility is no longer present in our society. 💕
Thank you so much!
You were so brave to tell us your story. Thank you. This world is so full of cruel / hateful human beings. Will keep you in my prayers.❤
Thank you for your prayers and support.
sending prayers and hugs. People can be so hurtful sometimes, especially behind a keyboard. I've learned to take breaks when needed and there is nothing wrong with that.
Thank you so much!
Many blessings 🙌 you are loved 😍
No need to apologise ❤ don’t let others break you ❤❤ you are loved and cherished ❤❤
Oh Betty, I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Hugs and take care!
I came across your post today 07/02/24 I am sorry some people are just Ignorant! Block them and hold your head high you owe no one an explanation! If I could I would be there and give you a Big Old Fashioned Hug!❤
You are a truly wholesome soul.
So sorry this happened, people are so rude, God loves you, God's blessings for you 🙏🙏🙏
I am so sorry you had to have this said to you. I have a You Tube channel now and getting ready to start doing my videos.
My son warned me I better get ready for mean remarks to be said. I am glad you have let the public know about this. Don’t stop!!!!! You have spoken up for all of us by defending yourself. We love and enjoy you. Keep these great things coming.
You can do it!!! Please let me know when you post your first video!!! Yes, you will have comments said as I have. Normally, I don't even let the comments affect me even slightly, but that one just hit too close to home.
Someone's mama didn't teach them manners and it shows. I am so sorry they had to find your channel to show it. We love you and will be here when you get back. Prayers and Hugs.
Thank you so much. You have always been such a blessing to me.
I just came across your video. I don't know you or your Chanel. But thank you for corrected that ignorant rude and hurtful comment. You are beautiful and worthwhile.😊
Watching this video broke my heart. People really need to think before they type. Like someone once said in a world where you can be anything, be kind xx
The best things come in small packages. And you are one of those things. We love you Betty. ❤❤