I Let My Bridesmaid Sleep With My Husband | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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KIRSTY and Tom met on Tinder nine years ago, quickly falling in love and getting married. Two years ago, the couple began to open up about their sexual fantasies and both discovered their desire to sleep with others. The conversation kick-started their journey into the swinging world. Tom told Truly: "I think for me, I enjoy it the most because of how it's brought us together." Agreeing, Kirsty said: "I think there's a lot of couples that want to do it but don't know how to tell the partner." Nowadays, the couple hook up with others regularly, choosing to get intimate with both men and women. Kirsty explained: "We'll have busy weeks sometimes and have maybe four or five in a week." During a sexual retreat, the pair met another couple, Katey and Dan. The foursome often sleep together and Tom explained how the dynamic is: "Just like a normal friendship, but with benefits." Katey and Dan decided to open up their own relationship after discussing their fantasies in bed one night. Dan revealed: "I said to Katey I wanted to see her with another guy, she was a bit shocked, but eventually it all worked out." Speaking about their bond with Kirsty and Tom, Katey admitted: "I think from the day we met Kirsty and Tom, we automatically had that connection. And that's just grown from there." The couples do receive their fair share of judgement and in today's episode of Love Don't Judge, we'll be hearing all about the challenges they've faced. Katey admitted: "When I first told my family about our lifestyle, they were very upset and thought that what we were doing was disgusting." Reflecting on their unique set-up, Kirsty said: "I love sharing my husband. It's more like a little proud moment for me."
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Bro this whole channel is nothing but a huge red flag.😂😂😂
This never ends well
Brokenness and Emptiness then followed by suicidal intentions
Weird. I could never share my wife NEVER!
Thank God you are a sane person
It means you love her ❤
Genuinely glad u said that! If you love someone how can u allow them to be intimate with another.that ain’t love seriously!!
…knowingly.
You mean like if she's cheating??
@@MichaelSmith-gx2xq yes.
Love don’t judge… but I do 😂
Only God can judge...
Comparing marrage to a candy bar. Intelligent folks there 👌
They could use a few less candy bars methinks
not the baby wipes to clean these omg
I hate how some of these couples are like “if you don’t have an open relationship you don’t trust each other” like that’s complete bs 😅 of course an open relationship only works if there’s trust but that doesn’t mean there’s no trust in monogamous relationships
There’s no way I would share my husband. ABSOLUTELY NOT. That’s why you have single life.
I concur! I can share food not my husband.
@@AfrocentrikQueen LOL! I love food!
Take my husband, I’m not sharing my food 😂< a taurus lesbian said
@@AfrocentrikQueenyeah I don't know.....I really really LOVE food!
I don’t think these married couples will be together ‘til death do them part. Sharing your spouse isn’t the secret to a lasting marriage. Maybe one that’s more fun, but not lasting. Everything is all good and well until one spouse sleeps with someone they prefer over their own. Also, it seems that these women think they can control their husbands, “you can sleep with other women, but only while I’m there.” But once you open a can of worms, good luck to you.
If they are only doing it with other married couples (which is probably a rule they set) then the chances of someone deciding “I prefer him/her over my spouse, let’s divorce/remarry” are extremely small.
Yes your right, the secret to a long lasting marriage is to be overly attached, jealous and insecure 👍
You know how many elderly married swingers there are?
Problems in the bedroom are the #1 cause of divorce. Humans are not naturally monogamous. Biological urges cannot be signed away on a marriage license.
@@TheStruggler101It's about your spouse, those are normal ways to feel. Hell yeah I'd feel that way if it was my husband.
"Let's get these clean for tonight" 🤢
No soap or water 💀
I can only imagine the odor in that room
😳 Just baby wipes 🤨
@@BBlicious402😂
Then proceed to half wipe with baby wipes
From the perspective of someone who personally prefers monogamy: There's nothing wrong with their lifestyle choice as long as all parties are informed, consenting adults and no lasting harm is being caused. People need to be allowed to have space to live their lives as they choose. If they're happy more power to them. People need to stop acting like their personal preferences should dictate everyone else's. No one has a monopoly on morality.
The thing is, if we allow people like this to thrive in our world, its just going to become more messed up, stuff like this should not be normalized .
@@ILikeBreadBrotrue
@@ILikeBreadBrothank you!!! 👏
There is lasting damage. Eventually there will be regret and shame at the very least. Your husband should NEVER want to sleep with another woman or share you with another man. It’s not “lifestyle choices” it’s literally what marriage means. Why tf would someone get married if this is how they choose to live their life?
TBH people like them REALLY needs HELP
Accepting such a practice/habits / choices is Foolishness
whoever told them that “you only live once” probably feel terrible now🤣💀
This isn’t going to be sustainable. I’m sure in some years we will be hearing about how they grew apart lol
“I want to eduque people of this” no baby, there is nothing educación about this.
What’s the point of getting married if you’re gonna sleep with other people? These people should be ashamed of themselves. 🤦🏽♀️
I mean, unfortunately it is consensual, as disgusting as it is, consent is the key to do things like that.
@@DeadDiariesIf it's disgusting, then just keep your mouth shut
Well, because people change in marriages.
Marriage doesn’t have anything to do with sex.
@@Cerus98 lol
She wants to educate people that find this weird/disgusting 😱 the arrogance is off the chart 🤢🤢🤢
She's a fool
Gross people with no morals. Imagine the HPV on their bits. I bet they would light up in a STI clinic. Ugh
You’re being arrogant by judging them.
I knew a girl who claimed that, she wanted to know if her husband was truly her soulmate. So she put him to the test and told him that she wanted to party and sleep with other men. By this time they've already had two babies. So, according to her he let her and after a year when she came back he was still there. With the kids at home. (Actually i don't think she ever physically left but it was like she "woke up" or something like that) and that was when she realized that he truly was the "right one" for her.
I thought that was the most insane dumbest thing i ever heard! 🙄🤦♀️
Wow! Interesting
This is so stupid lol
I’m crying I would throw her out 😭 now he should test her and sleep with other woman 😂
Kathy's boyfriend looks like he's playing for the other team as weĺl😂
Yep, it's obvious he's gay
They said in the video that both husbands are bisexual.
I'm not part of that lifestyle, but why on earth is their sex life a family problem??
Im confused why her family even knows. My family knows nothing of mine and my husbands sex life haha.
maybe because its weird??
@@arkanism5965 all the more reason to not talk to your family about it haha.
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I just commented the same thing! Why would your bloody family know about it?? Jesus wept…it should be private!
These people are SOOOOO honest 😂 maybe they wouldn’t receive this hate if they weren’t telling any and everyone about their sex life 😅
So it's cool to just hate them for it? Isn't it better just to keep our mouths shut about it, because it's none of our business?
So we should just applaud insanity eh!?
@@ejacob1994 what insanity?
@@kbanghart you need therapy for the simple fact that you ask me this question.
@@ejacob1994 God Bless
love dont judge.. but they're giving us reasons to judge.. lol😅😅😅
Wth going on with the world?!
😂 they need to start normalizing normal marriages but yet all they keep normalizing is cheating like tr
We re done for
Nothing decent.
Until one of them fall in love.
That can happen regardless
I don't care of you share each othrr but why share with us or anyone at all? Why does your family need to know about your sex life?
I thinking about the same thing. You family doesn’t need to know about your sex life
Lol it’s the clout
One major thing I've learnt in life is that best friends can turn on the most silly, crazy stuff. There's an open door for one to fall in love with another,then it's a sad sad mess.
I find it so sad that these people would sacrifice relationships with their families because they can't respect the sanctity of marriage. Why get married if you are gonna sleep with every Tom, Dick, and Harry?
I find it sad that a person would sacrifice a relationship with a family member or close friend because that family member/friend’s marriage is a bit unconventional.
People are perfectly entitled to judge them for their choices. To many people, what they're doing is disgusting. No one should have to pretend otherwise, if that's how they feel.
And for people who are complaining about other people judging them, this foursome did a lot of judging other people in this video - they clearly labelled monogamous couples as boring.
The point is, each to their own, and no one should be expected to endorse what they don't like.
Well said!
Can they at least not make it public, known by every family, cousin and friends and nephews?...
If you can't take your own commitment seriously, how can you expect anyone else to?
So instead of exploring their sex life with each other, they want to see other people? I think that's weird, it feels like they're just friends at this point. A partner is different than a friend, I don't get this kind of relationship.
Jealousy is the fun of it? Grow up
Deliverance is needed ask God to remove such demonic thought, and he would be there to guide you in the right path. Amen 🙏🏼
“People can’t accept the world is changing.”
Yes. I see it changing, but change does NOT always mean better, especially in this case. No wonder this is so messed up. You equate a bar of chocolate to the sanctity of marriage. Marriage should mean one life partner. One sex partner….for life.
Right? Like yes we all know the world is changing for the worst. Case in point is the sick shit like this that they try to normalize for all the kids watching
@@scary_terry9927 Exactly!
Couples that are swingers has been happening way back in the days.
@@theiswithin3649 Of course, but it was kept quiet and private, as it should. Today, it’s being glorified and shared with all.
Well in human history that wasn't always true actually. Even if your gonna pull out your bible that's full of polygamy. In my experience most polyamourous relationships fall apart but who knows
Not them using wipes w no soap and water 💀
To each their own...no-one should judge you all for your choices. There are bigger things ppl should disgusted about.
The redheads man is definitely a lil fruity
As an idiot liberal, I identify as an apple tree. I, also, support the behavior demonstrated in this video.
"That just meams were a bettwr couple than everybody else" 🤣🤣🤣🤣... youre LITERALLY CHEATING on each other... sounds like yall are the WORST at relationships
Ha ha the bar of chocolate talk 😂was cracking me up but so true! You always go back to your favorite!
why the hell are they cleaning sex toys with BABY WIPES???? that is not sanitary😭😭
Why most poly ppl are overweight
😂
They eat cause they unhappy
I appreciate people who do this and don’t let us know … why do we NEED to know about your sex life ? . Also telling your family ?? For what ??? Shock value
Why do you NEED to watch this video!?!?!? No one is forcing you! If you don’t want to know, DONT WATCH THE VIDEO DUH
Maybe ask this to yourself it clearly states in the title
Yeah, let the guys sleep constantly with other women who are way over the league of their wifes. Let's see how long this lasts. Also, vice versa. They think they have outgrown the emotion of jealousy. But atleast on of them is lying to themselves, probably subconsciously.
They are abnormal.
They want to undo nature.
I'm just laughing at their delusion.
They are committing adultery. They are sinners. When you truly Love someone l feel like their is no need for engaging in sexual acts with other people. They do not love each other and they do not have respect for their own bodies or their marriages or partners.
I’m gay and married. Me and my husband opened our relationship where we mess around with other men but only together. No need to cheat or deprive each other. It has made our relationship more fun and exciting. Especially when we go out on vacation and meet new people 😅
That is cheating. That is literally the definition of cheating. 🤦🏼♀️ why be married at all?
@@GG-sk3twto share your life with someone forever.
But you’re a gay marriage, it’s completely different vs a heterosexuals marriage
@@ivanavasquez2475 how?
@@GG-sk3tw the definition of cheating is: “to act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage”. if there is no dishonesty then there is no cheating. lol
They seem so happy and everyone seems to gain smth from this lifestyle
Sex is private. Why share it with the entire world?
You can do whatever you want, your life your choice, but pls don't say "we want to educate other ppl on the lifestyle....."
😡😡 what the 🤦🏼♀🤦🏼♀🤦🏼♀ I don't want to learn 🤦🏼♀🤦🏼♀🤦🏼♀
You are here though. If you are not interested move on.
Lol “I don’t want to learn but let’s watch this video to learn more!” 😂
😂😂😂😂 These comments are hilarious 😆 😅😅
We are here to see how far gone society has gone😊
😂😂😂 I love it, they're like those individuals that are trying to put an end to jealousy.
Sad
Why is it funny or sad, some people want to experience altruism instead of your conventional ego-based love style.
Can you see the shock when their mom saw this video.
I don't understand this why get married then why even date if u want to be living this kind of life style
As exciting as a may sound if one of these ladies get pregnant or get a sexual disease, that will be the end of their relationship
If their happiness is contagious.. then who cares what they want to do? They aren’t adding to the hate, fear or pain of the world. What more can one ask for of anyone?
Damn, you actually have no idea, do you? There are a lot of things people can do that doesn't seem to directly inflict "pain, fear or horror" to the world, and yet, has DEVASTATING consequences. Every choice has consequences in the long run, even if we don't see it now. You have enough gays/lesbians/trans or whatever running around, they ain't hurting anyone, but wait till you see the human population declining at a fast rate. And what do you think will happen if there aren't enough humans left on earth?
The reason that polygamy exist is soley for reproductive reasons. In modern times where there are war. You lose men. And to repopulate, people practice polygamy. In prehistoric cave men era, men go out to hunt for months, and sometimes they don't come back. Women will then need to figure out a way to continue to live without their men, so they find other men to lean onto, to reproduce.
So this means, if the world today start normalizing gays/lesbians, planet earth will soon to cease to exist in the long run, as nobody is reproducing, or at least not reproducing fast enough.
But if you normalize polygamy, the earth will soon be too populated to live in (much like we are in now). What problem does having too much population cause? Famine, diseases, increased pollution, poverty. And what does poverty lead to? High crime rates, high suicidal rates.
So they not hurting anyone you say? You don't see it now, but your children, and the children of your children will see it and be harmed by the choices we people are making NOW. So again, EVERYTHING has consequences, and just because you don't see the harm of it now, doesn't mean it's not going to harm us in the long run.
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Nope. No warning signs there at all. She's perfectly sane and totally wife matrrial.
LOL
Hahaha 🤣
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It’s really sad that someone would choose sex over their family… I know some people are going to say that they aren’t doing anything wrong and her family shouldn’t judge her choices etc, but morals surrounding sex and relationships can be huge issues for people. Especially since they think that her husband is forcing her. You can’t blame them for not wanting to support a marriage that they believe is abusive. As a side note, why did you tell them about your sex life in the first place? That’s so bizarre….
This would be like telling a lesbian to live the rest of her life telling her parents that her partner is just her "best friend" to protect their comfort level. Nothing wrong with being who you want to be and nothing wrong about being open about it. Family disowning over what someone does in their own life is messed up.
@@KaylaDarnellhuh? the logic isnt the same. It's ur sex life regardless of your gender. Would u tell people abt what you're doing under the sheets? Would u tell people that you're sleeping with other people while u're married or while on a relationship w/ only 1? Im good if u have multiple s*x partners but i dont need to know any of that. What good would do that to you? People nowadays r expecting that telling peoole these sort of things are just plain hinesty and openness. No. These things are already known facts but u cant just put theze out there expecting it to be a 'norm' & inspire people to do thw same by publicizing their s*x lives. Telling ur family is 1 thing, telling the whole world is another.
@@KaylaDarnellas a gay man, being poly is NOT the same as being homosexual. They're entirely different things.
Literally, I don't get these people. Why would you tell your parents, let alone a traditional sex life
They’re fun. I’m glad they’re pushing the boundaries.
They're doing what they want to and are completely honest and transparent with each other. Most people commenting negative are most likely cheaters and want what they have, but as a secret and just for themselves!
preach ☺️
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Parents love should be unconditional. Yes they guide u but, u make ur own decisions. Parents should NEVER disown/kick their children out!!!!
Parents’ love is very conditional, there is no such thing as unconditional love.
Have a taste but you cant have it ....They literally had it 🙄
She said shes trying to educated people educate yourself to the gym please
Let’s get these clean for tonight should never be a sentence ever unless it’s your car getting cleaned for a drive at night 🤮
I love these couples. It’s better to be honest and to do what works for you rather than fester on something and end up cheating. It’s the openness and communication that’s important.
For years my hubby and I fantasised about a 3some. And only 11 years down the track did we try it. It brought us closer as a couple afterwards and even though we haven’t engaged in it again, we most certainly would in the future.
"Right"
No soap or water?
This. Yikes!
WHYYYYY would you tell your FAMILY?! Omg! This wouldn’t be my lifestyle choice but if it was I would NOT BE TELLING MY FAMILY! 🤦🏻♀️
At least they are conscenting adults who seem happy and like this is something they want. Often i see these and one of the people seems like they are being pressured. Its not my cup of tea but its not my relationship! :)
Meh watever, yes it weird. But not as weird as pedophiles. As long as they are not hurting children in their sexlife i say go have fun
I don’t understand why everyone feels the need to broadcast their sex loves to the world. If these people just kept their sexual exploits private, as any normal person would, their families wouldn’t be so grossed out and embarrassed. I don’t go around telling everyone what I do with my husband, why is it that people with strange sexual interests feel the need to put it on display and expect everyone to be tolerant? Keep it private.
Those guys operate heavy machinery
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤦
„They thought it’s disgusting.”
Well they are right.
I find it so sad that her family stopped talking to her… it’s not like she’s harming anyone? I wouldn’t stop talking altogether to my family member just for that :(
uhh they are harming somebody. What happens if kids are brought into the mix?
@@arkanism5965 that’s an interesting point but they don’t have them so at this moment they aren’t harming anyone
@@andreamovi6780 they are clearly harming their families who have a moral code that wont allow this type of behaviour. I applaud their family for standing by that code and not allowing this to be normalized. Just because you choose a lifestyle doesn't mean anyone has to accept it.
By looking at their pictures, I would never guess they some freak-a-leaks😂😂😂
I love how families always consider themselves the right ones? But cutting off someone completely over sex?? and they call us the drama queens and emotionally immature one's. Everyone needs to just take a chill pill these days 💊
Why on earth do your parents need to know about your sex life? Why does anyone need to know about anyone elses sex life? Do your funky thing, in private. Theyre possibly gonna have kids one day and this is out there? Thats tantamount to child abuse. Can you imagine the kids at school getting hold of that tidbit?
It’s really sad that this ladies family have cut her off. I could never imagine doing that to my children just because of their sex life. It’s fine to disagree with swinging but that doesn’t mean you should stop being there .
It's nothing new tbh. Just like pornstars getting married. Some folks are just comfortable with an open relationship.
E.g. A lot of Japanese women don't consider it as cheating, if their partners have sex with prostitutes as long has he doesn't have any feelings for her or any other woman
I know love don't judge 😮, but crazy can judge am i right 👏😆🤣👍
I recently met a girl I do care about and turns out she lets her boyfriend sleep with her best friend who is really hot and just says he doesn’t seem jealous and plans on marrying this guy eventually. Seems like a sketchy way to go about finding a soulmate but what do I know.
Each to their own! It’s a shame her family didn’t bother to attend her wedding 😢 that must been so upsetting but she gained new family & friends who love her for who she is and support their decision which is what it should be. Good for them doing what makes them happy and feel stronger together and being able to explore and have fun. Hope they have a happy life.
I don't feel bad. They're allowed to live the lifestyle they want, just like how her family is allowed to not like it or want a part in it. You can't force people to like your lifestyle
It's not by force to support what we don't like. It doesn't matter anymore. Let people do their shit we are free to support them or walk out on them it all depends on our moral conviction, you dig?
I just don’t get why their family even has to know?
Its up to them, they are grown adults, if there happy, there not hurting anyone
Why would you even tell your family??? You're not polygamists or polyamorous.....you're swingers. I don't share my sex life with my parents and I'm pretty sure most people dont.
Will they continue when they have kids ?
i think so..
Why would they stop?
better for the back door hahahaha 😂😂😂😂
I admire there honesty but it definitely wouldn’t be for me. There may not be any jealousy at the beginning but somewhere along the road 1 of them could start to like someone else and things could get rather messy. I would hate to see my partner with someone else but that’s me personally. I know swinging is quite a thing and if you’re into it then good on you. Ignore the negativity and ignorance of people and be safe and have fun 😊
I love this for them
It will end in tears...no with a serious homicide
At least they polish the good silverware when there f' buddys come over😂😂😂
Ur parents don’t need to know what u do in ur bedroom anyway maybe keep this to urself in the bedroom and u won’t be judged 🤷🏼♀️
Why do people care so much? They should do whatever they want! They seem like very sweet people.
So much judgment in this world and for what? The comments are just so sad!
that poor family.. let down by their own daughter . what they are doing IS disgusting so stop normalising random stuff like this 🤢🤢
why does her family even know about her sex life? Am I the only one who thinks thats weird? There are things you could and should just keep to yourself..
Why do y’all feel the need to tell your family who you’re fu*king? That’s the weird part to me 😂😂😂
Family can be THE WORST in many situations.
What a good wife.
I would never in my life want another man besides my husband to touch me. I also would never allow my husband to sleep with anyone else. Why commit only to share!?!?!
You're amazing
Dans gay. Y’all be careful out here.
The guy in yellow 💛 shirt we need an update on him few years from now
The two consenting couples I understand and good on them for finding each other. But I can’t help but go back to the title and the fact they slept with her bridesmaid on their wedding night which just feels like a massive power imbalance and the fact there was drink involved makes me unsure of how consensual that actually was
This happens ao often im shocked that everyone is so surprised. Also the toys are obviously cleaned and bow they are just wiping them down
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Thank you for sharing I love it when people are brave enough to share their story, when its outside of the "norm". People can be so rude even though the channel is called love dont judge. I have read through some of these comments and some people are so judgemental. Good for you guys living your truth, if anyone judges they are just uncomfortable with parts of themselves that they can't accept yet. Sending love to you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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