I'm married to a Croatian and was hounded about having kids for years. It's been 10yrs and they finally gave up asking 😂 Child free not by choice but we love our life! Happy dog parents 😊 May foster in our 40s
I'm 36 and child free by choice. I'm also happily married. There are times I feel a bit bored in my life, because I dont work outside the home and I don't have kids to raise... But I still dont regret not having them, and being bored wouldn't be a good reason to have had them. I think the main thing is find fulfillment in your life, and that will look different for everyone. I started volunteering again. I may foster in the future.
35 this December and happily married and child free! I always think I may foster far into the future when I have the means, but otherwise I always think to myself like "omg imagine trying to do this activity with a kid" like, taking naps and taking 6 hours to do my nails and hair 😂 I'm grateful every day. Plus my genes do not need to get passed down, poor kid would just have one hell of life lmao
girl i relate so hard to the eastern european family thing. every time i talk to my polish dad it's all about the grandkids. with every other polish family member, it's where's the wedding? and i'm just trying to recover from a serious car accident and taking it day by day. 😂 thanks for the smiles as always, blair! love your vids. 💕
She seriously looks soo happy and excited and free. I'm loving this Blair. Idk I was lowkey having a grumpy day but her energy made my energy happy idk how to explain lol slay
I'm 35, happily married and no children by choice. I love it. I actually have time to pursue things I want to do while I work part time. I have a great marriage, and time to invest in the marriage. And having a baby scares the shit outta me, too. I knew at a young age that I didn't want to be a mother. Zero regrets. If I really want to have a kid later on, I might adopt. (These decisions are both mine and my husband's) I'm glad to see that you're figuring out what you want in life, what you want to do etc. It can be hard, but soul searching and being honest to yourself is key regardless of what society expects from you. At the end of the day, you have live your life the way you want you, not for anyone else. Love you Blair!
@@ellav9022You can also not choose to have a child in your 40s! Not everyone wants to do the same as everyone else, that's the beauty of freedom! Cheers
I am 33 with a 41 year old husband and we chose to go child free. All I know is if I did have children, I would have wanted to want them when I was younger. I used to really be conflicted about having them in my late 20s and was worried I would regret not having them. But honestly with the state of the world I feel better not having them. I remember being a child and having frequent thoughts in certain personal settings of "Wow. If I had a kid I would not do that or put them through that." When I was with certain people around me. I also love the freedom. I think I would have been a good mom but it just wasnt in the cards. We have a desire to foster older teens that need a family when we are older.
I never really wanted kids in my brain like you but in my heart somewhere deep I think I always did (even though I didn’t know it). You’re body does become a factory but it’s an amazing thing. I was scared the whole time I was pregnant my first time but it’s amazing and honestly you don’t know how special that bond is until you have one. Yes you will probably mess them up, we all mess our kids up. There is probably no way to not mess up our kids. You don’t have to have a baby now, you can always do it later but if you are scared of traumatizing your kids then you would be a great mother because you are thinking about them more than yourself.
I am 37 and child-free by choice. I don't like the direction our society is heading in and can't, in good faith, bring up anothet human into this world of suffering. No regrets at all!
I’m 24 and having my first child soon! It was unexpected but very welcomed and i’m so excited 💜 i was soo scared at first but it’s normal to be terrified of the whole thing and there is a lot to worry about, but something changes within you when you’re becoming a mother. I think mothers always wonder if they’re good enough it’s called “mom guilt” 🤣 but It’s like my entire life led me to this and I honestly was not ready at all but i wouldn’t change it for anything. Just keep doing you and you’ll end up where you’re meant to 💜 I think being a Dj and a pilot is amazing you should definitely go for it, & i’m excited for you!
I’m 43 years old and my baby next to me have 18 months old. I was not wanted kids because I thought my life was “so perfect” between 18 to 35 naps, no hours, parties, friends, luxury life style… until I give birth ❤️ he is over that all.. my most wonderful pride ever the most deeper love I never ever experimented, it’s so deep no words can’t describe how I love my son, how my life is amazing with this little guy. Hugs from France (pd: I was that girl at your age 😉)
I’m about a week from my due date and being scared of pregnancy, motherhood, all valid. The good news is you have about 9 months to get used to the idea and ideally more if it’s planned ❤ For having a fear of the responsibility, you’re making a very responsible decision by recognizing your own feelings and owning not having an interest in it. You do you 👏🙌🥰
I love listening to the way you tell your stories dude lol ill be like wait what....rewind it because i KNOW i felt that hint of suppressed sarcasm (not in a way that i get nothing but in a way that I get the obvious right away and then dive deeper for more appreciation of the obvious humor) and when i play it the second time I get it even better and do a little "what" like "thats hilarious" because girl, you are funny lol I love blair humor. you seem to be such a light and girl, I see you cause, same. Shine bright babe. You know your worth and all you have to offer. It's bigger than the negative.
I love that you got your nose done. You were beautiful both ways but I know how it is to not be satisfied with yourself and it's such a boost. You look beautiful
I feel you so much. I'm 30 now and I've been forever torn on having kids or not. I always say if I could live life twice i wouldn't have kids cause I could have them in my next life and just live this life for me. I just still have so many things I want to do and feel like I'd never have the time to do them if I had kids, I don't want to dedicate my entire life to kids that don't even know what sacrifice you made for them? Sure kids can be amazing and cute and all that but then there"s also the chance that you're unlucky and your baby has something wrong with it or grows up to be a criminal or something.That's a lot to think about. I don't want to put my happy relationship on the line for something i'm not sure I even want, so yeah, some of the reasons i'm not sure I'd want kids, and I keep being told by my mom that time is running out so I better make up my mind lmao.
Im 44 years old, no kids. So, so, grateful for that. I keep wondering if I will regret it. The more time that passes, the happier I am with my decision. All the reasons you mention are very valid. Time, money, responsibility, loosing body autonomy, freedom, financial freedom, breaking the ancestral lineage of trauma - these are all very good things to consider before having or not having children. I applaud you Blair for taking time to consider your own needs and wants. I feel like a lot of people have children to validate themselves, and then feel empty or resentful when it doesn't. You have the power to rule your life, and you are doing a damn fine job, imho. Thanks for being real. ❤ From New Mexico
Your nose is fking CUTE but do what makes YOU happy regardless of what others say. I just want to see you happy. Those that truly support you just want to see you happy! Do whatever makes you feel you are living your best life! You are beautiful and such a true gem. I adore your personality. Good vibes honey. ❤
I’m 25 and I’m from Alabama so southern culture is to marry and have babies young and my family is also Bulgarian so that’s a bonus….I am engaged and I’m trilled but everyone is so pressing for me to have a baby because I’m getting “old”…..I absolutely hate it! I want a lot of kids but when I’m ready. Society is so weird for making it normal to pressure women to have babies!!
I am a 28 year old female and a pilot! That would be so fun to see you go through the training process! Also childfree by choice. Got my tubes removed at 25 and so relieved
45 child free. I just can't get pregnant for different reasons. But I'm not frustrated or sad. It's OK. I love my hubby and my kitty. Life is beautiful. You BTW look so happy in Europe. Pls stay here. Every walnuts need a good connoisseur. We can make the most amazing pesto!!!!!!! Lyl. ❤🎉
Are you satisfied with the result you see now? ( which is not final, since rhinoplasties take up to a year to fully heal and for the swelling to completely subside ). Love u 🤍
Childfree because of hormonal blood clotting disorder, I was sad at first accepting the reality...and then it transformed into joy!!!! I love the freedom I have!!!!!!
39 and child free. Not by choice, I'm not able. I have spent a lot of time being super sad about it. Now I enjoy the freedom I have. I can do anything I want at anytime. It's awesome. Not to say that having someone to pass your treasures and stories along to wouldn't be awesome also.
Just remember that Europe isn’t Europe… There are literally whole different worlds across the different countries, Bulgaria is not the same as Turkey, Turkey is very different from Denmark, and Denmark is very different from Spain. If you guys get what I’m saying
I know nobody cares what I think but I thought your nose had great character and was harmonious with your face! It was unique and interesting and well defined not overly bulbous at all, I loved the slight bump. If everyone has the same nose, lips, etc nobody looks unique, all the faces blend together and become nondescript…you were a hot girl inspiration to my big nosed Indian self lol 😂 this race to all look exactly the same is going to get women nowhere in the end
cost of living video pls and yay glad you’re going to stream on twitch too except I already got kick for you anyway but anyway I’m glad you’re happy in Bulgaria!! I wish I could move to Europe but I was too scared to move across the country in the u.s. away from my family so yeah maybe one day lmao
DO NOT HAVE KIDS JUST BECAUSE YOU FEEL LIKE TIME IS RUNNING OUT - that’s what my mom did, that fear of missing out. I HATE my existence, 1/10 crap mom.
100% same feeling about kids and my boyfriend broke up with me this week for the reason of being scared and it felt like they were just with me to use my body at that point like why can't I be loved as a person now even with or without kids and kids aren't pets they last forever even after you die id much rather just have my cat and someone who wants me not to take everything and more from me
i live in brazil and getting a bf (coughs in aroace) used to be everything my aunties would ask about when i’d see them and since 14 i’ve been saying that i won’t have kids. sometime in the last 9 years they believed it bc i never hear of it anymore. also, my bestie has a 3 year old and she is Not the “omg having a baby is the best thing” bs mom, she actually shares about her journey and the realities of being a mom in a lower class family in brazil which i think is great.
Longtime watcher but first time commenter. Watching this video made me feel concerned for how you’re doing, sending you big hugs and hoping you have support in Bulgaria ❤️
I screamed when I heard you were in Bulgaria because I'm in Bulgaria too!! (Varna) I'm from Argentina so I don't understand anything but I love spending summers here! (OK I'll keep watching the video)
Blair….LET ME TELL YOU I WAS THE SAME WAY AS YOU. Family will always guilt trip you into that and let me tell you , all your worries are right. I had the same ones. Honey I decided to marry at 22 right after college when I was about to take off. All because of the marriage and baby thing. Currently I’m 25 and looking back and I barely had a baby and it is a beautiful experience but birth is no joke, I almost died. Idk how these women have 5+ kids. It’s a risk every single time. Plus, your life is over. Or on pause, the moment you’re pregnant. You’re an incubator for something that’s living. And I loved it but it’s no joke. If you’re not ready, DONT DO IT. Idky people never express it enough. Oh and it’s very lonely. Once the hubby/baby daddy goes to work, it’s just you and baby. No one told me that I would be sleepless. It’s not like going to school full time and work full time and going clubbing and working out all in the same day (I did that all through college) it’s more like you’re bleeding out from your vaginal tears and feelin like a truck hit you while you’re trying to feed a little fragile baby with sore, crackled nipples. And you’re business affairs are on pause. You’re also putting the baby over everything even your recovery if you have no help (my mom didn’t come over to help me I had to take care of baby and myself and the house). It’s not for the unprepared. I’m not trying to scare you but I’m helping a pretty girl out, I wish someone told me this. I would have been more prepared financially on my end (luckily hubby is good) but I want to be more of an example and I’m still working on it.
Blair it’s okay if you aren’t ready to have a kid or you never want one. You are still young enough that you can always change your mind and if you don’t it’s okay.
Take it easy with all of the lip injections and plastic surgery. You don't want to overdo it you already have enough done imo. Getting anymore won't make you look better, you will just line the pockets of parasitic cosmetic surgeons
hey Blair I've been a follower since like the old old days before you traveled. honestly I got into a relationship, and thought I wanted marriage and kids atm, but they didn't atm and it threw me off. I'm glad though bc I decided to save my eggs and go travel. I'm about to graduate university and just got a home. if your nervous about the future and wanting kids, egg freezing may be an option.
Blair live your life girl fuck what anyone says your still young and being childfree right now go out and get them side hussles ,start those goals, do you and what makes you happy and right now u look it so great for you lovely ❤ love your content always have since your undercover chuck e cheese vid 😂
I am 42 & my husband is 45. We have been together for 20+ years & are both child-free by choice! We live a super cool life & my HONEST parent friends say they live vicariously through us. We feel fulfilled 😊
I love what you do & really live your vids, they are so funny, but idk if I’d call it “trolling” bc that’s usually like cruel intentions and like attacking a certain person or group… I consider what you post a lot as just pure parody vs trolling, while also being oddly transparent about certain aspects of your life that others try so hard to hide, which is what makes your content so great and funny. You have tons to share without having to share everything & that boundary you keep is really cool. Next time you do one of these, I’d love to hear about your comedy influences & where you got your sense of dry humor from (also very European).
My ethical dilemma is that I feel like it would be irresponsible to contribute to the overpopulation of the world, when our rate of waste and consumption is at alarmingly unsustainable levels (and has been for years) while also not doing enough to combat climate change. BUT THEN I think about the movie “Idiocracy” when literally only idiots are reproducing and how important it would be to raise future generations who will be kind and compassionate and selfless. AND THEN I think about how there are so many kids who need to be adopted (in America, let alone in the rest of the world) and how I am such a shitty person for saying I’m interested in adoption when I know deep in my soul that I will never attempt to look into that. I also have ZERO financial capacity to raise any children, whether biological or foster/adopted because I am barely making ends meet while working over full time and I’m only taking care of myself. LIVE LAUGH LOVE AMIRITE
Girl, when you're 75 years old... Family is all gone , mom, dad, aunt's, uncle's, couple cousins here and there and then your siblings ... The only people you'll have are your children. That's not selfish that's continuing life for your children, having yours and your partners features, character, traits, personality. ... When you're laying on your hospital bed you'll want your children right there to help you and console you and be there for you telling you it's alright if things aren't going good etc. You can always bounce back after children, you just have to try so don't worry about your body.
Childfree by choice at 46 and no regrets. I have more money more spare time more happiness more hobbies more freedom. God Blair I love you so much you're so smart and real - your videos are so funny, I'm a new fan and a huge fan. I have had plastic surgery and I don't regret it but my surgeries were things I really wanted. I love to see a beautiful girl who knows what people think of her but makes so many funny jokes, it's great. In this video, the "Blair" who speaks before the ad (a character) is so different from the Blair who speaks after the ad. I really respect you and enjoy your content. PRETTY GIRLS SLAY YES.
Honestly the pregnancy and sacrificing your body thing is very difficult. But it is worth it. I have two boys (9&6) and no one can prepare you for the life altering change. Your life will never be the same but your heart grows to unforeseeable places. It's not for everyone though and you need to be able to be OK with closing the chapter of the current life your in.
40 and child and partner free by choice and I'm still happy with my decision 😊 How is the breathing now after the surgery? I would be scared to have less flow.
I barely comment on CZcamsrs I like content because I’m a silent viewer lmaoo, but Blair’s content and how she acts on her videos has changed so much. She is so much more robotic now and her face looks very different and it just sucks because she used be so funny and that’s such a good personality trait for a content creator. She is so LA now the way she talks and the topics she talks about. I hope she is okay and hope she is successful though.
I also haven’t watched her for a while! So maybe me seeing her content a few years ago versus seeing it now makes me really see the difference. I really hope she is happy though and hope she’s getting to where she wants to be.
38 with one kiddo and married. I honestly would have had more kids, but after a brutal miscarriage and a major finically hit, I gave up on the idea. Finically, it doesn’t make sense for me to have another baby 🙁I freaking hate being responsible.
I can honestly say I feel the exact same way about you with the kids situation. It’s weird though because I am absolutely best friends with my mom. She is my other half we do everything together and life would not even close to good without her. So I realize that that kind of sounds odd that I myself am unsure of having children, but I am definitely at that age where you start thinking about it and I’m still on the fence… it used to be a hard no and now it’s a little bit of well no but… luckily, I don’t get any pressure from my mom but I know she’ll be such a wonderful grandma that I put pressure on myself… One of my biggest things though is that I was sick through my late teens and a good majority of my 20s so I want to travel and do things for myself now that I’m doing better and I’m concerned I would obviously be giving a lot of that up 🤷🏼♀️
I envy you so much with the relationship you have with your mom. I never got along with my mom and she was verbally and emotionally very abusive to me. I’m in my 30s and I’m planning to move just to get away from her. I will maintain a long distance relationship but I have no desire to ever try a closer relationships with her again. I have tried my entire life to have a good relationship with her . I’m happy that you are in a good place with your mom
@@ccalexander1924 Well thank you, and I’m sorry you don’t have a good relationship with your mom. I will say that moving away will probably be the best decision. I’ve learned in my life that the best thing is to stay away from toxic people, even if they’re family. Mourn the loss of the relationship you had hoped for and then try to move on. Choose your family 😊 Best of luck!
You should adopt when you’re older and feel ready. Sounds like you fear the trauma that pregnancy might bring to your body and that’s totally valid ❤ lucky for you so many kids need loving homes or you could have a surrogate. Don’t feel pressured by society to think you should naturally enjoy pregnancy, lots of people don’t. Why not pay someone who wants to be pregnant, you’ll love your kid just the same
Wait until your 30’s to have kids. 20’s are for fun. 30’s things get a little more serious and people around you are having kids so going out doesn’t happen as much. having a baby for the first time is scary. Your body changes in so many ways and everything new you feel you wonder if it’s normal or not. BUT the payoff is unimaginable. You get to see the world through innocent eyes that are discovering things for the first time. I didn’t think I could have kids so I mourned being a mom years ago, but I just had a baby last year. Things do get hard at times, but it’s worth it. I have so much happiness and joy just from seeing my baby happy. Hearing little baby giggles are the best. Breast feeding is hard at first, but there are no bottles to clean, don’t have to buy formula, and I use it as an excuse to go take a nap with my baby. Moohaha
Congratulations, I’m in my late 20s and just had an ectopic after 1 year of trying. I feel pretty discouraged. It’s funny because I spent all my teenage years and early 20s terrified of pregnancy and having children. Now it’s all I want 😢
I’m child free by choice and it was the absolute best decision for ME!! But I’ve known my whole life I didn’t want to be a mom! But that’s just me… also I don’t care what people in my life or in my city think or say about me not having children! It’s my body my choice…
Blair, i think that by the time you’re 40, you will regret not having kids and then it might be too late. My advice to you is, freeze your eggs, hava a plan b… you cannot know how satisfying and good is to see yourself in your kids… it is the best feeling ever.
I'm married to a Croatian and was hounded about having kids for years. It's been 10yrs and they finally gave up asking 😂
Child free not by choice but we love our life! Happy dog parents 😊
May foster in our 40s
I'm 36 and child free by choice. I'm also happily married. There are times I feel a bit bored in my life, because I dont work outside the home and I don't have kids to raise... But I still dont regret not having them, and being bored wouldn't be a good reason to have had them. I think the main thing is find fulfillment in your life, and that will look different for everyone. I started volunteering again. I may foster in the future.
Mayority of people would be happier with childs
@@mmor7380Over generalization
I'm 39 happily married and childless too!
I feel the exact same! We said we might foster in our 40s 😊😊
@@me_again1 yea and a precise one, accurate
35 this December and happily married and child free! I always think I may foster far into the future when I have the means, but otherwise I always think to myself like "omg imagine trying to do this activity with a kid" like, taking naps and taking 6 hours to do my nails and hair 😂 I'm grateful every day. Plus my genes do not need to get passed down, poor kid would just have one hell of life lmao
you actually look so healthy and happy here, reminding me of old blair aww love you girly you deserve the world
girl i relate so hard to the eastern european family thing. every time i talk to my polish dad it's all about the grandkids. with every other polish family member, it's where's the wedding? and i'm just trying to recover from a serious car accident and taking it day by day. 😂 thanks for the smiles as always, blair! love your vids. 💕
For the Q&A: why didn’t you like your first nose?
She seriously looks soo happy and excited and free. I'm loving this Blair. Idk I was lowkey having a grumpy day but her energy made my energy happy idk how to explain lol slay
I'm 35, happily married and no children by choice. I love it. I actually have time to pursue things I want to do while I work part time. I have a great marriage, and time to invest in the marriage. And having a baby scares the shit outta me, too. I knew at a young age that I didn't want to be a mother. Zero regrets. If I really want to have a kid later on, I might adopt. (These decisions are both mine and my husband's)
I'm glad to see that you're figuring out what you want in life, what you want to do etc. It can be hard, but soul searching and being honest to yourself is key regardless of what society expects from you. At the end of the day, you have live your life the way you want you, not for anyone else. Love you Blair!
You can have a child in your 40s too if you wanted to…
@@ellav9022You can also not choose to have a child in your 40s! Not everyone wants to do the same as everyone else, that's the beauty of freedom! Cheers
I am 33 with a 41 year old husband and we chose to go child free. All I know is if I did have children, I would have wanted to want them when I was younger. I used to really be conflicted about having them in my late 20s and was worried I would regret not having them. But honestly with the state of the world I feel better not having them. I remember being a child and having frequent thoughts in certain personal settings of "Wow. If I had a kid I would not do that or put them through that." When I was with certain people around me. I also love the freedom. I think I would have been a good mom but it just wasnt in the cards. We have a desire to foster older teens that need a family when we are older.
So genuinely glad that you feel happier here Blair!
"The male I found recently" saying it like the nose job you got I'm crying 😭😂
They are like snacks
You seem genuinely way more yourself and I'm so happy to see it
I never really wanted kids in my brain like you but in my heart somewhere deep I think I always did (even though I didn’t know it). You’re body does become a factory but it’s an amazing thing. I was scared the whole time I was pregnant my first time but it’s amazing and honestly you don’t know how special that bond is until you have one. Yes you will probably mess them up, we all mess our kids up. There is probably no way to not mess up our kids. You don’t have to have a baby now, you can always do it later but if you are scared of traumatizing your kids then you would be a great mother because you are thinking about them more than yourself.
Q&A: how did you decide on your final nose? Was there suggestions from the surgeon or facial analyzation, did you have reference photos?
I am 37 and child-free by choice. I don't like the direction our society is heading in and can't, in good faith, bring up anothet human into this world of suffering. No regrets at all!
I'm 29 and feel the same!
My exact thoughts as well.
Exactly 💯
Same but I'm 28
You can still have a child in your 40s if you decided too
I’m 24 and having my first child soon! It was unexpected but very welcomed and i’m so excited 💜 i was soo scared at first but it’s normal to be terrified of the whole thing and there is a lot to worry about, but something changes within you when you’re becoming a mother. I think mothers always wonder if they’re good enough it’s called “mom guilt” 🤣 but It’s like my entire life led me to this and I honestly was not ready at all but i wouldn’t change it for anything. Just keep doing you and you’ll end up where you’re meant to 💜 I think being a Dj and a pilot is amazing you should definitely go for it, & i’m excited for you!
Congratulations
I’m 43 years old and my baby next to me have 18 months old. I was not wanted kids because I thought my life was “so perfect” between 18 to 35 naps, no hours, parties, friends, luxury life style… until I give birth ❤️ he is over that all.. my most wonderful pride ever the most deeper love I never ever experimented, it’s so deep no words can’t describe how I love my son, how my life is amazing with this little guy. Hugs from France (pd: I was that girl at your age 😉)
Blair your nose looks so good! I hope you are happy with your results ❤ Now I need to get mine 😂
I’m about a week from my due date and being scared of pregnancy, motherhood, all valid. The good news is you have about 9 months to get used to the idea and ideally more if it’s planned ❤ For having a fear of the responsibility, you’re making a very responsible decision by recognizing your own feelings and owning not having an interest in it. You do you 👏🙌🥰
I love listening to the way you tell your stories dude lol ill be like wait what....rewind it because i KNOW i felt that hint of suppressed sarcasm (not in a way that i get nothing but in a way that I get the obvious right away and then dive deeper for more appreciation of the obvious humor) and when i play it the second time I get it even better and do a little "what" like "thats hilarious" because girl, you are funny lol I love blair humor. you seem to be such a light and girl, I see you cause, same. Shine bright babe. You know your worth and all you have to offer. It's bigger than the negative.
love you queen and thank you for the life update
I love that you got your nose done. You were beautiful both ways but I know how it is to not be satisfied with yourself and it's such a boost. You look beautiful
I feel you so much. I'm 30 now and I've been forever torn on having kids or not. I always say if I could live life twice i wouldn't have kids cause I could have them in my next life and just live this life for me. I just still have so many things I want to do and feel like I'd never have the time to do them if I had kids, I don't want to dedicate my entire life to kids that don't even know what sacrifice you made for them? Sure kids can be amazing and cute and all that but then there"s also the chance that you're unlucky and your baby has something wrong with it or grows up to be a criminal or something.That's a lot to think about. I don't want to put my happy relationship on the line for something i'm not sure I even want, so yeah, some of the reasons i'm not sure I'd want kids, and I keep being told by my mom that time is running out so I better make up my mind lmao.
I love your trolling shorts 😂 they give me life, especially seeing the comments from people who think youre bring serious 😂😂
Im 44 years old, no kids. So, so, grateful for that. I keep wondering if I will regret it. The more time that passes, the happier I am with my decision. All the reasons you mention are very valid. Time, money, responsibility, loosing body autonomy, freedom, financial freedom, breaking the ancestral lineage of trauma - these are all very good things to consider before having or not having children. I applaud you Blair for taking time to consider your own needs and wants. I feel like a lot of people have children to validate themselves, and then feel empty or resentful when it doesn't. You have the power to rule your life, and you are doing a damn fine job, imho. Thanks for being real. ❤ From New Mexico
I also agree with your perspective on having children. Your whole life changes and it's mostly the woman.
Omg yes!! You have the best taste in music ❤❤❤ good luck on it! I used to love the sounds you used in old videos
Your nose is fking CUTE but do what makes YOU happy regardless of what others say. I just want to see you happy. Those that truly support you just want to see you happy! Do whatever makes you feel you are living your best life! You are beautiful and such a true gem. I adore your personality. Good vibes honey. ❤
I’m 25 and I’m from Alabama so southern culture is to marry and have babies young and my family is also Bulgarian so that’s a bonus….I am engaged and I’m trilled but everyone is so pressing for me to have a baby because I’m getting “old”…..I absolutely hate it! I want a lot of kids but when I’m ready. Society is so weird for making it normal to pressure women to have babies!!
Ew…our life expectancy is 90 now. 25 was old 300 years ago when you croaked at 45.
I have a feeling they are kidding when they say you are getting old
I am a 28 year old female and a pilot! That would be so fun to see you go through the training process! Also childfree by choice. Got my tubes removed at 25 and so relieved
I literally want to be you when I'm older the job and no children yes please
Fair play, it's cool to see how different women want to live there lifes. I wouldn't not ever want my liitle girl but I respect your opinion. Xx
A friend of mine got her tubes removed and she’s a mother to a son. 🤯 shocking and brutal but not impossible
45 child free. I just can't get pregnant for different reasons. But I'm not frustrated or sad.
It's OK. I love my hubby and my kitty. Life is beautiful.
You BTW look so happy in Europe. Pls stay here. Every walnuts need a good connoisseur. We can make the most amazing pesto!!!!!!! Lyl. ❤🎉
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Im pregnant right now, I was scared like you, but now that is here it feels natural and I love the baby already even thou we did met yet.
NOSE JOB VLOG IS THE NEXT VIDEO
Your nose looks so good! I want mine done too please share your doctors info
how much was it
What did your first days of recovery look like?
Are you satisfied with the result you see now?
( which is not final, since rhinoplasties take up to a year to fully heal and for the swelling to completely subside ).
Love u 🤍
Has your breathing been affected?
Still missing the old cooking amd decorating videos, hope you can get back to them once you are properly settled in your home.
Childfree because of hormonal blood clotting disorder, I was sad at first accepting the reality...and then it transformed into joy!!!! I love the freedom I have!!!!!!
39 and child free. Not by choice, I'm not able. I have spent a lot of time being super sad about it. Now I enjoy the freedom I have. I can do anything I want at anytime. It's awesome. Not to say that having someone to pass your treasures and stories along to wouldn't be awesome also.
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Great attitude
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Settings boundaries is healthy 💜🌹
Just remember that Europe isn’t Europe… There are literally whole different worlds across the different countries, Bulgaria is not the same as Turkey, Turkey is very different from Denmark, and Denmark is very different from Spain. If you guys get what I’m saying
I know nobody cares what I think but I thought your nose had great character and was harmonious with your face! It was unique and interesting and well defined not overly bulbous at all, I loved the slight bump. If everyone has the same nose, lips, etc nobody looks unique, all the faces blend together and become nondescript…you were a hot girl inspiration to my big nosed Indian self lol 😂 this race to all look exactly the same is going to get women nowhere in the end
cost of living video pls and yay glad you’re going to stream on twitch too except I already got kick for you anyway but anyway I’m glad you’re happy in Bulgaria!! I wish I could move to Europe but I was too scared to move across the country in the u.s. away from my family so yeah maybe one day lmao
I'm 35 and child free by choice. My hubby and I are so happy and thankful we made that choice.
DO NOT HAVE KIDS JUST BECAUSE YOU FEEL LIKE TIME IS RUNNING OUT - that’s what my mom did, that fear of missing out. I HATE my existence, 1/10 crap mom.
Aah babe. Make the best out of your life. Live life and don't let life live you.
100% same feeling about kids and my boyfriend broke up with me this week for the reason of being scared and it felt like they were just with me to use my body at that point like why can't I be loved as a person now even with or without kids and kids aren't pets they last forever even after you die id much rather just have my cat and someone who wants me not to take everything and more from me
i live in brazil and getting a bf (coughs in aroace) used to be everything my aunties would ask about when i’d see them and since 14 i’ve been saying that i won’t have kids. sometime in the last 9 years they believed it bc i never hear of it anymore. also, my bestie has a 3 year old and she is Not the “omg having a baby is the best thing” bs mom, she actually shares about her journey and the realities of being a mom in a lower class family in brazil which i think is great.
Longtime watcher but first time commenter. Watching this video made me feel concerned for how you’re doing, sending you big hugs and hoping you have support in Bulgaria ❤️
I want to be hairless so bad but I refuse to go get a Brazilian wax. Does it work well for bikini line area and in the mons? (front)
The nose looks great!!
for now😂
@@BentleyBanditsew that's so gross to say
I screamed when I heard you were in Bulgaria because I'm in Bulgaria too!! (Varna) I'm from Argentina so I don't understand anything but I love spending summers here! (OK I'll keep watching the video)
Love you Blair.🌸🌸
Hey blair!! Missed you
Glad your nose came out really cute idk if I would travel accross the world to do that I’d probably go near me I live in FL though , is Miami good?
THE FACT THAT YOU BURPED @ THAT MOMENT 💀
Blair….LET ME TELL YOU
I WAS THE SAME WAY AS YOU. Family will always guilt trip you into that and let me tell you , all your worries are right. I had the same ones.
Honey I decided to marry at 22 right after college when I was about to take off. All because of the marriage and baby thing. Currently I’m 25 and looking back and I barely had a baby and it is a beautiful experience but birth is no joke, I almost died. Idk how these women have 5+ kids. It’s a risk every single time. Plus, your life is over. Or on pause, the moment you’re pregnant. You’re an incubator for something that’s living. And I loved it but it’s no joke. If you’re not ready, DONT DO IT. Idky people never express it enough. Oh and it’s very lonely. Once the hubby/baby daddy goes to work, it’s just you and baby.
No one told me that I would be sleepless. It’s not like going to school full time and work full time and going clubbing and working out all in the same day (I did that all through college) it’s more like you’re bleeding out from your vaginal tears and feelin like a truck hit you while you’re trying to feed a little fragile baby with sore, crackled nipples.
And you’re business affairs are on pause. You’re also putting the baby over everything even your recovery if you have no help (my mom didn’t come over to help me I had to take care of baby and myself and the house).
It’s not for the unprepared. I’m not trying to scare you but I’m helping a pretty girl out, I wish someone told me this. I would have been more prepared financially on my end (luckily hubby is good) but I want to be more of an example and I’m still working on it.
Honestly I feel the same about having kids, it's terrifying for so many reason!
Blair oh my god…. You as a DJ please I’m begging you I’d 100000% come see you love you xoxo
I think it’s smart that you’re putting up boundaries
Blair it’s okay if you aren’t ready to have a kid or you never want one. You are still young enough that you can always change your mind and if you don’t it’s okay.
Take it easy with all of the lip injections and plastic surgery. You don't want to overdo it you already have enough done imo. Getting anymore won't make you look better, you will just line the pockets of parasitic cosmetic surgeons
hey Blair I've been a follower since like the old old days before you traveled. honestly I got into a relationship, and thought I wanted marriage and kids atm, but they didn't atm and it threw me off. I'm glad though bc I decided to save my eggs and go travel. I'm about to graduate university and just got a home. if your nervous about the future and wanting kids, egg freezing may be an option.
How much did it cost, what company did you go with and do you recommend them? I’d love to hear :)
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Blair live your life girl fuck what anyone says your still young and being childfree right now go out and get them side hussles ,start those goals, do you and what makes you happy and right now u look it so great for you lovely ❤ love your content always have since your undercover chuck e cheese vid 😂
How had your recovery been? Swelling etc
Hi Blair your beautiful as always 😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️
I am 42 & my husband is 45. We have been together for 20+ years & are both child-free by choice! We live a super cool life & my HONEST parent friends say they live vicariously through us. We feel fulfilled 😊
I'm also 42! My partner doesn't want kids either and we have a pretty good life and do what we want!
I love what you do & really live your vids, they are so funny, but idk if I’d call it “trolling” bc that’s usually like cruel intentions and like attacking a certain person or group… I consider what you post a lot as just pure parody vs trolling, while also being oddly transparent about certain aspects of your life that others try so hard to hide, which is what makes your content so great and funny. You have tons to share without having to share everything & that boundary you keep is really cool. Next time you do one of these, I’d love to hear about your comedy influences & where you got your sense of dry humor from (also very European).
What made you want a nose job and when you was thinking about a nose job, did you have a idea what kind of nose you want it like a celebrity.
Where do you buy your hair oil from
Write a book b 💯
Where did you go and who was your doctor? Please tell me, thank you
Hey girl you’re my neighbor country! My family is all from Greece 💕
As someone who is from Utah, i agree that its an interesting place..🤣
Wait what doctor did you go to for your nose? I wanna go so bad!
My ethical dilemma is that I feel like it would be irresponsible to contribute to the overpopulation of the world, when our rate of waste and consumption is at alarmingly unsustainable levels (and has been for years) while also not doing enough to combat climate change.
BUT THEN I think about the movie “Idiocracy” when literally only idiots are reproducing and how important it would be to raise future generations who will be kind and compassionate and selfless.
AND THEN I think about how there are so many kids who need to be adopted (in America, let alone in the rest of the world) and how I am such a shitty person for saying I’m interested in adoption when I know deep in my soul that I will never attempt to look into that.
I also have ZERO financial capacity to raise any children, whether biological or foster/adopted because I am barely making ends meet while working over full time and I’m only taking care of myself.
LIVE LAUGH LOVE AMIRITE
Girl, when you're 75 years old... Family is all gone , mom, dad, aunt's, uncle's, couple cousins here and there and then your siblings ... The only people you'll have are your children. That's not selfish that's continuing life for your children, having yours and your partners features, character, traits, personality. ... When you're laying on your hospital bed you'll want your children right there to help you and console you and be there for you telling you it's alright if things aren't going good etc. You can always bounce back after children, you just have to try so don't worry about your body.
There's nothing like family
Childfree by choice at 46 and no regrets. I have more money more spare time more happiness more hobbies more freedom. God Blair I love you so much you're so smart and real - your videos are so funny, I'm a new fan and a huge fan. I have had plastic surgery and I don't regret it but my surgeries were things I really wanted.
I love to see a beautiful girl who knows what people think of her but makes so many funny jokes, it's great. In this video, the "Blair" who speaks before the ad (a character) is so different from the Blair who speaks after the ad. I really respect you and enjoy your content. PRETTY GIRLS SLAY YES.
Your nose looks amazing
Honestly the pregnancy and sacrificing your body thing is very difficult. But it is worth it. I have two boys (9&6) and no one can prepare you for the life altering change. Your life will never be the same but your heart grows to unforeseeable places. It's not for everyone though and you need to be able to be OK with closing the chapter of the current life your in.
I’m 38 and child free by choice. I like being able to have many different goals and having a child would interfere with my goals. ❤
When does she mention her nose job? Is this before or after???
40 and child and partner free by choice and I'm still happy with my decision 😊
How is the breathing now after the surgery? I would be scared to have less flow.
I barely comment on CZcamsrs I like content because I’m a silent viewer lmaoo, but Blair’s content and how she acts on her videos has changed so much. She is so much more robotic now and her face looks very different and it just sucks because she used be so funny and that’s such a good personality trait for a content creator. She is so LA now the way she talks and the topics she talks about. I hope she is okay and hope she is successful though.
I also haven’t watched her for a while! So maybe me seeing her content a few years ago versus seeing it now makes me really see the difference. I really hope she is happy though and hope she’s getting to where she wants to be.
I’m so sad people send you hate :( you seem like you have such an Eastern European personality ❤ warm funny and real
38 with one kiddo and married. I honestly would have had more kids, but after a brutal miscarriage and a major finically hit, I gave up on the idea. Finically, it doesn’t make sense for me to have another baby 🙁I freaking hate being responsible.
I can honestly say I feel the exact same way about you with the kids situation. It’s weird though because I am absolutely best friends with my mom. She is my other half we do everything together and life would not even close to good without her. So I realize that that kind of sounds odd that I myself am unsure of having children, but I am definitely at that age where you start thinking about it and I’m still on the fence… it used to be a hard no and now it’s a little bit of well no but… luckily, I don’t get any pressure from my mom but I know she’ll be such a wonderful grandma that I put pressure on myself…
One of my biggest things though is that I was sick through my late teens and a good majority of my 20s so I want to travel and do things for myself now that I’m doing better and I’m concerned I would obviously be giving a lot of that up 🤷🏼♀️
I envy you so much with the relationship you have with your mom. I never got along with my mom and she was verbally and emotionally very abusive to me. I’m in my 30s and I’m planning to move just to get away from her. I will maintain a long distance relationship but I have no desire to ever try a closer relationships with her again. I have tried my entire life to have a good relationship with her . I’m happy that you are in a good place with your mom
@@ccalexander1924 Well thank you, and I’m sorry you don’t have a good relationship with your mom. I will say that moving away will probably be the best decision. I’ve learned in my life that the best thing is to stay away from toxic people, even if they’re family. Mourn the loss of the relationship you had hoped for and then try to move on. Choose your family 😊 Best of luck!
You should adopt when you’re older and feel ready. Sounds like you fear the trauma that pregnancy might bring to your body and that’s totally valid ❤ lucky for you so many kids need loving homes or you could have a surrogate. Don’t feel pressured by society to think you should naturally enjoy pregnancy, lots of people don’t. Why not pay someone who wants to be pregnant, you’ll love your kid just the same
Blair I’m not half the bimbo you are but I’m also trying to learn how to DJ and also quitting vaping.
What doctor??? Yea I was just thinking of moving out of the USA lol
i clicked the like button the moment i heard the burp
How was your surgeon??
I love you Blair
The highlight on your nose is effecting the camera angles - it looks like Rudolph a round white cherry. But it’s clearly the highlight , right?
who was your rhinoplasty surgeon please tell me i want to go get a revision
Just be an aunt! Raise your friends kids from afar but never have your own unless you feel comfortable enough to, that's my plan at least
Child free by choice. Pregnancy is scary and so freaking strange. A person is growing in you! A person!!! It’s creepy and scary!
I think if you find the right partner and if you feel financially stable, having a child seems like growing family and it can be fulfilling :)
Hello gorgeous, ❤️💝☺️ , us subs miss you!
Wait until your 30’s to have kids. 20’s are for fun. 30’s things get a little more serious and people around you are having kids so going out doesn’t happen as much. having a baby for the first time is scary. Your body changes in so many ways and everything new you feel you wonder if it’s normal or not. BUT the payoff is unimaginable. You get to see the world through innocent eyes that are discovering things for the first time. I didn’t think I could have kids so I mourned being a mom years ago, but I just had a baby last year. Things do get hard at times, but it’s worth it. I have so much happiness and joy just from seeing my baby happy. Hearing little baby giggles are the best. Breast feeding is hard at first, but there are no bottles to clean, don’t have to buy formula, and I use it as an excuse to go take a nap with my baby. Moohaha
Congratulations, I’m in my late 20s and just had an ectopic after 1 year of trying. I feel pretty discouraged. It’s funny because I spent all my teenage years and early 20s terrified of pregnancy and having children. Now it’s all I want 😢
I’m child free by choice and it was the absolute best decision for ME!! But I’ve known my whole life I didn’t want to be a mom! But that’s just me… also I don’t care what people in my life or in my city think or say about me not having children! It’s my body my choice…
How did the pain compare to when you'd have your boobs done in the past? I had my boobs done, and I'm saving for my nose. ❤
Who was your surgeon ?
Blair, i think that by the time you’re 40, you will regret not having kids and then it might be too late. My advice to you is, freeze your eggs, hava a plan b… you cannot know how satisfying and good is to see yourself in your kids… it is the best feeling ever.
Българияя❤️ моля те прави видеа и на български🤍💚❤️